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Like Victoria, I prefer the business model that the industry in the US uses. Yes, I prefer dealing with American clients. I had the same shocking experience when I arrived in Canada. Demands for services up front, bareback services and vilification when I refused to commit before meeting a client. It's one of the reasons I seldom advertise and have developed a business model that ensures I don't have to see new clients regularly. I feel the new laws are an opportunity to set some imbalances straight, making the industry better and all we have to do is adapt. The providers in this industry are brilliant adapters, the clients...not so much. C36 says we are not allowed to advertise sexual services when putting ads out thru 3rd party advertisers. Perhaps we can to return to the model of selling an experience rather than a laundry list of services. Going back to the old structure of a 30 minute appointment means a blow job and an hour means full service is an option? Everyone will figure out what works for them and the show will go on. It always does... cat

Until such time that we are regulated by the federal or provincial government, the human rights laws do not apply. You might want to read up on the human rights laws. I understand what you are saying, but these laws do not apply. We are not a public service, open to the public. Our service is unlike any other industry and we need to remember that. I don't like the "no blacks guys" ads either. However, I know a lady who was being stalked by a former boyfriend. He would follow her across the country, stalk her, beat her and terrorize her. The only way she knew how to keep herself safe was to say no black men. Sad, but she had no other choice other then to leave the industry. The day I am forced to see someone I don't want to see because someone claims discrimination, I will scream to the mountains.

Hello everyone , I hope I am posting in the proper spot . As several ladies have done I have amended my friend list . My list is already small and exclusive so my job is not huge . I hope not to offend anyone but if we have had no contact for a year we may not again . Love and good vibrations to all , Katherine

You can to listen to, or watch recordings of the Senate Meetings from the last 2 days here: Title LCJC Meeting No. 45 Location Room 257, East Block Event Date Wednesday, Oct 29, 2014 Actual Start Time Wednesday, Oct 29, 04:11 PM EDT Actual End Time Wednesday, Oct 29, 06:22 PM EDT Status Adjourned Description Meeting No. 45 Standing Senate Committee on Legal and Constitutional Affairs Bill C-36, An Act to amend the Criminal Code (Canada v. Bedford) Edward Herold, Professor Emeritus, University of Guelph (As an Individual) Bernard Lerhe (As an Individual) Barbara Gosse, Senior Director, Research, Policy and Innovation (Canadian Women's Foundation) The Honourable Andrew Swan, M.L.A., Minister of Justice and Attorney General (Government of Manitoba) http://senparlvu.parl.gc.ca/Guide.as...46&Language=E# Title LCJC Meeting No. 46 Location Room 257, East Block Event Date Thursday, Oct 30, 2014 Actual Start Time Thursday, Oct 30, 10:24 AM EDT Actual End Time Thursday, Oct 30, 12:12 PM EDT Status Adjourned Description Meeting No. 46 Standing Senate Committee on Legal and Constitutional Affairs Bill C-36, An Act to amend the Criminal Code (Canada v. Bedford) Ian M. Carter, Member of the Executive, Criminal Justice Section (Canadian Bar Association) Gunilla S. Ekberg, Lawyer, University of Glasgow School of Law (As an Individual) Gaylene Schellenberg, Lawyer, Legislation and Law Reform (Canadian Bar Association) Consideration of a draft agenda (future business) http://senparlvu.parl.gc.ca/Guide.as...46&Language=E#

What it all boils down to is the providers comfort zone and preference.

I kinda feel there are enough haters out there willing to degrade and beat up on sex workers without having to see people who participate in this industry do so within this forum... what exactly are we trying to accomplish with this thread for fuck sake this issue has been beaten to death. This industry is a microcosm of the rest of society... we will have the same traits as the rest of society... good and bad. Are there racist SP's and clients yes... is everything described in this thread racism no. Let's give it a rest. I have played in this industry for a long long time... more regularly in the last few years but my experience is that the people who work in the Sex Industry are probably the most open to diversity than any other group. Just my opinion

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Some providers are racist. Why are we all dancing around this? As some posters have already stated I'm sure a few of them have some non racist reasons for putting " NO BLACKS" etc... in their adds but at the end of the day there are WAY to many adds like this to be justified. I literally counted over 50 in one day on back page. Are we really talking about preference? I never see adds that say No fatties or guys over 300 pounds No bald guys Please have your teeth Wear nice clothes Must be over 6 feet! Please have a cut cock Please don't have a cut cock Etc..... I thought the only thing that mattered was Be respectful Have good Hygiene I think too now say that these girls are merely exercising their " preferences" is disingenuous and not honest to the discussion. I realize there are exceptions and everything is not always black or white. ( no pun intended ) but one must assume a majority of these women have racial issues. Again, I'm sure some girls have valid reasons that are not racial but we must acknowledge that racism does exist here and not try to brush all of this under the rug. I also think its important for me to state that I believe that a lady has a 100 percent right to refuse anyone she wants. Its her decision! Period! Whether I personally agree or not. I also think that this is not as much of a problem here on Cerb as I have found in my experience that the ladies here are professional with class.

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if I may ... I would like to put a different spin on this ... for the most part it is just a matter of what a sp is attracted to ... they do not need to try new ethnicities to know if they are attracted to them ... this is not food we are talking about.... Also ... please do not tell me hobbyist do not also book based on attraction .... if they are not attracted to a BBW for instance ... they will not book with her ... is this racism ???? I think not !!!

Yes there is As per the laws guys cannot talk about money and services Booking a date require screening.. So no one expect to have a McDonald's drive tru date

Just like the other thread on this topic probably time to close this thread.

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Liberal senator to propose changes to controversial new prostitution bill By: Stephanie Levitz, The Canadian Press http://www.winnipegfreepress.com/can...280944432.html OTTAWA - A Liberal senator will propose more amendments to the Conservative government's controversial anti-prostitution bill as the clock ticks down on a court-imposed deadline for implementation of a new law. The Senate has concluded its committee study of Bill C-36 and the bill is expected to be back before the upper chamber for third reading next week. Liberal Sen. George Baker said Thursday he intends to introduce 15 amendments during that debate, all seeking to remove provisions which would criminalize those who sell sex. "We didn't hear from anybody who said that those provisions should be there," he said in an interview. The Conservative government wants to get the bill through the legislative process by the middle of November, so it can get royal assent and become law by December. That would meet the deadline imposed by the Supreme Court of Canada when it struck down existing laws as unconstitutional last year. The court found the laws violated the charter rights of sex workers because they were criminally prohibited from taking measures to keep themselves safe. In response, the government introduced the current bill, which it argues protects sex workers by giving them access to bodyguards and the ability to work indoors. However, none of that can happen if a third party benefits or the sex worker is operating in exploitative conditions. But scores of witnesses told both MPs and senators that the various exemptions in the bill are open to further charter challenges. For example, while the bill would allow sex workers to advertise, it would make it an offence for anyone to run those ads, said Ian Clark, an executive member of the Canadian Bar Association's national criminal justice section. "Therefore, an individual who is attempting to sell their services cannot avail themselves of any advertising, can't screen clients on the Internet, various things that the Supreme Court raised that were important," Clark told the Senate legal affairs committee on Thursday. "This ban on advertising, given the fact that selling remains lawful, is potentially unconstitutional." The bill has already been amended once, to tighten restrictions on where it would be illegal to communicate for the purpose of selling sex. But that provision, as well as any others which continue to criminalize sex work need to be struck out, Baker said. He said he was troubled by testimony from Manitoba's provincial justice minister, who said he would simply tell prosecutors not to proceed with charges in the event prostitutes were arrested under those provisions. That creates an abuse of process, which is a constitutional violation, Baker said. "You'll have somebody arrested, put in jail probably and then no prosecution taking place," he said. "So it's a rather ridiculous situation that those provisions are now in the bill that will create such confusion at the end of the day." For Baker's amendments to pass, he'll need the support of some Conservative senators as their party holds the majority in the Senate. "I think there will be some support there simply because it's a unanimous thing on the part of those who have appeared," he said. Debate over the bill has revealed a split between those who consider sex work a legitimate profession that requires access to safe working conditions and those who see all people working as prostitutes as victims in an industry that needs to be outlawed. But the Senate committee was urged Thursday to consider putting partisan differences aside to reach a compromise on good legislation to protect everyone.

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We all have our own personal.preferences and have every right to those In some instances maybe it is.racism and what really can.you do...its alive and out there It.could.be many reasons why.a provider will ask your race Could be because she prefers a certain race Could be because.she.dates only a.certain race and doesnt want to.run.into someone she may know on a personal level Only the lady knows why I.personally like to see all gentlemen race is not an issue BUT age is for me I prefer not to date.younger than 25.because I feel I.connect better with.older gents and I.enjoy our time together and also I have a son that is 20 and it wouldn't feel right to me regardless if I am.being paid for my time

For the record, I myself have met Caucasian, Canadian-born men who also treat women this way. Stereotyping races is the exact definition of racism and surely has no place on the forum.

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If you are in compliance with the lady's requirements and do not overstep boundaries (asking too many personal questions, sharing too many personal stories with her where she might not feel comfortable, insisting on off-the-clock extended conversing/texting or email, trying to stay over-time or enticing her to stay over time or meet off the clock for free, etc.) there is no reason why you should feel you are taking advantage of her. If you are getting a certain level of intimacy and other stimulation met through the time you spend with an SP without any unrealistic expectations, then I'd say you have a good arrangement. If you feel you are not totally satisfied and crave more, then you might be putting unrealistic expectations on the client/SP relationship. I understand some men do not want to pursue a dating relationship because for whatever reason they don't want the commitment that goes along with it. But you can't expect an SP no matter how gracious she is or how well you connect and get along with her, to give you access to her personal life, or her heart so to speak. Just because we are being paid does not mean we are there just for the money, but I would never want a client to think or expect it may develop into anything more. In some instances, a client and SP may click in the romance department and end up together as a couple, but it's not realistic for a client to see SPs hoping that will happen for him. I am not suggesting that is what you are doing, I'm just putting it out there, that if you think you are taking advantage of someone, ask yourself what you are doing that is perhaps making you feel guilty. I suggest you do a self-check, and if necessary, ask a provider you have been with who you trust who has the maturity to be honest and ask them if there is anything they have observed in your approach or behaviour that might be off putting. Little things that might not seem like such a big deal can something make others feel uncomfortable. Doesn't mean it can't be corrected.

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Boy, it sure reads that clients are a real problem..... To be a little fair though any one whose been involved in the game for awhile has seen how the discussions and ads have changed and lots of them are much more open and graphic about services, rates etc. Might be because of competition but who knows, even the Shout Box on here has changed since it's inception and is often very graphic about services offered. Any one newish to the game this is the only model they've ever known. As long as it's balanced for every one then fair game and those who choose to play will. Peace MG

Just thinking outloud here...but what is wrong with companionship (yes even paid companionship), a real date. Conversation, dinner out, going out somewhere. Yes it may include sex. But sex isn't the reason for the date. Meeting (or reconnecting) with someone is the reason in and of itself of the date Or am I just getting older A rambling RG

Thank-you. I have seen this before on that site too many times over the last few years and I cannot believe that all women could be so racist. From what I have witnessed over there, this isn't even about racism at all where the SP is concerned. It may be more of a territorial issue where some men may not be welcome. It happened to a client of mine and he is black and was refused at the door. I explained to him the possibilities of why the appointment was declined and he was then able to move on from it. Yes saying that in an ad definitely comes across as racist but I think in many of these situations it goes way beyond that. I don't want to expand on my theories and don't want to generalize but some may not even be making their own personal choices as to who they want to see and don't want to see.

Let's not dance around the issue then. Maybe some of these ladies are racist, but I would dare to guess it's more like the "majority of these women" probably have husbands, boyfriends or handlers who are black and so that makes seeing other black men a no no. Period. And as a rule they tend to advertise on places like BP, which is why you will see so many of those types of ads.

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I never seen Kandie myself , YET, but I have some info on her. I actually posted about looking for info on her a few months back in the New Brunswick section as she was in Moncton for a few weeks. I got a couple of inbox messages from different guys that had seen her. All said pics were accurate (she didn't have the video posted back then) and that the session was great. One complaint from Moncton was that her place wasn't great and just a mattress on the floor. I contacted her while i was in Moncton via text message. She responded right away, seamed nice , friendly and answered any questions I had. Wanted her to come to my upscale hotel but she wouldn't , said it was strictly in-call at her place. I offered to cover cab fares and extra but she was solid "no" on visiting a hotel. So I never seen her cause I don't do in-call unless it is to a hotel where the girl is staying. I will be back in halifax next week so I will contact her again to see what her accommodation are like in Halifax if she is still in the city. I really like to meet up with her , love the pic of her in that white/black stripe dress.

Moncton can be a sparse area by times for sure, but in addition to the SPs mentioned in this discussion already, keep your eyes open for SPs that travel to the area. Many SPs advertise on the board that they will be visiting well in advance so you have time to check them out. Also, the last minute bookings in Moncton are tough to find as many SPs that offer services there do live in NB but not in Moncton so booking in advance is essential. Hope that helps.

Hi everyone, new here. Used a similar site a while back when I visited Montreal and I found that hobbyist were very accommodating to help even the new guy. So here it goes. I leave for Ottawa next week. I was wondering if anyone knows of a pretty young thing that would be willing to meet and perhaps sell me some of her fine undies. Kind of a fetish of mine, also makes for a nice souvenir. If anyone can PM me and send me in the right direction, that would be great. Second, if anyone who has had an encounter who genuinely enjoyed her Greek experience, please let me know. Cheers everyone.

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Yes I agree, desperation is a turn off in all areas of life !! People all need to read between the lines . Hmm, time for us all to do some self evaluation . Perhaps fantasy verses reality can play huge in these thoughts. Good luck to all of us!

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I came working from usa with a good experience and with a business model and it got crush the first year I work in Canada I had a lot of bitter impressions toward Canadian ..Moving forward with my situation it had gone worse .. I'm sorry to say but I will embrace that sex for money will become illegal maybe Canadian will be more like the great usa ones I met (Please do not generalize my comment..I did met great ones in Canada it's just rare)

I had mentioned on an earlier post one fantasy gets to be completed and a new one arrives, I had the supreme pleasure of my first duo this past summer, since late September the fantasy that developed in my mind was to have the pleasure of having the company of two ladies for the night, the two ladies whom I was thinking of when that fantasy came to mind was Miss Gabriella Laurence and Miss Carley Chase. I had the awesome pleasure of having the company of each of these two ladies a couple of times this fall and in conversation I found out they had contacted each other in the past with the possibility of giving some lucky man the pleasure of being with them both at the same time. During the time I was giving Gabby a tour of PEI I brought the subject up, with her respect of my judgement due to the fact the ladies had never met she said it was ok to approach Carley and try to set it up, Carley accepted my judgement also. The maiden voyage of Gabby and Carley being a duo happened this week I am very priviliged to say I was the lucky man and I am indeed a very lucky man. The title of this review "A Night of Euphoria" describes this occasion so well, the definition of Euphoria is a condition which a person experiences intense feelings,well being, elation, happiness, excitement and joy, that pretty well describes how the Magician felt this week and from the ladies faces them also. Our evening started out at a nice restaurant where we could sort of break the ice in Gabby and Carley getting to know other, both ladies looking stunning, dressed in a sexy casual way, in a very short time my smile was from ear to ear in watching these two very sexy ladies from across the table chatting, laughing together, in a very short time both ladies told me I had terrific judgement, permanent grin on my face now. There is definitely many forms of foreplay when you are with someone and for sure this was one. If you have had the pleasure of meeting either Gabby and Carley or if you are as lucky as me have met them both imagine seeing them both at the same time you are definitely in a happy place. We then went to the Condo I had rented where the evening and night was everything I could ever ask or dream of, as you know the success of having a duo is both ladies enjoying each other as much as I enjoy the two ladies, again it was simply amazing how Gabby and Carley were relaxed and into each other on this their first time together. The Euphoria of the evening and the night started when both ladies appeared dressed in very sexy lingerie and in my favorite colours, not sure if any words can describe how I felt seeing them both looking so damn hot and sexy. As usual for the bedroom activities of the night and morning all I can say is both ladies love to please both man and woman and both ladies loved to be pleased by a man and woman, my new titles for both are Gabriella "The Queen of Sexual Sensuality" and Carley "The Princess of Sexual Desire", their new titles fit them so well, I am still so pleased how well they connected with each other, the three of us all got 110 per cent in the chemistry that flowed in the bedroom along with the moans of pleasure, fireworks and waterworks, a Night of Euphoria indeed. Ladies it was an evening, night and definitely a morning to remember for the rest of my life, excellent way to complete what I call an amazing 2014, I know for sure it will be my pleasure and privilege to be able to see either of you in 2015, hopefully both of you, both of you are very special ladies, very special indeed. In closing fellow hobbiests here on Cerb as I mentioned in my earlier reviews of both Gabby and Carley if you get the chance to see either lady go for it,you will not be disappointed in anyway, if you have the good luck of seeing them together you can thank me later. Magician :)

Unless the lady is refusing them for reasons such as not wanting to run into people from the same group, etc. then it is racism. Plain and simple, nothing else around it. It may be a "preference", but it's a racist preference. This article sums it up nicely: http://everydayfeminism.com/2013/11/racial-preferences-are-racist/ Out of curiosity, has anyone seen any SP's advertising "No White Guys"? Probably not. With all that said, I do agree the SP's have every right to pick and choose who they see and should never feel pressured to see someone they aren't comfortable with. (not trying to start a new discussion, I just feel strongly on the subject matter) Posted via Mobile Device

I thought it had to do with the CP. I seem to remember being able to specify how long to keep messages, but can't find it. Ya got me stumped. Isn't the limit 500?

One thing that came to mind as I am reading this is because of SP's having to be more creative in their writing and not actually talking about services, I think we may see more bookings for longer sessions. I could be totally wrong but it seems that if we, as clients, have to find out after we arrive, we may not be able to do those walk in 15 min or fast15 or whatever that I see in some ads. Of course, there are guys who just want a quick bang out there and don't care about anything else so maybe things won't change much. Personally, I like to have more time and enjoy myself. Even 1/2 hr sessions are too short for my liking but that's just me. When all is said and done, I do go back to reading and comprehension, though. Guys need to slow down and read the ads/websites thoroughly and develop the skill of reading between the lines. Learning how to pick out the subtle nuances of clever writing will go a long way to avoiding confusion, imo. And saying they don't have time or can't because they are on their I-phone is a total cop-out. People need to stop being lazy and maybe that is one good thing that could come out of this.

It's not racism. It's personal preference for WHATEVER reason. This topic has been discussed before on cerb, most notably: http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=181140&highlight=blacks I am in no way speaking for everyone, but I have met some SPs who are will not see black clients, tell me the reason for doing so is their past/present boyfriends or handlers were black men and they don't see clients of the same race they date. I knew an Sp who was of another ethnicity who would not see clients of that ethnic group because she did not want to run into anyone she might know from her community. Sps provide an intimate service and are when it comes to our bodies, it's our rules. And we shouldn't have to explain ourselves to anyone.

This subject has been extensively discussed before, always heated, apparently with no right answer http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=181140&highlight=blacks http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=151618 Some things to keep in mind 1. A lady has the absolute right to choose who she is intimate with, irrespective of a clients race, creed, colour, religion, age, body size, hair/lack of it etc etc etc 2. Forcing a SP to be sexually intimate with a man she does not wish to be with is akin to a sexual assault. Doesn't no mean no...even if the reason is skin colour 3. Often ladies may have a BF/SO (some who may not know their GF/SO is an SP) who is for lack of a better phrase, part of a small ethnic group in her city, and seeing someone of the same ethnic group as a client could publically expose her to that small community where her profession as an SP could be discovered. Racism may not be the reason, it may be because of discretion and anonymity. 4. Yes maybe racism too. Not saying it doesn't happen. But that said what man would really want to see a woman who doesn't want to see him. There are many beautiful women out there that aren't racist and would love to spend time with a respectful gentleman of any ethnicity. That's just off the top of my head. I'll guarantee this thread will end up heated. I'm already feeling uncomfortable posting RG

The great advantage of bitcoin is the anonymity and untraceability of it, and the fact that payments can be made remotely. The downside (for now) is the instability of the currency. The thing is, cash is equally anonymous and untraceable, and the remote thing isn't really an issue when we're discussing a service that fundamentally requires the provider and the client to be in the same room. It might be useful for things like deposits, or for services like cam-shows, but I can't see it replacing cash for day-to-day getting your rocks off.

And that is why the United States does not have, never has had, nor never will have prostitution And you can take that to the bank Stephen Harper & Peter MacKay Your Dream Team ..........................................- Egad, my post has been hijacked by the Goddamned CPC's LOL RG

Mostly it's because YOU (the hobbyist) will no longer be safe in buying "SEX" so if I don't * cough,cough * sell it, well... you see what I mean by now, I hope. Yes, I am still allowed to advertise my own "sexual services" but the catch 22 is that you are not allowed to purchase them. So, by selling you "TIME" not "SEX" you are safer.

I sounds like your new to the "hobby"? If so, I can tell you that I spent A LOT of time reading these boards and researching before I had my first encounter. Yes, some just jump in head first, but others are like me...and you sound like that as well. :) Long story short, don't be afraid to spend some time getting to know how things work, and who the people are, before setting up an appointment. And, questions generally aren't a problem, of course, we help when we can. :) Good luck...

When I see out of region area codes the first question I ask is always very specific to the area, I've even directly asked what city the person was in. The scammers will usually answer very generic, "downtown", etc. Then a follow up question more specific to the city usually ends the conversation. It is really too bad, some people must get scammed or I'm guessing it would have stopped by now. Lots of great SPs have out of region area codes for privacy or due to travelling. So I never let that stop me from finding a great SP, just a little more vigilant.

Your advertising should reflect you and the more descriptive words the better. "Money is being exchanged for time or time and companionship". While I don't know what type of dates you offer, the following is a suggestion: Wild, adventurous and Intense could be used to describe a hot pse style date. Sensual, romantic, and gentle could be used for a gfe style date. Put the word safe anywhere in there and you have a safe gfe date. Basically a visually descriptive paragraph describing you and the time together, more is better in this case for what you write. It is about getting people to read between the lines, yet being clear so they get it. I suggest, start with the highlights about you and then get more visually descriptive as you start writing about the date you offer. Think about your best asset and go from there. Once you start writing it does get easier. I hope this helps. xoxo Emily

Maybe it's a shit test. If she texts you again saying that she misses you and wants to do something together, maybe you should say, "Well honey, I have a date tomorrow but maybe the next day?" Or maybe maintain radio silence and ignore her for a while and let her sweat instead? Or maybe lose her number and move on?

I don't understand what the issue is in regards to someone inquiring about specials...I see a lot of this on this site; women who seem quite bothered by every little question posed to them, even when the question was not aimed at them personally (as in this case). Yes, we get asked a lot of questions... yes, some of them are repetitive and get annoying... No, we should not jump down someone's throat for asking. Why does the "IF YOU DON'T HAVE ANYTHING NICE TO SAY, DON'T SAY ANYTHING AT ALL" not work both ways? Why is client-bashing OK? You see a question that you don't like seeing, simple: DON'T ANSWER. Move to the next thread... Why do we need to publicly humiliate people who don't see things the way we do? On a more related note, I do not offer "birthday specials", but if I did you can rest assured I would be asking for I.D. to prove it otherwise it would just be everyone's birthday everyday. If a regular client were to inform me it was his birthday, sure I would do something special for him, cake/cupcake or wine or maybe an extra sexy outfit, whatever. Even though I do not offer such specials, I'd like to high-five the OP for asking and not shame him into lurking but encourage him to post more, ask away my friend! I'm not one of those girls who blacklists people for asking my rates (yes, they are posted on my ads, god forbid someone ask me *eye roll* ) /endrant

Dropped in on Wednesday and talked to Christina and Maya , got a really nice dance from Olivia, a very cute and cuddly black girl, very charming, and also from Phoenix and for those who are into East Indian girls, she is about at hot as it gets, like a living doll ! Can't wait to see them again !