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The rules were broken, it was not a shill, and the Toronto Maple Leafs won't win the Stanley cup this year. Lesson learned and life goes on. Let's have a gin and tonic and enjoy the weekend or for the non drinkers a Shirley Temple or Mary Poppins or whatever you call that drink ;)

There are many ways for ladies to provide information about themselves on Cerb, including reco links: - Directly on our profile's main page - In the "about me" tab of our profiles- there's a space called "Recommendation or URL of a page that is important to me here on cerb" - In her ads - Last but not least, on her website I have recommendations in at least 6 cities on Cerb and my gentlemen have no issues clicking on the links I provide them with to learn more about me. Plus, they can easily search my name on Cerb to find out even more so I do not think double posting recommendations is necessary at all. In the end, it's not a gentleman's responsibility to promote the ladies. It's up to the ladies to do that...

I apologize if my comment came across as "classless", however I was merely clarifying as I was confused as to why it was posted in ottawa if he had seen her in NL? Once I figured it out, I edited my post to say "nevermind", as I didn't need to know anymore. I do agree with RG however, and believe clients need to be careful as posting for a lady in more than one city when they've only seen her in one can be taken as a shill post, and end up doing harm to the lady, even if that wasn't the intention at all. As for the comment about people searching for a lady in a particular city, do a search for her name. Then you can read her recommendations regardless of where they are posted. Just a suggestion! Again, I apologize if I created an issue with my posting!

I see many comments on posts that come across like the person posting was a buffoon, as if all the rules and common sense are straight-forward, and no one could possibly have posted something/somewhere what they did. Recently there was a recommendation on a lady from Ottawa, but the poster saw her in another city. He posted both in the city he saw her, and her home city. People jumped on and question the poster why he did that....really... think about it.. and not just in this case. If the lady works out of a home city, why wouldn't the home city people want to see a recommendation too, why does it have to be in the city that the person was seen. I think it is perfectly acceptable what was done. My question is why do people feel that they should jump on things like that and come across as extremely critical? It isn't even consistent with the principals of the board of, if you haven't got something nice to say, don't say it at all. What is everyone's views? I don't think these types of responses are very helpful for anyone.

The way I screen is almost entirely on my intuition but I do not accept blocked calls. I screen clients and they don't even know I'm doing it. It's called my sixth sense and it's very well honed. I pick on so many different things when I speak to someone for a few minutes. They could be so polite to me but my radar is always on alert. I may pick up on something they say and it will bring up a red flag. I've very good at reading people and this is the way I screen. I am established and reputable enough and I think if this bill becomes law, many men will be looking for established ladies and not risk the fly by nights or unknown ones you see on other sites. Other hobbyists will wait it out to see what the outcome will be in terms of how law enforcement will handle these new laws. Do you really think LE has the budget to set up clients regularily? I'm sure there will a few men who will be made examples of by LE intially but I'm sure most hobbyists will set out and do their research first instead of calling any unknown Jane Smith from BP for example. That is a site where you will see a big change especially with explicit advertising. My advice to hobbyists is to get a secret hobby phone and not in your real name. Chatr wireless does not require you to give your real name or provide identification. Say it's a gift for someone and tell them you want to put it in their name with a fake address. This is probably the best way to do it. I do not book from blocked calls or payphones and always to check to see if someone is trying to hide their number. I'm aware of all of that. If a client wants to play secret agent, forget it. It's a two way street and it's a give and take. I will not be going to hotels or anybody's home. I rarely do that now anyways unless I know the person. I prefer my own surroundings.

Here is a good 'plain English' description of bill C-36 including a good description of all the vague sections that are open to interpretation by future courts. Q & A on Bill C-36

Recently I have been thinking about how the amazing Ladies of CERB go about screening prospective clients. I have been around long enough now to know and respect that the SP's take screening seriously and have all developed their approach to screening that meets their individual needs. Many SP's require certain information, or references, or that initial contacts be made thought email or by phone. But when I stop and think about it these wonderful ladies really don't have much info on which to base a decision that affects their personal safety. Obviously guys lie about their name and other personal information... cell phones are a dime a dozen and references can't be a deal breaker all the time because all of us had to start with none at some point. For the last few weeks I will admit it i have trolled the various SP ad sections and then looked at some of the SP profile visitors post history. While I did not see anything strange or surprising in fact I saw a lot of posts very similar to my own post history I was struck by the fact that many of these posts (mine included) did not, for me anyway, scream wow I can't wait to meet this person. I kinda think if I was going to invite this person into my life I might need more. Lololol Anyway.... I think this might just be my long way of saying Thank You to all you wonderful ladies who make the choice to invite us into your life. I guess the fact that you do that based on very little information says something about your faith and trust in others and your ability to assess the essence of our character. For me personally I have benefited greatly because you have. THANK YOU

If I have take out it is usually Chinese Food, normally it's one of two people who wait on me, they are both very friendly, food is always good, I usually tip 3 to 5 dollars, both always say thanks, not sure how much this happens, they always greet me with a smile with great service so the tip is well worth it.

This thread does seem to be about two questions, and though I didn't see the post that spurred this one I would like to comment on the "piling on" idea. It's actually a tricky issue, I think. There are times after all when it's somewhat appropriate for everyone to have their say, even if they're repeating what's already come before. Sometimes people say or ask something where it's useful to get a clear sense of the common opinion or etiquette. Or if someone suggests something truly inappropriate, having several people all come down reinforcing the same point can be a good thing to ensure a clear message is sent. Something like a poster who suggests it's OK to haggle a lady's rates, for instance. However, other times it does seem like someone asks a question in good faith, or makes an innocent breach of etiquette, and the next thing you know multiple people are responding with the exact same points. I suspect I've even been guilty of this myself, so I don't say this as if I'm somehow above it all. I can even understand why it happens. This is a forum after all. People come to share their opinion, and it's simple human nature to want to add your voice to a discussion. However, I can also see the problem when this goes too far. I can think of a couple threads where the OP would post again to say they had clearly got the message and had changed their mind and thanks for the info, and yet people still keep replaying with the same answer. Again, I get why, but I also get that the OP probably starts to feel bullied after a while (even though this isn't the intention of the other posters). The effect, unfortunately, is that a person becomes reluctant to post anything or ask questions. This doesn't make for a friendly, non-static forum. For my part, I'll try better in the future to keep this in mind. Often it's worth adding your own words, to share a new point or view or clarify a previous one. But in some cases it's probably more friendly and sufficient to simply use the thanks/nomination buttons to add one's support to an idea and leave it at that. Again, I say all this without accusation or reference to the other thread. Just some general thoughts.

I'm waiting for the first judge to throw out the first case. Officer, you are charging this person with the purchase of sexual services is that right? What exactly do you consider sexual services? Well, you know, like the lady says, 'everyone knows' what sexual services are. Oh, really.

For me, fully interactive means the ladies, kiss, do daty, some finger play or toy play. For some, it could also include strap-on with one or both taking turns. Semi-interactive might be light kissing and/or, breast touching and caressing, but no touching of the genitals. Non-interactive (girl on boy only): means there are two ladies and one gent, but do not touch or interact sexually at all. When I say I do duos with ladies, it's usually Fully Interactive or Semi. If a girl is not comfortable with any contact at all, she's probably not the gal for me to be doing duos with. Just my two cents worth.

I agree wholeheartedly. I have found myself in situations in the past on other jobs where it became one step away from a sexual harassment case. In other workforce settings, it makes it much more difficult to shut down these other situations due to other circumstances surrounding employment, lack of proof or even just the consequences of reporting it such as being ridiculed by fellow employees. I even had a chance encounter on another job with a well known Canadian serial killer who used his job position to try and intimidate others. He became very irrate and bothersome until I had to get a higher authority to step in and stop it. I knew he was a whackadoodle back then way before anyone else caught onto him. His body language towards me said it all. He ended up killing a woman he worked with and killing another. And they say being a prostitute is dangerous! Being an SP allows me to call the shots, on my own that is. I can shut things down if I don't feel comfortable and I don't have to deal with anyone I don't want to deal with. Yet my government seems to know what is good and what is bad for me. I don't think so!

I agree with you on one thing, if the rules on this aren't clear enough, you should PM the Mod and let him decide Me, I'll write my recommendations the way I always have, one encounter recommended in the city's recommendation forum that I saw the lady in (I see a lady in Toronto, it gets reco'd in Toronto forum, if Ottawa, Ottawa's forum, and so on)...and not copied to other city's reco forums Funny, recommendations have worked fine till this one particular case. If the rules that unclear, you'd think there would have been a problem before now You want the Mods to rule, feel free to PM them with your concerns RG

Why would the CBJ lady change her standard? Depending on the ladies, they may alternate providing oral, one using a condom, the other not. But I can't imagine the CBJ lady feeling obligated to provide BBBJ, nor should the client or the other lady expect her to. It is important that the client be made aware up front so there are no surprises.

Keep in mind down in the United Stated where prostitution is illegal (for the most part) high end upscale (for lack of a better phrase) companions/courtesans, whatever term you like employ screening/verification, it doesn't seem to be an issue And one could always join a verification site (ie Date Check, SP411 etc, if they prefer) Right now, there is fear of the unknown. But and just my opinion, should gentlemen stick with reputable companions here, there shouldn't be a problem. Avoid places like Backpage, CL and most definitely streetcorners Anyhow, a rambling RG

Gwen, Kelly, Courtney - all from CMJ are fabulous at exactly what you are looking for. Now hurry up and get that dick to CMJ :)

This is very old and tiresome but if your discretion is important to you my safety doubles or triples that and more. Its totally fine with me if you don't want to disclose a lot of information on a first meeting but you need to have at least two reference's from this board that I either know or they have a presence here. Today alone I answered my phone to private numbers that were new people to me and they were appalled to learn that I don't book appointments in this manner . ( I use my cell for other things as well) One person was kind enough to tell me he is a visitor to Halifax and would love to see me. When I told him I don't make appointments through a blocked number he hung up on me . Yes a juicy potential date, I bet not. I am very understanding of all peoples needs but if you are not willing to give your information to be properly verified or have a good reference's its not just not worth me risking my safety.

I have seem this question before and its very interesting that you guys ponder this. Most of our guests are married and well the ones we know really well we even chat occasionally about their home lives, wives, kids etc. It doesn't matter to me at all if you wear your ring at all. Unless of course its a two pounder and then I may be afraid of being scratched or pinched. My opinion is wear it, if you start taking it off and putting it back on then you are going to lose it. Could be hard to explain how a perfectly fitting ring fell off your finger.

Personnaly it doesn't bother me and I have seen lots. It would be a question of "are you comfortable wearing it"...If so, my guess is the majority of us wouldn't care or even notice it. And besides...its none of our business ;) Bianca

Well the place I get my take out (well two places)...not many in small town Ontario LOL I thrown change (talking loonies and toonies here) in a jar that is set on a counter. Now the one place, usually $2.00. The other, a pizzeria/Italian Greek restaurant/takeout. The takeout is right by the kitchen. A pizza place, well with ovens going, literally the kitchen take out section hotter than hell. I put $5.00 in the jar. Working in that hot an environment, you may not think they are doing much, but well I wouldn't work in that hot an environment, no matter what. Actually only once I never tipped. Went for breakfast one morning (I treated, 4 people, approx. $20/person) Waiter was surly slow taking the order, NEVER offered coffee, had to ask, a couple times, and he NEVER brought any. Slow bringing the bill when we were done, when he brought the bill he asked then if we would like a coffee. No!!! And no tip for him either. After breakfast, first stop Timmies But that was god awful service, the worst ever RG

Have a look at this thread from the scam section guys: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=183009 Still feeling like giving her a call?

Yes, I agree with you that written recommendations are a positive tool to help promote ourselves but my point was that it is not up to the gentlemen to double-triple-quadruple post recommendations in different cities to help "promote/expose" the ladies. I am also positive that when you are interested in spending time with a Cerb lady that you will at least visit her profile once or twice before seeing her. Accessible information can be found in more places than just the reco section itself aka her profile. If you can't find anything, a single inquiry PM can also be sent... As you already know, there are many ways a gentleman can find information about a specific lady and I don't personally believe that "spamming" the site, in multiple cities, with duplicate recos, that gentlemen will have an easier time finding information. Where there's a will, there's a way ;)

I think I started this whole thing lol...I was just pointing out that the reco should have been placed with the already created one... That was the whole point of my post (and it's in the rules) I didn't care if he posted one in Newfoundland and Ottawa, just don't create one that's already been created... Redundant. As for posting in multiple cities, no issue with that since maybe a gent won't see it in the Newfoundland section of the board. Also what if the SP hasn't had a reco yet in her home city and did a trip and received one there, this would only help her... So posting in multiple cities I think is a non issue. But then it just kind of went from there.... Anyways, totally agree with outforfun and don't need the piling on... Doesn't help with anything.

You've tried the "girls" ... Now try a real woman ! Call 613-820-8887 or PM me Xo

That's what I'm savoring this morning, so sweet, juicy and delicate! Whats on your plate? Hopefully only the best of what the season has to offer... Sensuality for all the senses in a visit with me Available next week Monday 2-9 Wednesday 2-9 Friday 2-9 Prebooking special 613-298-2029

Well, in that case people were just trying to point out the poster's error and remind him of the board rules. (He saw an SP in city A; he posted two recommendations from the same visit, one in City A and one in her home city, B; the B recommendation, if posted at all, should have been put into an existing thread for her in City B.) It began simply enough with one comment about the error, but then the thread kind of got on a roll because people were confused. I began to find it more funny than anything else. (I hope I helped push it firmly into "absurd".) So I don't have a problem with simple corrective comments like the first one in that thread. But yeah (barring confusion as in that thread), once the problem is pointed out it's not really helpful for multiple people to pile on pointing out the same thing.

Quickly becoming the Next Top MA's: Rini http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9390 Sophia http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9342 Lynzee http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9341 Bre http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9427 Chelsea http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9290 Adrianna http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9254 Bre NEW Reco! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=187585 Chelsea NEW Reco! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=183547 Sat Aug 9th COURTNEY 10-4 MELODIE 11-7 SOPHIA 4-10 Sun Aug 10th ZARA 10-4 CASSIE 10-4 SOPHIA 11-7 DAISY 4-10 Mon Aug 11th Kelly 9-4 Jewel 10-4 Lauren 10-4 Rini 11-7 Courtney 11-7 Jewel 4-10 Lynzee 4-10 Tues Aug 12th Kelly 9-4 Lauren 10-4 Gwen 11-7 Brianna 11-7 Jewel 4-10 Adrianna 4-10 Wed Aug 13th Rini 10-4 Melodie 10-4 Holly 10-4 Zara 11-7 Brianna 11-7 Lynzee 4-10 Courntey 4-10 Thur Aug 14th Melodie 10-4 Lynzee 10-4 Holly 10-4 Bre 11-7 Adrianna 11-7 Rini 4-10 Myla 4-10 Fri Aug 15th Chelsea 10-4 Cassie 10-4 Sophia 10-4 Zara 11-7 Courtney 11-7 Brianna 4-10 Melodie 4-10 Sat Aug 16th Sophia 10-4 Courtney 11-7 Adrianna 4-10 Sun Aug 17th Cassie 10-4 Lynzee 11-7 Daisy 4-10 Where All Your Fantasies... Become Reality Check us out to see More Photos & Bio's! CLICK HERE To Become a Member CLICK HERE Some What Others Have Said About their Experiences with a few of the Ladies; Kelly http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...ighlight=kelly Daisy http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...ighlight=daisy Melodie http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...ighlight=daisy Holly http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...ighlight=holly Chelsea http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...hlight=chelsea Cassie http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...ghlight=cassie Zara http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...highlight=zara

Sorry my mistake I will ask the Mod to add this to the Thread Pete started.

Yes but he did post one in the Ottawa section... He did one in newfoundland and Ottawa... Check again ;)

This thread is IN the Ottawa section :P

I am good at what I do with providing a girlfriend experience. Definitely not a girlfriend eventually. I would be too fiesty and cranky. I'm also extremely independent and like my time alone. Men can't handle me which explains why I'm single. I do as I please. lol

Sounds like you caught a virus by opening the email and now it's mailing for you. I would do a virus scan on your machine and see what gets picked up.

Hey everyone, I'm Alexa Quinn, a new SP. I've been reading CERB with interest for a little while now, and I'm impressed with the overall positive vibe and respectfulness of the community. I look forward to getting to know you all more - both online and in person! :-)

Well for me it won't change. I trust the ladies I see or want to see with screening/verification information. They can be trusted with it Now the government on the other hand, don't trust them at all Professional companions have integrity, Stephen Harper, Peter MacKay, Joy Smith et al have none But my lack of trust in the government doesn't mean I won't do my part to keep ladies safe...including being screened A rambling RG

That won't really work when I call your hotel room to confirm your stay lol Most hotels require the caller to ask for a guest by name (with the room number optional) ;) Same for when I go for an outcall to a private residence... I need to be able to verify the information the gentleman provides me with. A real name is essential along with other accurate information. References have always been a big bonus for the ladies who screen and will definitely have much more value to the gentlemen when Bill C-36 becomes law. Board reputation? Not so much as some people have very different online personas than their real life one...

What I do is very simple. Treat her like she is a valued guest. Greet her warmly, take her coat if appropriate, offer drinks, etc. Unless you normally ask your guests to take a shower I might hold off on that one. One critical thing is to read her website or other instructions and follow them exactly. For example, if she wants an envelope in plain sight, make sure it is there.

The bad news...I've run out of love to give The good news...That's because I happily gave out a lot of thanks in this thread Thanks Spud for noticing that I, well, ummm...I post a lot LOL and starting this thread. Very much appreciated Thank you to everyone else for your kind words and comments And as you might gather I enjoy being part of this community, thank you to Mod and Town Council for making CERB the community it is A thankful rambling :-) RG

Heard lots of decent things about Hannah. All safe services, not GFE though. Rosalind looks good but have heard nothing.

Yeah... we guys just have to remember that GFE is GirlFriend Experience, not GirlFriend Eventually, and if you have a GirlFriend Expectation then it'll screw everything up in no time at all. So don't do that.

My fripples always show even when I wear a padded bra. Nice at times, but not so nice at other times... But will not complain about it!

Well breast implants come in all sizes why is this so hard to believe ? I have seen larger .

I do not chat and text all day with people I have not met nor do I do this with clients I have met. Please respect my time and understand that I only use my phone to book appts. If you want to talk, please come and visit me in person. Thank-you.

You were not misunderstood. I believe you did not care for replies you were getting because I read your original post before you edited it and removed the part where you basically likened a warm and genuine woman to someone who would be willing to stay in touch with you and you wondered why majority of sps don 't do that. There are lots of sps who are genuine and caring out there but doesnt mean all of them would care to stay in touch afterwards for reasons echoed by other posters on this thread.

Lily, first, let me welcome you to Cerb :) I would like to add that Indy Companion is NOT an agency. I am a full-100% independent companion and only advertise with them ;) Same goes for all the other ladies you see on the site. We pay a monthly fee to appear on the site. Nothing more to it.

I couldn't agree more ;) Chemistry is very important to me, which is why I will only offer duos with ladies I have met before; that way, we know that we are compatible so that everyone gets to have a fun time!

Brittany Murphy had beautiful eyes.

With all due respect, Pete, I think it depends on the ladies and their history. Without getting into details, I will give you an example. One time, Chanel Reign was at my house one day snapping some pics of Nicki and the next thing I knew, the bedroom door was closed in my face and...well. Let's just say in the event they were to specifically advertise a duo (even though this is not a common thing they do), I believe they have discovered quite nicely that they are compatible and whoever sees them would not be disappointed. Another example is Dorinda and Gabriella who both live in different places, but started advertising duos. I know they met before they advertised duos, so one can assume they determined their compatibility somehow. So, I think it depends on the ladies involved and what has or has not transpired behind the scenes beforehand that you may not be aware of. Wouldn't want you to miss out on a good thing, simply because two ladies never dvertised duos before. But I do hear what you are saying, and probably for the most part, yes, unless they have been in the bedroom previously, how does anyone really know if they'd be compatible, including themselves. Actually, come to think of it, this would be a wise thing to do - have a trial run on their own. Hmmm. Happy duo-ing!

She kiss me. I kiss her She go down on me I go down on her. oh and boobies Probably forget the guy for a little bit...*no one did hear that* The toys aren't always needed, they can be fun at time, but not needed in my case.