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I've experienced this as well. I just tell them I don't do it. They don't get the fact that I offer an experience and I don't provide just "only services". We as SP are entitled to run business our own way but some guys will try to take the extra mile even if an SP is already providing lets say a certain amount of time or an only service. I just tell them there are plenty of other people out there who may provide what they want and say goodbye. It will be interesting to see how people who negotiate will be able to do this once new laws are passed. Stick to your guns. There are low ballers everywhere. We are not a restaurant, we are not tires, we are offering an encounter of an intimate nature and to me (and this is JMO and my opinion only in case anyone decides to twist my words again or infer that I'm insulting them) the experience of seeing an SP has gone by the way side. I'm old school. This new wave of clients I do not understand and do not care to understand because of how I run my business and what I'm accustomed to. I don't feel I'm missing out by not offering these only services. If another SP wants to do that, that's her perogative. There are plenty of gentlemen who enjoy spending time with a woman all inclusive and not trying to "take the potato out of the meal" for a less expensive price. Life doesn't work that way. At least not where intimacy is concerned in my world. To each their own but I know how I like to run my business and won't have someone tell me otherwise or that my rates are too high because they want to save a few bucks. You get what you pay for. If $20 for example is a big deal then they need it more than I do. Sorry but true. This is a luxury service, not a need or necessity in life.

I'm in that categorie too ;) Like the previous ladies have mentionned, there are lots of mature ladies to choose from...happy search! Bianca

I have no problem with younger clients either providing they respect my few rules. Just like Tracey said find a lady you like, contact her politely with a proper letter of introduction and go from there. Don't forget first impressions go a long way and that first contact is important. Good luck!

For me its seeing a happy and smiling gentleman...It's always a terrific start. Followed by passionate kisses...that usually sets the tone pretty well :) BJ

Hello Cerb..!! I would like to have your opinion about a subject that I would like to share with you for a long moment. I know that a similar thread has been do in another forum from another province but I thought it was important to make one for Ottawa. I have been solicited, Im sure Im not the only one, for ''only this service'' and not being offered the respect for my time or sessions. As well, the fact of underpricing, cutting price for these '' onlys''. There's a lot of users who asked me ''Whats your rate only for a BJ'' or ''I want one hour but not intercourse...'' Maybe Im wrong, but I dont see a difference between having intercourse or not in my session. So, what happen to our time?? Why ''just'' a BJ doesnt worth the same thing than intercourse ???? Probably some girls offering a '' BJ price '' and I respect that but some users have to respect girls who doesnt. I think that we are not offering ''just this'' or ''that service'' but a COMPLETE service even if you are SP or MA. Should we reduce our rates but start to ask extra for everything?? If you want to kiss here, its +x$... if you want to touch here its +x$... sounds ridiculous no? I think its the same thing for us when we are solicited like this. Maybe Im wrong, so that is why I asked for you opinion and I think we need to talk about it if we want to inform new users. Ps: Sorry For my english..... ;)

"We are people too and we are workers and we want the same rights as any other worker" I love this video so much! Information about prostitution in New Zealand: https://docs.google.com/file/d/0B3mqMOhRg5FeQ3lFVDZVSkZscWM/edit

Since the topic is on loneliness, I just would like to share one option for those who are feeling alone. The Distress Centre of Ottawa I'm not knocking meeting SPs as a method to combat loneliness. However, in times where an SP is not available, or money is tight, calling the distress centre is free, and always available. The people who answer the phone go through rigorous training. If you are feeling overwhelmed, alone, sad, angry, or just bored, please call these people. For those outside Ottawa, there are distress centres all over Canada. You can find their number on google by searching "Distress Centre <Your town/city>".

I use hotels in Wpg quite often, and most will allow you to pay cash, instead of charging a credit card.... but they want a deposit, usually $200/day. They still want id, but you can avoid the bank/credit card paper trail. A Day rate at a good hotel is your best bet in my opinion. Many of us are hesitant to go to a cheaper hotel, especially if the client is new. Have fun! Porscha

I totally recommend my friend Bianca Jaguar! Sensual, passionate, with lots of energy and ohh, soo sexyy !!! She is really down to earth and easy to talk to ! You won't regret it ! ;)

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Haha nice we could take turns doing the jerking...I just love dirty talking and being told when/where to cum and countdowns hehe

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Currently working my way through the books. So definitely looking forward to it! Anything with Eva Green grabs my attention.....not even so much because of her physical appearance but because she is a crazy talented actress. HUGE fan of hers.

There is nothing wrong with charging extra for services not normally considered GFE (eg.g. Greek), but being upfront about it, is the key. And since you for example, do specify that that service s extra, then you are letting them know upfront that for your time it is X$ and if they want Greek, they have to tip you x$ on top of that. No surprises. I think the point Rebecca was making is when guys expect to pay less for what "they" consider outside the realm of a FS escort. Even if the guy just wants to come for a HJ, my rate is the same but if I establish a relationship with him, I may allow him to visit me at the rate I charge when I run specials, but that is me offering it, not him demanding it. Now some SPs do advertise BJ only rates, which is their peragative. But for those of us who don't give a break on that, it is annoying when we are asked "how much for a BJ only" when we don't advertise separate rates. It's like they see other girls doing it and "assume" that we will too. I gave up being annoyed about it a long time ago because sometimes I do believe they some really don't know the etiquette, whereas for others, it's a game to see if they can break us. Especially when they ask not once, but time and time again thinking somehow if they ask long and hard enough, we'll give in. This is not a criticism of anyone, but things were sure simpler in the "old days" when we quoted a certain $ amount based on time and services were never discussed. But no use dwelling on that though. Everyone is entitled to advertise the way they want. But I do cut certain guys slack in not going loco on them for asking because especially for a newbie, navigating the ads out there must be a nightmare at times. I am polite and assertive, but I don't continue to engage. We have to remind ourselves that we are professionals and if we have to spend an extra minute explaining it to them, so be it. I have ended up with some good clients who "got it", came and saw me for my regular rate for just a BJ and everything was fine. It's the WOTs, tire-kickers and repeat texters, callers who don't respect what we tell them the first time, who are problem, really.

Recently I had someone txt me... "how much do you Cost?" My reply was.. " I am not for sale, but the rate for my services are....." Normally I would not even waste my time answering to people like that but i just had to set things straight...

I understand that each lady runs her own business they way she wants, and that is her choice. All I was stating is that it really bugs me when I see and hear this that is all. As for your recommendations, I already deploy these. Along with a few others. Thanks

Finished the dishes, now my feet are up watching tv, and drinking a Becks no alcohol beer, oh and surfing CERB RG

1. Guy answers my ad where I've included my website address... "Can I get your site address, email, donations and some pics?" 2. Clients who request early morning appointments, so I rush to get ready (NOT an early AM person), and then they are 20-30mins late. 3. Rough digits. No, you don't need to play ring your finger around my cervix! 4. Bad breath. Yuck! 5. Clients who push boundaries or cannot respect MY time. 6. Being asked if they can ejaculate in my ear. Yes, I was actually asked this. 7. Married men who come and trash talk their wives. Won't see them again. Those are the biggest turns offs for me (I'm sure I'll think of more lol)

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I totally agree with you guys ! Very interesting thread btw! (Sorry for the long text lol, I was inspired) For me, the "before", "during" and "after" the date are all important for a perfect date. Too often, I hear people complaining about rushed, uncaring an mechanical dates ! To be honest, I'm not really into the Bam, bam thank you M'aam type of encounter... I enjoy taking my time and being a girlfriend. I like to establish a good connection, making sure that my date is comfortable, and ready for some hot fun. For me, enjoying a date is like going to a restaurant, the setting, the atmosphere, the hostess, the service are all factors that make it a good or bad experience. So if I'm hosting, always expect me to receive you in a private and clean environment, with appetizers, drinks and all the amenities for your comfort. Also, I'm told that I'm a very talented lover ;) As part of what things that make a good date for me, a good sense of humour, a soft and caring person, a nice compliment, kisses on the neck, a mature & experienced gentleman, mutual massage and someone who allows me to fully enjoy myself. As much as I'm caring and love pleasing my partner, I also enjoy the company of a man who likes to give pleasure also. So kissing, having him going down on me, paying lots of attention to my nipples are few things that turn me on. ;) Be nice, caring and gentle to a lady, and you will get much, much more in return. Take care guys xoxo

You were not misunderstood. I believe you did not care for replies you were getting because I read your original post before you edited it and removed the part where you basically likened a warm and genuine woman to someone who would be willing to stay in touch with you and you wondered why majority of sps don 't do that. There are lots of sps who are genuine and caring out there but doesnt mean all of them would care to stay in touch afterwards for reasons echoed by other posters on this thread.

Communication between a client and an SP should be governed by the rules/boundaries established by the SP primarily and the clients expressed approval for how they wish the SP to contact them. A significant number of SP's clearly establish that their only communication will be around booking and confirming bookings and that's fine. Some SP's engage in a more significant dialogue with regular clients even between bookings and that is fine to so long as everyone's boundaries are being respected. In my particular case I have clearly told a number of SP'S that they can contact me at anytime via text, CERB PM, or on twitter. This has worked well for me. I kinda think the only rule should be... 1st for the client - follow the rules set by your SP and 2nd for the SP- never contact the client unless the client has approved your doing so. Just my opinion.

There are a number mature providers here, myself included, and many have recommendations. It's difficult to offer suggestions not knowing what a really intimate experience means to you or what type of lady you're attracted to. There are some who will not see younger clients so that is definitely a place to start a short list. Perhaps if you provide more of a description of the kind of encounter you like and the type of woman who attracts you, you will get more specific input. Good luck with finding what you seek! *muah*

What a waste of the taxpayer's time and money. The lawyers should be penalized for brining it this far. There was no law broken here.

Loneliness is kind of a funny thing.... long weekend... lots of family home...people all around and yet that is when you can feel the most lonely.... loneliness is not about the absence of people around you even if it's people you care for.... it's about that feeling of connection or about what or who is missing. Just my opinion.

Uum, just me and I do tend to write short ads not going on about my accolades . However if the best one can come up with to sell themselves or advertise is clean I wonder , are we not all clean . Surely there is more one can say about ones self.

saw her last night was greeted with a big hug and kiss after a little hugging and kissing she gave me a great massage after she had me flip over the experience turned into a great gfe with kissing ,some breast(great tits) , some oral (man she is great at it) then eventually finishing in missionary with kissing afterword's just like a true girl friend we cuddled ( and she is very cuddly her body fit just nicely against mine )till it was time for me to go. I will repeat and highly recommend her

Yeah! I'm all over this. I like the familiar faces, but I'm particularly happy to see Powers Boothe on a screen again, and I'm kind of liking everything Joseph Gordon-Levitt is doing these days. I know Sin City is just overall film noir dialed up to 14, so the comparison may seem trite... but parts of this remind me specifically of Chinatown for sheer darkness. Sort of in the way that, if you were going to set out to make Chinatown in 2014, this is what you'd come up with. Looking forward to it.

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Sorry, I didn't read this entire thread but wanted to contribute. I could never be friends with a SP because I'm old fashion about that. I have many female friends, a few are good friends that I would doing anything for. These female friends are in their own way very attractive and sexy but I would never think about having sex with them because sex with a friend leads to intimacy and everything that comes with that. So if I see a SP for sex, I would not consider being friends with them. In the same way as before, it would lead to intimacy and everything that comes with that. I'd end up wanting them to be my SO and loosing her as a SP. Loose-loose situation. Having said that, I've met several SP that I know I could be friends and/or good friends with if we didn't meet in this hobby life.

Anything with Alba in on my radar! Posted via Mobile Device

All I need is for the lady to demonstrate her happiness about my being there... to passionately greet me at the door... i don't need her to be dressed any special way or to do any specific thing... i just want to immediately feel welcome and the Centre of her attention.

Fish and chips at a great little shop in Aberdeen.

I have personally have had the pleasure to enjoy the beautiful sights and feel of Exotic Touch Danielle's, Katherine's and Maraena's wonderful and juicy fun bums. Just delightful!!

Alexxxis, I think it is fine that you have your own opinion of what a sexual identity or orientation is. That is totally your right to have your opinion. But I dislike that you are telling other people that their identification is wrong, and that you are putting down identities like asexuality. It may not be common, but it is out there. As for the dictionary definitions... Not that long ago, gay meant something completely different. So did queer. We didn't always have the word transgender. So definitions are constantly changing as our understanding of human sexualities and identities is changing.

No lady should ever have to negotiate her donation. Requesting it is nothing short of disrespecting the lady. The donation is, after all, for her time and her time is something she can't get back. If a lady chooses to offer time in certain amounts, like 15 minutes or so, then perhaps whatever service someone was looking for may be available then, but to harass a lady who offers an hour for a mere 15 minutes is insulting. If a lady doesn't offer that amount of time, another very likely does and would be willing to entertain that.