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6 pointsits out of control ... some anti c36er accused me of promoting child sex work after my recent interview for the NP. She actually tweeted that she had attended a workshop I did promoting youth sex work.... like wtf??? I immediately told her she must be mistaken, that I had never spoken in public. She did apologize and retract her statement but how many people saw it before that happened? Turns out she was falsely accusing another young lady who works with aboriginal youth. Pretty disgusting behaviour.
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5 pointsThere is someone with a pro-C36 agenda. His/her method of attack has been to cherry pick the worst of whats said and display it as being representative of what happens in this industry. Recently, through some digging, she/he released the name of someone (a member of another forum) on twitter. This person has been getting cheered on by the other antis. Be especially careful now. I feel comfortable here posting more information about myself, but I have started being extremely selective on what I share. I know most are, but this just gives me the creeps.
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5 pointsYou are not the only one who feels this way. You are not being picky or unreasonable because ultimately you have to do what is best for you. If it doesn't feel right then it means it's not for you. Always trust your instincts in this business. They never fail you. I feel the same way. Most here know of my dislike for BP. I've tried advertising there a few times and didn't like the clientele. Mostly low ballers, students who not want but expect a deal for 10 minutes. I have 20 year olds telling me my rates are too high and they can go get service for x amount as if they know everything.. Well why are they still talking to me? lol. I'm offering an experience, not a 5 minute bj that they seem to so desperately want. Then if I quote a rate for whatever length of time, they want to know the rate for a particular act. I'm an established SP. Granted, I'm not 20 years old but I believe that experience counts for something and some people appreciate that I take the time and effort for my clients. I'm sure there are some good SPs on BP but it's just not for me and I haven't had luck with it. The business has changed and while I have great regulars who appreciate spending quality time with me, I won't lie and say the thought of semi- retiring comes to mind. I don't like the direction the business has taken and I don't like being treated as though I'm someone who is a revolving door who just performs specific acts all day long. I see 1-2 clients a day since I have other things that pre-occupy my time. I have also moved over more into massage than escorting and it's something that I enjoy and that I'm good at. I am considering approaching that avenue in a professional manner. BP strikes me as one of those sites where some of the men (not all) who use the site as a get in and get out type transaction with minimal except for finishing to completion. Fast, quick and easy. What happened to the experience of being with an SP? It's just not there anymore and I'm not going to change how I conduct my business because people expect me to do 15 minute appts because other ladies are. That's their perogative and that's how they run their business. However, it doesn't mean that I have to just because someone else is doing it. The customer is not always right. For every 10 callers on BP, there was one decent client but in my experience that was also a long shot. I don't want to pay $12 USD EVERY SINGLE DAY to deal with some people who have no regard for me, that are rude, don't care for what I offer and only what is best for them. I've even had pimps try to contact me and other shady people trying to solicit their illegal business through the ladies on BP under the guise of being a client. I didn't sign up for that. There has to be a mutual respect and I certainly wasn't getting that vibe. I'd rather get a root canal 10 times over than deal with that. I can't tell you how many times I advertised on BP and wanted to rip my hair out that day. I have met many great clients on Cerb and there is more of an appreciation towards the service provider. And it's sad because most of what has been negatively said about sex workers regarding the new proposed legislation is in relation to sites like BP where it doesn't take much for someone to take a few pictures, with a cell phone number and call themselves a service provider. They don't take into consideration the community that is here and not some site where names and faces change on a regular basis.
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3 pointsDisclaimer: I realize that the majority of you are paying for a sexual service and that your needs should be met within the boundaries of the escort in question. That is the service I am providing. However, that being said, I would like to call attention to what I like to refer to as "jack-hammering." This is basically extended penetrative sex and nothing else. You may be convinced that good sex requires only penetration and stamina--as well all know, women want a man who can last (I hope you can sense the sarcasm there), or perhaps it is purely selfish on your part, you do want to get your money's worth after all. So you pound your paid sex partner, over and over, squeezing in every possible available second. In which case, I am not a blow-up doll. I am not an object solely for your use. Keep in mind, I do not think it is a problem, for example, if you would like to simply pay to receive a blowjob, provided you realize the skill and time involved in administering a good blowjob. And I do not think penetrative sex itself is bad. But if you are interested in engaging in a full range of sexual behaviour, please realize that "sex" does not simply equal penetration for as long as humanly possible. After awhile it is painful, un-stimulating and rather boring. If a woman is not turned on, she doesn't create those delicious lubricating fluids that can make penetrative sex so wonderful. So take the time to pay attention to things like kissing and groping and licking and nibbling and so on. If the first thing you're going for is penetration, you have skipped so many amazing, naughty fun things to do to one another. While we are providing a very intimate service, aimed at generating your pleasure and satisfaction, we have emotions, and physical limits. So keep that in mind the next time you're with your favourite lady. Happy pooning!
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3 pointsI'm not a ridiculously experienced hobbyist but man when you find a really good SP that is professional, courteous and just a great time it really makes it an awesome experience
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3 pointsWell although single, I'll offer a quick comment. Take it for what it's worth. When one enters into a relationship be it bf/gf or CL or marriage, something serious, not casual, something that implies exclusivity and monogamy, there is, or should be an understanding by both the man and woman that part of that relationship includes sexual intimacy. I for one believe that all women, including those in a marriage, are free to decline to have sex. But those women who have the right to choose celibacy for themselves IMHO are not free to impose celibacy on their husband. Put another way, the term cheating is bandied about for those who see other women. But really, how can seeing another woman for sex be cheating when sex is denied at home. What exactly is the man cheating on? If he received sex at home with the woman he completely (sex included) committed to, he wouldn't seek it elsewhere. And a sexless marriage where the woman is denying sex, she also isn't completely committed to the marriage Show me a marriage without sex and I'll show you a marriage where someone is seeking it elsewhere A rambling RG
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3 pointsI am so happy beautiful Berlin is discussing this issue! I wish some of you knew this: The female body it is made for multiple orgasmic experiences thus if you care to make us come and have an eletric session with you. All you have to do is ask us: How do you prefer? Where and how can i pleasure your body, breasts, thights? How can i perform date on you, to arouse you? We are in the age of the Godess, thus most sexually confident female knows what she likes and dislikes in bed. Some of you even get mad at me when i try to give you tips on my sexual likes and dislikes. And some of you are all about been generous and sensual according to my personal sexual preferences in order to make the best of our encounter and the result it is hot sex mmmmmmmmmmmmmm! Some guy even told me it is "natural to penetrate a lady hard". I would say the word natural it is a dangerous word to use in sexuality and aesthetics. It is natural to allow gas to flow freely, should i fart on your face during sex because it is natural? No right? I prefer gentle and slow sex, but once i am more warm up i will ask for more action. I think desire and lust should lead in bed, not the strength of your male hips. I would prefer that you touch my arms, my legs and my back and my waist and my back before you touch any sexual part of my body, and please be gentle and please warm up your hands before touching us. The beauty is: Some of you already aim to please, but you are rare and you know who you are;). When you penetrate us hard without any care to increase our pleasure we just want to make you come asap, because it hurts.
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2 pointsI've been meaning to write this and get it out for a while but never had the courage to do it before now. We all have our reasons behind our hobbying. Some are lonely, others are in a stale relationships, other like the variety of meeting new people. I was in a hedonistic/open relationship before meeting my wife. My ex and I had a mutual agreement that we could venture outside of our couple, and that worked well for 7-8 years until eventually my ex fell in love with someone else. So, at that fateful day in Spring 2000, we parted our own separate ways. A year later, I met a wonderful woman. We got married, had kids. She is my best friend and we share lots of things in common, but sex isn't really one of them. While she has always had a rather low sex drive, I am the total opposite! For year, I have tried to make her try new things, but to no avail. Knowing how "traditional" she is, I have simply given up on that and based on my past relationship, I seek the company of lovely SPs from time to time without feeling remorse when I get back home. I love women of all shapes and nationalities and cannot imagine having sex with the same person the rest of my life. I have too many fantasies I want to live, I love black women, I love BBW, I love latinas, I love tall, blonde, spinner types, I love punk/goth/tattoed chick with piercings and coloured hair. Heck, I'd even be inclined to meet a nice trans SP one day. But dammit, I want to go out there and meet beautiful ladies, get to know them and spend an intimate moment with them. Yet, I love my wife and kids and cherish what we've built as a family and cannot even think of one day leaving my wife. Since I have no one to talk about this, I sometimes feel like the "lonely married man", as I have no one to talk about it than myself. So, kindred CERB members, do this make me hypocritical? Am I living a lie or can I truly have my cake and eat it too?
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2 pointsIs it just me or have other ladies notice the difference between BP and EC / cerb/perb? As a few gentlemen that I have opened up to a little as well as a few SP's know about some big life changes I have been making and the circumstances regarding that. Hence I rarely partake in this endeavor , but when I do i usually just find it easy to poat a quick ad on BP. Most of the time it turns out to be a huge mistake and i usually get un desirable people that i would like to avoid. Basically it is not a good idea for me to post on there. I have however found a few great guys on there, but they are also guys that are from the boards. Im feeling like i should just go back to posting on here ans leave BP alone. I dont know ? Am i just being to picky or un reasonable? Additional Comments: Also I apologize for the horrible spelling. Its my phone.
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2 pointsAgain, I am commenting a little off topic but since this point is being discussed... Ryan, I think it is important not to generalize here; not all SPs offer (unprotected) Daty because of the "market demand". Some of us actually enjoy it and enjoy it a LOT. The same can be said about other sexual activities...
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2 pointsI've been lurking for a little while on cerb since my first encounter back in November of last year and appreciate all the great info and reviews that everyone on here contributes, figured I would give something back to the community :) I made the arrangement to go and see Tiffany Sunday early afternoon after seeing her ad on EC and reading the great review Pedro gave and was glad I did. Setting up the appointment was quick and easy through text and I was all booked within minutes. I arrived at her condo downtown and was blown away when she opened the door. I was greeted by a smoking hot tanned little blonde wearing pearls a bikini and heels just like I requested... I knew I was going to be in for some fun. After the initial kisses and hellos I took my shoes off and made my way in. The entire place was spotless and had a nice relaxed vibe to it with light music playing and candles lit everywhere. I made my way to the bathroom.. again spotless and had everything laid out neatly. We sat on the couches for a bit each enjoying some wine and conversation/teasing.. I'm usually a bit nervous and don't have much to say but this girl was fun and easy to talk to, really laid back and intelligent had me laughing quite a bit :P We made our way to the bedroom where the real fun began... this girl had everything I like... nice perky titties, sexy face, toned body and an ass I couldn't stop grabbing lol. bbbj was the best I've had yet but after seeing that tight little kitty I knew what I wanted more.. the view from behind was amazing and cowgirl was something straight out of a rodeo. This girl loves getting vocal and has quite the dirty little mouth on her which turned me on even more haha. After all the fun I grabbed a shower and shared another glass of wine before departing.... very satisfied :P would repeat and will.
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2 pointsPeople who use bad grammar and spelling all the time drive me insane.... That and mini vans....
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2 pointsI have the luck of working at VIP and I get to eat delicious pho at least once a week si vd we are on top of a pho restaurant hehe... their soup is really good... favourite #20 with BBQ pork.. yummi i am feeling hungry now lol
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2 pointsWhen the money is given to the Provider it becomes Her money. When it is taken back after the fact it is considered stealing. Humiliated and robbed. Wow.
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1 pointPho Bo Ga La. The original one on the side street in Ottawa. November 2009. Had a date with a guy there. I've tried some all over the world...this one is the best. EAch time I go to Ottawa, I go there:)
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1 point- putting my dry feet on a wet bath rug. - the questions: what are your origins? or Where do you come from? (from here!). - saying politely ''no thanks'' to a telemarketing phone call but the caller keeps talking to me, having the hope that I will listen to him/her. Nope. I hang up. -wet dishes on dry clean dishes (no! no! don't do thaaaat!) - bright light everywhere. My sunglasses, please. - not being able to swim lengths at the swimming pool when the schedule says we can. I become a swimming tiger. Don't approach me. I have to stop because now I feel in the mood to bite someone! ;-)
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1 pointUpon arriving in Fredericton, I realized I had forgotten my dressy shoes, so I didn't sweat it too much because my appointments thus far have been in-calls. So for my first out-call appointment, I wore my fishnets and dressy flip flops and guess what - he didn't notice. Is it just me or do most gents not really notice everything we are wearing? I was going to go buy some new shoes tomorrow, but now I'm thinking, I'll just stick to what has worked so far. What do you think?
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1 pointwhenever I meet a gentlemen "gem" from bp, I make a point of telling them about the boards and ec. So many don't know that recommendation boards exist!
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1 pointIn my opinion, if this is a concern: 1. Ask "is it safe?" (This can actually sound a little playful) 2. Don't do it (DATY that is) For those like me who enjoy it (tremendously), this is not a major issue. If you happen to get the timing wrong, there is usually very little chance of getting a surprise (so to speak) if she is laying on her back. You will likely see it on your fingers (if that's part of it) and you just switch places!! Everyone gets a turn in my world!! ;) All this of course...my humble opinion.
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1 pointReread the second paragraph of my post closely. I qualify every statement I make. I'm not saying women don't enjoy daty, I'm saying that it isn't a required service in our work unless the gent indicates an interest. I also didn't say that providers don't enjoy daty in an appointment ever, I simply gave some general parameters to having that happen organically. Talk about twisting words... What amazes me with this industry is willingness of the participants; both provider and client to tow the balloons and streamers party line at all costs, engage in behaviour then vent publicly or semi-privately when it goes wrong. In this business there are some great aspects, some less than great and some aspects that are truly gross. Sex is messy tho it can be fun if the parties are willing to be adults. I'm not advocating providers not disclose, I'm trying to bring a dose of reality to the discussion that honestly indicates the transient and unregulated nature of this industry and the potential impact that has on the participants health and safety. I think if someone is unwilling to take precautions then they don't have the right to complain. If the OP had used a dental dam, the risk would have been negligible and we probably wouldn't be having this conversation. Instead, he chose to engage in an unsafe service. The new to the industry provider was obviously in a difficult position given she was seeing her first client in spite of her monthly and when the mishap occurred, the OP took her fee back then her agency didn't have the decency to back her up. To me, the prevailing attitudes and the entire situation is a travesty... cat
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1 pointThanks Gabriella...I did not quote originally, but I was referring to Cat's post: Daty is performed for the client, not the provider Which I believe is where the generalization began. I am relieved to hear that some providers may actually enjoy this activity.
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1 pointI do agree. I never have a problem in the other cities when it comes to BP. Actually even when I post in the Winnipeg section regarding Brandon tours , I've had great experiences. Maybe it is just Winnipeg. Like i said before, all the nice guys were board guys anyway Additional Comments: Omfg lmao!!! , sorry I don't mean swear , but that's funny. That just made my day . ' The onion'. Additional Comments: Gave it some thought. I think I'm oing to advertise on the boards and when I have more if an idea of when I'm going to commit to this again EC. BP is too risky and not a great idea for me at this point. Thanks to you all for taking the time to give me your feed back and opinions on this. It helped me alot because this was weighing on my mind. Thanks everyone. P.S that onion comment was my fav. Priceless. Still laughing.
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1 pointPeople who don't have boat ramp etiquette. You don't prep your boat for launching on the ramp (taking off transom tie downs, motor toter, disconnect safety chain and winch strap, put in drain plug etc) That is done away from the ramp. The trailer & boat should be ready to be backed into the water and the boat launched Likewise when getting ready to load your boat after a day of fishing, you get the boat on the trailer and then drive away from the ramp (usually a parking lot) to put the straps and everything else on the boat to safely trailer it. Amazing the number of people I've seen over the years who would spend fifteen/twenty minutes on a ramp while there is a line up of others waiting to launch their boats Second thing...telemarketers nuff said...I don't even answer the phone when the number is one I don't know or is unknown Third thing...spam email again nuff said And fourth...junk mail RG
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1 pointI worked in "china town" or little Vietnam for 15 years. My favorite place was a on Booth St in the basement of a building. Looked sketchy but the kitchen was the cleanest in the area. I would clean out all their hood fans. It was New Me Fung. Loved the shedder pork with vermicelli. The spring rolls were fantastic as well
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1 pointI don't think ghosts appear in their earth form but rather come as an energy you can feel. When I was a kid I remember a "light" or a form leaning on my shelving unit. It was not in the form of anything in particular but I remember it did not instill fear in me but rather a calm. I was a kid that would lay awake in fear of the dark. Well that was the night my grandfather passed away and when I was told the next day my mother said she felt as if I had already known. I was 6 at the time.
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1 pointI refuse to use BP as I have had several unfavourable experiences, the only time I will use it is if there is a very well reviewed lady on there but I am sure it's 100 times worse for you ladies.
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1 pointIn the grand scheme of things, they may do that but nobody is paying attention to them and by nobody I mean anyone who is worthwhile and who actually can make that information valuable. They are enclosed in their own little circle of people and if you call it out then that risks drawing more attention to the information. The people who are following both sides of the debate are realizing the gross tactics of the antis and these people include non-sex workers with huge followings and media people. While they may resort to disgusting tactics to achieve their goal of silencing their opponents and while they are in bed (so to speak) with the CPC, they are doing this to themselves. Let them implicate themselves and be their own downfall. I know it's easy to say and harder to actually do... I also suggest blocking the antis before the Senate meetings and don't @ them during or shortly after the meetings. Ps. There is an option to report twitter accounts that post private information. I haven't heard of anyone having any success with these reports but you can also try going that route if the gent or you are worried. It's kind of an annoying process too but it's an option.
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1 pointI think it is incumbent for all of us to have a strategy for protecting our identity and privacy, but you also must realize that the world is a very public place today. We share a great deal of information about our selves today through our daily functions, and it's impossible to be totally private. You really have to trust that people who know you will be intelligent enough to see through any negative comments on a place like twitter.
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1 pointWith all due respect Cat, I believe you are twisting the previous posters views out of context Agree the risks of performing daty have been discussed ad nauseam, but that was never in the context of performing daty while a woman was on her menstrual cycle, the poster is suggesting that disclosure would be helpful so there is consent to proceed knowing the additional risk. Without disclosure you have de facto removed to ability to have consent and have knowingly increased risk and I would be curious to see the evidence that shows that the SP bears all the risk when a man performs daty while she is menstruating, from what I have read, both parties have increased risk during this time. If a client had a condition that was known to increase risk of some activities, would you want him to disclose it? I get it that some would not disclose anyway, but ask yourself the question, would you want to know? The ask is only if you decided to work during this time, which is a choice, so no there is no blanket request that providers disclose their menstrual cycles. I have heard this argument before...but I don't see it as logical. I work a regular job, probably like many here, and in a 28 day cycle I have 8 days off, I don't get paid on those days, if you average out the stat holidays (which admittedly I do get paid for) I am not working 9 days in a 28 day cycle. I get the feast or famine nature of the business, and if the cycle falls during feast and there are bills to be paid then again I totally get that working is the only option, but the ask is to not imply consent but rather communicate openly and honestly. I would hope that most clients are reasonable and open to having the conversation. Hiding it under the guise of "my body my rules" simply raises the secrecy barrier between client and provider and incents the clients to do the same...which I don't think anyone really wants.
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1 pointI know her secrets. Oh, not all of them, to be sure. But I know some of her little ones. I know what book she's reading right now, because I saw it on her night table. I know what size clothes she wears and the brands she prefers, because I've glimpsed the labels on her clothes as I've softly, slowly undressed her. I know a few of her bigger secrets. I know where she grew up. I know about the tomboy parts of her life and also the girly girl parts. I know who her idols are. I know about some of the moments that have given her the greatest joy in her life, and I know what are her greatest achievements. But I also know a very few secrets that are bigger yet. I also know about her lowest moments. I know about the most horrible, terrible things in her life. The mistakes that she has made, that will haunt her until her last breath. I know about the horrors she has faced, not only from the evil that she has come across in her life but also from the carelessness and thoughtlessness of others. I know of the things that are never far from her mind, though they she only very rarely speaks of them. She has told her deepest secrets to me, of her own free will. She's whispered them to me as we lay in her bed, in each others' arms. She's told them to me without my even asking. I like that when she's with me, she gives me her all. And I know she likes that I give back, and that I give as good as I get. For you see, she knows my secrets too. And I love that in telling her my greatest triumphs and my deepest secrets, far from driving her to a distance, it's made her want to bring me nearer. I'm not going to tell you what her secrets are. You see, I tell you this, and it's not because I want to tell you that I know something that you probably don't. It's because I want to tell you about my own secret joy that she has trusted me as much as she has. I love that she has treated me as a true lover, and not just as a business acquaintance. Although I know all too well that I'm neither, but I'm at a place in that shadowy no-man's land somewhere in between. You see, even though I know all these secrets, I don't know the most public thing of all about her. I don't even know her name. Her real name. And she doesn't know mine. But I do know that there's truly only room for one man in her life. And I've tasted the bitter-sweetness of knowing that I'm not him. He's a lucky man, although perhaps he doesn't truly realize it. Or so I've gathered. Or perhaps I'd just hoped. The world outside is lost to us, when we're together. But the world comes flooding back, and then some, once I step out her door. So we'll go on, she and I. We'll go on in this hopeless semi-romance. Our hearts blossom when we're with each other. We're lovers, truly, for an all too short time. And that is our one shared secret. And it's the only one I'll tell you today, my friends. Additional Comments: Well, that was quick. Thanks, Midnite!
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1 pointSitting on the aisle on an airplane and getting bump every 2 min without any apologies...grrrrrrrrr my blood pressure was hitting the roof! There is absolutely no good seat in a plane...window seat you are stuck and you often freeze...middle...oh no not in between...and aisle...well you know... Which one do you prefer?
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1 pointIf someone is unhappy about something they bought at a store they sure don't grab money out of the till to compensate. Additional Comments: Too many guys think every encounter has to be perfect. But we all wear seatbelts, we all have house insurance, we accept things can go wrong in everyday life. Intimacy is no different, hey it wasn't perfect that time but you just carry on.
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1 pointCheck out the Pin Up Girls (public) SOCIAL GROUP! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/group.php?groupid=96
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1 pointSimply put, I'm home! Three weeks away and lots of amazing things happened. For the first time since I have been alone I was not itching to get home as soon as I was away! Progress :) However, there IS no place like home. :)
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1 pointI went to my first Ottawa Pho site. No idea what it was called or where it was located--I think by the market, friends took me and I just followed along. No questions asked, I just went along for the adventure. It was absolutely dee-lish!
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1 point@ Dorinda, I agree, it wasn't nice at all ! Hi guys, I couldn't read this thread without adding my opinion. First off, I'm sorry about this incident, it must have been really awkward for both parties. This being said, I think it's important to discuss such matters so people are better prepared to deal with this type of situation. Personally, I do not like working during my period, I will most likely take off for few days.... The body needs to rest. For hygienic, health and physical reasons, I prefer to take some time off and rest when I have my periods. This being said, I think it's perfectly fine for a lady to choose to continue her work during her period and I think it's perfectly fine for a gent to be told so he can choose whether or not he wants to see a lady on her period. It's her body and it's also his comfort. Whatever decision you make comes with consequences and you must be prepared to face them. Also, let's face it, it does happen that we unexpectedly get our period right before or during an appointment, and guys please be understanding, there's no need to humiliate a lady & make her feel bad. I think there are mature ways to handle those situations. For me, key words are transparency, honesty & consideration for others. Let's be transparent, honest & considerate of others to avoid any awkward situation and this goes for both providers and gents !!! Thank you
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1 pointWell there has been alot of criticism, judgement and jumping to conclusions here. Admittedly i have been part of the problem. As disturbing as most of this thread is, part of me is glad its here as i had no idea providers would continue to work, let alone offer vaginal services while menstruating. Its been enlightening to me to learn of the integrity (and lack there of it) of some providers. I contacted a public health nurse and asked about sexual activity during menstruation. I was told this increases risk for BOTH partners. BOTH! Not only because of the chance of the presence of blood but the increase in bodily fluids. IMO the risks are high enough already in this business without needlessly increasing them. Someone asked what should the protocol be. From a clients prospective i would not be comfortable with any vaginal services at this time. I would however be fine with companionship, erotic massage ect. My suggestion would be 1 - Dont work. Take some days off. Have fun, enjoy yourself, have a "me" day. Whatever you want to call it. 2 - Be upfront when someone calls to book an appointment. Maybe they are willing to take on the extra risk, or comfortable with a less intimate encounter, or reschedule. 3 - If for some reason you don't think you can do either of those, please restrict your menu. As far as the question "what would you do". Thats hard to say for sure and i hope i never find out. Unlike the OP ive had some time to think about this. If i was thrown into a similar situation where i was meeting a sp for the first time, new nothing about her, she let me go down on her, with no heads up on what lies ahead and i found my mouth touching a bloody sponge, i would probably wash myself throughly, leave and never come back. I would have to wonder if she is trying to hide this, what else isn't she telling me? For all i know she might have just been diagnosed with HIV, mad at the world and out for revenge. If it was someone i knew and trusted or if she started her period as we were together thats a totally different scenario. As far as the donation is concerned i wont even go there as i would never be so inconsiderate as to put a price on someones heath and well being. The bottom line is use some common sense. I would never knowingly sacrifice the heath and safety of another human being and would expect the same in return. I don't think thats to much to ask. JMHO
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1 pointI'm confused by those comments too. I had a very good experience and will be going back to see Vanilla.
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1 point. "The Lancet is a weekly peer-reviewed general medical journal. It is one of the world's oldest and best known general medical journals,[1] and has been described as one of the most prestigious medical journals in the world..." http://www.thelancet.com/series/HIV-and-sex-workers Executive summary: With heightened risks of HIV and other sexually transmitted infections, sex workers face substantial barriers in accessing prevention, treatment, and care services, largely because of stigma, discrimination, and criminalisation in the societies in which they live. These social, legal, and economic injustices contribute to their high risk of acquiring HIV. Often driven underground by fear, sex workers encounter or face the direct risk of violence and abuse daily. Sex workers remain underserved by the global HIV response. This Series of seven papers aims to investigate the complex issues faced by sex workers worldwide, and calls for the decriminilisation of sex work, in the global effort to tackle the HIV/AIDS epidemic. HIV and sex workers Published July 22, 2014 Bringing sex workers to the centre of the HIV response Pamela Das, Richard Horton Full Text | PDF Dispelling myths about sex workers and HIV Steffanie A Strathdee and others Full Text | PDF Trafficking, sex work, and HIV: efforts to resolve conflicts Richard Steen, Smarajit Jana, Sushena Reza-Paul, Marlise Richter Full Text | PDF Responses to HIV in sexually exploited children or adolescents who sell sex Craig McClure, Caitlin Chandler, Susan Bissell Full Text | PDF Why are sex workers who use substances at risk for HIV? Maia Rusakova, Aliya Rakhmetova, Steffanie A Strathdee Full Text | PDF Register for free to view the full articles, it takes 2 seconds!
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