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I don't mean to be a dick but your priorities are completely out of sync. If you don't have the money to get massages, do not get massages. This industry is does not provide things that you need to survive, it provides things you want. It is supported off clients disposable income, if you don't have the disposable part, please use it on things you need, not things you want. Save up until you can afford it, don't lose self-respect and ask for handouts. Go to pornhub and rub one out when you are feeling the urge to spend money you don't have and tell me if that doesn't make you see the situation a little bit clearer. You can survive man, focus on the here and now, save up, work on getting more income, then in the future get all the massages you want without the dread of knowing you don't have money for food for the rest of the month.

Most ladies always have times of the days or days were they offer a reduced fee.. check the adds.., but also be realistic font expect the service to be half the regular rate or for free. . We all have difficult times and bills to pay.. remember you workat any job.. how about your employer comes to you and say.. I am having rough times. . Can I pay you half per hr? Or even 2 dollar less? How would you feel?

to politely decline the request for an encounter, for whatever reason, please accept her decision politely. Please understand these decisions aren't made lightly and are the result of a number of considerations, often including but certainly not limited things such as... scheduling conflicts, personal reasons, communication styles, reference reports, posting style & history, a simple lack of chemistry... or a combination thereof. It's important to remember that a lady is balancing her requirement for income with her comfort level and her compatibility with suitors, and when the scale tips too far the wrong way, she is then faced with the delicate task of informing someone that they'd not be a good match. Interrogating a lady, insisting she provide reasons for her decision, & asking for reconsideration will rarely gain you ground, and will almost always result in a lady being very glad she made the aforementioned decision. It makes an already awkward situation even more unpleasant. Please know that a lady makes this decision carefully, and is considering your best interests as well as her own. Accept it graciously. Thank you :)

A very Happy Birthday to mistert! I pity the fool who doesn't wish him a Happy Birthday!!! :D

I can't see if I were declined for a date that I would at that point even want a date with that lady. Not a bash against anyone . I like a GFE, which for me is more than a menu, it involves a connection/chemistry...granted one that develops over time, but starts with the email exchanges. How can you have a GFE with a lady that right at the outset doesn't want to see you. There is a "relationship" aspect to a GFE one that couldn't exist if one of the parties doesn't want to be there This holds true with a first encounter, or with an lady you have seen multiple times. And personally, just my opinion, encounters have to be mutually beneficial, you the client must want to see the lady and the lady wants to see you. If one person, lady or gentlemen doesn't want to see the other, move on. There is no chemistry. I know for me if I was declined for a date or didn't want to see a lady for a date, the chemistry is gone (or never was there) and nothing brings it back. There are many SP's and Clients. If one declines you just move on, don't look back A morning rambling over coffee number two RG

I think a lady would be happy to provide you with a reference (I assume you are a good client ;-) ) and not get tired of doing so. It isn't just for you that a lady provides a reference. It is done by ladies to keep other ladies safe and vice versa. Ladies want to be safe. And they will be happy to do so because you are a client willing to be screened, a sign of being a good client. It won't annoy the lady being asked, because she may also require a reference for new clients for herself from other ladies. They do this to be safe, and ladies want each other to be safe. The only reference etiquette is to contact the lady you wish to use as a reference before you use her as a reference. That way the lady isn't contacted out of the blue by another lady about you, she will expect to be contacted. In short, don't worry about contacting a lady you have seen to be a reference. She will likely be very happy to do so if you were a good client A morning rambling RG

To me, you are over reacting and coming up with far fetched scenarios, but i am basing that on what you posted. You are in the middle of a conversation and it stops suddenly, not with you saying something off base and her saying, ok, bye, just mid way? Or you were having a conversation that came to its natural end and you end the conversation with a 'see you later'. One thing is not like the other. The first example tells me that her phone died, she might not have another one yet, and/or she might not have your number anywhere else to call you from a different line. Neither scenario or even your description of the relationship lead me to believe she dropped you like a hot potato. I don't want to ask how old you are, because it makes no sense that anyone over 18 would think that paying for a couple of meals is anything like taking you for a ride. if you go overboard, if you leave a bunch of messages or texts or anything that she gets later, you will regret it, believe me. Scale it back show some concern, what if she was in an accident, texting while driving, got mugged, fell down some stairs, or just can't pay her phone bill because she got set up in a bad plan and you and she have been cooing at each other with lengthy phone calls and texts she can't afford, and it may take days before she can make a payment to get her phone reconnected. When leaving a message, keep it brief and keep it simple. Don't leave a message asking if she thinks she wants to go slow, or stop seeing each other, or anything even remotely similar to that, or anything even remotely not just a concern that she is OK. ;)

It was yesterday..To have chose to extend my stay in Charlottetown and met wonderful people..Thank you

There has to be boundaries established in your business and personal life. They have to be separated. One thing to do is create a "vacation message" in your email. When a client sends you an email, they will receive this message and then understand you are gone away. If they get upset about how YOU didn't keep in touch while you were away, then there are some problems with that person and their expectations. When people act out this way, then it's time to take a step back. You do not owe them anything more than the time with you that they pay for. You are under no obligation to "keep in touch with them" outside of an appointment. Most people who have healthy boundaries will understand this. Clients included. If they can't understand the concept that you have a life outside of this business then it's time to re-evaluate the SP-client relationship. Perhaps time to move on from them. I've had to do this a few times and never looked back as some of these client relationships were taking on a life of their own and not in a good way for my mental or emotional health. I do a lot of meditation and am able to deal with these situations much better now.

Once in a while you come to realize that so many of our members really don't "get" the whole hobby experience, or rather, they understand that there are rules but believe they are somehow exempt. So let's help them. Let's give some handy tips to make this a more wonderful experience for all. This is a pleasant place so let's keep it constructive... and be aware that the rules shouldn't just be for clients, you can also add some helpful tips that may help a new provider too! Here goes: 1. Appointment time is at 2:00 pm, what time do I arrive? Ummmmm. Hmmmmm. What part of 2:00 pm is ambiguous? A 2 o'clock appointment means you are at her door at 2. Not 1:55, not 2:10. It's seems petty but when you screw up her schedule, you may be screwing up MY schedule. I may be the appointment at 3. I have things to do... and my schedule may not be as loosey goosey as yours. I may be using a very small window of time or I may have "commitments" that see me arriving like clockwork elsewhere. Regardless, when the little hand is at 2 and the big hand is at 12, be where you are supposed to be. 2. "I am awesomely wicked good in bed, and I often masturbate to pictures of myself nude, because I am that good looking. Can we negotiate a better rate?" In a word, No. Would you go to a restaurant and say, "I am a really good eater, can I get a better price on that steak?" Would you go to a lawyer and say, "I am an awesome criminal, can you represent me for free?" Would you go to the dentist and say, "My teeth are so bad that you should fix them all for $50!" A service provider gets paid at a set rate because she is a professional. She is good... no, not just good... wickedly awesome good, at what she does. Your part is the compensation, her part is the wicked awesome part. Pay the pretty lady and be happy. 3. Cleanliness is next to godliness. Ever step into an elevator and stand next to someone who smells like they have never met a bar of soap they liked? Ever met someone that looked like they were an extra in the Walking Dead? Have you ever gone into a bathroom after someone and wondered if they ate something dead? Step one. Go to the potty. Do your business. Wipe. Wipe again. Wipe again. and then, wipe again. Do the optical test. Last wipe. Is there any residue? If yes, start over. If no, then proceed to step two. Step Two. Shower. Clean EVERYWHERE. Rinse. Repeat. Did you pay attention to anywhere in particular??? Hmmm??? Go back to those places. Make em sparkle. (at this point I do suggest that artificial glitter is NOT necessary.) Get out of the shower. Towel dry (for pete's sake use a clean towel!)... apply a generous amount of deodorant/anti-perspirant. Brush your teeth. (if additional grooming is required, please do that too.) Step three. Clothing. Go to the place where you keep your clean clothes. No. Not the place where you put the stuff that you THINK you can wear again. The CLEAN clothes. You know that stuff that you just took from the dryer and folded nicely?? That's the stuff. Wear that shit. Uh oh... what if I have to do step one again?? Then repeat ALL the steps. Cuz skidmarks are not sexy. Febreeze showers are not acceptable. 4. I have to cancel, what do I do? Give your head a smack. With a hammer. Stop. Now take a pointy thing and stick it with great force into your upper thigh, avoiding the artery. Now, go to your car. Start it. Open the door, put your foot beneath a tire and have someone put that car in reverse. Cancellations? NOT COOL. We all know that shit happens. A death in the family. A sick kid. Decapitation with farm machinery. Thermonuclear war. Explosion of your planet from a death star ray. That shit is acceptable.... but you still owe the pretty lady an explanation AND a cancellation fee. When you cancel, providers don't eat. When providers don't eat they get distended bellies and look like kids from the CARE commercials. When you cancel, providers give not only you, but also your city, a bad reputation. This makes you masturbate more. Because you will never get laid again. Ever. You will over develop muscles in only one arm. Your clothes will fit poorly. People will figure it out and suspect you are the notorious masturbating king of cancellations. They will hunt you down and kill your family. Let's keep little Bobby and Joanie safe. If you make an appointment, keep that appointment. Your family will love you for it. 5. "I'm a little short on cash. Do you think she will notice if the envelope is a bit short?" In a word, yes. She will also point out that your penis is a bit short.... and that your skill level is a bit short... and that you cry like a bitch when you have your pathetic little man-gasm. Do you want that??? Do YOU WANT THAT, bitch??? Wow. That was a bit over-emphatic. Gonna step away from the computer and take a valium. BACK!!!! Where were we... yes. Shorting your provider. Not COOL. Remember, providers have special powers. They communicate telepathically. As soon as you walk out that door, she will know and so will all of her allies in the super friends. They will combine their superpowers and make sure that you never get wood again.... and if you do, it will be at inappropriate times... like at funerals or family gatherings or when talking to your grandfather or something like that. Seriously?? Give your head a shake. If you are short then GET the money and make sure you have it set aside BEFORE you book. You will have a wickedly awesome good time... just pay the pretty lady what you agreed to and enjoy! 6. Can I pay her in drugs? Hmmmm. Does your banker take drugs in lieu of money? Have you offered Rogers drugs in return for their cable/home phone/cell phone/internet bundle? When you get groceries at Loblaws, do they have a special drawer that says "financial equivalent in drugs?" You know the answer. "No, you addled-pated simpleton." Remember the distended belly part from above? Providers take cash because cash buys groceries, pays bills and looks pretty. Carrying cash will not get you arrested. Using cash is the engine that runs our capitalist society. "All you need is cash, cash is all you need." The Beatles sang that, I think. Your turn....

Every time I saw her at EB I urged her to go independant, and finally she did! Arranged a meeting easily through texts and phone. She doesn't have a permanent incall yet as she is doing this on an ad-hoc basis. Riley looks very much like Katy Perry, medium height, medium build with lovely bosom, lustrous long dark hair, quite pretty. This coupled with a very engaging charismatic persona. She's also very chatty, not the wham-bam-thank you ma'm type. I guess she's in her early thirties. She made me think of a Southern Belle type of lady, a kind we don't have much in Winnipeg. When I arrived she greeted me like a long lost friend and we had a good chat before getting down to business. After a quick massage she treated me to an excellent cbj and then hopped on top for some great cowgirl...nothing beats a well endowed girl on top of you waving her assets in your face. Excellent, totally excellent! Two hours is a good session, take your time and enjoy yourself.

"We are people too and we are workers and we want the same rights as any other worker" I love this video so much! Information about prostitution in New Zealand: https://docs.google.com/file/d/0B3mqMOhRg5FeQ3lFVDZVSkZscWM/edit

Happy Birthday Mistert - Hope your day was memorable!

Bonne fete, MisterT!!! Xo

Happy Birthday. Hope you have a great one :)

I think Midnite-Massage needs more mentioning in this thread. Absolutely incredible. Additional Comments: I think Midnite-Massage needs more mentioning in this thread. Absolutely incredible.

If you want someone mature, ie: late 30's, I could highly recommend trishthedsh. She has a profile here on CERB. Bubbly happy blonde.

My very best birthday wish to Cerb's own great chef and social planner. Best, toine

Happy Birthday, Hope you have a spectacular day Mistert.

I haven't met her (yet!) but KatiePie also seems to fit the bill.

Happy birthday!!...Dance like no one's watching, mon ami :)

Again? You must be getting old! lol Have an awesome day. Be careful you don't overdo sightseeing and stress your eyes!!

Bonne fete Mistert!

I hope your day is a reflection of all the smiles and positive energy you have helped others achieve through everything you do. Have a wonderful day!

Best wishes for a wonderful birthday!

happy birthday mistert have a good one

Happy Birthday MisterT.... May your day be amazing....

OMG, hands down Careless Whispers

Catching up on Breaking Bad episodes... Yes, I know I'm late on this one. Netflix rocks! Jas xo.

A long time ago I worked for a company where I had gotten a promotion. I turned loss into profit, tripled sales and brought quality standard back. I was motivated, to prove some doubters wrong. There were a few coworkers and even some upper management that just gave me a really hard time. It was obvious they did not like me. I had never done anything to them and always tried to please them. I eventual burned out and quit. I used to dwell and ask myself why, until someone explained this to me. If I were to take 10 random people and put them in a room with me 4 of the ten would like me, 4 would hate me and 2 just wouldn't care. So 6 of those people you don't need in your life. He went on to explain this was the results of some university social experiments conducted. Now I don't know if its true or how reliable these statistic are, but I chose to believe it. Now when I meet someone who seem like they don't like me I just chalk it up as one of those 6 people, It just is. So guys if your rejected just think of them as one of the 6 people who you don't need. How much fun can you have if that person doesn't like you? Its sad and it may suck but it's just a fact of life not everybody going to like you. Easier just to move on.

I have no ideas of her weight and this is irrelevant (plus 115 and at least D boobs is REALLY rare) but Gia Wren Marlowe is a spinner with more than lovely natural big breasts Saying they are a work of art is an understatement

I really enjoyed watching the video. Thanks for sharing, Kerri.

I like your questions, and I agree it's cool that the OP raised an complicated (and yes, possibly controversial) question. Happily it's a civil place so this could be interesting. But I'd phrase the question above differently. I don't actually expect the church to satisfy *everyone's* needs; but I do require it to be true to its own philosophy. If a religion's core philosophy is to care for the weak and powerless, to value love over power, and to be in the community and amongst the people... then it needs to exemplify that, especially in its "home base" buildings. Turning away someone who needs shelter from the rain is a failure as measured by the church's own rules. And once you're not true to your philosophy, but instead they're just vague principles you discard when it's inconvenient, then... well, okay. Now you're just a fancy clubhouse with some odd interior decoration. Forfeit your tax exemption and go into business like everyone else.

Personally I've seen ladies mid twenties to fifties. But I am more comfortable with ladies in their thirties and up. I find I have more things in common we can talk about. Things a fifty three year old man couldn't talk about with someone twenty years old and vice versa And a teenager, eighteen, nineteen years old, no way....may be legal but absolutely too young for me. Anyhow, that's my comfort zone age wise in seeing ladies A rambling RG

I would give her some space. See where things go...

First there may be a reasonable explanation, and she hasn't been able to get in touch yet. A broken or lost cell phone which hasn't been replaced yet may be a reason, and she has your contact info in there. Maybe she did think things were going too fast as Cato suggests. As for phone call frequency people are different. One girl I dated wanted calls every day, another just once a week. Maybe she thought the frequency was too much especially after being single and unattached (I'm assuming you met a single unattached women) Give her a week, let her get a hold of you. If she doesn't, then it wasn't meant to be, if she does, the reason she stood you up may be perfectly innocent. RG

I always thought a church was supposed to be a haven and a refuge for anyone. As the song said, "Anyone is welcome to come in and sit down and pray." If you had taken a pew and assumed the position would they have bothered you I wonder?

He'll find out ladies have condom shock too....anyone who refuses to wear a condom shocks them so much that date declined, and maybe name put on the bad date list RG

But one would be more inclined to walk into a church than i would a business... I would have no problem approaching a church than a business to keep shelter... The church is much more welcoming. So I'm assuming now a days they are not? If you don't want people in lock the doors, the caretaker came in from another entrance. Don't think you can compare it to a business, unless the church is there to make money... I agree they have to take care of the place and watch for theives and vandalism but this wasn't the case for this gentleman... Trying to take shelter from the rain, not much too ask.

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Sadly, these days the church is not as open as once was. With so many vandals, and thefts it has made it difficult to trust people who otherwise are merely seeking shelter or even quietude. Long are days past that we are free to roam into a church with no services or programs happening. The door was probably left open by accident. Should you asked to leave, probably not. But the fact is the lady was probably nervous of your intentions, even tho looks to be self explanatory . Few years ago, a grand Cathedral in Moncton became a target to a group of youths who got into the church, spray painted the alter with upside down crosses, stole and broke many items, even pissed in the holy water:( So I cant blame the church for protecting themselves. Shows the sad state of our society's respect and ethics for sure!

I got my first nice compliment, but that was after my trip to the grow up, oops, op.!

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Seems to me that some clients demand 100% satisfaction or else they consider they session a total failure and want their money back. These are the same goofs who waste time at the cashier because they want five cents off their potato or whatever. If you cannot allow that occasionally things don't work out then grow up. And if losing $200 or $300 is a financial disaster you shouldn't be seeing escorts.

Jessicasugarbabe is a delightful young lady. Very pretty face and lovely long red hair. She made me feel very relaxed and welcome. She is happy and bubbly and easy to talk with. She has a couple of tasteful tattoos and her tight little spinner body is all natural. I generally don't see 24 year olds because at my age (58 )it feels a little creepy. But Jessica is very mature and made our hour session very relaxed and the time flashed by very quickly. I won't go into the exact details but this young lady is very skilled! Welcome back to K-town Jess!! The local boys are lucky you have returned!

Alright so I texted her earlier today asking her services. She texted me them back and we agreed to meet in the afternoon. Had researched her online before and knew exactly what I was getting myself into.. Asked for her address 30 min prior and she promptly responded w it. Msg'd her when I arrived for the buzz and another prompt response. When I walked in I saw this gorgeous brunette wearing fishnet stockings and this hot top I asked her to wear for me. Well after I gave her the donation we went right into lfk on the couch and she asked me to remove my pants.. Which I gladly did! She then started stroking me and went right into the bbbj. She said she loves to suck dick and it really showed lol. I shot pretty quickly as she has a tongue piercing and that just gets me going even more!! After she went to the washroom to spit that out we started lfk again. I then asked if I could lick her pussy and she said np, we went into 69 for a bit until she almost made me pop again! Had to put the hat on and start going at it haha. Man her pussy is delightful. She's had a couple of kids but it just felt amazing down there. After a couple of positions I popped again. Little bit of clean up and talking after this until I could handle going again lol. She gave me another bbbj for what felt like 15-20 minutes. My guy just would not go again despite the fantastic head I was receiving. She was deepthroating me and licking my cock w that tongue stud... Not even sure how I did not go lol but I did jerk off a few times this morning so that probably wasn't a good idea :( She also mentioned she's getting some implants in less than a week so can't wait to play w those!! Probably the best SP I've ever seen and can't wait to see her again :D She is such a sweetheart

She gives very good service and is a sweety.

I find it funny as some people are making it sound like they feel that they are cheeting on an SP? :icon_confused: Is that not the hole point of this website so that there is no guilty feeling and to try new things? :sadomaso: