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The other night I had a date - well, sort of a date, well, I think it was a date. It was not a paid date or paid social time. And I was a little bit nervous. My personal adviser told me to iron my shirt. I ironed my shirt. I was told to wear presentable pants and shoes. I wore presentable pants and shoes. My adviser told me to get her flowers. I got her a lovely bouquet. I had tickets for a special event at the theater and because she and I live on opposite sides of Charlottetown she suggested that we just meet a half hour ahead of the show near the box office, so that was fine and I was there of course fifteen minutes before the appointed time. I received a text from her saying that she was delayed and would be late but that she would get there when she could find a parking place. I quickly texted back saying that when you park, let me know and I will meet you. A few minutes later there was no response so I looked at my text. Fuck. Auto-correct at work. What I actually wrote her was, "When you oral, let me know and I will meet you." Lovely!!!! Oh, shit, So I really quickly wrote back and said, "Oops. That was supposed to say, I REALLY mean park." Push send. Oh shit, what went was, "I REALLY mean oral." Oh fuck. Very slowly, I typed one letter at a time. I told her to stop laughing. We had a good time, and she liked the flowers. :) There was no oral.

I'm always amazed that wearing a condom for oral is even an issue anymore. Seldom does a client even realize I've put the condom on him until things get serious. I can't count the number of men who have stopped me and asked me to put one on when I straddle for little cowgirl. It's fun to watch them reach down for a feel to ensure it's there because they didn't feel it during the oral. A little planning ahead and voila! If a CoB finish has been requested then it disappears without them seeing or feeling it come off as well. I couldn't imagine a playdate without oral. It's the jump off point where I do my initial inspection and decide what's on the menu for the visit then roll into other activities. It's the perfect opportunity to get him suited up so no matter what our next activity is, we are ready to rumble with no time wasted fumbling with the wrapper or figuring out which side is up! My routine is so pat that I can feel the right side of the condom with my tongue but can't see it without my glasses on and fumbling for readers just doesn't keep my juices flowing... cat

I got to eat and enjoy awesome lobsters and share a great visit with my friend . Also on this first summer day I heard hum. Hum in my ear . The next thing of beauty I saw was the first hummingbird of the year . Yes life is very kind and good .

Yes you are right because a nice guy allows the woman to cum first;)

As is often the case, this highlight is cumulative. Not too long ago I had almost a week when all of my kids were home at the same time. The weather appears to have finally turned and today it was sunny and 22 and I was outside from dawn to dusk! I have had a couple of great visits with a close friend. My Canadiens won game 7. My hummingbirds although one day late this year are back and the three of them that I see so far are already scrapping over the three feeders. Silly birds. I have my first Cerb date in well over a year approaching. I am quite confident that a corner has been turned and that life is pretty darn good. Have a wonderful long weekend everyone.

I'm not sure you should be concerned:) since everyone perceives even the obvious differently. Sometimes expectations can be set to high even when the picture is clear, accurate and descriptions are exact, some will read more or less into them. As it's said a picture can paint a thousand words but those words are different to everyone:)

There is a big difference between emphasizing your positives and misleading.... of course a lady is going to sell to her strength.

I used to call myself a Nice guy. However, a little while ago, a lady friend told me: "You are not a Nice guy, you are a Good guy!". I asked what the difference was? She told me Nice guys are being nice, at least partly, because they expect something from a woman (consciously, or unconsciously), and when this expectation is not fulfilled, frustration may build up. A Good guy is nice because he enjoys to, he has his life together and is relaxed about it all. She picks up on this underlying vibe and is attracted to one and not the other. She told me that many ladies use all available signals (body language, energy, manners, how one dresses, etc.) to size up a man as quickly as she can. If you are, like me, a naturally quiet, reserved man, even though nice, it makes it more difficult for the ladies to differentiate between the Nice and the Good. Some are not attracted to the quiet guys, some are intrigued by the mystery. In my experience, the later are sometimes themselves a bit reserved and brainy, so maybe they have atomes crochus? Then she told me a secret: "You already have a golden heart and your life together. Simply work on being a playful (but not silly) bad boy at the right time and your social life will change forever". She had a mysterious but very attractive grin on her face while telling me this... like she told me the deepest secret of the Secret Women's Guild. :) Since then I applied myself to let this playfulness inhabiting my heart out, in the right way, at the right time. It is actually not easy, I am not quite there yet, but it is worth it lol. A companion told me that my new tag line described me well: "I am like good quality French vanilla ice cream, sometimes with exotic toppings such as spicy black pepper, silly jelly beans or sweet balsamic vinegar reduction". You know you should not have too much of it, but you can't resist (or that is what I hope anyway hi hi hi). Food for thought :)

For an in-call the time starts at the agreed upon start time. Which in this case was 4 PM. He should have had his clothes back on and walking out your door to leave your place at 4:30 PM sharp. If he shows up 15 minutes late. That means he has lost 15 minutes of playtime. Again -- He should have had his clothes back on and walking out your door to leave your place at 4:30 PM sharp. If he gave you a call to say he is running a little late. Then it is your discretion at when the adjusted start time and end time will be. In this case he was only booking 30 minutes. Again -- He should have his clothes back on and walking out your door 30 minute after he arrived. But that is just my opinion.

I know some women like to be spanked. But do most woman really like to be spanked. and if so, is it a light playful spank, a medium spank. Or spanking that will leave hand prints on the but. Just curious, I wouldn't like to hurt a woman, unless it really turns them on? But I could never really do more then a playful spank. Just like to get your opinion?

I was reading another thread in which the comment was made that the gentleman booked an appointment, arrived and while the SP was the lady in the pictures, they were taken in a way that "left out" certain aspects. Now my first comment is that every SP, no matter who they are, takes pictures in a way that plays up their best features and downplays others. Honestly, we as people have a good side and a bad side and features that look better certain ways. When a picture is presented, it is to entice people to delve deeper into the "who" and stir the senses to the point of wanting to meet. I'll use myself as an example, I advertise as a voluptuous woman, a BBW, rubenesque etc. I use those terms consistently and throughout. When it comes to my pictures, I focus more on my face than other areas because I believe the face is very expressive of both inner and outer nature (where in many cases it's the body that is the focus and not the face). Would this be viewed as misleading because you don't see the whole package even though the body type is very much presented? Or is it that perhaps with all the labels bandied about that BBW, Curvy, voluptuous etc. have a certain mental image and reality can sometimes be outside this? This is just an aspect I hadn't thought of and would like insight from those who are showing up at doors unknown about what constitutes "misleading"

Yes. Exactly. And, as said already, there are few who will resemble their photos exactly when met. That's the nature of photos. So, I would never hold a woman up to whatever preconceived notion of her appearance I may get from a photo. Unless the photo was taken by one of the few masters in the game, there's a lot about the lady that just won't be captured.

Very sexy but also very high rates.

Reminds me of a quote I like quite a bit: "A woman marries a man expecting he will change, but he doesn't. A man marries a woman expecting that she won't change, and she does." (Don't know who said that)

I believe a lot of the "nice guys finish last" stigma comes from women who have things to repair within themselves. People generally go after the person who they believe is the best for them at any given point in time. If you have esteem issues or something unresolved you may gravitate towards the person who can provide what you believe you deserve. As you realize and come to terms with what's inside, those who you are attracted to generally become better people with more right than wrong. Unfortunately confident people with much goodness inside tend to see the good in others whether they can see it themselves. This is sometimes where the "saving" trend comes in. Unfortunately you cannot help or save someone who doesn't want to be helped or doesn't recognize it within. As for the other, I think people should cum when it feels good and natural for them not at any given point in time. Why put pressure on when or who or how...just do it!

You sound perfect;) perhaps that's the problem. A lot of women like a chase and the guys that need fixing or need to be chased. "Nice guys" are often left because they are nice quite simply, they don't need to be repaired aren't a challenge per say and are complete. Not much of a challenge. Sad perhaps, and makes no sense but some see those arrogant pricks as a challenge and a challenge can be exciting. Although usually it never ends well. Additional Comments: I've learned when dealing with anyone, do because you want to, give because you can and expect nothing and you'll never have to question why or feel used or disappointed:)

I am really glad to see this post and to have come across this thread. I have turned clients away for being over 15 minutes late, especially without a text or call to let me know they would be late. I give myself time between appointments to allow myself time to freshen up and a bit of buffer time for unexpected traffic and other problems causing someone to be late, however more than 15 minutes and I wouldn't be getting the time I need to freshen up and then I would possibly be late for my next appointment, which is unfair for that gentleman who was on time. It can set back your day, and it should be expressed that while occasional tardiness of a few minutes is understandable, your time is valuable and needs to be respected.

If I'm especially excited, I find I can last longer with a cbj, and I'd certainly call that a pro. And while I understand oral is a fairly safe activity relatively speaking, personally I enjoy the peace of mind I get from having the extra precaution taken, which lets me relax and enjoy the sensations all the more. But I suppose the biggest pro of a covered blow job is that you're getting a blow job!!!

I wanted to keep to keep this lady my dirty little secret, but thought that would be rather selfish. A few months ago I stumbled across and add that caught my attention. We exchanged several email, and with each exchange I was feeling more and more at ease. We all get nervous meeting a new girl, and this lady set me at ease after on a few simple exchanges of words. At this time she had an in call location that was easy to sneak in and out of. Seems she had thought of everything. Once I arrived I was absolutely blown away by her stunning and sexy physic. Such a beautiful face, and her curves are enough to thrown any driver off the road. If I were to describe her look it would be a combination of girl next door with a touch of wild movie star (the type of movie star we watch all by ourselves with the lights off when no one is home). I have met this absolute gem on several occasions. And each time she makes me feel like a king. I will not go into gory details, because this classy lady deserves better than that. If I could meet this girl every day I would. And I spend many a moment thinking of the next adventure that she will be taking me on. She is smart and sophisticated. Educated and real! The only bad thing I can say is there aren't enough hours in the week to spend with this absolutely amazing girl. But I guess that isn't her fault ;)

Council has voted to include a new section for "BEST OF" threads and other "NON ESCORT" related "FUN" threads. This new section is so that the other discussion area's do not get clogged up with these types of threads and so people who are not interested in these can just simply avoid this area. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=357

Well, while we wait for the ladies to chime in, there's this. To me, the clock starts when I walk in. The hugs, the kisses, the chit-chat are all part of the experience and the shower time is also counted. More importantly, were I enjoying the pleasure of your company, time is up when you say it is. Period. If it's at the 29 minute mark or 39, it is your time, your business, your decision. IMHO, sounds like you met a Class A twit.

I know you didn't write this yourself, but perhaps you should stick to the humour and edit this part out...

I think I end up ingesting calories...... Slurp! :) There's more to life then calorie counting and burning. Eat and be eaten ;) Bon appetite :)

And if all that tells you to make contact, then take the time to talk to the sp. Not endless emails or texts with long stories of what your fantasy is, but a short chat to find out a little about her personality. Takes 5 minutes of your time, and may be the difference between a good time and a mistake. Every time i have read a bad review, i would go and look at the ad (in the days of CL erotic ads) and shake my head as if to say, well, what did you really expect. If it were me, they would have lost me at the ad itself, the presentation, the spelling, the wild symbols, and text spelling, and what seems like a million other things, including one line, phone # and 5 pics being the total of the ad lol., Sps who care about their business, care about how they present themselves from the minute their title catches your eye to the end of the ad. That's why we are so miffed when people call and they didn't take the time to read all the way to the end of the ad, the part with all the important info they are now calling to ask us.

Once in a while you come to realize that so many of our members really don't "get" the whole hobby experience, or rather, they understand that there are rules but believe they are somehow exempt. So let's help them. Let's give some handy tips to make this a more wonderful experience for all. This is a pleasant place so let's keep it constructive... and be aware that the rules shouldn't just be for clients, you can also add some helpful tips that may help a new provider too! Here goes: 1. Appointment time is at 2:00 pm, what time do I arrive? Ummmmm. Hmmmmm. What part of 2:00 pm is ambiguous? A 2 o'clock appointment means you are at her door at 2. Not 1:55, not 2:10. It's seems petty but when you screw up her schedule, you may be screwing up MY schedule. I may be the appointment at 3. I have things to do... and my schedule may not be as loosey goosey as yours. I may be using a very small window of time or I may have "commitments" that see me arriving like clockwork elsewhere. Regardless, when the little hand is at 2 and the big hand is at 12, be where you are supposed to be. 2. "I am awesomely wicked good in bed, and I often masturbate to pictures of myself nude, because I am that good looking. Can we negotiate a better rate?" In a word, No. Would you go to a restaurant and say, "I am a really good eater, can I get a better price on that steak?" Would you go to a lawyer and say, "I am an awesome criminal, can you represent me for free?" Would you go to the dentist and say, "My teeth are so bad that you should fix them all for $50!" A service provider gets paid at a set rate because she is a professional. She is good... no, not just good... wickedly awesome good, at what she does. Your part is the compensation, her part is the wicked awesome part. Pay the pretty lady and be happy. 3. Cleanliness is next to godliness. Ever step into an elevator and stand next to someone who smells like they have never met a bar of soap they liked? Ever met someone that looked like they were an extra in the Walking Dead? Have you ever gone into a bathroom after someone and wondered if they ate something dead? Step one. Go to the potty. Do your business. Wipe. Wipe again. Wipe again. and then, wipe again. Do the optical test. Last wipe. Is there any residue? If yes, start over. If no, then proceed to step two. Step Two. Shower. Clean EVERYWHERE. Rinse. Repeat. Did you pay attention to anywhere in particular??? Hmmm??? Go back to those places. Make em sparkle. (at this point I do suggest that artificial glitter is NOT necessary.) Get out of the shower. Towel dry (for pete's sake use a clean towel!)... apply a generous amount of deodorant/anti-perspirant. Brush your teeth. (if additional grooming is required, please do that too.) Step three. Clothing. Go to the place where you keep your clean clothes. No. Not the place where you put the stuff that you THINK you can wear again. The CLEAN clothes. You know that stuff that you just took from the dryer and folded nicely?? That's the stuff. Wear that shit. Uh oh... what if I have to do step one again?? Then repeat ALL the steps. Cuz skidmarks are not sexy. Febreeze showers are not acceptable. 4. I have to cancel, what do I do? Give your head a smack. With a hammer. Stop. Now take a pointy thing and stick it with great force into your upper thigh, avoiding the artery. Now, go to your car. Start it. Open the door, put your foot beneath a tire and have someone put that car in reverse. Cancellations? NOT COOL. We all know that shit happens. A death in the family. A sick kid. Decapitation with farm machinery. Thermonuclear war. Explosion of your planet from a death star ray. That shit is acceptable.... but you still owe the pretty lady an explanation AND a cancellation fee. When you cancel, providers don't eat. When providers don't eat they get distended bellies and look like kids from the CARE commercials. When you cancel, providers give not only you, but also your city, a bad reputation. This makes you masturbate more. Because you will never get laid again. Ever. You will over develop muscles in only one arm. Your clothes will fit poorly. People will figure it out and suspect you are the notorious masturbating king of cancellations. They will hunt you down and kill your family. Let's keep little Bobby and Joanie safe. If you make an appointment, keep that appointment. Your family will love you for it. 5. "I'm a little short on cash. Do you think she will notice if the envelope is a bit short?" In a word, yes. She will also point out that your penis is a bit short.... and that your skill level is a bit short... and that you cry like a bitch when you have your pathetic little man-gasm. Do you want that??? Do YOU WANT THAT, bitch??? Wow. That was a bit over-emphatic. Gonna step away from the computer and take a valium. BACK!!!! Where were we... yes. Shorting your provider. Not COOL. Remember, providers have special powers. They communicate telepathically. As soon as you walk out that door, she will know and so will all of her allies in the super friends. They will combine their superpowers and make sure that you never get wood again.... and if you do, it will be at inappropriate times... like at funerals or family gatherings or when talking to your grandfather or something like that. Seriously?? Give your head a shake. If you are short then GET the money and make sure you have it set aside BEFORE you book. You will have a wickedly awesome good time... just pay the pretty lady what you agreed to and enjoy! 6. Can I pay her in drugs? Hmmmm. Does your banker take drugs in lieu of money? Have you offered Rogers drugs in return for their cable/home phone/cell phone/internet bundle? When you get groceries at Loblaws, do they have a special drawer that says "financial equivalent in drugs?" You know the answer. "No, you addled-pated simpleton." Remember the distended belly part from above? Providers take cash because cash buys groceries, pays bills and looks pretty. Carrying cash will not get you arrested. Using cash is the engine that runs our capitalist society. "All you need is cash, cash is all you need." The Beatles sang that, I think. Your turn....

For the last 3 years that I have been a member of CERB. I have made many new friends, met many beautiful women, both SP's and MA's. Chatted with many people in the Chat Room. This has become part of my daily routine now. I wanted to see why you think Cerb is such a special place? I'll start off with my list. - It is a positive place where mostly good things are talked around. - A source of beautiful and sexy women. - A great place to have discussions. - Recommendations to help choose a woman to have an encounter. - A place for women to advertise and check out clients for safety. - A chat room to talk to people - A PM system to communicate with each other in privacy. - A great Moderator to keep us in line. - Senior Members to help the newbies out. - Lot's of jokes and fun. - Lot of game and sexy pictures threads. - Kind caring members that help each other out. What else can you add?

I don't think I would book with a lady if it looked like she was hiding something. I understand every man and woman wants to have the most flattering pictures of themselves they can but I would do everything possible to make sure when the door opened I wasn't surprised. If you advertise voluptuous or BBW then I can't see anyone being surprised when they saw you.

Girl Next Door implies someone local, that you can call up whenever you get the urge. Someone you can build a long term relationship with.

I mentioned this in another thread a week or so ago, but... I recently experienced a CBJ for this first time in a couple of decades and it was great. Felt just as good... to me. Realizing that everyone is going to be different with their likes, I think it's important to remember that sex is still very much all about what goes on in that grey matter between the ears. So, depending on the two people involved, the experience can be mind-blowing....covered or not.

I'm the proverbial fence sitter on this one. For me its what the dynamics of the moment and chemistry that takes place that matters, not the mechanics. I love the view though especially when gorgeous eyes are looking up at me.

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Now that is just a lovely tale of what could be a good start to a great friendship . It also sounds like you did everything just right . That advisor you have sounds smart . Just remember most women love flowers and hate wrenches and you will be fine . I'd say have her over often to see all your beautiful flowers . Dinner in your dining room surrounded by beauty . MN2 it may not take long to show her the walk in closet !

Well me, and speaking only for me, after a couple times, a CBJ doesn't do it for me. I've had a couple CBJ's but they were terrible, so I just prefer not to. That said I am not menu focused, and the ladies I see don't even offer a menu, except that they offer a GFE In one GFE encounter, a very memorable and great encounter BTW, we kissed, caressed, and snuggled. No nothing else, but it was a great intimate encounter My point is a GFE is more than the sum of it's menu parts There may be guys who like CBJ so keep it for them If you don't like BBBJ, it's a boundary, well keep the boundary But an encounter is more than just about a CBJ or not Don't know if that makes sense or not A rambling RG

I like that answer.

I suppose you could reply ... "Wassup ? ....My foot up your ass fucknut"

"Wassup" from someone I never met..:confused0024: Oups!! Didnt see the OP post the same thing! Lol

I have no problem finding ladies to visit with me in my home. The first date is almost always just a meet and greet (no intimacy). We have coffee/tea and a light snack. we chat for an 1.5 to 2 hours. This first date either takes place at my home or at a local cafe or restaurant. Subsequent dates are at my place for 2 hours or more. When I find one lady I like I see her exclusively.

Interesting response. Although more convenient for you I would think unless the SP knows you it would be unlikely she would visit your home/apartment. I'm sure there are ladies that would visit you at your place but I think you're limiting the ladies you see. Since most of my encounters are out of town, I don't have a preference where they stay. However, if I did live in a city where I visited SP's I would prefer condo's.

MrNice2 Hope she cheers for the Habs, bring on the Rangers.

Any question that starts off with, "Do women like..." is a silly question, because no matter what the second part of the question is, the answer, 100% of the time will be, "Some women do like it and some women don't like it." The only thing that really matters is, does the woman you're with like it? The only way to find that out is through communication, and with something like spanking, it's always a good idea to use your words and ask before doing. I like being spanked by certain people in certain circumstances. In the right scene, with the right partner, I can take an impressive beating and really enjoy myself (though I prefer other types of impacts over open-hand spanking.) But I would never want to be spanked by a client - that's just not the kind of dynamic I have with anyone I see. With my clients, if there is to be spanking, I'm the one delivering it.

The short answer is yes, it is industry standard ;) I cannot speak for everyone but I would have to say that most, if not all the ladies provide the condoms and some are very well prepared; some of us have different brands and sizes (and flavours for CBJ) available to accomodate a gentleman's preference/need. This might be a little off topic but worth mentioning: If you were ever concerned about, for example, let's say size, you should communicate your concern to the lady in question and she might just go out and buy what you need (if she doesn't already have it) or she might tell you to go buy a brand new box (keep the receipt in the bag to show her you just bought the box of condoms). Most ladies will prefer option one as they will be 100% certain the condoms have not been tempered with or left in an uncontrolled environment (heat or cold). I always prefer to buy my own also because I am allergic to certain products (spermicide) they add to certain types of condoms and the results are not pleasant at all. Something else to consider: she might be allergic to latex so latex-free condoms will be nessecary... Flavoured condoms might be a no-no for intercourse as her body might not tolerate the sugar and that will cause an infection, etc. Good luck with your new quest!

I really hope this comes off the way I mean it and not abrasive. I can squirt, and get as many ladies I am sure am asked this question. Just because I can, doesn't mean I can do so on demand. I an not a machine or a circus clown. If you choose to spend an hour or so with me and this is something that important to you it really stresses me out to have you try and make this happen. Please think before you try to make this part of our date. Women are human beings and as such please don't force this . Perhaps a gentleman can last for hours or have several fantastic orgasms in a certain time frame. Great, but I bet no man would want to be pressured into doing so on demand. If I may borrow RG's line. K's rambling's.

The clock starts once he enters the door, but I have been told by some SP's the clock ends when u cum. If I book for 2 hours it should be 2 hours. But my recent experience was funny she actually fell a sleep on my bed for a few minutes and snored. And she didn't want to get out of my bed because it was so comfortable lol. She cuddled after our time was over at her choice . I wasn't going to kick her out I thought she was going to fall asleep again.

Karina it is all up to you. You are your boss and you call the shots, never should a client be allowed to push you or anyone into a corner or tell you how a session is going to go. If a client books at 4 for a 1/2 hr appt then 4:30 his time is up-simple! If you want to give him a little extra that is up to you, but you ARE NOT obligated. Especially if he is ill mannered.

Hi Karina, Technically the clock does start on arrival and if the client would like to shower he should do so immediately before any type of intimacy takes place. It depends on the client. If you're talking, embracing, kissing and starting to connect, it should be a part of the time together. Another idea is to jump in the shower with him to make it a part of the encounter. Thirty minute appointments can be tricky and it sounds like this client would like a social connection as well. Perhaps you can suggest an extension in time together for your next encounter as that may be more suited to what he's seeking?

I enjoy some erotic spanking and was privileged to have been able to provide it once even though I was a complete novice. Trust is a huge thing once you get into the deeper arenas of spanking and people should realize this aspect. Also spanking is NOT just about hitting someone's ass. There ARE right and wrong ways to spank and right and wrong places. There are some areas that you need to spank lighter and some you can go harder with. I am not an expert but I have done some research and also experienced it first hand. While I may enjoy a spanking on my nice juicy ass, I do not like it on the backs of my thighs unless it's light. Like any form of rougher play, you need to approach it first with the mind then with the body. Establish some boundaries and trust and then enjoy the hell out of it. I would hope someone, as Savannah said, on a first meeting wouldn't suddenly just go to town with no prior discussion.

I have, it's not for everyone.

A little light playful spanking on the behind can be fun ;) However, there are a select few out there who may and try and use this playful method as a defence as they turned the playful fun it into something vile, such as slapping a lady very hard , because they are sick and are looking to hurt her and see the reaction that goes along with it-those kind deserve to be slapped right back ;) Keep it light and keep it fun ;)