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Today is Quebec's national day so happy birthday to all Québec gentlemen and beautiful ladies of cerb! How do you celebrate this Holiday...or do you celebrate at all? For my part I don't celebrate much on the 24th of june...for one i don't like crouds...specially on that day coz I found it is mostly a young croud that like to get drunk and be disturbing...It can be fun with a bunch of friend though :) There are a lot of shows, artist, signers performing ( not always the most popular either) in parks organized in more or less big cities and fireworks to end the evening. I have been to the state for the 4th of July and they sure know how to celebrate...not just on the 4th but days before and after...Our american Neighbors are very welcoming people! Do you have a favorite Holiday to celebrate? Canada day? or others... Bianca

Hmmmm This is a very interesting topic.I should be out riding but its raining so I am here and came across this thread. I can only speak for myself but I have made some really great friends in this profession.For myself I find it easier then dating so I do this by choice not be cause I have to.I do think it helps with loneliness if even for a brief couple of hours...everyone needs a human connection and to be touched and feel wanted and cared for. Different things happen in life that cause us to handle things differently or perhaps be more guarded.This is a good way to be held,have a human connection but yet still not have to completely open up until we are ready for that. Alexoxoxoo

Welcome to Halifax and good luck with your search . While you may find someone willing to visit you for what you mention be prepared for more than that . Especially in the evening .

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The best SP/MA encounters I've had have always been with women who I've clicked with. It's still about the sexual release, but that's so much better with someone I can talk to. I would caution the original poster though to remember that it is a service industry. I've talked to several providers who've been hounded by men who lost sight of the difference, guys who forgot that the "girlfriend experience" was on an hourly rate. It's great if an encounter can reduce your loneliness, but it's important to always keep that fact in mind.

On the contrary, I think if you read through the thread you'll see that those topics were raised in response to the OP's subsequent points and questions as the thread progressed. Clearly we're having different experiences with SPs, and approaching the OP's queries from different perspectives, but that's cool. He, and others reading the thread, will draw their own conclusions.

Personally, I think a lineup is a bit degrading! I like beautiful girls just as much as the next guy but looks are only one component, and I think a small one, of a great encounter. Maybe you're not looking for beauty but for a particular feature like small boobs (yipee) or big boobs, great legs, great bum, whatever. As stated above, I think the pictures provided by the hi-end spas would provide that info. I find a bit of homework goes a long way in finding the MA with the assets I most enjoy :) To answer your question, I'm not aware of any that provide a lineup. My 2 cents!

Fake photos, and that number's been associated with other fakes for months. Don't waste your time.

BBQ Maple Salmon with spinach salad and fresh fruit for dessert. A glass of white wine or a Corona for the adults.

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One issue I've faced with going to a SC with clients is that the bouncers will check your ID and then say your full name (first and last) out loud to 'welcome' you into the club. This has happened to me three times now. With the gentlemen in question it was fine because they knew my name anyway, but if this happened with a first time client I would be upset. I spoke to those bouncers after we were seated at the table and they apologized, but it hasn't really changed the behaviour as bouncers come and go and I think it's in their training to do that. For the girls that work at SCs, is it possible to change that practice? Not sure how, but it's not ideal and I feel they should know better than to do that.

As an eight year member on the board I can tell you it has always been Ottawa, Winnipeg and the East Coast who have been the biggest contributors to the board. Over the last couple of years there has been a significant increase in contributions from members in both Kingston and Thunder Bay. Even though this is the only national board, we have always struggled to get members from all area of Canada to contribute to CERB. I will forever try to encourage members from all areas of the country to contribute here. The C stands for "Canadian", don't complain there isn't information on your area if you are not contributing yourself. Happy hobbying! :D

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Jason, feel free to let the ladies you see know about CERB and tell them that it an SP friendly site. Many ladies avoid boards because they are very antagonistic towards providers so they choose to avoid all of them except the ones they need to advertise on locally. The more ladies from a specific region participate on a board, the more men are drawn to it... cat

http://www.cbc.ca/news/politics/peter-mackay-s-prostitution-law-news-conference-sowed-confusion-1.2679800 in this article the Justice Department claims McKay was very wrong about some key parts of the bill, including the advertising. The parts of C-36 dealing with advertising have caused a lot of confusion. At the news conference, MacKay was asked if prostitutes who take out ads could be prosecuted. "If there is a direct connection to the selling of sex that does not present itself in a public way then it would be legal. But if it is done so in a way that is perceived as public or available to those under the age of 18 it would be illegal," he replied. Justice Department officials corrected the minister. They said prostitutes advertising their own services cannot be prosecuted under the new law.

My purchase was a cute blue baby doll from la senza thinking that when i got home that i could catch my hubby's eyes with it nope didn't work at all so now it sits in the back of the dresser drawer :(

Thank you deepstrut for a different perspective. You are correct that sometimes when people look in the wrong places to cure loneliness that they can come out feeling more lonely and empty than before they started and that some people blur the lines between reality and fantasy. This can happen not only with an SP but with anyone. At least with an SP there won't be extended drama should either happen. In these situations, it is on the person looking at the situation to know themselves and to determine what it is they need and want and if this might be an option to gain it or a potential risk. Some learning is about trial and error and some is about putting yourself in a safe supportive environment to gain knowledge. You don't learn how to do a job by trial and error, you learn in a classroom, through mentoring or job shadowing. You then take that knowledge into situations where you apply it and learn through action to improve it. Relationships are not completely trial and error. We talk to people who have been through it, we ask advice, we read articles and then we apply those in a learn to improve capacity. In your example of a kid who can't sing. Having the support of their mother believing in them is a huge thing but not the only thing. If the mother encourages practice and lessons they are gaining the knowledge and skill before stepping into other situations that require them to apply it. SP's are not here to rubber stamp especially if someone is looking to gain experience. They share their knowledge, provide direction and make suggestions in a safe supportive environment. There are many SP's and clients who have developed friendships and provide emotional support within the boundaries they set up. This says that for some people, this can be a good emotionally supportive outlet. Like everything, it's not for everyone and as you and others have said, take a hard look at what you want/need, risks, pros and cons and determine if it is the best course of action. For the record, when I comment in these threads, I am not trying to seduce anyone to visit me. I believe there is a world of potential and possibility out there that we should be open to. That we should see our sexual and intimate needs as self care and as important as other things and that we need to look within to determine what works and doesn't work for us and to ignore those who may or may not agree with us. The world is full of differing perspectives, thoughts, biases, morals, labels, triggers etc. We are responsible for ourselves and should feel no guilt in taking care of ourselves if no others are harmed. Different perspectives are valuable as they give us ideas and thoughts and hopefully give us more options than we had before.

And if all that tells you to make contact, then take the time to talk to the sp. Not endless emails or texts with long stories of what your fantasy is, but a short chat to find out a little about her personality. Takes 5 minutes of your time, and may be the difference between a good time and a mistake. Every time i have read a bad review, i would go and look at the ad (in the days of CL erotic ads) and shake my head as if to say, well, what did you really expect. If it were me, they would have lost me at the ad itself, the presentation, the spelling, the wild symbols, and text spelling, and what seems like a million other things, including one line, phone # and 5 pics being the total of the ad lol., Sps who care about their business, care about how they present themselves from the minute their title catches your eye to the end of the ad. That's why we are so miffed when people call and they didn't take the time to read all the way to the end of the ad, the part with all the important info they are now calling to ask us.

I have had to delete two threads in the past 24 hours of people using cerb to vent about things that I like to refer to as AIRING OUT YOUR DIRTY LAUNDRY that is not the purpose of CERB and I must delete these posts and give out warnings for such things. For example... calling out a guy who is stalking you in hopes that he reads your thread about him on cerb (THIS WOULD NOT BE ALLOWED!). If you have a stalker CALL THE POLICE do not bring these problems (or encourage these people) to/on cerb. If it is a cerb member REPORT him/her to me and CALL the police. Posting about someone in public who is obviously unstable and harassing you will only make things worse and could encourage that person to escalate his/her attempts to harass you. If you have a TIFF with someone, keep it off cerb please. For example #2... If you work in a massage spa and as an escort on the site and you want to complain in public that guys are coming to see you in the massage spa and talking about your escorting (or looking for "extra's at the spa")... this is something you need to deal with privately not complaining on cerb about it. The point I am getting at here is cerb is NOT to be used as a place to vent, a place to call out other people or air out your dirty laundry. Some things are better dealt with in private or by the proper authorities.

I was recently in Kitchener and I walked by Lotus Spa at 991 King Street East. I was intrigued as I had never seen this place before; it must be new. There were two ladies available; both ladies were really cute, pretty and petite. Luckily, I did not have to do "eeny meeny miny moe" because it would have been hard to decide. One of the ladies took me to the room. I cannot remember the name of the lady but she did a great massage, had the body of a goddess and she gave me some great extras. The only funny part was that the shower had only cold water. LOL. Maybe it was a plumbing problem. The important thing is that my plumbing did not have any problems if you know what I mean (Nudge, nudge. Wink wink. Say no more.) As I was getting dressed, both ladies came back into the room and suggested that I try a duo next time. Definitely next time. I hope that I will have the stamina.

It's warm tonight and it got me thinking of what activities I plan on doing this Summer. I plan to: 1. Have a number of wonderful encounters with some gents, females and couples 2. Hit the strip club with friends 3. Do a few private tours/possible personal travel (may be) 4. Have a huge family reunion (first big one in over a decade, my Mom's side) 5. BBQ 6. Swim in the new pool I bought 7. Fireworks 8. Buskers 9. Go camping 10. Have a blast!! That's all I can think of for now but I am spontaneous and you just never know what each day will bring! What plans do you all have for the Summer? Kisses, Lexy

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Or Ottawatonians are just more open and unashamed of partaking in this lifestyle, and willing to share, well except the transplanted Ottawatonians ones like Peter MacKay who thinks sex is dirty and should be kept in the shadows RG

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Thunder Bay is pretty small place compared to Ottawa and the National Capital Region. Another factor is the presence of competing forums, some areas have many active forums, others only the two majors. Also, a lot of "activity" is invisible, there are many many lurkers.

Good read :) Great site as well Il Re - Thanks :) I found this article ( about how the "real world" views sex workers ) similarly interesting: http://www.nerve.com/love-sex/sex-worker-lea-michele-boyfriend Everyone should read it! Im not a celebrity or a porn actress buuuut, I can relate to a, b, c and d - haha

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Really? I did not know that. Ottawa must be full of horny people; there must be something in the drinking water that contains an aphrodisiac. I want to add comments about my recent trips to Kitchener-Waterloo. I was a naughty boy in Kitchener but the Kitchener forum has no traffic. By the way, I have just checked out your profile and you're looking mighty fine Savannah. I am thirsty and you are a drink of cool water.

I agree that seeing an SP us not the perfect answer to loneliness and that a good SP will create a wonderful fantasy for her client. However while that may be true... if the person understands this is a business arrangement and accepts that there is no reason to think that the companionship if the meeting us not real in that context.... if a person is lonely and craves interaction in a personal intimate way with another person an SP can be a very good outlet. No... not a replacement for ongoing relationships in their lives but a short period of connection with someone else. As for teaching.... all I can say us that I have learned a great deal about pleasing a woman from my interactions with SP'S.... to suggest it is all ohhs and ahhhh a regardless what might be happening is a gross error... a good session with an SP us about mutual pleasure which involves communication. Just my opinion.

There is NO desperation in self care. If you were ill, you'd see a doctor. If you hurt yourself a physiotherapist or chiropractor, if you had things in your head you couldn't sort out alone, a psychologist or psychiatrist. these are all forms of self care. Sex and intimacy and the need for it as well as the desire to be better, is all self care. I find it interesting science and society can admit that sex and intimacy are important to our well being but then put moral limits on obtaining it. There are many clients who choose this route because it fits better within their own lives and restrictions. Some don't want the entanglements of a relationship or because of their job or career focus, don't have the time and believe it's unfair to date. They still want sex and intimacy just in a different way. There is nothing desperate about logical, well thought out choices. Plus...what MightyPen said because he's right some sexy smart.

I love to see the "load" after an encounter. I don't know what it is about it but I like to see a nice "load'. Am I the only one or do other ladies look to see or gents, do you look to see how much you let go. The gent I'm guessing know by the sensation and point of release.

Thanks folks. A friend of mine that I confide it is totally against me doing this. She worries about STIs, legalities, and also about how I'd explain to a future/potential partner that I once sought the services of an SP.

It can absolutely do that, with the right SP. (I think starting with an SP you find here on CERB would be a good idea.) And I think Midnite-Massage is exactly right. Choose an SP who appeals to you, explain to her your situation, and go into the encounter with a positive and honest mindset. Be ready to take things slowly and learn as you go. And communicate, communicate, communicate. If things go well arrange a series of sessions so that you can continue to learn beyond that nervous first encounter. Just remember that your main goal in this case is to learn, to find your feet and grow a little in a way you can carry into your other relationships. There's a real risk of getting overwhelmed by the intense emotional experience of caring sexuality. Be careful to keep your balance. One more thing: be PROUD that you're taking positive action to tackle something you perceive as a hurdle for yourself. Now you have fun, and work, ahead of you. I wish you all the best in both of them!

Unfortunately we seem to think if loneliness as some kind of dreaded illness.... everyone can be lonely from time to time.... it not a lack of friends or people who care about you... you can be lonely even if you are in a great committed relationship with someone you love.... loneliness is for most of us a temporary state if bring where for that time we are craving a connection with others... that might be a sexual connection or an emotional connection. Let's not paint everyone who says they are lonely as damaged..... we all get lonely. Just my opinion

For you and me!!:bj2: Kisses, Lexy

Well this bill has already been complicated by today's Supreme Court Of Canada decision http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=182967 And as I have argued already, police are going to focus their resources on street prostitution. It takes relatively few law enforcement "bucks" to get a lot of "bang" (ie arrests, convictions) whereas now requiring a warrant to access a internet users information from a Internet Service Provider needs a lot of investigative resources and information/evidence to show a court to get a warrant to access a user's information Would be a lot of bucks for very little bang Police departments are bureaucracies and like any other bureaucracies they are given budgets and spend it as they best see fit. My prediction is the focus will be on street prostitution And don't think, as much as MacKay et al are ideologically driven, that this decision won't be reflected in the final bill/law. RG

How would this work ;)

I think it can be... not as an end itself, but as a means of helping you to make other, more permanent change in your life that will make you less lonely. Loneliness comes from the absence of people who share in your life. It's not the absence of people -- you can be surrounded by people, even married to someone, and yet still be lonely because they're not truly sharing who you are and what you care about. So the question becomes -- how can you add such people to your life? That can be tough, especially if your experiences to this point have resigned you to your fate; if you don't believe you're capable of emotional intimacy, or you feel you've lost that capacity you once had. Time with an SP is only temporary and brief, but the effects can be long-term. Just spending some time with someone who can be intimate, who can be sexual, who can be focused on you and pay attention to your desires and your body... that's therapeutic. It can remind you that you're capable of that kind of intimacy, and of its importance to you. It can also teach you some lessons about handling yourself in intimate situations -- not just sexual, but in conversation and in interacting with someone in a caring and open way. If you've been afraid of such things the SP can help you overcome those fears. And then you can take those lessons and apply them to your non-SP interactions with people in other parts of your life. So... does a relationship with an SP fix loneliness? Not by itself. But it can be genuinely valuable in equipping you to overcome whatever obstacles are keeping you from finding someone, and which are leading to your loneliness in the first place. Don't look at time with an SP as just a brief respite from the symptoms of the problem -- look at it as a cure for the cause, if you're willing to take the opportunity to learn and then do some work.

Puritans, hypocrites, paternalists.

One thing that I'm pretty certain makes slut-shaming of escorts from non escort females.. is a type of jealousy that underlies their fear that all their husband/boyfriend or potential mates have to do.. is make a quick phone call to book an escort and be unfaithful with (likely) zero consequences. With so many statistics of cheating spouses and cheating spouse websites.. this is commonplace anyway.. and you can easily view the drama on a number of reality shows or Jerry Springer type shows how volatile the cheated on party reacts. The fear of infidelity (ownership of a human being from another perspective) and tied to the marriage 'vows' and religious dogma.. adds to their belief that being 'betrayed' gives them the right to display 'the wrath of a woman scorned'. My female non-escort friends are very secure in the knowledge that I'm not 'after their man' and easily trust me.. but I think in general that it taps into the fears of insecure jealous woman that we are 'filthy whores' and can distance themselves from us with this mentality. If we don't exist we aren't a perceived threat... Having been previously a very devout religious person prior to entering this profession (I'm spiritual now.. but definitely not religious and happier for it) I used to be one of those people into slut-shaming for religious beliefs.. boy have things changed for me! But for all the previously mentioned reasons in this thread.. if we can label someone 'dirty' by connotation of the word.. we can distance ourselves and judge openly in an effort to curb the activity. Making it illegal in many countries and parts of it illegal in most just helps justify these types of opinions. Even in Australia where it's legal they still have laws (or perhaps by-laws rather) to preclude certain types of activities in certain states.. ie no BBBJ in Queensland I believe. In the states not even the whole of Nevada is it legal.. only in Pahrump outside of Vegas.. It's so hypocritical! If religion weren't such a major selling point in the political arena with voters there wouldn't be as much stigma in my opinion. Candidates are usually sure to pander to the puritans and increase the stings esp in the US around election time to satisfy the 'burn the witch at the stake' types. We become the scapegoats to appease the religious hypocrites for a while. Speaking of the history of witch burning.. most witches were women who tried to take their own health into their own hands with herbs and nutrition.. advising others to their own knowledge and power. Medicine being a mostly patriarchal business didn't appreciate that.. some similarities there.. and again of course religion being the excuse to discriminate and punish.. literally to death. I do think in the last couple decades though we have advanced the stigma by leaps and bounds. Having been in the business for a quarter century I've seen it for sure. I know several who work in the business though who still feel a strong need to hide what they do.. and it's so unfortunate. Of course many men who visit escorts can't be open either! But then again.. it adds to the titillation factor doesn't it really? A 'walk on the wild side' is part of the thrill of doing something naughty :P

We can get massages with HE at Rona now?? Get wood and buy some wood all in one location

Bait and switch is such a pain in the arse, and then what gets me is do the ladies pulling this expect people to pay for someone they didn't pick ? and then you have thsi whole awkward moment where ( and hopefully this is an outcall to their residence or hotel ) but the scene it could cause you at your home/ neighborhood... i dunno , just bothers me, thanks for the tips. Tinyeye is very important cause if you find that pic being used as the pic for an add or many adds all over the country/world then chances are you're not getting what is advertised.... tinyeye has saved me many a horrible encounter... good luck to you all out there play safe and thanks again for the creator of this thread, tips like this and a little diligence can greatly minimize your risk !

I completely concur. In this day and age when we, at least in the west, have been bombarded with ads promoting soaps and other hygiene products, I find it absolutely incredible that men and women still wander about smelling like neanderthals. It's not that difficult. Shower. Anti-perspirant. Clean clothes. Repeat. If you have to give a shirt the "nose test" you are doing it wrong. CLEAN clothes. Same goes for the boxers, briefs, or thong. Wear it once. Put it in the laundry hamper and keep it there until it has been laundered. In a world where YMMV prevails, you sure as hell don't want to be left curbside when you have a Ferrari waiting for you. Stinky is not sexy... and that Ferrari wants to be driven by a sexy person. ;)