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http://www.forbes.com/sites/timworstall/2014/08/11/one-benefit-of-legalised-prostitution-seen-in-new-zealand/ I am beginning to love Forbes ;)

Ok -- there are a few things that jumped out at me as I read this thread, both the OP post and the comments. 1. A woman needs to disclose when it's that time of the month? That seems awfully private, and extreme. 2. Women in this industry REGULARLY, and SUCCESSFULLY, work through their period with things such as sponges or soft cups. It happens ALL the time. 3. How mortified this poor woman must have felt by the completely immature way you reacted. Clearly the sponge became dislodged. And you know what? Menstruation is a fact of life. She didn't know that happened, or mean for it to. She's likely worked through her period COUNTLESS times with no issue. 4. Asking women to not work during their period is ridiculous. 5. Taking the donation and insulting her further by leaving $40?!!?!! It was an unfortunate incident that wasn't planned. It was dealt with poorly by you, and that poor woman wasn't given a chance to correct the situation -- and then ALSO had to lose out on her pay for that booking? Complete and utter disrespect. SO much wrong with this!!!!!!

Much of this industry revolves around the revelation of things that are generally considered private, from the revealing photos and self-descriptions posted my many (if not most) providers, to the very detailed reviews and recommendations posted by their clients, to the questions and answers about what may or may not take place during an encounter. This doesn't strike me as being any worse than a lot of other stuff that's just accepted as part of the way the business operates. But then, I'm a guy and nobody's paying much attention to my body on a daily basis, so I may simply not understand... Fair enough. And when it works well and the client is none the wiser... no harm, no foul. But there's a chance that things might not go so smoothly, and in this case having been up-front about it would probably have been the better option. It's up to each individual lady to decide for herself what the chances are of things slipping, and what the consequences might be, and therefore whether or not to disclose things in advance. Perhaps guys who feel very strongly about this should mention it when booking so that they can delay until next week if need be, but that opens the door to a whole other pile of awkward... Three things on this. The first is to simply note that there are some folks out there who don't deal with blood at all well, irrespective of its origin. Second, there's the health angle. No encounter is risk-free from this point of view, and we all make our own decisions about what level of risk we are or are not prepared to accept... but I don't think most of us consider blood-exposure when doing so. Saliva, sweat, semen, vaginal mucus? Yes, all the time. But urine and feces and blood are not things that most of us would expect to encounter unless something had been explicitly arranged. And of those, blood is by far the most efficient at transferring pathogens. It opens up a whole load of new things to worry about, including many things that aren't usually considered STIs. It doesn't strike me as unreasonable to be unhappy if a health-risk that you hadn't expected is suddenly thrown at you, no matter what sex you are or which side of the client-provider relationship you're on. Finally, to quote the OP: "I felt something touch my lip I moved back to find a bloody spunge slipping out of the ladies vagina." I've never had anything remotely like that happen to me, and I can't honestly say I'd react gracefully if it did. Reactions to this sort of thing are likely to be immediate, visceral, and not the result of some well-thought-out reasoning. It's not clear to me that calling the OP immature is either reasonable or helpful.

I've noticed over the last month or so that there's been quite a few articles in the more business-oriented end of the press (places like Forbes and The Economist) arguing in favour of decriminalization on purely pragmatic grounds. I think this is a significant development: the more people realize that the only serious argument against sex work is that "it's against my personal morals", the more they'll come to understand that the proper public policy is to simply allow those who find sex work immoral to not engage in it, but not to inflict their own perception of morality on the rest of society, which may not share it. It'll take time, and it may be a bumpy ride on occasion, but the tide seems to be flowing the right way...

Private communication between a SP/Client is OK and at least for me would be respected. But no need to publicly disclose it I could see where regular clients would like to see a special lady, for some gentlemen it's the overall connection/companionship a lady provides more than individual menu items she offers. Also for some it is the menu the lady offers and a client might feel upset that the lady couldn't offer everything. If he had known he could have reschedule their date It's a matter of mutual respect. The lady respecting the man enough to tell him so he can make arrangements knowingly. And the man respecting the lady to understand "life happens" If that makes sense A rambling RG

My take is that it is a legitimate discussion topic as long as you are not trying to expose or reveal the identity of the lady. Of course, I am no Mod and he has the final say. Personally, this had happened to me twice - and I won't disclose who were the ladies. I agree with you that when it happened it was shocking and unpleasant, not to mention that it is highly unsafe. As Katherine and Suite Escapes say, the ladies may have the need to continue working but full disclosure is really important and other services could be offered in lieu of FS and Daty.

I want to attend pretty please & thank you!!!

It's against cerb rules to air your dirty laundry in public. You know full well guys will be pm'ing you to ask who the lady is. Not cool.

You have every feeling available in your mind, body and spirit to feel this way . I don't feel ( personally this is a good idea ) however it seems to be the norm . As ladies we can't afford to not be available up to a week a month, delima. I do not judge ever anyone ever but I do think full disclosure is really important . We as women all have out periods . Men know this . Do you accept this or really shy against it, or not? Decide. its pretty simple. Katherine

There is no problem if you only looking in a specific service! The only problem is when guys expect lower rates because you dont "use" all the services available. Hope you will find what you are looking for :)

Took a chance on Angie Barbie the other day. If she had worked since then I would have already repeated. She is a testament to the genetics of Quebec women. I would disagree with the bbw comment as to me it implies fatness. I would describe her as a body built to take a dick but she was actually so tight it contradicted that. No softness on this one except her magnificent (natural) breasts which I got the pleasure to finish upon. I went overtime and apologize for it as it rushed the ending but to leave the room with the biggest set of blue balls in history was avoided. A bit of a Christi Mack clone and its a name she apparently is also associated with (Mack). Fantastic lay but hey ymmv.

Inspired by the question on this thread: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=126713 I decided to do a little digging. Here is how you get American Netflix. And Hulu. And BBC's iPlayer. The three I've tested out, but I'm sure Pandora works too. 1) Download and install Firefox 2) Go to this link: https://addons.mozilla.org/en-us/firefox/addon/media-hint/ And install I apologize in advance for lost productivity. As far as the legality of this goes, there is nothing in the books, so you're clear. And CBC and other Canadian based websites may not work, so download Google Chrome for Canadian stuff (And Canadian Netflix)

Hello everyone!! Seems like ages since i last started a social thread, but here we are - time flies! It's this time of the year where, you know, we get to gather for a great meeting of the minds in Ottawa! So, for all those who have been, you know these events! For those who haven't been, its a great way to make introductions with like minded people (no, no hanky-panky lol). So, without further ado, set your calendar for September 18th, 2014. More details will follow on this thread.

I just turned it off and got an automatic message saying that if I wanted to turn it back on I had to go to the "Quick Links". "Quick Links" is at the top of the forum: User CP | Chat Room | Rules & FAQ | Social Groups | Members List | Calendar | New Posts | Search | Quick Links | Advertise | Log Out My Notes Click on "Quick Links" and select "Enable top stats" from the drop down menu.

I like red too: Next edition black :)

A lap dance with Belle! (Actually, several...) http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showpost.php?p=623089&postcount=1

Then maybe you should post a recommendation about the lovely lady you saw that made your first experience a special one... Winnipeg recommendation section: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=162

I can't see how surprising a client with this could be expected to end well. OK, there are doubtless some who would see getting it on at that time of the month as a positive thing, but I think they're probably a minority of the population. I'd have thought most reactions would range from neutral to strongly negative. However, expecting SPs to take one week in every four off is quite possibly going to make life difficult for them. In the past I've seen SPs offer BJ-only or BJ+greek appointments for a few days at a time on a regular basis, which seems like an entirely reasonable thing to do. There's no reason not to do FS appointments, provided everyone's OK with that. But whatever you do, the most important thing is to be honest and up-front about it. If a client wants to avoid that, then there's always next week... As a side note, it strikes me that what the ladies really need is to get some sort of button installed that they can press and just flush everything out in one go, rather than this messy process over a few days. This seems like an obvious design enhancement to me.

I read this thread very late last night and I wanted to reply with a clear mind...I guess you have a right to be disgusted...everybody reacts differently to that situation... There is something though that bothers me and really ticked me off here is that you took the donation and left 40$! Thats what bothers me the most...I'm sure there will be lots of different opinions on this issue but if you decide to leave because you are disgusted with the situation, the donation should stay there...yes maybe she should have been upfront about it but, for me, its not a reason to take the donation and barely leave Pocket change... Personally i do work with sponges ( for what I have left of period lol) and there is no way you could ever tell coz they are really deep in there. But yes I started my period many times during sessions...that i could not predict... Just my opinion... BJ

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Mine would be FUN!

As Angela said, I hope you don't give her name out, but I do understand your shocked and disgusted too:( Made me shiver reading that, lol. I would say majority of ladies, including myself would never allow oral during that time. For myself I would take the days off needed or perhaps just offer a body rub and oral for you, I mean this IS blood to mouth! Perhaps she is new to this and wasn't sure how to handle this situation. Sometimes ladies are embarrassed to say it straight up, or maybe she just could not afford to loose the appt. I feel bad for her too, as it must have been awfully awkward on her too.

Now Belle @ Barefax! :) Hot!!

Hey I enjoyed the Xmas social, lots of fun. Im there, lets be social and mingle.

OK mmad he just divulged the one thing he doesn't know! lol

It's August 15th, half way through August!!!...where is the summer going RG

I'm coming please add me in ;)

Heyyy its been forever :-) Can I come with Amy Seduction ? Pm me for info please!

Maybe off topic BUT ......Yikes..... Then a child or adult vomits on that nicely measured and sewed sleeve by "your worthiness" and on the table and on the floor and me even. Guess who cleans that up ? The "less worthy" waiter. Been there. Didn't give a fuck about a tip either. I was thanked. That's the important part. But I was tipped for the waiter service cause I was personable, I tried my best, I think they were happy, they knew I made minimum wage and that's what happens in the business. It is normal.

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I don't see why not, old sport, but obviously it can get tricky and can lead to complications down the road. I'm ashamed to say I fell for a young lady last year and I was head over heels nuts about her. I fell hard but she obviously didn't feel the same way (and in hindsight, I'm glad she didn't). It took me about six to seven months before I could put her out of my mind completely. Now, I just do what Mr. Spock from Star Trek does: I use kolinahr, the Vulcan ritual of purging all emotions. Now, life is good again!

Tonight I made a hash: canned corned beef stir-fried with deep-fried hash brown potato patties with ground chili pepper flakes with rice. (I have NO idea how to cook. I'm surprised I haven't starved to death eons ago).

Our Skylar Heart, with thanks! :) Love the back muscles, too :)...

Hello, a collegue of mine was so excited to see Mz.Lyla back on BP! so he sent her a few txts and they chatted back and forth. Then he decided to go meet her downtown incall and it was a no show. That was a few weeks ago. Today he is frustrated to know he just got scammed. I did research and found out the number that ad had on BP charges over $5 a text. I told him to always look for a Canadian area code next time. Stay away from that ad.

I am member in three of the groups here and I can say only contribute in one but often visit/read posts in the other two. However, there is a reason why I'm a member in each of them ... 1. Spiritual aspect to this business .- I do believe and try to make a connection and communicate with the person interested in meeting me to have more chances that the encounter will be successful and what he is expecting. 2. Paying homage to the all mighty spinner .- I was kindly invited by a member and think it helps hobbyists interested in this type of ladies to find what they are loking for. 3. Special needs cerbites .- I started it after reading a post from one of our members with the only purpose to offer advice, support and exchange ideas as well as stories with this wonderful people.

:mrgreen: I didn't even know there were social groups here. I may just have to join the Spinners group. :mrgreen: