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The other night I had a date - well, sort of a date, well, I think it was a date. It was not a paid date or paid social time. And I was a little bit nervous. My personal adviser told me to iron my shirt. I ironed my shirt. I was told to wear presentable pants and shoes. I wore presentable pants and shoes. My adviser told me to get her flowers. I got her a lovely bouquet. I had tickets for a special event at the theater and because she and I live on opposite sides of Charlottetown she suggested that we just meet a half hour ahead of the show near the box office, so that was fine and I was there of course fifteen minutes before the appointed time. I received a text from her saying that she was delayed and would be late but that she would get there when she could find a parking place. I quickly texted back saying that when you park, let me know and I will meet you. A few minutes later there was no response so I looked at my text. Fuck. Auto-correct at work. What I actually wrote her was, "When you oral, let me know and I will meet you." Lovely!!!! Oh, shit, So I really quickly wrote back and said, "Oops. That was supposed to say, I REALLY mean park." Push send. Oh shit, what went was, "I REALLY mean oral." Oh fuck. Very slowly, I typed one letter at a time. I told her to stop laughing. We had a good time, and she liked the flowers. :) There was no oral.

i kinda think there are beautiful ladies all over the world.... sure I am a Canadian and I have primarily seen ladies from Canada but i don't really think comparisons are all that valid or informative... what I might live about a woman you might not... Rather than who us hotter... I'm just thankful for all the sexy ladies regardless of where they come from Just my opinion

Over the last few months I have noticed that there are fewer and fewer discussion threads, and even fewer recommendations being written on our nb page. I know there are quite a few of us not comfortable in posting publicly on here, but if we all don't do our part this discussion board will loose trafic with the lack of content. I promise from this point forward to do my part, and encourage you all to post questions in the discussion board, and even more so recomendations for any of these lovely ladies. The more reco's we have the fewer questions people will post about if they are legit or not. I will give credit where credit is due and thank Sophia from Suite escapes for Megan McLeod for posting regularly and answering any questions people might have. Let's all give a little time to this site. It's a valuable tool for everyone if we all do our part.

This will be old news for the seasoned hobbyists but since there has been alot of newbies visiting my profile, especially lately, I thought this worth a mention:) I've noticed in a couple of posts men mentioning a lady's incall and whether or not it was a hotel or home so.. This may not seem pertinent or indiscrete to some but please remember ANY details concerning our incalls is for us to publicize not our clients or potential clients. Even the mention of a lady having incall shouldn't be divulged unless she/he is openly advertising or discussing it. Thank you:)

Awww crap.. this is why I didn't want to have a going away party.. you guys have me crying.. lol.. I will miss you guys so much.. but I know some of you will be visiting me 'down south' in my new digs for sure.. so not good bye.. just see you soon...

Since you mention pursuing a relationship, it sounds like you are interested in maybe dating this woman, and that she's not a sex worker (or at least you're not meeting her as a sex worker, and maybe you don't know what she does for a living)? So, my comments are based on that assumption - my apologies if it's incorrect, though this should be mostly relevant either way. First, I think it's really important to remember that trans women are women. They may have different bits than you're used to on women, but that doesn't make them any less real women. Like having sex with cis women (cis means not trans), sex with trans women is going to be a unique encounter each time - sex is a dynamic that's created by two people together. It's okay to feel unsure - the important thing is to communicate a lot. Ask her how she likes to be touched and what language she likes when talking about her body. Some trans people have a lot of dysphoria that can be triggered by certain words or being touched in certain ways, so just use your words. If she has a penis, it may or may not get hard. A lot of trans women who have been on estrogen for a while don't get erections any more, without the aid of Viagra or other meds. She also may or may not ejaculate still. She may be a top or a bottom or versatile - definitely something to talk about. Roles may not be quite as easy to assume as they would be with a cis woman. A lot of straight sex between two cis people often defaults to penis in vagina sex without a lot of discussion. You should expect to talk a little bit more about what kinds of sex you two will have, and maybe you'll need to have a broader idea of what counts as sex, beyond putting your cock in a hole (or maybe you won't.) I think it's also really important to think about the experiences trans women have. Like all women, there's a real risk of violence at the hands of men, but in addition to male violence against women, they also have to content with transphobic violence. Recognize that she's taking a big risk with her safety by meeting a stranger off the internet, honour any safety measures she decides to take and be extremely respectful of her boundaries. Trans women are murdered all the time simply because people are uncomfortable with their attraction to them or because people can't see them as human beings. Call her by the name she gives you and use the pronouns she uses for herself (most likely she & her). I'd recommend reading this guide and checking out some other resources, so that when you meet, you can just focus on being your best self: http://www.autostraddle.com/getting-with-girls-like-us-a-radical-guide-to-dating-trans-women-for-cis-women-160269/ Be awesome, be kind and be okay with not knowing everything (but be willing to listen and learn!) Absolutely. Trans women are women, and no matter what she has between her legs now, or in the future, doesn't change that. Dating or having sex with a trans person doesn't change your sexual orientation in any way - if you're a straight guy who's attracted to women, and you find a trans woman hot, well hey, you just met another woman that you find attractive. :)

Please join me in bidding Carrie Moon farewell as she is leaving Ottawa this week to move to the Niagara region. Carrie was one of the first escorts I met back in 2002 when I decided to get back into the business as an indy. She has been a source of inspiration and generosity. She has often gone beyond the call of duty to help me and other ladies in this industry. I will miss her. (Thank goodness for technology). Note: Some people were asking me if Carrie is retiring. Just to be perfectly clear - NO Carrie is NOT retiring, simply moving!

Personally, I would like to see a hands up for those of us who are straight - clean and sober - not using. I like to go into a session making memories, with a clear head and and a head full of focus and attention. I don't think I am alone in that, either! Cheers, Ann

The short answer is yes, it is industry standard ;) I cannot speak for everyone but I would have to say that most, if not all the ladies provide the condoms and some are very well prepared; some of us have different brands and sizes (and flavours for CBJ) available to accomodate a gentleman's preference/need. This might be a little off topic but worth mentioning: If you were ever concerned about, for example, let's say size, you should communicate your concern to the lady in question and she might just go out and buy what you need (if she doesn't already have it) or she might tell you to go buy a brand new box (keep the receipt in the bag to show her you just bought the box of condoms). Most ladies will prefer option one as they will be 100% certain the condoms have not been tempered with or left in an uncontrolled environment (heat or cold). I always prefer to buy my own also because I am allergic to certain products (spermicide) they add to certain types of condoms and the results are not pleasant at all. Something else to consider: she might be allergic to latex so latex-free condoms will be nessecary... Flavoured condoms might be a no-no for intercourse as her body might not tolerate the sugar and that will cause an infection, etc. Good luck with your new quest!

Now before I open my mouth I want to say that I love Montreal and the Quebecquois and that this isn't a put down but a sincere question and observation and that there are exceptions, but in general it's my experience independently and when I was involved with services, that Quebec men, especially Montreal men never want to pay "the going rate" for an encounter, they seem to expect more for less when here.... why? A typical response I've always gotten was I can get it in Montreal for $$ so... But if that were the only reason then I'd think that the many other well travelled gents that call and can get it for $$ in Thailand, Germany, N.B or where ever would be saying the same thing?

In some cities, more and more hotels are going with key cards, meaning whoever gets the room has to go down to meet the visitor and bring them up to the room. In some cases, that key card only enables at night, so during the day it is freer access. In private residence, you would want it to be a larger building, not on the ground floor, with a buzz in entry system, ideally with a camera (this ensures you are not letting 2 guys in together.) You also want a spy hole in the apartment door. You will find that this opens up your availability and reduces your lost expenses (renting hotel room and getting all no shows, plus the monthly cost for an apartment you will have access to 24/7 30 days a month is priceless), Also ideal will to find one that has cable, internet, heat and hydro included, (doubtful lol) You will be much more private. re: hotels This isn't like a client renting a hotel room to receive one sp visitor. this is an sp seeing multiple clients, and using the linens for multiple clients. she is paying for a day, but getting less than 24 hours unless she books in for more than one day. She is spending hundreds of dollars for a few days, which could have been used for half a months rent of any small apartment. Even the smallest apartment would have more space and more possibilities than any hotel room.

Eh, depends on who you ask. Some people use transgender and transsexual interchangably. Others see a conceptual difference, though may not all agree on that difference. In my experience, there's often a generational gap in how the language gets used, with older trans people identifying as transsexual and younger trans people identifying more as transgender, regardless of surgical status. People who are not interested in surgery or hormones or who identify outside the gender binary (something other than a man or a woman) often prefer transgender over transsexual. Language is a complicated and nuanced topic that's always under debate and shifting within trans communities. I would always say, don't make any assumptions about a person's body or surgeries based on how their identify, and always respect a person's self identity. Best is to ask what pronouns are appropriate to use with a person, but as a general rule, you should never call a trans woman "he" or "it", and if you're not able to ask, "she" is probably the most respectful assumption to make. This depends on so many different factors, such as your perceptiveness, what type of surgery she's had, how her healing process went, what you might believe is the normal range of variation for vulvas... Surgical techniques for constructing a vagina and vulva are very, very good these days. Often you would never be able to tell that there had been any surgery. You really can't know, unless the people you've been with have told you. A lot of people have an idea in their head of what a trans person looks like, but like with cis people, trans people run the gamut from very feminine to very masculine, and aligning very closely or not at all with mainstream standards of beauty. I know trans women who look like magazine models and I know cis women who naturally grow beards. We get a lot of narrow messages about what makes a person a woman or a man, but in reality, we are all so diverse that there is no one set of defining features that can externally define a person. (Cis just means not trans. So if when you were born they said, "It's a boy!" and you now identify as a man, you're cis. Same deal for baby girls who are now women. It's more respectful to say cis than natural born or real. :))

Let's work backwards with what you wrote. You don't want to come across as completely ignorant. Treat her with the grace and respect you would any other woman and you're good there. Is the relationship worth pursuing? Like you said, you won't know for sure until you meet her so let's put that question on par with your chances when you meet anyone new to you. You're straight and attracted to women. Well, to put it delicately, work with what you know. And you already know what to do with a lot of her. And a lot of the experience will be just like being with another woman. Okay, enough with dancing around the elephant in the discussion. Yup, she comes with a difference (no pun intended). You can, within reason, make of that difference what you will. You may go into the evening thinking you won't really be up for dealing too much with that. As things progress, things will get hard. I mean, you might find it hard not to play there a little bit. Or a lotta bit. In my experience no woman is going to force you out of your comfort level. And in my experience, I've found the boundaries of my comfort level in this situation greatly expand as the evening progresses. All of which is a long way of saying this. You have an interest in this as demonstrated by you posing the question. Explore that interest. You might find that you actually don't have an interest worth pursuing. You might have an excellent mind blowing experience that you will thank yourself for in the morning. But most of all, you will have the satisfaction of knowing you gave it a try. There are no points awarded for that which you meant to do but never did. Good luck and enjoy!

I am in Newfoundland.... we would love some of that heat....

I do agree 100 percent with this post. Even though this is not always the case, it seems to be the majority. In these situations I often receive the same response that you have, or I get "well I will only be 10 miniutes" after clearly quoting my donation rates. (10 min session was not one I offered?) It's like going to a store to buy $100 pair of jeans. then telling the store clerk that you only want to pay $50 because you only plan on wearing them once.

Just my two cents ....and i'm not an SP so i may have no idea what I am talking about but I'm not sure ths is a Quebec thing.... I think there are disrespectful guys in all parts of Canada who would never think to haggle with other service providers but think it's ok for sex industry workers... Just my opinion

personally I prefer private residences but it depends what you can get for a residence. If its a small house in a subdivision neighbors are going to notice the extra traffic. If its more like an apartment complex there needs to be enough visitor parking or parking available close. The other thing to consider is can your clients be trusted. Something with a buzz in system maybe good to keep unannounced clients from just showing up at your door because they know where you are.

Well I slept in my jersey and put it away for another year. I am quite happy that Montreal won and hope they go all the way!

I have never been with a Ts or a woman so personal experience I don't have but an opinion I do:) I say- they are just another provider, and by their looks most of them are as sexy as can be so if there is an attraction between you and her go for it, put your inhibitions aside and just have fun. They are like anyone and want respect, cleanliness, well mannered people to contact them and to interact with. Straight or not I don't think that matters or should be a concern, what matters is you like this person as is and the attraction means you are simply attracted to that person:)

Well here's my take on it. This is btw just my opinion and that's all, I may be completely off base here For me, PSE is pretty much a menu based encounter. By menu I mean an encounter is focused just on various sex acts off a menu...and not just "conventional" sex acts (for lack of a better term) but "unconventional" sex acts too, those you would likely see in a porn movie And the focus is just on receiving physical pleasure, nothing else. And a PSE lasts as long as both the lady and gentleman can physically, which likely means probably an hour (not even that for me LOL) I guess, crudely put a PSE is about f*cking and nothing else On the other hand a GFE can be menu based or the encounters just unfold naturally, based on the chemistry between the lady and gentleman. A true GFE only works with some reciprocity from the man, he has to offer a BFE There is an affection between the two. Encounters are more than just about sex. It is about a connection between two people. And GFE date can be very intimate, yet no sex. A date could involve a lot of kissing caressing and cuddling, but no sex. Yet a PSE doesn't have the freedom for that type of intimacy. And a GFE could be longer, multiple hours, sleepovers and so on. A GFE sexually is about showing physical affection for one another, but it isn't just about sex That to me is the difference between the two. Although I do admit never having done a PSE, but I have had many wonderful GFE. Don't know if I'm right or worded it right A rambling RG

I must admit that I watch with mixed feelings. I would love to see any Canadian team (well, other than Toronto) move on, my heart is with Boston!

Okay.......If that is what you want...........I am game.......

Well, I have a Habs tshirt....perhaps some selfies are imminent!

...and I think for sure that I am gonna get bothered for something.. that I had nothing to do with. Little did I know that my boss was all about finding out what i did on my spare time... So as I was rubbing my huge natural boobs of mine all over his leg, I could feel his dick getting harder and harder by the second... So when I decided to pull his pants down.. COME IN TO SEE ME ANY TIME TODAY 3:30 - 11 PM SCHEDULE (PARADISE) WED MAY 14TH - 9 -4 (PARADISE) (ANGELS) THURSDAY MAY 15TH - 3:30-11 (ANGELS) (ANGELS) FRIDAY MAY 16 - 12-11 (ANGELS) 613-274-7073 TO BOOK OR PRIVATE MESSAGE ME MY SPECIALTY IS ENTERTAINING EVEN THE MOST DISCRIMINATING GENTLEMEN..AND I HAVE AN UNSTOPPABLE DESIRE TO GIVE AFFECTION I LOVE TO SHOW OFF MY HEAVENLY BODY..AND MAYBE YOU ARE IN THE MOOD TO ADMIRE ME.. BUT WHY STOP AT JUST THAT WHEN YOU CAN MEET ME IN PERSON, UP CLOSE AND PERSONAL AND SEE EVERY DETAIL IN REAL LIFE AND EXPERIENCE ME IN A WAY THAT YOU JUST CAN'T IMAGINE.. I CAN'T PROMISE YOU ANYTHING. ITS WHAT I CAN SHOW YOU THAT MATTERS. BY THE TIME WE MEET, MY PLAYFUL, CAREFREE, ATTITUDE WILL ALREADY HAVE WON YOU OVER. I COULD TELL YOU ABOUT HOW YOUNG AND TIGHT MY ENTIRE BODY IS, BUT SHOWING YOU WOULD BE BETTER. I AM IN FACT OFFERING YOU GREAT ADULT STYLE ENTERTAINMENT. CRAZY HOT WOULD BE THE UNDERSTATEMENT OF THE CENTURY! WHETHER YOU ARE THE GENT WHO WANTS A LITTLE TENDERNESS OR THE BIRTHDAY BOY WHO WANTS TO CELEBRATE ANOTHER GREAT YEAR OF BEING ALIVE, OR PERHAPS YOU YOU THRIVE ON NEW EXCITEMENT. I COULD TELL YOU ALL ABOUT IT, BUT SHOWING YOU WOULD BE THE BEST! SCHEDULE (PARADISE) WED MAY 14TH - 9 -4 (PARADISE) (ANGELS) THURSDAY MAY 15TH - 3:30-11 (ANGELS) (ANGELS) FRIDAY MAY 16 - 12-11 (ANGELS) 613-274-7073 TO BOOK OR PRIVATE MESSAGE ME ENTERTAINMENT IN A RELAXED ENVIRONMENT

That must have been Tiffany. She can only speak enough English to book a client to see her at a particular time. It's pointless to ask her any other questions. Shu's English is passable.

I just posted a few reviews (PEI section)! Thanks again for the reminder. Yes the maritimes is a small place, but it is still almost untraceable to finding out who is who. I know it is always on the back of your mind, but it is safe unless you let something slip. Thankfully I am not tied down so I have nothing to worry about :)

I found out MsManda was coming to PEI (this was last fall) and I HAD to meet her! Unfortunately my schedule was completely booked except for my lunch hour which only gave me a 45 minute window. I messaged her the morning of to see if she was available and somehow she was. I only went with the meet and greet so I could at least meet with her and wow! Her location was top notch and the company was even better, she has a great personality that matches her looks perfectly. When she was here last I was sadly away on business, but when she is here next I may have to meet with her for the whole day! If you follow her on Twitter, you will see what I mean :) After checking out her website, I realized she has a members only section! Looking forward to it :P

Not of fan of hotels by and large. Peace MG

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What makes me most comfortable? Total nudity. :) Okay.. got the smart-ass bit out of the way. I've had the pleasure of sessions in condos, hotels, and suburban homes and really have no preference. Where shall she be, there I shall find her. The only limiting factor for me would be if I needed to park an oversized vehicle. Don't laugh! It's been done. I once parked a bus in a driveway between two houses in Kingston with 2 inches clearance on both sides. My most recent condo visit had no visitor parking so it was catch as catch can to find an on-street space. The suburban settings were quiet neighbourhoods and, so far as I can gather, the women were sufficiently low volume that there were no neighbours with pitch forks in the driveway. So long as I can find (or fake) some parking, the location is clean (tidy is an option for me), and the setting is secure, it all works for me. My advice to an SP, were I asked, would be to do the math and figure out what works for her. Then when the timing is right, let me know where to be and I'll be there - with a grin.

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I don't really understand why people don't write reviews either! It isn't as if our names are posted anywheres. Then again I haven't written any reviews yet..... I'll post some today (In the PEI threads)

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Oh, no! Best of luck with the move and everything else, Carrie... and I hope you'll come back and visit us on occasion!

I have no idea what's going on here. Very strange.

You will be certainly missed pretty lady.

A woman's beauty (and hotness ;-) ) transcends the country she is in But if your talking about the ladies in this lifestyle, well there are many beautiful ladies. But as for down to earth and sweeter, keep in mind the legalities of this lifestyle and consequently this profession means down in the United States companions need to be somewhat more guarded, so unless a lady knows and trusts you really good, well no home cooking in the U.S. ...where as a companion in Canada, as long as she feels safe, just may invite you for dinner, or take your invitation for dinner But I do believe that the legal environment the ladies work in, in Canada as opposed to the U.S. is more the determining factor That said, I do know one or two or three or... Canadian ladies, who could easily be Victoria's Secret models, or PMOY or...but VS's and Playboy's loss has certainly allowed me to meet wonderful companions who have enriched my life A rambling RG

Carrie you will be missed in the Ottawa area, but you're correct it's not good bye, it's see you next time. Best wishes to you and to your new home!

I am happy I got to get to know you a little better recently. I am sad you are leaving that I am not going to have a chance to visit with you. Good luck in your new place & safe travels xo Raven

Good luck with this new adventure! I am glad that to me you will still be right where i met you and right where we always connect: on cerb. One of the very best people I've ever 'met' without meeting face to face lol

Here I was thinking that all the sexy CERB ladies were accepting my booking requests because of my dazzling wit, charm and personality to say nothing of my rugged handsome "Buddha like" looks but it turns out it's just because I am OLD..... lol.... sorry just could not help myself

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I concur with the previous recommendations about Sabrina, but would also like to add that if you gentlemen think she's only good for therapeutic massages, then that's not the case, she gives a truly mind-blowing relaxation massage experience too. So even if your back isn't killing you and you just want to be pampered, Sabrina can do that really well too. I won't go into details, but she can do stuff for you that your girlfriend has never heard of. ;)

It has been my experience to have an unopened box of condoms rather than a couple loose ones. It gives the ladies an added measure of security that they have not been tampered with. Some ladies will take requests if you have a particular brand or style preference. Don't be shy about asking the lady about her condom preference (or yours) when setting up the appointment. Remember to ask first. She may have an allergy or sensitivity to some brands, spermicides, and lubricants used.

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Sorry, but I believe that using a credit card will eventually come back to bite you in the ass.

Council has voted to include a new section for "BEST OF" threads and other "NON ESCORT" related "FUN" threads. This new section is so that the other discussion area's do not get clogged up with these types of threads and so people who are not interested in these can just simply avoid this area. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=357

Well darling, based on a mature client that I had hear I was the queen of BJ I went to the status of Empress of BJ!!! I deep throat too and love it and yest CIMSW!! Then I ask the gentleman to stick one or more fingers in my pussy afterwards just to feel how that makes me!!! I LOVE IT!!! Truly and enormously!!!!

Assuming different options are available with GFE or PSE will only make you mad when you find out these are not available from some ladies. GFE and PSE are "STYLES of SERVICE" and not actual services!! You CAN NOT assume PSE or GFE include any specific services. STYLES.... Mechanical Style: This means no chemistry and just what it is (Sex) no illusion of lust or passion. GFE: Girl friend experience (Does not include specific services) this is a style of date where chemistry is tried to be created, feelings of lust and passion. Usually includes kissing and a more intimate fantasy. The lady appears (and often is) genuinely interested in pleasing you and often enjoys being pleasured as well. PSE: Porn star experience (Does not include specific services) this is also a style of date. It is not a romantic/passion/chemistry type encounter it is like what you see in the porn movies (A little dirty and hardcore) SAFE PSE/GFE: means condoms are used for oral sex (and possibly DATY protection is used) - Some girlfriends and porn stars insist on condoms for everything too guys! CONDOMS are used IN ALL STYLES (Some people assume condoms are not used with these styles as often real girl friends and porn stars do not use condoms). DO NOT ASSUME THIS AS YOU WOULD BE VERY WRONG - IT IS UNSAFE TO HAVE UNPROTECTED SEX! You guys who assume services are included in these styles are setting yourself up to be let down. Just because one lady offers specific services (and possibly markets it as GFE/PSE does not mean the next lady will offer the same services. They are usually similar as a really good GFE would include kissing, bbbj and some touching and rubbing to build chemistry and fantasy. If you feel she is actually attracted to you and into the encounter she may be (or she may be VERY good at her job - just go with it!) Don't EXPECT any services - always ask or research first and if you show up with bad breath, rotten teeth, bad hygiene or dressed like a bum chances are you are going to be even more disappointed. In Addition: One of the ladies PM'd me to mention that one of the reasons ladies may not kiss is from being unshaven. A lot of stubble can do a girl some major damage. I would assume this to be true with DATY as well with some.