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I don't mean to be a dick but your priorities are completely out of sync. If you don't have the money to get massages, do not get massages. This industry is does not provide things that you need to survive, it provides things you want. It is supported off clients disposable income, if you don't have the disposable part, please use it on things you need, not things you want. Save up until you can afford it, don't lose self-respect and ask for handouts. Go to pornhub and rub one out when you are feeling the urge to spend money you don't have and tell me if that doesn't make you see the situation a little bit clearer. You can survive man, focus on the here and now, save up, work on getting more income, then in the future get all the massages you want without the dread of knowing you don't have money for food for the rest of the month.

Most ladies always have times of the days or days were they offer a reduced fee.. check the adds.., but also be realistic font expect the service to be half the regular rate or for free. . We all have difficult times and bills to pay.. remember you workat any job.. how about your employer comes to you and say.. I am having rough times. . Can I pay you half per hr? Or even 2 dollar less? How would you feel?

to politely decline the request for an encounter, for whatever reason, please accept her decision politely. Please understand these decisions aren't made lightly and are the result of a number of considerations, often including but certainly not limited things such as... scheduling conflicts, personal reasons, communication styles, reference reports, posting style & history, a simple lack of chemistry... or a combination thereof. It's important to remember that a lady is balancing her requirement for income with her comfort level and her compatibility with suitors, and when the scale tips too far the wrong way, she is then faced with the delicate task of informing someone that they'd not be a good match. Interrogating a lady, insisting she provide reasons for her decision, & asking for reconsideration will rarely gain you ground, and will almost always result in a lady being very glad she made the aforementioned decision. It makes an already awkward situation even more unpleasant. Please know that a lady makes this decision carefully, and is considering your best interests as well as her own. Accept it graciously. Thank you :)

A very Happy Birthday to mistert! I pity the fool who doesn't wish him a Happy Birthday!!! :D

I can't see if I were declined for a date that I would at that point even want a date with that lady. Not a bash against anyone . I like a GFE, which for me is more than a menu, it involves a connection/chemistry...granted one that develops over time, but starts with the email exchanges. How can you have a GFE with a lady that right at the outset doesn't want to see you. There is a "relationship" aspect to a GFE one that couldn't exist if one of the parties doesn't want to be there This holds true with a first encounter, or with an lady you have seen multiple times. And personally, just my opinion, encounters have to be mutually beneficial, you the client must want to see the lady and the lady wants to see you. If one person, lady or gentlemen doesn't want to see the other, move on. There is no chemistry. I know for me if I was declined for a date or didn't want to see a lady for a date, the chemistry is gone (or never was there) and nothing brings it back. There are many SP's and Clients. If one declines you just move on, don't look back A morning rambling over coffee number two RG

I think a lady would be happy to provide you with a reference (I assume you are a good client ;-) ) and not get tired of doing so. It isn't just for you that a lady provides a reference. It is done by ladies to keep other ladies safe and vice versa. Ladies want to be safe. And they will be happy to do so because you are a client willing to be screened, a sign of being a good client. It won't annoy the lady being asked, because she may also require a reference for new clients for herself from other ladies. They do this to be safe, and ladies want each other to be safe. The only reference etiquette is to contact the lady you wish to use as a reference before you use her as a reference. That way the lady isn't contacted out of the blue by another lady about you, she will expect to be contacted. In short, don't worry about contacting a lady you have seen to be a reference. She will likely be very happy to do so if you were a good client A morning rambling RG

To me, you are over reacting and coming up with far fetched scenarios, but i am basing that on what you posted. You are in the middle of a conversation and it stops suddenly, not with you saying something off base and her saying, ok, bye, just mid way? Or you were having a conversation that came to its natural end and you end the conversation with a 'see you later'. One thing is not like the other. The first example tells me that her phone died, she might not have another one yet, and/or she might not have your number anywhere else to call you from a different line. Neither scenario or even your description of the relationship lead me to believe she dropped you like a hot potato. I don't want to ask how old you are, because it makes no sense that anyone over 18 would think that paying for a couple of meals is anything like taking you for a ride. if you go overboard, if you leave a bunch of messages or texts or anything that she gets later, you will regret it, believe me. Scale it back show some concern, what if she was in an accident, texting while driving, got mugged, fell down some stairs, or just can't pay her phone bill because she got set up in a bad plan and you and she have been cooing at each other with lengthy phone calls and texts she can't afford, and it may take days before she can make a payment to get her phone reconnected. When leaving a message, keep it brief and keep it simple. Don't leave a message asking if she thinks she wants to go slow, or stop seeing each other, or anything even remotely similar to that, or anything even remotely not just a concern that she is OK. ;)

It was yesterday..To have chose to extend my stay in Charlottetown and met wonderful people..Thank you

There has to be boundaries established in your business and personal life. They have to be separated. One thing to do is create a "vacation message" in your email. When a client sends you an email, they will receive this message and then understand you are gone away. If they get upset about how YOU didn't keep in touch while you were away, then there are some problems with that person and their expectations. When people act out this way, then it's time to take a step back. You do not owe them anything more than the time with you that they pay for. You are under no obligation to "keep in touch with them" outside of an appointment. Most people who have healthy boundaries will understand this. Clients included. If they can't understand the concept that you have a life outside of this business then it's time to re-evaluate the SP-client relationship. Perhaps time to move on from them. I've had to do this a few times and never looked back as some of these client relationships were taking on a life of their own and not in a good way for my mental or emotional health. I do a lot of meditation and am able to deal with these situations much better now.

Once in a while you come to realize that so many of our members really don't "get" the whole hobby experience, or rather, they understand that there are rules but believe they are somehow exempt. So let's help them. Let's give some handy tips to make this a more wonderful experience for all. This is a pleasant place so let's keep it constructive... and be aware that the rules shouldn't just be for clients, you can also add some helpful tips that may help a new provider too! Here goes: 1. Appointment time is at 2:00 pm, what time do I arrive? Ummmmm. Hmmmmm. What part of 2:00 pm is ambiguous? A 2 o'clock appointment means you are at her door at 2. Not 1:55, not 2:10. It's seems petty but when you screw up her schedule, you may be screwing up MY schedule. I may be the appointment at 3. I have things to do... and my schedule may not be as loosey goosey as yours. I may be using a very small window of time or I may have "commitments" that see me arriving like clockwork elsewhere. Regardless, when the little hand is at 2 and the big hand is at 12, be where you are supposed to be. 2. "I am awesomely wicked good in bed, and I often masturbate to pictures of myself nude, because I am that good looking. Can we negotiate a better rate?" In a word, No. Would you go to a restaurant and say, "I am a really good eater, can I get a better price on that steak?" Would you go to a lawyer and say, "I am an awesome criminal, can you represent me for free?" Would you go to the dentist and say, "My teeth are so bad that you should fix them all for $50!" A service provider gets paid at a set rate because she is a professional. She is good... no, not just good... wickedly awesome good, at what she does. Your part is the compensation, her part is the wicked awesome part. Pay the pretty lady and be happy. 3. Cleanliness is next to godliness. Ever step into an elevator and stand next to someone who smells like they have never met a bar of soap they liked? Ever met someone that looked like they were an extra in the Walking Dead? Have you ever gone into a bathroom after someone and wondered if they ate something dead? Step one. Go to the potty. Do your business. Wipe. Wipe again. Wipe again. and then, wipe again. Do the optical test. Last wipe. Is there any residue? If yes, start over. If no, then proceed to step two. Step Two. Shower. Clean EVERYWHERE. Rinse. Repeat. Did you pay attention to anywhere in particular??? Hmmm??? Go back to those places. Make em sparkle. (at this point I do suggest that artificial glitter is NOT necessary.) Get out of the shower. Towel dry (for pete's sake use a clean towel!)... apply a generous amount of deodorant/anti-perspirant. Brush your teeth. (if additional grooming is required, please do that too.) Step three. Clothing. Go to the place where you keep your clean clothes. No. Not the place where you put the stuff that you THINK you can wear again. The CLEAN clothes. You know that stuff that you just took from the dryer and folded nicely?? That's the stuff. Wear that shit. Uh oh... what if I have to do step one again?? Then repeat ALL the steps. Cuz skidmarks are not sexy. Febreeze showers are not acceptable. 4. I have to cancel, what do I do? Give your head a smack. With a hammer. Stop. Now take a pointy thing and stick it with great force into your upper thigh, avoiding the artery. Now, go to your car. Start it. Open the door, put your foot beneath a tire and have someone put that car in reverse. Cancellations? NOT COOL. We all know that shit happens. A death in the family. A sick kid. Decapitation with farm machinery. Thermonuclear war. Explosion of your planet from a death star ray. That shit is acceptable.... but you still owe the pretty lady an explanation AND a cancellation fee. When you cancel, providers don't eat. When providers don't eat they get distended bellies and look like kids from the CARE commercials. When you cancel, providers give not only you, but also your city, a bad reputation. This makes you masturbate more. Because you will never get laid again. Ever. You will over develop muscles in only one arm. Your clothes will fit poorly. People will figure it out and suspect you are the notorious masturbating king of cancellations. They will hunt you down and kill your family. Let's keep little Bobby and Joanie safe. If you make an appointment, keep that appointment. Your family will love you for it. 5. "I'm a little short on cash. Do you think she will notice if the envelope is a bit short?" In a word, yes. She will also point out that your penis is a bit short.... and that your skill level is a bit short... and that you cry like a bitch when you have your pathetic little man-gasm. Do you want that??? Do YOU WANT THAT, bitch??? Wow. That was a bit over-emphatic. Gonna step away from the computer and take a valium. BACK!!!! Where were we... yes. Shorting your provider. Not COOL. Remember, providers have special powers. They communicate telepathically. As soon as you walk out that door, she will know and so will all of her allies in the super friends. They will combine their superpowers and make sure that you never get wood again.... and if you do, it will be at inappropriate times... like at funerals or family gatherings or when talking to your grandfather or something like that. Seriously?? Give your head a shake. If you are short then GET the money and make sure you have it set aside BEFORE you book. You will have a wickedly awesome good time... just pay the pretty lady what you agreed to and enjoy! 6. Can I pay her in drugs? Hmmmm. Does your banker take drugs in lieu of money? Have you offered Rogers drugs in return for their cable/home phone/cell phone/internet bundle? When you get groceries at Loblaws, do they have a special drawer that says "financial equivalent in drugs?" You know the answer. "No, you addled-pated simpleton." Remember the distended belly part from above? Providers take cash because cash buys groceries, pays bills and looks pretty. Carrying cash will not get you arrested. Using cash is the engine that runs our capitalist society. "All you need is cash, cash is all you need." The Beatles sang that, I think. Your turn....

Every time I saw her at EB I urged her to go independant, and finally she did! Arranged a meeting easily through texts and phone. She doesn't have a permanent incall yet as she is doing this on an ad-hoc basis. Riley looks very much like Katy Perry, medium height, medium build with lovely bosom, lustrous long dark hair, quite pretty. This coupled with a very engaging charismatic persona. She's also very chatty, not the wham-bam-thank you ma'm type. I guess she's in her early thirties. She made me think of a Southern Belle type of lady, a kind we don't have much in Winnipeg. When I arrived she greeted me like a long lost friend and we had a good chat before getting down to business. After a quick massage she treated me to an excellent cbj and then hopped on top for some great cowgirl...nothing beats a well endowed girl on top of you waving her assets in your face. Excellent, totally excellent! Two hours is a good session, take your time and enjoy yourself.

I had the opportunity to visit with Rose, and I'm glad I did. :) She is another lady that prefers quality over quantity, we both had exchanged some pm's, emails than after a few text messages, she happened to be available on the day I was looking for, and I booked with her. (Of course it had to be hottest day of the summer with the humidity ;) ) When you visit Rose's web site, her ad's or her profile and albums on Cerb she is exactly the lady you will see. When I arrived we hit it off very well, some small talk, and got ourselves worked up really quick, it wasn't long before lingerie and my clothes were scattered over the floor. Needless to say, we worked up quite a sweat ;) and used multiple positions that most enjoyable for her ( ask her about martial arts and what she can do with her legs while in one particular position ;) ) after our shared O's, we had a shower together then retreated back to the bed, we cuddled and talked for a bit, about life,world issues. While stroking each others skin which lead to our second round, and I must say this lady can ride like a "champ". The time spent was fabulous, Rose is intelligent,sexy, has a great body (she runs,is in good shape) nice firm bum, and strong legs, nice long hair ;) and she is attractive, beautiful eyes,soft full lips. I will visit her again...soon as my legs and body get back to normal shape, as she certainly wore this guy out for a day. :) Thanks Rose it was a pleasure! PS I did not include some tags for service as we gents know its YMMV ;)

"We are people too and we are workers and we want the same rights as any other worker" I love this video so much! Information about prostitution in New Zealand: https://docs.google.com/file/d/0B3mqMOhRg5FeQ3lFVDZVSkZscWM/edit

That is not necessarily true... I advertise in a regular basis.. all the time and I keep my self pretty busy... I take my job very serious and advertising is simply part of it...

Happy Birthday Mistert - Hope your day was memorable!

Bonne fete, MisterT!!! Xo

I think Midnite-Massage needs more mentioning in this thread. Absolutely incredible. Additional Comments: I think Midnite-Massage needs more mentioning in this thread. Absolutely incredible.

My very best birthday wish to Cerb's own great chef and social planner. Best, toine

Happy Birthday, Hope you have a spectacular day Mistert.

I haven't met her (yet!) but KatiePie also seems to fit the bill.

Happy birthday.

Happy Birthday Muffin Man !!! Buy you a belated Bday beer ....soon ! :chug:

Happy birthday!!...Dance like no one's watching, mon ami :)

Hello Gentlemen, My name is Khloe! Thank you for taking the time to stop by... I'm available next on Monday from 10am-6pm at Vibe! Sparkling & Bubbly is my personality, just like a glass of Champagne! I'm short & sweet with long blonde hair, intoxicating green eyes and curves in all the right places. My looks may come off as innocent, but we can end up in some very erotic places together... My goal is to make you feel comfortable and at ease during our time together. You can find me at Vibe Urban Spa...where I offer sensual massages that will leave you feeling relaxed and satisfied: Sexy shower play, bodyslides (as I rub my C Cups all over your naked body!), Reverse Massage, Nuru, and a little GFE are all included! For more info or to book with me please call VIBE at: 613 680 8059! My UPCOMING AVAILABILITY This Week Is: MONDAY 10am until 6pm! Tuesday 10am-10pm Wednesday 10am-10pm Thursday 10am-4pm Friday 10am-6pm Sat/Sun OFF Come See Me! :wink:

Bonne fete Mistert!

Happy Birthday mistert Enjoy your special day RG

Best wishes for a wonderful birthday!

Happy Birthday MisterT.... May your day be amazing....

I really enjoyed watching the video. Thanks for sharing, Kerri.

I like your questions, and I agree it's cool that the OP raised an complicated (and yes, possibly controversial) question. Happily it's a civil place so this could be interesting. But I'd phrase the question above differently. I don't actually expect the church to satisfy *everyone's* needs; but I do require it to be true to its own philosophy. If a religion's core philosophy is to care for the weak and powerless, to value love over power, and to be in the community and amongst the people... then it needs to exemplify that, especially in its "home base" buildings. Turning away someone who needs shelter from the rain is a failure as measured by the church's own rules. And once you're not true to your philosophy, but instead they're just vague principles you discard when it's inconvenient, then... well, okay. Now you're just a fancy clubhouse with some odd interior decoration. Forfeit your tax exemption and go into business like everyone else.

Personally I've seen ladies mid twenties to fifties. But I am more comfortable with ladies in their thirties and up. I find I have more things in common we can talk about. Things a fifty three year old man couldn't talk about with someone twenty years old and vice versa And a teenager, eighteen, nineteen years old, no way....may be legal but absolutely too young for me. Anyhow, that's my comfort zone age wise in seeing ladies A rambling RG

I would give her some space. See where things go...

Cant wait until Sunday. Going out with friends for a day of beer, wings and football.

I always thought a church was supposed to be a haven and a refuge for anyone. As the song said, "Anyone is welcome to come in and sit down and pray." If you had taken a pew and assumed the position would they have bothered you I wonder?

Sadly, these days the church is not as open as once was. With so many vandals, and thefts it has made it difficult to trust people who otherwise are merely seeking shelter or even quietude. Long are days past that we are free to roam into a church with no services or programs happening. The door was probably left open by accident. Should you asked to leave, probably not. But the fact is the lady was probably nervous of your intentions, even tho looks to be self explanatory . Few years ago, a grand Cathedral in Moncton became a target to a group of youths who got into the church, spray painted the alter with upside down crosses, stole and broke many items, even pissed in the holy water:( So I cant blame the church for protecting themselves. Shows the sad state of our society's respect and ethics for sure!

Anyone seeking BBFS will be banned, I issued a FIRM warning here for SynGreis but anyone reported as seeking BBFS will be booted. Why? By participating in unprotected intercourse you are greatly increasing your risk factor of transmitting and acquiring life threatening sti/std's and therefor increasing the risk factor for the entire community. We have found this to be unacceptable and have listened to our members (both male and female) and the majority (overwhelming majority) here agree that this is too risky for everyone.

Nice looking girl, clock-watcher though, seemed in a rush, then said time's up after about half the time, won't repeat

Thank you for the reminder, MJ! I understand what it's like to have a "gentleman" not taking no for an answer and taking it to the extreme. As a result, I also decided to start a thread about the same subject 2 years ago: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=101900 The grief that "gentleman" caused me was just unreal! It's quite sad to say the least...

Well said Steve. I can understand the desire to know "why" in these circumstances, as it is a form of rejection. (Our egos are more fragile than we big strong men let on at times.) If nothing else, I would want to avoid whatever behavior made her uncomfortable for future interactions with other sp's. Giving the person the reasons however, would likely lead to them getting defensive and trying to argue the points. I can see why it is best to stick with the "not a good fit" approach and leave it at that. Gents, accept it and move on. Arguing will likely only confirm her suspicions, not change them. I am surprised and sorry to hear how extreme the behaviors can be, and that it is getting worse not better. I assumed that we were moving into more respectful and understanding times. I guess cerb tends to shelter me from the less pleasant sides of the business. You ladies have my deepest respect. I know it is not always easy doing what you do.

I got my first nice compliment, but that was after my trip to the grow up, oops, op.!

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Jessicasugarbabe is a delightful young lady. Very pretty face and lovely long red hair. She made me feel very relaxed and welcome. She is happy and bubbly and easy to talk with. She has a couple of tasteful tattoos and her tight little spinner body is all natural. I generally don't see 24 year olds because at my age (58 )it feels a little creepy. But Jessica is very mature and made our hour session very relaxed and the time flashed by very quickly. I won't go into the exact details but this young lady is very skilled! Welcome back to K-town Jess!! The local boys are lucky you have returned!

She gives very good service and is a sweety.

I find it funny as some people are making it sound like they feel that they are cheeting on an SP? :icon_confused: Is that not the hole point of this website so that there is no guilty feeling and to try new things? :sadomaso: