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At the end of the day, no matter what type of business people are involved in, self employed or not, we all go to work because we want to earn a paycheck/make money so we can meet our weekly/monthly obligations (and then some). We all have the same motivations; I do not know of anyone who would gladly go to work 4-5-6 days a week for free (unless they are volunteering for something). BUT and here's my big BUT, some people are happy with only looking at the bottom line as long as it pays their bills while others care about much more than that: looking forward to going to work, loving what we do, feeling happy and comfortable and actually enjoying ourselves while earning that paycheck. In the SP context, some ladies will be happy to provide a quick, straight forward service to whomever. On the other hand, some of us rather offer an unrushed experience where a connection (and compatibility) is present. It's not just about the money. It's about much more than that. Two different extremes, two different worlds. There is no wrong or right here. We all have our reasons for doing what we do and how we get there is also very personal. As always, to each their own (and yes, I mean it just in case someone decides to insinuate otherwise). It's great that you have found what works for you and your clients. You (and them) seem to be on the same page and that's awesome! :) Many of the gentlemen who look for that connection are married or are in a relationship (and yes, some are single too) but it doesn't mean they are looking to get divorced or find a new girlfriend or a new best friend. They are simply looking for more than the exchange of fluids or sexual acts during an encounter ;) From a companion that finds one hour appointments too rushed and stressful and loves to establish that connection with her future patrons and cultivate the current one :) xox

I posted her review prior to this post it's in recomendation threads!!

You should write a proper recommendation on Lola in the section of the city you saw her in. Sounds like you had a great time and I'm sure she would appreciate a rec written, otherwise your great experience will be lost over time.

Here for a limited time, but back again soon :) Cum wish this beautiful girl farewell and good luck on her trip out West... No it's not for long but I know you'll miss me, so get in here and let me give you something to remember ;) A Brief Yet Sexy Description Of Yours Truly Ever dreamt of being with a runway model? Well here's your chance to have one sashay into your room and fulfill your every desire. I am a tall red head with breathtaking blue eyes and legs that are to die for. Heart stopping good looks and a playful demeanor that will leave you begging for more... Sexy Services That Will Blow Your Mind A phenomenal full body massage Body slides that will make you quiver and tremble with desire Reverse massages and the opportunity to run your hands up and down my smooth, silky bod Steamy and sensual showers for 2 Very open to couples sessions Love, love, looove catering to the ladies :wink: PM me for more information on my sexy services :wink: Availability And Location (Angels Touch) Today from 10am until 9pm (Angels Touch) Monday from 9am until 7pm (Angels Touch) Tuesday from 9am until 4pm (Angels Touch) Sunday from 10am until 9pm How To Contact This Sexy Temptress Call to book some sexy time with me at 613-274-7073, PM me, or email me at [email protected] ***Also, be sure to check out my recommendations: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...t=victoriascrt ***

Things that will make me cranky if you contact me and do them: 1. one word texts. e.g. hi 2. using terms of endearment when we've never met. e.g. hun, sweetie, baby 3. trying to negotiate the rate after I've said it's not negotiable 4. asking if I do bareback full service 5. Via email, asking if I'm available now Things that will make me cranky in person: 1. bad breath 2. dirty hands 3. body odour 4. cheese dick (this one will get you kicked right out of my incall because it is honestly the grossest thing ever and an affront to my senses, not to mention disrespectful) 5. asking for bareback sex 6. asking for my real name 7. asking for future discounts because "you'll be my regular" 8. washing your dick in the sink and getting water everywhere. If you're that dirty, just get in the shower. 9. sucking on my clit like you're some sort of sexual vacuum cleaner. 10. talking shit and/or gossiping about other providers

A photo is already a lie... This article by Molly Crabapple regarding photos is on point: http://www.vice.com/read/photo-real-on-photoshop-feminism-and-truth

Last week I setup a meet with Lola Cherie, she accepted my request to meet. I informed her fully who I was to my surprise she had agreed to meet. Now my nerves really kick in. Anxiety, fear excitement. As the door opened she greeted me with a gentle kiss arousing every sense in my body. She is stunning and captivating everything I hoped it may have been and so much more than I had ever expected. For almost 4 hours I had the most passionate sex of my life. The way she looked into my eyes and how her body responded to every slight motion I made. Her scent, her voice and her smile resonate in my mind and send shivers down my spine everytime I close my eyes. I fell hard mixed emotions and many fears all subsided when my lips were pressed on hers. Lola you are simply amazing, a rush of life in me a deep desire to see you again and again. Where did you come from? I am head over heels and I know many of you will say I'm silly but this feels real.

OMG! Going for a run .... Literally after being in a car for 13 hours. Never have I ever thought I would almost orgasm at the thought of running (I've already orgasmed once while running lol) sooooooooo good! Lol see you soon Saskatchewan xox

Just asking outloud, but would you also ask this of women you date, your SO (be it wife/CL) or your girlfriend, well anyone you are intimate is...or do you just want to restrict that question for SP's only. And will you provide the same information to the companions you see, not to mention your SO, girlfriend and anyone you are intimate with RG

To me, I hope and think it is the respect that is offered to the women. In reading some blogs, etc., from women in the industry, forced and negative reviews can be quite difficult and demeaning. My experience here is limited, but this format and spirit of community seems to minimize the odds of overt pressures on the providers to go beyond their comfort levels simply for artificial ratings. I know nothing is that simple, and there will always be people who will attempt to manipulate a system in their favour, but the moderation and stated mission of cerb seem to keep the discourse and interactions respectful. Probably more than was asked for, but it is an important aspect of this to me. :)

I'm always amazed that wearing a condom for oral is even an issue anymore. Seldom does a client even realize I've put the condom on him until things get serious. I can't count the number of men who have stopped me and asked me to put one on when I straddle for little cowgirl. It's fun to watch them reach down for a feel to ensure it's there because they didn't feel it during the oral. A little planning ahead and voila! If a CoB finish has been requested then it disappears without them seeing or feeling it come off as well. I couldn't imagine a playdate without oral. It's the jump off point where I do my initial inspection and decide what's on the menu for the visit then roll into other activities. It's the perfect opportunity to get him suited up so no matter what our next activity is, we are ready to rumble with no time wasted fumbling with the wrapper or figuring out which side is up! My routine is so pat that I can feel the right side of the condom with my tongue but can't see it without my glasses on and fumbling for readers just doesn't keep my juices flowing... cat

If I'm especially excited, I find I can last longer with a cbj, and I'd certainly call that a pro. And while I understand oral is a fairly safe activity relatively speaking, personally I enjoy the peace of mind I get from having the extra precaution taken, which lets me relax and enjoy the sensations all the more. But I suppose the biggest pro of a covered blow job is that you're getting a blow job!!!

Get em in Get em up Get em off Get em out That's what a 15 minute session is all about. Not much fun for the lady.

For me that is enough time to answer the door, let the lady in pour the glass of wine and we start the conversation, either getting to know one another if the companion and I don't know each other, or reconnecting if I'm having a encounter with a companion who is more a friend. I personally prefer longer encounters, now I like four hour encounter. And I have had very memorable encounters where roughly two and a half hours of that four hours were spent in the living room of the hotel suite with the lady just reconnecting and enjoying each other's company. So for me, and speaking for me only, a fifteen minute encounter would be a very empty encounter, serving primarily one purpose. That is not to criticize those that seek such encounters out, it's just not for me A rambling RG

There's much more to an encounter than an orgasm. Take time to have conversation over drinks. Spend time getting to know one another. Then go to the bedroom. Being intimate with a lady, and just my opinion, is much more enjoyable with someone you spent time getting to know a little. After sex, and you orgasm, continue to lie in bed with the lady, kiss, cuddle, conversation. Ladies are much more than providers of sex, they are providers of companionship. And companionship is special My two cents RG

REO Speedwagon Keep On Loving You The guy at the beginning of video has issues LOL RG

There are many indicators that an ad may be too good to be true and the picture is just one.... I have found that if you rake your time...and do your appropriate research... ie. read her ads, check her posts, see if she has recommendations from reputable CERB members than your chances of a successful encounter us very very very high and in most cases what you see when the beautiful lady opens the door will exceed expectations. Hey.... if there are no recommendations... and the ad sounds too good to be true....... think.... What would your mother tell you. lololol Just my opinion

And Andy had three brothers, the Brothers Gibb, better known as the Bee Gees Bee Gees Staying Alive and the song was used again in this movie http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rewHJSovcV0 because it was used in this movie RG

Glad to hear you had a terrific encounter. Excellent memories are part of what this is all about in my opinion. "I am head over heels and I know many of you will say I'm silly but this feels real." I don't think you're silly but--remembering the emotions you expressed when you first started this thread--I hope you won't mind if I presume and offer a few words of caution. This can be a healthy lifestyle and you may find some healing and happiness here both...but don't let your heart run away from you or you may end up hurting yourself. "Feels real" and "real" are very different things, and while it's great when we make a connection with someone here, and while that connection can be real as far as it goes, just don't forget the "as far as it goes" part. :) Take a few deep breaths, enjoy the memory and feelings, but keep your head and don't lose sight of the boundaries of these relationships. If I'm reading too much into that last sentence, then I apologize, and I hope you know I say this with the best intentions. Good luck to you!

I do my best to show myself as I am . I don't wear heavy makeup and photo shot my images at all. However just as Tracey mentioned we have sides or better parts and sometimes we work around this. I like to talk about myself only and as an example I have lean and muscular body . This does not really show to my determent but there is no doubt when you view my photos I am very fit. So I would choose clothing and posses that flatter the feminine side of me I would not present a photo of me in a posing suit doing a front double bicep, enough said there. Every lady I meet has a different body, face etc. and there are many different men that appreciate different looks. So best to be who you are and the right person that is truly attracted to you will find you.

It's all marketing, and while there are no formal rules for it, the terms, like in any advertisement, should be relatively clear: The ad is going to absolutely emphasize the positives and minimize those things that may be viewed as negatives by some, while highlighting features they feel are unique/special. I think that the only expectation beyond this would be that the ad doesn't actively lie - dramatic Photoshop, different person, etc. If someone is expecting anyone to be without imperfections of any sort, simply because they did not specifically state them in their ad, they are being unrealistic. No one puts "I like to take long lunches and occasionally check the internet for sports scores" on their resume. Yet, I think that may describe more than one or two people that I know.

Actually in my experience, the ladies I've seen, their photos were if anything, a reasonable facsimile of who I was seeing, if that's the right way to phrase it. But if I knew how beautiful these ladies really were, my already weak knees would have given out on the way to answering the door. Guess in a long winded way, the photos of the ladies I've seen haven't been misleading, unless you count the lady being even more beautiful than her photos as misleading. Some ladies do in fact hide their faces, or cover up tattoos. That isn't in my opinion misleading. Ladies may have other lives and not wish their faces, or tattoos or anything else unique and identifying showing. That's not being misleading. Just because a professional companion is offering and allowing you to see her intimately doesn't mean she has to provide identifying photos on the web where the whole world can see. If she wanted to do that she could pose for Playboy and receive compensation for the photos she provides Misleading photos to me are a lady who uses someone else's photos, not her own. But to answer your question Tracie, and with the caveat we haven't met, but with your photos and how you describe yourself, that is an honest reflection of you, I don't believe you are misleading anyone Now when I schedule an encounter and the lady meets me, am I misleading her with my avatar photo of John Malkovich ;-) A rambling RG

As some ladies have said, some of us like I do, entitle MSOG. I am multi-orgasmic myself and really don't see the point of preventing a gentleman to cum as much as he wants. But even so I like to spend time cuddling, kissing and talking between each fun and I am pretty sure U will enjoy this GFE time with the ladies who offer MSOG. We, both U and I or the ladies, R not machines so take your time in between each orgasms and enjoy and I do understand it was different with some ladies U have been seeing but like most said U R in the right place on CERB. Now U have fun but most of all relax and enjoy! Barbara

Um ... all a test provides is that AT THE TIME OF THE TEST that nothing would come up. STD tests aren't exactly while you wait, so between the test and visit you're have to be prepared to cover a loss of income if you're expecting celibacy between then and the encounter. I know with experience from the porn industry, some contracts require you not be sexually active between the test and the production, so that the test is kept accurate. I've been part of one production where the entire set crew had to take part. There's absolutely no point in asking for a test result because it would be inaccurate or VERY expensive to cover the income between the test and the encounter which is pretty much going to be required.

Shania Twain Man I Feel Like A Woman and this version :-) RG

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A few I have seen in the past couple of years: 1: Lady had photoshopped her pics to make her bust way bigger and her waist smaller. She was plenty attractive without the 'shopping so I don't know why she did it. 2: Lady airbrushed over all her tattoos. It would be ok if she had blurred them, that would not be so misleading. Giving the impression you have no tats when you are actually covered in them is not fair. 3: Touring lady using glamour style studio shots. When I go see her she has no make up, no lingerie, and coke bottle glasses. Hotel room is a pigsty. Paid top dollar and I consider that definite bait and switch. Contrast these with say, Victoria Jolie who was exactly as advertised, even wore the exact outfit she had in her ad. Or Riley, who has simple straightforward pics that are exactly what you get.

Well if you can Wham! us I can George Michael you LOL George Michael I Want Your Sex RG :-)

Yes the definition of the girl next store will vary from person to person. In my civilian life my relationships have been with women who didn't own/wear makeup, own a curling iron or even a hair dryer and who also have a bit of a hippie look to them. All were great looking and often had no idea they were or it just didn't matter to them. They were the girls in high school or in a circle of friends who didn't get much attention or interest and then 5 or 10 years later it was...yikes how did we miss that ? Except I didn't :) This might not be others ideas of the girl next store look but it's mine. Peace MG

Just to add my two cents. I thing the time set should respected on both sides. Half hour, hour, 45 min whatever. You're paying for time. Having said that i have found some ladies using the "do you want to take a shower?" as a ploy to reduce the amount of time. So i take a shower before i see the lady and reply "no I just took one, thank you." I have also found - more in the massage industry - that the clock in the room is 5 to 10 minutes ahead of mine. So I confirm the time when I arrive. lets all be respectful of people's time

I believe a lot of the "nice guys finish last" stigma comes from women who have things to repair within themselves. People generally go after the person who they believe is the best for them at any given point in time. If you have esteem issues or something unresolved you may gravitate towards the person who can provide what you believe you deserve. As you realize and come to terms with what's inside, those who you are attracted to generally become better people with more right than wrong. Unfortunately confident people with much goodness inside tend to see the good in others whether they can see it themselves. This is sometimes where the "saving" trend comes in. Unfortunately you cannot help or save someone who doesn't want to be helped or doesn't recognize it within. As for the other, I think people should cum when it feels good and natural for them not at any given point in time. Why put pressure on when or who or how...just do it!

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I was fortunate to attend the premiere of a really funny movie which was shot here in Newfoundland called The Grand Seduction. The movie stars Taylor Kitsch, Brendan Gleeson, Mark Critch (This Hr has 22 min), Gordon Pinsent, Mary Walsh and many other great Newfoundland actors /comedians. The movie gad it's world premiere at TIFF but opens May 30th across Canada. As I understand it the movie is a remake of a well known Quebec movie thus time with the story set in a small fishing community in Newfoundland. The premise of the story is that the small harbor of Tickle Cove is in dire need of a doctor so that the town can land a contract to secure a factory which will save the town from financial ruin. Village resident Murray French (Gleeson) leads the search, and when he finds Dr. Paul Lewis (Kitsch) he employs - along with the whole town - tactics to seduce the doctor to stay permanently. The movie is very we done and quite funny so i encourage you to go see it. Just my opinion

Duos are fairly rare here but today I had the absolute pleasure of getting to see Lyka for a second time, the thrill of meeting Electra for the first time and both at the same time. It was an afternoon I won't soon forget. Both ladies are exotic, sensuous, thrill inducing fantasy fulfillers. They put a smile on my face that I can't shake. I was afraid to blink in case I missed anything. I can only hope they find their way back here soon.

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15 minutes would not work for me but if an SP wants to offer it and clients want it.... then God Bless I am delighted they found something that works for them. Bottom line there us no right or wrong... there are as many viable options are there is people in the industry... do what works for you.

Plus some of the ones that seem to be indy are with some unknown agency and are a lot older than advertised. It is embarrassing for some of us to walk away when we see that the lady is a lot older than advertised. Some of these ladies probably do not know what was advertised. One agency seemed to have a group of 40+ aged asian ladies being advertised as in their early 20s and was using the new hotel in the west part of Wpg. For that reason I have not bothered trying any of those ads after twice regretting having stayed, but changed to hh session once there. One time there were 2 ladies in the same apartment and offered to have both for an extra fee - refused but the second lady did participate a little before staying in the washroom the rest of the time. Sounds great but was not that exciting.

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I'm new to CERB, joined because I've become interested in what this industry has to offer me, but have yet to partake... I'm still learning. But even a neophyte like me can comment that this seems like very strange behavior. Showing up on time for a 30 minute appointment, then wanting a shower? For me, a shower IS 30 minutes, and if my first ever appointment was only a half hour, maybe spending that time in the shower with a playful SP would be a good way to spend it. More likely, I'm thinking that my first ever appointment with a professional SP will be at least 2 hours, with perhaps the first 30 minutes spent in the shower and the rest open to interpretation. This, to me, would be the way to do it. I'm just foaming at the mouth here, but one of the things I've learned about the industry is THE TIME! SP's have schedules, with clients that will be depending on those schedules. Believe me, if I booked my first ever appointment, showed up on time nervous as all hell (which will surely be the case), and had it pushed back because of an inconsiderate jerk, it might just cause me to lose my nerve!!

It's standard procedure that a clinic or even your doctor's office will only contact you if your test results are positive. I have never been offered a copy of the test results, but I suppose I could get a copy if I requested. But for reasons mentioned above, the results on that piece of paper are only as accurate as the day they were printed on. Bottom line is it's impolite and 99% guaranteed you will be declined for a date.

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Welcome In answer to your questions: 1) independent versus agency; is totally a question of personal preference and what you feel comfortable with. I tend to go independent, but that is also because I tend to plan encounters well in advance. Agencies tend to cater to those who want to book that day, rather than weeks in advance. But if you go with a reputable agency, I see no downside to going that route. I also like independents because it gives me more control over who I'm going to see, and an opportunity to get to know them a bit before the encounter, whether it be through this board, or through e-mail or phone. If you go with an agency, you may be limited to who is available that day, which may not be known in advance, and you won't have an opportunity to talk/e-mail with them before the meeting. 2) tipping ... again is up to you. I often take a gift, or a bottle of wine. I usually tip, but not always. Most ladies don't expect a tip, but it is always gratefully received and i think it is a nice way to convey that the encounter was meaningful to you. 3) there shouldn't be any hidden fees, but again this depends on the provider. Sometimes there may be additional costs associated with particular services that are not part of the normal encounter. PSE services, may involve an additional cost beyond the GFE price. Best to read the website and ask the provider. If going with an agency ask the phone person. 4) definitely get a cell phone. even an inexpensive pay as you go phone from 7-11 is critical. All the best, and have fun. Porthos

I've offered them on two occasions. 1) When I started to be an SP, I was living with roomates and had a really limited windows to offer incall so 15 minutes was better than a 4 hours session 2) When I had two regular that were clock wise, to see me two or three time a week for an in-out BJ during their lunch break. When I was in Ottawa, I used to live really close to gov building office My own personal opinion? I don'T like them. That's when I felt "use" as a whore, prostitute so to say and not as a human being , someone with feelings that may like to also receive a little of attention, be it a caress, kiss, slow lick I don't offer them anymore and will more likely soon remove the 30 minutes appointments.

Thank you all so very much. I have gone through grief counselling it has helped immensely. Your all very right and I to have considered all possibilities of seeing an SP. Guilt, shame, pleasure you know the drill. My hat comes off to all SPs what you ladies do is remarkable. Look what you tried to help me with selflessly. The limits you ladies go to bring joy, excitement, relief and comfort to individuals is at the very forefront of any relationship between all couples. Who knows what the future holds for me, I will satisfy my craving for intimacy, I will one day let my memory of her fade. Move on with my life. Due to your guidance and experience if I decide to see an sp she will look nothing like my wife. Who knows maybe one will find me wouldn't that be a spin! This has been very releaving thank you for allowing me to use this forum as a conduit and for all the advice it has come as a much needed form of letting go. So very sincerely, BF

Mourning is a difficult thing to go through. Everyone is different and there's no one "right" way to do it. But if it's been more than a year since your wife died, you might consider joining a group for people who have lost a partner. These are often fantastic! You can find out about them by contacting a funeral home, and I'd suggest you do that rather than go through the standard therapist route, at least at first. In many places, they try to bring together people who are close in age, or people who have children so that there's common ground for participants. it really can help a lot to hear how other people are dealing with situations similar to your own. Finding a companion or two can also be a good thing because you don't have to get into a full-blown relationship before you're ready for one (and you're not ready right now). You can have contact, intimacy and a private, one-on-one encounter without repercussions. If you want to see a companion more than once, go for it. If not, no worries. Attending to your physical needs can sometimes make it easier to work through emotional ones. Go easy on yourself!