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I am appalled at some responses and attacks the OP is getting for asking a valuable question. I am sure he isn't the only one wondering what to do in this situation. He did not name who the lady was or which Spa was involved so he had every right to ask this question in public. Many have provided great responses which are different on how to handle this situation which is fine. We all see things differently and that is one of the purpose on the Board, to exchange ideas about the business so we can all improve our knowledge of the industry! Maybe some need to be reminded this is not the other board where we attack other members and call them names. For the one that think he is stupid for asking, shame on you and look at yourself in the mirror. You might not see perfection! Nobody here is forced to agree with everyone. However this Board is about respect, learning and not being intimidated for asking a valuable question. DO NOT FORGET!

Hey guys, First off I want to say how great it feels to read such positive exchanges between gentlemen and ladies on an escorts review board... I haven't been able to spend too much time on the boards in the past year as I was busy with the booking services I was offering other ladies (fyi - now over, ill elaborate soon). I am sure I would have seen conversations like this one more often if my time wasnt dedicated to booking and problem fixing, and I am looking forward to participating much more!! Ok.... I felt like its OK to share my thoughts.... Not in details, sorry, as there is certain experiences, like this one, that are so special and so intimate that I keep for myself like a beautiful treasure... First, the way I have always approached working as a companion is to be myself. I have a lot of love to give and truly care about the people I meet, and make sure I only share this experience with those who want to be with a person over a list of "services". I see my role as yes, a sexual fantasy, but also as a confidante, a woman that truly cares about my clients well being, whether its physical, psychological, emotional... I have met many people who I felt useful to and that also helped me tremendously without not even knowing about it, and created many friendships along the way... Gloryhole (LOLLLL how can I be serious after calling you that), you and I only know what experience we shared... It was indeed particularly great! It also felt really special to me. You know that already... You touched my heart with the beautiful person that you are, your strenght as a man yet your sweetness and the fact that you worried about me and not for a second made me feel pressured or uncomfortable. It was just great, as pleasurable for me (more?lol) as it was for you. I also felt like for the time we were together all the world around us, all my worries, all of yours, disappeared. This truly was something that doesn't happen very often and I will stop there. :-P Since we are 2 emos we already took the time to talk about all of this... I think we both have great respect towards another, and Im thankful of the honesty of all of our exchanges! What I have to say is this: Was it real? For sure! Was it special? For sure! What was it? who knows! Do we care? hell no, we shared a moment, it felt great for both of us.. Are we letting life and expectations and labels ruin that moment for us? Nope! What does the future hold? Who knows, but for sure the beautiful memory of that time together! Guys, live life to the fullest, let beautiful moments happen to you without the need for explanation or expectations, just live and enjoy! :) Thank you again babe, you have a friend in me forever! xoxox

3 Québécois in Maritimes within a week well within last 2 days I have to say this is quite a coincidence.They must have read your tread and want to prove you wrong :icon_cool: Good for you:biggrin:

I will be honest with you, YES, there are still many stigmas attached to both sides of this industry which is why most people are very discerning about who they tell about either being a client or an SP. There are still so many people who have no idea about this industry or who is involved in it making judgements every day based on what they were told or past stigmas. much of that isn't true but there are some minds you can't change. I will say this, there is NOTHING wrong with wanting to indulge in this industry for whatever reason. It has been proven that sex is a need and is one of the things the human brain craves along with water, sleep and food. Everyone has a different reason for being here and all are legitimate and worthwhile. This is why CERB is such a great place because all the stigmas are left to those outside and we are a like minded community supporting one another in the pursuit of whatever we need. SP's support clients just as clients support SP's...they also support one another client to client and SP to SP. Within this industry, you are free to explore and enjoy without stigma. Outside the industry there are still many stigmas that many work daily to alter, fix or change, promoting sex worker and client rights, liberties and safeties. If you are concerned about stigmas, indulge carefully, wisely and be discreet. This is your choice therefore it is good for you. Share it with those who will also see it that way not with those who will judge you....unless of course you want to pick up the gauntlet for the industry. Good luck!

i agree with everyone, no way would i cancel or not see someone based on a bruise or scrape or bad hair....i probably wouldn't know the diff on a bad hair day if it was a new person anyway lol...and for a regular, pfft nothing to sweat with me, i'm there cause we get along. life happens.

I have a dog, I am quite active, I'm fair-skinned, and I bruise easily - so, I often have bruises or scrapes. I would never cancel an appointment for a little bruise or two! That's going a little far, to call it an imperfection, IMO...

First, even when I look my very best I'm not 'perfect'. So of course my 'imperfections' haven't kept me from working :) I just wiped out on a mountain bike trail the other day... and I have a scrape on my ankle, a bruise on my forearm and a couple scratches but I worked. I also have a couple of bug bites. LoL I am sporty... I ski, cycle, rollerblade, kayak ... and ya sometimes I bruise. All in good fun!! and you guys can't catch a bruise lol If I was sick with a cold or something I would take the day off :)

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If you want to give more than what you're supposed to as an MA go be an escort, or go indy(Im sure you will make more!) . It's not fair to the other ladies who follow the rules and aren't giving bbbj ECT. And as for the client who got offered, you should definitely tell the owner in private im sure they would maintain your privacy.:)

After several emails back and forth and then a phone call to seal the deal I had the pleasure of meeting Clarissa yesterday at her temporary location while she is here in Halifax. Greeted me at the door , welcomed me in with a nice hug and kiss and we sat and chatted for a while. Conversation was easy , she is a very articulate woman and we talked about many different things. We then went into the bedroom and that's where the fun began. Clarissa made me feel like I was the center of her world and gave me the true gfe experience. She is very petite and has a very sexy body. More than that she has the maturity to match her skills and that's what I enjoy about being with someone of her age and experience. After we were done we talked a little more while we did a little more touching and unfortunately my time was done but never once did I feel rushed. Overall just a wonderful encounter. Thank you Clarissa for coming to NS Hope you come again !

I've had a lot of 15 min appointments and there has never been any disrespect between me and the SP. Not everyone can afford costly sessions, and you can go more often to the same SP if the cost is lower. Some SPs don't mind this at all. It is totally arbitrary to say that 15 min is treating someone like "cum dumpster" whereas 30 min is respectful! Each case is different and it depends on your rapport.

Sick is one thing, and yes, even I cancelled (I did pay the lady her donation in full btw) once because of it. But bumps, bruises, scars, you know signs of a lady living day to day, another, and for me at least not a reason to cancel an encounter And best and quickest cure I found (coming from a fisherman who has been bug bitten more than one ;-) ) for bug bites...calamine lotion. It's cheap, tried tested and it works RG

I have at times decided that I was not up to par . Feeling bloated is one reason, you simply are uncomfortable and not feeling sexy. Once I had a bad bruise across my thigh, and was worried a guy could think someone hurt me on purpose, so I cancelled till it healed. Even somedays my spring allergies can be bad too, and rather then trying to massage and sniffle, I would cancel. Nothing worse then someone thinking you are doing drugs cause your nose is sniffling lol.... But also if my energy is not right, could be moody, or extra tired, and then I will cancel out, as I never want to give only a piece of me, but rather give all of me! This way, I never end up giving a so-so session.

My God!!!!!! :-) You ladies take me and look past all my imperfections.....and there are a few...well quite a few ;-). Even if you have a bad hair day (and you have hair btw) you take this follicly challenged guy, and make me feel like a King. I've been asked if I would prefer to postpone encounters for one reason or another at times by ladies, but as of yet no imperfection has been cited as reason not to meet Don't be too critical on yourselves ladies...even on a bad hair day or other similar type bad day, you're Goddesses to me, and brighten my day A morning rambling RG

I kinda hope I am going to see a "real" person so if they are not offended by my body issues I won't be by theirs lolol. For me the meeting is about way more than just the physical.... it's about the connection and I don't think you get that connect on less the person is "present in the moment" and i think that can be done with or without the bruise. Now if the lady does not feel well I would expect she knows herself best to be able to decide when to cancel and I respect that. Just my opinion

I must be color blind havn,t seen "delicates" in a color I didn't like !

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Since I posted this I've met 3 very lovely gentlemen from Quebec, none of them haggled!! Life is so ironic!

This is a very helpful thread. I've steered clear of most of the hazards here but I think I could improve my initial contact conversation (primarily related to texts). I'm pretty sure I always at least started with a greeting. However, I had figured that you probably get a lot of texts (mostly time-wasters) and much back-and-forth would get annoying fast. Thanks for educating me. :)

I have a couple of gents who contact me every few weeks by text, to say things like: "nice new pics, I hope I can come see you soon!" "happy easter, want to book some time soon!" "happy mothers day beautiful ... maybe we can get together soon!" "merry christmas babe, I will come see you in the new year!" "more sexy new pics? you're gorgeous babe! see you soon!" "happy Hanukkah sweetheart ...." ... ok I'm kidding with that one ... but seriously... .... guess when was the last time these guys actually booked a visit? My curiosity makes me wonder if I'm one of fifty ladies these dudes text. Maybe he sits on his phone all day every day ... sending happy holiday wishes to all the girls. fml... Additional Comments: I don't think it's a big deal because there's plenty of gents who don't necessarily require a website to book. Another note to keep in mind however, I don't provide references to ladies I don't know if I can't find a website. It's a way to determine legitimacy for us, too :)

People who use texting short-cut language when writing pm's or emails. Drives me crazy. Whoops - caught myself - used the word "UR" instead of "your" when I sent someone a pm this morning from my iphone.

I've also sent payment to secure my spot. Looking forward to the social

The MA undercover SP should go be an indy escort rather then confusing clients that go to massage establishments. Also, if the owner is turning a blind eye and allowing this illegal activity to occur due to greed, that individual is putting all of their other staff at risk of being charged, not to mention all of their clients and bringing unwanted attention of the entire industry. The laws are in limbo but are still in affect. If the owner isnt aware, then I would suggest sending an anonymous email and giving them the heads up would be highly appreciated I am sure.

Hello everyone! I chatted with several of you at our last event to gauge interest in regards to having a social to celebrate the upcoming summer season - and before we all head out on vacation. I know most of you are quite flexible when it comes to attending these events, but i'd still like to hear of preferences (if any). As always, it'll be held on a thursday night: May 29th, June 5th, or June 12th For those wishing to express a preference, you can either post here, or send me a private message by Friday, April 11. I'll post the date in this thread to make it more official. The earlier i know, the earlier i'll post! :icon_lol:

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Personally, body imperfections on a lady will not turn me away, be it a bruise, a scrape, a scar or a pimple. I met a lovely lady once or twice and saw some bruises on her body. I was more concerned about her and her well-being than been scared off. It turned out that she just bruises easily when bumped into something. If I remember correctly, we had much fun when I showed her how to get rid of her bruises faster. I also have no issue whatsoever with her bad hair. If she is not feeling up to it or is under the weather, I will totally understand when she chooses to cancel or postpone our appointments. In fact, I would really appreciate it if she cancels or postpones because she is sick.

Lol, no, not so unusual, I find a lot of Quebecquois travelling here on business and who call for company. I'm sure I'm not the only one and actually it would have been 4 but one cancelled:) Another coincidence;) I had 5 appts this weekend and 4 of them cancelled!

Gents, i still have spots available! Get yours to kick off simmer in style!!

I've had cars in car shows. I know you are joking but there are actually people that do that - the reason I stopped going. They are only cars and in the big picture, not that important. But what is important is the time, energy, creativity, money and love (yes love) people put in to restoring and showing cars. Vandalism is just not cool dude.

Sounds to me like your a sweetheart too Jessica RG :-)

Happy Birthday. Hope you had a great day :)

Happy birthday to you, sir!

After an amazing 1st meeting with a wonderful CERB Lady I popped her a quick thank you message and said that I hoped to see her again... she was very polite and professional as she replied that she thought she had wine on her breath when we met and that for our next meeting we both might want to freshen up with some mouthwash... lol... yes she politely told me my breath was not great.... i learned from that lady and now alway have mouthwash and toothbrush and toothpaste in my vehicle... when I get to hotel I head to one if the public washrooms brush my teeth...use monthwash ...wash my hands and then text the lady to say I have arrived. I am quite thankful to this lady for being so honest yet tactful with me.

When someone show up and pee the door open...

Happy Birthday doctorlove.... May your day be wonderful....

Have a pleasure filled day that includes everything that makes you smile and drool! Enjoy!

I'm a bit surprised with how passionate this thread has gotten. There are a couple of things that I'd like to share. Someone mentioned that it takes 7 and a half minutes to start (donations, clothes, etc). I just want to say that there was one person that I visited where we had gone through that, and were quite in the thick of it after probably 5 minutes (Memorable moments of my life :) ). It was also the first time I met her. But since I like longer appointments, I had an hour and 25 minutes left! 15 minutes are great option if there are two willing participants, who have already established a chemistry. If I worked somewhere close by an SP, I'd be more inclined to make a sort of arrangement for repeated visits. Financially speaking, it would be great. Plus there is a bit of a thrill with just having one thing in your mind. I don't think a lady should offer it if she feels uncomfortable with it, but for those who are, great! And for the men who want those appointments, as long as they are respectful, I have no issue with them. I get the feeling that some people are projecting their anger for rude people who seek 15 minutes appointments, with everyone seeking 15 minutes appointments.

You should write a proper recommendation on Lola in the section of the city you saw her in. Sounds like you had a great time and I'm sure she would appreciate a rec written, otherwise your great experience will be lost over time.

Personally, booking two 15-minute sessions is better for me business-wise than one 30-minute session. Also, from what I'm told, I can offer up a damn nice sizzling hunk of steak in 15 minutes. All of the comments suggesting that quality gets compromised in favor of cheaper/shorter appointments and that SPs who offer 15-minute sessions are somehow less professional, blah blah blah...strike me as not only judgemental but also unfair. I love being an independent SP for many reasons but one of the top reasons is making my own rules. I've built my business so that it works for me and not in a way that is designed to please everyone else. It's fine to disagree with the way others do things, everyone is different, but to pass judgement and make assumptions on their character is, in my opinion, unacceptable. I've seen some mention about how impossible it is to make a "connection" in such a short time. I'm sorry if this sounds bitchy but most of the SPs I've known are in this business for the money, hence the word business. I've never actually met any who are looking for a connection. Same goes for the gentlemen who seek out our services. It has been my experience that they're mostly looking to get their jollies off. In fact, many of them are already in relationships and not seeking anything deeper than a lovely time with a woman who stimulates them physically and sometimes mentally. Those who are single seem to be looking for the same thing. If a deeper connection is found that's one thing but I can't see myself seeking it out at work. That's just my opinion and like assholes, we all have one. I just can't wrap my head around trying to form a "connection" with clients. Not saying anything against it, just that it's not something I understand. P.S. Just for the record, I don't book everyone who calls. I have a maximum number of clients I see in a day regardless of the length of time they each book. This reduces some of the possible risks to my emotional and physical well-being.

CERB is my go to place and I tend to write reviews - but I follow the suggestion......unless I have something nice to say....I refrain (No negative comments)....and if the lady prefers I don't review, I refrain. I do not go to other boards, in particular BP - it's not generally reliable (had good and bad experiences there) - CERB has been pretty consistent and the opportunity to flag issues and to check with other hobbiests helps.

Whats your opinion on woman using a double headed dildo? Does it turn you on? Make you jealous? Send me your feedback

Some of the things that make me feel special when I'm with a man are- compliments, a sincere compliment. A smile, knowing that person is happy to be with me, having something in common, getting a vibe that he is comfortable and relaxed. Knowing that my companionship is appreciated and a thank you, hug or and a kiss before leaving:)

Weekly poker tournament sound amazing. I don't know how well I'll be able to keep my poker face though lol. Another suggestion that was made in a different thread was jello/oil/pudding wrestling... I think that would be an awesome idea. My two cents :-)

for me the time should start when the client says hello to the provider. The provider is offering time. When you go to a lawyer or accountant, the clock starts as soon as you sit down

Leanne had no problem in telling me that she had some work done (I saw them before also) but she really appreciates it when a guy complements her on how nice they look as most women would so don't be shy.

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Katherine is a trained massage therapist. I think that is also true of Lilly. I'm sure either of them would be willing to give you only a massage. Mind you that would be an enormous waste, but hey....

I worked there a while and made friends with lots of the staff. That place is as good as gone. The owner is basically just waiting to be bought out by the housing developers. They do not care about it at all...it's sad for me. I loved it there. Lots of the girls have migrated to he Den if you are looking for your favorite dancers