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My grand mother aka Mami is on last days of leaving..2or3days max He reason I posted in here is she was one if the few that Tap me on the shoulder and said " good for you" she accept what I do regardless of her generation which is now 90years old.. I'm upset but I think at the point she is she must go She saw her mom on some in time she wasn't" there" and was told it will be okay I know it's the best for my Gand Ma aka Mami but I have an hard time to wrap my head around it

Bill C-36 is many things. It is an imposition by government of their morality agenda. It criminalizes sexual behavior between consenting adults. As we pause to celebrate Labor Day, we see that what Bill C-36 really is however is the antithesis of what we are choosing to celebrate on Monday. Many sex workers choose this work. It is real work and as with any other paid employee they deserve legal protection under the law. They should have the right to work in a safe work environment. They should have the right to personal safety. They should have the right to work together. They should have the right to advertise freely and openly. Despite the ruling of the Supreme Court of Canada whose unanimous decision was based on providing for the safety of sex workers, all of these rights are being withheld and removed by this government. This segment of Canada's work force is being consciously and with forethought and I argue even with malice, sacrificed at the whim of a minority group who have put their moral agenda ahead of the lives of women. On this Labor Day when you hear Members of Parliament applaud our Canadian landscape, recognize that not all Canadians have cause to celebrate this day.

My reason to refer to the negotiating thread is because first, there is going to be overlap between bartering and negotiating, and some points in that thread would be appropriate to consider in bartering. And second, Summer posted (copied/pasted) I believe this discussion was brought up before and mod would not approve it Which was in reference to negotiating. I stated that the lady determines her rate, and it is up to her to determine if bartering is an acceptable form of payment. If a client/prospective client brings it up, then it starts reeking, IMHO of negotiating. I didn't say no to bartering, just it should be up to the lady to suggest it as an option, and there are risks to a mutually beneficial arrangement of barter (an encounter versus reciprocal services) Just my opinion RG

Dear Cerb members, I am visiting Halifax this week and wanted to address a concern I have with another provider that has been spreading negative rumors about me and attacking my character wherever she goes, to almost every gentleman she meets. Even though to me, this is completely not the attitude a GFE provider should have, as she should be focused on the satisfaction of her client and on providing the best experience he could dream of, I feel this becomes a problem to me when visiting a city like Halifax where I haven't been often. I do not want to name her or bad mouth her in any ways, this is not my intention here. I do know her, and we do have a history together, but I hold no grudge against her. All I would like to ask for is your advice on this situation, and also clear my name, as these allegations are absolutely not true and uncalled for. thank you in advance Lola xox

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*are you available now? NOW is never good *asking my fees after you have book *laziness I have a menu on my website..Visit my website stop asking me to just tell you *the ones that want to know which hotels I'm staying without an app because they need to be discrete If I tell anyone it won't be private and discrete anymore *the ones that inquire for an app but avoid to answer my simple questions such as your name and cell *the one that text me every single visit and each time tell me they don't have access to computer to check my website ..I mean every single time *the ones that feel THAT comfortable to go to the bathroom doing number2 with the door open and strike me a conversation *a tornado in my bathroom There a thing call curtain please close it and refrain from using 3towels for 1h app * bitting my nipples after I told you I'm not into pain I think that is all :)

......agree completely.. which is why a bartering site like ITEX would be perfect for these arrangements. I'm absolutely sold on the idea, just waiting for the new year to institute it. If I'm able to shop for products that I pay for anyways it's a sweet deal. When you're actually dealing with an individual it's a whole other kettle of fish... .....or mussels..........or lobster.... sorry distracted ............

So far I have been getting a "Special" on my birthdays....it's a DUO with my favourite and her Duo partner....nice...my birthday is in 3 months..cant wait! I dont know about the rate...(dont care), but wine, party hats, cake, bumps and kisses are all part of a very frisky time...Couldn't really ask for more.

You are correct and I apologize to the OP for responding in such a passionate way. I guess I never understood the gentlemen who shop for specials before looking for a lady that truly pique their interest first, especially on such a special occasion. Why not treat yourself to an experience with someone you truly desire (within your budget) instead of trying to save a few bucks here and there? It doesn't make any sense to me considering the highly intimate circumstances. And, I still stand by what I said in my previous post ;) with as much passion ;) OP, I hope you had a fantastic birthday! Gabby xox

Hi Cerbie Some new girls have asked me my opinion on what kind of ad's get my attention and keep my attention. For me, it is a catchy title. The start of a riddle. The first part of a teasing sentence that makes need to click the ad to see the rest of the ad, or the answer to the joke or riddle :) But once in the ad, the use of colour fonts can be eye catching, but beware some colours such as yellow and lime green are hard on the eyes to read. Once the Ad is opened, sexy beautiful pictures will gain my attention, if I like the pictures, I will then read the ad, How the ad is written will depends on whether I will read more. Some Ad's are well written, with quotes and thoughts, other's are funny. The short simple one sentence ad's won't keep my attention. The ad should contain a good detailed information on the woman, as her height, weight, age and measurements. and the rates and contact info. I know some of websites, but a lot of us use smart phones, and don't like having click to see more pages on the little screen. What catches your attention in an Ad?

Where do I start. I saw Bambi for a half hour last week and a 1 hour appointment this week. She is far more beautiful then her pictures and her body is amazing, and she is very proud to show it, wearing high heels while wearing tight booty shorts and slightly bending shows you a very fit and firm figure. She made me feel very relaxed despite being a little nervous at the fact that I hadnt actually been intimate with a girl this good looking ever. Completely non rushed and absolutely awesome. Definitely recommend, you will not regret even a Half hour with her.

Usually I am pretty excited when I knock on the hotel door, if there is some passionate kisses and some hand roaming shortly after the door is closed or before my clothes come off I would be say I will be a shower.

I have had the pleasure of being with Lexi, and she is absolutely amazing! She is sweet, beautiful blue eyes, her breasts are simply perfect... not to enter into details, but she gets wet and her nipples hard, she enjoys what she does, and she is worth every effort to see her. My only concern about her pictures it's that they do her no justice.

I have never been to the establishment in question (just making that clear, i.e., I'm neither Eric nor anyone working for him). It seems to me that if you pay for a membership knowing it involves regular fees, you are paying for it regardless of the use you make of it (like any other club or a union for that matter). If you did not let them know you were travelling (for how long?) or that you later became ill, how should they know this and why should they give you a pass on your fees after the fact? Same as when you hire someone to shovel your walk, you don't refuse payment just because it did not snow last month. The person you hired was on call for a whole month and expects to get paid. If you refuse to pay what you owe, you reap what you sow. If you think about it from their point of view you'll see it's so.

Going out for a long bike ride in a few minutes. This has been an epic summer, got a lot to reflect on. Have a great day everyone!

For those who have today as a holiday, enjoy a pleasant day with family and friends.

Neither! Hahaha. Posted via Mobile Device

Nameless isn't always a bad thing, when I first saw Felina Rose she didn't have a name, and that turned out extremely well! In this case I would be suspicious!

I'm a shower - but that can be a pain sometimes ; a lot of blood loss so sometimes i gotta be careful about holding off too long - no pun intended ! Good topic

I read that he was saying she is older then stated. However, it still is not acceptable for him to do this. He could have been in grade 12 when she was in grade 9. Or he failed a number of grades and is still in high school. Lexi I am sorry you are having to deal with this.

A few years back I did see one of my regular SP's on my birthday. And I did get a little surprise present waiting for me when I got there (nothing service related though). Just something she'd gone out of her way to get for me which touched me. During our session she did fulfill a particular fantasy of mine but she would have done that anyway. My Bday had nothing to do with it. Here's the thing though. When booking I never mentioned it was my birthday nor did I ask for any special treatment. She knew it was my birthday because there was one of those "Happy Bday Castle" threads started that day here on cerb....so a couple hours before our appointment she went out and got a little something for me. Personally, and these are just my feelings, no judgments here, but as an adult I would feel very uncomfortable, asking for, or expecting any kind of special treatment on my Bday, I stopped doing that when I was about 12 lol. I wouldn't ask that from anyone from family, friends, or coworkers, let alone SP's. Posted via Mobile Device

You list on your profile that your birthday is September 29, 1985. It's still August, so not sure which is your actual birthday. Just sayin.

^ I think a few gents would... If I knew a particular SP had a bday and I was planning to see her, I would have no problem giving a gift or extra money on top of the regular donation.

In this instance, MsSarah, "outing" refers to an SPs working identity being linked with her personal one, and her being "outed" as a sex worker in her personal life.

I think if two consenting adults come up with an agreement, then no one else needs to concern themselves with it. The same sort of logic for cash would apply here obviously - an SP/MA can set their requirement, and it would be up to the client to decide if he/she wants to engage in that agreement.

The OP is asking if a provider has birthday specials. He's not asking for a freebie. He has only 4 posts to his credit, so some allowance could be considered for the "newbie" factor. The beauty of this industry, is that each provider can choose to run his / her business exactly as it best suits him / her. Be it rates, screening requirements, services provided...or anything else. Consider for a moment, that the OP has perused the ads from our wonderful ladies, and is simply looking to save himself some time...because after all: We have ladies with long weekend specials http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=191654&highlight=special We have ladies with special allowances for later bookings or overnight rendezvous http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=191648&highlight=special We have ladies with specials of the day http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=191639&highlight=special We have early bird specials, and specials for bringing wine http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=191629&highlight=special We have month end specials http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=191629&highlight=special We have specials to help pay for taxes http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=191446&highlight=special We have pre-booking specials http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=191045&highlight=special We have specials for "$50 reduction for a rendez-vous confirmed before " deadline http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=190144 Clearly, specials are a common thing. So my question is this...why is it ok for providers to have specials, but frowned upon when men inquire about specials? IMO, the OP is not looking to negotiate a ladies rates, he is inquiring if a provider has a birthday special...nothing more. Either a lady has one, or she doesn't. I don't see why it needs to be more complicated than that. After all, cut him some slack...it's his birthday ;)

Wasn't meant to be a vent, reading it now it sure sounds like, and I didn't mean to insult anyone and I will never mention the names of those providers. I'm more trying to make the point that I run of bad encounters, and that's why I hadn't hobbied in over 14 months, and I Only see ladies from cerb. Posted via Mobile Device

Is it considered outing to refer to people's different handles on various forums? Example - if a SP is 'Jane' on cerb and 'funnylady' on t*rb.

I think the OP's original request/suggestion is not to 'wait til tomorrow' but to simply move on.

Starting off a client/SP relationship by arguing is pretty stupid. A session is going to be way better if the lady is ready and willing than if whe is feeling pressured and uncomfortable. Seriously guys if she says no just wait til tomorrow or whenever. It's in your best interest!

I have exchanged labour for services but it was at the Sp's request. If both parties are okay with it, fine.

No! Titcoin!

Incidentally, part of my premise was that the SP was interested in doing this in the first place (which Layah seemed to be saying). As you and RG touch upon, no client should be introducing barter as a negotiating tactic. (Or negotiating at all.) "Hey, I got this '79 Ford Pinto..." "I'm really ace with a Bedazzler; I could add studs and rhinestones to change your wardrobe from dull to daring!" Ew. Stay classy, my friends! ;)

I think it's one of those ideas that is good and fine in theory (MightyPen as usual summed it up well) but I would say likely to be bad in actual practice. I think the can of worms it would open is that it would encourage too many guys to start offering services in return instead of the requested donation amount. It's all too easy to picture a fellow telling one lady how "the other lady agreed if I washed her dishes and walked her dog I'd get 30 minutes!" Or "you let my friend have time with you for court-side tickets, why can't I??" It's my opinion that it's a lady's right to decide what her time is worth--be that a $ amount or some other good or service. And if the only time such an exchange happened was a when a lady specifically advertised for such, then it may not be too bad. But as I say, doing so comes with the risk that it will increase how often guys try such negotiations when it's not appropriate or wanted.

What interest me to read is what the title says, example: "Look at my new pictures", "You should see my sexy bum", "Swallow", "I need you cum", "I want you in me", etc... I will tend to look at an ad if the lady is from my area, but I will also read it if I like reading her replies to any post on Cerb. Keep writing sexy titles and I will keep reading them.

My favourites are the ads read more like a sensual story, a tale of what could be.

I will honestly say wow! She is amazing. Friendly, hot, sweet, very very naughty and adventurous, well worth whatever she asks for in return. Blows away every experience I have ever had. Not the tastiest girl which bothered me at first but she made up for it big time in a big way. Definitely plan to see her. There are only two other locals I would put in the same class. Good luck.

Come and experience what you've been longing for. Im back from another amazing vacation and I'm missing sharing my intimate time with you... There are many things that make me different from the rest You will always be greeted with a warm hug and a smile because I'm always happy to have your company. I take my time and you will never be rushed, I always leave myself lots of time to regenerate my energy so I am able to give you the best experience you deserve. Never be left feeling like youre next in line. I take pride in my clean,upscale environment so you will always feel confident in partaking in a relaxing, sensual journey and never worry about interruptions. I don't hide anything in my pictures, they are real, no photoshop and no surprises on our first meeting. See how wonderfully beauty and brains can collide. I'm never late for our time, I believe that your time is just as valuable as mine and if I can't make it, be sure I'll let you know well ahead of time. When you're in my company I am focused on you 110%, come get into my zone and feel ultimately spoiled I am offering sensual massage for gentlemen and couples Incall and outcall available Duos also available please pm for details My hours vary Monday, Wednesday, Friday 1-9 Tuesday, Thursday by appointment

Not trying to stir the pot or anything but in defense of the OP, he just said he was looking for a recommendation for a great bbbj....he never mentioned "the best".

Recently I have been thinking about how the amazing Ladies of CERB go about screening prospective clients. I have been around long enough now to know and respect that the SP's take screening seriously and have all developed their approach to screening that meets their individual needs. Many SP's require certain information, or references, or that initial contacts be made thought email or by phone. But when I stop and think about it these wonderful ladies really don't have much info on which to base a decision that affects their personal safety. Obviously guys lie about their name and other personal information... cell phones are a dime a dozen and references can't be a deal breaker all the time because all of us had to start with none at some point. For the last few weeks I will admit it i have trolled the various SP ad sections and then looked at some of the SP profile visitors post history. While I did not see anything strange or surprising in fact I saw a lot of posts very similar to my own post history I was struck by the fact that many of these posts (mine included) did not, for me anyway, scream wow I can't wait to meet this person. I kinda think if I was going to invite this person into my life I might need more. Lololol Anyway.... I think this might just be my long way of saying Thank You to all you wonderful ladies who make the choice to invite us into your life. I guess the fact that you do that based on very little information says something about your faith and trust in others and your ability to assess the essence of our character. For me personally I have benefited greatly because you have. THANK YOU

There are tattoos and there are tattoos. Some are art. Some are graffiti. It's impossible to generalize. Even with well done artistic tattoos, I prefer a sense of proportion, symmetry and consistency. I don't like the skin to be overwhelmed with multiple tattoos. For me the body is the work of art. The tattoo is just an embellishment.

Well from reading another thread, and just common sense and common courtesy, I would imagine a client/potential client asking for services not offered must be a turn off. Read the lady's website, it'll let you know what a lady's boundaries are A rambling RG

lol, me too. I don't know how many times i've just said, oh, sorry, not available the minute i hear that kind of thing. Also they say it in what i call 'sexy voice', so it really grates on the nerves. This is not a dating site, I snap, from time to time, you don't have to sexy voice me to impress me. it creeps me out, and makes me question why they are calling in the first place lol. I'd advise not using sexy voice and not calling any sp sweetie, hun, babe, and/or babeeee

Another thing I hate and I get often is when they don't take the time to read my post! I always put my hours I am available and they still call in the middle of the night even though I put only until 10 pm and when they call from blocked calls smh Like please take the time to read what we post it would be ever appreciated

I am bothered by the text messaging as well. I don't respond to them and I don't respond to one line emails either - if I can delete your email just as fast as it took for you to write it out... I don't think you and I will have good chemistry. Another one that bothers me: When he says he read my web site and than asks me questions that are clearly answered on my site

I do prefer calling over text of course and will Not book and.confirm.through text but if texting me please at least be respectful especially when making first contact It's funny not.long after I posted this a had a young guy text me ...hey Wats up girl! Lolol no thanks

Hey baby How are you hun? Where are you located bb? Hun-baby-darling-bb-babe-sweetie-cutie at EVERY sentence from someone I NEVER met It litteraly makes me aggressive! I hate that!! Please take note that a: hey sweetie from someone I know its different!! Lol

When I screen, I can be particular. I find that hotels here ask for the name of the person you are trying to connect to (the upscale ones), so I do ask for the name the room is booked under, otherwise I can't verify your actually there. Safety is a huge concern to me, I use discretion, I'm not going to call your cell phone unless you ask me to, and I'm not going to get into random conversations with you, but providers have to give out lots of details, yet we don't get a lot of answers back to our questions. I'm inviting you into my home sometimes, I want to know who's coming to me.

@Emily Rushton: you wrote:" I never altered my rate and it was never a problem, so don't go telling these girls that they should change their donation to reflect the lower economic standing in a city, that is complete bullshit." First, no insults. Second, where did I write about "lower economic standing in a city"? Third, you clearly misunderstood my point - when I specifically ask a lady to drop all she is doing and come see me in Kingston from another city, negotiating is unavoidable. Additional Comments: It appears that the word "negotiate" elicits feelings of horror in some people. Negotiate need not be a "dirty" word. Let us consult Merriam-Webster for its definition: Definition of NEGOTIATE intransitive verb : to confer with another so as to arrive at the settlement of some matter transitive verb : to arrange for or bring about through conference, discussion, and compromise <negotiate a treaty> Examples of NEGOTIATE 1. The customer wanted to negotiate over the price. 2. We negotiated a fair price. I have chosen those definitions and examples that are pertinent to our debate. Now, is there an inherent negativity residing in any of the definitions and examples given above? I must emphasise that I am talking of a situation where a lady in a city different from mine packs a certain anatomical feature that attracts me so powerfully that I can hardly contain myself(lol). I therefore respectfully ask her to drop everything she is doing and come see me in Kingston. Under such a condition, negotiating( in a TRUE sense of the word) is unavoidable.