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Personally, I do not list my rates on my website. There is a private section there with a password that you have to request to view detailed list of services and rates. I have listed my rates on Cerb with services but I don't like posting them on any other sites I advertise on. Once this law comes into effect, I will not be posting my services anymore in the private section. Currently I don't use email. I go solely on my intuition, talk to the person for a few minutes and it has served me well. I will not be texting anymore. The person will have to call me directly. I will tell the client in different terms what they can expect but it won't be that of an explicit sexual nature. However, I will not walk into an appt completely blind either. I do not want a client to expect something that I don't offer. I don't need those problems. For example I will say "I'm available to travel around the world twice in 45 mins or an hour but I don't travel to Greece." "I don't mind if you visit me in the Netherland regions." You get the idea and there are many clever ways to go about it. Perhaps I will write an erotic short story with a link to enhance the idea but you won't catch me discussing explicit services directly over the phone. I can be creative about it. There are ways to read between the lines and use non-explicit language to describe things. I'm sure many ladies won't be listing or discussing services with the use of acronyms anymore even though technically we are allowed to. I would just prefer to keep things discrete for myself and my clients. My website is very tasteful at the moment and I plan to keep it that way. Most potential clients will be able to distinguish who is legitimate and reputable along with an established history as opposed to the fly by nights and the bait and switch. They are definitely going to have a more difficult time in the future. New providers will also have a difficult time. Perhaps a thread needs to be started about replacing acronyms with different phrases that will not be as explicit.

https://www.change.org/p/stephen-harper-do-not-endanger-the-lives-of-sex-workers

I'm sorry this happened to you. There are a number of warnings, great information and people to talk to in order to stay safe. Please use everything at your disposal. This agency has taken a lot of people and it seems to be their main mode of operation.

Usually legit sps are always trying to send signals to the potential clients to show that they are not TGTBT. They do this in the quality of the ad, in not using graphic photos and hard to read symbols instead of real words in ad titles, in their rates, ensuring the rate is on par with other sps offering similar experiences, and so on. It is then up to the clients to learn to read the signs, and avoid the red flags. It will be no different in the future, trying to ensure that you are contacting a real sp and not a fake LE sting ad. That is pretty much the only way an incall client is going to get into any sort of trouble. But again, and posted elsewhere, you are all currently breaking the bawdy house law each and everytime you do an incall with an sp who provides incalls. Has anyone recently been arrested or victim of an LE set up and charged with this? OK, then expect the same kind of thing to happen with C36, in other words potentially absolutely nothing.

i'm just going to copy some things i've posted elsewhere. I've never posted any rates or services in any ads, I've always just made them phone me. I also will never provide any info in emails, i.e. nothing is available in writing to anyone. They do have to phone me for info, and to book appts. I find the whole email thing too anonymous, and while people can change or spoof their phone #s, the vast majority of clients are not doing that. Also, it is an obvious paper trail that they do not require a warrant to get. Recording phone conversations without a warrant, not so much, so there would be no written or recorded record of you telling people what you do. I mean what are the chances of that level of investigation into the clients of independent sps who do not work incalls out of hotel rooms, and are actually difficult to access, so their clients are equally difficult to access. Keep in mind, the sp is never ever doing anything wrong, whether it is asking for payment, or advertising a full menu of services. apparently. (Allowing people to use payphones is also helpful, since LE is not going to call you on an obvious payphone to ask about your info ) If an sp never posted rates/services, and never got into details on emails or texting or anything else, then she/he doesn't have to change anything that they currently do. If she/he always posted everything, and also got ticked off because guys call and ask questions, she/he is going to be at a bit of a disadvantage. Keep in mind most of our online advertising options are not based in Canada. We can continue to post whatever we want to post on those ads, or at least, within the limits and conditions set up by the advertising site. Reading ads will not get clients in trouble. Using the online contact and/or email options within those ads, that sets up the paper trail. I would advise sps to post phone #s, not to require email/contact from clients to get the phone #s. REquiring email contact is initiating that paper trail. Leaving it to phone calls does not, other than an untraced and unrecorded record that a call was made. proves absolutely nothing. For clients, use google extensively. When you see an ad by any sp on any site, google points from the ad in order to search the sp. You are looking for multiple ads on multiple sites. You are looking for history. You are looking for ads by that sp on that same site as well., What you do not want to see is one single ad on one single site. I am advising sps to ensure that on sites where they post multiple ads, that they ensure whatever box needs to be ticked to show all their ads they have on the site is ticked off. i'm suggesting to start telling guys who contact them to call them from a payphone. I'd go further and say go out and find out what the numbers are on the payphones and the locations so you can tell them where to go. Basically you aren't trying to avoid LE contact as an sp, you are trying to send the signals to potential clients that you are not LE. The more hoops you, as a client have to jump thru, the less likely you are contacting LE with a fake sp. LE in other words, is going to make it super easy to get all the info and the booking in one phone call. Legit sps are going to make you work for the appt, including making you call 3 times before you can knock on the door. Clients should also be looking for a website as well. Let's face it, what LE is not going to do: NOT going to create a website for their fake sp, NOT going to pay for multiple ads on one site, because they have to change up who that fake sp is. They are not going to post ads for sps over 25, or over ideal weight, or even ethnic ads. REsearch kind of shows that the most popular ads are for slender, busty, 20 year old blondes. LE is going to set up fake ads to fill that higher demand, and ensure the ads are attractive, and you know what that means. This buxom beauty does everything under the sun at 150/hr, 80 for the half. TGTBT takes on new meaning.

You are welcome peachy. For myself, I am no longer advertising any sexual services. Not because I am afraid for myself, but to protect my clients. I will also not answer any questions about my services. I will kindly explain to my inquiry that by asking me, they are on fact breaking the law. If they can't read between the lines then I can't really help them. I look at this legislation as a way of running my business the way I want to now. Clients will no longer calling the shots. I am in control now. I am relieved I no longer have to say yes I will do xxx for $xxx. Can clients really understand what it feels like to promise a service to someone I have never met before? I've never promised a service and not provided it. However, there are some that push and maybe their hygiene sucks. So no more advance promises. I will be using stories and songs to help those who want to understand the type of encounter they will experience. Currently, I am advertising as a hot mistress. No one sees a mistress as companionship alone. Sex is implied. Just not openly stated. Read between the lines. I'm still providing the same services. Just advertising it differently.

Peachy, we are allowed to advertise our services. However, the third party companies are not. Your blogs are your expression of you. From what I've read, your blogs are not specifying a service for a dollar amount. I could be a slut giving it away for free telling the world. They can't stop that. If you want to keep your blogs - do so. Just keep mention of money out. Don't say I will give a bj and full service (example) for $xxx. The specific ads though keep that neutral. You could also make it a member only private section. Up to you.

Visited Monica last year but thought I'd start contributing to the cerb community! Monica was a sweet and attractive girl. Pictures are accurate. Not a clock watcher. Good cbj and awesome view doggy style :) would repeat Thanks.

I don't see anything wrong with it :) I like to delay a little to show respect for our soldiers on November 11 but my lights are up November 12th and they are on every night long past Christmas!! First one with lights up and last one to take them down :) There is enough negativity so any little thing that makes us feel positive is great in my books. Kelly Xoxo

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In my (admittedly limited) experience, the 'Mate rarely seems very busy until 9:00 to 9:30 or so on Friday and Saturday evenings and even at those times may seem less than fast-paced, to say the least. At most other times it seems to have a very quiet and "laid-back" atmosphere. Most times the 'Mate gives the impression of being a somewhat unusual hybrid of neighbourhood bar and SC. More than once I've observed (usually younger) patrons arrive, order beer and leave fairly quickly after observing the "long breaks between stage dances". In general, I've learned to expect a slower-paced feel at this establishment. I'm told this is a significant change from days gone by.

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Signed! I also forwarded it to my friends and family. I will share the petition on Twitter and Facebook. I am thinking of putting it on my website too.

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Signed and signed !!!

I bumped the thread a few minutes ago so it could be visible again. I will also ask MOD to move his post and add it to the existing warning thread too (if it's even possible because of his post count and the fact that he is a new member).

That so-called "agency" specializes in scams: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=146788&highlight=24%2F7+agency For some reason it no longer appears on the main page of Nova Scotia Warnings: To Report Bait and Switch, Scams & Dangerous Encounters (NOT FOR NEGATIVE and you can only find it by doing a search. Perhaps a bump is needed on that thread.

Added the link to my Twitter and elsewhere, I also signed the petition.

Happy Thanks Giving Weekend everyone!! I am so thankful to be healthy, working, great family and friends and being so happy! Life is great!!! People enjoy every minute of it!

Love this show! My only problem is that I need to watch a few episodes at once so I always wait until it's been out for a few weeks before watching. Not too thrilled about the clown though... have a feeling that will give me nightmares :O -Mistress Sarah

She presents an extreme perspective for sure but there is some truth to it I expect. And how could there not be? I came to realize this or variations of this quite some time ago. For me the realization made or makes it kind of easier and keeps expectations grounded and emotions in check. Peace MG

Spent time with a very wise lady ;)

Yet the police press release is carefully worded to make it look like a huge success. Careful re-reading and fact checking reveals it to be a bunch of baloney. It is closer to patting themselves on the back than being honest. Everyone who travels for work knows that you can get huge discounts for booking lots of rooms on a regular basis. Cops spend a lot of money on travel junkets and know this. There is nothing wrong with a bunch of people getting together and booking as a group. The Winnipeg operation was run in tandem with an operation tracking down children missing from foster care or on probation. The BS artists in the Durham police carefully omitted that to make themselves look good. Stuff like this really makes me lose respect for the police. They have a tough job and most are decent people. It seems their management are the problem. There is good reason our own street level cops call Chief Clunis "Chief Clueless". He's a political flunky parachuted into a job he is unfit and incapable of performing. That is an insult to the several other candidates who would have done a far better job.

Getting red sparkly shoes (think Dorothy in wizard of oz but platform :)

A new phone and sparkly red shoes :)

Happy Thanksgiving everyone. I hope you enjoy good health and good company this weekend and always.

Sending out hugs and supportive energy to everyone who is having thoughts or feelings about those no longer with us. This is a time to give thanks for what we have or people who have touched us and this can sometimes be bittersweet. Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened - Dr. Suess Love never dies, it just transforms.

I offer sensual massage, along with a host of other services. Take a look in the listings under 'Massage Providers' in the Nova Scotia section for ladies of your choice, there are several very good ones. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=336 I was recently in Halifax for 10 months, and will be back in December. Best place to look for someone would be in the section of the services you are seeking.

I posted the link on my Twitter ;)

Way back in February I first met Savannah. It was cold in Halifax and, to say the least Savannah warmed the cockles of my heart. And not only my heart. Back then I described her effect on me as that of a kind of tsunami created by in iceberg tipping over and washing over me. Not a good analogy when I think back because what washed over me was warm, and then got hot and ... well, you get what I mean. But the tsunami effect on me was accurate. A new experience with a new, lovely woman. It did crash over me, and immersed me. Update. I just saw Savannah for the 3rd time. Anyone who knows her will know that she enjoys fine wine. And what I have learned over these 3 encounters is that she is like one of those fine wines - a subtle, many-layered taste on the tongue, subtle aromas for the nose,complex and intriguing, to be lingered over, always inviting a second taste. And good wine is never so enjoyable as with good conversation. All of us on CERB know YMMV. I have to tell you that my mileage has been varying by increments, increasing that is, each time I see Savannah. I may have to take a fibrillator with me the next time I see her.

I really don't understand the bill, and from the little I do know about it , my feeling is that it will be challenged in court as well. albeit not until a number of people have been charged. I personally feel that our government blew it big time by adopting this bill , and it will hurt both the sp's and the clients, far more than protecting anyone. I think that independent reputable SP's will be the only way top go moving forwards, and that the massage parlours days are numbered.....as far as I'm am concerned, I have scaled back already , and hope to completely move away from partaking of any SP's services come Dec., and if I do, it will only be with trusted sp's like Zoe etc. Zoe you are , and always have been one of the classiest and best SP's in the city and we really should get together again some day soon!

I do not think a serious long term SP like Zoe for example would be outing clients. Professionals have a "brand" that they create, market, and protect. They would lose everything if they were shown to be outing anyone. Professionals are easy to identify. Some come on here and you can see that they are thoughtful and intelligent people. Fear those who have nothing to lose.

We all are, I am taking this opportunity to upgrade the chatroom to the latest release. Because of the problems I have the chatroom company re-installing the entire system for us.

I'm a little confused by the logic behind your rational. Aside from the legalities involved, wouldn't it be more disastrous to be seen at a spa that offers erotic massage then to be seen at a busy hotel where you can say you are meeting a friend for coffee, meeting someone for lunch or even attending a business meeting with a client from out of town? If you are looking for discretion, a motel is also not the way to go: unless you're staying there, which you wouldn't be because you are a local, there is only one or two things that can be assumed if you are seen. Again, reserving a hotel room with a credit card and paying cash upon check out will leave no "trail" on your monthly statement.

I watched Blackfish last night. A documentary look at Tilikum and SeaWorld. As someone who deeply loves orca, I was pretty shaken to see how these majestic creatures are treated in facilities like SeaWorld. Not a happy movie, but worth a watch!

Securing my Ottawa dates:) Been so long since I seen my friends there! Miss the market too!

Everybody has a different tolerance when it comes to risk level(s)... Snowballing is the same thing as BBBJ with CIM, swallow or not, transfer or not and it is allowed to be openly discussed on the board. We are not talking about BBFS here. And to the OP, I apologize for not being able to help you out with suggestions. Good luck in your search!

Always, always, if you see a companion outside of an encounter in public, don't acknowledge her. Actually acknowledging her in public is impolite. She may have a family that doesn't know what she does. Or a daytime job and those co-workers don't know she is also a professional companion. The lady you see may genuinely like you. You may genuinely like her. But any acknowledgement that you know and like one another is done discreetly within the confines of an encounter or in otherwise private circumstances (ie email) The lady expects you to be discrete the same as she would be discrete if she saw you in public. If concerned about being impolite, you can always text/email the lady after seeing her, and say you saw her but didn't acknowledge her because you were being discrete...she will understand and appreciate it...and consider you polite for not acknowledging her publically A rambling RG

The better question is would her husband this it was cheating... i'm in the camp that unless there was previous agreement between the two of them than any meeting with another man for sexual gratification would be cheating. I'm not in any way judging your behavior as I have been seeing sp's behind my wife's back for years I'm just answering your question. Just my opinion

Every now and then I see clients around in my area when I'm out and about and I prefer just to pretend we don't know each other especially if I'm with someone. Most I see with their wives and I act like I don't know them or go in another direction. I would never go up and talk to anyone ever. I give clients discretion and expect it in return. I do know a few clients who are for sure not attached and it's no big deal but I have known these people for a while and they are regulars. I will just wave or say "Hi" but only when I'm alone. One saw me in Ikea one day with a family member and we just smiled from afar at each other. It's funny because I did see one client and I was dressed down and they didn't recognize me. lol. Another saw me from afar at Starbucks and said I looked great wearing actual clothes other than what he was used to seeing me in which was lingerie. :)

You are either trustworthy or not trustworthy. There's no such thing as "sort of" trustworthy. Same with discretion. It is disturbing so many guys are ready to throw someone they don't like under the bus. This whole enterprise is based on trust and discretion on both sides.

I apologize up front for posting this question here but I could not find the suitable heading. Does anyone know of a hotel/Motel in Cornwall that takes cash to make reservations. thanks

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Beauty is everywhere and in everything, from an object to a person actions, you just need to look. I can honestly say since me life changed so did my perception. I find beauty in the simplest things in their purest form. A genuine laugh or smile, act of kindness, selflessness. I think as human we've grown accustom to how something should look or be that we've lost sight of what actual beauty is. I know I did, and now that my eyes and mind are open I see beauty everywhere I just have to look.

You are right Curiousm...for me beauty starts with a smile...then smiling eyes...then intelligence and a sense of humour, passionate,generous and caring...that for me is beauty! BJ