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While Miss Jessica's wording may ruffle feathers, the intention and willingness to take action is undeniable. The providers that have had the opportunity to study human rights and it complexities have valuable insight into the social and legal issues of the vulnerable and I appreciate their attempts to explain it to those of us who are not as fluent in the nuanced language and concepts. Anything that will broaden horizons is a good thing. What I'm always amazed at is how as a collective we agree on the changes that need to be made but how often the intellectual vocal activists chose to criticize action taken that doesn't directly reflect their chosen paths of action. I have lived my professional life believing that being open about what I do with the civilian population actively helps remove stigma surrounding our industry one person at a time. I don't need people to become pro sex work by the end of the conversation to know that I have planted a seed that will grow, slowly entering their thoughts and challenging their belief systems about my work. By providing a face, giving a voice to those of us that society never sees, doesn't even know we exist; I challenge the stigmas they believe directly. I feel those of us who the general public can relate to have a responsibility to put our experiences out there because in fact we are already a part of their lives and they will relate to us in some way, no matter how small. I may not get a warm welcome initially but it's a start. I know they'll respond eventually if I'm patient and don't dismiss their beliefs but simply open a dialogue that allows an exchange of information. Every inch forward where ever it happens is still valuable forward movement imo. The anti's and media parade the victims of violence to the public as the face of prostitution and the public have nothing else to compare it to. They don't hear from us, the quiet majority. We have no public face, no identifiable voice, only activists that the general public seldom take seriously. It's not the anti's we need to sway but the undecided. Giving those valuable undecided something to compare the horror stories to, our experiences is what I believe will help sway those who have yet to make a decision and that is key in starting to shift the stigma away from consensual sex work. While Jessica's approach may not be considered the most effect course of action by some, it is at the very least a starting point that we can build on. I see no harm in supporting it along with the other actions currently employed. We need a multi faceted approach because society is multi faceted and reaching out to them where they are consciously at this moment is the only way to ensure we are heard. I believe that if we had a professional presence, one that showed the general public that this is an industry and there are many within it that have chosen to work in it, it will help us. We need to show them we are responsible business owners, tax paying citizens and good neighbours, giving them informaiton that will go a long way to influencing them to let go of the stigmas they have been taught to believe is key. The vulnerable will not suffer because we up our public presence, they will benefit. As providers we know the vulnerable need to be included and we do not minimize their experiences but at the same time, their experiences does not negate ours... cat

Thank you for point this out. I wanted to say 'don't feed the troll' but too many very nice and reasonable people came out before me lol

I did not read Nicollete's post that way or see anything offensive about it.... lol.. text can be interpreted so many ways. Just my opinion

I'm a provider and knowing what many clients have told me and how they do love their wives but seek something that isn't in the marriage anymore or for other various reasons is very common. Everyone has their reasons for seeking out SPs or MAs, etc. I fully understand this and don't judge. Otherwise I wouldn't be in this line of work. I also know what it's like to be in her position and to be blindsighted by this. So I understand from both sides of the fence. Jabba, do you know what it's like to have your partner seek outside physical intimacy without your knowledge? Maybe you do, maybe you don't but please do not put words in my mouth! I never said she was a victim. It takes two in a marriage and a lot of work to keep a marriage going. Interpret it as you see fit but what you are alluding to is just plain wrong!

Hi, I thought I would start this thread to recognize the women of Cerb who have reached the 100,000 visitor mark. I find this a remarkable achievement for someone to have attracted a 100,000 visitors to their user page. This is the about the population of a small city. I only know of a handful of women that have accomplish this feat. So if you know of any other women that have reached this mark, please add them to this list. I have not visited all the profiles yet :) This woman is a favourite of mine and of Ottawa, she is from Toronto and her name is SweetShay. She just reached the 100,000 mark today. I know because I was her 100,000 visitor. lol The next one is one of Ottawa's most reviewed SP. Her name is SexxxyRebecca. I think that she has the highest visitor count that I've seen so far. One of Ottawa's most popular and sexy MA is probably Claire Heavens who had reached a Roaring 100,000 visitors earlier on this year. Another beautiful and sexy MA from the Quebec side is Katrine Cannon who is actually trained in Massage :) and has just recently reached the 100,000 visitor mark. And another long time Cerb favorite, the beautiful and sexy Meg O'Ryan a big time contributor to Cerb threads. Please join me in a tribute to these women on their remarkable achievement :) They truly are all beautiful, sexy and a pleasure to be with. I know, because it's been my honour and pleasure to have spent time with these wonderful women :) I've noticed that a few more women are going to be reaching the 100,000 mark in the very near future. When they do, please add them to this list.

Wow wow wow! This lady is remarkable in every way. From her absolutely stunning looks, to her overall great personality. She was a pleasure from start to finish. We sent several emails back and forth where she responded In a speedy fashion. Never rude or short she made me feel at ease before we even met. Once I arived to her hotel I was greated by a tall slender, and absolutely stunning blonde goddess who catches your atention at first glance. Maxime is the most friendly and personable lady I have ever met. Her appearance is one which I will never forget. Although this hobby leads itself more to the sexual side, she was a refreshing combination of sophistication and raw sex appeal. Once I cleaned up she initiated our encounter taking the lead and showing me what could be my best experience to date. This lady is a gem! Happy, funny, and posibly the sexiest girl inside and outside the business I have ever met. I can't give this lady enough credit for how she made me feel and how electric our encounter was. She is the best thing I have encountered since sliced bread. And look forward to her return to New Brunswick .

Have you tried offering her money for her bites, that might make her go away...she'd feel so offended LOL I'm sorry :icon_rolleyes: RG :-)

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My compliments to all about both the letter, and the thoughtful responses. I do believe that it is important to point out that the overwhelming majority in this industry are there by choice and that most do not fall into the category of "victim" that MacKay has grouped all of you into. I agree that it is important not to create our own classes, although I don't believe that this was the intention of the letter. I do believe that there are real victims in the industry, such as those who have been trafficked against their will. This is argument that the Conservatives will keep falling back on, even though they know as well as we do that there is nothing in the new legislation to address this beyond what is already in place. It is important however to make it clear that these people are the exception, and not the rule and that the new laws will simply serve to put the rest of you at risk, instead of helping anything. Keep up the good work, and let your voices be heard. Mikey

good grief. well first thank you for all your comments, they are appreciated. However this is a movement of LIKE MINDED INDIVIDUALS and if you're not like minded nobody is forcing you to be a part of it. There are many groups and movements and there is likely one out there that better suits your position. It's frustrating to hear so many rain on a parade when they're doing sweet fuck all themselves. Anyways.... back to being a happy hooker....I have been simply overwhelmed by responses to this movement to my work email address and I simply can't keep up! This is a very good thing!!! So in order to maintain momentum and bring this movement to the forefront I have invested some time and money... There is a seal you may place on your website to declare you are a willing, consensual sex worker. I'd like it to be recognizable across the country as the symbol of free will sex work in Canada. There is now a website: http://www.happyhookersofcanada.com a twitter handle: @happyhookersCAN an email address: [email protected] for those of you who would like to participate please visit the site. I will be asking the ladies who have already written me to please submit their letters via the website so they can specify if they would like the letter posted on the site (anonymously if they choose) and if they would like to add website and work info. Some ladies want to remain nameless and others don't. Keep an eye out for the "happy hobbyists" section coming soon!! Happy Hooking everyone!!

This girl is super hot! I decided to meet this girl because her ad on BP looked TGTBT and some people on cerb were asking about her but no one seemed to TOFT yet, and I'm not afraid to walk away from a bait+switch if it happens. As it turned out, she is real, her pics are real and she's even better in person. As you can see from the ad, she has a great body but the pics don't include her incredibly beautiful face! This girl could be a model and/or porn star if she chose to be. She has enhanced breasts but you can't really tell. They're very well enhanced and feel natural (if you're skeptical, go see for yourself!) She is very friendly, talkative and charming. This girl has it all. I won't write the story of the encounter itself, but had to get the word out that this girl is one of those BP TGTBT posts that really isn't TGTBT. I encouraged her to become part of the cerb community but of course it will be up to her to make that plunge. If I had more disposable income, I'd be going to see this girl almost every day. Additional Comments: the link to her ad broke in my post. Here is the working link - http://ottawa.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/special-rates-giselle-sexy-and-fun-hottie-come-see-me-until-12am-20/21383709

ugh .. the plug in that was purchased to enable form submission is not cooperating and there is a call in to tech support ... if you're trying to submit a letter and are unsuccessful please try again tomorrow ... I'm getting it fixed as fast as I can. Thanks again for all the support it's been crazy overwhelming :D I did an interview for the National Post last week ... wish the HHC movement had been 'moving' last week as I would have mentioned it, it was published it todays edition ...here's the link for anyone interested ... good story! http://news.nationalpost.com/2014/07/11/sex-workers-could-be-forced-to-risk-their-lives-if-prostitution-bill-passes-escort-service-owner-says/ Also been asked to do a radio talk show this week ... if it is a go I will post the radio station it will be Tuesday at 8am :D I never stfu ..... it's a blessing and a curse lol

Green, black, red, grey... who cares... it's coming off!! lol

Oh no Lee. This is a double whammy on Argentina - We BOTH are cheering for them! However, maybe your girls will help. :) But good news Lee. I just heard that the psychic turtle is picking Argentina. :)

A lot of cam models and adult affiliate websites use it. I use payoneer because they have a feature where they direct deposit your funds into your bank account for $3.

Well I wish I was 'planning an August with Emily'....haha. But coffee is on and just going to start some bacon and pancakes. Might be a lazy Saturday.

It is interesting how ideas come and go and then come back again. Way, Way back when the AIDS virus was a new and terrifying part of sexual life(and no one knew much about it, other than if you got it, it was a death sentence) Double bagging was fairly common....I remember it being a real bummer, couldn't feel much of anything.....but on the other hand, it definitely made me realize for the first time, that the ability to orgasm or not is more controlled by the mind than the tip of my penis.

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This rock solid 6 ft ebony beauty is back in town.

I enjoy the moroarcan argon oil you can get at Walmart. However I also do full service and make sure the privates don't come in contact. I wish there was a water based product for that. I use lube for any contact.

There is a difference between adding narratives that highlight how sex work has been a positive employment choice, and comparing one tier to the other as saying they are "less than". I'm not against adding more voices to the experience of being in the sex industry. By all means, let's hear from as many different experiences as we can. I don't agree with comparing or differentiating ourselves, or having to legitimize our work by declaring ourselves as "happy" or "high class" or implying that mental health issues are a "class" issue.

I've been in the same situation when I was in your position once upon a time. Looking back, I find that those who see escorts or frequent massage parlours are looking for something physical. Imo, I consider it far worse if a man were to have an emotional affair than to visit a sex worker. Men are also visual creatures. I'm not condoning what your husband has done but if there has been a lack of communication or lack of sex, men decide to take things into their own hands. I think the best thing to do is confront your husband and let him know that you know about his activities and ask him why. Communication is key here and then you can begin to make sense of it all. And please don't blame yourself. Posted via Mobile Device

Hi Shelly... welcome to CERB you will find lots if great people here. Like Jabba I am a longer term hobbiest and have kept it a secret from my wife so i am probably not a good source of advice. That said I would just add that I don't think a husband seeing an escort has anything really to do with not loving or appreciating the woman he has at home. I live my wife unbelievably and in fact I would love to share this part of my life with her but I know it's not something she would do.

Some amusing signs.

I saw Gina today at their westend location near Carling. It is a place I am very familiar with since I have seen a few Asian SPs there before. It is easy to find, conveniently located and with plenty of parking. A fellow hobbyist-friend who is a connoisseur in the Korean SP entertainment scene, strongly recommended me to see Gina since he had read great reviews in Toronto (thanks bud! :icon_wink:). I am very glad that I took his advice and that of Candise, the sweet and helpful SL/AP phone girl, who also spoke very highly of Gina. Gina is a stunning looking, beautiful young lady with very smooth skin, a geniune smile and a tight, toned spinner body. Although she has man-mades, they are nicely done and quite a handful :icon_biggrin:. Started with the usual SF2 where she washed me thoroughly (although I had already had my shower an hour before) followed by a very nice and wet BBBJ and lots of wonderful DFK's. We then moved to the bedroom where we mutually massaged each other. My sensual massage in combination with some oral pleasing seemed to put her in mood. She did not allow digits for long complaining of sensitiveness which I totally understood as she had a long day ( my appointment was late at night). She returned the favor by giving a great and sensual body-touching massage together with lots of erotic licking all over my body and a very wet and enthusiastic BBBJ. She was very skillful and her BBBJ was one of the best I have ever experienced. She was also very skillful and enthusiastic in CG. In summary, Gina provided a very enjoyable GFE-like service which I thoroughly enjoyed and for which I will see her again. While cuddling up and chit-chatting, she talked about what she liked to eat and that she was hungry. I was very tempted to go out and get her a juicy hamburger except for the fact that there were going to be two separate clients following my appointment. I sincerely wish and request the agencies to allow at least a 15min or longer break between appointments. In return the girls will be more restful and can provide a more satisfying service. P.S. Candise advised me that she usually allowed at least 15 min in between appointments except some customers had trouble finding the new location and for the reason that Gina is very popular.

Is this why you thought he meant the grocery store LOL RG :-)

I thought he meant at the grocery store!

A couple of my Ottawa regulars had seen me going on six years. I was really sad to leave them when I moved to Toronto last August.

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Commando :) Gonna be this way for the summer. Cant get any underwear over this cast.

Had the privilege to see Maraena again after not seeing her in many years. Not because my first encounter wasn't incredible as it was but our schedules just never seemed to match up. After exchanging a few emails back and forth I set up an appointment for Thursday. Arriving at her in service location in Halifax I must admit I was very nervous as it had been such a long time but upon opening the door I was greeted with a nice hug and a kiss which put me at ease right away. Maraena was how I remembered her , very petite , very sexy and more importantly just genuinely a friendly person. We sat on the bed , chatted a little and then got down to business. I never get into the details of my encounter as what Maraena and I enjoyed with each other stays between her and I. I'm a firm believer of YMMV , not all encounters play out the same way between two people. What I can say is she is an incredibly sexy woman , spinner type body with the cutest little butt . Maraena is very playful and very much enjoys what she does but I'll take a little credit for that..lol . She made me feel like I was boyfriend at that moment and I had an incredible time. She makes you feel so comfortable and when we were finished she took the time to chat a little more before I had to leave. Never did I feel rushed . My only wish is that she came to Halifax more often. Thank you Maraena for making an old guy feel young again.

hello everyone, im new to this board . im from ill in the us and are on several boars there. i get to come to canada every year . i would def like company when im there. i usally stay about 50 miles from thunder bay but do get to come to town a couple times while in there. thank you in advance for this board and any help i get here . if anyone travels to the st louis mo aera i could def return the info.

so beautiful I have to see her again. I would suggest that she has a wow body like a 20 year old. Yet,, mature and , she is classy and smart and will thrill you like you deserve. if you ever get the chance you will not be sorry. Kathy is a yes, yes .must see. if you don't it's your fault, that's how I feel about her.

I am at a point in my life where i am now free to take on a hobby, so I truly appreciate the information and opinions (e.g, rec's for ebony sp's in Toronto/Hamilton) and in particular that these are civilized discussions, unlike most of the internet. Thanks!

If you're more of an MP man, Holly at Broadways does a nice, sloppy, dirty-talking BJ and gets really into it. Only time I'll ever do less than FS at B'ways.

Yes I agree with Leigh :bjs: Kayla, Layla and Felina are very good as well.

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I can personally vouch for Twyla, Leanne, & Christine ......and usually at least one of them is there, and you can always pre-book if you don't want to take a chance on availablity, as they only have 2 massage rooms. They usually have 2 girls on a shift, plus the receptionist ( she doesnt do massages), and occassionly only 1 girl. If you want a very good massage, and understand that fs is NOT a option, lingham massage is, I think you will be very happy with a massage at this establishment. The place is very clean, girls are very nice, and rates are posted, and now I think they have gone similiar route to EB/To , where repeat clients get a free massage after so many visits ( very smart move) . I highly suggest that if you want specific info , to pick up the phone , and call them, although some certain info will not be passed on over the phone. They really would like to follow a low profile, but as such follow the rules of the land , so vice etc have no reason to hassel them, and they are doing a decent brisk business from what I can tell. Many clients go strictly for the great massage, including hot stone, as well as reflexology....and if you have health coverage, part of the massage can be reimbursed by your insurance as they provide proper receipts , as it is a very legitimate massage and reflexology. Just my 2c worth. If I had coverage, I would be there once a week! Additional Comments: I had someone PM me and ask what the address was:confused0024:......seriously????

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Well, you seem to have already worked out where to advertize, and how the shoutbox works, so that's a good start :) Read the FAQ if you haven't already. Other than that, all I can say is make sure the people who come to see you go away happy, and hopefully a reco or two will happen as a result (although I suspect most people don't write them, alas). If you really want to raise your profile, get involved with the rest of the board and join in the various conversations that are happening at any given time... there's usually something for most people, be it serious or silly, and if not you can always start something new. Also, have a play with the search pages to find previous threads on things you might want to know about Given where you work, hopefully you have access to some other ladies who can give you a good start in the industry as a whole... and I've always been amazed by how helpful and supportive people here are to each other, so don't be afraid to ask about stuff.