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I am a very positive, spiritual person and I support everyone for what they want to do and I try my best not to judge anyone based on ANYthing. I charge $XXX/hr inclusive and that by no means indicates how I value myself. I am NOT a stupid woman nor am I blind to the market where I am. I am also open to my limitations with hours, looks, wardrobe etc. No one knows my situation nor do they know me or what I deal with on a daily basis. I am a quality provider who cares, who has amazing skills and I try to connect with my clients. I shun many of the industry "norms" because I don't agree with them. I give pleasure because I love it and I want to do it. To have someone comment there are no quality providers at my price point or that I am not attractive because of my price point or that I am not a serious provider or in it for the long haul, to that I say piss on you...I am amazing. I may not be for everyone but for those who see what I am and what I give.. I am NOT my price point. I get very tired of these threads. The bottom line is do what you want. Do what makes you happy. Do what makes you feel good about you and fuck everyone else. If someone does it different say "you go girl". There are enough people against us in this industry without driving it home amongst ourselves. Enough already. Everyone has a place no matter rates, menu, looks, age, sex, or any other factor involved. We are all in this together and we are all important. One year in the making...I hope I said it in a positive manner.

I think it's up to everyone to set their own rates. It's a personal decision, and one based on a lot of factors that we might not necessarily know about. "Do 'they' even know the cost of living in Canada?" I'm assuming you're talking about recent immigrants of migrant laborers? I'm sure they do know the cost of living here, but need to make a certain amount of money to make ends meet. I have no idea, we aren't walking in their shoes after all... Ultimately we can't judge. We don't know anything about their lives or what determined their rates, etc. I don't think it has anything to do with self-respect or fairplay either... it's just people trying to make a living in ways they see fit. These things have a tendency of working themselves out. I'm really sorry it's making life difficult for you, Eve. I think that the really good clients, clients who are respectful and kind, will continue to see the ladies they want, regardless of the cost. I don't think it will drive your prices down at all. People are always transitioning in and out of the industry... Those that stick around (like you) and have good reputations (like you) will be successful in the long run. We need to hold our judgment and be in solidarity with one another. It's a tough industry! Just my two cents, Nat xox

I'm with Nat on this one.... the rate a lady chooses is up to her, and her only. There is no set local price. We don't know the reasons behind why someone decides on a rate to charge, and we have no right to pass judgement on them for what they decide. Charging a lower rate doesn't mean the person has no self-respect. It could mean they are comfortable providing their services at that rate. Or it could mean they need the money. Or it could mean many things. Similar things have been said about providers who choose to offer 15-minute specials, and I firmly believe none of us has the right to look down our noses at the girls who choose to do so, and I belive the same about the rate issue. What other girls charge has no effect on my business. My clients come to see ME, and I believe most of them would no matter what I charged. I am not concerned about 'losing' clients to lower-priced providers. Clients don't 'belong' to us anyway.

Emily Rushton - Unforgettable. Bright, intelligent, witty, wonderful sense of humor, amazing smile, a contagious laugh and she just simply loves life !! That being said..... Em is an extremely beautiful, sexy woman, has an amazing body with curves to die for, is very sensual and fun and naughty :) Soooo when you combine her amazing personality and raw natural beauty she is one of the most desirable women I have ever met. I have known Emily for quite some time now and spent allotta quality time with her. Our paths had crossed this past year a couple times but we had not however spent one on one time together for probably a year or so. I realized quite some time ago my desire to see her and that I really had to see her soon !!! The stars aligned surprisingly this week :) I was greeted at the door with a great big beautiful smile, a hug, kiss and truly felt like it was just the other day I had seen Emily. That relaxed and comfortable. We visited, laughed a lot, sipped on a weee glass of wine and the time just flew by !!! Then the transition .... This beautiful vibrant lady that I can snuggle up with and chat and laugh with all day .....leans over, we kiss again, her amazing green eyes entrance me !!! Uncontrollable shivers of desire run through my body. "Nipples and Nobs arise" ;) Wow !! Can life be any better ? Off to the shower I go, not running but rushing tho ?? YES ! When I come out here is Emily rocking the world of lingerie once again laying on the bed ..... so gorgeous, so seductive.....Yay ! Perfection. I love PLAYTIME with Em ! It's Hot and just flows sooooo naturally. Right up until the.... OMFG I never want this to end ....but Oh baby...it must end !! Ha ;) Never rushed and time to enjoy the afterglow is always in order with dear Emily ! I leave her place feeling like I made the best choice EVAR by going to see her. That is cool !!! THANK YOU for another amazing visit. They just keep getting better and better !!! and longer ! hehe I shall continue on with that master plan ! Gents....Those that have met Em know she's a Gem ! Those that haven't met her though.........you MUST because she is wonderful, sexy as the dickens, as "real" as they come, relaxed, you always feel very very comfortable in her presence, and sooooo much fun !! FUN ! Be respectable, genuine and personable and you will have remarkable time. Website: www.emilyrushton.com Profile: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=22822 Come back soooooon sexy pants !!

As was said, clients chose a provider on what they are seeking. Looks, rates, connection, services etc. THIS is the bottom line. Every provider should do what they feel comfortable with and what works for them. I think what gets me the most are all the assumptions/judgements flying around. Lower price means undercutting which means a thought out decision to hurt someone elses business or gain more. Sometimes a lower price is just that, a lower price. There should be no assigning of guilt to it. Yes, there are ruthless people in this and every industry who make conscious decisions to screw other people but if we went through life thinking that of everyone, what a sorry state of affairs that would be. Lower rate does not mean lower quality, lack of companionship or giving. Rate does not determine the chemistry you can have with someone. Lower rate does NOT mean busier just as higher rate does not mean slower. Another assumption not mentioned here but I have thought about. Being an SP doesn't automatically mean you're rolling in money either. That you have a huge extensive wardrobe, tonnes of toys, a hotel room on call or a hundred other things. Everyone's situation is different and until you walk a mile in someone elses shoes, you cannot understand their situation. In response to those who say lady x is charging this so why don't you. This comment says more about you as a potential client than the lady charging the lower rate. To the providers that get upset at the lady charging the rate, why? It's the guy showing disrespect not the lady trying to make a living. Honestly, a lot of this doesn't matter because people are going to keep on doing what they're going to do, think what they want to think. I'm just a voice giving another perspective. Find someone who makes you feel good in whatever way you want to feel good.

FunValerie hit the nail on the head here with this quote. We are selling exactly that. A gentleman will look for who he is attracted to, chemistry clicks, services he wants, and makes his decision from there. those that 'undercut`tend to do it for quantity rather than quality sometimes, which is a shame. Albeit, there are circumstances that we don`t know about in why some do this. I have advertised `special rate`for a certain day, and had someone contact me three weeks later asking for the service for THAT particular rate, just because someone else is offering it. I may have placed 5 or 6 ads since that particular rate, and the gentleman has said, `well then, let me know when your going to offer it again at that price`. First of all, its not up to me to let you know when I am offering special rates, its up to you to look for what you are seeking. Hence the reason for advertising. It`s potential clients like this that make the undercut girls have a lot of business sometimes. Those gentleman are only looking at getting their rocks off at the lowest price. Not someone that I want to see. I would rather have a gentleman that wants to see me for me, and the services that I offer. A few have stated the same thing here in this thread, that rates are not a local thing, it is up to the particular SP what he or she is going to rate specific services at, and why. Base your rates on your services, how you feel you present yourself and if you have something that you offer that no one else does, or few do offer. Services are going to be different all over the place, so are rates, gentlemen are looking for what is attractive to them, so I wouldn`t worry about the 'ùndercutters`, when someone says to me, `'oh, so and so does this for $xx', I just tell that person to go to them then, as I am not reducing my rate just because someone else does. Most of us have non-negotiable rates, so why bother even asking for a reduction, I consider it rude for anyone to ask for a reduced rate. Have your rates as to what you feel your services and you are worth.

I'm not sure why some determined the op was speaking about migrant workers or making judgements, she was just stating the obvious. Some that charge less do, do so to try and take clients, some do it out of necessity, some do it because they know no better and some do it for many other reasons and to those they are entitled. Pricing is personal but, it also can be a tactic.The reasons why some charge more are also many and varied. But, I'm not sure why some of the gents feel they shouldn't have an opinion to offer or why they feel they shouldn't speak on the subject, after all it really is the gents that determine our prices. Yes we set them, for whatever our reasons and choices, but without the gents paying them where would we be? So whether we chose to set them high or low or in between if there are no clients then what difference does it make what we charge. Invariably, what anyone of us does can set a standard if not, then where did all the acronyms( gfe, pse, etc) and what's involved in them come from and start? Some one or a few decided that a girl friend experience involved bbbj, kissing, passion, a non committal date, it caught on and the rest followed and set their pricing based on that type of intimacy. Someone set a standard. Changes start with one and sometimes take time but when enough start then the rest have no choice but to follow. That's business and although many have said companionship is invaluable we all still put a price on it and pay for it. So again, I feel the op had a valid point and shouldn't be criticized for bringing it up or questioning why some are doing it( undercutting).

June 5th would be awesome, but that's just my self-interest talking (hehe)...as I'm planning on being in Ottawa during that week. Really looking forward to attending another social!...the thought of bare legs, a breezy dress and open toed heels makes me happy...can't wait for summer :-D

Ug, these threads make me very uncomfortable, especially the way they tend to evolve. It seems like most of the time everyone agrees that each lady should get to run her business the way they see fit. But it seems like invariably these sort of conversations turn into judgements on others (even if simply by implication) and hurt feelings. Better not to make assumptions, especially in this industry, and especially about people. Do what works for you and what makes you feel good.

Nathalie has hit it right on the head. Those that have lower rates are not doing it for the purpose of undercutting at all, they are trying to make a living at it. You will always see rates, from a lower level to an upper level, and that has been part of this industry for a many years, from past to present, you can see that today from ad's here,EC,P411,BP or wherever the men seek services.

http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/picture.php?albumid=7894&pictureid=51885 It's been so long but it's worth the wait. Have you been been wondering what I've been up to? Where have I gone? April showers bring May flowers... Come see what my little vixen Scarlette and I have been working on! Stay tuned for new pics PM for info. A name change may be in store too...so many new tricks to show you. Are you one of the smart ones that will allow themselves to indulge??? Stay tuned for new pics of Scarlette and Karmen ( Mandy66) xoxoxox

I am a hobbiest. I firmly believe that in most cases, you get what you pay for. Quality comes with a price. This is not always the case, there are "good deals" in all walks of consumerism. That being said, the question here seems to be "should I be looking out for myself and set whatever price will attract clients or should I be conscious of the greater good of the collective group of SP's and be consistent with local pricing?" This is a difficult decision and is likely based on many factors which, we as a whole without knowing all the facts can judge. I would certainly have doubts about a provider offering ridiculously low prices as compared to the regional norm. I understand that we are talking about people's livelihood's here, so I can see why some of the comments have been heated. My advice is the cream will always rise to the top and those that provide consistently good service will be reviewed positively and recommended to others and that ultimately will benefit their business and their bottom line.

I seem to recall the MOD making the point that we are not allowed to discuss other ladies rates on this board. I know I got into trouble for doing so. All I can talk about is myself which is to echo what some other ladies have said. We are all unique and as long as we are comfortable charging what we do, it's really no one else's business. And for the guys who book solely on price point, they usually prove in the end to not being the most desirable clients. If someone is going to haggle with me over $20 or more, then I suggest they move on to the ladies who offer those rates.

Good Morning Beautiful In Canada, you must have completed a 2200 Massage Therapy program education with electives (3000 in BC). You will have to know all the body muscles, their actions. location, organ functions, struture and pathologies. You will also cover the body organ systems including know what and where veins, artiries, lymp node passage, etc. Massage training is mostly how to treat & prevent injuries/maintain functions of movement, work with clients of know pathologies & dysfunctions. You will learn what direction and beginning/end of muscle and those underneath. It is an intense university level traiing. Very little on reference for spa time massage. Just for clarification.. Massage = Health care professional, trained and registered MT Masseuse = sex industry The first goal of massage therapy and what is basically taught in the program is to do no harm. With education, from cellular to pathologies and death, every inch of the body is included. It is quite easy to injure someone if you are not familair with the anatomy, functions, could quite possibly hurt someone. Biology, chemistry and pathologies, pathologies, pathologies. Most spa's now require massage training in order to work. I am trained, certified massage theripist but not registered. Under no circumstances would I dis-regard or disrespect the work involved in the program as health care professionals. The massage therapy association has work so hard to rise above society's view of massage therapy (sex in a back room). Finally having it listed under the health care system. My opinion of a RMT offering anything sexual in nature, doesn't care nor respect the hard work that RMTs put in to ensure better health for society. If you love biological science, how the body works then I would recommend you call a school, talk to the students, there are lots of educational videos on massage therapy Hope this helps xoxo Lilly

Define low rates????? You can't without stepping on toes here, as every lady has their own way of producing their rate. See, when we state lower/higher rates then what exactly is a lower/ higher rate? I've seen some terrific ladies at 200 an hour or a little more than 200 I have seen those that are 300 or more, and in fact 400 or more an hour and have spent over 1k with lady in the USA for a 3 hour session. Regardless of the rate, that it may be, there is always a "connection"depending how one individual looks at it and that can happen at 100 an hour, I don't know I have never seen a lady in my time for an 100 an hour,unless my mind is failing me from 10-15 years ago. Companionship is defined as a "feeling of fellowship or friendship" that can be found within ladies regardless of rates. I think giving your own perspective clouds the original OP thread start. A Courtesan is a SP with wealthy or upper class clients, I've seen many Courtesan's however I do not think I'm wealthy, perhaps upper class, but why the difference between a SP/Courtesan/ VIP lady? The fact remains, if the gentleman has the coin, passes the screening methods, is it not really all the same?? The thread was about undercutting, prices will always be from one pendulum to another, it is always "companionship" sharing skin on skin contact,sharing small talk, and simply being friends for that 100 an hour time, or 200 or 300 plus an hour...it's all just the same RG,and yes there is "something" and "somebody" a lady ....a human being trying to get by. I'm just looking at this from all sides.

Enjoy gentlemen! ;) Let me know if you think I am what you are looking for....

Summer, even though we have not met, I can certainly understand why you had lower pricing to start your SP career. To me, a lady is not "undercutting" others when she first starts out with lower prices, but she is simply gauging her (or his) level of companionship. After a while, with recommendations and experience, adjusting her pricing to what she feels is appropriate; in effect, EARNING her justification. New providers will always draw attention from established ones, that's just the nature of the business.

As i retired "older gent" hobbiest on a ever declining fixed income let me say that price does matter. Not that I'm a Walmart shopper,but after surveying a ladies web page, and I admit to being a visual person, and find an SP (there are many) that appeal to me I turn to the Donations section. If a the time my "piggy bank" can stand the intrusion I pursue the inclination. However if it cant stand the run on the bank I put my urges on hold for a time, and even may double up on my contributions to the "discretionary" expenditure so that I can eventually spend quality time with a desired companion. Should someone appeal to me with a low price it in no way diminishes my desire to to contact them,as I will be ready to TOFTT This said i find myself drawn to the SPs that are in the "normal" to "low end high" range for CERB members, who have always provided a most relaxing and enjoyable encounter and am not sure that the additional wait time (for the bank to fill) to obtain a high end priced companion would provide an experience any more satisfying than my "budget allows. This said i'm not cheap but am a frugal spender.

June please!! I'll be away on May 29th and I would really hate to miss a social. And besides, Megan promises more sexy legs in June so how can you argue against that!

I'm game in June, nothing like beautiful ladies in short skirts or summer dresses,love summer time..oh and Anna the bare legs and open toed heels excites me too ;)

LOL.... Would that help! Always better to see at the same time!

Penelope, you are beautiful and give of yourself. A certificate means nothing because if you look at what it says, it is limited. Learning, growing and providing a genuine service is what's important. If you approach things with pleasure and enjoyment in mind and begin to hone your techniques, the paper won't matter. I say go for it and with the same enthusiasm you do everything. It can only add to what you have already established.

I'd replace milk with low carb protein powder. The fat in milk is insignificant, it's the carbs you want to avoid. Making your own oil/vinegar dressing is the way to go. Packaged stuff has too much junk in it. Additional Comments: Absolutely. Any bodybuilder will tell you, a six pack is made in the kitchen, not in the gym. Go to bodybuilding dot com and there is as much discussion about diet as there is about deadlifts or bench presses. No joke, I used to be able to eat anything. Then my metabolism changed and I started gaining and gaining. Only really careful eating keeps my gut under control. Also as you age you will lose muscle mass, so you should do some kind of resistance training later on in life.

It's not an issue of supply and demand, that is a mistake that far too many people make in this business. Supply and demand would apply if we were selling widgets but we are not, we are far more comparable to knowledge workers, this business is all about the individual provider, their particular skill set, 'value added services' and of course relationship selling. Almost every lady has a different business and profit model, see three different ladies and you'll discover three different areas they focus their attention as well as different plans for success. Clients select ladies based on their individual needs and interests, cost is actually a very small factor compared to value. Yes there is a limit to what any individual client will spend but you only have to look at the various business models to know that there are clients in all price ranges and certainly enough to keep any one individual in a price bracket busy. If you feel like you are being undercut then you need to evaluate your own business, see what is comparable in your particular market segment and what sets you apart and focus on that. If you compare yourself to businesses outside of your market then you will always feel like you are on the losing end simply because it's not your market and not your business model. As always I'll use myself as an example, if I compare myself to ladies with rates less than my own I often notice they have a larger client base, work more frequently and have less overhead. There are also a huge number of clients that will see them and will not see me, some because they see no value in the particular date I offer and others because my consideration is simply out of their price range. If I compared my own business to these ladies I would appear to come up lacking in several specific areas, this does not however mean that I am not successful or running an effective business. If I compare myself to the ladies that charge more than I do I find that often they are travelling more (by request) and have a smaller but more loyal client base. Depending on their individual model often their overhead is a little higher and they tend to require far more flexibility in their personal lives - something I do not have. So again on a one to one comparison of any particular area I appear come up lacking but that doesn't take the entire business model into account. What truly matters is does my model work for me? I have enough clients that I am happy, my current model integrates well with my 'outside life' and it allows me both the freedom to pursue other interests without compromising on the things that are important to me when going in to an individual date. You have to compare with other ladies that are in your market, evaluate how your business is working for you and if there are areas you need to improve on. There is always some cross-over in clientele, some people will see me, you and another lady with a consideration that is either higher or lower than ours or perhaps simply has a longer (or shorter) date minimum. That part of the market isn't nearly as big as the people that 'shop' within a particular interest or business model and it's those clients that you focus on, the others will come and go anyway and you generally won't build a loyal clientele out of them.

Although I agree with Nathalie and Cleo, I can certainly understand what Eve is saying too. Eve, just keep in mind that those who charge $100 for an hour in Ottawa (happens in Montreal too) are not targeting and attracting the same clientele you are therefore it will not directly affect your business... I know it hasn't affected mine ;) Cheer up :) xox

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I can only speak for myself. When I see a lady it is because there is something about her that interests me, that something, a connection, clicking if you will (and yes her looks too ;-) ) are what matter. If I am lucky to meet a companion that I like, even more lucky if I like that companion enough to continue to see her, and most of all fortunate enough that that companion will agree to see me, guess what, I'm not even looking at some lady offering her companionship at reduced rates From my perspective, sorry to phrase it this way considering the nature of this lifestyle, but this isn't about the most bang for your buck. For me it is about meeting and developing special connections with ladies who offer companionship. Companionship being much more than just a sex. And when those connections are made, a new less expensive companion isn't going to even draw my attention. In short, the dollar rate isn't what decides for me who to see, it is the lady herself that decides for me if I'll see her. In short a lower dollar rate won't undercut my client loyalty nor will it affect my choice in companion to see Hope that makes sense A rambling RG

I think the certificate is really about therapeutic massage and insurance billing, more than skill. A relaxation massage or massage that *isn't* intended to be paid for by an insurance provider would be all about the skill of the person giving the massage and creating the experience. That wouldn't be diminished by a HE. A registered masseuse offering therapeutic massage and the possibility of a receipt for insurance would be a different story. While the client probably wouldn't argue with a HE (I know I wouldn't!,) it would be contrary to the ethics of the regulatory body and could lead to problems. Just my thoughts. ;)

Pick a girl you are attracted to , review her site for her services then contact her:) But fears are going to hold you back from full enjoyment. So educate yourself, and well. There are many sites you can find reliable information about std's and how they can and won't be transmitted. Read up, or have an open frank discussion with your MD. Remember anything you tell your doctor is private and I think it's best when any of us are going to have more than one sexual partner that our doctors know as they are the best ones for health discussions. Nothing is 100% but most responsible and professional sp's take great pride in their health and taking care of their bodies:) I hope you find what you're looking for and that you can relax and thoroughly enjoy it:)

I am not really comfortable with stating that I live a double life with regards to Cerb. My involvement is certainly not something that I publicize, but that is due to the stigma and stereotypes that are prevalent in general society, and perhaps that may be true even more so in insular PEI - I wonder if that is true? The fact that I don't advertise my participation probably could or should be interpreted as hiding or leading a double life, but I am very content that should I be "discovered," then I have no issue with that at all, in any way. I am widowed, I am totally alone, and I have no rational reason to feel guilty about what is now my very minimal involvement. I hated, absolutely and irrevocably hated, that in the beginning I lied to my children about where I was at various times when I was travelling. It's a long and roundabout and interesting story about why they now know, but they know that I have seen sex workers. They were all perfectly okay with that. It has led to some pretty good discussions about stereotypes and it's most curious that they were worried about me being taken advantage of, whereas from my perspective I always worried about me taking advantage of a woman in an unfortunate situation. My kids are pretty awesome. :) Everyone has things that to them are private and of no concern to anyone else and if involvement with sex workers is included in that then so be it. It does not mean that there is a right or a wrong involved. Your little voice will tell you that.

As a hobbyist or Sp or MA Most of us, are living a double life. Like Superman or Spiderman. Clark Kent by day and Superman by Night Peter Parker by day and Spiderman by night. We all have our private lives that we shared with Friend, family and co-worker. And then we have this other secret life where we meet other Men and Women for a quick sexy fantasy encounter. Or for some it is their income. However, we all have our secrets that we need to keep from our friends and family. And run the fear of being caught and suffering the consequences. But this is part of the thrill of living on the edge. It's what makes this life style a bit risky and exciting. But it can be stressful as you are always afraid of getting caught or being found out. Being careful, by having second phone or forgetting to close your browser when you still have cerb or emails open or forgetting to erase your internet history. Just wanted to get your thoughts and experiences of what it is to lead this double life. Did you ever get caught and how did you explain your way out of it out, or had to suffer the consequences. Hope to hear, some of your thoughts on this subject.

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Colorful, summer dresses are the my most like aspect of women's fashion, especially a mix of bright colors, like orange, yellow, and red. I will immediately want to get to know a woman wearing something like that.

best of luck to you Emily. In whatever you do this point forward. You are still the best that this city had to offer.

Yes, Quinn and Jill are the same. I saw her as Jill on a number of occasions but not within the last year. Her service was good, discreet in call, nice lady.

A biking buddy's son died tonight following complications from cancer surgery. Early 30's. I cannot imagine losing a child. Additional Comments: Be sure how to react......move on. They already have. Harsh, I know, but it easier for an outsider to interpret.

I would think that a certificate would only change the way you could label yourself, not determine a level of professionalism or quality of service, only you can do that, a certificate can't. I'm not sure what He stands for, can anyone elaborate. But being professional isn't determined by the types of services provided it's determined by how you conduct yourself with your clientele, imo and by your reputation, you'll be and do just fine:)

Got to agree with mrgreen... for me it is less about the style of clothes but mire about the way they wear it. That said.... not really fond of pants hanging off ass and baggy clothes.

I have just come to realize that my touring rates are lower than most providers similar to me. Its not something I ever consciously noticed until I was reference checking for my current tour and noticed than some of the ladies I was contacting have rates substantially higher than mine. I had a gent book a four hour date and when he provided his reference and I checked her site I noticed that she's getting the same donation for 3 hours as I'm getting for four. So I started checking others and I'm substantially below the other touring ladies rates. NOT INTENTIONAL!! I might increase my rates next tour to keep me more in line with others so I'm not undercutting and offending or annoying anyone.

I fall into the school that thinks that there is no ideal size.... i think it is, for me anyway,... more about how the overall package fits together and how that lady feels about herself... i have met small breasted ladies who look amazing as well as large breasted.... what a woman says about herself us more likely to attract me than a measurement or a cup size.... so... sure cup size us fine for me... but make sure your ad tells me about you... not just about how you look.

Everyone has their own idea of small, medium, large. A number and cup is more precise and objective.

I love ladies in nice heels. But you got to have nice pointy toes. I don't like open toes with the big toe sticking out. We used to call them "toe hangers" in the 80s. Lululemon yoga pants: Please consider whether they are appropriate before wearing them. Way too many wear them who really should NOT. Obscene sayings on t-shirts. Some are kind of witty and might be ok in the right circumstance, but almost all just prove to everyone else what a goof the wearer is. Harley Davidson stuff. If you have a bike, yeah ok, I've had several and have a ton of dealer shirts, a couple of H-D leather jackets I hardly wear. Why guys and gals who don't have a bike wear it I don't know. Camouflage. No. No. No.

Any intimate activity with anyone, be it a professional companion, bar pick up, girlfriend/CL/wife ALL carry an element of risk...celibacy, well masturbation is the only safe sex and no, not being glib here Condoms are not risk elimination, they are risk reduction As Cat pointed out, never ask a companion if she is clean, and don't ask the lady if you have a morning after panic attack if you should be tested YOUR SEXUAL HEALTH IS YOUR RESPONSIBILITY...you should get tested regularly if you are sexually active One more thing, while there is an element of risk in being sexually active, even if using safe sex practices, celibacy while safe (sex wise that is) carries something else IMHO far more unhealthy...and that is loneliness...and I am speaking from experience Anyhow, a rambling RG

When on a long journey by car, guys can pee in an empty pop bottle; girls, not so much!

Wow I am sorry this is happening to you I feel bad for you I wish I could do something to help you even though I don't know you I hope things work out for you

pretty subjective lol one mans (or ladies) diamond anothers lump of coal !!!

I took one for the team - you guys owe me. :) Will not repeat.

I don't really think of hobbying as a double life...my actual life is already one!!! It really doesn't bother me anymore who knows about what I do on my personal time. If they don't like it, than they do not have to associate with me. Though my experience has been they almost always come back to you over time. As for my real life, those I have told the truth to I trust them never to mention it to anyone. So for those of you I have told, you mean enough to me to know the truth! :D