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I had the biggest compliment of my( Cerb) life a few weeks ago. ( Hope this is not a hijack. ) 5 years ago I met a gentleman in my home and then I never heard from him again. He contacted me while he was on vacation from another country and only here for one week. It really was a highlight of my day, with all the fabulous and beautiful ladies here in Halifax he choose to spend a small part of his vacation with me. I did ask him why he remembered me but I will keep that to myself. :biggrin:

Try looking for escorts who have been around a long time and are mature. Pimps go after new and young ladies. Try ladies who speak and write English fluently. Try ladies who drive themselves to dates. Independent ladies exhibit independent behavior in more ways than one.

I would like to be truly content with the Universe and what IS. A very large part of me knows and understands everything is perfect in this present moment. I would like to not only know that human suffering is created in our minds but actually live my life with that knowledge every day and every second. I would like to live fully present and I would like to fully embrace truth and face it.

It is so much better once you become comfortable with each other. Now don't get me wrong it takes that initial encounter to make this possible. I find once you seen each other on a regular basis it gives you the opportunity to explore some of your deepest desires. Things that maybe you wouldn't feel comfortable doing with someone you just met. I personally find it heightens the whole experience.

Darling bigboi, I certainly understand your concern and I agree with the other posters advice. What I would like to mention is that it is difficult to identify let alone define a pimp and most people wouldn't recognize one if they passed one on the street unless the pimp was very stereotypical and we all know how reliable stereotypes are. The other thing to keep in mind is you can potentially have drama from a provider whether she is completely independent or not. I would gently suggest not over thinking the labels and simply educate yourself about the providers available to you here in Ottawa. There is a huge selection of well reviewed providers for you to choose from here on Cerb or if perusing one of the other sites, take a peek at what CK says... http://www.cowboysdiary.info Smiles, cat

Until you figure it out and have a little bit more confidence, I would suggest maybe staying with the girls who have a profile here. Look at how long they have been on the board and how active they are, been here a length of time they're unlikely to be pimped. I think you can pull up all their posts under the stats tab, which should give you a pretty good feel for their history and personalities. The odds are that on BP and Craigs, the chances are that the transient ladies who are in and out of town every few days or weeks are what you are concerned about.

Back from my vacation & feeling refreshed! Now I need to indulge in sensual fun! Escape with me and let me Remind you of pure pleasure ;) Here's My Availability - I look forward to seeing you! Saturday July 19th 11AM - 7PM CMJ WEST Sunday July 20th 10AM - 10PM CMJ EAST Monday July 21st 10AM - 10PM CMJ WEST Tuesday July 22nd 10AM - 10PM CMJ WEST Wednesday July 23rd 10AM - 10PM CMJ EAST Thursday July 24th 10AM - 10PM CMJ EAST Friday July 25th CMJ MANSION PARTY - ON SHIFT Saturday July 26th CMJ MANSION PARTY - ON SHIFT Sunday July 27th 4PM - 10PM CMJ WEST A Peek into what you can Expect: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...ighlight=daisy Not A Member? PM me about being my special guest.

Congratulations to you! You are so helpful and I for one appreciate a personal message or two that you have sent me just when I was pondering a situation. Thank you.

And Now.....I'm speechless lol ;-) What can I say? I like my words how I like my men. Dirty. Thanks for enjoying my filth. I'm not done yet ;-) Slurrrp!

The only rules for the shoutbox are here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/faq.php?faq=vb_faq#faq_chatbox You can say hi, post a thought, share a link or whatever you like. It used to be more a fun way to say stuff (like Twitter) but has mostly become advertising. Feel free to jump in and say hello though!

Dance with my oldest daughter at her wedding.

Perfect :) and yes you must have that "first" meeting. But everything builds from there. Sexually and personally. and you look forward to seeing each other again. and again. I realized this quickly and have truly lost track of how many times I have met some ladies that are dear to me. Also sometimes once you know each other....it is easy to work together to make something come together shorter notice and hook up for a visit. Like re-route a schedule / flight plan here and there ;) With C36 possibly looming closer, I am glad I am a repeat visitor because with the gals I trust big time.... I am more than comfortable continuing on seeing them..... with the communication methods we use. It's cool.

Hi CERBies, I decided to video tape one of my porn massage for my own pleasure so I can see myself after and watch it over and over. I actually looking for someone who is willing to hold the camera for me. So basically I will be a therapist that find her client attractive. Starting with a massage then it will become more naughty. If you have free time and it's something you would do. I would give you a free copy of that massage video for your own pleasure Inbox me if interested xo Katrine

Something else about ladies who I repeat with. Yes we are more friends, not SP/Client. And we have for lack of a better phrase, shared memories, memories that continue to grow each time we see each other. But that lady doesn't fit me into her schedule. If I suggest we go out for a date, and have a specific place and time she, because she knows me, juggles her schedule (where possible) Likewise sometimes a juggling of hours is requested by the lady and because she is a friend, I'm happy to do so. What is nice about repeating with a friend, the same woman, is the comfort level between us that allows for example requests like that. And it doesn't diminish our encounters at all. In fact it makes them all the more special, if that makes sense RG

Just about every lady I have met I have had repeat visits. The more I thought of this question the more I realize that the desire to repeat is inherited in the qualities I seek in a lady. That never occurred to me before. If it is apparent from a ladies ads that she is professional, discreet, articulate, interesting, with a twist of her own individual intrigue, then yes of course, I very likely will be comfortable in a first and repeat visits. There is that word comfort again, which is steady theme in this thread. So as I thought about this and read the responses the question in my mind became "why would I not want to repeat?".

If you ever encounter any sort of problems with anyone while working, anything ranging from sexual assault to theft, intimidation, abuse, harassment, threats, stalking or anything else, and want to talk directly to a female officer who will listen and help (if you want it), here is the name of an Ottawa officer who has been helpful to sex workers in the past: Sergeant Patricia Ferguson Sexual Assault Section Tel. 613-236-1222, ext. 5463 Or, to anonymously report to the police any kind of bad behaviour you've experienced: Bad Date Line Call 1-800-303-5407 - anonymously. http://www.ottawapolice.ca/en/ServingOttawa/SectionsAndUnits/saca/baddateline.aspx From Ottawa Police Services: Working in the sex trade can make you a vulnerable target, and predators count on the fact that you may not report crimes against you. We need your help to identify and track serial and predatory offenders. The anonymous reporting system is for individuals victimized while engaging in the sex trade. By calling the toll free number (1-800-303-5407), you will be prompted to leave a message regarding the details of your assault along with as much of an offender description as possible. Information gathered could be the missing link needed in identifying a serial predator. The anonymous and free Bad Date Line gives you an opportunity to report sexual and physical assault without revealing your identity. For more information about the Ottawa Bad Date Line, download their pamphlet (PDF, 206k). The Ottawa Police Service understands the desire of victims to remain anonymous and supports the Bad Date Line in an effort to identify potential serial offenders preying upon victims who they believe will not report the attack to police. The Bad Date Line does not subscribe to caller ID and no attempts will be made to identify callers. It is preferred that victims contact police directly to report an assault so that a proper investigation can be conducted and ensure a predator is removed from the street. Ottawa Police treat all victims fairly and equitably. If you wish to speak with an officer regarding an assault or receive more information regarding the investigation process, you may contact the Sexual Assault Unit directly at 613-236-1222, ext. 5944.

It's been three years since Claire Heavens exploded (or should I say roared??) onto this board, spreading excitement, fun, and satisfaction. :) I remember greeting her by pm when she first signed on, and starting a conversation that's still going strong. She got three recommendations on her very first day of work, and now has close to 200 of them, a cerb record. She's always fun, and sexy as they come. So congratulations, Claire, on your third cerbiversary. Please keep doing what you're doing so well!

You Firey lady you. You are passionate about life and communicate that openly. You support those in this community via advice, warnings, sharing and sometimes just plain fun. You add a lot of sexy to the day and I look forward to another 2000 posts!

After a recent trip to Niagara, I have to admit that those of us in Ottawa should be grateful for the wonderful MPs that offer quality service in our fine city. I will not name the establishment I visited in Niagara but suffice to say the price was nothing short of shocking and the service left a lot to be desired. If this establishment were to operate in Ottawa it would quickly find itself out of business. Never Again! If you are going to visit Niagara I would suggest you will get more out of a lap dance at the Sundowner than you will at any of the MP establishments. So here is to our cities great MPs!!!

Congratulations on 8000 posts Cato Looking forward to your next 8000 contributions RG

This! New meetings are great, but there is so much more with someone I've seen before regularly. And setting up an appointment is a cinch. Just a short email - Hey! Awesome day...so Sat at 3? (Okay, maybe not that short, but you get the idea)

Congratulations and thanks to you, Meaghan!

Happy Cerbiversary. You are one of the icons of CERB and as Cato pointed out, have reigning impact with feedback. Truly a unique and amazing individual. Congrats!

Wow 8000 posts... very impressive...keep them coming.

Already! My, time does fly! Congrats, Claire, and looking forward to having you among us for a very long time still! Best, toine

Congratulations Claire on your third anniversary.

I always liked videogames and lately I've been thinking a lot about how I would like to make one. Not a state of the art game, but a retro style game along the lines of the 16 bit era. I have been toying with maybe setting up a company and hiring a programmer and artists to realize my idea(s). So that's my dream of the moment.

Congrats Claire, you certainly are 1 of a kind. The camera really loves you.

The "a louer" signs are for upstairs. Taboo lives on.

Personally, i LOVE it. When I was a teenager, quick access to video of pussy, tits, and people fucking like bunnies was great. But now in my 30's, I like the build up of massage...with sex after. Taking things slower now, generally leads to something better. But occasional quicky is great too. I have a stressful and fast paced job, the massage part allows me relax, disconnect from daily tasks and hopefully connect with the girl, the more chemistry, the better session, the more the release will be intense. I find that porn massage is a stepping stone to tantra massage and even...light bondassage. In my personal experience, the right chemistry, the right massage, with the right amount of build up...even I can cum like Peter North! BUT I will admit. When the chemistry is there, and the girl has been edging my cock and I feel she is enjoying it, i don't want the massage at that point...I just want to ravish her! But I'm just human after all!

Just finished my last final exam! Yay! The end to a very stressful week... or should I say weeks! Getting closer to graduation!

Sorry for the long quote, but finally a member of the opposite sex that GETS it...

It's about building the connection and intimacy. For me it usually starts before we meet, with an exchange of pm's and emails, so we get to know each other a bit, and understand our likes and dislikes and expectations and limits, before the actual encounter. Sometimes it works and sometimes it doesn't, and that's fine. But when it works, it's great. And when it just keeps getting better, with more fun and mutual pleasure, then I'll be back. Mutual enjoyment is the key.

Of course it's not true. However, it's pretty damn funny how gullible some people are...."if it's on the internet , it must be true!"

Congratulations Claire... i'm looking forward to many more.

Always intrigued to read a post from Claire...bring on 500 more please!

Congrat's Claire on reaching your first 500....

Congratulations Claire on your 500 sexy post! Look forward to being turned on by the next 500 ;)

congrats Claire keep them coming

Congrats Claire keep them coming!

Gotta love lexy. She's on top of the game. Lookin out for all of us Thanks

The Lovely Chantal Summers is back and ready to play men,ladies & Couples.....Catch her while you can ;)

I was a nervous first timer at this, but Ashley was a complete professional. She was sweet, mellow, did not rush and absolutely made me feel great and relaxed and pleasured. I would recommend her anytime and will absolutely see her again. I hope I was even half as good a customer as she was a true pro! Thanks again Ashley, hope to see you again soon!

I agree and I have some great connections with clients that I feel very lucky to have. I was more talking about the very extreme side of things. When someone doesn't understand the boundaries of the relationship or that I lead a very busy life, sometimes I won't have the time for them that they would like due to the demands of school and work. I love to make people happy but sometime I only have so much time to offer. Everyone gets lonely sometes and that's completely normal.

An Australian sex worker posted this and I wanted to share it. "So, You've Met a Hooker" Remembering my first steps in this industry made me cringe quite a few times reading it. I'm pretty sure I've asked/said many of the things in there. Amazing how a few pre-conceptions and stereotypes can make you say some incredibly insensitive things without even realizing it. Plus, the video links to 'Shit they say to sex workers' and 'Shit they say to strippers' are hilarious.

Hi Karina, Technically the clock does start on arrival and if the client would like to shower he should do so immediately before any type of intimacy takes place. It depends on the client. If you're talking, embracing, kissing and starting to connect, it should be a part of the time together. Another idea is to jump in the shower with him to make it a part of the encounter. Thirty minute appointments can be tricky and it sounds like this client would like a social connection as well. Perhaps you can suggest an extension in time together for your next encounter as that may be more suited to what he's seeking?

Looks like a few of her pics show up in the cowboys diary.

Jessica, I don't think your doing anything wrong, as all cities have their ups & downs. I can suggest visiting the smaller markets less frequently (once every 3-4 months) and with Ottawa, start asking for a deposit for new guests - I found that has helped almost make the no shows disappear :) Safe travels and best of luck xoxo Emily