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7 pointsI don't think that there is too much to add to what's been said. I understand your concern for safety, I really do. However you need to understand that (sorry to say) my safety is more important. The good need is that this means I do everything possible to keep myself safe, keeping you safe in the process. Ladies in this profession are usually more on too of their sexual health than anyone else. Tests, condoms, education - we stay on top of it (pun intended) When you go to a bar do you ask for test results? Exactly. Guess which scenario is more risky. Keep yourself safe :)
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5 pointsOkay guys.. Cause we all know the late 80's - early 90's were the golden age of beauty.. :icon_confused: ** Take note ladies: tan lines, rock in a sock boob jobs, big sprayed out crispy mullets, cocaine mustaches & the sultry sounds of - White Snake.. Are the standard we are no longer living up to...lol Kim :icon_wink:
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4 pointsHmmm, kinda wondering how this thread got from opening a brothel and prostitution laws to personal body preferences.LOL
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4 pointsThere's alot of garbage being layered onto certain sex workers in the industry. There's a dichotomy between the image of the put together worker, self-assured, autonomous, and in control...no mental health or self-esteem issues...acting as her own woman, strong as hell. And, then there's the worker with no business skills, not knowing her worth, with low self-esteem, willing to do God knows what with her body....drugged out, controlled by a pimp, and needing to be managed for her own good. Or, left to her own devices while the rest of "us" supposedly figure out what is 'truly' of benefit to our industry overall. And, then, there's statements being made about who has seen more of the 'exploited', 'messed-up', unfortunate 'ignorant' types', and how that allows one to make potentially more insightful judgement calls about the need to minimum pricing and regulatory measures....and the right to construct prostitute typologies I might add. The dichotomy (between the healthy, competent and knowing sex worker, and the screwed up, pimped druggie with no economic sense) and the prostitute typologizing are what I want to bite into here. And, I'll use personal narrative to illustrate some of these aspects, but keeping in mind the broader connections between our lives...that all of the pieces do not have to match up perfectly to provide insight....that personal stories can be applied in such a manner as to not blanket or overgeneralize a discussion, or over-personalize a debate to the point where discussion becomes impossible. These are the things I have in mind as I share. I started in this industry at 17 years old. The choices, as I experienced them, were tough and few and I was highly motivated to get out of poverty and an abusive living environment, which was obviously distressing. Within a year I found a decent agency manager to work for. I had very little business knowledge to start with: what to charge?, what was a fair cut to give to a manager?, what services to provide?, what services was I comfortable with providing?....how might my financial needs and motivations, my life immediate circumstances, trump some of these considerations over others? ...and, believe me, sometimes I have made choices that have left me feeling like shit....sometimes the choices didn't feel like fair choices....sometimes, I was layering on self-judgement that didn't need to be there about the choices...hmmm, I wonder where all of that judgement comes from? My earlier years in the industry allowed me to observe my manager and all of the tasks she carried out to run a business, many of which I was too busy to want to do myself, some of which I lacked the social and economic capital and personal organization to do, and others aspects I just needed time to think on if ever I wanted to become an independent (screening clients etc.). I experienced the work as exhausting, frustrating and stigmatizing at times, but also as stimulating and fun (always meeting new people, sharing stories, learning about the psychology of sex), and flexible in terms of how portable the work is, and being able to make larger amounts of money in shorter periods of time. In a relatively small Northern Ontario community, I gave a third of every hourly fee I made to my manager. At the time, the going rate for a bustling and established escort agency was $150 an hour. After I paid my agency fee, and my taxi fare (it was all outcall based), and based on the example of a one hour date, my take away without any other expenses considered (condoms, clothing, grooming etc.) was about $80. This is considerably less than I command now as someone who works independently, in another region, and a decade later. But, I was more than ok with those terms...accepted them and they worked just fine for me, and were highly preferable relative to the other work that was available to me at the time. Thinking back to that situation, if I could have finagled low overhead and the right incall setup, I could have charged $80 an hour and made out just as well or better (think no travel time to appointments), but goodness knows then I would have been labeled by others in the industry as a 'low end' ignoramus. Interesting. Long story short, sex work arose as a highly constrained AND also an ideal and flexible economic option for me. It took time, opportunities to connect with other workers, and reading related literature (not easy to find at the time) for me to begin to make sense of things....to carve out various options for myself, to politicize what it means to be a sex worker, and to challenge my own internalized assumptions about 'whores', while also challenging dominant social ideas about sex workers, both demonizing and infantilizing. The learning curve has been steep and complex. And, my life options, my formal education, my business savvy, my self-awareness, and my sexual development have evolved. Having made a foray back into the industry several months ago (after a long pause away, but still engaging in related activism all the while), I find myself in a different phase as a sexual labourer. I work for myself, set my own rates, and screen my own clients, and, over time, I've had more opportunities to become a part of the sex working community, to fight for our rights, and to benefit from the rich relationships it holds I also take time to remember the whole journey, the teenager that was me, and I have had moments where I've been struck by her ingenuity. Whatever I lacked in business or economic smarts, I made up for in volumes with the savvy that can only come with street smarts...off the cuff, quick thinking, and tremendous resourcefulness. Few people would take the time to fascinate over the narrative of socially and economically marginalized woman if she is working for pennies at the local Tim Horton's....with a Manager on her all the time like a fire breathing dragon...thankless customers, running her ass off, barely covering the rent, leaving little or no time for her to pursue, or dream about other life options. And, few would make so many qualifying remarks if she struggled in her sense of self, maybe even struggling with depression, or an intimate partner who abuses her physically, financially. Why? Because we gloss over that kind of marginalization: cuz she's working for the man, towing the line of normalcy....her purported "dysfunction" is a familiar, benign kind. [And, yes, I am gesturing at the role of internalized whore stigma in this thread masquerading as disinterested concern and professional rhetoric over industry standards.] So, why is it acceptable to make all kinds of qualifying remarks about sex workers who may charge less than others?....who may be following a business model that makes sense for them?...who may be working for a manager who takes a cut, maybe even an unfair cut of their earnings?...who may struggle in his or her sense of self. What about the role of decrim?...about upholding the legal rights of sex workers to switch managers or leave the industry without fear of retribution (providing legal recourse and a climate of social support for him/her to do so)....just one of a number of examples where we can make changes without fixating on the pathology of individual choice, or lack thereof. What about we make space for the understanding that there will always be sex workers who will never fit into the mould of the happy, healthy hooker, and to count these members of our community in as equally insightful and valuable. It's not too hard, considering that some of the biggest leaders in the sex workers rights movement are people who have been street involved, who are or who have been drug users, and, yes, trauma survivors. A number of these people, all women, are some of my closest friends and confidants. We do not all identity with the same struggles, with the same privileges and oppressions, or industry experiences, but we see each other as equals and colleagues nonetheless. It's also been mentioned that there are workers who really aren't wanting to do the work but have few other options. Let's fight for those increased options....while also recognizing that there are plenty of folks in the mainstream workforce who hate their shitty jobs, don't know how else they will pay their bills, and can't seem to get their foot in the door what with all of the nepotism out there. Let's advocate for their increased options too eh? When we dichotomize and qualify sex worker identity in the manner I've seen happen in this thread, there is tremendous erasure that occurs; erasure of the parts of ourselves, our private moments which are deemed unsavory, shameful, desperate; erasure of the ongoing vulnerabilities we experience in the industry(, because regardless of what we charge or where we work, we all experience a level of vulnerability); and erasure of the contributions of fellow sex workers who have and continue to fight for our rights. I love being a sex worker, and I see the work as skilled and honorable work (as my vocation), yet, sometimes, I still am left feeling like shit...sometimes I feel confused. I carry all of my life history with me, beautiful and ugly. But, hey, don't we all? Isn't this ok? What happens when, for some of us, it is not ok? ...what then is the role of totalizing statements about certain people's lives, their work?....does it not function as a mechanism for distancing?...for asserting a sense of personal entitlement and relative legitimacy? what happens when we resemble a stereotype?....what happens when we face the pain of resembling a stereotype? ...what happens to us when the person who resembles the stereotypes is held in our minds eye as a respected colleague?. Hmmm, what then?
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3 pointsI voted Classy with face. I would also go for classy with no face. I do NOT like super professional photos that look like they were from a Playboy shoot. Not many ladies are going to look as good as they do in a studio with a stylist and makeup artist fussing over them. It creates an unrealistic expectation. I like photos that give me an honest representation of what I will be getting.
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3 pointsI love it and at the appropriate time with a willing partner it causes sex to be much more intense. I love it when a man tells me when, how and what to do with his cock, or I will tell him what to do with me, what names I like to be called and how to take me. But the explicit verbage I'll save for he and I;)
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2 pointsNone of the above. Smart women, as demonstrated by what they write on here and how they write.
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2 pointsNo doubt, but to dismiss and subsequently insult an entire group based on your affection for the good of one era is foolish. The poster who claimed that contemporary dancers looked as poor as sex workers compared to dancers from his cherished early 90's insulted both current dancers and SPs. You know, the whole reason he's probably on this board.
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2 pointsOther than covered everything or abstinence ...... I think the safest way is to have an incall right at the clinic. Shower in one room, go to the next room where the cot is and get a bbbj and shag like the dickens maybe, then go to the next room and pee in a cup and go home and hope the phone doesn't ring.
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2 pointsA switch is a person who has both dominant/submissive qualities or can be a top/bottom depending on who they happen to be with. It is a BDsM term and used mostly in a sexual capacity. Hope this clears up some of the confusion.
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2 pointsI didn't say that i resented your comment, but I do resent the person who goes to see a cbj advertiser/provider (myself) and asks me for this at any time even if they wait until after session, and/or prior to booking the next appt. To me, the assumption that advertising and doing cbj is not the final answer is bizarre to me. I don't think you realize the implication of what you are doing. If you want/need/prefer bbbjs, book appts only with bbbj advertisers, or accept the cbj on the menu and do not ask for more. I don't think you realize the difference between something freely and readily given (the cbj) , and the bbbj an sp may be giving out of fear of lost income.
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2 pointsWriting and Reading a recent recommendation I wrote. I know it may sound silly compared to the highlight of the encounter. But sometimes reading the written word just brings back such fond memories that I find myself smiling. Thanks Red!
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2 pointsOk first off I will admit that his is not a topic that I know much about but my understanding is as follows: Service providers get tested regularly to look after their own health...when they do so i don't expect to see the results it just lets me know they are serious about both their business and their health.. both are good things for me too The testing process is not like a pregnancy test where they pee on a stick and voila we have results...so its not a tool that can be used on the day of the booking to protect yourself.. there are things you can do to reduce your risk (condoms etc) but testing is not going to do it for you. When you choose... thats right choose... to participate in this hobby you assume some risk... really no different than other choices you make. but they are your chouces and your risks... asking for test results is trying to place this responsibility on the lady and to be frank... she has enough things to think about without managing our risk. Finally.... if the risk scares you... maybe you should not participate in the industry. Bottom line the choice is yours. Just my opinion.
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2 pointsI will echo Fortunateone's posts. I'm a CBJ only provider. I do duos with many colleagues who are BBBJ providers. I put the condom on when I am performing.. they take it of when they are. My comfort is paramount during an appt in order for me to perform at my best.. and as for CBJ being 'useless'. I don't take offense.. that is the opinion of several who haven't experienced a great CBJ. There are literally 1000's of happy customers in my wake who can say they not only enjoyed it but didn't leave wondering if they were safe or not. This is not to dismiss my many friends and colleagues who partake in BBBJ. The risks are low.. but they are still there.. or why get tested at all? As for trusting the clients to get tested regularly? few do.. believe me.
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2 pointsThat's just the point of the article. That by making women feel guilty for casual sex, the men are actually getting less of it. You can't subjugate women for having casual sex and then expect them to have casual sex with you. Duh!
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2 points1. You don't 2. Like you want to pay for the (free) test available to everyone? how's that going to work. You understand it takes a week for results, during which time sps are seeing other clients? Or are you saying you are willing to take her out of the work place, paying for her entire week's income while you both wait for the results. And when you do get them/see them, what is the kind of services you expect now that you 'know'. Oh and, what are you doing during all this wait time?? Got your results in hand, and a guarantee of not doing or seeing anyone? 3. NO, no amount of advice on how to 'get it done' will replace my answer #2 lol 4. I hope not. It is a very manipulative thing for any client to require, and a very useless thing for an sp to present anyway (see #2) When was your last test, and what is your sexual history since then btw, and going back to #2 what kind of services are you expecting from this sp with the clean test results?
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2 pointsAbsolutely inappropriate and insulting if you asked a lady for her test results, or if she is D&D free. Just as it would be equally inappropriate and insulting for her to ask you for your test results and if you are D&D free YOUR SEXUAL HEALTH IS YOUR RESPONSIBILTY Up to you to get yourself tested But asking a lady about her test results and health status will likely end up in you being declined a date RG
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2 pointsAnother tech tip for you... ALT+F4 will close the current window. Most of those pop up viruses/malware will run whether you click yes, no or the X. So don't do any of the above. Press Alt-F4 and voila. Window gone. You're welcome. Happy porn-ing!!!!
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1 pointHey Cats, Exams are over so I finally have more time to peeve. As a new member, I love CERB. I can check adds, see recommendations, get advice. Most of all, it's great seeing the ladies interact on the boards. I like knowing that they are established professionals. One thing I miss here that other sites have is info on who the laddies service (ex: males, females, clps). As a female hobbyist (pre CERB), I have had mixed reception in calling to ask. Thought I would try posting here. Any recommendations from Hobbyists or professionals. Cheers Jane
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1 pointCorrection to earlier post. The files that the virus downloads are ecd dot dll and ecd dot cpp. Damn things are listed in my startup file. Fortunately I interrupted the download before they installed themselves. Ran the Microsoft Malicious Software Removal Tool and everything is fine now. msert dot exe. It's great.
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1 point:boobeyes:So yeah...naughty sites so my own fault. Got a popup that looked exactly like a legit Microsoft box. It said a program wanted to change Windows file run dot dll. Strangely it said the author was certified to be Microsoft. Good thing I did not click "Yes"!!! The window would not go away even though I clicked "No" and tried closing the box. suddenly up pops a new page...the notorious spoof police page that says your computer is now locked and you need to pay a fine of $100 to unlock it. It looks fairly official and might scare some into sending the money. Lots of police logos and Criminal Code quotes about forbidden content etc. There is no way to close the page. Your comp IS locked. I unplugged my internet connection PHYSICALLY and turned of the computer with the on/off switch. Turned on and ran every antivirus onboard, no sign of any threat. Machine is running fine now, or so it seems. Takeaway from this is: 1: if you get a popup about making changes to run dot dll immediately disconnect your machine from the net. 2: never use wifi for any dodgy sites. NEVER. If I had been using wifi I would not have been able to disconnect because the computer was locked. 3: have another comp you can use to change all your passwords to accounts. If mine is still hacked I can at least reformat. I am a bit worried that the virus might catch my passwords so will reformat. When I started up I got a box saying that the crd dot dll file could not be found, another box that the crd program could not start. These are the programs the hackers use to collect your money. So hopefully their program was not fully installed. Effin hackers. :spank:
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1 point- A well thought out web site with no spelling mistakes or texting lingo. - Nice pictures and a facial picture is always a bonus. - I also need to be craving a hug. ;)
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1 pointCertainly a non-traditional Easter dinner. Pork chop with my famous mushroom gravy, mashed potatoes and carrots. I am alone so I chose what I like. :) It will be a late dinner so I will watch it with my Montreal Canadiens.
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1 pointWhen you are with a very attractive sexy lady it isn't difficult to be very dirty, what ever word you might be expressing, nothing like her getting very wet, and me leaking pre cum while having dirty chat. Living the moment, and being in the moment, is in fact very powerful and so, so, delicious fun.
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1 pointThat's pretty decent of you tolerating ladies who have breast implants. I wonder what the ladies have to tolerate RG
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1 pointI was at Nevada Relaxations a couple of weeks ago for the first time and I was met by Meika (Mika?) at the front door. She showed me a catalog with pictures of ladies, similar to what they do at EB/TO. She also introduced me to another lady, who didn't have a picture yet. I was taken in by Meika's charm and personality, and decided to book an hour with her in the Jacuzzi. OK, one might think Meika is an Asian name, and she does look quite Asian, which has always been a turn on. She is part native, which is no problem to me, and she did not try to deny it. I will say, if you are attracted to little bitty spinners, she might not be your type. She is around 6 feet tall and solidly built. This was fine with me as I prefer women with strong hands that know how to do a massage. She was very pleasant, put me totally at ease. She made sure the water wasn't too warm, as this can have unwanted side effects. We were in the tub for some time and it was very enjoyable. She massaged my whole body before starting to work on my cock. Once I was hard she rubbed her soft tits on it, which was very pleasurable, got me really turned on. She didn't mind me touching her, and I got her off a couple of times. Then she held onto me while I was getting out of the tub, and dried me off. So conscientious :) Then up on the table for some really excellent deep tissue massage and some fantastic oral. She climbed on and rode me till she got off again. She did some more oral and finished me off with a nice hand job. I'm getting to be an old fart and it takes me a while to pop, so I was pleased that she was patient and made sure I got off. Have been with some younger ladies that think I should be like their teenage first boyfriend. A couple even quit after 2 or 3 minutes. I would not hesitate to see Meika again, and I will call ahead to find out when she works. So Meika sweetheart, I hope my recommendation brings you some business, take care, can't wait till I'm in the city again.
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1 pointI'm relatively new to this lifestyle although I did go to a few strip clubs in my younger days. But something I have observed in this lifestyle is ladies with tattoos and piercings, mind you I have observed this on ladies who are "civilian" for lack of a better word as well My point, and I have met some lady's with tattoos and piercings, is that those tattoos and piercings compliment a lady's beauty. It doesn't detract. Just because you aren't into tattoos and piercings is just a matter of personal taste. It shouldn't be viewed as a fact that there has been a decline since the 80's. Frankly I haven't seen a decline in beauty at all. And there are some of us gentlemen who see tattoos and piercings as complimenting a lady's beauty. An Easter rambling RG
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1 pointi don't know about you but i would take White Snake over a lot of what's playing on the radio these days!..ala biebier lol but that's just me :) good and bad from every era, and we might say the same thing in the next decade about nowadays. We all have our own tastes and it's good to have selection and different types of girls, a girl for everyone so to speak.
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1 pointI think that the subject is a very individual one, both ways. But, saying that: 1: An SP stating that BBBJ is on the menu but YMMV is bad form. Then a client shows up expecting something that he doesn't receive, and in not getting it, is insulted that he falls into the "No" category of YMMV. 2: A client demanding BBBJ from a provider that does not specifically advertise it is crossing the line too. But there is a big difference between demanding it and mentioning that you enjoy it. Many SP do not mention its availability for reason 1, but if you are in what would be the "Yes" part of YMMV, they might be happy to provide it, especially if it creates a new customer long term. Personally, I'm a CBJ guy. For a number of reasons, not the least of which is safety, but also that I am very sensitive to the stimulation. So CBJ works better for me. But I am amazed at the number of SP's that did not offer BBBJ that I have seen in the past that have said to me "Don't put this in your review" or "Pinky swear not to review me" and then Sluuurp. Everything from BBBJ through BBBJTC CIMWS. From a "safety girl". I guess it comes down to tact. If its a deal breaker, establish that up front, don't expect to be able to "convince her" once you get there. And if you are happy without it, but think it would be the icing on the cake, and have built a repore, the "I'm not sure if you ever do it, but I am comfortable with it if you do..." gives her the option of offering without the obligation of feeling she has to.
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1 pointBest bud bought a bike.....1300 VTX. I loaned him my extra gear and we're ready to ride. All my girl needs is a wash and then check the air pressure and oil level and we are sooooooooooo on the road. Goodbye, civilization.
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1 pointNot a waste if you aren't comfortable with managing a computers operating system, and the solution he chose did the trick easily.
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1 pointSaturday April 9-4 NEW Nina 9-11 aka "Nina Dream" Sabrina 9-11 aka "SabrinaXOX" Bianca 11-11 aka "Sexy Bianca" Haylee 11-11 NEW aka "Haylee Baby" Kandice 3:30-11 aka "Sweet Kandice" Sunday CLOSED HAPPY EASTER :smile: Monday Tia 9-4 aka "Tiaa.Lovee.x0" Pandora 9-4 aka "Pandora" Sasha 9-11 aka "Sasha-Paradise Sabrina R 9-4 aka "SabrinaR" Kimber 10-11 NEW aka "sweetkimber" April 10-11 NEW Samantha 3:30-11 aka "Naughty Samantha" Allyson 3:30-11 NEW: 1st day Amanda 3:30-11 aka "Triple Delight" Tuesday Tia 9-4 aka "Tiaa.Lovee.x0" Sabrina R 9-4 aka "SabrinaR" April 9-5 NEW Hannah 9-4 aka "Hannahxo" Haylee 10-4 NEW aka "HayleeBaby" Mandy 10-7:30 aka "CandyMandy" Chloe 11-9 aka "XChloeX" Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" Allyson 3:30-11 NEW Avah 4:30-10 aka "Avah" Wednesday Tia 9-4 aka "Tiaa.Lovee.x0" Chloe 9-4 aka "XChloeX" Sasha 9-4 aka "Sasha-Paradise" April 9-5 NEW Brooklyn 10-4 aka "brookynsfinest" Mandy 11-7:30 aka "CandyMandy" Kandice 2-11 aka "Sweet Kandice" Allyson 3:30-11 NEW Victoria 3:30-11 aka "victoriasct" Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" Avah 4:30-10 aka "Avah" Kassandra 7-11 aka "Kassandra" Thursday Tia 9-4 aka "Tiaa.Lovee.x0" Chloe 9-4 aka "XChloeX" Haylee 9-6:30 NEW aka "Haylee Baby" Brooklyn 10-4 aka "brookynsfinest" Chasity 9-7:30 aka "Chasityxox" Mandy 10-6:30 aka "CandyMandy" Victoria 3:30-11 aka "victoriasct" Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" Salina 3:30-11 aka "Salinaflower" Avah 4:30-10 aka "Avah" Sabrina 6-11 aka "SabrinaXOX" Friday April 9-6:30 NEW Pandora 9-4 aka "Pandora" Samantha 9-4 aka "Naughty Samantha" Tia 9-4 aka "Tiaa.Lovee.x0" Mandy 10-6 aka "Candy Mandy" AJ 10-6 Salina 3:30-11 aka "Salinaflower" Victoria 3:30-11 aka "victoriasct" Bianca 3:30-11 aka "Sexy Bianca" Nina 5-11 aka "Nina Dream" Sabrina 6-11 aka "SabrinaXOX" Saturday Brooklyn 9-4 aka "brooklynfinest" Amanda 9-11 aka "Triple Delight" Nina 9-11 aka "Nina Dream" Sabrina 9-11 aka "SabrinaXOX" Allyson 10-4 NEW Avah 12-6 aka "Avah" Bianca 3:30-11 aka "Sexy Bianca" April 3:30-11 NEW Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" Sunday Salina 10-4 aka "Salinaflower" Bianca 10-9 aka "Sexy Bianca" Nina 10-7 aka "Nina Dream" Sabrina 10-9 aka "SabrinaXOX" Brooklyn 11-9 aka "brooklynfinest" Allyson 11-9 NEW Jamie 3:30-9 aka "Jamie-xo"
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1 pointI have had hundreds of bbbj's and not once has there been a problem, never. Don't over think this.
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1 pointI also absolutely adore when a man lifts me up... Carries me to a couch, a bed, presses me against the wall... And I don't care how tell they are for that. I've experienced that with both shorter and taller men. But I am an absolutely natural sub... So height has little to do with it for me. There is a certain Cerbite who I adored kissing at the last social, who even in my 5" heels, towered over me. YUM!
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1 pointI love dirty talk no matter the format. I will say that since starting out as an SP my written dirty talk has increased while my verbal has decreased. I know part of the reason is that when I am with someone who is not very verbal or vocal, I restrain myself. I know there have been times it has been requested of me and the person had been so quiet that I had forgotten until halfway through. The more open someone is to me, the more comfortable I feel being expressive about needs, wants and desires. I feed off others so there is a lot of giving and receiving. It IS rather difficult to talk with my mouth full however you can be almost guaranteed that as I worship you I have thoughts running through my head about the taste and hard silkiness of your cock gliding over my tongue, forcing it's way into my throat and making me moan in need. And when you react to me with words or noises I'm panting in my mind for the reactions I'm causing and my lady bits are throbbing in anticipation.
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1 pointI am happy to see short notice clients. I have several who only have a quick window of time to see me and when I can be available.. no problem.. These are not the type who plan ahead. If they have to stop and get correct change it bites into our time and they may not be able to see me. I'm okay with getting these guys change for 10-20 bucks if I have it handy. They are okay not getting it if I don't. It's the ones that feel entitled that ladies are referring to as cheap. If you are the former.. you are feeling slighted that ladies might think you are 'cheap'. Thinking ahead isn't always possible when someone thinks with their 'little head'. I don't mind those types of clients for the most part. I'm a go with the flow kind of girl if respect is foremost in the intention. As for disabled clients.. most of mine are so disabled that an attendant has the fee put away for me somewhere discrete. The client doesn't even handle the money! I recently even had a female friend of mine who contributed funds for a disabled neighbor of hers in her building so he could afford to see me! So I don't see what being disabled or financially challenged has to do with it.. they prepare even more than the able bodied person for a visit.. certainly not a fly by the seat of their pants encounter. I've never needed to give a disable person change. 99% of my clients are fully abled..thankfully those that ask for change.. I mention I will look for it at the end and quickly get back to other things.. so I'm not distracted. I search after.. while I put my robe on and they are getting dressed.. no time wasted.
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1 pointIt's standard procedure that a clinic or even your doctor's office will only contact you if your test results are positive. I have never been offered a copy of the test results, but I suppose I could get a copy if I requested. But for reasons mentioned above, the results on that piece of paper are only as accurate as the day they were printed on. Bottom line is it's impolite and 99% guaranteed you will be declined for a date.
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1 pointI agree! I will never understand why ladies feel the need to steal other ladies pictures or post fake pics in their ads. Just gives you a bad rep...not a good look at all.
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1 pointIf I'm not mistaken, also including HIV testing, it can usually take 2-12 weeks for a result, but in some patients up to 6 months for test results to come in (anyone know different for fact please correct me) Are companions supposed to be completely celibate (including husband/bf/cl for 6 months, and are you going to be completely celibate for 6 months, including wife/gf/cl or conventional dating. I can't envision any companion doing that just to see you, or any client, nor can I imagine any client doing the same just to see one lady RG
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1 pointCall me naive if you want but I would think that if there was any health issues that could be passed along to the gentleman, I would hope the lady would bring it up. The same for the gentleman visiting... If he had any issues I would hope that he let the lady know about it. STD, hepatitis etc.... I believe that we trust each other enough without having to see any health certificate or other health form.... Just saying!
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1 pointFirst let me thank you for the personal attack... i do in fact pay attention to many issues... i do agree that Mr. Harper has stayed clear of the abortion issue even though he personally does not agree with abortion... but that's not really that surprising there is no political upside to opening the abortion debate as he would be severely impacted in the next election as abortion is a topic that Canadians especially women would consider when voting. Suggesting that a bill that would make sex work illegal is similar is kinda like comparing Apples and Oranges... Mr Harper is astute enough to understand that while most Canadians are not in favor of making sex work illegal they also will not see this issue as something that drives them when they go to the polls. If as many suggest Mr. Harper goes with a Canadian version of the Nordic model which makes prostitution legal but the purchasing of Sex illegal then it would have a significant impact on me a purchaser of the service. So I can sit and trust that the Government will do what is right or I can express my opinion and try to influence the outcome. As for my choice in who I read and listen to let me just say that I am not a resident of Ontario and therefore seldom if ever read the Toronto Star... as for CBC radio... and Mr. Fife... they would not be part of my daily routine. I am looking forward to reading the actual legislation but refuse to sit back with rose colored glasses thinking that Mr. Harper will do the right thing. Just my opinion.
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1 pointExtremely important. In fact that is what motivated me to seek out a SP the very first time. I was craving a hug and no one would indulge me. :( I had not received a hug in 11 long years. Not since my last relationship in 2000. As for the kissing and cuddling, that is an extra bonus. Now, that is what I ask for up front when arranging to see a SP. Without those three things, the sexy frisky part just isn't worth it. IMHO.
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1 pointWasn't sure if this young lady was going to stick around as she told me she was heading straight out to Brandon. Seems like she decided to hang out in the peg a few more days. I booked her for a quick HH session. Very quick response and communication. Reasonable rates with low restrictions. She's petite but not a spinner, very sexy and curvy body. I recommend and will repeat. PM for more details. Additional Comments: Had a couple inquiries RE link. Here it is http://winnipeg.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/andgt-sexy-hott-girl-new-to-the-area-andlt-19/1994183
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