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Just wanted to say that after being on Cerb for 4 years and meeting many SP's and MA's over the years that I have learnt a lot about the women who have chosen the is path as a career. Most of them have chosen this career because they enjoy the independence and financial freedom that it can bring. But this job is not easier. Many of them have families or kids to support. University educations that they are trying to complete. This job is demanding as it involves many hours of marketing, emailing, posting ad's answering text and PM's. Trying to get hotel, schedule appointments. The women who are most successful at this job are the one's that truly enjoy their work and like to please their clients. I've met many of these women and have truly enjoyed my time with them time and again. This can be a stressful time as they need the time to prepare the room and prepare themselves for each encounter. Some day's it can busy and other day's not. Some day's they meet some really fun gentlemen and other days, maybe some creeps. Some have been robbed, or beaten up or cheated. Sometimes there no shows or other girls that make fake appointments. This is a hard job. Sometimes it is physically demanding. They give their most intimate moments. It takes a certain kind of woman to handle the emotions and sexual activities that this job may entail. One SP, told me that it's not the physical aspect that is tiring. But the emotional aspect. To be able to pretend to enjoy themselves when they are not. She was saying that in this job she had to be the giver all the time and that most of the men were takers. Her Job was to give them pleasure and most men just used her to get as much pleasure for themselves. These women deserve more, they deserve to be treated kindly and with respect. Respect their time and their contact protocol. Be a gentlemen and be clean. Do not try to negotiate their rates, or push them for more then they are willing to offer. Give them a massage to start, make it about them in the beginning. They may have had a hard day, and appreciated a little kindness and tenderness and relaxation. Talk to them, they are people also, not just objects of your lust. Treat them well and with respect and kindness. I've been told by them, that it doesn't matter how old or what you look like. As long as you are a gentlemen and clean, you will be treated well. Remember, that they are there to make you happy and are providing a very intimate service, so you should appreciate they company they provide. If the chemistry and connection are there, you will have a great time. If the connection is real, it pays to return for repeat sessions. I have repeated many times with many of the women, and have found that each session get's better and better, as you get to know each other and are more relaxed with each other. I have had several good friendships developed over the years and have maintained them. Just wanted to say this to thank you to the women of Cerb for the fun and kindness that they have given us men over the years. I hope to meet many more of you over the next few years if I can :) Remember guys. Be a gentleman, be clean and respectful and you shall be rewarded. Oh yeah, one more thing. The woman should always cum first :)

I'm going to say it. STUPIDITY. Especially this week. There are far too many people speaking from an opening that is not their mouth... and most of those are the doom and gloomers. Think of solutions. When you give up and publicly announce that there is no hope, you become part of the problem. So... if you have given up hope, please... ummm... shut the fuck up. Your "sky is falling" bullshit is NOT HELPING.

Moved at last! Moved at last! Great god almighty, I am moved at last! And I adore this new place! Great open concept floor plan. A shower built for playing in. And two big rooms to dedicate to entertaining!! Let the fun begin!!

Add to this starting a new thread when there is already one in another section. READ BEFORE TYPING!

So what! I have been in this business for 33 years and seen ladies in many different countries all with different laws, and it never stopped me. There is nothing wrong with seeking the company of a woman. Now if we happen to get naked in private, oh well things happen! Its as much legal to give cash to a lady that you spend time with so she can buy herself a gift, as it is to taking her out to a fancy restaurant and paying for the food and drinks.

Black bra with fuschia butterflies on the side and fuschia designs on it and gstring free!!! Huummm love the fresh air!!!!

I appreciate the spirit behind your post and the time you took to write it. I certainly hope you all treat the people who serve your morning coffee, deliver your paper, clean your house, fix your car, cook your lunch, shine your shoes, serve your dinner, clean your teeth, wax your body hair, prepare your prescription, scrub your toilet, ring through your grocery purchases and dry clean your suits the exact same way. Sex work is real work and although we certainly deserve compassion, respect and consideration, we don't require it any more than any other working person you encounter during your day. It's the separation of us as "special" that often perpetuates the notion that we require "special" considerations, that we need "special" accommodations, that we simply aren't like everyone else. Well we are.

That's 100% malarkey. A stereotype and nothing more. The top 3 biggest cocks I've ever handled all belonged to Caucasian men. Dick size is no more related to skin color than pussy tightness is to hair color. I've seen sizes ranging from itty bitty to king kong dong on all races but as the saying goes it's how you use it that matters. I was actually very shocked the first time I heard that some SPs refuse to see black men. I was contacted by a potential client who was inquiring about my services. At the end of the email, he felt obligated to inform me that he was mulatto and asked if it was ok. If I'd still see him. This was how I found out about race restrictions. I was in disbelief and appalled. I still can't believe it. Same goes for some refusing to see BBM (is that correct?). I understand we all have different tastes but for me, my personal taste doesn't influence who I take on as a work client. I'm not seeking someone to date or marry and have a family with at work. I want clients who are respectful, kind, reliable, fun to spend time with, etc. It doesn't matter what they look like. Everyone deserves to be made to feel special!

The Harper government.

Calling all experts! I'm not one. According so some , the proposed legislation allows law enforcement to add the names of those charged and convicted to the National Sex Offender Registry. What value will that very important list have if hundreds of the names on it are simply not the names of sexual predators? What use will it be when the names on it are of consenting adults who simply paid for or sold sexual services? Can anyone confirm this is the case? And if so, are both clients and providers added to the list upon conviction? I realize it's not law yet. I'm trying to find the parts that we need to focus on changing. This would be one of them.

Not sure if this has been posted BUT it is important. This is the actual process of how a bill becomes law in Canada. http://www.parl.gc.ca/About/House/compendium/web-content/c_g_legislativeprocess-e.htm So when you are fretting about Bill SeeDirtySex (C36) remember what was tabled on Wednesday is like a piece of cloth before it gets tailored into a suit. IT IS NOT THE FINAL PRODUCT. An all party committee will scrutinize the living shit out of the current bill. You can bet that more than one member will PUBLICLY suggest that the bill is absolutely contrary to the SCC decision and will suggest sending the bill or parts thereof to the SCC as a series of test questions. You know how the SCC has ruled - in unanimity. What can you do in the interim? Contact your MP. Demand a written response. Organize. Organize. Organize. If you are a part of a SW organization, enlist the support of human rights organizations. Have THEM speak on your behalf in concert with your own voice. Find SW friendly artists, authors, educators and other persons of note to advocate for you. Get Elizabeth May on board. Get the NDP on board. Get the Liberals on board. Don't get sidetracked on side issues. No tangents. You want to gain support NOT alienate. This bill affects both sexes. In the resounding words of Pierre Elliot Trudeau - "There's no place for the state in the bedrooms of the nation." That was nearly 50 years ago. Let's NOT go backwards. Just some food for thought.

Mr Prime Minister Harper, Oh Ye, Oh Great One, Following the direction of the Supreme Court but first and foremost at your direction since you are so much more powerful than the Justices, I have been working to rewrite the legislation regarding prostitution in this great country of ours. I have determined that the model that we can use will be similar to the one that we follow in the regulation of marijuana. By using this model there is a precedent set elsewhere in our legal system that we cannot be challenged on and it will keep everyone happy. It shall be legal to sell sex and it shall be legal to purchase sex, but only in small amounts. We of course will be required to write regulations to define small. If a potential client is by nature well endowed then it would be impossible to have just a little bit of sex. That would be by definition a lot of sex and therefore subject to prosecution. This would be a winning political position for our party in the next election because in reality most men are not that well endowed. If you may recall, when a former President from our neighbors to the South had a blowjob from Ms. Lewinsky, he set precedent for us with these words. "I did not have sex with that woman." Therefore we can confidently assert that a simple blowjob is exempt from prosecution. Since I know how much you admire the Americans I am sure that you can accept this. Or perhaps we could allow a little bit of a blow job if you are more comfortable with that. Deep throat would certainly be cause for prosecution. In order to protect our youth it is critical that we regulate advertising from the "Ladies of the night." I propose that references to sex be prohibited, but that we create and charge for courses that will teach proper methods of writing in code. For example, an, "Introduction to Mr. Putin," would in fact refer to a Russian ending. Instead of using the term BBBJ they could talk about the "Triple B Ranch." These courses can also add to government income to allow us to further pad our Senators expense accounts. Mr Harper, before I finish I would like confirmation that I am on the right track. I would be pleased to do a CIM for you at your request. Sorry about the acronym - Composite Information Material. With Respect, Peter MacKay From the Desk of the Prime Minister: Peter, I'd like to stick it up your ass! Stephen From the Desk of Peter MacKay Stephen, Under the new legislation that response allows you to be charged!

It's simple. Drop an envelope for: 1. Interior decorating 2. consulting services 3. meal service 4. Artwork 5. Piano lessons/vocal training/ 6. cleaning services 7. tutoring services 8. pet sitting/dog walker/groomer 9. gardening 10. snow shovelling 11. whatever else you want to hire someone else for.... Seriously? You can have sex with a friend. You can have sex with someone that you have hired to do other services. It's not complicated. Think outside the box!!! (maybe a bad choice of phrasing...) In the meantime, build your contacts. If you don't want to have providers on your main phone, get a burner. Get blackberry messenger. Blackberry has that service because GOVERNMENTS can't monitor the traffic on it. DM on Twitter Text message. There are so many logical solutions folks....

I was just listening to a French Radio Canada interviews on FM and they asked a cop about the part of the bill about criminalizing clients and he said it would be very difficult to apply, if it becomes law. Basically they can't have a police officer with each SP, 24 hrs a day, to hear and see everything they do!

It Went That-Away Sorry couldn't resist RG :-)

I have been a member here on CERB for a few years but only really active for the last year... i think the Board does a pretty good job of monitoring behaviour of members in regards to their postings but there is really very little that can be done if members behaviors with SP'S are less then desirable. I would like to think that the amazing ladies of CERB would share that information with each other so that those who do not act appropriately get black listed by mire ladies. There is no excuse for mistreating these wonderful ladies through your actions or your word.

Learning a good and special friend was not lying bleeding in a ditch somewhere and that she only suffered from profoundly deep sleep. :butt:

Opening my email to find that my boss is flying me first class. Wooooo hooooo! Never flown first class before.

The people who are rude belligerent and mistreat the ladies on here are a bunch of losers get a life and learn some manners ! All the ladies I have met so far have been a pleasure to spend time with. They don't deserve some of the crap these morons dishout.

http://newbrunswick.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/girl-next-doordynamic-encounter-24/1726374 She defiantly does not match the pictures posted in her add.

lmfao! awesome

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AHHHHH so the need for lumber makes sense now lol. Additional Comments: That is awesome.

That myth is ridiculous....the color of your skin does not determine the size of your package I have had the pleasure of sharing my time with all races and I have seen itty bitty to large So that's bullshit

I am in the neighborhood and I would be happy to see you for social dates and whatever else might happen.

I am going to try and connect with a lady in my neighborhood and see her once or twice a year. More often if finances permit. I would see her with the intentions of just social dates and anything more would be between two consenting adults -- in the privacy of my home. The challenge is finding a (non-smoking) lady in my neighborhood who is willing to see me. Nudge... Nudge... Wink... Wink...

LOL hopefully u have some lube handy

Reading this thread reminds me of a couple of corny quotes. If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's yours. If it does not come back, it was never meant to be. And for the guys who have been in the club all night long and have had one drink too many. If you love something, set it free. If it comes back, it's sure to be a drunken idiot asshole. .

Midnite-Massage....If there is a blog more sexually intense or with better images... i have not seen it.

I'm sure it would be very hard to proove that any amount transfered would be for sexual services...it can simply be a gift! Just my opinion! BJ

It would be significant to more than just teachers... it would be relevant to just about anyone who requires a security clearance for their job or who volunteers with children or youth. But let's keep in mind that everything was not legal in the past... things will be worse but it's not the end. Just my opinion

>At some point there will be a public outcry to change this new law to better protect them. Sadly, I don't think a public outcry will occur. Few people in the general public know or even care about the victims... they buy into the exploitation myth that is being promoted by the conservatives. I doubt any party is going to run on a de-criminalize and regulate the sex trade. The law will likely get struck down for violating constitution and there will be another round of this non-sense. Unfortunately there has to be some brave women and men who will sacrifice much in order to fight to over turn a bad law.

People who talk on their cell phones for a really long time while on the bus

Great thread Savannah! As a genuine person I love being surrounded by genuine people...in every aspect of my life. I'm me and no one else...and I absolutely love authentic people,they are a source of positive energy! :) BJ

lmao so true.

Puritans, hypocrites, paternalists.

http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/news-video/video-what-canadas/article19018150/?cmpid=rss1&google_editors_picks=true

We may be perverts but we're not crooks so we don't qualify for politics.

People who don't take care of their gardening equipment. Listening to your sputtering lawn mower (8 houses over) and hearing that it takes an hr to cut a small lawn drives me crazy! A simple tune up...bring it here, I will do it for free to not hear that noise! Same with your weed eater and pressure washer! Shot, do that on a Thursday or Friday evening after work.

I had my boys aged 8 and ten out for supper with there grandfather. My father kept commenting on how cute the server that was working was. Well kids have no fear so after the server took our order and asked if we wanted anything else my eight year old asked for her number for his grampie lol. Server laughed and my father was still blushing hours after the fact.

Many of us already do pay income tax. This is not what these laws seek to do. The government clearly stated their intent was to end prostitution; it says so right in the bill itself.

It is illegal to advertise prostitution in much of the usa but "escorts", "massage", "etc" ... Is paid for time and not advertising sex... So that is not illegal. It is just a matter of advertising with choice words in the usa. We are not called canada's prostitution recommendation board (cprb) things would change but they would just be pushing the industry underground, to think this would make it better, safer or make fewer people do it is ridiculous. I guess the owners of the sites could all just move to Amsterdam or Belize or some place like that and run the sites outside of the country. Maybe i can go too! ;)

Peter MacKay

Hope this helps. Further break down and possible future steps. http://www.pivotlegal.org/the_new_sex_work_legislation_explained Jas xo.

One benefit of living in Newfoundland... to cold for Flys yet lol

Lavender oil mixed with rubbing alcohol. Smells great and works wonderfully.

I communicated at great length once with a gentleman about a meeting. It was his first time with a paid companion, and he had many questions and concerns, as I'm sure you can all appreciate. He explained he owns his own successful and busy company and that he was tired of the bar scene and casual pick ups that stayed over one night and never left. I explained I was no gold digger, that I had my own pot of gold and that his payment ensured I would a) leave, and b) not call him the next day. Despite living alone, he was reluctant to have me visit his home (again understandable) and he booked a room at an upscale resort hotel. When I arrived I knocked, and could hear him finishing up a phone call on the other side of the door. When he opened it he still had the phone at his ear... his jaw dropped open and he said "oh my gawd! it's YOU!" He was a senior in highschool when I was a junior. He was my sisters' age, and although we weren't buddies we sure knew eachother. He quickly recovered from his shock, invited me in and said he was so glad it was me, he'd been so nervous but now he felt better. I explained that discretion was my middle name and of course it was a two way street... which of course he confirmed. We continued with the visit and I've seen him several times since. Nice guy :)

Well, I never wear underwear....until I discovered how comfortable men's boxers are! Bart Simpson is on my ass right now! Lmao

I have been in plenty of threesomes over the years.. both on and off camera.. and when I'm with a partner who I know is 'ooing' and 'awing' way over the top.. I'm completely turned off and have no clue what to do .. to either match her fakeness or just fade into the background. BUT when this happens I'd say 50% of the clients/viewers love it.. and the other 50% are turned off like myself.. When it's genuine fun.. I"m in heaven.. and have a blast.. and this is evident to the participants/viewers.. Unfortunately I don't usually know the lady in question is disingenuous until we're in the thick of things.. and she's practically cumming before we've even started! ugh.. bleh and ick.. lol.. I personally don't know how someone can fake it for an hour or two and not be strained from it..

Is this new? Only recently I saw a recommendation from a person who had no previous post?