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I kinda feel there are enough haters out there willing to degrade and beat up on sex workers without having to see people who participate in this industry do so within this forum... what exactly are we trying to accomplish with this thread for fuck sake this issue has been beaten to death. This industry is a microcosm of the rest of society... we will have the same traits as the rest of society... good and bad. Are there racist SP's and clients yes... is everything described in this thread racism no. Let's give it a rest. I have played in this industry for a long long time... more regularly in the last few years but my experience is that the people who work in the Sex Industry are probably the most open to diversity than any other group. Just my opinion

I had the pleasure last week dropping in at CMJ for their Halloween party, and had the absolute pleasure of booking a room with two beautiful ladies, Zara and Lynzee, AND I must say they like to play very nice together ;) Oh, and one lady was dressed up as a Angel and the other dressed up as a Devil..you guess who was the devil and angel ;) Nothing like having a shower for 3, or me receiving a beautiful massage time with four wandering hands, and sensual touching and play for me. Both ladies kept me going right to the explosive finish and both of these ladies are SO very attractive and such fun to be with. :) Zara, a attractive young lady who has one smoking sexy body (36dd au naturel) great beauty bum check out her pictures on CMJ web site. Lynzee is that girl next door type Lynzee, great personality, loves to laugh, memorizing eyes that will hypnotize you, beautiful bum too, and perky breasts ;) Lynzee was kind enough to give myself the exact right amount of nipple pleasure and pain that lead to goosebumps, and me very rock hard, while these two ladies had their hands rubbing my entire body for some sensual erotic pleasure along with some three kissing which was totally "hot". I will definitely try and rebook with these 2 bombshells again...SO much FUN!

All those ladies in the limo...sounds like waaay too much fun. I think I'll drive downtown and park my car so I can take the limo all the way back here!

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I like a well written ad that shows the me more than just the generic. I love when a lady takes the time to put forth some sense of who she is. A great sense of humor with some witty humorous lines that make me smile will always grab my attention. As well, a well written piece of erotica in there shows me an intelligent, well read person behind the ad. A few other things too but it's hard to put a finger on specifics. As for pictures, I like them as much as the next guy but I love such a variety of women that they really are not a deciding factor. The one thing that can grab me any time is beautiful eyes. Even if that's the only part of the face I see. The "window to the soul" is a huge turn on. Recos/ reviews can be a guideline for me but I find that some guys tastes are different than mine so it's hard to use another guys experience to gauge what mine would be like. As for spas/agencies, I've never been with anyone but indys so I just don't know. Where I live, it's not really an option. All in all, I would say a combination of intelligence, wit and sensuality that comes through in an ad or website will get me interested more often than not.

Confidence, but not cockiness...Just a general aura of self acceptance and being able to show others they are perfectly happy with who they are. Selflessness, kindness and empathy. A sense of humour ! Making me laugh is the easiest way to my heart ;), Determination and ambition (no one likes a freeloader). Vulnerability, a good cologne !, a smile that catches your eye, intelligence, a good conversationalist, a devoted father/mother, someone who stands up for what they believe in. Style, class and a demeanour that is able to handle social situations. I'm sure I could add a lot more as the definition of what is sexy to me varies from person to person, these are just a few things that come to mind !

I think I speak for most men, we are a visual type of people so pictures are very important but we also like to have a good time and we want to get the most bang for our buck(pun intended). So that being said if a lady posts beautiful pictures of herself and gives a good description of what to expect she will get my attention quickly. Another thing that helps is looking at recommendations, if another Cerb member enjoyed his time the chances are that I will too. Please note that pictures do not need to be in the nude for a gentleman to enjoy looking at them and making a decision.

This is a polarizing issue, I think. It's easy to say it's preference and it's easy to say it's racism. At the end of the day, you just have to believe that ladies are not racist - though some may be. Funny anecdote: I had a client in Ottawa not long before I left who was French Canadian. Suffice to say he was not a nice gentlemen and I asked him to leave not long after he arrived. He called me a racist because he's French. The guy honestly had no idea that he was an asshole, and thought I was a Francophobic Anglophone. Goes to show that once you decide that something is what you think it is, it's hard to change that opinion. Cognitive bias is a real thing hardwired into everyone's brain, afterall.

I don't think anyone can say for sure whether the provider really is racist, it's a preference thing, or if it is just about the small ethnic community's within the city. I don't really think it matters either, because chances are no SP is going to come out and admit they are racist. The beauty of this job however is that and especially for independent girls they have the right to choose. I personally am an equal opportunist and age,race,religion...whatever doesn't matter. But to those women who have limitations with a certain race have the right to put those boundaries up, as this is a job where comfort in both parties is key. I've seen the ads that state "no black clients" and at first I found it very off putting and strange. But after thinking about it, I basically just came to realize that boundaries are important and Atleast the SP chooses to be honest about it from the get go. It's one of those things where the only explanation I can rly justify this type of discussion is "it is what it is". It happens and no amount of discussion will really get to the bottom of it, so might as well accept that some people have these boundaries and others don't. Just like some girls provide certain services and others don't, it's at the discretion of the provider because like I stated earlier comfort is key! Just wanted to add my two cents even though everything's pretty much been said. Stay positive friends <3

It is EVERYONES responsibility to play safe.

And for those who are not sure they can find their way, We already have 9 lovely ladies who have bought a VIP ticket. I hope you gentlemen, and other lovely ladies, will want to make sure they don't get cold inside that limousine!

There is also this HUGE assumption that all the sps all the time post all their own ads. And when you see something like that disclaimer in an ad, for the reason you have presented here, I would say 99% of the time this is not the personal preference of the sp, and she is not determining who she sees, nor what is in her ads. I find this lack of understanding on the part of new sps and newer to this clients to be something worth educating them on, but then we also run the risk of letting them all assume that any sp with that in her ad is being pimped out by a stereotypical black pimp dude, and that also may not be the case. Not to mention, now we get the racist label for presenting that as the reason, because they simply don't believe it, they don't know this history, and it seems incomprehensible to them in this day and age. So put simple and in stereotypes, tradtional pimps FORBID their sps from seeing black clients, no exceptions, on pain of getting seriously beaten. If people prefer to think badly of the sp, believe me, it is nothing compared to what she could go thru if a black client shows up in spite of her ad, and she also feels pressured to 'make that money'. If being thought of as a redneck racist keeps her safe, then by all means, I'm all about everyone assuming she's a redneck racist, as long as that means all potential clients of colour do not show up at her door.

What it all boils down to is the providers comfort zone and preference.

Hi guys, I TOFTT last week end with Lilly from Moncton/Riverveiw. After a few tentalizing messages form Lilly, we set up an early app. for Saturday morning. The morning after, no show and no answer to my texts. Finally, she answered back a couple of hours latter saying she was sorry and that she had overslept. She offered me to come to see her at her Grand parents's place! (First clue) Suposedly they were out west and she was taking care of the house. When I got to the house, I notice a lot of shoes at the entrance! (second clue). She invited me in a small room in the basement of the house. It was full of dolls!!!! (Third clue) (WTF???) BTW, her pictures are definitly not new. She carry an extra 50 to 75 lbs over and above what she looks like on her pics!!! (forth clue) I then gave her the agreed rate and sat on the bed. She asked me if I wanted a massage and I said ok. I then proceed to take of my watch and shirt then she freaked out. She told me that she was with the police (???) and that I should leave imediatly or she would call them. She then said that she would call her boyfried. I asked for for my money back, but she refused. Not knowing if there was anybody else in the house, I was now feeling that that my security could be in jeodardy. So I left immediatly. She is a thief , a crook and a con artist! Be very carefull guys. See her add and pic below. http://newbrunswick.backpage.com/fr-ca/FemaleEscorts/love-5068711028new-pics-horni-girl-special-kisscuddle-full-sweet-deals-lilly-5068711028-23/1615660

I've visited Mirage's Website several times and looked at Dina's pics and always wanted to see her and when I saw that she was in town I decided I had to go and I am so glad I did! So so so so glad! <br><br> I can honestly say I just had one of the best experiences in my lifetime of being a hobbyist. This girl was amazing, very young and very-very pretty. For me the perfect body is shorter and busty and wow she did not disappoint. Her kitty was 100% shaved and was the perfect size and tasted so good. Actually I think my heart skipped a few beats when I lifted those legs and went in for dato ... I'll just say wow ... truly amazing! What a sight. <br><br> Pictures on site are 100% real and she really is that busty and they are so soft and so perfect... I couldn't keep my hands off them the entire session which she didn't seem to mind. Her ass, boobs, lips, gorgeous eyes, cute face, very soft soft skin . .... all perfect, in my eyes. I know we all have different views of the perfect body but for me .. let me tell you. It was exactly what I wanted.One small tatt that I noticed but that isn't an issue for meat all and it was nicely done. <br><br> Also she smelled so good! Very easy going and easy to talk with. Super friendly. I can't get over that body ... Such an amazing body, Such an amazing time!!! <br><br> Booking was super easy and I had asked a few questions by email before I booked. Very nice and clean in-service location located downtown.. <br><br> All services listed on site that I asked for were provided and then some (The saying above and beyond comes to mind)... but please remember there is a YMMV section. Although from my experience I'm sure if if you treat her nice and you are clean she will be very eager to please with anything listed. She never once said no to me for anything - position switches or DFK, or rimming or Daty, Dato, bbbj/cim. Very good oral skills, AMAZING ORAL. lots of spit bls and rimming, dirty talk. Out of this world service!! Totally worth every penny even though it normally more than I pay for a session. Looking back no regrets at all. <br><br> I'll give my visit a 15 out of 10 for a rating. I could go on and on about how sexy she is and how that was a perfect experience but I will stop going on about it. <br><br> Just came here to let you guys know she is 100% legit and a huge thank you to Mirage Escorts for bring that quality of a girl to visit. Please make sure she keeps coming back. The only two bad things I can say about the service is 1) she isn't here for a limited time, but the good news is she said shed like to come once a month 2) I didn't have more money to stay longer. <br><br> I will with no doubt be a regular when she comes to visit. Sorry I typed this rather fast and I'm still in awe over the time I had but I think you will get the point ... GO SEE HER

Hello Everyone! Following's Loneskater's Ottawa Social Poll, and after mucho debate (not really, but it does sound rather important doesn't it?) i'm proud to announce that the Ottawa Christmas party will be held on December 4th 2014. I did promise we'd get the date out within 48 hours yesterday for all our out-of-Ottawa friends that need to make plans ahead of time to spend much appreciated time with all of us. So here you have it! Mark your calendars .. and further details will come A.S.A.P. Edit: Of note, this time around, we'll be in the west end of town.

The reminder is also for those who partake in bbbjs. The one thing gay guys in this category and sps have in common is the possibility of multiple partners, and unprotected oral sex. Unprotected oral sex is becoming one of the biggest known activities that is resulting in the spread of stds. Keeping in mind that the gay community was amongst the first to be reporting HIV/Aids, not sure that people who are not gay can continue to think that they are not at risk. :) Also, Winnipeg is not the only major Canadian city to be reporting this increase. Every major Canadian city from BC to PEI has had a similar story in the past 2 years. This is a growing trend across this country, it is certainly a growing trend in others as well. 2010 saw a big story about syphilis in China, for examples, as married men took it home from sps, and children were being born with syphillis. It is also increases the risk of contracting HIV, if you have syphillis you have a higher risk of infection. http://cid.oxfordjournals.org/content/44/9/1222.long http://www.biomedcentral.com/1741-7015/9/111

IMHO whatever breast size a lady, in this business or not, has before getting EB's is none of our business, unless she personally ask us for advice. What a woman does with her body is her own choice and as far as I know if she gets EBs form a reputable surgeon they won't do the operation before having some serious discussion with her! Personnally her personality is a key factor in meeting a lady and whether or not she has EB's is not a factor. After all brains don't reside inside breasts!

You and I naked..... How sexy ;) Hello Gentlemen! I'm available from 4pm until 10pm this evening, at CMJ WEST! My name is Lynzee. I'm a outgoing redhead who loves meeting new people! I've been told I'm a perfect combination of naughty and nice! I've got a petite frame with curves in all of the right places. With perky 34Bs and soft, porcelain skin, my bodyslides will excite you for the end result. And I'm here this evening with the always lovely, Joanna! May we interest you in a duo? I OFFER: *Sexy showers* *Sensual massage* *Reverse Massage* *Bodyslides* *GFE* (pm for info) *Kink/Fetish* (pm for info) *Duos* (pm to see who else is on shift!) NON-RUSHED SERVICE ;) Don't be shy to message me about being my special guest! I don't bite, unless that's what you're into ;)

This you MN2 ? Oh oops....sorry you said shirt not skirt !!

Chrystal is tall and a ton of fun to spend time with :) Great Gal !! 5' 11" .... and passes through TO when she is on tour. http://www.chrystalelitecompanion.com/bio.html

Layah is pretty tiny as well. Not sure of exact height, but I would guess she isn't much over 5 ft.

Completely agree, the power of attraction is a powerful thing...negativity breeds negativity, conversely having a positive CERB will attract a healthier industry.

Recommendations are about experiences that make you want to recommend a certain provider What you ask about is more akin to a negative review Just my opinion but the answer to your question I believe is no that wouldn't be acceptable JMO RG

Good morning Victoria. There's an example of what I was saying in my earlier post about the eyes. That lovely picture of Victoria peering out over the veil grabbed me and shook my soul and she is a wonderful lady, I must say. :biggrin:

I'm with Ice4fun, this issue gets beaten to death, not just here but all through society. That's not to say racism doesn't exist and be in denial. Racism will always be a part of human nature. It's not going to end because we open up and "talk" about it. Lets just admit that is is a human failing and move on. Whatever the person who says "no blacks or whatever race" in her ad, that's her deal and none of my business.

The attraction for me is more a combination of personality, looks and body type. For this reason the non intimate time spent with a lady is the most intimate and enjoyable part of the experience. Because if I just want sex there is always BP

Chanel is my best friend and I've known her for 20 years. I've recently asked her to join Cerb since it's a great place and also in the event she does come back. I asked her if she would be interested in coming to the Xmas social.

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money sent got my spot for the party now just got to make it there

I have my very sexy costume on and I want you to help me take it off ;) Hello Gentlemen! I'm available from 4pm until 10pm this evening, at CMJ WEST! My name is Lynzee. I'm a outgoing redhead who loves meeting new people! I've been told I'm a perfect combination of naughty and nice! I've got a petite frame with curves in all of the right places. With perky 34Bs and soft, porcelain skin, my bodyslides will excite you for the end result. I ONLY HAVE A FEW SLOTS OPEN! SO BOOK NOW BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE! I OFFER: *Sexy showers* *Sensual massage* *Reverse Massage* *Bodyslides* *GFE* (pm for info) *Kink/Fetish* (pm for info) *Duos* (pm to see who else is on shift!) NON-RUSHED SERVICE Don't be shy to message me about being my special guest! I don't bite, unless that's what you're into ;)

Let's not dance around the issue then. Maybe some of these ladies are racist, but I would dare to guess it's more like the "majority of these women" probably have husbands, boyfriends or handlers who are black and so that makes seeing other black men a no no. Period. And as a rule they tend to advertise on places like BP, which is why you will see so many of those types of ads.

Yes I agree, desperation is a turn off in all areas of life !! People all need to read between the lines . Hmm, time for us all to do some self evaluation . Perhaps fantasy verses reality can play huge in these thoughts. Good luck to all of us!

We all have our own personal.preferences and have every right to those In some instances maybe it is.racism and what really can.you do...its alive and out there It.could.be many reasons why.a provider will ask your race Could be because she prefers a certain race Could be because.she.dates only a.certain race and doesnt want to.run.into someone she may know on a personal level Only the lady knows why I.personally like to see all gentlemen race is not an issue BUT age is for me I prefer not to date.younger than 25.because I feel I.connect better with.older gents and I.enjoy our time together and also I have a son that is 20 and it wouldn't feel right to me regardless if I am.being paid for my time

Was there yesterday (Wed 29) during the day shift. There were about 15 girls when I was there. Carli, Kiki, Allie, Layla, Lexi, Selina and a lot more. Several black girls. Girls here are definitely friendly and will chat with you for a long time. They seemed to get happy when you agreed to a dance or two. Girls' ages ranged from around 22 to close to 45. Gabriel pizza was served for dinner. It was surprisingly good and was free. Additional Comments: Took Layla to the CR. She is friendly and has the GND look, if you minus her right eyebrow piercing from her overall appearance. Slim and petite, about 5feet 3in tall. Around 22 years old. She treats you well outside as well as inside the CR. I liked her a lot because of her attitude and friendliness.

I find that men from certain countries, particularly new immigrants from those certain countries, were not raised in a culture in which women are equal or highly valued or treated delicately. Which makes the job tougher than it already is. Ladies' screening processes are none of anybody's business, whether those screening processes would be deemed 'racist' or not by the general public.

Happy Belated Birthday PP, hope you enjoyed your day.

Happy belated Birthday Pistol Pete.... I hope it was amazing....

Happy belated birthday Pete xxx Bianca

Chakra clearing and cord cutting always works for me from people with bad energy, psychic vampires who are mentally and emotionally draining or stressful situations. Posted via Mobile Device

I think the 'pm for more details' regarding me is about my weight/size. Stating the truth about me in respectful terms is fine. I am a larger lady. I don't deny this. I feel like the 'pm me for more details' makes things seem shady. I am sure rivercityboy is just complying with the board rules. Much respect to him :) I just wanted to clear any up any questions :) PS: thank you for the review :)

Happy Birthday Pistol Pete, sorry we are late but the wishes are warm and filled full of love just the same! xoxo

Here is another lady that I noticed was providing bareback full service. I just can't believe that anyone would do that http://halifax.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/sweet-sexy-independent-companion-gf-ps-hotels-only-26/1548528

I went back today to see sweet Hazel this evening and I wasn't disappointed (I asked Barbs DJ yesterday and he told me she is scheduled today at 6. Thank you Mr. DJ). I was very happy to see her walking in just before 6:00. Came over to greet me upon her arrival and she was happy to see me too. Hazel is a classy very cute short hair brunette with a very soft feminine fair skin which I absolutely adore. I had a very heavenly time with her in the CR. She is highly recommended if you like a classy educated very cute young brunette. When the CR dance was over it was so hard to say bye till next time and let go of her so I kept kissing her even after we walked out of the CR!!. Like any dancer the mileage I am sure would be YMMV. She dances Sundays but she told me she also she dances Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays in the evenings. Thank you Hazel for the lovely time and your pre-dance companionship.

Besides, and as skates mentioned, they're only parties where people have a tremendous amount of fun socializing over food and drinks.

By all means try it but just to let you know Izzy (so that there is no misunderstanding or complains later) that this club is good for its mileage especially daytime mileage and it has quite a few average or even above average lookers but it is nothing like Pigale or Barbs (only has higher mileage) with fewer girls, and some may even describe it as a run down place though friendly, cozy and as I mentioned, likely with highest mileage among NCR strip clubs. Additional Comments: Ruby the natural redhead: Tonight I dropped by Taboo. I met another natural redhead of Irish origin (other than Ginger who I reviewed above) and her name was Ruby. Great gal and very good mileage. She is highly recommended for those who love redheads. Freckles on her face and shoulders, very very fair skin (the fairest I have seen and I seen many), small but sexy boobs, pretty face, open minded, friendly and natural red hair. She is new to dancing but wasn't sure if she stays with Taboo. There was another very good looking young lady (brunette) and her name was Sabrina but I think she was under the impression that she was in a dance bar or discotheque lol. She was in the changing room for over an hour and then when she came out she went out for smoking for another hour and then sat with a customer for another hour (who didn't take her for dance at the end) and then stood by the stage waiting for a customer to walk to her and request for a dance. I think she did get a couple of dances at the end of her 4 hour work. Her choice who am I to suggest otherwise.

I still get nervous every time I meet a lady, even if its a repeat. I don't know why I'm not a shy person but the fact that I'm going to meet someone and we will remove our clothes and present ourselves to one another is always been nerve wrecking for me. But I love doing it, and you can't stop me.