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I would most likely attend a Partay in the west end fellas. Seeing that I have already travelled 2400 kilometers :) And if any of you ladies would like to travel with me from downtown to Kanata, probably get lost and you'll chance the risk of injury....then I AM your guy ;) :chug:

All ladies on Cerb are wonderful . What may appeal to you will not appeal to another . Personally I find it offensive to think that I might be thought of as " worth seeing ". Perhaps ask questions about your particular interests instead of trying to determine " worth ".

People have become so comfortable with the way business has been run over the past couple of decades that they don`t even realize that the bulk of these services are done under illegal conditions already. Every single time you are in an incall, regardless of where it is (hotel/condo/house/car) you are breaking the law. Every time you pay the front desk of a massage parlour before seeing the person providing the services, you are assisting someone in breaking the law (living off the avails, procuring). Every time you met an sp in public first, and have any sort of discussion about the time to come, and at the same time exchange the $$ (discreetly) in a public place, you are breaking the public solicitation laws. People who aren't contacting indy sps for outcalls only have been breaking the law every single time, but we are complacent and comfortable doing this because LE doesn't investigate or charge these things. It doesn't make them different from the proposed C36, and sps and clients will adapt to these new conditions under which they have to proceed. When i started it was under the impression that what i was doing was illegal. It took some research before i realized that prostitution is legal in Canada, and more that the discussion of rates and services in phone calls was also legal. I continue to get new clients who believe it is completely illegal, based on current laws, and the idea that solicitation charges have to do with sex work itself, and not simply the fact it is public communication that is the criminal act. So i'm in the 'stop the fear mongering' camp. I find it pointless to assume that any indy sp is going to be harassed by LE to give up the names and contact info of any client. The whole C36 is useless due to the fact that it's most important premise is that no sps are allowed to be touched by or threatened with criminal charges or threats by LE. All it takes is one overreaching LE to try, and the civil rights folks are all over them. For any guy who wants to proceed with fighting charges, I think it is obvious that Alan Young plans to take on the case, and do it pro bono.

Katherine's has been among my fondest experiences of the year 2014. :) Mature service providers are fantastic people. You can ask about what kind of SP you would prefer to see without disrespecting any of them.

I have no issues with paying for a ticket - the more funds the merrier the social...

I don't have a problem with the location or the cost of a ticket. Kanata is a wee drive and there are plenty of us with cars to help with taking the downtown ladies out there along with several reputable drivers who would gladly drive as well... cat

You have to understand that massage attendents make their living on tips... and honestly if you are just looking for a massage... why not book a massage at one of the well stablished beauty spas or a massage therapist... why go to a massage/body rub parlour... what is the point...? unless you are going with the intention of getting more for less... rip off the attendent... The answer is yes... unfortunately I would not see you for just a massage because that wont pay my bills... food, mortgage, expenses... the answer is yes... you wont be liked at a massage parlor...

I have no troubles paying for a ticket. I would attend a west end social if there is transporation provided...cab are extremely expensive and taking a bus when you are all pretty up and heels is not really a fun experience, especially around rush hour

I dont mind paying either and yes it would incline the ladies who say they are coming to actually come lol... As for Kanata...well why not :) I could even tour there for an extra day ;) BJ

All I know is that the street I live on runs east and west. Anything beyond that is new to me. I like exploring new things! ;) The cost of the ticket is fine with me too.

There is a lot of speculation and fear mongering going on about c36, and honestly, I think a lot of people are putting far too much energy into worrying about it now. We don't know what's going to happen. We don't know if the bill will pass, and if it does, how they are going to enforce it. Incalls have been illegal all this time, and people have not worried about it nearly as much as the fear I'm noticing now. Discretion goes two ways, folks. I, like many other companions, do not wish to draw attention to myself that might end badly. And, if this bill passes, I will be taking measures to protect my privacy, which may include more in-depth screening so that I can assure my current guests of their privacy as well. Let's not needlessly panic and throw accusations at people. I don't agree with the threat of outing clients, as much as I can understand that it comes from a place of well-deserved anger at the hypocrisy of some lawmakers and politicians.

With all due respect, Mrrnice2, how do you know these "tactics" have not been used in the past or are not currently being used without bill C-36 even being law yet? Sex workers have always been put in a very delicate situation because of the existing laws (including prior to the Bedford decision) and bill C-36 (amended or not), when it actually becomes law, will still have potential nefarious consequences for us, no matter what. And the government will be one step closer to its intended goal by having others making decisions for the ladies involved, thinking and rationalizing for them and taking away their own personal choice(s)!

Ottawa is a unique city, in that you can travel from downtown to the east or west ends of the city (depending on time of day) within 20minutes. Kanata area has a few Hotels from the Brookstreet to a Holiday Inn Express and others. If people are going out for dinner before the social Kanata Centrum area has numerous restaurants. I think you will always have people against the move, or trying to swing the location to their area. I believe firmly, that if the organizers state " we have found a new venue located in Ottawa' west end" your attendees will follow, let's face it, the socials for most attendees are for a good time and to meet and greet. From my personal opinion, I attended the Christmas social, and I thought the price was low already for admission that is why I contributed a gift card for VS as a door prize. So lifting the admission price another 15 bucks is minor especially if it's assisting others for a "designated driver " ;) As for ladies not showing up and I'm sure some with valid reasons I think you should ask for a ten spot to hold their place, and if the facility can hold a certain number ie 80 max use a formula of 35 gents 35 booked ladies and 10 more ladies, does the number of invitees need to be an even split? Let's face it more ladies the better right?? Anyways my thoughts on it.

Sunman01, you might want to do a little research in the New Brunswick recommendation section and see if any of the beautiful recommended ladies pique your interest: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=260 Good luck in your search!

I realize you are new to the board Sunman01 and am willing to give you the benefit of the doubt that you did not mean anything offensive by your wording but be advised I was taken back by it even before I read Katherine's well stated post. Just keep in mind that when we talk about respect we mean it as a full meal deal. Is is always to be displayed whether it be posts, private messages, emails, texts, enquirers, setting up a visit, punctuality, hygiene, courtesy, saying thank-you, understanding boundaries, discretion, everything. The ladies are great and they deserve our respect and appreciation. I can attest from my own personal experience that simple respect and courtesy leads to more rewarding experiences and all the more fun! :)

Just as general info and not necessarily for the social, I mentioned UBER in my original post. Its a service that replaces taxi and is now available in Ottawa. Here is the website link: https://www.uber.com/ They have apps for Smartphones as well!

I am willing to pay I think is a great idea and having some sort of entertainment would be great.. specially being xmas time, make it a more special event. .. Also being xmas time transportation issue is even easier. . Operation red nose is available. .. u get to drive there n get driven back to your destination. . While helping a good cause.

We have the developers looking into it and the FMS server host company (flash media server) and no one knows why it is not working yet. ;( maybe it is time to change the chat room.

I voted for the west end. You have indicated that the venue has advantages. Car pooling seems like a good option, maybe giving a break for the DD, or at that time of the year there's always Operation Red Nose. Cabs can be expensive, but hey it's Xmas and there's only one party like this every year. Unfortunately, the other problem of no shows is a far more difficult problem. I don't think a $10 charge is probably a sufficient deterrent. I would suggest making it very clear that they will be black listed for future socials unless they give a heads up so that other ladies have the opportunity to attend. I've got a few extra beds if anyone needs to crash.

I probably would not come if the social was in Kanata. I livd on the opposite side of the city and getting there would be a pain. At the most I would only attend one a year.. But that might be good lol As far as paying, I don't see shy issue with that. People in general, but especially in this industry, should know better than to no show.

to me if i can go don't matter where it is i always take a cab and i'll agree with the 10 spot for the ladies to hold a spot they would more likely to go if they paid for there spot

From Third reading http://www.parl.gc.ca/HousePublications/Publication.aspx?Pub=Hansard&Doc=122&Parl=41&Ses=2&Language=E&Mode=1

The smell and taste of banana bread. A genuine smile, giggle or laugh. Just one kiss...that kiss! Her scent.

Sex workers have operated in a world of serious legal ramifications for an eternity. To some how suggest that the world is about to end and that the wonderful ladies who we have trusted for years (and who have trusted us) will now be more likely to break our confidentiality just does not fly for me. The bottom line on this issue is an unjust law is about to be imposed and some of the individuals who are taking public positions in favour of this law have in the past participated in the same industry that they are demonizing and this has caused some to want to public call them out on the difference between what they say and what they do. I am not sure I agree that this is a great idea or that it will have any impact on the issue but I understand their frustration. Just my opinion

Being, "ready," for winter. Every stick of wood being inside and not only stacked but neatly stacked, and the furnace pipes taken down and cleaned and back in place. Bring it on. :) My daily picture of the day or video of the day of my new grandson who is growing like a weed! Those things make me smile and grateful both.

Touring can be lonely at times specially when visiting a new city...where to go, what to see...and by yourself it can be a long tour. This post is to mention 3 wonderfuls ladies I got the chance to spend time with in at johns and Halifax. These ladies made my trip so much more fun :) Savannah Lane...thank you for everything...you are a real friend! Can't wait to see you again and tour with you xxx Clarissa...well my dear...we need to go dancing more often :) thanks again for the ride back and forth to the airport :) you are one awesome lady! MsManda...it was so nice to meet you and spend some time with you shopping and dinning...Hope to see you very soon! Bianca xxx

Come on girls, leave the name Sophia alone. It is already taken by the best!!!

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I would attend it. But depending on how much more it would be. I had a great time at the last social.

I agree with the sentiments of others here. Fear mongering will manifest negativity and possibly a bad outcome. It is NOT an official law yet so lets try and not speculate something that hasn't even happened. Where there are laws, there will ALWAYS be loopholes. We will all adapt and adjust. Things will just be done a little bit differently. Despite what the government is proposing, we have all it had it very easy for a long, long time in comparison to other countries such as the USA. I look back and consider myself lucky that I've been able to the work the way I have. Instead of worrisome fear, why not discuss solutions if and when they do come into effect? I have many ideas that I plan to implement for myself and to ease clients fear of booking and much more of a higher need for discretion than ever. At least when and if it happens, we will be more prepared than feeling like deer caught in the headlights when it could become official. Embrace it instead of fearing it. While we can't control the outcome, we can control how we think and feel. Posted via Mobile Device

like honestly who who go there just for a massage not me

It has been awhile since I visited Pigale's on a Friday afternoon.....I avoid crowded and busy establishments, I arrived around 2ish and it was not overly busy as I remember in the past, it was perfect......the talent was amazing, the perfect mix of clients. Most of our favorite regulars were working today, but at times, it is nice to test other talent. Not too many of us like to eat pasta everyday right? I wish I had the time to test more, but the ones I did have the pleasure to have a dance (and also converse at the tables without dances......note-I do pay for a girls time at the table who actually chats), was probably one of the best times I have had here (or anywhere) in quite sometime. Many ladies mentioned that they will be back next week and if this is any indication, I will for sure revisit. Some VERY high mileage workers (if that is your thing) to enjoy, I am drawn to the traditional tease myself. I was with a couple friends and they indulged on the high mileage and raved about it. I got a handful of numbers from those who plan to be back, and from those who like to spend time with you outside the workplace. YMMV, I like to friend the ladies and joke and drink and take from there if they are my type.....to all of us, we each have our preferences and today, i think, would have covered everyone's cup of tea. I wish I could write today the names of the new ladies I chatted to and spent time with, I was a kid in a candy store today trying everything until the atm machine said "you have exceeded your daily cash limit".....thank God.....the names have been forgotten, the faces and times surely have not. What a great day! Had a blast and memorable time and felt I should share with everyone here and to my fellow hobbyists (we are getting rare) Cheers

The services-therapeutic section on CL is intended for massage therapists and other natural healing services. This is why ads with words like "escort" or "happy ending" or "full service" are blocked. Since it's a free site and not moderated, you can't really expect to be able to complain because we are not paying for it and not really intended for sex ads. I would not be comfortable sharing my "work-arounds" for CL on a public board. I think this thread should be moved to the SP only section if you expect other posters to share.

Even if the Bill DOES pass, there is still the chance that it STILL might be struck down by the Supreme court, just like it's predecessor. Just a thought. And yes I am also of the opinion that discretion must remain absolute, unless it involves a danger to life or safety.

One pot wonder. Cooked rice with chicken with mushrooms and preserved vegetables in one pot. Even ate out of it in-front of the TV.

Yes, chat server is down the company is working on it no eta sorry

Guiness Irish stew, in the crockpot as we speak!

Lunch menu was very good. Beef stew pie was excellent. The other menu was excellent too - Claire, Trixie, Anadia, Candy, Paris, Brandy, Emerald plus a few more.

Precisely !! If I want to meet someone.....I meet them !!! Distance is not the issue... my schedule is the bigger issue. I have to "forcefully" be patient !! I don't visit often anymore but a typical drive for me is 300 kms. An occasional visit closer but that is the norm. And more often as of late....... 2 hours and 40 minutes in a Boeing 737 ..... give or take a few minutes .... exceptions allowed for de-icing wings and shit like that ;)

I should have been more clear in my OP ... I am not looking to place blame on *****. All I'm saying is I want to report the vandalism, which I am certain occurred at that parking lot, but I was worried that I needed to be specific regarding my activities there. I came here to ask like-minded people (in the discussion forum of all places) how to go about the situation. Instead, I'm being unnecessarily judged on my choice of words.

Hockey Game Seven, Habs beat Boston in OT Shoot out or no shoot out to decide OT if tied.

Since my session ended, I often catch myself daydreaming about her. About her smokin' shape. How her firm body glistened as the soap bubbles streamed down her back. How she gently pulled me in close for a soft embrace. How her bodyslides... Some of it is just a blur. I know I felt comfortable from the moment I walked into the room, but I also know she could control me like a helpless puppet. She knew exactly how to make me feel like a man, and she exercised this skill like nobody else. Yes, she was unforgettable, but what fascinated me the most, was the stand up person that she clearly is outside of the spa. Talk to her for a few minutes, and find out for yourself. She's that professional with a secret naughty side that we all look for in a woman. See for yourself boys. You won't be disappointed. Your employer might be if you're caught daydreaming, but that's just the risk you take. Enjoy!

Hmmm. MN2 cheers for the wrong hockey team, the wrong CFL team, DEFINATELY the wrong NFL team but you know what..... After all that I still like him. He is a remarkable fella and Cerb is lucky to have his upbeat presence here.

I've been with the same woman for 31 years. She has my heart and the kind ladies of Cerb provide me with what my wife can't. I was single when I was in my twenties. I think it would kinda suck to be single in your fifties. Being attached as I approach retirement is better, for me.

Ditto for me too, been like that all day. Soon I'm thinking some people will be having withdrawal symptoms.

I think the issue here is that there are a number of ladies with different styles and interests and we do not all have the same business model. I am contacted at least once a day with someone asking for my "one hour rate" to which I constantly need to reiterate that I don't offer one hour dates as they are very different in nature than longer dates. When someone advertises 15min, 30min or 45min dates you can be sure that the lady is advertising a sexual service meaning the focus of the encounter is very specifically the sexual act. When ladies advertise longer dates and services as their main offering they are generally focused on the chemistry, the connection and more of a date feel. These are two very different types of services and very few ladies can effectively offer both as many ladies have said longer dates can be very emotionally exhausting and shorter dates can be very physically exhausting. In your post you highlight that you are looking for the longer date, the connection which in general will not be established in a date of less than one hour (and often 2hrs or more) so I'd guess you are not in the target market for the ladies that prefer to offer shorter dates. There are different markets for the various types of encounters and it's very important to seek out those that provide the type of experience you are seeking, otherwise you are likely to be disappointed with the outcome of your date. So I don't single out another lady I'll use myself as an example, please bear with me as I don't have much experience with the shorter date. I always advertise 2hrs or more, I do have discounted rates for multiple hours, my dinner date (half out half in) isn't even double my 2hr rate and often is longer than 4hrs as well and as such it's my most popular date. I offer that because I am trying to make it clear that I prefer a social engagement, I enjoy talking to my dates and getting to know them as individuals. I used to offer 1hr dates when I was with an agency and though I still met a number of wonderful people I always walked away from the date a bit uncomfortable, I felt awkward and I wasn't able to relax and enjoy my time with the person I was with, when it came to intimacy I never felt I could relax and enjoy myself as I didn't feel a particular level of trust with the person I was with. I'm not an extrovert, in fact I'm very introverted so for me the immediate intimacy of 1hr dates was difficult. Now I know a number of good friends in the industry that have a completely opposite take on this business, one lady explained to me what she enjoyed best is the 'dirty' feeling of meeting someone new and having sex with them while not knowing much about them. Another lady said she finds it difficult in longer encounters to find that connection as she's in a different point in her life than most of her clients but they both enjoy sex and she can find that commonplace in a half hour or hour. So there are different ladies, different views and different approaches, one is not better than the other they are just tailored for different people and hopefully we all connect with the type of date we are looking for. Finally in regards to costing often you are paying a premium for longer dates rather than shorter ones. For my base city my $1500 for a dinner date is fairly average but my 2hr date of $900 is a premium. This has nothing to do with the amount of time I spend changing sheets, showering, etc. but is mainly based on the incentive to those that also enjoy social dates, it's a way of connecting with my preferred audience. In fact longer dates can take much more planning and work as most extended dates are prebooked and multiple emails (or phone calls) will be exchanged before one arrives at final plans. When a client is paying $1500 vs. $250 for a date there are higher expectations on the lady even though the lady at $250/hr may make more in gross profit than the lady at the higher rate. I know it's often expected of me to have nails, hair and makeup done, in general it's expected that I have a much more extensive wardrobe to allow me to easily blend with whatever environment I am invited to and those clothes are expected to be of a certain quality as well as I am expected to appear to match the clients social status - it generally isn't discrete to go to a fine dining restaurant with a lady half your age in a $30 dress when you are wearing something bespoke. So all in all the costs are different, how the ladies invest in their business is different and how they spend their time as well. I also don't spend a lot of my day sitting at an incall waiting for the phone to ring but the cost of that time is certainly calculated in how a lady with a different business model much the same as I calculate the time spent emailing with restaurant suggestions, verification, or concierge type services. *whew* end of my novel but I hope (if anyone bothered to read it) I have provided a little more insight into why ladies structure their businesses, both time and cost, the way they do.

I agree ! Quite simply a good post looking for opinions from people as to whether 45 minutes is an option, for those that maybe don't offer it now. Either an SP is interested or not interested and that is their perogative. There should NOT be criticism of ladies who offer short appointments......it should not be assumed that they are running the guys through the chute like cattle for money by the minute ...... They are offering a service to clients who have a time issue or a budget issue. That is how it should be looked at. If you have the opinion otherwise it does not need to be posted in this thread. Just keep that in the back or your mind. IMO

Maybe its just me, but I find this a really offensive statement of people who offer shorter sessions. Sorry, but providing a session that meets the needs of your clients is the goal of any business. No one who provides shorter sessions has spent time making derogatory comments about the people who prefer longer times lol, so I can't figure out why I keep seeing so many comments that seem to agree with this quote. I think you'd be surprised both at how much of a connection can be made in shorter sessions, simply because financially, it leads to a LOT of repetition.

I guess it all comes down to the time you have to spare and what you are up for :) I am open to it for sure.

Forty-five minutes seems about perfect to me, I'm not that interesting. I mentioned in another thread that sometimes I've received 45 minute sessions without even requesting them. Peace MG