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I don't see how spending time with a fellow SP, who essentially could be viewed as a coworker , is at all comparable to hanging out with a client . It's not the same, and I don't see any form of double standard. That said, there ARE gatherings with SPs that include hobbiests. Ottawa holds a social four times a year, and Halifax does once or twice as well.

My lawyer comment was not a quote from you. It was an example. In any event you posted a question and I thought my comment was fair. I'm seeing way too many times recently when someone posts something, they get comments back, and then it turns into a great debate. I'm not here for those debates and was simply trying to offer my perspective and response. Sorry if I misunderstood your OP. I'll leave it for others to provide you their advice. Cub

The word "fantasy" in adult life. Makes me shudder Nowhere in my personal life, business life or my playtime hobby life do I have any time or desire for "fantasy" As far as this life often referred to as a fantasy....... for me it is real life. Nothing like meeting someone you really want to meet... drink some wine, chat, laugh, bond, get nekkid, make out, dfk, some good old pussy eating and cock sucking topped off with a slow passionate fuck or an old school good hard fucking. Now that's real no matter where I am and how it happens. Maybe we can be friends too ! I just don't ask you to marry me OR see me off the clock. If I wanted a "fantasy", I would take some shrooms, maybe a few extra, find Peter Pan and fly around the fucking world. Weeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee Sorry if I offended anyone.....But that's just me.

Like Cleo said there is no double standard .... there is no real comparison. Also like Cleo said there are socials. I have been to two and they are a blast :) If there is one in Hali again or maybe you can get involved in arranging one in St John's then even better. Unless an SP has retired and wants to be friends and hang out which I do have now........ I would never ever expect that to happen otherwise. They do like to hang out with me when I pay them tho.... maybe even have fun and be happy !! :) That's how we all should roll....I believe. Unlike my ex wife. I ended up paying her PLENTY to NOT hang out with me.....EVAR...AGAIN!!. She still wasn't happy damnitt ........... ;)

No "double standard" at all. SP's hanging out makes perfect sense to me, lots of common ground there, they can be social, compare notes, share experiences and even blow off some steam if need be. This is a pay for play game and being friendly is one thing, being friends is completely different and quite unrealistic. Peace MG

Just my take .... I get together with like minded ladies in the biz to network. I love some of my colleagues dearly, they have helped me infinitely in touring plans, avoiding bad dates, dodging drama, and sharing experiences. I don't get together with my colleagues to chat about parents, kids, my personal life or theirs. I don't visit their homes, and they don't visit mine. We meet for dinner and drinks... sometimes for hours... because they can relate like nobody else can. Although they all know what I do, I don't talk much about my sex work with my personal friends, so it's nice to have that connection. A date with a client is not at all the same thing, to me anyways.

SPs and MAs are professionals that provide a service which has a cost. For us the clients it is their time, intimacy, services and companionship that we buy. That isn't to say that an SP/MA and client would never meet socially or 'off the clock' but it's not nor should be their business model or our expectation. I think of it this way. I pay a lawyer for his/her advice. They get my $ and I get their advice. Would 2 lawyers meet socially? For sure. But should I expect a lawyer to meet with me, provide their advice and I don't pay? I just call it a 'social' meeting? No I'm not sure if I've explained it well but for me - I totally get it and have no problems with the relationships I have. Cub

Every MA is different.., every one has a different style as well.., and off course there is other factors such as chemistry can affect the entire session... Every MA also has different rate scales.. my opinion is if you are interested in an specific Service contact the lady (ies) that interest you and be straight forward with your questions so that you can get straight answers ;)

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That depends.....How hairy is your front side? ;-) Jk.

You explained it perfectly and I fully agree with what you said here, coworkers and clients are different kind of acquaintances, one can become personal, the other one like you said is not impossible but less likely. However in none of them is cool to expect a personal rapport to happen and even less cool to question why it hasn't/won't. Also, in this particular scenario mentioned by the OP, the fact that some ladies here hang out with each other doesn't mean they do it all the time or that all ladies do it.

This is not a business like any other. A woman, yes, even an SP is free to choose who she wants to be intimate with. Denial of sexual services because of age is not a Human Rights violation. Forcing a woman to see someone she doesn't wish to see would be tantamount to sexual assault And anyone who would even consider doing such a thing IMO has no respect for women. SP or not, a lady is free to choose who she wants to be intimate with RG

Got a nice little message from a friend I haven't spoken to for ages. Her message popped up just at the right time... it gave me a smile!

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Your asked for feedback, and started a thread which is going to elicit honest discussion and comments about the themes many of us providing sexual services experience with men seeking our services. Those themes inevitably result in generalizations to achieve a very particular task, which in this case was to unpack the various reasons why some SPs choose not to see men under a certain age. I don't see any disrespect happening here. And, if you truly feel that you exude respect and maturity, consider taking the advice graciously given here about how to tactfully approach service providers in seeking their company. Good luck! Anna

so I'm driving east this fall.... and as is customary I'm making a vacation out of my tour. I love to visit you guys but I'd also like to see the country and so I need the advice of some experts ;) I was raised on the coast in Wales, and the only time I've seen the east coast of Canada is from a boat while sailing past. I remember it being very similar to the Welsh coast, and I'm so excited! It's the next best thing to a vacation back home. I'd like to stop in most major centres for work, but I'm open to detours for some fascinating scenery. I'm in the early planning stages so have no idea exactly when I will be where, or how long I will stay once I arrive. However, with your help I can build a schedule that will allow me plenty of time to misbehave, with some down time to enjoy my holiday. I'm bringing my bike so keep in mind any awesome bike trails you know of. I do know that I want to drive the bridge to PEI, and take the ferry over to Newfoundland. I'm taking the short ferry cause I don't mind driving, but what route to take and what to stop and see on the way from Port aux Basques to St. John's? probably plenty! I'm open to any advice. My questions are both work related and touristy ... don't forget to tell me what province or city you're referring to..... best days to hobby ... weekends or weekdays? best times to hobby ... morning, afternoon, or evening? three things I must see in your province while I'm there? one thing I must see in your city before I leave? your favourite restaurant? your favourite scenic walking route, bike trail, or outdoor attraction. thank you kindly in advance for your assistance ladies and gentlemen! ;)

I just can't express how much I enjoyed this. It was fun. That's all I can say. REALLY REALLY REALLY FUN! :dncdick: YAY! This btw .. is for Bre.. who is training this week at CMJ West.. and Holly. My only regret is that is kinda ruined me for the Mansion Party.. but that's ok.. cause it was AWESOME!

Thank You to our Many Members Who Came out & Attended our first ever Weekend Long Event! If you missed out - be sure to stop in and say hello to the Many New Ladies who have recently Joined the Team! Quickly becoming the Next Top MA's Rini http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9390 Sophia http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9342 Lynzee http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9341 Bre http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9427 KaraLynn http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9391 Chelsea http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9290 Adrianna http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9254 Bre Reco! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=187585 Chelsea Reco! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=183547 SUNDAY EVENING Daisy 4-10 Lexie 4-10 Mon July 28th Kelly 9-4 Lexie 10-4 Chelsea 10-4 Jewel 11-7 Melodie 4-10 Lynzee 4-10 Adrianna 4-10 Tues July 29th Kelly 9-4 SPECIAL GUEST login www.clubcmj.com 10-4 Chelsea 10-4 Holly 10-4 Adrianna 11-7 Sophia *NEW & Now Solo* 11-7 Courtney 4-10 Lynzee *NEW & Now Solo* 4-10 Wed. July 30th SPECIAL GUEST login www.clubcmj.com 10-4 Holly 10-4 Cassie 10-4 Courtney 11-7 Melodie 4-10 Lauren 4-10 KaraLynn 4-10 *NEW & Now Solo* Thur July 31st Daisy 10-4 SPECIAL GUEST login www.clubcmj.com 10-4 Holly 10-4 Bre 10-4 *NEW & Now Solo* Melodie 11-7 Rini *NEW & Now Solo* 11-7 Sophia *NEW & Now Solo* 4-10 Lauren 4-10 Adrianna 4-10 Fri Aug 1st Cassie 10-4 Holy 10-4 Jewel 10-4 Daisy 11-7 Rini *NEW & Now Solo* 11-7 Myla 4-10 Lynzee 4-10 *NEW & Now Solo* Sophia 4-10 *NEW & Now Solo* Sat Aug 2nd Lexie 10-4 Rini 10-4 Lauren 11-7 Sophia 11-7 Lynzee 4-10 Sun Aug 3rd Cassie 10-4 Zara 10-4 Melodie 11-7 Lauren 4-10 Sophia 4-10 Where All Your Fantasies... Become Reality www.clubcmj.com 613-523-6199 What Others Have Said About their Experiences Kelly http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...ighlight=kelly Daisy http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...ighlight=daisy Melodie http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...ighlight=daisy Holly http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...ighlight=holly Chelsea http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...hlight=chelsea Cassie http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...ghlight=cassie Zara http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...highlight=zara

Last week, I watched that one too, about the Hospice Program at Angola Prison in Louisiana. It was very well done. Watched the original 1969 True Grit movie with John Wayne and Glen Campbell. I prefer the 2010 remake with Jeff Bridges and Matt Damon. The original was too "sanitized", lol.

Apparently we are all BIG MEAT eaters here ;-) lol. Couldn't resist. ;-) Slurp!

My experience has always been both sides, hairy or not...:)

To A Sweet Wonderful Lady!

Happy birthday malika

Happy Birthday sexy! The best for U on this special day! Gros bisous Barbara xxxooo

Hears to a wonderful birthday full of enticements and pleasures that make you smile. Enjoy!

Happy birthday Tracie. Hope it's the best. Xo

Happy Birthday Malika! I hope this is the start of an amazing and most wonderful year ever!

Happy Birthday Midnite-Massage! Hope this is the best day ever for you..... ;)

Happy Birthday Malika Enjoy your special day RG

Hello Cooperuke, Unfortunately, I am not too comfortable revealing the 4-5 star hotels I see gentlemen at but what you could do is visit this link and call the hotels to see if they require a key card for the elevators (that's what I do when I travel). Some of them have already been mentioned in this thread as requiring a key card so it will cut down the list a little and won't take you as long. Have fun with your date! Gabby xox

Suffering from f**ked back.....sooooo home from work now. In my comfy recliner, six coronas on ice beside me, chips and dip handy, laptop surfing, and watching Canada girls play in the FIVB World Cup Volleyball championships :D all good now. Same scenario as late last night actually. Wanted to go to sleep but couldn't till the game was over damnitt !!!! haha Peru beat them but it was good volleyball :)

Great day for me, adopted a puppy, part hound,Dane,ridgeback,lab but 100% cute. Only 12 weeks and pretty much house trained unlike myself.

Had a fantastic meeting with a wonderful lady and now having a smoothie with protein powder, mangoes and strawberries. Need to replenish my energy level! :D

Watching Whales all afternoon... never seen so many in one day.

sorry for the grammer im French and that is y I don't post a lot.

First there is an old saying, even a gilded cage is still a cage. And a lady has a life outside of being a professional companion. Being a professional companion, irrespective of how social and interpersonal an occupation it is, is still for the lady her livelihood, her job. And being with a billionaire, who books for x hours, time is up, peels off a few more bills, wants xx hours more, then when that time is up wants xxx hours more, I don't think anyone would like that The billionaire is making her continue her job indefinitely based solely on his whims. If a set time is booked is one thing, but indefinitely extending it is another. And maybe the lady has only one client a day, she doesn't see multiple clients in a day. Because that is what she prefers and how she runs her business (just don't assume all ladies see clients one after the other) A lady has a life outside of being a companion. She may have family, friends, going to school, another job. She presents the illusion of someone free with no outside responsibilities and obligations but she like everyone has a life outside of this lifestyle Would you like to work, then at the end of your work day, get thrown a bit more money, but you have to work more, then at the end of that more bills peeled off, but you stay longer at work and so on, based on the whims of a boss who is a billionaire. Finally, for a getaway, an overnight, it is something planned. It is beyond just getting a hotel room and staying locked in 24/7. You have to have something planned, depending for how long the getaway is, a few things planned. And she will want some "her" time too. Point to this, at the end of the getaway she may have had enough of the clients company (he still is her client) and wants to leave. She may just want to go home. She does have a life outside of being an escort. Peeling more money off to extend a getaway may not appeal to a lady and doesn't stop her outside responsibilities. My guess and generalizing no, irrespective of billionaire or not, a lady won't indefinitely stay with him, at his whim. Extending a date an hour or two is one thing, but indefinite extending, I don't see anyone liking that A long winded convoluted rambling Hope it answers your question RG

The Sheraton in St. John's is nice for the view. Stay on the Harbour side and if you can get a corner room or one with a porthole window! Restaurants there are SO many. Corner Brook - Sorrento's (amazing pasta!) St. John's - Blue on Water is one of my favs! Ahh girl we will have to chat!!!! Xo

There is a new girl there named Casey. I saw her a couple of weeks back. Extremely cute & sexy! She has worked at Maureen's before. She's in her late 20's, though she looks much younger than that, early 20's. She is 5'2", and with a coke-bottle shape. She wears these school teacher glasses that make her look very innocent. She looks quite similar to Madeline Stowe the actress, albeit quite a bit younger than her now. Perfectly bilingual, no accent in either language.

Fort Amherst at the entrance to St Johns harbour. You'll see it very clearly from Signal Hill. The former light house keepers cottage is open as a place to stay but its frightfully expensive. But, you can wander around & get up close. There's also the World War II fortifications built there to protect the harbour. [VBRO 469496] Check with tourist bureau to see if icebergs are still to be seen. As Super Newf said, walk the long trail all around Signal Hill. The Battery Hotel might be a good place to stay if only for the view.

Sounds like Sierra to me.

How did you contact the ladies?would you give us an example of pm or email sent? I am someone that has no problem with ANY ages however it depend how you contact me waiving dollars like carrot to a donkey is a huge turn off for me

Looking forward to having my 3 kids home for Chrismas dinner! Apart from having my kids united on Chrismas day...For the past 3 years the holidays have been...kind on lonely so having great anticipation for the end of the holidays... Anticipating some "me" time in January...vacation!!! :) BJ xxx

The birth of my first grandchildren - Twins!

I think your question confuses the act or action and a typing of the person. So yes a man may engage in a homosexual act and still not"be" a homosexual. Of course, another answer might be " who cares?"