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It's been almost a couple years since I met my first companion, and though I only get the occasional chance to enjoy the company of one of the lovely ladies hereabouts, I feel like I've learned a lot in that time. I still remember how nervous I was contacting my first provider... I'm sure I made a few rookie mistakes... Luckily she was very welcoming and understanding... And my initial stunned shock... Soon enough gave way to pure bliss... And by the end I had been made to feel like a champion... So thank you to that first lady, and to those incredible ladies I've had the pleasure of meeting since, and to any whose company I may someday get the opportunity to share. Because though I may still sometimes feel pretty shy, the memories and anticipation you create leave me a bit more...well...animated. :) ........... So, anyone else have a story? Or (to have fun and keep it simple), anyone have that one image or gif that sums up how Cerb and the people you meet here make you feel?

I'll jump in on behalf of Newfoundlanders. Terms of endearment are the norm here. You come to NL to visit and you could be "Hun", "sweetie", "my love", "my treasure" and "my darling" all in one day, from 5 different complete strangers. Lol Since I moved here 6 years ago, i have picked up this habit (ask Emily Rushton lol). But it is genuine and meant as a legitimate term of endearment. Food for thought :) xo

It has been covered to death, but: 1. The provider is not here to defend her decision. 2. The provider has EVERY right to choose whoever she chooses to see. This is not a restaurant, a gas station, a store or anything else. It's HER body. 3. There are countless providers who WILL see men and women of all races, creeds, religions and legal ages. 4. If a provider has personal issues with persons of different ethnic backgrounds, religions etc - that's HER business. She will be losing that portion of the population as part of her clientele. 5. The charter of rights does not have a pussy clause. 6. We, as clients, don't have ANY right to see who we choose. We are granted that privilege as part of a business transaction AND after the screening process has been completed and THEN we have to pass the introduction/creepiness/cleanliness assessment before we will have our play time. 7. Just checked again, the charter still doesn't have a pussy clause. 8. If you think about it with a clear head, do you WANT to spend time with a person that doesn't want to spend time with you? I can tell you from personal experience, it sucks. That's why I divorced her. 9. Girls like that generally have no bacon on hand. 10. There really is no number 10. I could have condensed this to seven points but the OCD clicked in and I wanted to go all metric on ya. There ya be.

So, let's review. OP asks why some providers specify no black customers. Replies include because she's a bigot. She has an black "agent" (can we just be plain and call him a pimp?), blacks (not all but enough to warrant a rule) have cleanliness issues and haggle. Did I miss anything? You just know where I'm going with this, don't you? There's enough "judgemental" in this short thread to feed a family of four for a week. How about we go with the idea that the provider just chooses not to see black men for reasons known only to her. Just like some choose not to see old men, some not young men. Not sure how the putative pimp showed up so early. We all know cleanliness and haggling are not race based. So I would go with this answer to the OP question: because she chooses to (or not) and there's no accounting for taste.

well sweeties .... ;) I'd rather use a term of endearment than accidentally call you by the wrong name ;) so that's my defense. I am never offended by use of any term of endearment ... at $275 an hour you can call me whatever the hell you want to call me :D

Turn offs? Not many. At my age, I am always pleasantly surprised that a woman will not throw up when we are naked in the same room. These are more general observations than anything else. If there is any advice I can pass along, these would be a few things that I would suggest: 1. Time: Hobbyists are consistently reminded that they are not compensating a provider for a specific service, they are compensating her for her time. Keeping that in mind, the idea of "shoot and scoot" just doesn't fly. A two hour appointment should last two hours unless the hobbyist leaves early at HIS discretion, unless of course he has been a total dickhead. If he has been a dickhead, you have the right to kill him and dissolve his body in the bathtub. 2. Punctuality: These days, everybody has time pressures. As much frustration as it is for a provider when a client is late, it is equally as frustrating when a provider shows up late. Life happens. We all make mistakes. We all get delayed. Just remember, when things start on time, everyone is a lot more relaxed and happy. 3. Social Media Interaction: This is a biggie for me. Whether you are writing here on CERB, on Twitter or on a subscribed Blog, your words are a window into your provider personna. The most beautiful person becomes ugly if they express themselves in a hateful manner. It cuts both ways. Some providers use what we say here as a screening tool - they don't want to deal with assholes and misogynists. Keeping that in mind, we won't see you if you have shown that you don't respect us. We won't see you if you are mean spirited. We won't see you if you twist our words against us. Food for thought. 4. Live rabid monkeys: Don't have them in your incall. They are intimidating. 5. Divided Attention: Everybody has a life. Sometimes we have stuff on our minds that we can't shake. The mark of a true professional in ANY line of work is to put that stuff on a mental shelf and get through the day. It's especially true here, where intimacy is so much harder to achieve when a provider's mind is obviously elsewhere. 6. Unnecessary commentary: Eeeeek. This is a tough one. Have you ever been in an intimate moment that has an undertone of soft and romantic when all of a sudden the badly delivered porn movie dialogue starts? I'm getting the shivers of discomfort just thinking about it. Ohhhhh... and please. Don't speak if your mouth is full... mid BJ commentary is kind of a boner killer. 7. Turkey Bacon: Only if every pig on the planet has died of a horrific flesh eating disease will turkey bacon be acceptable. 8: Outside communication: Turn off your cell phone. Do it. Now. Unless you have a friend or family member that is dying, your attention is with me. I've ended two encounters early because the provider was constantly checking her messages. In virtually EVERY other business, that kind of behaviour would merit discipline or termination. It's a disservice to your professionalism if you can't give me our time. The person on the other end of the line is NOT paying you now. I am. 9: Talking badly about other providers: This is tough. It's a very competitive business. Like many other hobbyists, I don't necessarily provide reviews or recommendations for the majority of providers with whom I have spent my time. Keeping that in mind, you have no idea of the nature of my relationship with nearly any other provider. I may absolutely adore a provider that you have just torn a verbal strip from... and that really doesn't help your cause. 10: Just another client: The biggest mistake any provider can make is to treat a client like "just another client." I have chosen you because you represent something desirable. I have brought my hard earned cash with me because I think you are special. I sought you out because I think you are going to be wonderful to and with me. Treat me like more than a donation envelope. Act as if you want to be with me. Make me feel like you want ME. The best providers (and we have so many great ones) know that the encounter is so much more than an intermingling of moistened body parts. They understand that the fantasy is passion and desire. If you want hobbyists to respect the fact that you are so much more than just a series of desirable body parts, treat HIM like more than a penis with an envelope. Jeebus. I was on a roll there.

Who cares why a provider doesn't want a certain client? She had her reasons and they are entirely her own. It could be a million things that have nothing to do with racism

Pretty much all of the above but mostly faking. I don't want some generic, "oh baby, oh baby, oh god" fake orgasm crap. I would honestly prefer the lady say, "that isn't doing it for me hon, let's try this or that". And if nothing works, so be it. At least I know what not to do or what needs working on and don't go through life thinking I'm good when I'm not. Any lady I've been with, I have expressed my need for that honesty up front. The other thing is this. Enjoy what you are doing or get out of the biz, imo. When you hate your job, it comes out of you in waves for everyone to see and feel.

Last Wednesday May 28th 2014, will be a date that this guy will never ever, forget...EVER. Delilah and Jessy had became friends through the virtual world first, I found out that Jessy was visiting this past week, they both were quite content in meeting each other, through the 3 of us communicating, so it didn't take me long to shoot off a couple texts messages, and I set the date and time, and I'm VERY happy I did, so was Delilah and Jessy :) Both ladies rates applied for the 2 hours, I never have issues with ladies rates, I just simply pay it, however, PLEASE take note- there is additional rates for Jessy (check her ad's for any extra activity that she will provide for other services) ;) also check Delilah's ad's for service as there is a difference between the BBBJ checked off and what Delilah offers") I like clarity for those others that might be interested,it saves a 100's of pm's :) and well I have met both ladies just a few times myself so I already knew. ;) I can assure you it is for those that dare to take a ride on the wild side,it is also for those that admirer both of these gorgeous women like I do, oh and really...you should book 2 hours to fulfill every aspect from this duo. It was a gift for all 3 of us to share, and to cease the moment while that opporuntity existed, and share something very special. All of the above,tags clicked on for services, were part of our 2 hour session together ( you must revert to each lady's ad for tags,and who provides what service). I have never been a part of something so special, watching 2 beautiful women,with myself having such erotic pleasures. There was many orgasms, there was many different positions used, I think the best was one lady sitting on my face,while the other lady rode me cowgirl and they faced each other, the moans were of pure delight including myself....... it was simply PUT!!! pure erotic pleasure for the 2 hour duration. The other details that happen inside the room with the 3 of us will remain in tact with the 3 of us, just use your imagination. :) These ladies did NOT advertise for a duo, it was just by chance, and the timing was perfect and of course I reacted without fail and set it up immediately, I mean who wouldn't? There might be other possibilties with these 2 women down the road, based on schedules,advertising, and of course any lucky gent that might want indulge in the pure pleasures of Jessy and Delilah, as I did, and I would do it again in a heartbeat. :) Thank-you Jessy and Delilah, you ladies certainly made my 2014, this will be forever etched in my memory for years to come, or until we do it again;)

Not too much to complain of here, happily. I count myself pretty lucky and the ladies I've met have generally been very professional and special. The one thing that does bug me a bit is a lady checking her phone repeatedly. Once at the beginning of an encounter is understandable (for all I know she has a system where she texts someone after meeting as a safety precaution), but after that I guess I'm selfish enough that I want us to be focused on just each other. It puts a damper on things if I feel I'm not engaging enough to hold your attention for a mere hour. I do have to say I'm a little surprised by the consensus of how many guys don't like being called "hun, babe, etc." I always find those sort of pet names quite endearing and affectionate myself. But, as in most things, to each their own!

In fairness, this really is in most cases a turn off for both ladies and gentlemen alike. And that is blocked profiles on CERB. I'm sure red flags are raised when a lady sees a male CERB member who has a blocked profile Likewise, although not red flags, on the few times I have seen a lady's photo and go to check her profile to find it blocked...well I personally can't be bothered to try to find out anything more about her or contact her CERB is supposed to be a relative open forum for potential clients to meet professional companions with the benefit of using anonymous board handles. When ladies and gentlemen alike even with the anonymity of this board hide by blocking their profiles, it must raise warning flags to the ladies, and at least for me, well I can't be bothered to even go to the trouble of contacting the lady A rambling RG

EMail (confirmation email) not returned in a timely manner. And no, I don't expect immediate replies to emails, but when it is coming down to the crunch, travel, leave, and hotel need to be confirmed, I need to get confirmation that the lady is going to show up Lady shows up at your hotel, providing a less than good encounter, saying "I gotta pay the bills hun, gotta pay the bills" Nothing like feeling like a wallet Another encounter, lady once she received the donation, says "now I can buy groceries" And again, nothing like feeling like your nothing but a wallet The pièce de résistance was a lady showing up, smelling of cigarette smoke, she asked to use mouthwash and all was fine...about an hour into a three hour encounter she asked if she could go out for a smoke break. Me being me, I said OK, she left with her purse, never came back...it wasn't so much losing $500.00 as it was being ripped off of an encounter All that said, my encounters overall have been terrific and recommendation worthy, and I focus on those positive memories instead of these few aberrations and am thankful to those ladies who made and make this a wonderful lifestyle and experience A rambling RG

When I met my first CERB lady (actually my third encounter) and not only my first good encounter, it was a GREAT ENCOUNTER!!! but I felt as if I should But that would leave the lady too long in the hotel corridor. So in my heart I am greeting the ladies like this even though I invite them into my hotel room and to the couch. And those ladies well they make old me feel like my younger self (going back to last century now LOL) And all the ladies I've seen in this lifestyle...well I thought I knew what was meant by a 10 But I was wrong...the ladies on CERB, well they don't deserve a 10, that would mean they lost points. These ladies are so much more than 10's to me, and if they were running down a beach, well Bo Derek would be left in their dust :-) CERB has introduced me to a community of like minded people, but especially kind caring affectionate ladies who value the gentlemen they see as more than just clients. Cliché as it sounds, and I said it before, but a brightness entered my life, because of the ladies of CERB Thank You RG

Well. First time. I was nervous as fuck !!! to say the least. She was HOT ! And now 4 years later she is hotter. Even tho she had put me at ease .... when the day came. Wowzers. Surprised I didn't lose it and streak to Brandon like Will Ferrell in Old School. Anyhoooo I always have to drive a fair distance so always worried about getting stuck in traffic.... Or worry about this .... But when I leave HAPPY after an amazing time with wonderful ladies ......... The Fembot dance Baby Yeah !!!!

With the curves that I have (PAWG), If I would ever decide stop seeing black men - or any dark skin lovers - I might as well declare my business bankrupt. I'm a Night rider babaaayyyy! "Dat ass had me like..."

As I read through these post I find myself agreeing with the comments but am even more struck by the fact that I have really not had many things to complain about.... my experience has been meeting great ladies who almost always go over and above in making sure I enjoy my time with them... on occasion I have been called cute names like Hun and baby and while on first impression I don't really live it... i find it really depends on how it is said .... then I also stop and think.... lol what's a lady to do... she's not coming up with cute names to piss us off but to try and make us feel special so it really never bothers me any more. I gave virtually no experience with no shows so that has not been a problem. The only real time I was upset was a time when a lady I only met once broke confidentially and discussed that I had seen her with another SP in my home area. I don't really care if the other lady knew who I had seen it was simply the fact that it was done intentionally to cause some drama. Never have or will see the lady again. I actually have been impressed by this industry... i gave mire problems with my bank and phone company than I do with ladies in this industry. Says something about the character of the ladies I have met. Thank You. Just my opinion

I dislike being put between a rock and a hard place. If I ask you questions or for info and you answer me yet ignore my direct questions then I have to choose between wasting my time on someone who I feel didn't respect me enough to answer my questions and then repeat them...sometimes more than twice or I ignore them and risk being spoken of negatively behind the scenes. I don't like being put in that position.

Evening Folks! After a day of treatments, chemo this morning and radiation this afternoon, with blood tests throughout the day, was sitting outside with a couple of folks having a drink. Figure, what could it hurt, could not take any pain killers until bed time. Anyway Gin and Tonic has healing qualities doesn't it?? back to the question: -as we were sitting around, here they were swatting and swearing, rubbing arms, legs and hair, trying to keep the little bastards away. However, not one mosquito, not one black fly came after me!!!! I think I will write a White Paper on this when I am not puking! Should be a grant in there somewhere, however by the time it was approved, I will be more worried about worms and such! Well actually, at that point I won't be worrying at all, will I? So, the question really is, what do you do to stop the little bastards from draining your blood?? Tom The Liquor!

When I think about the wonderful people of Cerb, SP and gentleman alike, I feel like this:

It is so great to have feedback from gentlemen as to their specific turnoffs, vs having the women do all the talking or (complaining). When a man takes the time to give honest feedback it can only result in a more positive experience for client and provider and enhance the experience for both. Sometimes we forget it is about the pleasure and not about the money, and if money is the only objective it is in fact an insult to the gentleman who prides himself on pleasuring his partner, paid for or not! Good on you sirs!!

Since recently turning 60 this is a question I've pondered. Both Helen Mirren and Susan Sarandon blow this out of the water but I'm neither lol. Am I sexy to some one in their 20's, certainly not in the real world and unlikely in this one too. So I do shy away from the youngins for sure. I'm old guy fit, quick to smile, an interested listener with a young and positive attitude and a twinkle in my eye. I appreciate this might be sexy to some......but not all Peace MG

I have been fortunate to meet some great ladies. And also for me the 'connection' is important so if I feel we've had a good time together...I'm often a repeat customer. But a couple things in my experience would fall into the 'turn off' category. 1. Obviously 'No Shows'. Yeh it happens to guys too. I've had it happen a couple of times. And I've always left the benefit of the doubt, provided the lady with opportunity to explain/apologize....and nothing. 2. 'Over the Top' It can be in talk, attitude, or looks. I know this gets to be personal choices but my preferences are just down to earth, respectful, and classy ladies. I like having real conversations. For me my dates go way better when we connect on various levels as well as physical. I've learned to look at ads better and communicate more openly with prospective dates. I remember meeting up with a lady at an agreed location (my 5 star hotel had card key) and although her ads/pics described a 'down to earth' 'classy' woman, she was wearing knee high stripper boots, a short mini skirt, and furry coat and lots of make-up. I know I could have been more specific. Walking through the lobby, past reception, concierge and the lounge was quite the scene. I'm sure some guys like this...but at least for me - just be yourselves. Thanks for the chance to comment and again the majority of ladies who read this are AAA....already absolutely adorable. Cub

Booking an hour minimum with a lady and after the quick introduction and shower and clothes removed she proceeds with a great BJ so good that I know I'm about to blow my load and ask her to slow it down a bit she agrees and 30 second later goes back at it to finish the job. When I'm done and request a shower to go for round 2 she says its only SOG. In and out in 15 minutes, paid for the full hour.

I suppose it depends greatly on what you choose to expose yourself to. I don't watch much mainstream media. Being in my 40's, I surround myself with my peers and I find their experience, maturity, sense of humour and "live-and-let-live" attitude to be refreshingly sexy. When I am with my mid-20's son and his friends, I'm often reminded that I'm too hot to be his mom. However, I don't find any of those young men to be very sexy I'm afraid. Confidence in a man or woman is a trait I find incredibly sexy, and it appears to me to be something that develops with age ;)

Well thank you all for you comments. No it was not my intention to expose any of our SP's about their intimate body parts. Rather I meant to invite them to send me a PM about their interest. Hope this clarifies things.

Funny, but it does not bother me if the lady uses any term of endearment when we meet, but in 95% of meetings the use of my first name is always used! When the Hun or sweetheart or lover is used it is one or two times not repeated all through the encounter. But when it is used, I like it! as it shows affection, and doesn't bother me in the least.if lady wants me to call her by name only,no problem, or if she like me to call her other names, no problem again :) lol

No sexy does not have a expiration date, as far as I'm concerned, if you're 90 something years old, and your partner is still with you, or your partner has passed away but you found new love , isn't that sexy in its own? Sexy is defined as desirable, seductive, sensual. It is not defined as that perfect 10 in a lady or man, after all who is perfect in this world? My kinda lady is in her being just herself as she portrays here on this board by her looks and personalities, I've met some very sexy ladies over my time,ranging in different body types and age, and they are all dam sexy in my books. I'm not driven by media, although when I was 13 looking at Playboy Centerfolds, or Penthouse, I was driven to shag one off with my right hand. :) I'm in my 50's keep in decent shape by walking,biking every day, as I have too to take care of myself physically. I've have had both parents pass away, it is a eye opener when we get up in age. I don't have that physique of the 6 pack abs,or huge biceps, (I did when I was 16-20 years if age) but that is what happens with age, I wear my heart on my sleeve, and I like to help others that I have been told by people it is a sexy trait mark to have. I like to think I would be still be fulfilling my sexual desires in my 90's. ;) So sexy is not just about looks, it is about personalities, the individuals character or quality. My nickel on the subject ;)

I with the gentlemen who dislike cute pet names. I dislike cute pet names. I have a business name which I like. I would prefer to be called by my real stage name because I created it myself. I totally understand someone who has given you his real first name and would like to be addressed by his full real first name. It makes sense to me that a person might like his own first name. I am totally into being Valerie which I much prefer over Val or Babe or Hun or whatever.

Well for me, as I already posted "Gotta pay the bills hun, gotta pay the bills" I don't think it was the "hun" in the message as the whole damn message that turned me off LOL However, pet names, whether generic like "hun" "babe" "sweetheart" etc by either a lady or gentleman, take it as a term of affection. I don't see any ulterior motives in words like this, they are terms of endearment whether written or said. My take on it A rambling from a 53 year old guy who has been called hun, babe, sweetheart (and more ;-)) by many beautiful women and find it affectionate...especially when followed by an XOXO ;-) A rambling RG

Jason Ferguson, this is what he's talking about: Obviously, girls who don't have any bacon on hand have more germs...

Nighthawk, here is some clarity since there have been two Jessie's at Barb's over the years (to my knowledge). There is one Jessie that is early 20's from Calgary, brunette and very hot, all natural with no tattoos (that I remember anyway). She was at Barbs maybe 2 or 3 years ago and then came back out west, although a friend of mine in Ottawa said she was at Barbs a few weeks ago under the name "Alex". There is another Jessie, French Canadian, early 30's with tattoos and enhanced breasts that was platinum blonde until about a year ago when she went brunette also. The older Jessie is the one that is dancing at Barbs now. There has also been mention on the board about Jessa's and Jessica's so it can get confusing, but the Jessie being talked about recently is the French Canadian one.

Of course I like and admire young ladies with their firm sexy bodies, but I also find many older ladies to be incredibly sexy! And, more often than not, the personal connection is better. Sexiness is so much more than just looks. It's attitude, confidence, the way a woman dresses and moves, the look on her face...

Too much make up, implants, dated photos, one-two word responses to emails, generic huns or babes, fly by nighters, disinterest, faking, conceit for no reason and generally poor customer service. Peace MG

Sexy to me is a feeling you have about yourself.... if you feel sexy.... you will see others as sexy and attractive... age and a perfect body have little to do with it for me... i see many sexy looking 20 year olds and appreciate very much how they look but as I get older I have found that I need more than just that sexy body I need a connection so my needs sexually have changed just like my body. So in many cases in my experience an amazing sexy lady with a body that has a few stretch marks is probably going to relate to this 54 year old... and that is SEXY. Just my opinion.

You watch too much U.S. TV! LOL... Prostitution is legal in canada. Lots of threads exist (use the search feature) on this topic and what is and is not legal.

well I'm sure I'm not the only lady who finds maturity in a man sexy! I know for me, younger men (under 30) just aren't my preference, that's why I have an age limit mentioned on my website. It's not the look of the older man I find irresistible, although that's often very appealing. The qualities that appeal to me are most often found in a mature man. Charisma, confidence, maturity, passion, chivalry, a positive attitude... younger men possess them of course, but not usually all of them.

I agree, when I was younger I had by most standards, what would physically be considered sexy, all anyone would want, but not much confidence. Hanging with the wrong people, listening to negativity and believing it, not much familial support and rather disconnected parents. All that can affect a positive outlook on oneself and create a lack of confidence. But as I've grown older, learned, understood, changed who I choose to associate with and who and what I listen to, I've become much more confident and at times, lol, to much so. But we all do what we have to do to protect ourselves. I certainly feel sorry for those who are young and growing in this decade of instant contact, online bulling, societal pressures, media bullshit, peer pressures, etc. If you are not a strongly grounded, centered and well parented youth, boy will you have a long hard road.

This is an interesting question and actually one that I have considered a great deal over the years. I was married when I was 21 to an amazing woman who was tiny, gorgeous, and sexy beyond sexy. We were together for 40 years until her death and as time progressed and years went by, I not only continued to find her sexy and attractive but more so all the time. Her sexual aura only grew for me. Since my foray into Cerb I can truthfully say that I have met with women of all ages, from close to my own which is older for sure but also to some very young hard bodied ladies. In all cases the sexy was present but ultimately the thing is that it comes down to the person and not their age or even their hard bodiedness. Who can not help but admire a young woman in her supposed,"prime," but the fact of the matter is for me that I believe that women are sexier as they mature. Now to reverse the scenario, when I look into the mirror I only see,"old." I don't feel that but I see that. I wonder if that perception for women preferring the young hard bodied man is even stronger for them than it is for men who look at women?

I had the pleasure of seeing Mindi from BPage yesterday for the first time .... I think I'm in love (lol). This girl is gorgeous. She is 100 percent Girl Next Door look. Her pics and description are very accurate. Incall only out of a luxurious apartment downtown. I contacted her by text asking whether she could see me in a few minutes notice, she agreed and we met in 20 minutes. She greeted me at the door in a bikini ... my jaw dropped! She's fit, sexy body and very cute face. She strikes me as clean living and very well grounded. She did say having attended university. Just from the looks alone, she is the kind of girl I would have always wanted to have for a girlfriend back in the day ... Wish I was 20 something again. I like a SP who is direct to the point so we texted ahead of time about the services and price, I only had half hour over lunch and I only wanted a BJ. We got down to business and her oral skills are really good, not necessarily DT style but very sensual and effective. We switched to 69 and she has a beautiful shaved or waxed kitty. She's responsive to DATY and I totally enjoyed going down on her. She offers CIM for a small extra fee (ymmv).

Just think of it as a personal preference for the SP. It doesn't mean certain races are better or worse than others. Some things that certain people don't like doesn't necessarily mean that that thing is bad. It's just like any restrictions that the SP has. If she says no, are you saying you want force it on her? There are many other SPs out there for you. Good luck.

I don't think breasts alone define a woman's beauty or sexiness... I think what makes a woman sexy is to the whole package (you exude "sexy" based on things like your style, your personality & what you project, not just your breast) Personally, I'm happy with my medium breast and don't feel the need to get them bigger simply because they are perfect as they are and sometimes changing something when there's no need could lead to disappointing results. Also, we're told in theory men likes bigger breast, but in real life I believe they like variety. So, darling, no stress... Like your breast and like your body and the others will like it too. :) Don't try to follow unrealistic standards or care about what people say. (I personally think that always trying to follow the "norm" or what others do is boring) So, be yourself; a sexy confident woman, a unique beauty and keep your head high. ;-) Kisses xoxo

Having all the roller coster emotions about my dad...my highlight today was seeing my mom smile when I picked her up at the hospice :) Bianca

I myself do not discriminate race( not judgemental at all when it comes to your nationality)...but there are some that probably do because they only date black men so maybe they are afraid of running into someone they may know on a personal level and yes some being ignorant and racist! But then again just like it is a man's.choice of what type of woman he would like to spend time with it is our choice as SP how we would like to.conduct our business I was told I loose business because I prefer to see the older mature gentlemen and.not young.men and that may be true but at the end of the day its what I feel comfortable with Xo

Guys I think since the original thread was about Emma on Bp we should not bring Emma A into the same thread. Emma A is well established and should not be linked to this thread. Someone who may not read carefully may get wrong messages about her. I know its pretty clear but still when a thread starts with one girl it should remain only about her...IMHO

This subject has been discussed before here's the link http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=151618 RG

:) it is not (and has not been) easy to do. It does take a lot of moderation and a lot of really great members.

Rude is very easy to decipher. The post itself however, is completely unintelligible. :icon_wink: I assumed you were drunk. (I still kinda do.) :icon_wink: :icon_wink: :icon_wink: Clearly you don't want to discuss anything, you wanted to make a speech. So, job done. Goodnight Christy, Kim EDIT: (To the topic at hand, I "thank" posts I find funny, bright, helpful or interesting. Who the poster is has no bearing on it.)

Large ones, tiny ones, Firm ones, not Round ones, flat ones, They please a lot. All are good and all are great, Add chocolate syrup and we'll make a date I'm easily pleased and love em all, But truth be told, I love them small.

I am perfectly fine with these words, Hun! I love it when someone I have seen before addresses me like these. In this hobby, I look for GFE, and which GF doesn't address you this way? Never been addressed as "pumpkin" though...lol.

Black men don't seem to be attracted to me. I can count on one hand the number I've seen in my career, and each of them was a complete gentleman. Not sure why ...:confused0024: