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Keep records of all of his attempts to contact you. Keep all emails. Keep a telephone log. Keep your telephone bills. Take pictures if he shows up at your place. Document and record. The police will need the evidence.

I voted Classy with face. I would also go for classy with no face. I do NOT like super professional photos that look like they were from a Playboy shoot. Not many ladies are going to look as good as they do in a studio with a stylist and makeup artist fussing over them. It creates an unrealistic expectation. I like photos that give me an honest representation of what I will be getting.

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I don't think anyone hates your guts. I don't. I will say, I did find your posts off topic and needlessly insulting. My response was in irritation/jest and an attempt to show you that opinions on what is considered "quality" varies widely. Sweeping generalizations tend to annoy people, simple as that. I think referring to women as "8's or 10's", won't ever get you the response you're hoping for. Most importantly, alluding to "sex workers" uglying up the joint, on an escort rec board doesn't seem like the best idea, no? Don't take it personally, and I'll try and do the same. ;) Happy Easter, Kim

It's not just what they write in threads/ ads it is how they conduct their first introduction through email/text/ pm....I'm intrigued by their beauty but also by their brains and how they can communicate with myself. It isn't always just about the ads, there is much more to learn,get to know about women through discussions.

Favourite spot - underneath a woman. lol okay I know that really isn't the question haha

I'm including a couple things that fit my vision of a soul mate. For me, it's not just about love, it's about friendship. It's that instant recognition of someone even if you can't explain it. Being open to those feelings even if you have no clue, knowing that it's important and worth a risk. I don't believe soul mates are forever. Some are but some come into your life to show you something or to get you through a difficult time and then your paths part. They will always remain a very important part of your life but not long term. Either way, they are very good for you if you're open to them. I have been lucky enough to have experienced this first hand.

Fav place...hmmmm...I have a few lol... I must say I love doing dirty things in a car...I know I know its not the best place or the most comfortabe one but just to think someone can be watching its a big turn on for me lol (i did lots of that years ago with SO and casual flings hehe) Outdoor on a beach is another place I love...I would make sure not to get sand all over my pussy or his cock ;) Start the foreplay sitting on a couch in a living room with wine...end up on the floor( if there is a fireplace even better)...and retreive to a big nice comfy king size bed...there is nothing like lots of comfy room to try mulyiple positions! BJ xxx

I had a little chat with your stalker Christy, he says he's not a stalker, it's just coincidence that he's moved into the tree next to your bedroom window...;)

As Meg says, Stop seeing him, as Valerie says, record everything. Keep dates, exact times of sightings and if you can alert neighbours or someone you trust to keep their eye out and to report when they see him near you or your home/neighbourhood/property. Records are needed to have anything done by police and the courts. I had dealt with someone over a 6yr period following my every move, calling me, even moving underneath me in an apartment building. My stalker knew the law well and the boundaries to which he could push. Walking by your place for example on a public sidewalk daily even many times a day is legal. But with due diligence, recording these events, with witnesses statements you should be able to get a judge and police to act in your favor should you need a restraining order or if you feel your privacy and well being is threatented. I'm sorry you are experiencing this.

Stop seeing him would be #1. Next, do not engage..never respond to any communications. If all of that fails....restraining order!

What is your definition and do you believe they exist? apparently the link below describes ten elements that defines a soulmate. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/dr-carmen-harra/elements-of-a-soulmate_b_3595992.html

I like to entertain SP's in my home. I find it a lot less stressful for me. I serve tea or coffee and a lite snack. We chat for a bit before having some playtime. Then we socialize some more before she has to leaves. This is always a two hour session so there is little or no pressure of a clock.

So many "interesting" comments and speculations made in this thread... If this keeps up, it will be that time again:

I like variety, so I my perfect place would be an encounter that combines several. Maybe start off with some sensual and erotic touching in the bath...then move in front of the fireplace and continue to play until we're dried off before moving to the bedroom. Since we're talking perfect, let's pretend the bedroom has a semi-private balcony overlooking the city where we stand on and gaze out as we play. I figure it's so hard to pick just one spot - so why try?! :)

I'm old enough to remember drive ins, what a hot time they were, I guess still are in a couple of places here in NS and one in PEI. Have also enjoyed a nautical theme over the years, on ferries, Her Majesty's Canadian Warships and regular boats - never on a canoe though!!

I believe that this is possible. I knew a wonderful lady many years ago. We connected on most (if not all) of those levels described by Dr. Carmen Harra. We even knew when the other was nearby without actually seeing each other. That was the most happiest time of my life. :) I have never experienced that kind of connection with any other woman since. :( Thank you for this post Cristy. It took me back to many very fond memories.

I got info from a very reliable source that she is a post op shemale, went by the name Paris before. I'm not judging or anything , but that info should be out there.

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I'm 54 so I have visited strip clubs in various city's around Canada for about 35 years.... have the changed... of course they have... like all businesses they gave adjusted their service offering to reflect the environment in which they operate. I delighted to see that I no longer go into clubs and see ladies required to wear pasties as full nudity was not allowed or that if you wanted a private dance you could not drink in the same room.... things change and people will see positives and negatives to the changes.... for the ladies who preferred no contact the move to it being the norm was seen as a negative while others saw it as a great way to bump up their revenue. one think I have missed at the clubs as they gave moved to more lapdance/contact venues us the amazing dance shows some of there ladies were able to do. As for the beauty of the ladies at the clubs then vs now.....all I can say is I have never had a problem finding a beautiful lady at the clubs. 30 years ago there was no tattoos and no body jewelry... hair styles were different.... people dressed differently...hey but before we judge.... go back and look at some pictures of yourself from the past what we think is sexy changes with time and in my opinion that is not a bad thing..... would I get a tattoo or piercing. lol... most likely not... have I met some amazing sexy beautiful women who have YES. In my opinion anything that makes a lady feel sexy about herself is ok with me. Bottom line... i can't go back to the past so the things I miss about then will remain as fond memories... there are however so many new fond memories to make. Just my opinion.

I'm not sure I have a favorite place but I have always thought it would be nice to Meet a beautiful lady at a really good restaurant for a meal.... it would be one of those times where you just know from looking at each other that you have to fuck...at some point during the meal she excuses herself to go to the washroom and as she walks around behind me she leads down kisses my neck and tells me she is not wearing any panties. I follow her to the washroom approach her from behind place one arm around her and push her up against the wall lift her dress over her beautiful ass and take her from behind....... after we return to the table.

I think you started the problem yourself, with your initial overblown absolutist statements. You didn't state why you thought one era's girls were hotter, and then claimed the current era girls looked like they were "sex workers" as if that was a bad thing. Quite obviously they are sex workers, that's by definition, and even the girls from the era you long for were also sex workers. So you showed yourself in extremely bad form: arrogance and snobbery. Only later did we find out that the reason you thought they were unattractive was because of tattoos and piercings. And even later we find out that you thought the girls from the 90's also had problems, such as rock hard fake boobs. If you start off with absolutist statements, expect absolutist statements back as responses. Additional Comments: The real reason the clubs are in bad shape is because of the Internet and porn. Why spend money on a girl you can't touch, when you can view her for free online? I think non-interactive stripclubs may well be on the downfall, and they are going to have to adapt to a new reality. It's actually happening right now, the interactivity rules are being relaxed everywhere unofficially. The stripclub replaced the topless bars of the 60's, and it wasn't as if the topless bars were closed, they just became the stripclubs, so it was an adaptation for a newer era. Now an even newer adaptation needs to be made.

Here's the link that Roamingguy referred to (I think): http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=66258&highlight=stalker Good luck!

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None of the above. Smart women, as demonstrated by what they write on here and how they write.

Getting a email this afternoon from a good friend, and it really makes your day,makes you smile. Every year for the past 4 years having lost my mother, and also have had lost my father years ago, days like Easter,Christmas,Thanksgiving, become a littler easier to handle with their passing, but they will always will be in my heart. But getting a email today just was icing on the cake for this Easter Day. That special friend, will indeed always remain a dear friend through the expression of thoughts, words, that can make me smile. So it was a highlight of my day.

That's pretty decent of you tolerating ladies who have breast implants. I wonder what the ladies have to tolerate RG

Hmmm, kinda wondering how this thread got from opening a brothel and prostitution laws to personal body preferences.LOL

Okay guys.. Cause we all know the late 80's - early 90's were the golden age of beauty.. :icon_confused: ** Take note ladies: tan lines, rock in a sock boob jobs, big sprayed out crispy mullets, cocaine mustaches & the sultry sounds of - White Snake.. Are the standard we are no longer living up to...lol Kim :icon_wink:

A switch is a person who has both dominant/submissive qualities or can be a top/bottom depending on who they happen to be with. It is a BDsM term and used mostly in a sexual capacity. Hope this clears up some of the confusion.

That's funny, you make it sound like a principled decision. The reality is, social conservatism is the ticket to a political grave in this country. Harper knows that, which is why he muzzled them as soon as he took over the party. Start talking about abortion or same sex marriage and watch the seats vanish before you can say "Stockwell Day". This issue isn't even remotely the same. You're completely mistaking support for decriminalization as a lesser evil solution for social acceptance of prostitution. People may not believe sex work should be illegal, but johns are universally despised. No one is going to go to the mat to defend our right to pay women for sex, and no one is going to care if we end up in jail for doing so. No one except for the sex workers themselves, the people the Nordic model considers to be our victims. Quite ironic, really.

I love dirty talk no matter the format. I will say that since starting out as an SP my written dirty talk has increased while my verbal has decreased. I know part of the reason is that when I am with someone who is not very verbal or vocal, I restrain myself. I know there have been times it has been requested of me and the person had been so quiet that I had forgotten until halfway through. The more open someone is to me, the more comfortable I feel being expressive about needs, wants and desires. I feed off others so there is a lot of giving and receiving. It IS rather difficult to talk with my mouth full however you can be almost guaranteed that as I worship you I have thoughts running through my head about the taste and hard silkiness of your cock gliding over my tongue, forcing it's way into my throat and making me moan in need. And when you react to me with words or noises I'm panting in my mind for the reactions I'm causing and my lady bits are throbbing in anticipation.

I don't think that there is too much to add to what's been said. I understand your concern for safety, I really do. However you need to understand that (sorry to say) my safety is more important. The good need is that this means I do everything possible to keep myself safe, keeping you safe in the process. Ladies in this profession are usually more on too of their sexual health than anyone else. Tests, condoms, education - we stay on top of it (pun intended) When you go to a bar do you ask for test results? Exactly. Guess which scenario is more risky. Keep yourself safe :)

There's alot of garbage being layered onto certain sex workers in the industry. There's a dichotomy between the image of the put together worker, self-assured, autonomous, and in control...no mental health or self-esteem issues...acting as her own woman, strong as hell. And, then there's the worker with no business skills, not knowing her worth, with low self-esteem, willing to do God knows what with her body....drugged out, controlled by a pimp, and needing to be managed for her own good. Or, left to her own devices while the rest of "us" supposedly figure out what is 'truly' of benefit to our industry overall. And, then, there's statements being made about who has seen more of the 'exploited', 'messed-up', unfortunate 'ignorant' types', and how that allows one to make potentially more insightful judgement calls about the need to minimum pricing and regulatory measures....and the right to construct prostitute typologies I might add. The dichotomy (between the healthy, competent and knowing sex worker, and the screwed up, pimped druggie with no economic sense) and the prostitute typologizing are what I want to bite into here. And, I'll use personal narrative to illustrate some of these aspects, but keeping in mind the broader connections between our lives...that all of the pieces do not have to match up perfectly to provide insight....that personal stories can be applied in such a manner as to not blanket or overgeneralize a discussion, or over-personalize a debate to the point where discussion becomes impossible. These are the things I have in mind as I share. I started in this industry at 17 years old. The choices, as I experienced them, were tough and few and I was highly motivated to get out of poverty and an abusive living environment, which was obviously distressing. Within a year I found a decent agency manager to work for. I had very little business knowledge to start with: what to charge?, what was a fair cut to give to a manager?, what services to provide?, what services was I comfortable with providing?....how might my financial needs and motivations, my life immediate circumstances, trump some of these considerations over others? ...and, believe me, sometimes I have made choices that have left me feeling like shit....sometimes the choices didn't feel like fair choices....sometimes, I was layering on self-judgement that didn't need to be there about the choices...hmmm, I wonder where all of that judgement comes from? My earlier years in the industry allowed me to observe my manager and all of the tasks she carried out to run a business, many of which I was too busy to want to do myself, some of which I lacked the social and economic capital and personal organization to do, and others aspects I just needed time to think on if ever I wanted to become an independent (screening clients etc.). I experienced the work as exhausting, frustrating and stigmatizing at times, but also as stimulating and fun (always meeting new people, sharing stories, learning about the psychology of sex), and flexible in terms of how portable the work is, and being able to make larger amounts of money in shorter periods of time. In a relatively small Northern Ontario community, I gave a third of every hourly fee I made to my manager. At the time, the going rate for a bustling and established escort agency was $150 an hour. After I paid my agency fee, and my taxi fare (it was all outcall based), and based on the example of a one hour date, my take away without any other expenses considered (condoms, clothing, grooming etc.) was about $80. This is considerably less than I command now as someone who works independently, in another region, and a decade later. But, I was more than ok with those terms...accepted them and they worked just fine for me, and were highly preferable relative to the other work that was available to me at the time. Thinking back to that situation, if I could have finagled low overhead and the right incall setup, I could have charged $80 an hour and made out just as well or better (think no travel time to appointments), but goodness knows then I would have been labeled by others in the industry as a 'low end' ignoramus. Interesting. Long story short, sex work arose as a highly constrained AND also an ideal and flexible economic option for me. It took time, opportunities to connect with other workers, and reading related literature (not easy to find at the time) for me to begin to make sense of things....to carve out various options for myself, to politicize what it means to be a sex worker, and to challenge my own internalized assumptions about 'whores', while also challenging dominant social ideas about sex workers, both demonizing and infantilizing. The learning curve has been steep and complex. And, my life options, my formal education, my business savvy, my self-awareness, and my sexual development have evolved. Having made a foray back into the industry several months ago (after a long pause away, but still engaging in related activism all the while), I find myself in a different phase as a sexual labourer. I work for myself, set my own rates, and screen my own clients, and, over time, I've had more opportunities to become a part of the sex working community, to fight for our rights, and to benefit from the rich relationships it holds I also take time to remember the whole journey, the teenager that was me, and I have had moments where I've been struck by her ingenuity. Whatever I lacked in business or economic smarts, I made up for in volumes with the savvy that can only come with street smarts...off the cuff, quick thinking, and tremendous resourcefulness. Few people would take the time to fascinate over the narrative of socially and economically marginalized woman if she is working for pennies at the local Tim Horton's....with a Manager on her all the time like a fire breathing dragon...thankless customers, running her ass off, barely covering the rent, leaving little or no time for her to pursue, or dream about other life options. And, few would make so many qualifying remarks if she struggled in her sense of self, maybe even struggling with depression, or an intimate partner who abuses her physically, financially. Why? Because we gloss over that kind of marginalization: cuz she's working for the man, towing the line of normalcy....her purported "dysfunction" is a familiar, benign kind. [And, yes, I am gesturing at the role of internalized whore stigma in this thread masquerading as disinterested concern and professional rhetoric over industry standards.] So, why is it acceptable to make all kinds of qualifying remarks about sex workers who may charge less than others?....who may be following a business model that makes sense for them?...who may be working for a manager who takes a cut, maybe even an unfair cut of their earnings?...who may struggle in his or her sense of self. What about the role of decrim?...about upholding the legal rights of sex workers to switch managers or leave the industry without fear of retribution (providing legal recourse and a climate of social support for him/her to do so)....just one of a number of examples where we can make changes without fixating on the pathology of individual choice, or lack thereof. What about we make space for the understanding that there will always be sex workers who will never fit into the mould of the happy, healthy hooker, and to count these members of our community in as equally insightful and valuable. It's not too hard, considering that some of the biggest leaders in the sex workers rights movement are people who have been street involved, who are or who have been drug users, and, yes, trauma survivors. A number of these people, all women, are some of my closest friends and confidants. We do not all identity with the same struggles, with the same privileges and oppressions, or industry experiences, but we see each other as equals and colleagues nonetheless. It's also been mentioned that there are workers who really aren't wanting to do the work but have few other options. Let's fight for those increased options....while also recognizing that there are plenty of folks in the mainstream workforce who hate their shitty jobs, don't know how else they will pay their bills, and can't seem to get their foot in the door what with all of the nepotism out there. Let's advocate for their increased options too eh? When we dichotomize and qualify sex worker identity in the manner I've seen happen in this thread, there is tremendous erasure that occurs; erasure of the parts of ourselves, our private moments which are deemed unsavory, shameful, desperate; erasure of the ongoing vulnerabilities we experience in the industry(, because regardless of what we charge or where we work, we all experience a level of vulnerability); and erasure of the contributions of fellow sex workers who have and continue to fight for our rights. I love being a sex worker, and I see the work as skilled and honorable work (as my vocation), yet, sometimes, I still am left feeling like shit...sometimes I feel confused. I carry all of my life history with me, beautiful and ugly. But, hey, don't we all? Isn't this ok? What happens when, for some of us, it is not ok? ...what then is the role of totalizing statements about certain people's lives, their work?....does it not function as a mechanism for distancing?...for asserting a sense of personal entitlement and relative legitimacy? what happens when we resemble a stereotype?....what happens when we face the pain of resembling a stereotype? ...what happens to us when the person who resembles the stereotypes is held in our minds eye as a respected colleague?. Hmmm, what then?

After a private dance with one of the girls yesterday, she told me that BF is expanding the second floor to add a legal brothel area to take advantage of the new sex-trade laws. Girls would be separated into dancers and sex workers. She didn't know exactly when it would happen, just that it would be this year, and would be a one-year trial run. I for one would be interested, as long as they are competitive with prices and services. There's a lot of really good competition out there.

So I took one for the team... 24/7 agency? I was assured prior to the appointment by a man on the phone that it would not be a bait and switch situation after I warned him I would leave if it was. Well it was a bait and switch but whats worse is this girl was obviously not in a good place. She tried to make small talk and stuff and it was just really bad. I could tell she was struggling with addiction. She had that emptiness about her. The apartment was filled with smoke. There was weed out on the table. It was a truly Disgusting scene. I turned and left. Makes me sick how people can be exploited this way. 24/7 agency = very bad. Stay away.

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Other than covered everything or abstinence ...... I think the safest way is to have an incall right at the clinic. Shower in one room, go to the next room where the cot is and get a bbbj and shag like the dickens maybe, then go to the next room and pee in a cup and go home and hope the phone doesn't ring.

It happens. There are lots of meds that cause this unfortunate side effect. You can find a list on the Internet. It is important to focus on the cuddles and the giggles and the body rubs. Skin to skin contact is always great. The lady needs to be an effort to get results and the gentleman needs to have a sense of humor. As the population ages and more and more people take all sorts of meds, we are going to have to focus on more different ways to have sexy fun. Thanks for posting this item for discussion. It needs to be discussed. Valerie

Depends on how one uses said device. I get turned-on by invention. One cannot be jealous if a Double Headed Dildo (DHD) is used for the benefit of all human kind. A DHD is a very versatile thing...dog toy, swizzle stick, painting implement, egg beater...even the cops can use it as an enforcement tool. The great thing is it comes in different colours.

This is a good thread, thanks for posting it. I've often thought of asking an SP over but after much thought and reading different musings here on CERB, I've kind of got the fealing that in general terms only, most SPs would prefer a venue of their choice or 4 or 5 start hotel. Having said that I'm going to revisit the idea as I'm single with kids in college and a big empty house that I'm rather comformatble in and enjoy entertaining. Thanks again!

I have never entertained an SP in my home.... I am kinda thinking my wife would get upset lol..... that said I would love to have a lady over for an overnight.... we have a nice home so the facilities would certainly make it more enjoyable than just a hotel room....cook her a great meal....snuggle on the couch and watch a movie... have dirty passionate sex in lots of location that will provide memories for a long time. Not sure it would ever happen but great fantasy.

I won't speak for touring ladies, though I know many who've shared their stories with me. But in my personal experience, St John's tends to be a place with a lot of last minute requests. Also a lot of asked questions and not a lot of follow through at times. I believe the local fare has made it this way. They take last minute bookings, don't screen, take phone bookings, etc. Makes it VERY challenging for those of us with a different approach. Additionally, just because I live in NL, doesn't mean I live in St. John's and therefore these approaches don't work for me... Especially when I don't have my own incall location!!! I hope others chime in on this one!!!!

^^ this for sure. They can't just open up a new business that falls into a different licensing category and assume they are going to get it. The only city license available in most cities that can apply is a body rub license. Now maybe some cities are liberal about handing those out, but I doubt it. The city of Vancouver has only one place with a bodyrub license, the location is an mp set up (offers FS, bj, hj, etc not like ontario, most mps outside of ON do all services), which is located above a strip club (or used to be, somehow i get the impression the biz of the club is down and closed. Another bodyrub in the entire lower mainland is in Burnaby. No mps are going in and asking for bodyrub licenses, it is like a huge red flag, look what we want to do here, operate one of those illegal bawdy houses lol. still illegal until Dec 2014.

I am never 100% certain as to what will make me repeat with a woman. Sometimes it's connection/chemistry, sometimes it's spectacular sex, sometimes it's stimulating conversation...I can never really give a direct answer to this question. It will always vary with each woman I do repeat with, because each one is an individual and there will always be a different reason as to why I go back to see them.