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Some SPs are not into the menus so there may have to be bit of a different dialogue. To be honest, if someone starts naming off an alphabetical list of acronyms, it tells me a lot. I look for someone who genuinely wants to spend time with me aside from what type of services they will receive. When I see a person who lists acronyms, I am hesitant. I understand that there should be some sort of expectations in terms of what services will be received and not received but to me this is very impersonal and tells me what type of client they will be. A first impression is always a lasting one. If the person takes the time to communicate with me in more of a personable way while still being able to get their questions answered, it is more favorable. I am also more patient in this regard as I answer phone calls and texts all day long so I'm used to having more of a conversation. A conversation on the phone with a potential client will always give me a signal in 30 seconds or less if I want to meet them. It is all in the way they speak to me, the way they sound tells me their personality and the type of questions they ask, etc. I pick up on people's energy very quickly whether it's good or bad on the phone and in person. I will never specifically book just by text. It is crucial I hear the person's voice. Don't ask me why but my instincts always tell me yes or no within those 30 seconds. So while I don't have a lot of time, my brain and instincts are processing this info very quickly in how the person is reacting towards me and the questions they ask. I'm sure this works if an SP is more upfront in her ads and you want to confirm these services but we all run our business a different way. I thought it was cute when you put in "Hunnie" but I never use terms of endearment with my clients unless I've met them first. This comes off as very phony when you haven't met them. A different approach will need to be taken once this new bill becomes law.

Anyone else notice that this SP also provides bareback full service?! like seriously what is wrong with some people. http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sweet-sexy-independent-companion-gf-ps-hotels-only-26/1548528 Stay safe guys, I will also be posting one in the unsafe encounters page

I saw that ad the other day too. I just don't get it. I had to reread it a few times just to be sure I wasn't mistaken. How is BBFS a thing? To quote the esteemed Ricky Bobby "it bottles the mind"....

I have offered this advice privately to a few newbies and have been recently asked by an SP to offer the suggestions to the community at-large. Apparently, some of you need a refresher course... :roll: (I also expect that you are like me -- if you are considering meeting an escort who has no presence on CERB then you have done your proper homework to see if she's genuine or a scammer, and decided to go ahead.) Step 1. Be clear in what you are looking for (services, time). Be careful never to solicit. Example A applies if she has not stated her rates on her Backpage ad: Hi, I like DFK, BBBJ, and DATY. If you are free for a HH incall at 2 p.m., please tell me your HH rate. Example B when her rates are already quoted: Hi, I like DFK, BBBJ, and DATY. Can I book you for a HH incall at 2 p.m.? At this point, she will reply saying she doesn't do a service, she is only free at a time later on, or might not respond at all. Let's say she replies like this: Hi hunnie. CBJ only. I start at 3.30. HH 140, H is 200. Step 2. Make the booking and always prompt her to acknowledge by asking the question. Example: I'm OK with CBJ. 140 for HH is OK too. Please book me for 3:30 p.m. for HH. OK? Let's say she responds like this: OK hunnie. C u then. (At this point you have technically booked her in just 2 text messages! Good for you!) Step 3. Now, if you are within 1 hour of your booking, it is acceptable to ask for her location like this: Thanks for accepting my booking. What is your hotel or address? However, a lot of escorts do not like giving out their location if you have booked a few hours or a day in advance. Let her know that you will follow-up, like this: Thanks again, we are confirmed 3:30p.m. for HH. I will text you 1 hour before to ask for your location. Bye for now. (Later on you will text her like this: Hi, we have a booking for 3:30 p.m. Please tell me your hotel or address.) Once you arrive at her location, expect to text her again for her room number (if she's at a hotel), or for her buzzer number and suite number (if she's at an apartment). These same general rules work well if you choose to arrange your date over the phone. Escorts don't want to make conversation with you or answer a lot of questions. Be direct. Get booked. Get laid. Simple. Cheers!

I want a true GFE. If I was into the bar scene and interested in getting a gf, I doubt I would get far if my first questions were if she offers BBBJ or other acronyms. Therefore when I contact a provider, services is one of the last thing I will discuss. Besides telling her a bit about myself, I see if we can match our schedule. No point getting into too many details if timing doesn't work. I love getting to know ladies in the business but don't want to waste their time! As for how I will contact her I will use her preferred method!

To the OP: I think you got your point across succinctly. However, to add to it - it's to stress that if/when the lady accepts your booking request, that you follow her protocol to securing/confirming the appointment. For example, in my case, I do not finalize any bookings by text or email. The client MUST call me from an unblocked number I can call back if necessary. Part of my screening to hear the person's voice and chit chat a bit as intuition plays a big part in whether I want to see them. I give them a general idea of where I am located. Then I will ask that they confirm at least a half hour before the scheduled time so I know they are on their way. Then I will direct them to a designated place to park. When they get there, they need to call for the street address. I will be moving away from answering explicit requests by text or email as I do not want any text message or email trails out there. I have no problem discussing things by phone because it's doubtful LE is going to wiretap my phone. I think people need to relax a bit and wait and see how things are going to pan out with the new bill. In-calls were technically illegal and even agencies were offering them and the police have basically overlooked that for years unless there were problems. So why all of a sudden would they be listening in to two people's private conversations. I am not concerned that much will change. I am quite adept to change and have no problem adapting to whatever I need to do to keep myself and my clients safe.

Carrie, although Lisbeth provides good pointers, I would highly discourage you to use the method quoted above because A) a lot of potential clients will use this to circumvent your basic screening process B) will use it just to get a look at you and talk to you even though they have no intentions of booking C) in my personal opinion, in general, it's a total waste of time D) you will end up drinking a lot more coffee than your body can tolerate and/or that you care to ;) I could add a few more valid reasons but I'll leave it at that.

I was going to say... I actually am completely nervous to answer any email with these abbreviations.... In fact this kind of email I may answer to, but I know it won't go anywhere since there is absolutely no information as to who this gent is at all.. danger!!

Your plan is fine for a menu lady but I know for sure receiving texts like that would scare the Ba - Jesus out of me..

My addition, is that since discussing services etc in public settings is illegal, you are opening yourself up to a potential for charges. Further, you are allowing him to control this set up, meaning that once you set up a public meeting, he is free to tweet out to 20 of his closest friends, one of whom is in the corner filming the entire encounter to put it on youtube. Non appt public meetings are unnecessary. If you feel wary enough to even consider having to meet someone first, then simply decline the appt. There is such a thing as bad money.

I went back today to see sweet Hazel this evening and I wasn't disappointed (I asked Barbs DJ yesterday and he told me she is scheduled today at 6. Thank you Mr. DJ). I was very happy to see her walking in just before 6:00. Came over to greet me upon her arrival and she was happy to see me too. Hazel is a classy very cute short hair brunette with a very soft feminine fair skin which I absolutely adore. I had a very heavenly time with her in the CR. She is highly recommended if you like a classy educated very cute young brunette. When the CR dance was over it was so hard to say bye till next time and let go of her so I kept kissing her even after we walked out of the CR!!. Like any dancer the mileage I am sure would be YMMV. She dances Sundays but she told me she also she dances Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays in the evenings. Thank you Hazel for the lovely time and your pre-dance companionship.

Started with Barbs at 4:00 pm. A few ladies already there that early among them Paris (cute blonde), Brandy (cute blonde), Vanessa (fair skinned brunette), Joy (Tiny ebony), Sabrina (tiny ebony with dyed pink hair) and a couple of others. Had my late lunch or early Supper at 4:30 and a few dances with Ebony Joy (open minded for Barbs standard and she dances at Pigale evenings) and after I saw all the ladies on stage I decided to leave just after 5:00 pm. Unlike previous weekends Jenny (the cerb popular tall blonde) was absent today!!. My two favorites (Hazel (the very kissable cute short hair fair skinned brunette) and Nikki (the pretty faced fair skinned brunette) both reviewed in Barbs thread) were both absent as well!!. Asked the Barbs DJ about Hazel's working days. Will go back soon to see Hazel. Arrived at Playmates around 5:30 (too early for Playmates). Ashley (early starter, slim brunette) on stage) and a few ebony ladies walking around. Hayley (the high mileage tinny cute blonde) and Teasy (the fair skinned cute faced with dyed red hair) (both reviewed in Playmates thread) were absent today again!!!! The Blonde Kim (sexy kitty fair skinned blonde, a bit on over weight side) arrived just before 6:00 but it was time for me to head to another bar. Arrived at Taboo around 6:30 pm. About a dozen dancers (mostly ebony ladies) and half a dozen patrons. More patrons arriving after 6:30 but most don't stick around for long. No stage dance until 7:30 (no wonder arriving patrons leave soon after arrival). Layla (the high mileage very cute fair skinned young girl), Ginger (high mileage large framed natural red head) and Ruby (the very fair skinned, high mileage small boobs natural redhead), all reviewed in Taboo thread) were all absent today!!!!!. I stayed until 7:45 as I was waiting for Pigale to open. Sabrina The very cute faced fair skinned very passive/shy brunette, who is reviewed in Taboo thread) arrived at 7:30 but was taken by another patron soon after coming out of changing room so I decided to leave to Pigale. Arrived at Pigale just after 8:00 pm. About half a dozen young patrons sitting around the stage and another half a dozen at tables. However there was stage dances one after another even with low number of patrons (unlike the other strip bars). Soon after 8:30 patrons started coming in teams. by 9:00 the bar was crowded. Ladies walking around and approaching patrons for dances. I was approached half a dozen times myself but targeted a young lady with a very pretty face (I am very selective on looks). Her name was Mila (from Ottawa). Not very high mileage but tall brunette with very pretty face and slender sexy body. Small boobs though. Two dozen or so dancers (none with fake boobs though so this is a change from the past for Pigale) and about 50 or so patrons and more coming. The number of dancers and patrons were increasing exponentially after 9:30. Had a second Supper (late Supper) at Pigale. No comparison with Barbs. Much better food at barbs for sure. Just before 10:00 it was too crowded and I decided to leave. ET.

Personally no the type of text I like and would refer you to visit. My ads/website for rates/experience

Just goes to show that there is no "perfect" way to carry on this conversation. My comment would be simply be respectful in whatever approach you take and then follow the ladies lead. Just my Opinion

I only keep records of no show/bad dates and the like. I do however keep my previous agenda and a calendar but the most in it is something like "Steve 2hrs at 4pm" and after the appointment I put if I would repeat with this person or not, sometime they are some people that while are not bad dates I just didn't connect

I think probably the idea of outing clients was done in the heat of the moment, and should be taken with a grain of salt. I believe that the ladies would practice discretion in outing their clients as this would ruin their credibility if they did so. As for maintaining a client list, as a business owner they might keep records, although I don't think most do. You must remember that once you surrender the information you don't have any control of it. I wouldn't get too worried though as part of the fee is a guarantee of discretion.

i will say don't worry about EC, it is an advertising site, not an agency or a 3rd party poster. You submit the ad to EC, therefore you are the one posting the ad, not EC.

I just received an email from a guy with his picture saying he doesn't pay for sex but would love to take me out for a couple of beers. Lmao I wrote him back and said " the site you found me on is not a dating site. "

It's already in the warning section: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=632821#post632821 The SP you see in the pictures on BP was one of the SPs listed on TOP-HALIFAX-ESCORTS dot COM and for some reason, they recently removed all the profiles that were on there. I wonder why... Additional Comments: If you Google the phone number used in the BBFS BP ad 902-209-9575 you will be surprised to see what type of information appears in the results. Interesting, to say the least. Plus, this number is being used by a so called escort agency named "Great Girls". See the Yellow pages: http://www.yellowpages.ca/bus/Canada/Great-Girls/100464013.html

Guys who write down a bunch of phone numbers and then call me and ask who they're are calling. Real way to make a girl feel special, NOT!!

Giving someone web site, then they come back with " well what are the rates? I am looking for male/female fun" So I say..." Hmmm, are you sure you read my site? " Then he says doesn't like my attitude! lol

For the most part, that is me as well. The first contact is through the email link in the website or sometimes via pm on boards (provided the SP has that option posted in her ad). In that initial contact is the phone # I will be contacting from as well to save confusion. One thing I would add is that in that first text, my first words are always, "Hello, my name is (insert first name), I am 54 yrs old and live in the area and saw your ad on CERB (or whatever). My handle there is "peacectryguy" Then the other pertinent stuff that was mentioned. I believe it is important to make an effort to show the lady you are on the level and a name and brief description does help in that. If they require more info, they can and will ask but it shows you are placing some trust in them and usually they feel better trusting you. It is a 2 way street.

Thx keep up the reports. My experience with taboo is that high mileage ladies only there in afternoon. Ginger Kiki Talia Diva Carli are the best. YMMV

I'm a member of them all .... I only post on the western / eastern boards when touring, so I'm not involved in the daily discussions. I find on terb people are more honest and I get into less trouble. I can relax, be myself, post honestly and frankly and I get a ton of respect there. You've got to be able to take it when you dish it out. I've had my wrists slapped more than once here ... all well deserved according to the guidelines, but I have to check myself. For someone who's always misbehavin' that's a challenge! ... and not that an occasional spanking is a bad thing :p

They do have one now http://www.stilettogirls.ca

Take all the good points in Carley's quote and add in awesome Chemistry, Genuine person, her looks, amazing sex, she makes you feel like a king, great sense of humour, easy to talk to, nice follow up emails are just a few of the reasons why as someguy describes it you have a lady you look forward to repeat with. Am I describing Carley here, I could be!!!

Basically it is any sex worker who is under 21 (some 25 years), any sex worker who may look "young" (whatever that means), any non-white sex worker, any sex worker not from the area, any sex worker who can't prove they are from the area, any sex worker without legitimate ID (you need ID to book a hotel room mostly so that means someone else booked the hotel room or you paid cash and the hotel accepted, which happens like never nowadays), any sex worker who works with other sex workers or travels with other sex workers, any sex worker who acts in an aggressive manner towards the police, any sex worker who may be in a location that has substances (drugs/alcohol) in the room that they find while searching the room. Once the police are in your room/work location they are free to check almost anything (except a locked cellphone, password protected computer, thumb drives). This is also why it is good to answer the door fully clothed.

Also, the risk of being arrested for public solitation. I would never meet a potential client in public. If they are not comfortable giving you the information you ask, move on. The gems are there. Don't let anyone push you to break you rules because they are uncomfortable.

I think with C36 it'll be dangerous to start talking/texting/emailing about money for services. Keep talk/texts/emails to money is for time and companionship, nothing about sex for money A rambling RG

And what is interesting about this comment is that it is presumed and assumed that trash talking is not just permitted, but encouraged on all the other sites, even the ones promoted as most friendly lol. It should be noted that p/t/m erbs are all the same board admin/owner. If they are communicating amongst each other, that should not really be a big surprise, after all. p erb is simply t erb for out west. Same guy to be contacted if you want to send a message to the admin. This site is what it is due to moderation. no one is undoing the moderator/admin mandates, or permitting hostility. This kind of moderation goes a long way in explaining why certain types of people, who are active on all those other sites, show up here and either leave shortly after, or rarely participate. When you are an aggressive, trollish, baiting, lying, trash talking poster, you have no place on this site. And that is the number one reason you will find more sps participating on this site over any other, regardless of any amount of business they might get. I've seen a dozen of the sps who are very active members of cerb, never or rarely posting on even their own reviews on other sites. That alone tells a big story. Guys come here because if they post a good review, they get a thank you from other guys and from sps. They do the same post elsewhere, they get trashed and attacked. Not exactly hard to figure out the differences, or the reasons why this site tends to have more active members.

Please get rid of your gum before you attempt to kiss or go down on me. And in the garbage please, not stuck to my table.

Oh my goodness, the difference is huge. I tried with merb because I'm in Montreal but the hostility is palpable- between the men and the ladies, and between the men themselves. I never felt like a human being on there. It is very graphic and cold. Cerb is simply this: warmth in my heart. It is so lovely and encouraging and we treat each other with humanity and respect. I have to say that the men on cerb are some of the best men I've ever met, even outside the business. These are men I wish existed more in the real world :) Yay cerb! Thank you for bringing heart, happiness and fun to this industry.

If you are in compliance with the lady's requirements and do not overstep boundaries (asking too many personal questions, sharing too many personal stories with her where she might not feel comfortable, insisting on off-the-clock extended conversing/texting or email, trying to stay over-time or enticing her to stay over time or meet off the clock for free, etc.) there is no reason why you should feel you are taking advantage of her. If you are getting a certain level of intimacy and other stimulation met through the time you spend with an SP without any unrealistic expectations, then I'd say you have a good arrangement. If you feel you are not totally satisfied and crave more, then you might be putting unrealistic expectations on the client/SP relationship. I understand some men do not want to pursue a dating relationship because for whatever reason they don't want the commitment that goes along with it. But you can't expect an SP no matter how gracious she is or how well you connect and get along with her, to give you access to her personal life, or her heart so to speak. Just because we are being paid does not mean we are there just for the money, but I would never want a client to think or expect it may develop into anything more. In some instances, a client and SP may click in the romance department and end up together as a couple, but it's not realistic for a client to see SPs hoping that will happen for him. I am not suggesting that is what you are doing, I'm just putting it out there, that if you think you are taking advantage of someone, ask yourself what you are doing that is perhaps making you feel guilty. I suggest you do a self-check, and if necessary, ask a provider you have been with who you trust who has the maturity to be honest and ask them if there is anything they have observed in your approach or behaviour that might be off putting. Little things that might not seem like such a big deal can something make others feel uncomfortable. Doesn't mean it can't be corrected.

I am writing here because I realized some gentlemen are asking questions about me so I will give you the information. I just transformed a room in my house in a Tantra Temple ( big fire place, exotic decorations, warm atmosphere, candles everywhere. I offer a moment of pure pleasure and kindness. My massage is inspired from the Kama Sutra book of love (exotic technics) and the quality and cares I provide are VIP. I know how to give a good tantric massage because I have 10 years of experience and I learned from Masters in India 10 years ago. What is Tantric? In the beginning it was a movement of protestation from a group of person who believed the divine could be reach by the sexuality. Like we all know, back those days, sex was banned and people were considering it as impure. Tantric is there to prove us that the divine can be reach by the sensual touch and the goal is to get the most powerful orgasm possible (by the lingam and the kundalini). Feel free to ask me questions, I am very friendly and humanist. I am a nice girl, I treat my costumers just like kings. I will make you very happy. I know I am not supposed to write here because it s a review site, but I saw how many people were asking about me. So kindly I answer to you Gentlemen. With love, Liberty

I plan to add a FAQ area on Lyla for posting etiquette and I wanted to ask our seasoned members if they have anything to add before I post it. Posting etiquette (Some for clients, some for providers, some for both) 1 ) Do not discuss providers' rates (unless you are the provider or agency doing the posting) 2 ) Do not comment on a service providers rates being too expensive or cheap! 3 ) Do not discuss street walkers 4 ) Please use discretion! Do not discuss drug use, illegal activities, violent acts and anything that would bring unwanted attention to someone, some business or our community here on Lyla. If you are aware of a illegal activity taking place you should contact the police (not post it here) as posting it here brings unwanted attention to Lyla! 5 ) Do not fight or flame anyone (this includes flaming the lurkers or low post count guys and includes fighting with each other in the PM system) 6 ) Do not spread rumors! 7 ) If you have a problem with another member bring it to the attention of the mod and DO NOT post about it in public. 8 ) Do not post a provider's personal info such as addresses or share this info in a PM unless you are the provider. You risk her safety if you do this! 9 ) Do not ask for prices of providers from other members (you should ask them directly) 10 ) Before you post a recommendation for a provider you should ask her for permission and you should ask her for permission to put one of her photos on the recommendation as well. 11 ) Do not post ads to sell products on the site (free ads are for sex workers, massage spas, etc... not toys, web design, etc...) If you wish to promote a different product or service PM the mod first as we may have banners available. 12 ) Do not post links to porn sites 13 ) Do not use the site to complain about a service provider or post negative reviews! 14 ) Keep the site positive and fun! If you have an issue before posting it take a breath and think "Is it a positive contribution to the site?" if the answer is no... it's most likely not welcome! Additional Comments: If you disagree with a decision a moderator has made, you can PM one of us about it (not post publicly about it).

If you ever encounter any sort of problems with anyone while working, anything ranging from sexual assault to theft, intimidation, abuse, harassment, threats, stalking or anything else, and want to talk directly to a female officer who will listen and help (if you want it), here is the name of an Ottawa officer who has been helpful to sex workers in the past: Sergeant Patricia Ferguson Sexual Assault Section Tel. 613-236-1222, ext. 5463 Or, to anonymously report to the police any kind of bad behaviour you've experienced: Bad Date Line Call 1-800-303-5407 - anonymously. http://www.ottawapolice.ca/en/ServingOttawa/SectionsAndUnits/saca/baddateline.aspx From Ottawa Police Services: Working in the sex trade can make you a vulnerable target, and predators count on the fact that you may not report crimes against you. We need your help to identify and track serial and predatory offenders. The anonymous reporting system is for individuals victimized while engaging in the sex trade. By calling the toll free number (1-800-303-5407), you will be prompted to leave a message regarding the details of your assault along with as much of an offender description as possible. Information gathered could be the missing link needed in identifying a serial predator. The anonymous and free Bad Date Line gives you an opportunity to report sexual and physical assault without revealing your identity. For more information about the Ottawa Bad Date Line, download their pamphlet (PDF, 206k). The Ottawa Police Service understands the desire of victims to remain anonymous and supports the Bad Date Line in an effort to identify potential serial offenders preying upon victims who they believe will not report the attack to police. The Bad Date Line does not subscribe to caller ID and no attempts will be made to identify callers. It is preferred that victims contact police directly to report an assault so that a proper investigation can be conducted and ensure a predator is removed from the street. Ottawa Police treat all victims fairly and equitably. If you wish to speak with an officer regarding an assault or receive more information regarding the investigation process, you may contact the Sexual Assault Unit directly at 613-236-1222, ext. 5944.

I really don't know yet. I have listened to the reading of the proposed bill and I think what it will really come down to is how each municipality/province is going to enforce the bill... The part that worries me is "anybody caught advertising FOR the sp is liable to criminal charges." So, I wonder how EC will change and all that sort of stuff. I will not risk a criminal record. I am currently looking for other work. If I find it. I may stop advertising and just take my regulars. I truly do like this work. I've gone through privacy breaches, slander etc and have pulled through not taking it personally. I think this is really going to be a wait and see situation. If they just go after people in forced conditions - good. If they go after providers who are choosing to do this on their own, then I'm out. I also wonder how each of our potential new mayors will react to this, whether they will address it or if they even have any say on it. Right now, it is "what if, and then what?" and I find no value in speculation. (fear-mongering) EDIT: as for outing clients etc. I cannot see how that would ever come into play with me. I have had my privacy breached before and know how it feels. I would NEVER do that to anybody. SP or client. If the police held charges vs outing people - then I feel that is exploitative and essentially a threat. I would out myself and the misguided attempts of the police before I ever gave out a clients personal information, tell the media SPs are being threatened and be done with it all. I believe in client and SP right to privacy.

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I was in Toronto last weekend and had the pleasure of meeting Katerina Jessy. She has a reco thread on here from St. John's but has recently relocated. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=82663 We corresponded for a while before meeting. It's always good to get to know each other a bit beforehand, likes, dislikes, expectations on both sides, and I'm grateful when the woman takes the time to talk with me in the way that Kat did. So we had a fair sense of each other before we met, though the meeting far exceeded my expectations. She's young, tall and slender, confident, intelligent, and professional-looking. The first impression is a young lawyer or something like that. Until her clothes come off.... A very slender body, but what an ass! A gorgeous firm ass. And her sexual energy is boundless! She responds, and she initiates. She kept me going from the first kiss to the last, and we had awesome, arousing, passionate sex. A really satisfying GFE. Thanks, Kat! More like that, please!! :)

Hi sexy, well as for me terms of endearment just cum first!! So yes would say Hi darling, hun, babe, chéri and list goes on but it doesn't me in NO way I am not true, real or honest but just that I am just moi !!! Barbara xxxxooo

you would see someone who calls you 'hunnie"? or shortcuts 'you'? I would say j/k, but i'm seriously not just kidding. imo, an sp should take as much time and care and attention with her replies as you are doing for her. it shows a level of professionalism and awareness of how she is presenting herself to someone who is contacting her for the very first time. Which means if the reply is only going to be 3 or 4 words, she can certainly take the time to spell out 'you' and 'see'. I totally agree that your texts should be detailed, and that you need to say hi, and not do a bunch of serial texting. Put the info you want her to know in the first text. And it should go without saying don't send a text if her ad says 'no texts'. :)

She used to go by the name Lexi. I saw her a while back. She's a very attractive girl. Large breasts on a petite slim frame. Pics are accurate and she plays safe ymmv. Her rates are on the high end.

There are many threads that address individual issues that come during the course of our days in this wonderful hobby, and while surfing I have come across several good outlines for conducting oneself. But they fail to address the intricacies that often confuse hobbyists and SP?s alike. I would like feedback from both sides, as I have been compiling a ?how to? especially designed for this industry. This is a chance for people to put in their likes and dislikes and will help newbies by giving them a playbook that will help them maneuver their way thru. I would like to address any and every suggestion that covers a given situation that you have been in personally that you can see someone else having to figure out. It has been an ongoing project this year and I would like to have it finished by summer?s end. So if you have any situations that you feel are worthy of being addressed, let?s get them out here so we can discuss them?. Catherine

Well now that you've revived this ancient thread, i figured i'd add my two cents... While I largely agree with the comments above, I'd like to illuminate the flip side of this issue. This may get me in trouble, but for many escorts, their goal is to finish the encounter asap to minimize time spent with the client while still reaping the rewards. More often then not, even with some of the best, the clothes are thrown at the drop of a hat and there is little to no foreplay (even in 2hr+ arrangements). I don't speak for all men, but many of us enjoy some of the hottest moments with an escort partially clothed. It is tremendously anti-climatic to greet your host, only to find her instantly drop all the clothes and be ready to roll (even if this happens in the first 5-10min, i still think it's too fast). This could mean that the client may not be as turned on and may require a lot more 'jack-hammering' to reach climax. Sure, the escort might tire or not enjoy this, but it was her actions that contributed to the time spent endlessly :bddog: . I guess all I'm saying is that these poor sexual experiences should not be blamed exclusively on the client, the escort plays a significant role as well. (Taking the time to get a client 'super' hot may in fact lead to a shorter overall time spent together.)

This is a very common thing with the ladies... Always looking for the "Reason" the business gets slow at times and always looking for answers as to why they get no shows and cancellation more at different times of the year. Most NO SHOWS can be stopped by screening your calls properly. Use the Caller ID and CALL BACK the number to verify it. Most guys will not pull a NO SHOW on someone without having the decency to call and properly cancel if you have their number. They know that come appointment time one very upset SP is going to give them a call asking WTF! It's not 100% but it sure helps for those who screen calls. It also makes the call a little more safer as that phone number is now a connection between the guy and the lady... I doubt someone dangerous is going to want to leave a number that can be traced back to them. Most of the ladies look for reasons when things are slow. I guess most of us do that when the business we are in takes a drop in sales/traffic/work load/etc.... You can spend a good portion of your day trying to figure this one out but it's not really worth the effort. It's WAY easier to just plan for these lows (Put some money aside for the slow periods) and just accept that this is part of EVERY business and it will happen. Stop stressing out and trying to point a finger at what you think is causing the slowness as your just going to convince yourself of something that is probably not correct. We have been tracking patterns in this industry since 1996 and the answer for this is... (Drum roll please)... It has no pattern EXCEPT for a few obvious LOW spots. 1) The end of Aug is SLOW every year! (Kids out of school, getting ready to go back to school, family summer vacations, etc...) This is the most popular summer weekend in the tourist industry!! 2) 1 week before and 1 week after Xmass (No need to explain this one right?) New years day too? NOT... 3) January/February for 2 weeks every year (We sum this up to winter blues and getting your credit card statements from Xmass! but we never know what two weeks it will be but for sure 2 weeks around this time it does drop... one year we did not see this and come April we saw a real low drop for 2 weeks and that was obvious weather patterns (Long winter/early spring ... warm winter/cold spring etc...) it does effect this business and you never know when this is coming exactly... so just put some cash aside for these times. 4) First nice weekend of spring (A lot of the ladies take this time off too) 5) Thanksgiving, Easter, Valentines, long weekends, really large sporting events (etc)... they also effect the business. The rest has NO identifiable pattern. You can try to blame it on the economy as a low economy brings more people into this business causing more competition and the overall amount of "Recreational money" the guys have gets a lot smaller so yes the economy does effect it but a low economy BUT it also brings more guys (New guys) in to the mix as well so it's not hit as hard as one would assume. Remember money and sex are the two big things couples fight about... When the economy drops and the money gets tight the stress levels go up, the fighting between couples goes up and the sex stops!! FACT OF LIFE... and I hate to admit it but that is good for this business for all you ladies!! When economy starts to get good again business will decrease a little at first! It's OPPOSITE of what everyone ASSUMES! As for NO SHOWS... This time of year it will obviously be higher. Kids are still home from school, Family vacations, relatives coming for visits, back to school shopping, etc.. etc... and all those people taking time OFF work for family vacations makes other people have to work more (Overtime to cover shifts, higher work loads, etc) it's all relevant.... A lot of LAST MINUTE things come up this time of the year for the "Family Man" and well... kids and family (for most people) come first so recreational visits take a back seat so stuff will get canceled more this time of year. Picture this... The guy is all ready to come see the lady he has chosen and the door bell rings and it's his brother or uncle or who knows who just "DROPS BY" for a visit... URH!? Probably with his annoying kids and wife... (Many of us have been in similar situations) This happens EVERY YEAR... Come September 17th (Or around that time) once the kids are back in school and the routine is back... things will pick up. Summer sucks as a lot more things can get in the way or throw a guys schedule off. Don't spend all your time looking for reasons why the business slows down.... it happens to EVERY PROVIDER & EVERY BUSINESS ... It can not be busy 100% of the time and it does take a little planning and anticipation.

This stuff does get talked about a lot here, and I really sympathize with all the ladies for the crap they have to deal with. But unfortunately, it's just not the SP's it is all women in general. Every female I have ever spoken with has had a gaggle of tales about creepy or disrespectful or disgusting men that they've had to deal with in bars, at work, standing at the bus stop or even walking in public. There's too many people out there that have no concept of respect or are just plain dumb. Some of the SP's are guilty of this - present company excluded I'm sure - and maybe some of the ok fellas out there have had a few bad experiences which leaves them untrusting or have had that negative prostitute stereotype driven into their psyche that they're all about the money and the service is poor. You girls shouldn't have to deal with any of this shit, but it will come as part of the job I'm sorry to say. You'll have just as much success bemoaning the amount of horrific drivers on the road by going to the Licensing Bureau and screaming at everyone to learn to drive.

cancellation and what to do if you have to cancell, or if an appointment gets cancelled on you. Unusual Situations sub catagory of what to do if condom breaks, testing..... Planning how far in advance...week...day...hours....what to expect. clock watching what to expect in the way opf a true courtesan vs. a woman who has 5 clocks in the room. Or should it be up to the client to watch the clock. When does the time start and finish..... Rates what to usually expect from lower rates vs. higher rates. Touring ladies Vs. Local talent working behind the scenes to help touring ladies come to town......spread the word of them and get people to help convince them...is it worth it or recomended.

Pete is absolutely right on hygiene. What a turn off for the SP and if you look at it the other way around I am not likely to stay and definitely not likely to comeback if the SP does not really care about her appearance. I may be old school but I believe it is important that as a client remembering to be a gentleman and showing the lady respect goes a long way to starting things off on the right foot. Conversely if I am greeted by a woman that shows no concern for the language she is using on the initial meet or is in a rush the effect can be very negative.

That first ice breaker is important whether its a firm hug, gentle kiss or both. I also like the lady to be happy so I usually ask do they like something specific. Pleased and be pleased! To me music playing in the background rather than the TV blaring is far superior. Soft lighting or candlelight is a nice enhancer to the experience.

When you first meet one another, a very generous hug and kiss at door when you 1st meet goes a long way, and really breaks the ice.:D Generally speaking from my own experiences that 1st moment really takes the encounter to a very relaxed atmosphere which is great for both parties involved. Plus at that stage, I always hand over my envelope, to get the transaction out of the way.:) 2ndly....Some very nice two way conversation also helps you feel relaxed...who cares what you talk about..but it helps to simply relax yourself. It is not a matter of grabbing your SP's hand and take her to bedroom and wham bam thank you mam...Effection/chat really does enhance that moment. Finally when you are done your fun activities, I like to lay beside my SP, carress and chat if time permitting of course. It really seals the deal. Hopefully Cat, these are the comments you are looking for! My take on it....Pete;) ps.. your personal hygiene goes a long way!! I always clean shave my facial hair, so NO whisker burns for her both regions.I'm fully showered and smell good, if requested to take another shower at her place...not a problem. I never used foul language when meeting/during activities with an SP it is just common courtesy.Yes I know some may say...come on ------ (SP name) you like to me to fu-- you hard now don't you...sorry but that is not my way.