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I don't mean to be a dick but your priorities are completely out of sync. If you don't have the money to get massages, do not get massages. This industry is does not provide things that you need to survive, it provides things you want. It is supported off clients disposable income, if you don't have the disposable part, please use it on things you need, not things you want. Save up until you can afford it, don't lose self-respect and ask for handouts. Go to pornhub and rub one out when you are feeling the urge to spend money you don't have and tell me if that doesn't make you see the situation a little bit clearer. You can survive man, focus on the here and now, save up, work on getting more income, then in the future get all the massages you want without the dread of knowing you don't have money for food for the rest of the month.

Most ladies always have times of the days or days were they offer a reduced fee.. check the adds.., but also be realistic font expect the service to be half the regular rate or for free. . We all have difficult times and bills to pay.. remember you workat any job.. how about your employer comes to you and say.. I am having rough times. . Can I pay you half per hr? Or even 2 dollar less? How would you feel?

to politely decline the request for an encounter, for whatever reason, please accept her decision politely. Please understand these decisions aren't made lightly and are the result of a number of considerations, often including but certainly not limited things such as... scheduling conflicts, personal reasons, communication styles, reference reports, posting style & history, a simple lack of chemistry... or a combination thereof. It's important to remember that a lady is balancing her requirement for income with her comfort level and her compatibility with suitors, and when the scale tips too far the wrong way, she is then faced with the delicate task of informing someone that they'd not be a good match. Interrogating a lady, insisting she provide reasons for her decision, & asking for reconsideration will rarely gain you ground, and will almost always result in a lady being very glad she made the aforementioned decision. It makes an already awkward situation even more unpleasant. Please know that a lady makes this decision carefully, and is considering your best interests as well as her own. Accept it graciously. Thank you :)

A very Happy Birthday to mistert! I pity the fool who doesn't wish him a Happy Birthday!!! :D

I can't see if I were declined for a date that I would at that point even want a date with that lady. Not a bash against anyone . I like a GFE, which for me is more than a menu, it involves a connection/chemistry...granted one that develops over time, but starts with the email exchanges. How can you have a GFE with a lady that right at the outset doesn't want to see you. There is a "relationship" aspect to a GFE one that couldn't exist if one of the parties doesn't want to be there This holds true with a first encounter, or with an lady you have seen multiple times. And personally, just my opinion, encounters have to be mutually beneficial, you the client must want to see the lady and the lady wants to see you. If one person, lady or gentlemen doesn't want to see the other, move on. There is no chemistry. I know for me if I was declined for a date or didn't want to see a lady for a date, the chemistry is gone (or never was there) and nothing brings it back. There are many SP's and Clients. If one declines you just move on, don't look back A morning rambling over coffee number two RG

I think a lady would be happy to provide you with a reference (I assume you are a good client ;-) ) and not get tired of doing so. It isn't just for you that a lady provides a reference. It is done by ladies to keep other ladies safe and vice versa. Ladies want to be safe. And they will be happy to do so because you are a client willing to be screened, a sign of being a good client. It won't annoy the lady being asked, because she may also require a reference for new clients for herself from other ladies. They do this to be safe, and ladies want each other to be safe. The only reference etiquette is to contact the lady you wish to use as a reference before you use her as a reference. That way the lady isn't contacted out of the blue by another lady about you, she will expect to be contacted. In short, don't worry about contacting a lady you have seen to be a reference. She will likely be very happy to do so if you were a good client A morning rambling RG

To me, you are over reacting and coming up with far fetched scenarios, but i am basing that on what you posted. You are in the middle of a conversation and it stops suddenly, not with you saying something off base and her saying, ok, bye, just mid way? Or you were having a conversation that came to its natural end and you end the conversation with a 'see you later'. One thing is not like the other. The first example tells me that her phone died, she might not have another one yet, and/or she might not have your number anywhere else to call you from a different line. Neither scenario or even your description of the relationship lead me to believe she dropped you like a hot potato. I don't want to ask how old you are, because it makes no sense that anyone over 18 would think that paying for a couple of meals is anything like taking you for a ride. if you go overboard, if you leave a bunch of messages or texts or anything that she gets later, you will regret it, believe me. Scale it back show some concern, what if she was in an accident, texting while driving, got mugged, fell down some stairs, or just can't pay her phone bill because she got set up in a bad plan and you and she have been cooing at each other with lengthy phone calls and texts she can't afford, and it may take days before she can make a payment to get her phone reconnected. When leaving a message, keep it brief and keep it simple. Don't leave a message asking if she thinks she wants to go slow, or stop seeing each other, or anything even remotely similar to that, or anything even remotely not just a concern that she is OK. ;)

It was yesterday..To have chose to extend my stay in Charlottetown and met wonderful people..Thank you

There has to be boundaries established in your business and personal life. They have to be separated. One thing to do is create a "vacation message" in your email. When a client sends you an email, they will receive this message and then understand you are gone away. If they get upset about how YOU didn't keep in touch while you were away, then there are some problems with that person and their expectations. When people act out this way, then it's time to take a step back. You do not owe them anything more than the time with you that they pay for. You are under no obligation to "keep in touch with them" outside of an appointment. Most people who have healthy boundaries will understand this. Clients included. If they can't understand the concept that you have a life outside of this business then it's time to re-evaluate the SP-client relationship. Perhaps time to move on from them. I've had to do this a few times and never looked back as some of these client relationships were taking on a life of their own and not in a good way for my mental or emotional health. I do a lot of meditation and am able to deal with these situations much better now.

I recently started to see ads for Sophie that peeked my interest. Soon after her first ad, she joined our community here on CERB and this made me want to make a connection soon. So this past Friday I saw that she was working, I had to make contact. I emailed her as her ad requests and introduced myself and asked a few question. Sophie promptly replied and her email asked me for my phone number and a time she could call to discuss further. This process is a little different for me, however I absolutely understand her desire for discretion and her process for booking. It doesn't matter how many times I meet a woman I am always a little nervous. Being nervous was short lived though as soon as Sophie opened the door. I was met by this petite sexy woman with a big hug and kiss. Sophie is extremely friendly and intelligent and this led to conversation with her being very easy and interesting. We proceeded to talk for awhile getting to know each other which led to her starting to get playful with some kissing and touching. Now, as for the naughty part of our encounter I won't get into the details. Every encounter is going to be different and of course a YMMV situation. I will say though, that Sophie is very sensual, a great kisser and I absolutely loved exploring every inch of her. Sophie was very adept to my needs and desires and accommodated them perfectly. Sophie works a limited schedule, but I would highly recommend to anyone. I certainly plan on repeat visits as often as time permits. Thank you Sophie for the memorable and enjoyable time. It was an absolute pleasure meeting you and I look forward to much more time spent together.

I had the pleasure of seeing jewel the other night and I had a very good time.I meet her at the hotel she is staying at not the best place but aint the worst ethier.She has a nice tight body and a cute face and pics are accurate on her site.We started with some cbj and then her on top and then me on top and let me tell you guys this women is tight and wet, it was awesome.We went for round 2 which started with some more cbj action and some digits and she loved it.She got on top again and then we finshed with some doggy style and boy does she have a nice ass.Well if your ever in kinston and want to have a good time call up this little philly because you wont regret it at all.

Happy Birthday MisterT! Hope you receive a nice cake that you don't have to bake!

Happy Birthday Cutie! xox

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Happy Birthday Muffin Man !!! Buy you a belated Bday beer ....soon ! :chug:

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All one has to do is google them and tons of negative reviews pop up so like anything, buyer beware.

Happy Birthday! Mistert, Hope You Have A Great Day Filled With Tons Of Family, Friends, Fun, Love & Lots Of Laughs! Xo

happy birthday bud. hope you enjoy the day :)

Joyeux Noel mistert. No, wait, that's not right. How about bonne fete. :) It's been great to have met you at several socials and though I will not be at the next one, then perhaps another in the future. Have yourself a great day. Happy Birthday. MN2

Thank you guys for your input. " I believe that sometimes age can be understated and be compensated for, in my view, intelligence, experience and maturity." Personally, I try not to be too judgmental on people's age, but rather try to assess their level of maturity and them make a decision. I have been impressed many times with younger people that were mature beyond their years & not so impressed with older people that were acting like children. I understand some gents are comfortable with older ladies as they feel they can relate more to them and share life experiences. (That's exactly why I love meeting mature gents, I like learning through my and other people's experiences & enjoy stimulating conversations) This being said, sometimes we need to go out of our comfort zone. Who knows, you might find a delightful surprise.... ;)

Wishing you a wonderful n very happy bday !

Happy birthday mistert, Mister Tee, Mister Tea, Mr T, T-Man, T-Rex, T-dude, Tea Time, Mr, or just T for short. I hope you have a great day. Maybe a friendly Montreal lady will blow out your candle. Cheers buddy!

Happy Birthday mistert, hope you enjoy your day!

Have a blast day Mister! Happy Birthday to you!!

this is good advice. On re reading the OP's post, I don't really get the idea that he is looking for sps to discount their rates, but to find sps who provide at lower rates already? It begs the obvious question tho, what are those magical lower rates that he is looking for?

A lady won't reduce her fees because you have tough times. Instead they'll see a client who can afford her rate. If she sees you at a reduced rate because you are going through tough times then her income gets reduced and she may go through tough times And if she makes an exception for you, she'd have to make an exception for everyone Either stop partaking in this lifestyle if you can't afford it or save up money, and reduce the number of times a year you see ladies A rambling RG

25 years old seem to be a somewhat big turn point in this industry. I don't lie about my age and the day I started to advertise that I was 25 yrs old, compare to 24 (hell matter of a few weeks) I started to see a difference in my appointments. Generally a bit longer, more conversation share over coffee or a glass of wine compare to 30/60 min appointments where it's basically just sex. After talking to some gents it seem that some don't want to fuck someone that is younger than their own kid and well the interests of people tend to be different at 20 compare to 60

From what you say, it sounds to me like maybe things were a bit too rushed. She may have had second thoughts. Doesn't mean it's over, she may just need some time to reconsider.

I'm a life long Saints fan. Had gone on a trip back in 1976 to New Orleans and my parents took me to a game. The Saints lost of course, but I've been a fan of the team ever since. Managed to get back to New Orleans for a couple of games since, in between partying of course!

To the OP - You raised a controversial topic - well done. What does a church now represent?....an insurance problem, a liability, a homeless persons' refuge, a monument to a vague charity?.....what??!! What should a church do to satisfy everyone's needs? All the guy wanted was a few moments of dry. Instead all he got was get the hell outta here and a plastic bag. Church: Should it have a property protection program? Should it have a security system? Should it have locked doors after certain hours? Should it have cameras? Should it be an exclusive domain? Should it be open to abuse by thieves & vandals?

No. You've just had a revealing encounter with Modern Church: a combination club/community centre that's all about preserving privilege and enforcing rules. I think it's kind of funny that your brief rainy-day experience neatly encapsulates the reason why churches are dying today: you must meet them on their terms, or get out. At most you'll get a plastic bag as a token gesture of concern for your welfare. You got out. So do a lot of people, and not just on rainy days. There is exactly one hope for the Christian church today, and it's Pope Francis. And I say this as an atheist: that guy represents everything good about the church's potential. Go out and live in the community. Embrace people and love people, even those who don't follow all the rules you follow. Even people who are visibly deformed. Champion the poor and powerless. Provide an example of selflessness. Shun privilege, and live your ideals. And if someone approaches you in need, embrace them and help them. Don't put them to a test or send them into the rain. Because helping people is what you're THERE for. Now, ANYbody should be doing this; but Francis embodies this inside a Christian context, and suggests an admirable direction and potential meaning for a very large club indeed. In an age of corporatism, greed, and materialism, we've got exactly one prominent example I know of that reminds us how human beings SHOULD interact: not with fear, but with concern, caring, and even love. Your encounter with this dubious building that happened to have religious decorations was none of those things. And that's revealing. Shame on the place, although the individuals involved were only acting from recent example. I hope it gets better now that it has Francis' example for a possible future.

I get that, I've done my share of going to church... I understand how it operates. You should see some of the churches or the houses that the priests live in, some are a little over the top... But that's a whole other issue. Just think it could have been handled better... All I'm going to say.

My thoughts exactly... If you don't want people in the church, lock the doors. I bet if the priest was there, I doubt you would be having a problem. If you weren't doing anything wrong and were quiet then I really don't see the issue... You think the lady would have been more Christian like... And in a church of all places lol

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May God bless Mr.'s Brady, Belichek and the entire New England Pariot Organization. Hopefully MrNice2 will some day see the error of his ways.....

It's a sad world and there are those who do steal, even from a church. The church has to protect itself. Until you are known to someone you are a stranger and do you trust strangers? Probably not. But you expect them to trust you. As for the two staff working at the church, they are there to do their jobs, not to watch over you Finally there may also be insurance concerns. What if you got injured in the church (slipped, fell etc) They could be opening up the church to a lawsuit. So long and short, yes they should have asked you to leave. It wasn't being rude, it was being prudent My opinion RG

No, you should not have been asked to leave. There were 2 people there to ensure you did nothing wrong and Christians should show compassion and care about others. It was raining and they should have been more understanding about your situation.

Avoid avoid avoid!! They were here as well in Winnipeg. The girl said she was Israeli, I don't know if they have legitimate visas for salespeople. Extremely pushy and annoying. One was polishing the nails of a girl I was with. She was asking all kinds of personal inappropriate questions. The polishing kit looked like it was worth five bucks but they wanted seventy, then offered it for fifty. It was just a little half ounce bottle of oil and a tiny sponge pad. Ridiculous. Yeah she wanted my credit card before she would clearly say what the price was. I can see how abuse could happen. Another woman I know said they were so rude she had complained to the mall management. They told her she wasn't the only one to complain.

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I have had the pleasure of being with Lexi, and she is absolutely amazing! She is sweet, beautiful blue eyes, her breasts are simply perfect... not to enter into details, but she gets wet and her nipples hard, she enjoys what she does, and she is worth every effort to see her. My only concern about her pictures it's that they do her no justice.

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I've seen a a number of SP's and liked some, some were average, and some where I wish I had just stayed home. Paige though was excellent and has been the only SP I have repeated with, and the 2nd time was even better than the first. She is a very beautiful girl, a great personality, a very nice body, and seems like she is actually enjoying herself. Her incall is a nicely renovated apartment. I would definitely give her my recommendation! A great experience.

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I was surprised recently when a potential client wrote that he didn't want to ask his regular paid companion to write him a reference. He said he didn't want her thinking that he was seeing other escorts. The girl in question I know to be very reference-friendly, but he said he didn't want any drama. I am horrified. If I knew my clients were telling other escorts that I would cause drama and be hurt and upset that he was seeing other girls, I would be furious. That is NOT an image I want projected to the CERB community, particularly as it does NOT represent me fairly. That kind of image does an escort a huge disservice, and hurts her business and reputation. It also creates conflict amongst the girls. If other escorts thought I was a jealous drama queen, I would be mortified. By claiming to protect her 'feelings', this client is being extremely condescending and insulting. These kinds of assumptions about possessiveness and territory are damaging to the SP, and reinforce the stereotype that escorts are emotionally unstable. If you like us (and we're glad that you do!) please HELP us create a great reputation. There is nothing worse than having bad word of mouth, especially initiated by clients who are our fans. The idea that we are romantically or emotionally attached to our clients is generally false. The idea that we don't want clients seeing other girls is false (and kind of funny). We work so hard to make CERB and the escorting community a positive, honest environment. I would hate to think that these assumptions are reversing our progress. Your SP doesn't mind that you see other girls. What she does mind is the damage to her reputation inflicted by this kind of client.

SP's see lots of "other" men. That's obvious. This is their business, but they try to make each of their clients feel special. Most clients see "other" sp's and hopefully we all treat our sp's respectfully and also try to make them feel special. Sometimes an sp and client "click" a bit more than they do with others, but if you're mature about what's going on, this can't be confused with any kind of exclusive relationship. I think some of the men who see sp's haven't really absorbed the fact that women, just like men, can separate sex from emotions. That may lead them to feel uncomfortable asking for a recommendation. Obviously as many have pointed out, that shouldn't be the case. In fact my experience has been the opposite. Many of the women I've seen have in fact recommended other sp's to me! What could be better! Or we know the same people through this business. That's fun too. It's always nice to know some one in common. Any one who is uncomfortable asking for a recommendation should spend a little more time on here reading the comments from the sp's ro spend time while you are with your sp talking abou the business. You won't see any competition between them or any expectation of exclusivity by their clients. Many of the them know and respect each other or are friends. The women are very open minded and mature about this business and the nature of their relationships with other sp's and clients. As a client, the sooner you adopt the same attitude, the sooner the door will open for you to a wider range of companionship.

I believe more than 90% of the times when we hear a gent say the lady who could provide a reference doesn't like him seeing other SP's means he has told her she is the only lady he frequents and don't want to be caught in his lie which does not necessarily and not likely means she would feel jealous about it.

When I was a dancer, there was a lot of competition and people thought they "owned" customers. Once, a gentleman asked me for a lapdance, and I obligued. We stayed for 5 songs in the champagne room. Then when I was in the dressing room, his regular dancer asked me: "Did you know he's my customer? I need my money! How much did he spend on you? He better have enough left for me!" I was also horrified. I find the attitude that we "own" customers and their wallet highly offensive! I've also had several gents decline to give a reference because they don't want their regular lady to know he's seeing a new lady. I've also had a handful of gents tell me: "Please don't tell *** I saw you because I don't want her to get upset." It is completely unreasonable for a lady to expect sexual and "financial" monogamy. My question to the gents is: "If your regular lady is so controlling that you can't see other women, why do you see her??"