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I am a firm believer in authenticity vs mechanics. I certainly enjoy "certain services", however I MUCH prefer to arrange a date and have things unfold organically. Usually the conversation, the laughter and closeness builds an intimate tension that spills over into erotic sensuality. But it's natural, not pre-planned. Just my opinion (and not bad since I haven't had coffee yet lol)

Chemistry isn't guaranteed with everyone at least not on the level you see to me discussing. When it does, enjoy the heck out of it and keep on enjoying it. My preference is that discussion on likes, needs and wants take place prior to the actual date so both parties have a feel for boundaries, desires etc. This allows more of a free flow during the actual date as there is knowledge involved that permits effortless action. This is not saying, as Miss Lane said, that should you change your mind from no FS to FS that there should be discussion, that should flow. However if you tell me beforehand that you don't enjoy having a BJ or being kisses then I'm definitely not going to free flow into those actions. Like you, I find it rather disruptive to my energy when someone discusses some stuff prior and then during they bring up all the BIG restrictions or needs. This completely throws off the sensual energy for a bit especially if it's something I love and now have to avoid. My focus is on creating the best person to person experience I can.

Pho Bo Ga La. The original one on the side street in Ottawa. November 2009. Had a date with a guy there. I've tried some all over the world...this one is the best. EAch time I go to Ottawa, I go there:)

Lots of guys do not want any chemistry, they like trying as many different Sps as they can. Chemistry is not going to develop there and that's fine for them. They are excited by novelty, not chemistry. I value chemistry above everything else but stick to one or two ladies.

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Hi darling, I haven't been in the biz for long, and it's not the point here, but I have met or cummed across such wonderful ladies either live, text, or in the chat room or that other sexy ladies have told me about! Now with that damn sucking prostitution bill gentlemen U need to build your list of regulars, favorites before the end of the year hun! My own favorites, either having been with them or soon sexually or just ones so damn nice in their PMs or texts R: and ladies with whom I've talked,etc... if U don't appear here just respond back to let the gentlemen know U R hot and sexy! - MatureJen (BBBJ or FS duo partner and hell of a great lady!) - Bella Fontaine (BDSM duo partner, a gorgeous and so friendly SP!|) - Leigh Munroe (hell of a kind lady with (apparently!!) hell of great cock sucking expertise!!) - Mature Angela (haven't met her yet but so damn nice in her PMs and texts!) - Jessy Celeste from MTL but visiting Ottawa often (gorgeous beauty and oh so friendly and lovely!!) - Raven Rain (a lovely, soft and nice 38 DDD beauty U won't want to miss!!!) - Bianca Jaguar (a most stunning and hot lady from MTL but visiting Ottawa often!! -Carrie Moon (now In Niagara but travelling and such an hot and SO nice lady!!!) - BeautifulDelilah that I have to be a fantastic lady and that I believe with the few exchange we've had - Nicoletette Vaugh, Berlin, Jody Wild, Maddy, Sexxxy Rebecca, Cleo Catra, Nathalie Lefebvre, MeaghanMcleod, Fortunateone, CuteOazabutton - never met them but gentlemen so damn nice in their PMs, etc... really worth while ladies!!! I am sure I am forgetting ladies I have exchanged with somehow and honestly babes I am really so sorry but just respond to this thread saying we have so the gentlemen know how to build their list of regulars after that damn bill!!! LOVE U ALL ladies!!! And thank U for being part of my daily life somehow chéries !!!! Barbara xxxxooo Additional Comments: Forgot, among others, LuxeMuvari, Ms.Samantha and EmilyJ and I am sure others will cum up!!!

Hey ladies what is a major turn off when someone is looking to book a time with you ? One thing I absolutely hate is when someone texts me and says....What's up? Like really lol that will not grab my attention First impressions mean everything and I prefer a gentlemen being respectful and courteous when inquiring about my ......... For an example; Hello how are you or Hi I am .... and I am interested in knowing more about you and your ........!......so much better

I was out and about the other day with a girlfriend of mine. She was wear a pair of black tights. They were proper tights, not see through. With a modest shirt. We were hanging out down by the lakefront in our home town. I went to the car for something and on my way back, I heard some moms chatting about camel toes. So I strained my hearing a bit to catch what they were saying. I was curious because it did not seem like standard conversation while watching kids play in a playground. I finally realized they were speaking in disgust about my friend. Calling her a slut and saying some other things like "why she needs to dress that way..." etc. I am sure the smart people here on CERB can get the gist of the conversation. I didn't even know she was sporting one because I guess I don't normally start looking at a woman's covered Vajayjay. She was wearing black and when I did look, I had to do a couple of takes because with her wearing black it was quite hard to even tell. How these ladies saw it is still shocking to me. I never said anything to my friend but I got to thinking. Women are so hard on other women. I think if you ask any man, they love the camel toe. Same with fripples as I have learned they are called here. There appears to be some unwritten rules within women that these are bad. That only slutty girls sport these when in reality most can not control when these wardrobe issues happen. I even threw out a pair of jeans that gave me a camel toe because I just naturally thought it was wrong to wear them. What are your opinions on this subject ladies? I am seriously starting to regret throwing out those jeans because they made my ass look amazing and they were comfortable, stylish and I just really liked them. Do you ladies not buy clothes, or discard clothes that give a camel toe? Is the camel toe really that bad?

Although not often, I have done just dinner or appie dates. Clothes stay on. In that case it is strictly chemistry and personality to me. I enjoy fabulous company.

If this is something you are looking into (a short notice same day sp) I would urge you to find the sps who have phone call as their main method of contact. I wouldn't think it makes any sense to send an email on the day you are interested in booking and expect anyone to have seen it and replied to it in a time frame that you can work with. Plus SUPER SLOW back and forth. Same with text. one line. wait. one line reply. wait. back and forth, omg. lol. Just phone, you get voice mail, leave a message. I've told people whatever the message is, leave it, even if it is I'll call you back in an hour, call me if you get this within an hour, or don't call me back at all, or don't call me back unless you can call before 3pm, or i'm looking for 2pm, call me back if that's ok.

Saw her once. Her service was good but everything was safe meaning No bbbj and the rest. She is the ladie on picture and she is very attractive.

she is a cerb member called DreamBuilder http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=90325 Haven't seen her, but her rates are good

I guess I was just saddened by the fact that women can be so cruel to other women and to a point where now something that is natural and can be sexy is frowned upon. When you see women stick up for each regarding things like mummy tummys as we just saw in the news, how the opposite can be so predominate as well is just sad in my opinion.

I had so much fun last night! Thanks for coming to say hi, it really made the night feel special. No idea when I'll be back but you guys certainly reminded me why I dancing is my first love. Xx

Well now. Let's see. I failed chemistry in school and I am a heavy duty mechanic by trade. I used to work with bigger tools. Now I just tinker away with medium sized tools ;) hehe Chemistry is huge to me. Makes it ever so enjoyable for both parties. and in my case I love repeat visits and to build on the chemistry and the fun fun fun results of good relationships :)

It's all chemistry for me, if I don't think we'll have it then there's no point going any further. So one word responses to inquiries and or no interest in having a bit of rapport won't cut it for me. Peace MG

So you are saying...... That the fact that I like to meet at 6, show up at 630, had onion sandwiches for breakfast, have big and rough fingers, want to go to Greece and you don't, tell you my wife likes Justin Bieber and I want to cum in your ear is going to be a problem ?? I need to know these things people !!! Maybe you should put that in your ads ?? hehehe Or you can just sit on my face and we both just have fun ?? I am kinda easy going like that. If I was a woman and some dude wanted to cum in my ear I may have to de-penis them me thinks ....

Cool...that link led me to a porn site with some of the hottest French Canadian girls I've ever seen, I even recognize a couple of them as dancers....how cool is that ? Here's the link; http://www.ad4x.com Enjoy !

I hear what you are saying. I ask for the simple reason I can't read the gents mind. Some are looking for something specific. If I don't know this, I might miss an important que. Some have no interest in daty for example - they want a prolonged BJ. So if I don't know this ahead of time, he might feel pressured to do daty even though he does not want to. However there are those that tell you in the beginning they don't want full service, just a happy ending. However as things progress, it becomes obvious he wants the whole meal deal. So you go with that. Chemistry is great when you have time to explore, but there are times that there is not enough time together to get to know each other, so you rely on what they are looking for. Hope that helps.

A whole summer of doing nothing for relaxation. Responsibility sucks, sometimes. 2 bike trips cancelled, no encounters.........HELLOOOOOOOOOOOO??????????????????? Is there a life out there? Good to see everyone here again, though.

Had a long awaited doctor's appointment today...although the news is personal, only a very special someone also knows, my news was GREAT!!!! I'm happy just because of it. Went to cash in some change at a coinstar machine. Had $169.00 in change...well now bills. It's like found money RG

If you never seen a provider before, a lady might ask for other information. Some are newbie friendly some aren't but I'm sure you can find a lady if you follow her protocle...Each lady has their own screening process when it comes to newbie. Just be polite and respectful and it will all work good :) Have fun! Bianca xxx

Many SPs do require verification including name, phone, email and a reference from a service provider. Now in a case like yours, where you do not have any references, contact the lady you would like to meet, tell her this would be your first time with a companion and you do not have a reference. She will likely have other screening methods available to you since you do not have a reference Now important. Be very open with the lady in your initial email. Give her your real name, phone number, email address and board handle confirmed by pm. She may need under the circumstances your work number, so provide your work number too. You may feel nervous about doing so, but this is normal protocol for seeing companions in this day and age, and is dealt with by ladies with the utmost confidentiality. You have nothing to worry about by revealing this information to a lady. In fact she will very likely appreciate you being open with her instead of evasive Good Luck RG

Interesting point Dread. I'd suggest that a lot actually depends on the tone of the email. It's probably one thing to mention to a lady that there's an activity you really enjoy and, though you understand YMMV and that they can't promise anything, you're curious if it's something you can potentially indulge in. It's another thing to declare "I love asses and can't wait to lick yours all day!!1!". I suspect the ladies that say no explicit talk are more talking to those inclined to the second kind of message. If you wanted to be safe, you could also contact the lady, let her know you are interested, acknowledge that you've read she prefers no explicit talk but you are curious if she enjoys or provides a certain activity and would she mind if you made a request. By politely asking permission you've let her know you are earnest and respecting her rules and not just messaging to be crude or get off...and if she really wants no such talk at all it gives her a chance to say so. I'd say that's probably the way to navigate these seemingly opposing rules.

I'm not 100% sure but most times it is that they would like a reference from another sp on you :) Hope that helps

So Dam, I have family member having surgery that day. Hmm, I have lots of insurance that covers that sort of thing. Yes and nurses are so more adept at changing bandages and such. Me not so good . Gee give me the weekend and let me see what can happen her. I hope I am not to late and will have a decision on Tuesday.

I'm confused by those comments too. I had a very good experience and will be going back to see Vanilla.

So I'm going to suggest this again because I like to bug you mr.t Can you please please please make naniomo bars please!! I've been crazing them all year *insert puppy dog eyes and quivering lower lip*

Jessica - yes women are bitches to other women. I hate it and challenge those that say this type of shit. Don't care if they like it. I have no problem with camel toes or f ripples. I regularly sport both -proudly. No shame and no covering up. Went thru years of marriage to a guy who insisted I dress like an Amish. Once divorced I was free to wear what I like. Additional Comments: Jessica - yes women are bitches to other women. I hate it and challenge those that say this type of shit. Don't care if they like it. I have no problem with camel toes or f ripples. I regularly sport both -proudly. No shame and no covering up. Went thru years of marriage to a guy who insisted I dress like an Amish. Once divorced I was free to wear what I like.

Hi Jessica, I know you are looking for the reply from ladies here on Cerb, but from a man's point of view I will give you my opinion here. I know I post pictures of girls who wear clothing that shows the "camel toe", I personally enjoy seeing it(I speak for myself). I do think that there is a time and place where a lady can show the camel toe, like the beach(you have no control over where that bikini bottom wants to settle), at a adult party, car racing(ladies wear tight clothing) and strip clubs etc. Ladies should not be ashamed to have beautiful labia and it keeps us pervs looking at your crotch same as many of you look at ours. lol PS. I'm also a big fan if fripples and that also you ladies have no control of unless you go swimming in the cold water or serve ice cream at the Baskin Robin or Diary Queen.

May be the closest I ever get to heaven. Doh!

Your heart might stop but at least you'd have a smile on your face!:biggrin:

I always clear all texts/contact info from my hobby phone immediately. This week I made a different mistake that could have caused problems for a lady and was thoughtlessly indiscreet: When Cleo opened the door to welcome me I eagerly said "Hello Cleo" before she had had a chance to close the door.... she graciously, and with a smile, cautioned me to NEVER DO THIS! I should have known better (and I'm not sure that I had ever thought of this before) but regardless my enthusiasm for seeing her took over. Discretion is a two way street and you ladies are truly professional about ensuring it. You all deserve the same. Cleo: thanks for the reminder. Nicolette: I'm sorry this happened to you and thank you for posting about it.

To be honest I don't like these old and worn out questions . All of this is chemistry and a relationship built over time. In NS I have many reccos that I am the best at this or that, anyone that says anyone is the best at anything is simply meetings another's request, either on Cerb or in every day life.... This can be a relationship built over time or a very skilled SP that has learned her guests needs. Forgive me but the best of this or that is quite prosperous. Enjoy what you are doing or get really good at following instruction . Hmm, is that so hard ? For slow learners I can run a program!! Katherine

So, I took a visit to Phoenix. I called ahead to book a time. I talked to a man there and before I could ask for anyone specific he had handed the phone to Coco I was told. So I figured I'd just go with that, and see how it went. I got there, and was greeted by Lisa, and I said I had an appointment with Coco. Lisa said she'd see me instead. Oh well, I figured we'll see how it goes. Lisa seemed fairly young and she's pretty, so that's a bonus. Anyways, very very good massage. In comparison to the RMT I regularly see it was almost as good - very shocking. I didn't know if that'd be it, but the massage did indeed end happily :). Glad I made an appointment.

It's difficult to name only one place as must see in Nova Scotia. The Ovens natura park is worth the drive and while in the area dont miss the chance to stop at The Knot Pub :). http://www.ovenspark.com/ http://www.theknotpub.ca/ For biking trails and and taking in one of the provinces many waterfalls try Victoria Park in Truro. It's an easy place to find as you will pass it on the drive to Halifax or Cape Breton The Five Fishermen is not what it used to be and in my opinion one of the best places to eat is the Hamachi House in the hydro stone http://mk.hamachirestaurants.com/?url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.hamachirestaurants.com%2Fyoung_street%2F#2516 If you have a type of food in mind let me know and ill be sure to give you a recommendation Enjoy your visit

I agree totally. you shouldn't go wrong with CERB recos however I admit it is tempting sometimes when you see the pics on sites like BP. It is obvious in some ads that the pics are fake but sometimes the advertiser is quite good. It is important that these encounters be reported to Cowboy Kenny. This will help all of us and also the SPs who post real info and pics as we will stay with them.

It happened to me a few times yes :) but I refrain myself...why? Coz a lot of them are married so I just hope they will come back to see me :) I'm single and have feelings so yes it can be challenging to not reach out... When they get in touch with me telling me that they wrote a review and ask me if it's ok and if I approve :) I do love to see a reco that I did not expect...kind of a nice suprise :) I never ask that but would presume they would want to know that it's you calling...good thing I'm sure :) Just tell the sp before and go with the flow...most ladies here would know how to make you feel at ease...for me I would start with a conversation to break the ice...usually it does wonders :) I would absolutely love to hold hands and walk arm in arm :) that would be the real gfe. I'm sure they're important to a certain point...when you start it helps get you established...for me now... I appreciate a gent who takes time to write a reco, it's flattering and it makes my day :) I've done it before but never took pic snd never will... Additional Comments: I love receiving a gift card...it takes less room in luggages lol, I love wine too to share during encounters :) I used to show my face at the beginning but decided not too coz I don't want to be recognized in public. Yes of course :) i always enjoy seeing a repeat client...some more then others coz of the chemistry we have built together :)but seeing a new client can be very thrilling too :) BJ Additional Comments: Yes it happened to me a few times...I'd rather not know too much and find out for myself :)