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At the end of the day, no matter what type of business people are involved in, self employed or not, we all go to work because we want to earn a paycheck/make money so we can meet our weekly/monthly obligations (and then some). We all have the same motivations; I do not know of anyone who would gladly go to work 4-5-6 days a week for free (unless they are volunteering for something). BUT and here's my big BUT, some people are happy with only looking at the bottom line as long as it pays their bills while others care about much more than that: looking forward to going to work, loving what we do, feeling happy and comfortable and actually enjoying ourselves while earning that paycheck. In the SP context, some ladies will be happy to provide a quick, straight forward service to whomever. On the other hand, some of us rather offer an unrushed experience where a connection (and compatibility) is present. It's not just about the money. It's about much more than that. Two different extremes, two different worlds. There is no wrong or right here. We all have our reasons for doing what we do and how we get there is also very personal. As always, to each their own (and yes, I mean it just in case someone decides to insinuate otherwise). It's great that you have found what works for you and your clients. You (and them) seem to be on the same page and that's awesome! :) Many of the gentlemen who look for that connection are married or are in a relationship (and yes, some are single too) but it doesn't mean they are looking to get divorced or find a new girlfriend or a new best friend. They are simply looking for more than the exchange of fluids or sexual acts during an encounter ;) From a companion that finds one hour appointments too rushed and stressful and loves to establish that connection with her future patrons and cultivate the current one :) xox

I posted her review prior to this post it's in recomendation threads!!

You should write a proper recommendation on Lola in the section of the city you saw her in. Sounds like you had a great time and I'm sure she would appreciate a rec written, otherwise your great experience will be lost over time.

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Things that will make me cranky if you contact me and do them: 1. one word texts. e.g. hi 2. using terms of endearment when we've never met. e.g. hun, sweetie, baby 3. trying to negotiate the rate after I've said it's not negotiable 4. asking if I do bareback full service 5. Via email, asking if I'm available now Things that will make me cranky in person: 1. bad breath 2. dirty hands 3. body odour 4. cheese dick (this one will get you kicked right out of my incall because it is honestly the grossest thing ever and an affront to my senses, not to mention disrespectful) 5. asking for bareback sex 6. asking for my real name 7. asking for future discounts because "you'll be my regular" 8. washing your dick in the sink and getting water everywhere. If you're that dirty, just get in the shower. 9. sucking on my clit like you're some sort of sexual vacuum cleaner. 10. talking shit and/or gossiping about other providers

A photo is already a lie... This article by Molly Crabapple regarding photos is on point: http://www.vice.com/read/photo-real-on-photoshop-feminism-and-truth

Last week I setup a meet with Lola Cherie, she accepted my request to meet. I informed her fully who I was to my surprise she had agreed to meet. Now my nerves really kick in. Anxiety, fear excitement. As the door opened she greeted me with a gentle kiss arousing every sense in my body. She is stunning and captivating everything I hoped it may have been and so much more than I had ever expected. For almost 4 hours I had the most passionate sex of my life. The way she looked into my eyes and how her body responded to every slight motion I made. Her scent, her voice and her smile resonate in my mind and send shivers down my spine everytime I close my eyes. I fell hard mixed emotions and many fears all subsided when my lips were pressed on hers. Lola you are simply amazing, a rush of life in me a deep desire to see you again and again. Where did you come from? I am head over heels and I know many of you will say I'm silly but this feels real.

OMG! Going for a run .... Literally after being in a car for 13 hours. Never have I ever thought I would almost orgasm at the thought of running (I've already orgasmed once while running lol) sooooooooo good! Lol see you soon Saskatchewan xox

Just asking outloud, but would you also ask this of women you date, your SO (be it wife/CL) or your girlfriend, well anyone you are intimate is...or do you just want to restrict that question for SP's only. And will you provide the same information to the companions you see, not to mention your SO, girlfriend and anyone you are intimate with RG

To me, I hope and think it is the respect that is offered to the women. In reading some blogs, etc., from women in the industry, forced and negative reviews can be quite difficult and demeaning. My experience here is limited, but this format and spirit of community seems to minimize the odds of overt pressures on the providers to go beyond their comfort levels simply for artificial ratings. I know nothing is that simple, and there will always be people who will attempt to manipulate a system in their favour, but the moderation and stated mission of cerb seem to keep the discourse and interactions respectful. Probably more than was asked for, but it is an important aspect of this to me. :)

I'm always amazed that wearing a condom for oral is even an issue anymore. Seldom does a client even realize I've put the condom on him until things get serious. I can't count the number of men who have stopped me and asked me to put one on when I straddle for little cowgirl. It's fun to watch them reach down for a feel to ensure it's there because they didn't feel it during the oral. A little planning ahead and voila! If a CoB finish has been requested then it disappears without them seeing or feeling it come off as well. I couldn't imagine a playdate without oral. It's the jump off point where I do my initial inspection and decide what's on the menu for the visit then roll into other activities. It's the perfect opportunity to get him suited up so no matter what our next activity is, we are ready to rumble with no time wasted fumbling with the wrapper or figuring out which side is up! My routine is so pat that I can feel the right side of the condom with my tongue but can't see it without my glasses on and fumbling for readers just doesn't keep my juices flowing... cat

If I'm especially excited, I find I can last longer with a cbj, and I'd certainly call that a pro. And while I understand oral is a fairly safe activity relatively speaking, personally I enjoy the peace of mind I get from having the extra precaution taken, which lets me relax and enjoy the sensations all the more. But I suppose the biggest pro of a covered blow job is that you're getting a blow job!!!

Get em in Get em up Get em off Get em out That's what a 15 minute session is all about. Not much fun for the lady.

For me that is enough time to answer the door, let the lady in pour the glass of wine and we start the conversation, either getting to know one another if the companion and I don't know each other, or reconnecting if I'm having a encounter with a companion who is more a friend. I personally prefer longer encounters, now I like four hour encounter. And I have had very memorable encounters where roughly two and a half hours of that four hours were spent in the living room of the hotel suite with the lady just reconnecting and enjoying each other's company. So for me, and speaking for me only, a fifteen minute encounter would be a very empty encounter, serving primarily one purpose. That is not to criticize those that seek such encounters out, it's just not for me A rambling RG

There's much more to an encounter than an orgasm. Take time to have conversation over drinks. Spend time getting to know one another. Then go to the bedroom. Being intimate with a lady, and just my opinion, is much more enjoyable with someone you spent time getting to know a little. After sex, and you orgasm, continue to lie in bed with the lady, kiss, cuddle, conversation. Ladies are much more than providers of sex, they are providers of companionship. And companionship is special My two cents RG

Well, all things come to an end. I've enjoyed my time here, but lately have been feeling a bit disconnected from the community. In short, things in my life have been moving me away from this place, and for the most part, those are good developments. I have many friends here, and I will miss you all. Some of you know how to contact me, and I'd be glad to hear from you from time to time. I've asked Mod to deactivate my account, so this will be the last you hear from me. All the best my friends.

REO Speedwagon Keep On Loving You The guy at the beginning of video has issues LOL RG

However, there are guys like me who have little chance of having a second shot in an hour or 90-minute session. So an orgasm in the first 15 or 20 minutes puts a serious damper on the rest of the hour. I like chatting, cuddling, etc. before and after, but let's be honest - the highlight is the build up to the big O. Once it happens, and you know that's it from the physical perspective of why you're there, it can be easy to get distracted and move on mentally to what awaits you next in the real world. That's why I appreciate it when a provider is willing to prolong it as long as possible. And that part is also on me as well!

Well, the situtation happened to me. About 2 months ago a gentleman contacted via text, followed a long exchange of texts and phone calls in which the gentleman shared the fact that then a year ago he had lost his wife of cancer and that he was married with her for 24 years and that since then he hadn't touched or made love to a woman and now felt it was time. He chose a date and a time and told me, on top of it, U will be my birthday present for it's my birthday that day. Since I am quite often a birthday present I ran to the store that day and bought him a small chocolate cupcake (I had asked him his favourite flavour), the day of the apt. When I open the door he was struck and said U look just like my wife and same green eyes too! I didn't feel strange at all. And he told me U also have the same name as she does! Only difference and it's a reason he selected me is that I, for one, deep throat and swallow and two I offer Greek and it was his dream to have both. He sometimes, still say I look like his wife and I provide him with affection on top of giving him great sex as he says. I personally inquire about him and his daughters and so does he. Now next weekend he's taking me for a weekend at Mont-Tremblant, if his daughter is ok (she got operated not too long ago). So just live what U have to live and enjoy Gloryhole! Life is to be enjoyed to its fullest I believe. Barbara xxxxooo

And Andy had three brothers, the Brothers Gibb, better known as the Bee Gees Bee Gees Staying Alive and the song was used again in this movie http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rewHJSovcV0 because it was used in this movie RG

What a coicidence this thread comes up... A guy I had seen before I was an escort got in touch with me again tonight asking about seeing me...last time I told him I would only see him if he compensated my time... he said he didnt need to pay for sex...so that was the end of our conversation... so tonight he texts me and says he would like to see me so i asked him if he had changed his mind he said I guess if I have to pay to see you I will... We only saw each other once and for me it was not gonna be a repeat fuck friend so my decision was easy when he got back to me... Still not sure it's the best thing to do though... BJ

As some ladies have said, some of us like I do, entitle MSOG. I am multi-orgasmic myself and really don't see the point of preventing a gentleman to cum as much as he wants. But even so I like to spend time cuddling, kissing and talking between each fun and I am pretty sure U will enjoy this GFE time with the ladies who offer MSOG. We, both U and I or the ladies, R not machines so take your time in between each orgasms and enjoy and I do understand it was different with some ladies U have been seeing but like most said U R in the right place on CERB. Now U have fun but most of all relax and enjoy! Barbara

Um ... all a test provides is that AT THE TIME OF THE TEST that nothing would come up. STD tests aren't exactly while you wait, so between the test and visit you're have to be prepared to cover a loss of income if you're expecting celibacy between then and the encounter. I know with experience from the porn industry, some contracts require you not be sexually active between the test and the production, so that the test is kept accurate. I've been part of one production where the entire set crew had to take part. There's absolutely no point in asking for a test result because it would be inaccurate or VERY expensive to cover the income between the test and the encounter which is pretty much going to be required.

Shania Twain Man I Feel Like A Woman and this version :-) RG

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Personally, booking two 15-minute sessions is better for me business-wise than one 30-minute session. Also, from what I'm told, I can offer up a damn nice sizzling hunk of steak in 15 minutes. All of the comments suggesting that quality gets compromised in favor of cheaper/shorter appointments and that SPs who offer 15-minute sessions are somehow less professional, blah blah blah...strike me as not only judgemental but also unfair. I love being an independent SP for many reasons but one of the top reasons is making my own rules. I've built my business so that it works for me and not in a way that is designed to please everyone else. It's fine to disagree with the way others do things, everyone is different, but to pass judgement and make assumptions on their character is, in my opinion, unacceptable. I've seen some mention about how impossible it is to make a "connection" in such a short time. I'm sorry if this sounds bitchy but most of the SPs I've known are in this business for the money, hence the word business. I've never actually met any who are looking for a connection. Same goes for the gentlemen who seek out our services. It has been my experience that they're mostly looking to get their jollies off. In fact, many of them are already in relationships and not seeking anything deeper than a lovely time with a woman who stimulates them physically and sometimes mentally. Those who are single seem to be looking for the same thing. If a deeper connection is found that's one thing but I can't see myself seeking it out at work. That's just my opinion and like assholes, we all have one. I just can't wrap my head around trying to form a "connection" with clients. Not saying anything against it, just that it's not something I understand. P.S. Just for the record, I don't book everyone who calls. I have a maximum number of clients I see in a day regardless of the length of time they each book. This reduces some of the possible risks to my emotional and physical well-being.

Well if you can Wham! us I can George Michael you LOL George Michael I Want Your Sex RG :-)

Yes the definition of the girl next store will vary from person to person. In my civilian life my relationships have been with women who didn't own/wear makeup, own a curling iron or even a hair dryer and who also have a bit of a hippie look to them. All were great looking and often had no idea they were or it just didn't matter to them. They were the girls in high school or in a circle of friends who didn't get much attention or interest and then 5 or 10 years later it was...yikes how did we miss that ? Except I didn't :) This might not be others ideas of the girl next store look but it's mine. Peace MG

Just to add my two cents. I thing the time set should respected on both sides. Half hour, hour, 45 min whatever. You're paying for time. Having said that i have found some ladies using the "do you want to take a shower?" as a ploy to reduce the amount of time. So i take a shower before i see the lady and reply "no I just took one, thank you." I have also found - more in the massage industry - that the clock in the room is 5 to 10 minutes ahead of mine. So I confirm the time when I arrive. lets all be respectful of people's time

I believe a lot of the "nice guys finish last" stigma comes from women who have things to repair within themselves. People generally go after the person who they believe is the best for them at any given point in time. If you have esteem issues or something unresolved you may gravitate towards the person who can provide what you believe you deserve. As you realize and come to terms with what's inside, those who you are attracted to generally become better people with more right than wrong. Unfortunately confident people with much goodness inside tend to see the good in others whether they can see it themselves. This is sometimes where the "saving" trend comes in. Unfortunately you cannot help or save someone who doesn't want to be helped or doesn't recognize it within. As for the other, I think people should cum when it feels good and natural for them not at any given point in time. Why put pressure on when or who or how...just do it!

I am really glad to see this post and to have come across this thread. I have turned clients away for being over 15 minutes late, especially without a text or call to let me know they would be late. I give myself time between appointments to allow myself time to freshen up and a bit of buffer time for unexpected traffic and other problems causing someone to be late, however more than 15 minutes and I wouldn't be getting the time I need to freshen up and then I would possibly be late for my next appointment, which is unfair for that gentleman who was on time. It can set back your day, and it should be expressed that while occasional tardiness of a few minutes is understandable, your time is valuable and needs to be respected.

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15 minutes would not work for me but if an SP wants to offer it and clients want it.... then God Bless I am delighted they found something that works for them. Bottom line there us no right or wrong... there are as many viable options are there is people in the industry... do what works for you.

Plus some of the ones that seem to be indy are with some unknown agency and are a lot older than advertised. It is embarrassing for some of us to walk away when we see that the lady is a lot older than advertised. Some of these ladies probably do not know what was advertised. One agency seemed to have a group of 40+ aged asian ladies being advertised as in their early 20s and was using the new hotel in the west part of Wpg. For that reason I have not bothered trying any of those ads after twice regretting having stayed, but changed to hh session once there. One time there were 2 ladies in the same apartment and offered to have both for an extra fee - refused but the second lady did participate a little before staying in the washroom the rest of the time. Sounds great but was not that exciting.

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The clock starts at the agreed upon time it's my responsibility as a client to respect the SP'S time and be on time just like it is the SP'S responsibility to be ready on time. That said we all know that life happens.... things go astray... both for clients and SP'S... if either is running late I would expect them to advise the other and normally this is able to be accommodated with slight adjustments in the scheduled time. Now that said sometimes schedules are tight and adjustments are not possible but in my experience this us the exception and not the rule. We all know however when you give some people an inch they take a foot.... you know the guy who us always late... in those circumstances I would totally agree that the time starts at the appointed time whether he is there or not. Most times I would think just telling the client that he is not respecting your time and that in the future there us no flexibility if he is late will fix the problem. Just my opinion

I'm new to CERB, joined because I've become interested in what this industry has to offer me, but have yet to partake... I'm still learning. But even a neophyte like me can comment that this seems like very strange behavior. Showing up on time for a 30 minute appointment, then wanting a shower? For me, a shower IS 30 minutes, and if my first ever appointment was only a half hour, maybe spending that time in the shower with a playful SP would be a good way to spend it. More likely, I'm thinking that my first ever appointment with a professional SP will be at least 2 hours, with perhaps the first 30 minutes spent in the shower and the rest open to interpretation. This, to me, would be the way to do it. I'm just foaming at the mouth here, but one of the things I've learned about the industry is THE TIME! SP's have schedules, with clients that will be depending on those schedules. Believe me, if I booked my first ever appointment, showed up on time nervous as all hell (which will surely be the case), and had it pushed back because of an inconsiderate jerk, it might just cause me to lose my nerve!!

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Welcome In answer to your questions: 1) independent versus agency; is totally a question of personal preference and what you feel comfortable with. I tend to go independent, but that is also because I tend to plan encounters well in advance. Agencies tend to cater to those who want to book that day, rather than weeks in advance. But if you go with a reputable agency, I see no downside to going that route. I also like independents because it gives me more control over who I'm going to see, and an opportunity to get to know them a bit before the encounter, whether it be through this board, or through e-mail or phone. If you go with an agency, you may be limited to who is available that day, which may not be known in advance, and you won't have an opportunity to talk/e-mail with them before the meeting. 2) tipping ... again is up to you. I often take a gift, or a bottle of wine. I usually tip, but not always. Most ladies don't expect a tip, but it is always gratefully received and i think it is a nice way to convey that the encounter was meaningful to you. 3) there shouldn't be any hidden fees, but again this depends on the provider. Sometimes there may be additional costs associated with particular services that are not part of the normal encounter. PSE services, may involve an additional cost beyond the GFE price. Best to read the website and ask the provider. If going with an agency ask the phone person. 4) definitely get a cell phone. even an inexpensive pay as you go phone from 7-11 is critical. All the best, and have fun. Porthos

Thank you all so very much. I have gone through grief counselling it has helped immensely. Your all very right and I to have considered all possibilities of seeing an SP. Guilt, shame, pleasure you know the drill. My hat comes off to all SPs what you ladies do is remarkable. Look what you tried to help me with selflessly. The limits you ladies go to bring joy, excitement, relief and comfort to individuals is at the very forefront of any relationship between all couples. Who knows what the future holds for me, I will satisfy my craving for intimacy, I will one day let my memory of her fade. Move on with my life. Due to your guidance and experience if I decide to see an sp she will look nothing like my wife. Who knows maybe one will find me wouldn't that be a spin! This has been very releaving thank you for allowing me to use this forum as a conduit and for all the advice it has come as a much needed form of letting go. So very sincerely, BF

Mourning is a difficult thing to go through. Everyone is different and there's no one "right" way to do it. But if it's been more than a year since your wife died, you might consider joining a group for people who have lost a partner. These are often fantastic! You can find out about them by contacting a funeral home, and I'd suggest you do that rather than go through the standard therapist route, at least at first. In many places, they try to bring together people who are close in age, or people who have children so that there's common ground for participants. it really can help a lot to hear how other people are dealing with situations similar to your own. Finding a companion or two can also be a good thing because you don't have to get into a full-blown relationship before you're ready for one (and you're not ready right now). You can have contact, intimacy and a private, one-on-one encounter without repercussions. If you want to see a companion more than once, go for it. If not, no worries. Attending to your physical needs can sometimes make it easier to work through emotional ones. Go easy on yourself!