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They are the part of the female body most often critiqued, sexualized and lusted after. Some will comment to augmented breasts as being fake, some will comment to saggy breasts as being gross. Many of us are so hard on one another and can cause some to want to change, to feel insecure or unworthy. We are made to believe by todays standards and the media that they should be big, round and point to the sun. But in reality they are as different as our faces and age doesn't dictate their perkiness nor does a body type dictate their size-ie: a larger woman will have larger breasts and smaller will have smaller. Natural or augmented all breasts are beautiful, but should we put as much importance on them as we do? After all if a woman were to loose hers, due to illness, accident or however, should she then feel less than a woman? If you go by todays standards and ideals, she might, but there is far more to making a woman feminine, beautiful and worthy than her breasts, especially in many other cultures. I wonder why North Americans base so much importance on them? What's your opinion and do you? Are breasts what you think make women sexy, beautiful and why? Be honest;) http://www.007b.com/breast_gallery.php I will add the biggest reason that caused me to want to enlarge mine was to look more like what the media, magazines and advertising depicts as beautiful breasts, along with growing up with a father and brother, male friends and boyfriends, who I often heard talking about breasts and that their opinions were larger was better. Some of my decision was also based on the fact that and for whatever reasons beyond the above, visually, I find that large augmented breasts look more beautiful than smaller or larger natural breasts. It's sad that as women we can be made to feel less than by such unrealistic standards, yet many of us can be.

One of the elements that brought me to this profession is the sheer number of UNhappily married men. Many men are married to women that they love, or did love. But the pressure of both working, not having time for each other, mortgages, naughty children, aging parents, and long commutes take their toll. A man faces the back half of his life wondering if it were all worth it. They probably haven't had sex in years. He wants to feel like a man again. But if he has an affair, he is going to lose half of everything. This is where the courtesan/mistress comes in. Compensation is the best thing ever. It keeps the lines drawn succinctly in their relationship. I didn't say that love won't creep into it! We are all human. But cash helps. True story: if the man left his wife, he'd lose the house - so he slept in a bath tub for over 2 years. A man sneaks downstairs when his wife is asleep to get on the net and "talk" to a woman with blood in her veins. Sneaking around in their own homes! And if they are busted, they are called monsters. We all need love, affection, and a damn good badabingbadaboom. Life is very good; lets enjoy!

I absolutely agree! While I often say with tongue in cheek "I love HMOPH's!" it is completely truthful. Happily Married Other Peoples Husbands make up my favourite guests for so many reasons. It's a perfect fit for my preferred business model, the ME (mistress experience). It means I never deal with the bad habits, annoying idiosyncrasies and daily grind; that is left for the woman who will inherit his estate and I get to enjoy all the delights without the trials and tribulations of day to day routine. I never have to worry they are going to arrive in a mood, never deal with him not pulling his weight around the house and he'll never steal my covers in the middle of the night, every night. I don't have to pick up his dirty laundry, deal with his family or struggle with keeping the passion alive. These parts are non existent in the relationships I indulge in. HMOPH's will never assume to be a part of my life outside of the negotiated parameters, never arriving in the middle of night thinking I will welcome him in, never assume an invite out for dinner off the clock is an acceptable thing to do. They seldom see blurred lines when paint is neon yellow clear. In my privileged experience, HMOPH's is always positive, he's always happy to be here, I'm always glad he is here. Our time together is focused, we ONLY do the important stuff like touch, talk and feel in an honest, nonjudgemental way. We spend time together knowing how truly precious that time is; we both savour every moment and when it's over we are grateful to have experienced it. We look forward to the next visit without it being a painful yearning or need. It's having all the best parts of a relationship without any of the head aches or heartbreaks. So yes Delilah, I LOVE married men... cat

Thanks for all the lovely birthday wishes I started off my 50th birthday with a bang... a threesome! And then breakfast in port credit on a patio. Champs convention in Toronto with my brothers and then back to my new home with family for dinner. Lovely sunny day

The WHO's recent report isn't really talking about the same thing as the latest headline-grabbing bug. Things like SARS, H1N1 and now MERS will inevitably crop up every so often, and we just have to deal with them when they do. What the WHO is talking about is the unfortunate coincidence of two things: the gradual evolution of drug-resistant pathogens, and the fact that there's very little research into new antibiotics. The first is more-or-less inevitable, but the second isn't. it's an unfortunate consequence of the fact that pharmaceutical companies exist to make money, and these days the money is not in treating infectious disease; it's in treating the chronic diseases of the affluent West. If you invent a drug that cures MRSA then you can sell it to a patient that will take it for a few days or weeks and then stop because they're cured, but if you invent a drug that reduces cholesterol you can get decades of continuous revenue from each patient.... and so that's precisely what happens. The WHO is saying, "this needs to change, and here's why". There's no deadline... yet. There will never be a sudden moment when this becomes a huge issue. It'll just get worse and worse and worse, until we realize that we have a major problem on your hands. Of course, the real threat is of something evolving that's as deadly as HIV or ebola and as infectious as the common cold. When that happens, there's a good chance that Homo sapiens will become extinct, as so many other species have done before.

I make my living on repeat business. So if, for whatever reason, I'm not comfortable going through with a session, I will refund 100% cheerfully with my full apologies. My attitude is that neither of us wasted anything more than our time. But too, he's not welcome back in this case. Ever. But there are times when someone bites off more than he can chew. I try to prolong pleasure whenever I can, but sometimes they're just not receptive to such efforts. If someone books an hour and he's done and over with in 25 minutes, I'll rebate him down to half an hour. And in this case, he is welcome back. Just next time, we'll either book a shorter session or agree on what we need to do to make it last longer.

Herein are my notes from the strange evening with the Americans. This evening they were at a sports bar watching the Montreal - New York playoff game. I arrived shortly after 10:00 pm to pick them up. I was due at 10:00 sharp but who leaves a playoff game that is tied 1 - 1? Well, actually, two of them. Took them back to the hotel. Foreshadows of things to come. Returned to the bar. Game ends. Fourteen gents in varying states of inebriation load into the back and are ready to PAR - TAY! Mt direction is to take them back to the hotel unless they want to go somewhere else. Whatever - take care of them. I advise the group of this. The response is instantaneous. Titty Bar! Titty Bar! Titty Bar! Titty Bar! Good Lord! There is the desperation of starving baby birds in their cries of Titty Bar! We have to go "Across The River". This spoken in tones usually reserved for describing the Holiest of Holies. Titty Bar! Titty Bar! Titty Bar! We arrive at Pigales. The moment is upon us. The car is strangely silent. Reverential silence? I open the car door and stand back so I won't be trampled by a hoard of inebriated hormonal young men. No one gets out. I stick my head in and announce we're here. No one moves. Most of them are staring with great interest at the floor. One guy looks at me and asks "What's it like in there?" "Well," I reply, "There's naked women." "Is it clean in there?" "There's naked women." No one moves. Exasperated, I go to the doorman, explain I have a bunch of shy Americans on board and ask if one can come take a quick peek and report back to the others. He agrees. I relay this offer to the boys and ask who wants to take point. No one moves. "I hear there's a casino." "Yes, there's a casino." Casino! Casino! Casino! Casino! So we drive away leaving the nude flowers of Quebec womanhood unviewed, untouched. And my head hurts between shaking it and smacking it. Americans can be odd people. I know. Because I are one.

I believe that people that have a great repore with each other, introduce sarcasm as a further advancement of those relationships, often it is when people are comfortable with each other. I would say sarcasm into an unknown circumstance, more like introduces the fine line between good nature bantering, and maybe a bit more truthful messaging. Anyway, I think sarcasm can be a great tool, but understand how it can be misused too.

You are right:) all these scenarios happen or can happen. We are dealing with a sensitive business after all. Pleasure and companionship can sometimes lead us into misinterpretations of feelings of our partner and even of our own. This business of closeness can also create feelings even when we think we are protected from them, married or not. What makes or breaks the ability to continue seeing the same person, or different people is how you handle and understand your feelings. It is never right to take advantage of someone or to lead someone on. I can only speak to what I've experienced and feel, others will speak to their experiences and feelings and so on. I won't live on what ifs, maybes or possibilities. I'll deal with what happens when it happens and hopefully in a mature and respectful way. In saying all this I still, from experience and, as someone who has personally dealt with a stalker for 6yrs, who btw was a single man, feel I'm less likely to be emotionally challenged with married men:)

Now a question? What if the married man who sees an SP does develop feelings for her...she's not an SP to him, more than a exclusive paid mistress from his end, she is the "other woman" More the woman that this man is having an affair with (in his mind) than a paid companion and there is an underlying business relationship The lady is willing to continue seeing the man, even though she has her head on straight that this is at it's core a business relationship. The married man, deludes himself that the business aspect of the relationship will end and they will live happily ever after Or he will string her along, and she will believe he will leave his wife for her and never does BTW a similar type of thing could happen with a client who's a single man and a SP who's a single woman My point, the relationship risks, they are there, whether SP/Client (either, or or both) are single or married. A rambling RG

Fortunately for me, when I spend reasonably, I don't have to worry about the financial aspects of this. So as far as what's better for me, when it comes down to repeats and one timers, whoever is the better match for me at the time I book, I'll see. Both are good and enjoyable. But, just because a guy finds a lady attractive doesn't mean he's going to repeat with her. There are plenty that truly enjoy their choice of sp but have only one desire to fulfill and only want one time to do it, never do they repeat with anyone, nor do they collect;)

Oh of course.. I'm not saying I advocate gov't influence.. I'm just stating that it's possible. Same as my feelings in the rates thread.. I want always to be my own boss.. I think if it ever came down to the gov't telling me what I can and can't do with my body.. I'd move to live where I once again had freedom.

Carrie, I am quoting you but my comment is not directed at you ;) We all draw the line somewhere, and as you stated, that line varies from person to person. To each their own. I am not going to debate the rights and wrongs of BBBJs (or DATY or kissing) and risk levels but I will say this: As an independent human being, I do not want nor need the government telling me what I can and cannot do in the privacy of a bedroom, as a companion with a patron or as a grown woman in her private life. Whether or not I receive money when sharing intimate time with someone is no one else's business but mine. I value my rights and freedom of choice. (I hope my post makes sense)

Hobbyists with big fucking mouths and no fucking brains! Not long ago, someone I know from my personal life responded to one of my ads. I simply wrote him back and suggested we pass due to proximity. God only knows what goes through some of these pea brains! I found out today that this brain trust apparently told his girlfriend (who works with law enforcement), AND managed to convince her that he just happened to notice my ad whilst standing in line in a store. Uh huh. I've been in this business over 40 years. In all that time, surprise surprise!! Not a single person I knew personally who answered one of my ads was actually looking for an SP. Heavens no! They just happened to be browsing SP ads and just happened to respond to mine. Whoopsie!! But use the services of an SP?? Never! So tonight, my husband gets a call from this pinheaded couple to let him (us) know that they're "not judging" me. Oh whew! I was worried about that!! And apparently the girlfriend is eating his story of just happening to accidentally respond to my ad with a spoon. Yeesh!!!! You know, I AM an SP. And I have no idea what or who is in the SP section. My husband is married to an SP, and he probably wouldn't even know how to find the places I advertise. Where do these people come up with these half-baked stories???? In any event, I figure he panicked and blabbed to his gf, thinking up this story in case I would tell on him. ???? Seriously? What in the hell would I do that for? What a classic LOSER! So disgusted! I think I'll bad date the mofo.

Not disagreeing, but unless you have your head square on your shoulders, be it as a married or single man, or married or single woman, whether in the SP/Client relationship or outside of it.....when in love/lust/infatuation, the grass always looks greener from the other side...till you get to the other side Throw in adult kids from both families (speaking as an adult kid who first hand witnessed this) there is short term and long term fallout not even thought of But I just wanted to make the point that married men are not necessarily risk free for SP's nor are single guys, relationship wise I suppose for clients, there is the same that could be said about some companions, who may want to have a relationship. But I do believe it is less marital status that determines potential relationship risk for an SP/Client than the individual person...you are no more safe or at risk if the companion/client is single or married...how she/he's head is wired is more a determining factor A rambling RG

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One thing to add to my earlier comment. I will not ever fall into some scenario where my emotions control my brain. It's not in my makeup and never will be. Therefore, I have no worry of becoming too emotionally connected to a provider despite seeing her more than once. Do I like that lady and feel a connection? Certainly, that is one reason why I repeat with her but it is also nice to be able to avoid the hassles of looking, researching, etc and knowing the likes, dislikes. Comfort is important. I also wouldn't try to book with a lady that clearly expresses that she does not like booking married men, although I haven't really seen too many providers out there who are that particular in that aspect. And obviously, some here have expressed how much they enjoy this part of the business.

Certainly a sexy woman with great breasts will catch my eye but lots of things about women can catch my eye.... to capture my interest and my willingness to engage I need more than just great tits. For me the beauty of a woman is very intangible.... it's that wholeness that encompasses how she acts and how she carries herself... it's her self assurance and her knowledge that she is sexy that I think makes her sexy regardless of how she looks.... Just my opinion

Loneskater, I think you misinterpreted what Cristy was suggesting. She didn't say that married people aren't going to find other women attractive or won't be interested in repeat encounters; she's proposing that married men are less likely to push the boundaries of the SP - client relationship, and try to turn those encounters into something more.

Having a gent visit me repeatedly is without a doubt the most sincere complement he could offer me. I enjoy building a rapport with my gentlemen friends, many of them provide a true 'boyfriend experience' and for that I'm most grateful. I don't need to spend time screening those gentlemen, and I don't insist on emails to book, which makes booking much simpler, and it makes for a much more relaxed encounter for both of us. A big thank you from me!! xoxoxo

Whaaa? Delilah this is over my head could you explain:)

They do look good. But at 250/hr .. Too rich for my blood. I decided sometime back, 200 is my cap.

And none of these screenings have anything to really do with getting clean blood. The only ABSOLUTE way to ensure you get clean blood, is to test it first and scientifically see if it is clean...which I believe is what they end up doing anyway.....frankly I'd hate for the blood supply's cleanliness dependant on the word of people who fill out a questionnaire. But some of the questions are really more based on the government's "morality" if you will...and I wonder how many politicians'/lawmakers' would pass the questionnaire? BTW I flunk off the top of my head around six areas A morning rambling RG

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Happy Day ... Ms Moon! Your reputation precedes you and it would no doubt be a pleasure to one day spend quality time with you. J.

Happy Birthday my beautiful friend.... I hope your day was amazing....

Happy Birthday, pretty lady :) I hope you got to drink lots of good wine in your new location ;) xox

Happy Birthday Carrie. Best wishes from Halifax!

I swear I do not understand government "thinking" at times. In Australia BBBJ is illegal for providers to provide as part of their service. Why is the government so paternalistic to it's citizens? Is this restriction on BBBJ just to providers, or to everyone? I mean the risk is the same whether it is a SP/Client, or two people dating in a non committed relationship, or non monogamous relationship or well you get the idea My point, what makes BBBJ such a risk, a risk to be outlawed, only when it is done as a result of a monetary transaction. BTW Canada isn't much better. Take for example the Canadian Blood Services requirement on being a blood donor. Certain sex acts (although some do) in and of themselves don't bar you from donating blood, if you paid for sex in the last twelve months, or had sex with someone who takes money for sex, then you can't donate. What is it about money that makes sex acts so risky...if no monetary transaction, then those same sex acts OK....??? Anyhow, a lady should just establish her boundaries and restrictions and the gentlemen respect them...no need for government to be involved BTW maybe all these restrictions on this lifestyle have less to do with concerns about sexual health, I mean if the politicians/lawmakers truly cared about sexual health, wouldn't BBBJ, well any BB be outlawed, and only BB sex allowed with two consenting adults done in a sterile medical environment after thorough testing only if the sex is intended for reproduction. Making such restrictions might be the government's roundabout way of eliminating prostitution. Sorry, just had a quick brain fart there, but then again, it seems that's how the government runs A rambling RG

Happy Birthday Carrie! Wishing you a year of happiness and health. Lots of love Carley xox

Happy Birthday wishes from this gentleman who knows you from posts as being one of the best friends any girl could ask for.

Great post, Tracie :) Well said! I guess we can easily apply this to anyone who trys to negotiate our rates... Not only to the men from the province of Québec. Because let's face it, there are hagglers everywhere, no matter where they are from or where they live. Again, thank you for your post :) Much appreciated! From a proud French Canadian woman from Montreal, Québec xox

Happy Birthday Carrie! xo

Happy Birthday my sweet friend!! I hope this year is the best one yet!!!! Xoxo

Happy BDay sexy!!! Enjoy your day and have lots of fun chérie !!! Hugs and kisses babe!!

Happy Birthday Carrie Enjoy your special day RG

I hope it's a great one and that you have many, many, many, many, many-you get the idea;) more. Happy Birthday.

Like I said in responses to your Pms..Good for you !its great that they are attractive to you. You started the tread with a strong opinion about the québécois clients..Which seem by posts that you resented them for a while..Like we say in French ""une crotte sur le coeur" in last 2 days you met nice québécois ..Good You say they are attracted to you.. Good not sure what else you want me to add to your tread:icon_question:

Why not simply offer some options for him to stay, leave, or revise his session. One expeciting FS with certain services can revise their session to a hj session, and a reduced rate. Or the option to wash up, with tips as to how to improve things. I'm with anyone who says that making sessions conditional on certain things must be in the ad or website, so that the onus is on the client to either arrive or get up to minimum standards after arrival. I've had guys coming from work do anything from a sink wash up, to a lower body washup in the shower to a full 10 minute hair, nooks and crannies exfoliation probably showers before starting their sessions. On the main question, i refund money when the clients expectations don't match their reality. Such as paying for the hour with the idea of 2sogs, and within the half hour deciding that there is only one sog in them, and they are ready to go. Returning the amount over the half hour donation gives good karma and encourages a return visit. Refunds encourage good karma, avoid confrontation with angry clients, and reduce the chance of a angry review posting. Additional Comments: And if this hasn't already been mentioned, a yeast infection is not considered something transmittable when using a condom, it is not always accompanied by discharge, and is unlikely to smell like anything other than yeast. You would not want to do a bbbj on someone with yeast, but then, there are a ton of stds that you can get and transmit via bbbjs anyway, why limit it to the one you can see? I would suggest that someone prone to yeast infections would cut back on yeast intake, like bread and beer. Increase consumption of yogurt. There is a comment on this link that suggests Monistat cream will work, and someone adds that adding vinegar helped more. https://www.msu.edu/.eisthen/yeast/men.html

Wow.... excellent...not sure it could be said any better.... Thanks Cat

The keys to making encounters extraordinary is actually quite simple. First, do your homework to ensure you understand your guest's expectations then do follow thru to make it happen before he arrives to the best of your ability. The next thing is THE key... STAY IN THE MOMENT from the minute you open the door until you close it after he leaves. By staying in the moment I mean... 1. Do not allow random thoughts floating thru your head to take hold. They are clouds, just let them float thru while you focus your attention on your guest. Don't allow the "am I doing this right?", "does this angle make my stomach look fat?" or "I need to go grocery shopping as soon as he's done." to interfere with your time with your guest. This time is about the two of you together and nothing else matters at this point. There is time to process a worthy unrelated thought after he's gone. 2. See the humanity in your guest before all else. This is the part of him you want to touch deeply. He isn't a business guru, construction worker, accountant, father, brother, son when he is with you. He is simply a man, with all of the qualities that makes him strong and vulnerable at the same time. Recognize this, let him be himself with no expectations that he is anything else. The human connection is the one that he will feel and not forget. 3. Follow the bouncing ball. Watch, listen and respond to the story that his body and tone of voice tell. Words can be deceptive but the body always tells the truth. He gives you all the clues you need to make a visit spectacular, you just need to be open to seeing them; to do that you need to follow the moment and trust your intuition to decipher what he is actually needing rather than just what he thinks he wants. It's easy once you practice it a bit, like karaoke. Just watch the little red bouncing ball of "right now". 4. Remember the humanity in him first and foremost. Make a mental file on him. After he leaves, think about what you learned about the real him and file that gold away. If you connected with him, he'll be back and you then have the keys to getting him to shed to masks he wears in the outside world, allowing him to once again just be himself but more efficiently than the last time leaving more time for genuine connection. Follow these steps with every visit and before long you are the Sanctuary he seeks when the outside world is closing in on him. You are who he turns to, to forget, to reconcile, to release all of the stresses that hunt him. These may or may not be conversations of words but more often with my guests they are a ballet of touch, movement and physical expression... Remember that this interaction isn't about you, it's about the both of you. It certainly isn't all about the sex. The physical is simply a vehicle to express ourselves together; it's about releasing what is needed and renewing one's life energy so we can meet the world another day from a positive frame of mind. A man comes to us because of a physical urge but that is merely symptomatic of the underlying need for connection without negativity whether your guest realizes it or not. He never needs to understand your process but he will never forget the time he shared with you if the connection to the real him is made... This is what I think makes an experience memorable... cat

Like most other people said be yourself otherwise it seems phoney. Also I know its a job but don't make it look like its only for the money. At least make it feel like you are enjoying my company, I don't expect you to fall in love with me and I'll do the same but make me feel I am more than a source of money period.

Very good point. Every man wants to feel wanted, desired and not like a paying customer or just another 'john".

What makes an encounter truly Memorable for me is when ,for a short while ,I forget I am a "client" and I become her intimate companion her suitor her friend and lover during our time together, the embraces warm the kisses real and that feeling stays with me until well after I,ve left and reality once again sets in !

This is probably something that has been posted before. I don't know and am too lazy to check old threads. But it occurs to me after the last couple days that we sometimes take for granted that an escorts life is all peaches and cream. They set up a nice incall location, post an ad, the calls come in and the clients show up. They pay, play and everybody is happy. The lady tidies up and ready for the next lucky fella. Kind of a lather, rinse, repeat scenario. Or the lady goes on tour, sets herself up in a nice discreet hotel location and pretty much the same thing. Well, yesterday, I came across a few things that made me realize that this isn't always the case. I read (on a different board) a story of a touring lady running into one mishap after another and because of it all, actually barely breaking even while on her first week on tour. Another story of a lady who received a man at her door who rudely told her she wasn't as hot as her pictures and too old (although her website is clearly defined with her age, body type and well laid out photos). The loser walked and business lost. I posted something on here that cheered someone up (no names needed) who had a rough go this weekend and was feeling a little down. I didn't even realize I was doing something nice at the time but glad I did. I guess my point here is that we all need to step back sometimes and put ourselves in other peoples shoes. We say things on message boards and do things in life possibly without any ill intent but our words and actions often effect even the strongest of people. We all get our feelings hurt and lose our self confidence and it might behoove all of us to say a kind word now and then for no other reason but to just help our fellow human beings out. Most on here are pretty aware of all of this and are pretty good at keeping things positive so this isn't directed at anyone. Just a general thought is all. Okay, my rambling is over, lol. Go back to having fun y'all.

I'm a bit surprised with how passionate this thread has gotten. There are a couple of things that I'd like to share. Someone mentioned that it takes 7 and a half minutes to start (donations, clothes, etc). I just want to say that there was one person that I visited where we had gone through that, and were quite in the thick of it after probably 5 minutes (Memorable moments of my life :) ). It was also the first time I met her. But since I like longer appointments, I had an hour and 25 minutes left! 15 minutes are great option if there are two willing participants, who have already established a chemistry. If I worked somewhere close by an SP, I'd be more inclined to make a sort of arrangement for repeated visits. Financially speaking, it would be great. Plus there is a bit of a thrill with just having one thing in your mind. I don't think a lady should offer it if she feels uncomfortable with it, but for those who are, great! And for the men who want those appointments, as long as they are respectful, I have no issue with them. I get the feeling that some people are projecting their anger for rude people who seek 15 minutes appointments, with everyone seeking 15 minutes appointments.

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I find these kinds of threads about BBBJ really irritating. Not because conversation about shared intimacies and health matters shouldn't be had, but because of how talk about sucking dick quickly shifts into the 'politic of the ick' (a term coined by sexologist Carol Queen). I will speak for myself. I love making out, I love having my pussy licked, I love sucking cock, alot of the time BBBJs and CIM (oh yeah baby), and, yet I do not identify as a PSE at all. Not a meaningful term to me. I'm GFE all the way. I do not make clients wear a dental dam to give me oral, and I do not put saran on my face when playing tonsil hockey. There are plenty of service providers, including popular and highly reviewed SPs who do not do BBBJ (understandable, and a very personal decision), but the idea of being concerned over providers 'being compelled' to provide BBBJs, and then omitting the way we normalize and by and large broadly accept DFK and DATY as meaningful and commonly provided services inherent to the work, (providing GFE), is problematic. Assessing the risks, negotiating the fun to be had, and getting regular health checks including throat swabs is a must. Let's not turn all SPs into victims of risky clients, and let's focus on empowering workers to enjoy working conditions where they can refuse work they deem unsafe....not to mention increasing access to non-stigmatizing STI health screening, and ongoing education. Signed, Cum lover

Theres nothing like taking control, non stop until he cant control himself and explodes deep in your throat.