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When the money is given to the Provider it becomes Her money. When it is taken back after the fact it is considered stealing. Humiliated and robbed. Wow.

I would rather someone ask for specific details ie bbbj / cbj, but I'm still not promising any service via email or phone without meeting you. I always tell gents services are dependent on their impeccable personal hygiene, and that can't be detected virtually. So really it's a moot point. Shockingly, it's not difficult to tell the difference between someone calling for coaching through an orgasm vs inquiring about service details.

@ Dorinda, I agree, it wasn't nice at all ! Hi guys, I couldn't read this thread without adding my opinion. First off, I'm sorry about this incident, it must have been really awkward for both parties. This being said, I think it's important to discuss such matters so people are better prepared to deal with this type of situation. Personally, I do not like working during my period, I will most likely take off for few days.... The body needs to rest. For hygienic, health and physical reasons, I prefer to take some time off and rest when I have my periods. This being said, I think it's perfectly fine for a lady to choose to continue her work during her period and I think it's perfectly fine for a gent to be told so he can choose whether or not he wants to see a lady on her period. It's her body and it's also his comfort. Whatever decision you make comes with consequences and you must be prepared to face them. Also, let's face it, it does happen that we unexpectedly get our period right before or during an appointment, and guys please be understanding, there's no need to humiliate a lady & make her feel bad. I think there are mature ways to handle those situations. For me, key words are transparency, honesty & consideration for others. Let's be transparent, honest & considerate of others to avoid any awkward situation and this goes for both providers and gents !!! Thank you

If you actually thought it through, you would see that is a tremendous ask. If risk aversion is your goal, you don't perform unprotected daty I'm to assume? As we have had the oral sex "risk" discussion ad nauseum here and the resounding response from most hobbyists is that they will make their own decisions regarding safe oral sex all the while the actual weight of the risk is carried by the SP. Now the shoe is on the other foot the tone and response is decidedly different. With a bbbj, the risk is carried by the provider and I genuinely believe most who provide it only so so because of the negative financial impact if one doesn't offer it. We already share the most intimate parts of ourselves with our clients, now it's expected we disclose our menstrual cycles as well? Perhaps we should keep photos of our enemas discharges so greek freaks can be assured we prepared to their satisfaction? This is why I have never offered a menu or consent to see clients who demand one. I agree to nothing in advance which leaves me with the option of guiding the session to ensure I only engage in activities I know to be safe with my guests. Not all ladies have that luxury with their client base. Given the feast and famine nature of the business, there are many who can't afford to lose 20-25% of her yearly income. I'd like to see what men would do if they had to take a 25% a year pay hit for a bodily function. Especially when it never coincides with the other things we have to take time off for; like being out of work for a urinary track infection or yeast infection. Which btw is also an almost monthly occurrence for many of us due to our work and we physically can't work thru it. Or any of the other things like the flu and cold epidemics we are exposed to daily that "real" jobs have paid, legislated sick days for which we are not entitled to. The reality is that sex workers have been using sponges for as long as sex workers and sponges have been around. My stance on this is safe play saves. Until you know and trust someone, use barrier protection for all acts that may exchange body fluids. It isn't rocket science, just a piece of rubber and if you don't want to use one, then be prepared for the unexpected...

Would you please make sure, next time, that you give them the right address. My neighbor is sure pissed off at me after they dumped all those pennies in her swimming pool! Guess what I am doing the next few days!

After reading this thread for the last few days, I think most if not all the folks here (myself included) feel sorry for the SP in question. I have a feeling that the OP probably realizes that he could have been over reacting with what he said he did by the fact that he went back and edited out that particular para. When one encounters something unexpected like blood during a sex act, everyone could react differently including being shocked. I mentioned ( probably too hastily) in my earlier post (#7) that I was shocked too. But in actual fact, my cool head ;) prevailed in that I did not react hastily - I simply showed them ( the SPs) the stains. My experiences didn't involve sponge, by the way. The two ladies were actually more shocked and were very embarrassed. I comforted them, washed up and came back to continue the sessions (without certain activities obviously). I even posted recos to thank them for the overall very enjoyable sessions - without mentioning the incidents. My original donations stayed with them and I gave them a good tip as well. Reading the whole thread, I would say I've learned many new things. If I could summarise, these will be - many ladies have the need to work through their periods - a sponge could be used to prevent the flow and allow them to continue working - the consensus is that clients will like to be informed ahead of time - the time of month could sometimes arrive unexpectedly.. - and when it does, it should be handled with compassion since this is more like an accident and it is a natural biological process One last thing, to those who do not think we pay ladies to hang out, I am one of those who actually did and will continue to. I enjoy social times like going out for lunch, dinner, a stroll in the park, a bike ride and even skating and skiing.

It has happened.. today I received a text from a guy's wife. I do not know who this person is.. she didn't tell me and I didn't ask. I don't know if I actually saw him and all I know is they was a texting history between us. Obviously she found it and saw the texts. I NEVER put the address in a text message. Never! I know I am probably preaching to the choir here but I will say it anyways. After you have seen an SP, PLEASE delete the texting history from your phone. I do not need these kinds of problems and its one of the BIGGEST reasons why I keep a separate incall location apart from my own residence and do not give out my incall address by text. I have to tell each and every client this when they ask why I will not text the address which seems so convenient for them. Then it actually clicks. If this sensitive information gets into the wrong hands like it did today, it could have caused a lot of problems. When a client coming to see me and asks for the address via text, I do not know the person who is texting me and like the situation above, if it were to get into the wrong hands, it wouldn't be pretty. Secondly, a random texter is a stranger to me and I am aware of all the tricks someone will try to play if they want to remain a secret agent type. I am onto all of it. I am paranoid when it comes to my safety and have turned down many appts because I got a bad vibe or they didn't follow my protocol when following up on meeting in person. Needless to say I am very annoyed with this unknown person at the moment and their lack of discretion which has ruined my day. I do not need this b.s. or some angry wife telling me I have ruined someone's marriage. She got an earful from me and I told her that the fact that her husband is contacting ladies is something she should talk to him about. Trying to put the onus on the SP is just a way to blame someone and I'm not having any of it. Someone else's marriage is none of my business and it is not my concern. We are offering a service. I don't judge clients in regards to their marital status but people should be discrete about in their own actions. She did back down after I became snarky with her and I think she realized she shouldn't push it with me. I will not back down. I don't care if it's someone's wife attempting to harass me because it's not my problem. Even if I knew who this person was, I wouldn't admit it. I would never give up a client because I am discrete to a fault. Unfortunately this individual didn't do the same for me. It is the client's responsibility to get rid of any info or dealings he has had with an SP. The SP should not have to suffer as a result because a person was careless. I am very upset about this. Now I have to ramp up my protocol even more. I am experienced in dealing with these situations but they are few and far between. Thank-you to the gentlemen who do take the time to delete any contact with an SP and cover their tracks. Please delete texting and browsing history off computer or cell phone to avoid getting burnt! Also, think twice about asking for the address by text. Lastly, delete it off your GPS. It will save us all a lot of trouble in the end.

Popped into Barbarella's last night and saw this girl who was , like, the most beautiful black girl I'd ever seen...it was her eyes...and then of course her amazing figure... she had on this tight black stretchy dress that was kinda see-thru, with a more translucent part that revealed the crack of her gorgeous ass... the minute I saw her she became , like, the only girl in the room. She came over and sat down and I realized the secret of her beautiful eyes, she was West Indian... a mix of Black and East Indian...it was like 2 of my most favourite types of girls blended into one ! Ya Baby ! ....her name is Kylie and she is on a working visit from Toronto and she is very pleasant to talk to as well...

So Dam, I have family member having surgery that day. Hmm, I have lots of insurance that covers that sort of thing. Yes and nurses are so more adept at changing bandages and such. Me not so good . Gee give me the weekend and let me see what can happen her. I hope I am not to late and will have a decision on Tuesday.

Any gentleman experienced in this lifestyle understands it's not rudeness, it's just the lady taking precautions for her and her client's safety It's no more rude than a lady employing screening/verification prior to booking an encounter. She wants a date that is safe Or a client being told, if an encounter is an outcall, not to open any wine (or whatever) unless done in front of the lady. The lady employs many things to ensure her safety, it's not rude, it's just prudent. And a gentleman understands that no matter how intimate an encounter is, it is still two strangers meeting to begin with. If they continue to see one another, well trust develops over time, not the first time A client understands (well should understand) that, and understands why the lady provides her own condoms...it's a matter of her health and safety and not a matter of being rude...with a side benefit, the lady also is concerned about the gentleman's health and safety too. A rambling RG

How when calling a company they ask you to type in your number to access your account and then when an agent finally answers his first question is 'Can I please have your phone number?'

I always keep my phone locked with a password and delete anything of a personal nature. Wouldnt want to get myself or any of the lovely ladies in trouble

I would like to express my sympathies as well for the provider that went through as a first encounter. I hope this has not discouraged her as it's a rare this happens. It's all uphill from here if it's any consolation. I'm not going to comment further on what should be disclosed to the client as it's been well discussed. There's a crucial part to this situation that has bothered me that I am going to mention to protect ourselves financially. Once a client has decided to stay he no longer has access to the donation. It sounds like she was given a cancellation fee that is only acceptable if he left immediately. That was not the case. It's a good idea to tuck the donation away in a safe place to protect ourselves from this kind of situation. It can be done discreetly after introductions. Unfortunately, it takes situations like this to learn from them and we should always be prepared. Especially when meeting someone for the first time.

I've been an escort for 10years and had the misfortune to start my period twice during a session..I've been extremely embarrassed but those 2 people were extremely understanding..while I can understand some men not been comfortable meeting an escort during her period and using sponge I can't help myself to think of a reverse situation where I had guys coming to an app knowing they would request pegging and remotely didn't bother to clean himself and had shit all over(this situation happened far more often you would think) A man walking in in my first years of escorting requesting rimming (which I no longer do because of this experience)going in shower to than me finding shit on his ass Never I embarrassed them but each time I have been disgusted Should I assume if it's only fair to notify the client of something that is happening monthly because we are women that men will notify me that I would be playing with shit..that I will taste pee when he expect a bbbj ...Walking in app knowingly know we will have intimate time? Is it because I get compensate for my time that a notification isn't happening on my end? If you feel it's only fair for you to know and decide I think it would be fair that same get disclose to me to help me decide if I want to book? We are humans on both end and some mishap can happen on both ends

I am not going to comment on the main issue at hand but I will address the following: Nobody wants to pay "any of us" just to "hang out"? lol Actually, just so you know, and speaking from experience, the so-called legal loophole you are talking about is called GFE companionship which many ladies offer, myself included; many gentlemen like to partake in experiences that involve a whole lot more than just a list of acronyms with sex acts while spending time with a lady. Some even schedule social dates that don't even included any intimacy. Imagine that ;)

Just one more thought from me on this issue. Funny how issues evolve . I had unexpected spotting today which can happen at any time with us woman. I was somewhat embarrassed but treated it lightly and it was taken just as lightly. Accidents happens , gosh while making love one can need to pee and God forbid we fart. |We are human beings and the unexpected functions happens at times and as adults I am able to laugh these accidents off. All this is really small compared to the issue at hand. End of day, all women menstruate. Is this sexy ? Not necessarily so unless you have a fetish that makes it really desirable. I really think end of day, just be honest. If you are having your period and using a sponge tell your guest, then its his decision and all stress is taken away . Easy , honesty goes around the world and back. Now I am trying to think of a parallel situation that a gent may want to share with us to make the date stress free . Both men and women have an obligation to disclose anything that would make a date uncomfortable for either so lets just be honest and talk. August 16th, 2014 . No need for surprises that are unpleasant.

recently I've noticed a new trend... and it's becoming quite frequent. Enough that I thought it might be worth discussion. I post in my ads that I prefer initial contact via email. However, I don't mind receiving private messages to book, especially if it's from someone I've previously met. It's discreet, convenient and works for those who might prefer no email or text trail. win/win :) It also works well for the seasoned member who has a responsible posting history, who posts respectfully worded recos and is generally well mannered on the board. I can usually expect that member to provide all the required info I need for booking in the first few messages ... not always, but usually ;) What I've noticed recently is different. I've been getting many PMs from members who either have been here for years and never posted, or have just joined and have a moderated account. When I ask that member for information to book ... such as a reference ... often they simply stop responding. I've noticed some ladies don't accept private message from anyone they haven't previously met, and I'm sure in some cases this is the reason for that. I'd like to keep my PM box open to all those interested in reaching out, but I'm seriously considering otherwise. Thanks for reading :)

From experience, if I notice a lady on Cerb everyday or almost I will send her a PM otherwise I will follow her protocol on how she wants to book a meeting. I have also sent a PM to some ladies that I was in no rush in a response, some came back almost 6 month later.lol Personally the best method is how the lady wants it done.

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Ok two cups of coffee and Jessica Lee in my ear. You did a wonderful job!

Yeah, was there Thursday evening. Did catch the last competitor who happened to be Diva, not bad. Wish I could've seen the others too. Was our local Ashley competing too? She's awesome on the poles. Also liked the fact that Diva was actively working the room after her show to gain some CR business. She had a friend with her also from Montreal who was working the room. They both came to hit us up for dances. At least Diva was not a diva. ;) I didn't seen Diva or her friend, but I did see two very sweet ebony girls, Maya and Keisha. Both were very friendly in the CR, a lot of fun and jokes. Maya was quite fit, hot legs and ass, both highly toned up. Keisha is a Caribbean girl from Martinique, and she was very eager to please.

A guy gets arrested for dealing weed. And his name is... Paul Stoner :) http://www.nbc29.com/story/26316075/stoner-arrested-in-orange-county-drug-bust

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I'm confused by those comments too. I had a very good experience and will be going back to see Vanilla.

She was very very thankful as a potential client had made the suggestion to stay there and she was totally unfamiliar with local "business friendly choices " . I did provide more suitable options which she took advantage of and she was able to change early enough not to lose a deposit. the original place is 40 years old rents by the week and month-well you get the picture !

Venus Envy is awesome! :) They are super sex worker positive too! Very supportive of sex worker rights and the sex industry in general. I think we should support them back. Also, another one I really like is Aren't We Naughty on Merivale road. Very modern store, with a huge selection and wide variety of amazing goodies! :)

Bottom line, don't try to save money on hotels. Go with well respected names that you can count on no matter what. Choose one or two , become members there are they will never let you down . As a lady that travels I want my hotel to reflect part of who I am and the sort of experience we are going to have. Walking in to a small room that is dingy is a huge turn off and will not attract the type of gentlemen I wish to visit with.

Not that I purchase many toys etc. but Venus Envy is a top notch store and right around the corner is Wilde's (sp?) on Bank St. My daughter loves it that they advertise dildos sold 'by the inch' in their Bank St. storefront. lol

That summer seems to be going away faster than usual :(

Ya. Okay. The Devil on the left shoulder won the battle over the Angel (I gave her lemon gin) on the right shoulder . One more social for the prairie hic !! Mr. cash guy Loneskater. Brinks is on its way with 3500 pennies. "Armed and Dangerous" ..... I believe John Candy and Eugene Levy have things under control !! ;)

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Msmanda has great oral skills IMO, looks like a lot of great ladies are talented!! My list getting longer..

I wasn't going to comment but I started thinking that SP might be reading this. So, to that lady I just want to say this, I'm sorry. I don't know how you feel right now but I would be embarrassed and insulted - even more so now that this thread has taken hold. If it is any consolation, this is the exception. Most men on here are sweet and understanding and kind (as you may know), I'm sorry that this experience wasnt a positive one. Nobody should ever treat a person in such an insulting manner. If you ever need to talk please know that there are so many of us that want to listen and help whenever we can.

Since your fee is very reasonable, their risk in booking a session is miniscule. No need to overcomplicate things with social meetings/skype/pics - if they're not willing to just book, I'd send them on their way.

I would say that possibly disclosing that this is happening would probably be a good option but obviously, some ladies don't feel that way and it is their decision in the end. I think for fellas that love DATY, this could raise some issues if this accident occurs or if there were any leaking or anything of that nature. So knowing up front and possibly taking DATY off the menu would just be a little better way to go. Just my opinion. I do have a question for you ladies out there though. During this time and having the sponge in there, does it negatively impact the pleasure and experience for you? If so, do you just do your best to "fake it" so to speak? I'm just curious here because a big part of the enjoyment I get out of this hobby comes from the mutual pleasure. If I get any thought that the lady is just "going through the motions" and not really getting pleasure, it is a big turn-off for me. I do have a lot of experience and am pretty astute at picking up on signals but obviously, some are better at acting it out better than others.

I like red too: Next edition black :)

I want to attend pretty please & thank you!!!

I have to stop myself from buying lingerie. Love it so much!

Sorry this happened. Do your research, post info in bait and switch area, and read Cowboys diary. If he hasn't posted about them, let him know and buy him a beer.

A few weeks notice of visits using a mailing list is always appreciated. While not completely personal, it is more personal than using a board. Also, advertising in advance on a board can so easily be lost in the multitudes of advertisements that follow. Besides, it is always a pleasant surprise to receive an email about the good things to come rather than a bill or junk.

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Fyi... A sp or agency commenting about another lady or business in a potentially damaging way (hinting that she may be underage without knowing for fact) could be perceived as unethical. Looks like she turned out to be older so your comment could have lost her business.... Not cool. Be sure 110% if your going to accuse someone of something like this as you could negatively impact another persons business and livelihood. I would be furious with you if i was that other person and an apology on that thread would be in order. Imagine how you would feel if they posted something that would negatively impact your business? Please consider that in the future

I have always said I would up for such an event. Now since I am an SP responding on an escort board, just to be clear I would not feel comfortable participating with a non-pro lady who just does it for fun (with the cost of the room covered). If that is what you are looking for, I suggest trying a fetish site, not cerb. Also in bukkake, it is my understanding that the lady is lavished upon by the guys with their "sauce" as the OP put it, not into giving oral pleasure as well. Please correct me if I'm wrong, as I am open to that, but that would affect the expectation/cost/structure of the party. When and if I decide to do this, it would be cool to do it with another SP, and at such time would post an ad in the advertising forum for FS Escorts. Just out of curiosity, what kind of scenario do you other gents have in mind?