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I haven't been around much in the last 5-6 months and I have no idea who has been mentioned in this thread but here are my 2(.5) Goddesses of the day, all for their own unique individual qualities: JoyfulC Lexy Grace ... ... ... LeeRichards I know, I know. Lee is not an SP or a woman but he can be my sexy Goddess any time he wants! ;)

Since you offered to pay and she accepted and said she would make the session up to you, then give her benefit of doubt she'll keep her word. The fact that you have already seen her 5 times indicates to me you have a connection. I don't really see a problem. I think it's better she was honest with you about feeling ill rather than attempting to work when she was sick which no doubt would have left you unsatisfied. Life happens and although not pleasant just is what it is. I don't see you needing to worry about it.

I'm with Angela on this. Especially since you've seen her five times already, you two must click. Maybe she thought at the beginning of your time she could provide a massage but just turned out she wasn't feeling up to it. Book another encounter with her. She wants to give you your massage. Treat this time as one of those "life happens" That's what I'd do, especially if it was with a lady I have seen regularily My two cents RG

It has come up in this thread already but text speak really grinds my gears. When people same the word come as cum, it makes me cringe and I do not understand why people think that is okay. Just contact me using nice and proper words with a hello thrown in there and I am good to go!

Thank you. You've included it all, and for those reasons I charge what I do. But I do feel that a lot of this is not taken into account by many men when they value our rates. I believe some men think "oh she is just having sex", or "playing for an hour", how hard is that? Above all of the business there is also the physical strength and stamina needed along with the emotional where with all one needs to maintain. Staying in a profession that many frown upon and deem immoral, one that many feel is for those who are less than, is itself a challenge, even when you like/love what you do. Quite honestly all these points = priceless. But yet we price it, so to those you wrote this for please appreciate this thread and those who choose this profession and offer of themselves. Remember many of us do choose:)

I know this is a question for the guys but I did walk in to an outcall and on a few occasion porn was playing on the TV and personally I dont enjoy it...I dont mind if he watches it before i get there but prefer if he turns it off once I arrive...just my opinion...

I sometimes don't add rates to my ads and I never publish my website, on purpose. I haven't published my website url at any point, it's only available for those who email me an inquiry because it doesn't feel right to me to put it out there. I prefer to have an idea of who is looking at my site; I'm not sure why but it's worked for me so far. Most of my ads have prices now but when I don't, I receive less responses but those that do respond are a much better fit for me. It really depends on the providers intentions. I'm never looking for same day or even same week appointments and having a guest contact me that is willing to explore who I am and what I offer seems to precludes a more satisfying experience for the both of us... cat

I'm very excited to be attending my first social! Booked my rm last week!!!!! Should be great, I hear they are! Xoxo

I agree with what the others have said. I had a similar situation. Only the lady was visiting me in my home and it was our 2nd date. She insisted that she wanted to stay. It was obvious she was not up to it. I tended to her like I would any other sick friend. (Blanket, tea, flat ginger ale, soup, soda crackers, Gravol, Tylenol.) She took a nap (alone) for a couple of hours. She declined the donation but I stuck it in her coat pocket anyway. The rest is history - we saw each other (professionally) for about two years. Always treat people with dignity and respect. Expect nothing in return. When you least expect it someone will do the same for you.

Temptation never tasted so sweet. Indulge in the fruits of life and allow my sultry touch to take care of your needs and desires. Tuesday 11-8 Wednesday 11-8 Friday 1-9 xx- Miss Scarlette -xx

So sorry about your little guy, but why not take it to a vet, there are those who specialize in exotic creatures.

hmmm maybe it's just time then. ohhhh! that's so sad! he's warm .. he's cuddled up in the warm corner of his tank on the UTH and he's right under the light. He's got water and I'm misting him regularly but he just won't eat. He's a cricket fan but I think now he's too weak to catch them. He used to love to hunt! I am headed to the pet store in the morning to see if they have some small mealworms, even though he has never liked them I figure if he's hungry and I feed him with tweezers he might take them. I can't watch him starve this is awful. thanks for your help xoxo

what are turns offs for me? 1. sending 50 text messages asking the same dumb questions (to which the answers were, and always have been, in my website, and the reason I no longer accept text messages) 2. consistently cancelling the appointment without any notice at all (once someone has done this 3 times, I no longer book) 3. (agreeing with some of the other ladies here) aggressive gentlemen (and I use that phrase loosely here) that think I owe them something for them allowing themselves to contact me in the first place, but having to disappoint them because they didn't read my availability 4. no-shows, boy, aren't those fun! especially when I have taken the time to not do something for myself and fit the person into my personal schedule. 5. those that show up drunk/high/both! Needless to say the date doesn't continue 6. hygiene - need I say more here! 7. anyone that does not respect the boundaries that I set. For instance, I do not and never have provided greek services, its prevalent in my website. So when someone is disappointed in me, once they are in the date with me, when they realize that I'm not kidding about not providing that service, it makes me very uncomfortable. Don't ever assume that a service will be provided just because you request it, chances are that if an sp does not state its a service she provides, then it doesn't happen. 8. not having your donation ready in the manner requested (especially if you have arrived with not enough, or only enough to cover what YOU think would be considered 'right' for 1/2 hour(which I do not arrange) or thinking that a gift you bring covers you for an extra hour). 9. sending messages that just say, 'hi', or really bad messages like, 'hey babe, you available to party/fuck'. First they don't tell me anything about you, secondly they don't tell me what you are looking for and when, thirdly I rarely respond to messages such as these. 10. asking for a reduction! I find this completely unacceptable and rude. Rates are set and not up for negotiating. Just a little of what turns me off. But I have to say, of the gentlemen of Cerb that I have had the privilege of entertaining, I have had a wonderful time with and had no problems with.

Why do we close our eyes when we pray, cry, kiss, dream? Because the most beautiful things in life are not seen but felt only by heart.

personally, I prefer that someone go through my website to see rates, and that is just a simple click on my ad. This way you can see my pics, and services I offer, and then make a decision as to whether or not you want to make a date or not. Just having in ads leads to some looking at ads that are weeks or months old wanting the same rates, when the services could be something more than they expected or wanted. I find its always best to check websites to see rates, this way you will have a better picture of the person you wish to see.

After a lot of research, trial and error, if I need to use a product I use Bon Vital Massage Gel. It has the workability of an oil and sinks into the skin like a lotion. It's also all natural with jojoba and you can actually lick it without your tongue going numb (many massage products have an additive that does this). The product is unscented and water dispersible.

I hate that. Saw an SP in Vancouver and she had a TV and DVD player on a cart that she rolled into the bedroom. I told her I was paying money to see her not watch TV. She insisted, I think it was pure laziness on her part ie if the video entertains me, less work for her. One of the very worst sessions ever, total waste of time and money. I can see all the porn I want at home for free. Maybe if some guy gets a big thrill out of watching it, okay. But it is nothing but a distraction and an annoyance for most guys that I have spoken to about it.

Or you could pm them or try calling them to discuss rates/details if you are not comfortable with text or need to be discreet! There is always a way to work around thing Good luck

Gents this lady is gem. I would recommend seeing her. This is her 1st time in Winnipeg so treat her nice so that she would come back. Booking was real easy as always with MGF. Location is Ok as long as it's not past 11pm at night lol. Lots of parking around. Real spinner lady. Very attentive and eager to please. BBBJ, MSOG, MPOS is on the menu for 1hr. Soft skin, great view from behind and to boot there's a mirror on the foot of the bed. She is very educated and conversation is smooth with this lady. Pictures are accurate on their website. Looks:9 Service:10 Personality:10 YMMV

I agree with Angela and RG. There's obviously a connection there and a level of trust that comes along with that. Don't let the business side of things cloud the human, compassionate side. If this is her main, or important, source of income, and she's ill and unable to work, I'm sure she's extremely appreciative.

I often reply to comments on pics, and always respond to profile & private messages, but I would never find the time to thank everyone who stops by and visits my profile. Same with the birthdays and posting milestones ... how the hell do you people have time to keep up with all this stuff?? So... in keeping with my blanket "happy birthday" post to all members earlier this year, please consider all of yourselves "thanked" if you've visited my profile. hehehe ...

Two weeks ago I was in Las Vegas. But that was not the stupid part, that comes later. The day before we were scheduled to depart I noticed my credit card case was missing! Shift to high alert, worked the phones and cancelled credit and debit cards, major hassle but at least I was safe from rip off artists. Fast forward one week. Emptied our my carry-on travel bag and what did I find? Yep the aforementioned card case was hiding under a pair of used boxers. Doh! Well I guess better safe than sorry, but do I ever feel stupid!

Well it was late on a sunday night and I live in a very small town ... I figured I might get some quick tips here and I did! I have an appointment today at 3pm with a vet who knows lizards, but there is no "exotic pet" specialist in my area. oh good to know!! I did try the mealworms and he ate one right away but he did struggle a bit with it so I will squish their heads from now on. Gawd that's gross. uugghh... thanks for everyone's good wishes ... he already looks better ... maybe he just missed me!

NEW KiKi 24 year old (former exotic dancer ) 5'2 ft tall, stunning redhead, native, irish, French, Canadian mix, 100 pounds, 34C, petite,brown eyes, Bilingual. Monday Tia 9-11 aka "Tiaa.Lovee.x0" Pandora 9-4 aka "Pandora" Brooklyn 9-5 aka "brookynsfinest" Sabrina R 9-4 aka "SabrinaR" KiKi 9-11 NEW aka "Kinky-Kiki" April 10-11 NEW Avah 11-6 aka "Avah" Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" Riley 3:30-11 aka "Riley Parks" Amanda P. 4:30-11 aka "Triple Delight" Tuesday Tia 9-4 aka "Tiaa.Lovee.x0" Salina 9-4 aka "Salinaflower" Brooklyn 9-4 aka "brookynsfinest" Sabrina R 9-4 aka "SabrinaR" Mandy 10-7 aka "CandyMandy" Chloe 2-9 aka "XChloeX" Kandice 12-9 aka "Sweet Kandice" Kiki 2-11 NEW aka "Kinky-Kiki" Cherry 3-11 aka "Cherry Blossom" April 3:30-11 NEW Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" Riley 3:30-11 aka "Riley Parks" Sasha 4-11 aka "Sasha-Paradise" Wednesday Chloe 9-4 aka "XChloeX" Robyn 9-4 aka "robynxoxo" April 9-4 NEW Brooklyn 9-4 aka "brookynsfinest" Tia 9-6 aka "Tiaa.Lovee.x0" Cherry 11-4 aka "Cherry Blossom" Mandy 11-7 aka "CandyMandy" Kandice 3:30-11 aka "Sweet Kandice" Victoria 3:30-11 aka "victoriasct" Sasha 3:30-11 aka "Sasha-Paradise" Hannah 3:30-11 aka "Hannahxo" Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" Thursday AJ 9-2 Chloe 9-4 aka "XChloeX" Salina 9-4 aka "Salinaflower" Chasity 9-6 aka "Chasityxox" Brooklyn 10-4 aka "brookynsfinest" Mandy 10-7 aka "CandyMandy" Avah 11-6 aka "Avah" Kiki 2-11 NEW aka "Kinky-Kiki" Victoria 3:30-11 aka "victoriasct" Jamie 3:30-11 aka "Jamie-xo" April 3:30-11 NEW Samantha 3:30-11 aka "Naughty Samantha" Riley 3:30-11 aka "Riley Parks" Sabrina 6-11 aka "SabrinaXOX" Cherry 6-11 aka "Cherry Blossom" Friday Tia 9-4 aka "Tiaa.Lovee.x0" Kimber 10-11 NEW aka "sweetkimber" Salina 9-4 aka "Salinaflower" Pandora 9-4 aka "Pandora" Samantha 9-3 aka "Naughty Samantha" Tia 9-4 aka "Tiaa.Lovee.x0" Mandy 10-7 aka "Candy Mandy" Cherry 11-4 aka "Cherry Blossom" Avah 11-6 aka "Avah" April 2:30-11 NEW Victoria 3:30-11 aka "victoriasct" Bianca 3:30-11 aka "Sexy Bianca" Kandice 3:30-11 aka "Sweet Kandice" Riley 3:30-11 aka "Riley Parks" Nina 5-11 aka "Nina Dream" Sabrina 6-11 aka "SabrinaXOX" Saturday Brooklyn 9-4 aka "brooklynfinest" Tia 9-4 aka "Tiaa.Lovee.x0" Kiki 9-4 NEW aka "Kinky-Kiki" Amanda 9-5 aka "Triple Delight" Nina 9-11 aka "Nina Dream" Sabrina 9-11 aka "SabrinaXOX" Bianca 3:30-11 aka "Sexy Bianca" April 3:30-11 NEW Kandice 3:30-11 aka "Sweet Kandice" Riley 3:30-11 aka "Riley Parks" Kimber 4-11 NEW aka "sweetkimber" Sunday Tia 10-4 aka "Tiaa.Lovee.x0" Kimber 10-9 NEW aka "sweetkimber" Bianca 10-9 aka "Sexy Bianca" Nina 10-7 aka "Nina Dream" Sabrina 10-9 aka "SabrinaXOX" Kiki 11-9 NEW aka "Kinky-Kiki" Brooklyn 11-9 aka "brooklynfinest" Kandice 3:30-9 aka "Sweet Kandice"

Okay, enough of the chicken's breast, how were the dancers' breasts? ;)

All great points! I especially hate when someone calls books an appointment and then doesn't show.up...no phone call/text nothing!.just a no show I understand in life things happen and sometimes we have to cancel but its only common courtesy to at least inform the lady I personally don't sit around in my lingerie waiting for my phone to ring...I have other things going on so when I book with someone I have to make arrangements and get ready I hate having to do so for nothing argggggg a true pain in the behind(and not a good pain lol) I can honestly say I haven't really had that problem with cerb members Xoxoxoxo I love my cerbies

It is nice to be noticed, particularly after leaving a guestbook or picture comment. To me, a response signals approachability and friendliness, and definitely leaves a positive memory imprint. Sometimes it's those initial cordial responses that plant the seeds for future rendezvous.

Gentlemen... My name is Cherry. I've been in the massage industry for 6 months now, I'm loving what I do. I am 20 years young. My hair is long and Blond and my eyes are Bright Blue. I have a dark tan all over my baby soft skin with no tan lines and no tattoos. I eat right and exercise regularly which keeps me very fit and toned and flexible. My boobs are the perfect handful and you wont be able to wait to suck on my perky nipples. My bum is more than a handful and I lovvee to have it touched, massaged, spanked and crested. My Numbers.. *Height: 5"3 *Weight: 105 - 110Ibs *Feet: Size 5 - 6 *Boobs: 34B *Petite My traits.. Very outgoing, playful, sensual, erotic, naughty, classy, caring, educated, respectful, discreet and open minded. Some of the things my sessions can offer... *Showers for two *Reverse massage *Topless massage *Erotic nude massage *100% Natural Oil *Foot fetish *Outfits, Dress up (if pre-requested) *Some Fetish *Role Play/Age Play *Happy Ending I work Paradise Spa, located in the west end The most clean, classy and discreet Spa in Ottawa This week's Scheduled Tuesday 7:00pm - 11:00pm Wednesday 11:00am - 4:00pm Thursday 6:00pm - 11:00pm To book your time with me 613-820-8887 xoxoxox

Anything that reeks of entitlement or bad boundaries. Guys who leap right into grovelling or submissive behaviour from the first contact. Until we negotiate a scene, I am not your mistress or your dom. I am your equal. I don't appreciate being non-consensually pulled into a dom/sub dynamic or a potential client trying to start a scene with me over email by being all subby and expecting me to respond all domly like. Save it for when I've agreed to see you and we're in the same room. Being disingenuous about why you want certain activities when we're negotiating. If you really want a certain act or activity because it turns you on, just be honest about it. Don't try and convince me that you just want to do it for my pleasure if I've already told you that I prefer something else. I'm very happy to roleplay being really into your kink and "forcing" you to do it once we're in session, but if you can't be honest and straight forward before we start playing it's off putting. Insisting on discussing the details of our session by phone, when I've made it clear I prefer email for that. I have a detailed email form on my site for a reason, and having the specifics about your kinks, experience level, clothing preferences, fantasies etc in writing is really important for me, so that I can go back and review that information before you arrive. Everyone I see wants something different and the details are usually very important to creating a hot scene. And since I book most sessions well in advance, the odds that I'm going to remember every important detail is pretty slim if we planned everything by phone.

You're right of course. Rhinos are critically endangered. I'm just as dismayed by the killing of elephants for their ivory, particularly because of the elaborate social behaviours elephants exhibit surrounding herd-mates, death, and mourning. Let's amend and Canadian-ize my post: - To avoid an enormous caribou sprinting down my side of the street! You wouldn't believe how often this happens.

There is also the expenses associated with travel to other cities when on tour. No one has mentioned the cost of private medical and dental insurance. Lets not forget about a private pension plan. I hope that most of you ladies have these things covered? It is not easy living on just CPP alone. I am glad Cristy mentioned the physical and emotional costs. I am amazed at how well many of you ladies stay sane with some of the nonsense you have to deal with from society and some less than gentlemanly clients. I am pleased to see that some of you track your income and expenses. I am sure that Stats Canada and Revenue Canada appreciate your efforts. ;)

Hi there, This is an old story, and I like to think it's about spiritual transformation. I thought that you would like it. The Touch of the Masters Hand Twas battered and scarred, and the auctioneer thought it scarcely worth his while to waste much time on the old violin, but held it up with a smile; "What am I bidden, good folks," he cried, "Who'll start the bidding for me?" "A dollar, a dollar"; then two!" "Only two? Two dollars, and who'll make it three? Three dollars, once; three dollars twice; going for three.." But no, from the room, far back, a gray-haired man came forward and picked up the bow; Then, wiping the dust from the old violin, and tightening the loose strings, he played a melody pure and sweet as caroling angel sings. The music ceased, and the auctioneer, with a voice that was quiet and low, said; "What am I bid for the old violin?" And he held it up with the bow.A thousand dollars, and who'll make it two? Two thousand! And who'll make it three? Three thousand, once, three thousand, twice, and going and gone," said he. The people cheered, but some of them cried, "We do not quite understand what changed its worth." Swift came the reply: "The touch of a master's hand." And many a man with life out of tune, and battered and scarred with sin, Is auctioned cheap to the thoughtless crowd, much like the old violin, A"mess of pottage," a glass of wine; a game - and he travels on. "He is going" once, and "going twice, He's going and almost gone." But the Master comes, and the foolish crowd never can quite understand the worth of a soul and the change that's wrought by the touch of the Master's hand. Myra 'Brooks' Welch

My ad, allows a brief introduction to me. I then ask you view my website for additional information. Its much easier to keep all the details in one place - Donations, photos, email, booking form,etc)

Just like the other ladies mentioned...a simple click to the website and everything is there :) BJ

The reasons will probably be as varied as the providers. One reason might be because the sp feels it more discrete to discuss them one on one. I post my rates on my site but seldom do I in my ads. I want men to view my site before they book with me. After all, the point of setting up a site is to inform potential clients of my rates. services, how best to contact me and a little insight into my personality. So prior to contacting me they'll be informed. It does seem lately though an effort for a lot of men to take a minute to read , lol. In the end every sp advertises in her own special way, frustrating or not, she/he has chosen to do it for their reasons, which are important to them, so they should be respected. I have one service that I'll only give the rate via phone. I'm picky about who I offer this service to and want to speak to the potential client first. I prefer this for all my services, as talking to someone can give you much more insight than an email or text, imo. So inconvenient or not this is the way I want it:)

I believe the Bio tone oil has the ingredient that numbs the tongue making it highly undesirable if the massage is going further.

Interesting thread, thank you for starting it! :) As someone who has recently started offering massage services, I am very interested to hear what massage lovers prefer. I've been using a high quality cold pressed organic virgin coconut oil. It has wonderful properties, texture and consistency, and the scent is super mild and barely there, because it's totally natural. I also warm it up on the stove before using it, to make it even more enjoyable. I just love it, and I've had great feedback so far. I keep a few other various options on hand, and am open to suggestions, but so far the coconut oil has been a hit. It's amazing for the skin, including mine, after using my body to rub it all over my subject. ;) It's also totally edible (wink wink) and actually even good for you.

I think I've had all the stuff out there used on me and my preference is a good quality Massage Oil like Biotone. The stuff is about $13 for 8 oz or $54 a gallon and is available locally. Their lotion is also good. A number of MAs use baby oil and I hate it !! Some even use the scented stuff which smells like hell for the rest of the day! Although the unscented stuff doesn't smell, you still can't get rid of it unless you have 2 showers. I also get a rash from baby oil for some reason !! If you figure out the price of a gallon of baby oil you may find that good massage oil, or lotion if you prefer, is probably around the same price !! The massage oil is very slippery and is water soluble so cleanup is a breeze. It just plain gives a better massage. I don't mind unscented baby oil for the finish if that's what the MA prefers but not for the massage. If I visit an MA that I enjoy and she uses baby oil I will bring a bottle of Biotone on my second visit. Some switch and others just save the bottle of massage oil for my future visits :) My 2 cents, from a customer's perspective.

I am always complimented on my massage with which I only use a lotion. The one I have been using and like is KERI intense hydration, unscented. My experiences leads me to believe that most gentlemen prefer unscented products . I have very sensitive skin that seems to react to most oils and a lot of creams and lotions but this lotion works well for my personal use as well..

Hey ladies what is a major turn off when someone is looking to book a time with you ? One thing I absolutely hate is when someone texts me and says....What's up? Like really lol that will not grab my attention First impressions mean everything and I prefer a gentlemen being respectful and courteous when inquiring about my ......... For an example; Hello how are you or Hi I am .... and I am interested in knowing more about you and your ........!......so much better

I've had some people (non-SPs) look at my hourly rate with jealousy, the underlying assumption being that it's basically the same as a regular job with an employer, and I'm making my hourly rate x 40 hours a week x 52 weeks a year. I wish! But even if the market was big enough and I had the energy and emotional capacity to do so, it still doesn't take into account admin and marketing time, expenses for space and equipment, no paid sick days or vacation time, and the fact that no one is paying me for the time it takes to get ready for a session and then clean up afterwards. This is the most fun I've ever had running a business, but it's definitely a business with many layers and lots of investment.

My longest term regular has been seeing me for about 3 years now, when I was still living in Ottawa maybe once each 3 weeks or so, when I moved to Toronto he see me each visit (has not miss one!) When I was living in Ottawa I saw someone for about 16 months, once a week for 3 hours each time and about once a month for 6 hours or an overnightl...when I move to Toronto he would pay for travel and overnight once a month. Probably 60 times? But the most...God I have a regular in Toronto right now since Nov 2012...probably 120 times? At least once a week , often about 5-6 times a month. We actuallyhave meet in London, England when we both happen to be there for a dinner date. He is currently on retainer Since I started to tour the States, I supringsly have had one client from NY take a 4 hours train to see me in Boston and someone that will be flying from LA to Chicago to see me for a dinner date in a few weeks. (They know I am not LE since they saw me in Canada)

I have extended let's say from three hours as previously agreed to four or five hours on the spur of the moment during our tryst and paid advertised rates IAW the SP's website with no problem. Where I found it difficult, (personal problem) is when I arrange a three hour rendezvous with a new date and want the option to extend to an overnight if we connect. Every SP I have asked to consider this has agreed. However, 90% of the time I end up emailing my decision to go for the full overnight - a bit of a gamble from both perspectives but then she can plan and there is no hassle later.:) If I have the time and occasion to do so, I prefer conversation, some intimate time, a shower, dinner, more mutual fun/massage, sleep and morning sex with orange juice and Moet. In the end end I guess it is about communication, comfort level, planning and availability.

I never used to open the envelope in front of him and I never once had an issue. A few months ago there was a lot of talking floating around about using envelopes and some guys were posting (not on this board) how you could rip a girl off who prefers envelopes. So, I got a little paranoid I guess you could say, and I didn't like it ... but I am ok now because I realize that I have great clients who would never intentionally scam me or anyone else for that matter

Congrats Luckyme on your hard work! :) Many more to come!!!!

Congrats Luckyme on reaching your first;)1000. I'll look forward to your next 1000, keep them coming and thank you for all your contributions:)

Communication both verbal and written can play a huge part in the level of sexual excitement that exists between two people... some people, like Delilah, are experts in using words to heighten the intensity of sexual attraction... if you don't believe me take a few minutes to go back and read some of her ads. For me personally it is not so much the specific things that a partner says that make it sexy it is the honesty of the communication.... and the timing of the communication. When I am going to meet a beautiful lady and she messages me with specific details of what she wants us to do it can be an amazing turn on... it is not necessarily the graphic nature of the words but the knowledge of how those thoughts and images are impacting each of us. It also clearly sets the tone for the encounter and if it is with a new partner helps set expectations for both of us. Knowing what a partner likes and wants sexually is always a huge advantage. In terms of communication during the actual session.... the more the better.... if you want something I love for you to tell me.... if I'm doing something right... let me know... if it's not working for you there is nothing better than a dirty suggestion to help me move along. Often when people think of dirty talk during sex they imagine someone screaming in passion.... while I am fine with that if it is what floats your boat... i think of it being more about honest intentional communication of our wants and needs both before and during the session. If you want me to turn you around and fuck you hard from behind while I pull your hair tell me....because I will certainly tell you if that's what I want to do. As with most relationships full unfiltered communication does not just immediately happen... people tend to hold back initially until they get to know the other person... they want to make a good impression so they are careful in what they say and do. that's why I am a big supporter of having good communication with the lady before you actually meet.... then when you do meet... you feel comfortable.... the jitters are gone and you will have established a trust and comfort level that will allow honest communicate of your desires. Hey who wants to wait till the second hour of that first appointment to be comfortable enough to say that you have dreamed of exploring her amazing ass with your tongue for the last 3 weeks or that you want to look into her beautiful eyes as your cock fills her throat. I for one kinda think those thoughts are better said at the start of the session just imagine where they may lead. Just my opinion

First let me say I love a long passionate hug and kiss at the door before I leave... u want to gave that feeling that neither if us want to separate. That said I have had many wonderful sessions which have not ended with us hugging at the door... i recall one amazing session where I left with the lady lying naked on the bed partially covered by a sheet looking totally amazing and exhausted... i loved the idea that our fun had left her spent... we did kiss and hug at the bed and she made me feel like she hated I was leaving. Bottom line I want to feel like she would love me to stay and can't wait till I return. If I feel like that... i will be back. On a few rare occasions I have met ladies who are walking to the door almost as soon as we cum.... it a quick hug and bye... even great sex will not get me to repeat if I feel like a transaction I want the connection.