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Unfortunately, years later after I started that thread.. The problem is still there, and I know will always be there. I find lately an increase of people asking me (Im a SP) for MA service so wanted to have a "better" price. Ok.. Some Sps may offer those service with a MA price for it (massage only + hj) but Im a Sp so my rate are for my time!! I do offer massage as part of my services but my rate stay the same even if you dont want BJ or Fs. There is a plenty of MA advertising everyday I dont get why asking Sp to reduce her rate for it?

Communication between a client and an SP should be governed by the rules/boundaries established by the SP primarily and the clients expressed approval for how they wish the SP to contact them. A significant number of SP's clearly establish that their only communication will be around booking and confirming bookings and that's fine. Some SP's engage in a more significant dialogue with regular clients even between bookings and that is fine to so long as everyone's boundaries are being respected. In my particular case I have clearly told a number of SP'S that they can contact me at anytime via text, CERB PM, or on twitter. This has worked well for me. I kinda think the only rule should be... 1st for the client - follow the rules set by your SP and 2nd for the SP- never contact the client unless the client has approved your doing so. Just my opinion.

If going for option 2, doesn't hurt to ask if she is willing to do massage, but be prepared to pay her normal fee even if it's "just a bj" you expect as your happy ending. There are some SPs who offer massage ony services as well with different pricing, but they are usually explicit about what ending they provide - and if someone wants more, they need to respect her normal FS rate. To make things clear, I simply say I can offer an erotic rub-down as part of the experience, but don't claim to be a masseuse per se, but the rate is the same. If it's an MA they are seeking, I refer them to other ladies who I know are more adept in that department. I have been offered to do massage with manual ending for a lower price, but that's not my forte, so I'd rather pass because I am an SP, not an MA. And trying to negotiate my rate for whatever reason is a deal breaker for me. PERIOD!

There is so much hilarity in this case. I can't stop reading AND laughing at this. I love judges who can write oh so well. Lol http://www.canlii.org/en/on/onsc/doc/2014/2014onsc3061/2014onsc3061.html

I have no problem with younger clients either providing they respect my few rules. Just like Tracey said find a lady you like, contact her politely with a proper letter of introduction and go from there. Don't forget first impressions go a long way and that first contact is important. Good luck!

For me its seeing a happy and smiling gentleman...It's always a terrific start. Followed by passionate kisses...that usually sets the tone pretty well :) BJ

Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)

I totally agree with you guys ! Very interesting thread btw! (Sorry for the long text lol, I was inspired) For me, the "before", "during" and "after" the date are all important for a perfect date. Too often, I hear people complaining about rushed, uncaring an mechanical dates ! To be honest, I'm not really into the Bam, bam thank you M'aam type of encounter... I enjoy taking my time and being a girlfriend. I like to establish a good connection, making sure that my date is comfortable, and ready for some hot fun. For me, enjoying a date is like going to a restaurant, the setting, the atmosphere, the hostess, the service are all factors that make it a good or bad experience. So if I'm hosting, always expect me to receive you in a private and clean environment, with appetizers, drinks and all the amenities for your comfort. Also, I'm told that I'm a very talented lover ;) As part of what things that make a good date for me, a good sense of humour, a soft and caring person, a nice compliment, kisses on the neck, a mature & experienced gentleman, mutual massage and someone who allows me to fully enjoy myself. As much as I'm caring and love pleasing my partner, I also enjoy the company of a man who likes to give pleasure also. So kissing, having him going down on me, paying lots of attention to my nipples are few things that turn me on. ;) Be nice, caring and gentle to a lady, and you will get much, much more in return. Take care guys xoxo

I'll reverse Bianca's quote, seeing a happy and smiling lady after walking into the room and definitely followed by hot passionate kisses. Nothing better to spark my hormones than a lady that loves to kiss. I do believe I have to meet you Bianca !!

I also find it distracting when they leave the television on. I like the feeling that I am getting her full attention. The pacing is also fairly important to me. If I pay for an hour with a woman, it's because I want to take things slow. I like a bit of talk, and a lot of foreplay and snuggling. I don't need to be inside her within five minutes of walking in the door.

There are a number mature providers here, myself included, and many have recommendations. It's difficult to offer suggestions not knowing what a really intimate experience means to you or what type of lady you're attracted to. There are some who will not see younger clients so that is definitely a place to start a short list. Perhaps if you provide more of a description of the kind of encounter you like and the type of woman who attracts you, you will get more specific input. Good luck with finding what you seek! *muah*

^ THIS! Most guys definitely do not want an SP keeping in touch. Imagine some guy's wife finding a bunch of messages from an SP on his phone or computer.

I've always hoped that all those Aeroplan points I've been collecting would be useful if I ever needed to go home on short notice. For a while this afternoon, that did not seem to be possible. I rechecked one more time this evening and yeah! We can get to my preferred airport a mere 70 miles from home with only a reasonable surcharge on the dates and times we need. So flights booked, car booked, hotel booked. We're ready to roll. That, plus some heartening phone calls with folks down there, all makes for a pretty good end to a day that started so darkly.

I will report it C36 or not. I can't believe we would walk away from someone being pushed into this field and not report it. I don't care what McKay thinks of us, we need to look out for each other. As far as the bruising goes, I would report if the girl showed other signs, not just bruising. And underage, absolutely. It's a duty to do that.

Hmmm, actually a great portion of the Gents I have seen LOVE giving me DATO....I'm not so sure it's just about a small minority of bad boys....now, some can be a bit tentative about it at first....wanting to be sure I'm into it (oh, yes please ;). :D

And now the update! We have a new dog! Her name is Cricket. She is six years old and weighs less than 8 pounds. Everyone is getting along and the pack is back to full strength. :butt: Happy Dancing!!

I agree with you 100% Rebecca. There was another thread that outlined the same problem and it's very irritating to say the least. There are members that do not take the time to look at our profiles, our services, if we are all inclusive or if we are even an SP or MP!! The fact is, we are spending time with you and these "only ???" solicitation requests are very disrespectful. Some of the ladies do offer a single service but a few are too lazy to look and start soliciting everyone it seems to get what they want. At the very least, it's not attractive or makes a lady feel good to ask for these things before you have even met or have taken the time to check out her services and reviews. It's very tacky, cheap and undercutting. Mod has been great handling these types.... Bad apples everywhere and I now just shut them down if they do. They'll get it sooner or later I hope!

In keeping with upholding & supporting future law in Canada, I want to provide law enforcement with an easy & convenient way of identifying Johns & Prostitutes. Johns: They look like your everyday, normal neighbours. They often walk their dogs and wear cardigans and rubber boots. Very sensible clothing. They also sport an unlit tobacco pipe just to make everything seem normal. Their names often start with John, Jack...names that start with "J". They cut the lawn religiously every Wednesday evening and take the garbage out in keeping with the local by-laws. They look like you and me, but they lead a secret life. Prostitutes: These individuals are a different breed. They look like your everyday, normal neighbours. They are often the target of hostile political movements which suit the moment. Sucks eh? Prostitutes also cut the lawn and take out the garbage in keeping with local by-laws. They look like you and me, but they lead a secret life. Hope this helps the Harper government in passing the new laws. Lock your doors everyone.

Recently I had someone txt me... "how much do you Cost?" My reply was.. " I am not for sale, but the rate for my services are....." Normally I would not even waste my time answering to people like that but i just had to set things straight...

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Sending some emails to a couple off ladies who are thinking about visiting Charlottetown, the rest of August looks very interesting !!!

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You were not misunderstood. I believe you did not care for replies you were getting because I read your original post before you edited it and removed the part where you basically likened a warm and genuine woman to someone who would be willing to stay in touch with you and you wondered why majority of sps don 't do that. There are lots of sps who are genuine and caring out there but doesnt mean all of them would care to stay in touch afterwards for reasons echoed by other posters on this thread.

Back from a short walk grocery shopping, sitting down having a coffee, surfing the internet (including CERB ;-) ) and stuffing some envelopes, have some more retirement things to mail RG

ads, emails and packing....

I used to have a massage only rate, but it would always happen. Right in the middle he would want daty. Um...In my books that full service. So I'd have to stop, clarify and get the extra money and then restart. So now I only have fs rates. Yes I still give a great massage however the choice of ending is then up to the gent.

I was going to say the same thing. Emily Rushton would probably be your best bet and she is very good at giving advance notice as to when she might be in Thunder Bay.

I soooooo agree with you i get so insulted..... I only offer a bj special on redriver week which os pretty normal and i am very clear about it (on my ad) but its so annoying hearing well your 15min is 100 i only want bj.... men we go by our time not what we do!

The worst thing an SP can do is email or text a client out of context. Out of the blue etc. Basically "cold calling" for appointments or whatever the intention is, is totally unprofessional. You're being paid for your discretion among other things. You never know what the client is doing when he hasn't contacted you. I never call, email or text any client unless it is ok. It can be just before or just after an appointment. This is how I get stuck sometimes, lol. My phone is a 711 pay as you go. I never use it to dial out so I never know the balance and I never know when I run out of minutes. This phone doesn't have an account management system that I can call. That's the price I pay for an untraceable telephone. On the hand it is equally wrong for a client to do that to an SP. SD

Yeah, the opening few minutes really set the tone for the whole session, for me anyway. It isn't even anything in particular, just something that makes me feel welcome and comfortable. After that, the other stuff is less important. Not meaning that as it doesn't matter, just that I am flexible regarding the actual encounter.

Thank you so much handsome! You were so fun to play with Yes, Athena and I will be passing through in September I don't really come on cerb often. But y'all know my number. Kisses and hugs! Rach

This might be the hardest thread on here to respond to. Seriously. The female form is the most magnificent thing ever created and every part is so enticing and inviting and erotic. I guess all the obvious places are right up there near the top of the list but for me, some of my favorite places to explore (kissing, caressing, tongue, etc.) are what I consider the "transition" places. Where the bottom of the bum meets the thigh, where the hip and waist come together, the underside of the breast to the ribcage, the neckline to the shoulder, and of course, the back of the knee from the calf to the thigh. Damn, getting hot and bothered just thinking about it. :icon_redface: PS. large, small, curvy, athletic...it doesn't matter. They are all beautiful.

Heh, it shows the difference between LE and the Cons (represented here by their mouthpiece Sun media). LE wants to address the real problem of trafficking and asks johns for help with that, but the Ottawa Sun makes it clear that all johns are scum of the earth and would never do anything like that, "justifying" bill C-36. Do I ever hate that newspaper chain.

saw her last night was greeted with a big hug and kiss after a little hugging and kissing she gave me a great massage after she had me flip over the experience turned into a great gfe with kissing ,some breast(great tits) , some oral (man she is great at it) then eventually finishing in missionary with kissing afterword's just like a true girl friend we cuddled ( and she is very cuddly her body fit just nicely against mine )till it was time for me to go. I will repeat and highly recommend her

All I need is for the lady to demonstrate her happiness about my being there... to passionately greet me at the door... i don't need her to be dressed any special way or to do any specific thing... i just want to immediately feel welcome and the Centre of her attention.

So no cock pics Is this OK then LOL Seriously, beside the ignorance, what guy really would. I mean think about it, we know most ladies use smartphones these days. Why would I reduce what little I have to an eenny weeny phone screen. And I don't need added costs, the lady telling me I owe her a new phone because she sprayed over her phone laughing at my.... ummm, shortcomings LOL Just posted in the lighter side, that's all :-) RG

On both sides this is a matter of great trust . It doesn't matter how long the visit , you need to have a very established friendship to feel comfortable in another's private residence . I have visited very few personal residences , once I did for someone I though I knew quite well . This man was very different in his own home and I did not feel at all good even though nothing out of the ordinary happened . It's all about the level of comfort . I see people in my home on a regular basics when I am there . However I have had only one overnight guest in my home . There is something about falling asleep with someone that may and does have secrets . On the other side of the coin I have done one overnight to a gents house that was perfect . I was his guest , he wined and dined me and it was a perfect night. Again he had faith in me and I in him. You just have to be 100 percent sure ! Good luck.

Procrastinating.

I have used AsianPassion, Sugarland and Moonbay before, and they are all reliable and easy to deal with in my humble opinion. Booking is a breeze especially dealing with Candise, the helpful phone girl from AP/SL. :icon_wink:

Any communications that include.... I am young and hung and handsome I really don't need to pay for sex but have x amount to offer you. Are you available? I am right around the corner. How much will x dollars get me. Do you offer a discount for students (or unemployed) There are unfortunately so many more but u get the idea

I understand that these things are annoying to say the least for all you ladies but I can't help but laugh at the utter stupidity of some guys. I don't know, I just have to find the humor. I hope you ladies can find humor in some of it too. At least, when you look back at it after the initial frustration and anger. The one that puzzles me is one that I talked to a provider about once. The guy phones, texts, whatever and books a session. Than starts the haggling. When she says "look buddy, the price is the price." He has the audacity(read stupidity here if you like, lol) to tell her he's a stud and hung like a horse and doesn't really need to "buy" sex. We could never figure out why he called her in the first place. I don't know how you ladies keep your sanity with some of these idiots at times. I really admire you all for hanging in there for the good ones. Please remember we aren't all bad.:icon_biggrin:

Oh, I know what you mean lol I even created an ad for it some time ago: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=123724 I look at it on the bright side though: it makes my screening much easier/faster that way and I don't hesitate to mark the email as spam and then gladly send it to the trash folder :) u know sweet baby darlin'... coz im a buzy gurl i dont w8ste my time, evar ;) lol

I do prefer calling over text of course and will Not book and.confirm.through text but if texting me please at least be respectful especially when making first contact It's funny not.long after I posted this a had a young guy text me ...hey Wats up girl! Lolol no thanks

Hey baby How are you hun? Where are you located bb? Hun-baby-darling-bb-babe-sweetie-cutie at EVERY sentence from someone I NEVER met It litteraly makes me aggressive! I hate that!! Please take note that a: hey sweetie from someone I know its different!! Lol

I agree that SP fees should not be negotiated. Anyone looking for less service that what is offered by the SP they choose to contact should pay the fee and enjoy the limited activities they want. If someone only wants a BJ or a HJ then there are plenty of other places to go where a la carte menus are available for that kind of thing. If you contact a full service provider, you should simply pay the full service rate requested without haggling. Negotiations are insulting. If the person negotiating is just cheap and looking to nickel and dime, then its best that all parties walk away early. The fee is for the time spent in the pleasure of the company of your chosen SP and not for any particular activity shared during your time together.

i pay my accountant by the hour - i pay my lawyer by the hour -i pay my house cleaner by the hour- all professionals -why would your services be any different- except more enjoyable

Your last post for your advertisement, http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=46790 In no place do you mention a rate for just a BJ so you should tell those guys NO and read my AD. What ever you do don't ever be pushed/pressured into something that you do not offer in your ad, some idiots try and take advantage of situations and have no consideration for time and services offered by a lady.