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I don't ask questions and I don't judge when I attend a gentleman's home ... but it's often quite evident if I'm in a room where a lady usually sleeps. I know sometimes I've seen attached gents and they have hosted my visit in a spare room. Whatever is more comfortable for them is fine... as long as it's clean. I have only once been contacted by a lady who was aware of my visit to her home, and that was not through any error on my part. He didn't delete his phone history afterwards. For shame! I am hardly the one to judge one of my gentlemen friends as vulgar or disrespectful towards their SO. Apart from what he chooses to share with me, their relationship is off limits. He's paying me enough to mind my own business.

far as I know those terms (except for SF/SS??) are accepted across Canada and in other parts of the world. Sex Professionals work across the globe, having a uniquely Canadian set of acronyms would be confusing IMO. I don't find anything degrading about the terms you've mentioned, and they are fairly self explanatory or easily google searched. Don't fix it if it ain't broke! :D

I can understand the fantasy of it, and I have visited gentlemen in their homes (although most of the time I believe the spouse was aware of our activities beforehand and it wasn't an issue). Personally though, I wouldn't be with a personal partner in my 'office'. That's where Cleo fucks. The other me has her own room :)

"the line" is in a different place for everyone :) aren't we all wonderfully unique?

Lol......I might be a little pragmatic about this but for those that use the excuse of, "it's disrespectful to the SO to do that" or "a home or bed is scared"......lol.....I'm sorry but if your SO is not fully aware that you are having sex with someone else, that ship has sailed......sorry to burst your bubble ;) I've hosted many times (for the reason that Ice4fun mentioned) but in a spare room. For me it's purely a matter of discretion and reducing the potential for problems. I get nothing in the form of a high from having sex in the same space as I live with my SO. I just like to host in my own space.

Not going to lie... I had to look up the word tryst lol As for would I? No, plain and simple... I would rather spend the extra and get a hotel room then to figuratively "slap my relationship" in the face like that. An ex of mine had 13 affairs in our bed... Maybe that's why my mind is the way that it is.

I wouldn't do that. Home has to be kept separate from this. Complete firewall.

How about: TPOTMLFS - Takes Pity on Toronto Maple Leafs Fans lol

I am a minimalist, I always keep what is really important to me. ask: Is this important to me? Will I use it again? Have I used in 1 year? If not, will others benefit from it as a donation? If not 100% sure, then I will keep it one more year. I do not like "stuff", counters cleared, few boxes in the closet or garage...that is all! I see when stuff when shopping, and ask myself, how can I use it? Where would it go? And If I cant answer this, then I say wait a week, and if I still want it, then will go get it. This way it is not just an impulse buy. GOOD LUCK!!

How About CGOTD Cerb Goddess Of The Day KCC Kissing Cuddling Conversation WCNOBGTSH Would Crawl Naked Over Broken Glass To See Her MMWITK Makes Me Weak In The Knees LBMAM Likes Bald Middle Aged Men A few made up ramblings RG :-)

Non-judgemental is a quality I value in a lady and one that helps me to decide to repeat with her or not.

This is a BIG no no, imo. Have I, I'm sure. I do visit residences and on some occasions I could tell it was a spare bedroom, on others it was "their" room and yes I was uncomfortable but did. If the bed were mine and it was my spouse or mate and they shared my bed, it'd be not good! I think if a gent was going to invite an sp to their home it best to keep their "spot" separate from the sp's "spot", but that's just me:)

I can only speak for myself but this is something I could never do. I consider the bed that I share with my SO sacred to just the two of us. We all have our reasons for doing what we do but this is something that is way too risky.

Ice cream! But if I wish for Neapolitan, does that count as all three wishes? :(

I myself have a couple of reasons, but one is similar to the above. I want to know who I am talking to, and who i am giving the info to. This is also why i won't 'put it in writing' so to speak, so not in pms, texts or emails. Gender, sobriety, and sincerity are far more obvious in a phone conversation, to me, and is how i screen. If the person doesn't sound right, there is no need to proceed. Not having $$ in the ads means they have to call, and that gives me insight into them. Also, many many many ad posting sites prohibit posting services, therefore there is no point in posting rates that are based on those services. Maybe the sp can post 'rates start at 100" but typically, according to the rules of the majority of ad sites out there, they can't post rates for FS, bjs, half hour FS GFE, or whatever combination of things. The fact that some sps do post all that info is neither here nor there if the sp in question is a rule follower, and/or has had ads deleted (paid for ads) due to breaking the rules. she is unlikely to continue to break the rules, she would rather have the ad up, and risk someone being too nervous to contact her for the info. And if you are too nervous to contact just to ask about a rate, then are you going to be too nervous to show up after booking an appt? Because skittish clients are not fun if they don't show up lol. So don't dismiss the ones who don't post a rate. Let's face it, there are a lot of rates posted in ads. Rates do NOT vary significantly, not enough that it matters that much if someone you call is not going to be more than 20-50 different than the ad rates you've already seen. Don't let a price decide for you who to see either, there are a lot of factors that make one sp more attractive than another, but personally to me if someone is only choosing me because my rate is 20 less than the other 10 sps ads he's seen, then that is not the guy I want to see. I want the guy who sees the ad, talks to me, and then decides that even tho my rate is 20 higher than the other 10 ads he saw, he still wants to take a chance on coming to see me. Based on who i am and what i offer, and our conversation.

So, let's say you're stuck on a tropical desert island. Just to add a little background ambiance, you were sightseeing on a small fishing vessel. Suddenly, a major sea storm blew in from nowhere and the dang boat sunk. So sorry, no refunds. You, the lone survivor, were washed up on shore during the night. Don't know why you were sightseeing during the night, but what the hell - this is just setting the scene. In the morning, you wake up in a daze, face-down in the sand. Mmmmm...sand. Ptuooeee..spit..spit..spit. You pick the sand crabs off your nipples and other parts (ouch ouch ouch) and stagger to your feet. Your clothes have mysteriously washed away to a bare minimum. Good thing too, cuz it's starting to get pretty hot. Under the brilliant sun, you wander along the beachfront hoping to find a telephone or convenience store. You come across a banged-up brass vase. "Well", you say to yourself, "it ain't a telephone, but it might make a nice souvenir for the coffee table". You're obviously not thinking clearly yet, because there ain't a coffee table in sight! You decide to pause and shine the artifact with the scant remnants of your clothing. With each slow, deliberate stroke the object vibrates and hums with increasing intensity. You linger and stroke and pay very close attention when rubbing the top of the vase. To your amazement, the top pops off and a wonderous, creamy vapour spurts and pours forth. In front of you stands a vision of joyous, incredible beauty. The creature introduces itself with a combination of dignity and sensuality that defies gravity (ok, screwy metaphor). It also gracefully offers a gift of 3 wishes - with restrictions naturally (the creature mentions something about no Greek): Ixnay on wishing for more ishesway Don't try to bring back the dead - they stink ....other than that - you're good to go. Don't forget you're on a desert island, no coffee table, no telephone, no boat, no clothes, no food or water.... What are your 3 wishes master?

Love, loved this girls voice, I hope you will as well. If you haven't heard of her yet I'm sure you will soon. If you have a clip, video or picture of someone or something you find amazing feel free to post it here, it can be a new thread for " amazing finds/talent/people/things:) more amazing:) http://www.buzzfeed.com/rachelzarrell/12-amazing-before-and-after-pictures-of-rescue-dogs-show-jus http://seriouslyamazing.si.edu/

instead may I suggest DF, dream fulfiller or EXP, extreme pleasure provider

Anything like furniture, household items that still work, clothing (that is wearable, ) ask your local shelter if they can take donations of usable articles. This way, someone starting on their own again may be able to benefit from what you don't need :) I did a purge a couple of years ago, and man, was I surprised at some of the 'things' I held on to. Sure, sentimental family things, yes, absolutely I held on to, but stuff from my college days, that stuff went. I gave duplicates of things to a local shelter and boy were they glad to get it. (I had two kitchens in my house, so they got everything from one!) It will feel good when you realize what you can actually live without.

http://www.ctvnews.ca/canada/beloved-canadian-author-farley-mowat-dead-at-92-1.1810522 RG

I prefer the recycling route as well. Find the people who pick these things up, or will take the drop offs like thrift shops, family shelters, food banks, women's centres, seniors centres, and retirement homes will probably like the books, as well as useful things. If you aren't looking to make a profit on stuff, there will always be someone who can use it. Even the dumps in certain areas have recyclable places, where good used items can be picked up for 'nearly free' and gives it a chance to go to a new home, while you personally only have to take it to one place.

I try to purge at least once a year. If I have not used something in the past 12 months. I get rid of it. With the exception of family heirlooms -- they stay for ever. Speaking of which -- May is time for my next purge. ;)

A man who knows how to pay special attention to my feet or belly will have me eating out of his hand. But that said, I must admit that I'm often disappointed by those who approach me and announce that they have a foot fetish. When they do follow through (which is rare), they usually expect to get off super cheap (if not free). They often start off with a demand for a pic of my feet. Unfortunately, it rarely works out with guys who tell me they have a foot fetish, but that's certainly not because I'm not responsive to sensual attention to my feet!

GWG - girl with glasses lmfao ...

She has new pics they are super hot

Awww.... Why can't we just all get along, like them!! :)

I feel that some fantasy's should remain as a fantasy. Personally, I would decline a visit to a married man's home, or especially to the marriage bed. I have had a client here and there say that line " I think of you when I make love to my wife" and well it certainly does not get me wet upon hearing that, if anything it turns me off. I am not here to ruin or interfere with a marriage, but to allow gent's to have their needs met in a discrete manner. I feel for some marriages that I have helped them stay together happier, as they will far less chance of being caught running around. For this reason, booking is done at my location. It is not as personal this way, and wont feel the need to wash the quilt away after.

Personally, I really don't see the point. I never had an urge to do something like this. Also, this opens up the possibility of not keeping things discreet. The other reason would be that I would have to make the bed afterwards and that very act would get me busted ..... bed making is not my strong suit :-)

I just lost someone really close. I would go for this too.

Well maybe I will go see her guys but I'm not permitted to write a recco so someone better move on this.... :biggrin:

hurting someone can be as easy as throwing a stone in the sea . but do you have any idea how deep that stone can go ? the tongue is a small thing , but what enormous damage it can do . sometimes the easiest way to solve a problem , is to stop participating in the problem .

Hard to believe that such a young person can have so much old sole.

I do entertain SP's in my home but I am single so my comment probably does not count. But I will give it any way. I do not think I could do something like that. It is totally disrespectful to the SO. Not to mention, you are just asking to get caught. That sounds like one big world of hurt. IMHO....

Meg, you care, you share, you're sexy and beautiful and you give of yourself to this community. You're up front when required, supportive and full of life. Thanks for everything and can't wait for the next 1000!

Oh, I agree, RG! One of the hardest things to get rid of is books. You see all these people online pontificating about how they prefer the feel of *real* books to ebooks. Where are these people when it comes time to adopt some??? Many of my books are from the 70s, 80s, 90s -- politics, economy, reference, predictions of future trends (that mostly ended up being wrong!) -- but stuff that's definitely no longer relevant. So I'm having to recycle them. Tear the covers off and put them out with paper recycling. I never, in a million years, envisioned myself having to do that. But some of my books are still valuable, IMHO, even if my library doesn't accept anything older than a year. Someone online had a great suggestion, to donate books to the library that you think they should accept that their policies don't accept, just sneak them into the return slot after dark. Bwahahaha! I love it! Then it's their problem. ;) And yes, Jafo, I have learned my lesson. Once downsized, I will take your excellent advice and never, ever, ever let things get so out of hand again. I will get in a regular habit.

I agree... a great deal of clear information gets communicated with these simple acronyms. Now we might want to add a few more....lol CCG - CERB Certified Goddess LNC - Loves Newfoundland Clients Lol Just my opinion

white see through lingerie .. sexy with a tan :p picnic at the beach or dinner on a patio?

To go back in time to Oct 12, 2013 and knowing then what I know now I would have avoided Thanksgiving with my family. That weekend, because I was with family, well my life got turned upside down and I'm still dealing with it. Not to mention I no longer like or trust my family Second wish, long and short, happiness. Third wish, just keep it in a back pocket with the freedom to give the wish away to someone if I so choose. RG

So has anyone seen her yet? I may TOFTT but not for awhile since my work schedule is absolutely crazy right now. I'd love to have some feedback from other members in advance, though.

First, let me say that everyboby can run their business as they see fit; each lady can represent themselves in the way she chooses and do what works for her. On the other hand, this might not be a popular opinion and has the potential to offend some (not my intention) and I will try to do my best to explain my feelings in the most eloquent way posssible--in English; I do feel like these types of very explicit ads only add to the stigma and many stereotypes this industry (and the ladies themselves) have to face on a day-to-day basis and does nothing to cast a positve light on SPs and simply reinforces what is already perceived as a negative. Take this with a grain of salt because this is just MY opinion and I'll say it again, to each their own.

I get the whole not knowing what to say or when to say it thing... especially if it is with someone you may have just met or don't know too well. For me the secret is not so much in what the exact words are it is more about the authenticity and the passion with which it is said.... the lady does not need to yell " I want your hard cock in me"... a simple whisper in my ear that she can't wait to feel that first thrust would work just as well. In regards to timing I think this is really a matter of starting slow and looking for cues from your lover that what you are saying is working for them. Like all good relationships it's as much about listening and reading the body language as it is about what you actually say Just my opinion.

Spent about 3 straight days at the Fax recently, what a great club ! On my last visit I met 2 girls I never met before and they both just knocked my sox off ! The first was Nikki, a stunningly beautiful black/asian girl who took me to the VIP Champagne room for an incredibly hot dance...as I stumbled out of there I was met by an absolutely gorgeous 6 ft tall version of a young Christina Aquilera, I forget her stage name but she likes it when I call her Christina. We all went out for a smoke and there i was with the most beautiful black girl on one arm and the most beautiful white girl on the other...pure Heaven ! Here's my tribute songs to both girls, love y'all ! Additional Comments: Mystery solved ! Well, it appears I'll be doing the tomcat prowl on the mean streets of Vanier soon, since, due to some brilliant investigative works on my own part (no help from you lot), I've determined that the girl who I thought was named Gigi, was in fact, Zsa Zsa, and she has apparently assumed the new handle of Adora, and has been breaking hearts over at the 'Mate these days. Eastview, here I come ! ( I wonder what other treasures I might encounter while I do the stray cat strut thru the streets of Vanier ? Hmmmm.....) ;)

Well darling, based on a mature client that I had hear I was the queen of BJ I went to the status of Empress of BJ!!! I deep throat too and love it and yest CIMSW!! Then I ask the gentleman to stick one or more fingers in my pussy afterwards just to feel how that makes me!!! I LOVE IT!!! Truly and enormously!!!!

I think i have noticed what the OP says. I always click New Posts when i come online and then pick thru what I want to click on, so i always see the ad titles that are posted daily as well. I dislike titles that have really bad spelling and grammar, and i do have to say, most often, those would be the kind of ad titles he is referring to. They aren't graphic as much as they are crude to the lowest common denominator, and perhaps lacking all the prohibited symbols, would be most commonly found on what people derisively refer to as 'bp' ads lol. having said that i have to assume two things: crude ad titles are not against the rules of the site (unless they include weird symbols and so on) and that they are working for the advertiser on this particular site. In other words, tho we may see ourselves, us long time members, as being above all that bp crudity, apparently we are not as classy as we think we are? :sex_porn:

So.... to recap.... like most other businesses the business person does what is right for their business.... I'm guessing but that independence to do whatever you think is right for your business has got to be nice. Just my opinion

Barb's does a beef hip lunch buffet on Fridays and usually something almost but not quite as nice on Thursdays (plus a free pasta dinner buffet from 4:30-6ish). The rest of the week varies, always a meat (beef stir fry, roast chicken, pork, maybe a little pie, ribs sometimes, etc.) with rice or potatoes and some sort of hot vegetables, plus a veggie salad and a pasta/bean salad. It's a pretty decent variety of foods and similar to what the Fax offers. I find that calling just before the club officially opens is the best time to get a hold of someone -- that's when all the dancers are calling out if they can't make it for their shifts, so someone generally picks up.

Here's a big warm hug for Tracie, who's heart is bigger than this country. For all that you do in this community, this HUGz for you!