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I get what you're saying, some sort of acknowledgement your message was received is always appreciated.... BUT .... unless you specify in your message that it's ok to respond at any time, you really shouldn't expect a lady to do so after some time has passed. Most ladies won't respond after a couple of hours because they aren't sure if it's safe. You might have sat down for dinner with your wife and kids since then. Always best to offer a window... such as "Please don't respond after 5pm" or "ok to respond any time this evening" ... you'll be surprised how much difference it makes :)

awwwww screwed up the poll part nevermind ;)

That would cost a lot more, because you need Goose and Maverick to fly the plane for you And they cost a lot, and being older now, the need for speed may be gone in them LOL Court seems cheaper RG

Well it might take a little more than a couple million.... but if you shared with me :) I would buy the plane I always wanted and take Peter water skiing for a long while ;) Cause I am fun like that............

Awesome !!!! For this Redneck it is fantabulous to have some potential dates well in advance to pre-plan :) And I am working on transportation plans following wine and appies.....to avoid injuries in the future.....that get blamed on me ? ;) SCOOTERS !! For you Emily.......my Aunt Edna's power unit ..........with GPS !!! and for MEEEEEE. I'll bring my own personal slower pace unit so I can drink and scoot ;) hehehe Look forward to an awesome run show again Mr. T and Skates !!! You take great care of the Cerb ladies and us perverts !!!

"Tell me you're worth it." SPs don't have to prove anything only the fact that they provide a good service and make a client feel welcome and comfortable.

Saw her today, pics are legit, overall good experience. She has a cat with her though, so if you are allergic, keep that in mind.

Worst. Poll. Ever. :p :p :biggrin:

Greetings Gentleman, Are you seeking a fun and sexy escapade that is sure to take you to new heights in absolute mind and body relaxation? I take pleasure in catering to those that seek a sensual playtime, but with the highest attention in quality and discretion. I'm a fit and charming beauty, with plenty of energy that I know how to direct. ;) Please take a moment to join me from my comfortable retreat in the west end. We all need to take a moment to ourselves to escape the every day.... My schedule this week. Mon- Friday: 9:00am-9pm. My recommendations: [/i]http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...t=sensual+erin Please feel free to introduce yourself by pm or email to [email protected] for the rest of my details. I look forward to hearing from you! Yours, Erin xoxo

Hi Rebecca, It is certainly not for the classy individuals like you appear to be to be nickel and dimming and entertain anything similar. With a full service provider, one should have more class and not try bargaining for this or that. Don't entertain such requests, and you will have a respectful clientele! Take care

I really hate to sound preachy or bitchy, but the biggest turn-off for me are clients who decline my offer for them to use my washroom to wash their hands. Or those who do, who only let the water run for a few seconds without using hot water or soap. Then later insist on digits. Sorry, not going to happen. The worst is when he replies, "no I don't need to, I just showered before coming here". Do you not realize that I am probably not interested in being fingered by hands after having touched everything en route (e.g. door handles, steering wheel, cell phone, and God knows what else). Perhaps I will start stocking latex gloves.

2 min flat, and here comes the rain shower lol. Yes I can squirt, if I do it myself then 100% can, sometimes I can when someone else does it either with sex or with fingers. With that said, I do not care for fingering, unless is my own hand.

In keeping with upholding & supporting future law in Canada, I want to provide law enforcement with an easy & convenient way of identifying Johns & Prostitutes. Johns: They look like your everyday, normal neighbours. They often walk their dogs and wear cardigans and rubber boots. Very sensible clothing. They also sport an unlit tobacco pipe just to make everything seem normal. Their names often start with John, Jack...names that start with "J". They cut the lawn religiously every Wednesday evening and take the garbage out in keeping with the local by-laws. They look like you and me, but they lead a secret life. Prostitutes: These individuals are a different breed. They look like your everyday, normal neighbours. They are often the target of hostile political movements which suit the moment. Sucks eh? Prostitutes also cut the lawn and take out the garbage in keeping with local by-laws. They look like you and me, but they lead a secret life. Hope this helps the Harper government in passing the new laws. Lock your doors everyone.

to politely decline the request for an encounter, for whatever reason, please accept her decision politely. Please understand these decisions aren't made lightly and are the result of a number of considerations, often including but certainly not limited things such as... scheduling conflicts, personal reasons, communication styles, reference reports, posting style & history, a simple lack of chemistry... or a combination thereof. It's important to remember that a lady is balancing her requirement for income with her comfort level and her compatibility with suitors, and when the scale tips too far the wrong way, she is then faced with the delicate task of informing someone that they'd not be a good match. Interrogating a lady, insisting she provide reasons for her decision, & asking for reconsideration will rarely gain you ground, and will almost always result in a lady being very glad she made the aforementioned decision. It makes an already awkward situation even more unpleasant. Please know that a lady makes this decision carefully, and is considering your best interests as well as her own. Accept it graciously. Thank you :)

It seems like the Belleville area is completely dry.. I can't seem to find anyone still working in the area. Even CL doesn't seem to have actual SPs on it, more scams than anything. Hopefully some of the Lovely ladies in the area get word out to us soon.. It's getting harder and harder to commute for fun..

Client verification is a huge concern for me as well however I don't have a reputation yet either so I felt asking for information that may be considered "too" personal was not the way to go for me. I decided on using Sp references for verification in combination with board handle and verified white list services like P411. I do hope that in time, I may be able to require more information with out reputation concerns should I feel that I need to. However, stating all of that, I think that if you feel you need a certain check list of items before meeting someone, then you should ask for it. Clearly women are able to request this information and are getting it. I can't say for certain if the volume of inquires will change based on the amount of information required and that may be something that you may need to look at before hand and therefore may be able to deflect that possible loss in volume with adjustments to service, rates or location. I think the only way you can really ask for the information is simply ask for it and not accept less then what you feel comfortable it. I think that providing a online information and booking request email form on your site as the only method of contact helps in this manner and seems to be what most of the providers do who are looking for this same type of client verification. This way you are not left in uncomfortable situations in text or on the phone trying to ask for this information. Good luck

Have you checked your settings? Settings / messages / Send & Receive You should see a check mark beside.....you can be reached by Imessage at..... Your # and also you should see a check mark under start new conversations from..... Your # checked. I know there was some issues with the server down briefly, but other than that I have had absolutely no problem with messages going as iMessage. Group has also been working with no problems. If all fails, always try a shut down, this tends to solve a lot of the hiccups. Hope this helped :)

Although not the intent of this thread (I think LOL) there is another time a lady may wish to decide to no longer see you. And that is in the case of a lady when she retires. At that point she is turning another chapter in her life, and may wish no contact/reminders of her life as a SP. I know of a certain special lady, who I have fond memories of. She retired and now has another life. I felt special, she kept a planned encounter even though she was winding down her SP career...in fact I think our encounter was her last date. We used the encounter amongst other things, to give her a retirement gift. I told her she had my permission to keep my contact information, just in case she chose to return to this lifestyle. I never asked nor was offered her information. If she wanted me to know it she would have let me know. But she retired and has another chapter in her life But people need to respect other's choices so if no longer wishes to see you, that needs to be respected A rambling RG

Get a ladle, remove some of the juice And are you cooking on low or high?...if high reduce to low Remember the lid keeps the moisture in so even with some liquid removed the remaining liquid doesn't cook off A rambling from Chef Boy RG LOL

Another slow cooker recipe-glazed ribs with red wine and balsamic vinegar Never tried it before, we'll see how it goes Apartment smells real good now, smell of red wine RG

I would split it. If it was a large sum, I would probably want them to cash it in to be honest. I am a very private person and I don't want the spotlight. So I would be trusting them to give me half anyway. On the matter of giving the gift to someone, I would be upset if someone won a large amount and didn't share. Not because I would want the money but because I would be disappointed in my choice of friend. For someone in my life that I choose to have there to be that kind of selfish would be upsetting.

If I was going to get a couple million out of it, I would. Then issue a statement, that I'm still a perv, I want a nice encounter out with a "poor victimized" ladies with her consent of course, ;-) Mackay, come charge me...Supreme Court here we come. I'm retired, got the time and money LOL RG

Great evening ..lovely ladies and excellent hosts. I had an enjoyable evening meeting new folks..THANKS ALL

When giving a massage, and I reach the buttocks, and give it a good rub, spread the cheeks and all I can see and smell is dirty bum:( That smell will linger everywhere!!! So yes you just took a shower, why did you not clean in there? Getting into a shower for 2 is funny sometimes too. When your guest all of a sudden turns into a statue arms out, and I am having to say ok, get your back wet so I can wash you...now turn around...now lift your arm....now rinse...like am I wash a little boy? Is odd to me?? Why all of a sudden do you forget how to shower? I just try to make them relax and get playful, but doesn't always work that way. Here is a bad one....when you see *something* and the person says it is a skin tag....ummmm, no....it looks like cauliflower! There is a clear distinction in what they look like! Guess your never getting anything but a massage with me . Makes me wonder how many times they told a lady it is a skin tag? How many believed him?

If gifted a lottery ticket, it would depend on the amount. With an amount like $10 no, it's so small an amount I would keep it. But a larger amount, $100 up split it, or well in the case of something like $100, pick up the phone, say I'm taking you out for a nice dinner using the money for dinner No matter the amount I would let the person know. RG

Getting "Teased" by Miss Gabriella Laurence, she is very good at it, I think I might of under estimated her.:)

http://www.iflscience.com/technology/automatic-sperm-extractor-introduced-chinese-hospital Actually, I wonder how much one costs. Maybe I could install one in the garage for all those guys who call, insisting they only need ten minutes and want a bargain. Seems ideal for that lot.

Bianca, you were missed! At this stage, it looks like either December 4th or 11th. Following thursday night, Loneskater and i have been toying with a few ideas for the christmas social (we did get great input and ideas, so we were thinking of setting something different), but we need to get organized again and get going even earlier to make it happen. Expect something fairly soon.

Peachy gave good advice, I have had one extended vacation with a gentleman, one week together and I had not met him previously (wont do that again). We exchanged emails and lots of phone call to arrange that getaway. Although we connected really good on the phone, there were a few ackward moments during my stay...the gentleman didnt communicate very well lol...quiet type i would say but if things are not said it creates tension and drama...no one wants that on a vacation... Anyhow...yes it's doable with someone you connect really good. So like many have mentionned..the secret is good planning and communication :) Bianca

Emma Stone or Isla Fisher

I decided to pay my first visit to Tease on Amateur Night last night. I enjoyed the club- it has a laid back atmosphere and everyone was very friendly. You know the old strip club cliché that the waitresses are sometimes prettier than the dancers? Well last night some of the cute wait staff joined in on the fun and took off all their clothes and interacted with each other on stage... It was entertaining - I had not been to an amateur night before and they seem less common in strip clubs these days.

Good on ya RG. These sound like really great times spent together. You strike me as a guy who has a thorough grasp of the relationships involved, the little considerations that come with mutual respect, and a good sense of boundaries and allowances for your partner. I'm sure you and your companion are enjoying these times together to the fullest. If there were client recommendation sites, I'm sure you'd have a long list of glowing stories under your name. ;) Lots of wishes for more happy times ahead.

I took a girl to Banff for a week. We had always got along for 2 hours at a time but by the end of the first day it was a disaster. I knew things were going to be bad when she yelled at me for leaving the toilet seat up. Took my ATF to London UK for a week and it was great. So there you go. I had a lot more fun than I would have going alone, and the frikkin single supplement on rooms and vacation is brutal anyway. If you are not on a real name basis I do not think you should be travelling over borders especially USA. Very common for ICE to try and trip you up, all kinds of questions about how long you have known this person, what is your relationship, where are you staying, where does he/she work. UK customs are far more welcoming.

Penis pictures. I probably said it before but worth saying again. No pictures please.

I Have A Few Times..But With Clients I Knew & Were Comfortable With/Around. My God Was It An Awesome Experience..I Loved Every Minute Of It! But Also As Mentioned By Other Wonderful Ladies, I Myself As Well Would Not Feel Comfortable With Someone New I Just Met Or Yet To See Even Once.

She's well worth it.

Another great social but that's no surprise. You guys always do the most amazing job. I'm in see at how well things run -- you are always on top of everything. Thanks so much for taking the time to do this ..I forgot my sweets :'(

i would go and see Raquel in St Vital, she is great and well worth it, good neighborhood and a fantastic lady , you'll have a great time

I think a lady would be happy to provide you with a reference (I assume you are a good client ;-) ) and not get tired of doing so. It isn't just for you that a lady provides a reference. It is done by ladies to keep other ladies safe and vice versa. Ladies want to be safe. And they will be happy to do so because you are a client willing to be screened, a sign of being a good client. It won't annoy the lady being asked, because she may also require a reference for new clients for herself from other ladies. They do this to be safe, and ladies want each other to be safe. The only reference etiquette is to contact the lady you wish to use as a reference before you use her as a reference. That way the lady isn't contacted out of the blue by another lady about you, she will expect to be contacted. In short, don't worry about contacting a lady you have seen to be a reference. She will likely be very happy to do so if you were a good client A morning rambling RG

I personally wouldn't bother wasting time practising the requested look and, at the same time, invest money in make up products I might never use again. I would just have the requested look done by a pro right before the appointment :)

I've experienced this as well. I just tell them I don't do it. They don't get the fact that I offer an experience and I don't provide just "only services". We as SP are entitled to run business our own way but some guys will try to take the extra mile even if an SP is already providing lets say a certain amount of time or an only service. I just tell them there are plenty of other people out there who may provide what they want and say goodbye. It will be interesting to see how people who negotiate will be able to do this once new laws are passed. Stick to your guns. There are low ballers everywhere. We are not a restaurant, we are not tires, we are offering an encounter of an intimate nature and to me (and this is JMO and my opinion only in case anyone decides to twist my words again or infer that I'm insulting them) the experience of seeing an SP has gone by the way side. I'm old school. This new wave of clients I do not understand and do not care to understand because of how I run my business and what I'm accustomed to. I don't feel I'm missing out by not offering these only services. If another SP wants to do that, that's her perogative. There are plenty of gentlemen who enjoy spending time with a woman all inclusive and not trying to "take the potato out of the meal" for a less expensive price. Life doesn't work that way. At least not where intimacy is concerned in my world. To each their own but I know how I like to run my business and won't have someone tell me otherwise or that my rates are too high because they want to save a few bucks. You get what you pay for. If $20 for example is a big deal then they need it more than I do. Sorry but true. This is a luxury service, not a need or necessity in life.

If going for option 2, doesn't hurt to ask if she is willing to do massage, but be prepared to pay her normal fee even if it's "just a bj" you expect as your happy ending. There are some SPs who offer massage ony services as well with different pricing, but they are usually explicit about what ending they provide - and if someone wants more, they need to respect her normal FS rate. To make things clear, I simply say I can offer an erotic rub-down as part of the experience, but don't claim to be a masseuse per se, but the rate is the same. If it's an MA they are seeking, I refer them to other ladies who I know are more adept in that department. I have been offered to do massage with manual ending for a lower price, but that's not my forte, so I'd rather pass because I am an SP, not an MA. And trying to negotiate my rate for whatever reason is a deal breaker for me. PERIOD!

Unfortunately, years later after I started that thread.. The problem is still there, and I know will always be there. I find lately an increase of people asking me (Im a SP) for MA service so wanted to have a "better" price. Ok.. Some Sps may offer those service with a MA price for it (massage only + hj) but Im a Sp so my rate are for my time!! I do offer massage as part of my services but my rate stay the same even if you dont want BJ or Fs. There is a plenty of MA advertising everyday I dont get why asking Sp to reduce her rate for it?

I travel to Ottawa regularly, and am able to provide all you have listed. If you'd like more information, please visit my website :) http://www.savannahlanel.ca

I agree that SP fees should not be negotiated. Anyone looking for less service that what is offered by the SP they choose to contact should pay the fee and enjoy the limited activities they want. If someone only wants a BJ or a HJ then there are plenty of other places to go where a la carte menus are available for that kind of thing. If you contact a full service provider, you should simply pay the full service rate requested without haggling. Negotiations are insulting. If the person negotiating is just cheap and looking to nickel and dime, then its best that all parties walk away early. The fee is for the time spent in the pleasure of the company of your chosen SP and not for any particular activity shared during your time together.