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You know what I find interesting?...for as much as muff isn't talked about or praised overtly to a great degree here or on other boards, I think more men love and are more curious about natural kitties than one might deduce at first glance....the amount of views on this relatively recent thread being one interesting clue :) While shaved can be super hot, for sure, my first exposures to porn depicted women with wet, hairy pussies, so I'm hard wired for this now. Total turn on. That and big nipples and pendulous breasts. Yes, please! My kitty is graced with a soft (i.e. natural) landing strip, just so ya know ;p

Hello Cerbites, I have been having a day job since beginning September bringing me downtown Ottawa core and so I was there today and on lockdown till late in the day... Connected all day on TV with all reports and U know what being scared... We R known to be one of the best country in the world to be... will it still be the case after St-Jean-sur-Richelieu and Ottawa events.... hopefully nothing else will come out but who knows what a sick mind can think correct?? I know this is an escort recommendation site but I just felt I needed to share how I am and still am feeling now.... Sorry if U feel it it the wrong place and hey U can tell me. But I feel a little relieved. And yes Canada is a FANTASTIC country to live in!!! Thanks, merci Barbara xxxooo

Well, I'll throw my opinion in, and I hope I don't come off as bitter or rude! To touch on the part mentioned how it's so easy for women to have sex, no, I'm sorry, I completely disagree. Yes it is more easy to a certain extent, but why is that? Because there's a higher demand of men looking for sex, so the women have lots to choose from. Now why is that?! Well, to put it bluntly, we have to blame it on the patriarchy. But we'll get to that in a minute.. Men and women are taught at young ages very different things. Men are taught that they should be having sex, it's be all, end all in their lives, and they are praised for having it, lots of it! Women on the other hand(at least for the most part) are taught to save themselves, because if they sleep around, they loose a certain amount of their dignity(this is also a contributing factor as to why women selling sex is seen as so bad). We're taught not to sleep around or we'll be a whore, and who wants that?! So women are basically shamed into having the same carnal desires as men, so they decide to either supress them, or not care and live a fulfilling sexual life. Either way, they don't usually go looking for sex quite as much as men, since there still is that stigma and shame in the back of their mind. Another reason(not sure if I'm right or wrong with these, just spewing my ideas!) is this: for the most part, when men are choosing a provider, they at least usually try and find someone that is nice, caring, affectionate, etc. so it feels genuine to them. Men, in this sense, aren't just looking for a quick lay either, but something real, or that at least feels real. Women would be the same as well. For the most part, we don't run around screwing everything we can, we try to find someone who at least likes us before we sleep with them. This is why I have to disagree that it's so easy for women to have sex if they want it. If they're looking for really bad sex with someone they don't know and who probably doesn't even remember their first name, then yes, it's super easy! If they want to find someone to sleep with who at least slightly likes them, the odds slim down by A LOT. Trust me, I've been in the dating game for a long time, and the only availabilities are men who really could not care less about you, they just want in your pants. Now, back to the original subject.. One other huge contributing factor as to why there is such a lower demand for male escorts is simple: women don't usually make enough money to afford it. Most of the hobbiests in this business usually have a good business, or at least make a very comfortable living. I know the times are a-changin' but for the most part, the men are still the main breadwinner for most families while the women take care of the kids. Women, for the most part, do not make near as much as men, and are not nearly as high up in businesses as men(sorry, call me a feminist!), so they don't usually have hundreds to spare for pleasure. Sorry for my rambling, just my two cents on the matter! :) Posted via Mobile Device

Perhaps if it was your son who was gunned down or if you or someone you loved had been locked down and terrorized you might not see it as just a nut with a rifle and fear fear fear.... yes we will over react yes the right wing elements will use it as an example of why our liberties should be further restricted... but in my humble opinion it's ok to take a minute a reflect and remember because many Canadians did and do feel like they lost something this week. Just my opinion

Amazing Angela/ Lily that is her real picture 100% . she is beautiful and very sweet....

If you are in compliance with the lady's requirements and do not overstep boundaries (asking too many personal questions, sharing too many personal stories with her where she might not feel comfortable, insisting on off-the-clock extended conversing/texting or email, trying to stay over-time or enticing her to stay over time or meet off the clock for free, etc.) there is no reason why you should feel you are taking advantage of her. If you are getting a certain level of intimacy and other stimulation met through the time you spend with an SP without any unrealistic expectations, then I'd say you have a good arrangement. If you feel you are not totally satisfied and crave more, then you might be putting unrealistic expectations on the client/SP relationship. I understand some men do not want to pursue a dating relationship because for whatever reason they don't want the commitment that goes along with it. But you can't expect an SP no matter how gracious she is or how well you connect and get along with her, to give you access to her personal life, or her heart so to speak. Just because we are being paid does not mean we are there just for the money, but I would never want a client to think or expect it may develop into anything more. In some instances, a client and SP may click in the romance department and end up together as a couple, but it's not realistic for a client to see SPs hoping that will happen for him. I am not suggesting that is what you are doing, I'm just putting it out there, that if you think you are taking advantage of someone, ask yourself what you are doing that is perhaps making you feel guilty. I suggest you do a self-check, and if necessary, ask a provider you have been with who you trust who has the maturity to be honest and ask them if there is anything they have observed in your approach or behaviour that might be off putting. Little things that might not seem like such a big deal can something make others feel uncomfortable. Doesn't mean it can't be corrected.

So... last year we discussed things that were awesome... not like a billion diamonds awesome, but like sunshine awesome. This year we are looking at the anti-awesome. Things that suck. Large. But not large like a plane crash, or having your toes grow together (if that happens)... everyday suck stuff that you can look back at and sorta, giggle. 1. Grooming yourself at the public restroom, you lean too close to the vanity. It appears SOMEONE had been doing a full body bath before you. Result... faux pee stain on the front of your khakis. 2. You struggle and strain with the lid on a jar of something... say like jam (or instead of like jam, jam would suffice.) You pound it with a knife, you whack it on the floor, you run it under cold water. Finally brute force spells success. As you make the final brutal turn, the jar slips from your hand, flies through the air and crashes to the floor. Smashed into a million pieces, a million gooey sticky pieces. You have the lid in your hand. 3. In an intimate gathering you feel the discomfort of excess abdominal pressure. Using your ninja skills, you pass the discord silently into the room... forgetting the meal of cabbage rolls and sauerkraut the night before. No one is amused; they look at you and speak of a person that dines regularly on roadkill....

How about strip scrabble?

Thanks so much fStop for the help posts. This is a great trick in many cases but it doesn't apply to me as for me to be able to get my password I should have my password typed as dots already (.............) whereas in my case cerb automatically logs me in so I am already here when I click on cerb. If I logout then I am sure that cerb would ask me to type my password in an EMPTY textbox (not an already typed dotted password textbox with my password) and I don't want to logout either as it is a certain risk that I may not be able to login back.

My cold is getting WORSE, not better. So wanted to spend some time with someone visiting from out of town, but doesn't look like that's going to happen.

I've offered and loved doing this service in the past.... Maybe a nice bottle of vino to get to know each other, lots of touching, teasing and kissing! I now have the pleasure of being with CMJ where you can even do duo's and couple massage. OH the possibilities!

We should accept that this bill will be enacted and enforced as written. What we need to do now is discuss how to deal with it and preserve our ability to do what ever we want in a safe consensual manner. If done properly our response could even improve our encounters and eliminate the sludge that is occasionally experienced by both SP's and buyers. For clarity I don't support the new bill but I also don't think it will end this industry. Here are some initial thoughts: Advertising: We need to carefully examine the new law and change the way we communicate so as not to overtly contravene the law as written. There is no law against dating services of which there are many. If no price is established at this point then there is no selling involved. Encounters: Once in private we should discuss services and payment only after each party is comfortable of the situation. For established SP's and repeat encounters this will not be too difficult. For new encounters this places more emphasis on demonstrating each party are not law enforcement. CERB site: needs to change to not make it easy for law enforcement to place charges. Intent to commit an offence can be established by law enforcement by engaging on this site in a way that clearly establishes the intent to buy or sell services. We need a discussion forum on this NOW! before the bill is enacted to ensure we get our ducks in order.

Being asked "are you available now?" This usually comes from people who haven't even said hi let alone asked where I am located. Sorry but I don't sit around looking pretty, I have shit to do just like everyone else! But hey, if you want to see someone who isn't at their best....

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I remember a few years ago the two had the same owners but Mila told not so anymore. Also as per tip to bouncers at Pigale not sure this is the case. I have seen bouncers leading patrons to tables and not being tipped at all. Last year I tipped one only $5 and he appeared surprised. Now tonight is Saturday night and I have to make the decision as which bar or bars to visit to relax myself from a week of long hours at hard work.

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I did a small tour on Wednesday. Didn't expect much considering the situation. First stop was Barb's, and it was closed (found out tonight they were told to stay closed by police). Second stop was Barefax. It was open, but very empty. Only saw a dozen or so customers. 3 girls on, so it ended up being more of a catching up with the staff kind of night. Called it quits after that. On the note about tipping the bouncers @ Pigale's, I've never ever done that, and never been asked/hinted either. Is this new? (I haven't been in a couple of months)

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Except for a married period, I've always gone solo for Christmas too. Don't mean nothing to me. Vietnamese take-out, walking around an empty city on Christmas Eve. Sounds sad, but only to those who need others.

It was just an idiot with a gun. One innocent person died. If anything, it just goes to show that security around Parliament Hill sucks and that's just about all. Really, put things into perspective. This guy killed 5 people with a kitchen knife: http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/calgary-stabbings-how-knife-crime-in-canada-can-cause-moral-panic-1.2611698 This isn't terrorism, it's an idiot with a crappy rifle. Much ado about little. An amateur, an idiot. Yet the government is keen to take away our rights. Fear, fear, fear, is all we hear. We will all pay, pay dear, dear, dear. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xuf0eLJ7-wk

Just met a gal with a soft and really succulent trimmed pussy. It was a delicious treat. Nom Nom. :-)

I'm cynical and thus a firm believer in justice, not as a theological post-grave construct or a magic-karma thing but as a particular variation of the law of cause-and-effect. This is why I think we'll prevail. In more detail: We affirm our right to make a living using, amongst other things, our bodies ... as part of the interaction with other consenting adults who are within their rights to spend their own money in exchange for our services. Of course, so do actresses, and butchers & bakers & candlestick makers -- but somehow the sexual nature of our work inspires some folks to want to demonize us. Long term and perhaps not just long-term, what gives me hope is that we have truth on our side, i.e., we make our points with honesty as our basic premise. The "other side" seems to be using confusion and obfuscation ... and often blatant dishonesty. That bodes well for us. If anyone had any moral fuzziness on this point, this aspect in and of itself ... it should help clarify things, greatly. I've met Dennis Hof (who runs a number of legal brothels in Nevada) and worked with him over the course of several days, while making a website for one of his business ventures. I learned quite a bit about how he operates. I like how he deals with critics. He invites them, individually, for an all-expenses-paid week-long visit to one of his brothels. The critic (stereotypically, a conservative Christian female reporter or a faux-feminist reporter from the left side of the political spectrum) is not supposed to interfere with business (e.g., go confront clients or ruin the mood) but is welcome to wander around, look around, eat meals with the girls, and ask any questions of anyone and everyone who works there. By the time they leave, they've lost many illusions and the most honest amongst these critics have become convinced that their animosity was misguided. I hasten to add that some of the people who push for criminalization have so dishonest an axe to grind that no amount of reasoning will sway them, but if we can get the word out to the relatively rational voting public, it bodes well. It's time for paraphrase my favourite philosopher, Ayn Rand: on our side of the battle, we have three powerful weapons: rights, reason and reality. Let's use them. .Tanya Additional Comments: The basic issue is one of rights. We have the right to use our bodies as we're doing. Laws don't change rights; they can at best make some activities illegal. Criminalizing prostitution morally changes nothing. It just makes the law wrong, and puts law enforcement on the side of prosecuting those who aren't doing anything wrong. So, it's an inversion of justice. One of my clients (and also by now, a friend) is a senior retired police officer. Even many years later, he recalls with bitterness and shame the injustice he enacted when he was sent out to arrest service providers. A great many law enforcement officers are basically good people. They signed up in the name of justice, to protect citizens from violent people. They resent being made the enforcers of bad laws. I'm not in Hawaii nor am I a Hawaiian, but still ... Hawaii makes for an interesting case study. The law enforcement officers in Honolulu are very focused on preventing and arresting for violent crime, and by contrast they generally attend to nominally criminalised prostitution (involving consenting adults) with a lack of enthusiasm that I consider to be quite refreshing. Even the formal legal commentary that's on the official Hawaiian law document states (better-worded than I can paraphrase here from memory) that criminalising prostitution makes little sense but when a loud enough portion of the populace pushes for it, such a law ends up being passed and so here it is but don't expect much good to come from it. I hasten to add that whoever chooses to spend his money on a service provider is also within his rights, so I take issue with the Scandinavian model. With all of that clearly in mind, there's one aspect that seems so peculiar that I'm surprised anyone can entertain the notion of criminalising voluntary-exchange prostitution as a serious idea. Let's agree that forced labour + abduction + holding someone against their will (slavery, essentially) is bad, and its eradication deserves of every iota of law enforcement resources we can muster. Were we to criminalise voluntary prostitution then this would divert resources from that just cause. For now let's ignore what the law enforcement officers would be doing as part of enforcing laws that criminalise prostution transactions between consenting adults. Let's say they just lit candles and held hands and sang Kumbaya. Even so it'd be a step backwards because such time and energy could and should have been allocated to going after the people who are, in precise terms, enslaving others. (The 90%+10% in my chart might be 80%+20% or 20%+80% instead, but you get the idea). Somehow voluntary sex work gets painted with the same tar brush as sexual slavery, as if the former were essentially the same as the latter. On such premises, agriculture should have been criminalized across the board at the time, because in the American South there were slaves involved in agriculture. The more I think about this proposed law, the less sense it makes. One more thing: One trick that faux-feminists will sometimes pull (and I resent their attempted usurpation of the title "feminist" since I am a true feminist) is a sexist twist on the notion "a hungry man is not free". To the extent that we agree with that premise, it's a slippery-slope argument towards our opponents' point of view. Of course, that critique, even if it held water (which it doesn't) would apply to many fields of endeavour, including the US miltary which, some claim, penalizes poor and/or black people by giving them an option that private industry would not. The "people are victimized even if they're politically free" premise makes a contradictory and jumbled conceptual mess, both north and south of the Canada-US border. .Tanya

Umm Christmas! I love everything about it, but I would have to say the best is Granny's home made turkey soup. I just love being all cuddled up by the fireplace all nice and warm watching my favorite Christmas movies and sipping on a warm bowl of soup. Stiletto Girl Charlie XO

I truly hope that "Krista" is NOT doing Civil Engineering as the number of girls in that faculty is very very small and it will be easy to identify her if that is the case -- hopefully that part of the article in vice.com is misinformation.

There is a candy you only get at Christmas, called chicken bones. I suspect you can only get them down east, although I think I've seen them at the bulk barn. They are chocolate with a hard pink cinnamon flavoured coating. UM UM.

This year added to the mix (just for myself) apple crumble tarts and apple crisp...got a couple good recipes And my first time tart cooking turned out GREAT!!! RG

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This is an article written a few weeks ago that gives a quick look at the bill. Since there is no media coverage on this bill passing today, it's the best I've got for now. http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/politics/cyberbullying-bill-c-13-moves-on-despite-supreme-court-decision/article20885941/

Senate meetings update, they have been rescheduled to Wed Oct 29th 4:15 PM and Thurs Oct 30th - 10:30 am Webcast: http://senate-senat.ca/webcast-e.asp Diffusion web: http://senate-senat.ca/webcast-f.asp

Vitto is now retired. And both Jessica and Dannika are great kissers, YMMV

Have met many more women in the last couple of months. In case Bill C36 passes. Many of these wonder women may retire. Or I may have to give the hobby. Don't know yet till it happens. But I just wanted to say that the more women I meet here, the more I respect and appreciate what they do. People outside of Cerb do not understand that people here do this out of their free will and really do enjoy meeting each other. I don't think many women here do this out because they have to. Most of the women I have met, have told me they truly love this work and will do it as long as they are able. I think this why I have such fun sessions. I've met many sex women here that just love what they do and if you are a gentleman and clean, the sky's the limit :)

Hi Everyone. . Just wanted to wish you all the best, unfortunately some life event has changed dramatically my life and I have decided to retire I full from the massage (adult) industry. I wanted to say thank you to those who were there for me this past years... those who became my friends, anyone who supported me in many ways Love to all and may happiness be with you! Vitto

I hope it's OK for a service provider to write her fantasies too. After all, I chose this line of work because I like how sexy it is. I'm into BDSM as a switch (meaning, depending on the context I can be either a sub or Domme) but the fantasy vs. reality gap is pretty darn wide. And the deal I have with client is that sex isn't certain to be included, it's just very likely (and I offer a full refund if the session wasn't worth it). So, I DO get to decide. My fantasy is to be able to decide just once. By that, I mean: If I know and like a client enough to where, for an overnight, I decide once, up front and then for the rest of the time, as long as he uses condom and lube, the answer is categorically "yes" -- he doesn't even have to ask. So I might be asleep or half asleep and feel myself being moved into position and then mounted and ridden as long and as hard as the gentleman wants. There'd be no asking. He'd just use me. Hot!! The only time I have tried this was with someone I'd known and trusted for many months and had perhaps 20 sessions with already -- but he abused the privilege and without me realizing it or approving, he omitted a condom and then gloated about it. I was sad and angry. I left immediately. That was the last time I saw him. Afterwards, I waited the appropriate length of time and then got a battery of STD tests. Everything turned out to be OK but still I resented the uncertainty and having my rules violated like that. Anyway, if someone could be trusted to respect my health & safety rules AND then treat me as their owned f-toy that'd be SO hot -- primal. Mhm.

Welcome to "the club" and kudos on your rational and open-minded approach. As to: "No sense in letting your secrets known" -- I'm actually fine with sharing what I know. In other professions, the "best practices" are often compiled by a board or committee and circulated amongst members. In some cases they're even binding as a condition of joining the guild. What sets me apart is more the particular blend of attributes I offer, rather than a secret recipe. I understand the "arms race" concern that once these safety measures become widely known, criminals will now how to get past them. While that logic is impossible to fault, I think there's more to the issue yet. That's why, in my opinion, public disclosure would not necessarily make things less safe for those of us who are already following these rules. A former romantic partner of mine studied psychology including criminal behavior, and with a few exceptions (see the movie Entrapment for a dramatization) she learned that criminals almost always take the path of least resistance and/or where they are least likely to be caught (e.g., they'll most likely burgle the hotel room closest to the stairs, or a corner house), and by extension, they will find and target girls who are sloppy about their personal safety. Unfortunately, even if "rules of safety" were widely known, many service providers would ignore them anyway. I'm not 19 anymore but when I was, I behaved as if I were bullt-proof and I suspect this is such common behavior that this is where the criminals will focus: gullible, naive targets without a well-developed sense of risk management. I actually love your "let's help each other" premise and I'm hereby personally inviting you to a cup of tea and a chat when I get to Vancouver on the 30th. I believe there's a lot of mutual empowerment possible, not least because sometimes I'm approached by a client who's not a good fit for me and it'd be nice if I could refer him to someone whom I know and trust. Please contact me and I'll be happy to share with you my safety-related principles. (Anyone else is welcome to ask too.) .Tanya

Just came back from there on the weekend, Brass rail second floor 1 word WOW !! You have to go, 85 girls dancing!!!

OMG, the shit that we put in our bodies! For many it is a realistic hope that this will cure the bastard known as cancer. For most, it is a painful, exhausting way to "live". If you know someone going thru treatment, give them an unexpected hug, call, kiss. If you know someone REALLY well, give them a blow job, or offer to provide DATY until you both pass out. It is all really, really appreciated Tom TheLiquor

Just as sex workers are shamed by society, so are the clients who see them. It's time to tell my side of the story TONY CALVIN Tony Calvin is the pen name for an engineer living in Silicon Valley. http://www.salon.com/2014/10/20/why_i_visit_prostitutes/

I'm a perpetual loner so I do not have issues with emotional intimacy, that and I have a really short attention span lol, so I can't offer any advice regarding that. But get over the idea that you are 'using' the provider. In any mutually beneficial arrangement, whether it be a SP encounter (with her in full control of her affairs) or a real world business deal, each side uses the other. As far as I'm concerned it's a "win-win" situation and the word 'use' really doesn't apply. Now if a lady has been forcibly coerced into this world and is being abused and exploited by a pimp or human traffickers, then yes, in that case you are using her, but in the CERB world I think such situations are few and far in between.

Well said Angela! Took the words out of my mouth:) I can also reiterate, that perhaps you are asking too many questions of a personal nature with her? I too, get very uncomfortable with that, and it could cause a small wedge between us. Keep conversation fun and lively, with humor and yes some serious chats is intriguing as well. But if you begin to dive into her personal relationship questions, such as " well doesn't he mind that you do this? Or " how to hide it from your kids?" well it would defiantly a loss of romance and adventure for the lady. One element many men miss, is that most ladies, when preparing for our date we switch into out alter ego. Much like an actor would. I call it " Sophiafied" lol...So by getting into deep personal questions, I loose my alter ego and get into my "me" mode and then I find it difficult to jump back into the sexy, seductive creature that I created for "Sophia" It is not a lie of who we are, but a more pronounced version of our sexy side. Another aspect to be an escort, is that for the most part we are givers by nature. This means, we much rather you spill your stress and worries on us if you need to talk about things in your life that are upsetting for you. Often lending an ear and shoulder if needed. I have had many of my dear clients unload their worries on me. Some heartbroken and shed a tear. But as a professional, I would never do this to a client. Never would I unload my inner most vulnerabilities. Because, we are here for YOU, you are the center of our attention and focus during our time together. So why do we all that? Well for my ownself, I truly love my work, and although "Sophia" is an alter ego, she is still another version of who the real me is. So in staying true to my real self being a giver it is not just a façade. I have a friend, the poor guy is so sweet and nice but always becomes the "friend or just like a brother" from most ladies he meets. But you see, when he meets ladies he wants to dive into their ways of thinking. Becoming like a confidant to them, helping them threw issues.....then before you know it, he missed the mark on when to make the move on them, and now is viewed" oh your just like a brother to me". So as you can see it also can happen in the "real world" too. But in our professional mutually beneficial escort relations, it can happen much more quickly to loose that moment. And that's when you begin to feel like your being "used" or vis versa. There certainly times, even with a good provider that chemistry just doesn't seem to be there. Not much can be done about that but try to enjoy the time and move on. And certainly there are providers that will make you feel like just a wallet rather then a man, that is a live and learn scenario. Maybe think of it this way, when you book time with a lady, think of it as your "man's spa day". It is just a retreat for you to treat yourself. Nothing more then a way to relax and have that human contact.

Well, to be blunt, they are there because of the exchange that you do. But then, so are you. You wouldn't be there if it wasn't for the exchange, in other words this is a mutually beneficial arrangement. There is nothing wrong with mutually beneficial arrangements between consenting adults. Most sps do this because they are people who are able to be morally open minded. They wouldn't last long if they are judgmental, or if they were self judgmental for their choices. Many clients are also morally openminded, and non judgmental. It is possible to share time with people that are friendly, fun and seemingly intimate, but are really only sharing conversation in a nonthreatening environment. This is a good thing, and will benefit you in your everyday life. Take and enjoy the experiences, and the sharing, and don't try to put a label on it. I assure you that the majority of sps do not feel taken advantage of in these mutually beneficial arrangements, they will only feel that way if something changes in the agreed upon exchange.

just wanted to mention that i try to please and sometimes im trimmed and sometimes bald, i always take requests :) thank you for the reference

Yup I do !

I believe she used to work many years ago at Angels Touch/Paradise.

I don't think it'll fly. Although the CPC refuses to acknowledge the existence of sex workers who aren't heterosexual cis-gender females, I think the language in C36 just talks about "people", and so all the laws that apply to female providers apply to male ones too.

Believe it or not, it can be nerve wracking for a stripper to walk up to a man, offer a dance only to get turned down. Especially if she sees other dancers approach a customer and being turned down. Perhaps that dancer thinks the first girl that was turned out is more attractive then her. I find that being away from the "pervert stage" as well as letting them approach you from behind helps. So, when picking a seat, try to pick one that is away from the center stage and that also allows the dancers to approach you from any direction (side, front, back). It also helps alot when you are in a high traffic area! lol my 2 cents

Thanks for the reminder Lexy, us ladies will need to support each other as industry references no more then ever. Also, Hobbyist, you will need to learn NOT to ask about service details!!! No more chats and abbreviations. You are booking for time spent only. I have explained this to many of my loves, but even after explaining it, I am still being asked for details, it is frustrating that they wont use their imaginations. Like if we say " hour of our time is XX" then I get a responds that says " so what we sit around for an hour?" LIKE really?? How else can I say it while remaining legal and not incriminating you? I suppose these men will figure it out soon enough after asking me 10 times, what do we do for an hour?? LOL

When is the day the bullshit bill goes to Senate and then after Senate is that it? I've looked everywhere and admit I was getting quite frustrated and upset re-reading everything so I will just ask. Hobbyists of all genders: Start your lists of all the Companions you have seen and would like to see. Obviously the established, reputable and trusted companions are not LE. Keep as much info as you can gather, Names, Phone numbers, Emails, Websites and a Notes Section/Column (read their reco thread or had good discussions etc.). Put it in an Excel Spread sheet and email it to your hobby email or put it on a USB and in a safe spot. It's always good to have a Plan B if this bullshit bill passes!! No hobbyist needs to stop hobbying, just do your research and don't wait until the last minute/night before. All My Love, Support, Hugs and Kisses, Lexy

Interesting to see that both sides react passionately to this thread. Very interesting debate. Although I haven't seen too many providers over the past few years, there are 2 that left very memorable memories in my mind. One was in Vancouver, and the other one was here in Halifax. The kind that filled me with physical, sensual and psychological wonder for the rest of the day, and even many days after. The kind of session that still makes me become hard and:jackoff: still today even if it happened almost 3 years ago for one of them. I am sorry to say there is no specific recipe or magic formula. Chemistry happens or it doesn't. It is a combination of things that put all together make you totally forget this is business first. Regardless of an open-mind posture, your physical attributes, an endless list of services (none of them had any but sky was the limit when reading between the lines), an endless stock of lingerie, professional pictures, etc. A few things tips for the build up though. First, be professional by being ready on the agreed time. I have met too many providers who were asking for extra time with a last minute notice. Then, make your client feel welcomed, regardless of the location (private residence or hotel room). Finally be attentive and fully involved. Some basic chat and initial physical contact are good ice-breakers. This is when I know if this will be a good or a poor session. Body language doesn't fool the experienced hobbyist. Pre-session communication is also crucial. I have enough experience now to be able to say is there is potential for good fun with an email exchange or a phone conversation. Don't get me wrong, there's always a certain unavoidable awkwardness when perfect strangers talk about intimate details for the first time. But strangely, chemistry can already be at work at that stage. The rest feels so much easier once that initial feel is there. This is when a provider becomes a partner with whom you can develop a durable intimate business relationship.

http://Www.escorts-canada.com now has free text ads as well.

The localescorts.ca classified system "2.0" is installed and running now. This opens up ALL the cities in CANADA and the text ads are free. The system is a work in progress but it seams to be running pretty good. It lets you edit the text ads using a link sent by email. Paid ads are automatically on top and automatically BUMPED to the top of the text ads every few hours. Any improvements you can suggest I will pass them onto the developers.