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7 pointsI was so impressed by your example, that I've decided to also dedicate myself to God and a religious life.
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7 pointsI got thinking of the laws, the way it is worded we just can not allow anyone to advertise here for prostitution services. It's not to say the members here can not advertise for non-fs services here and on personal websites advertise other things... they just can not LINK from cerb to that website that offers those things. Say I am a tire salesman and I also sell pop machines on the side. I can advertise the tires here and the pop machines somewhere else (Not having the two professions directly related if I choose not to). So if you do offer prostitution services just don't advertise them here and dont put links to any ads or websites that you do offer such things. I think that will comply with the laws. We are trying to bring cerb up to date with the new laws to comply with the new rules so no one gets in trouble. We can still have our conversations here, maintain the Sp only area to help keep the ladies safe and still show a positive side to the adult industry. We just need to conform and comply with and its going to take some work to work out the bugs. SO I AM AT THIS TIME RETRACTING WHAT I SAID HERE "Anyone offering services on websites off cerb that advertises fs activities will not be permitted to post here either. Any known fs prostitute will not be permitted to advertise on cerb.... " and as long as we do not have a LINK directly to that site from cerb it should be fine. I am working on a new set of rules for the site but as everyone should know by now you CAN NOT advertise ANY prostitution related services on cerb. Please and thanks.
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5 pointsHummm, I think the OP is looking for feedback and wants to avoid a potentially bad situation... So, yes, he is doing the right thing by asking around first. Calling the lady in question will not tell him if she is a legit SP or not. On the other hand, searching for her phone number on Google and using Tineye.com might provide him with some results. To the OP, I would be extra careful because of the 24/7 sign/picture she has in several of her ads: it's the same picture the 24/7 scam agency uses. More info here:http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=146788 IMO, there are other red flags in her ads so I would personally stay away.
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4 pointsI have also decided to turn in my abusive pimp, stop prostituting myself for my next fix, go to rehab, and join the dinosaur era by becoming a delusional extreme feminist anti myself! I will even stop having sex and promise not to masturbate anymore! Wow, I can't wait to become a real woman, a respectable one at that, with great values and morals, and not a helpless victim anymore! There might be a future for me, after-all! Thinking of it, I might even start going to church every Sunday!!! CPC, thank you so much for changing my life for the better! I don't know what I would've done without you! Truly a life saver! .........- In case anyone reads this and thinks I'm being serious, this post is 100% sarcastic and not real lol
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4 pointsI can't post the pics here because they are TOO HOT FOR CERB! :cooter: Visit here: www.SweetEmilyJ.com/wiggling-tongues
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3 points:66189-iconsex-teaba:chug: :tongue: I am not a buffet. Someguy, I'm sure your intentions were honourable with starting this thread, but we are trying to move away from menu style advertising. What you are proposing would turn us into a smorgasbord. But nice try. As Sassie said "cute".
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3 pointsPivot legal has some great information on this bill/law. I understand your fear but this stuff is painfully easy to navigate. There will be a learning curve, not only for clients, but providers as well but let's be honest - we are a pretty smart bunch of people here. You will see advertising change drastically, it has to. You should be careful who you see (known, trusted, reviewed providers) but you should be doing that anyway. If you're onr of those people that send lewd texts, stop. I'm in ottawa and logging license plates seems silly to me. Most downtown hotels double as government parking so the same plates are there all the time. I don't think that LE is going to have the resources to go insane on this I expect a couple of big busts (or attempts..we've seen their success rate) and that's it. This will cause problems to spas, agencies and street level works. I feel awful for them but I am not involved in those categories so I cannot speak for their strategies. I'm sure they have them though
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3 pointsI want to join this cult, sounds amazing....wait....can we still masturbate?
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3 pointsIf you are looking for a passionate DFK then I can highly recommend Felina. She was definitely the best kisser I have been with. Makes you think back to the great kissing with a new girlfriend in highschool.
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3 pointsSince joining Cerb in 2010 I have always considered this as an amazing community that was composed of a lot of great neighbours consisting of both ladies and men. For the first two years I did a lot of reading and admiring while I sort of looked out the windows to see who was visiting my neighbourhood hoping someday I would have the nerve to say hello, in 2013 I began to get the confidence to say hello when others visited my neighbourhood which has made me a much more happier and contented individual. I made a commitment to myself that in 2014 I was going to try to say hello to as many of my visiting neighbours as possible. This past year I was taken back on how great all my neighbours are and I am so grateful I decided this was going to be my special year. My special year got started in February especially when I got to visit a far away neighbour overnight for the first time and it came to a close very recently with a very special extended visit, in 2014 I got to meet some great neighbours that lived very close and some that travelled some very long distances, I even developed the confidence to flirt with a particular French redhead that she should visit my neighbourhood, a visit I will never forget. Twice this past year I even got to invite two neighbours over at the same time, one for a short visit and the other an extended visit, it was great to see how well these neighbours got along with each other which made these two visits the highlights of the year. As in every neighbourhood there is some visitors you seem to connect with a little more than the others you would like them to visit every day, with some others you get along so well you even make plans to visit their neighbourhood in the future. Overall 2014 was a year I will never forget, I thank anyone who visited my neighbourhood this past year, I enjoyed each visit very much, look forward to the possibility of visiting you again in the future whatever it holds for us. Your happy smiley Magician :)
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3 pointsI am amazed reading all the different posts with regards to the new law to see how many got spoiled with this business having moved to the internet. In many cases its like many think this business did not exist before. With the high price of advertising in papers and yellow pages, before internet, ladies did not have the luxury of posting menus and still had clients. Also we still had the solicitation law back then and no cell so conversation were limited to discussing time and a lady's general looks. Guess what, business survived. Its all about risk mitigation and adjusting to the law. Am I saying there will be no risk: NO But then can anyone say there is absolutely no risks involved with having sex even if you use condoms: NO However in both cases the risk is minimal. You have to make sure you protect yourself properly. Personally, as I did before the internet, I will continue building my network and not discuss sexual activities unless in private with someone. I will also continue attending social events. Unless I misread the new bill, there is nothing illegal in approaching a lady and say: Hi I am so and so, can I buy you a drink! As far as I am concern no point crying about it, simply work around it!
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3 pointsIt's illegal to seek sexual services for money. The ladies, for the most part, that I see don't even have a menu. They are escorts and seeing them isn't illegal. When asking a lady for a encounter, I don't ask about any menu, it is about a date and time to meet her. That said, why would I be done. I'm not in breech of C36. Having a date with a woman isn't illegal. Ladies who have a menu I will avoid, they may draw LE attention. But those in this lifestyle who adapt, both ladies and gentlemen alike will still partake in it. A rambling RG
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2 pointsI'm changing my website around in the wake of bill c 36 and the changes that will be taking place on Cerb in regards to not advertising certain things. What about the terms "girlfriend experience" and "erotic"? Can these still be used on my site or will they be considered a no no? I am trying to describe the type of session I offer and gfe is what it is. I also offer massage and the term erotic has been used since as long as I can remember.... even before some ads became very blatant and straight forward. Thank-you in advance for your comments.
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2 pointsI also use a phrase. " full and complete fitness work out"
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2 pointsI'm in ! Maybe we should create the Fraternity of Holy Perveted ! And we should worship Life and celebrate the Goddess of Fertility, Pleasure and Freedom. Since Harper promoted the freedom of religion in China, I'm sure he will protect it in our own country. Donation accepted. lol
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2 pointsNot just God and a religious life, but since it was MacKay and the CPC that made me see the error of my ways, I'm going to join the conservative party:icon_rolleyes: RG :-)
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2 pointsTo all the gentleman of Cerb please watch the video and give me you comments after. A must see video.
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2 pointsI know everyone recommends Felina as an awesome mature lady, but earlier this week I also went for a kink session. It was outstanding, she was extremely accommodating. She has a website where she outlines more details. Other providers that offer kink (unsure about strap on offhand) are Kayla, Zoe Zee, and Angelina Develin. All three of them are solidly reviewed, but I can't comment personally.
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2 pointsI have made the necessary changes and made it descriptive but not in the terms we're not allowed to use. I think I did pretty good. I have a great imagination in a way that is appealing but won't get me into trouble. lol. And on another note before publishing it, Html editor 5 is REALLY giving me a hard time tonight!
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2 pointsI took all my erotic blogs down yesterday...I figure it was a bit too much. If I'm not gonna advertise sexual services...my erotic blog should not stay up...but that's my opinion...every other lady should do as they see fit Bj
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2 pointsANYONE publicly offering prostitution related services will NOT Be permitted to advertise here. If the ladies website says she offers services then she will not be allowed to advertise here. Only ESCORTS, DANCERS, MASSAGE, NON FS FETISH, ETC... can advertise once this law becomes in effect. Anyone who wishes to continue to advertise on cerb must ensure they NO LONGER OFFER services of a sexual nature. You can always work as an escort (paid date, no sex just pay for time you spend with a lovely lady ... or man) but anyone advertising sexual services in exchange for money will have to advertise that somewhere else. If we on cerb are aware the person is advertising sexual services it would be our duty to remove the advertisement and ask that person to no longer advertise here. Everyone should READ the new bill to see what the new law is all about.
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2 pointsIt really does baffle me that some people think they are safe with the existing laws now. What about being found in a bawdy house? Point being is that most people visiting SPs have ALWAYS taken a risk in one form or another which could have also turned their worlds upside down and no one seemed to care. Only difference now is a criminal record will be in place to make it official. The only thing that is going to change is that people are actually going to have to do their research. Many have been become very complacent and have also taken chances in meeting women they have no clue about. They see an ad and call. You don't know what's waiting for you behind that door. So why all of a sudden now? If a person takes the time to do some actual research, there won't be a problem. Business will carry on as usual.
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2 pointsThe overwhelming majority of players both sp's and clients don't belong or participate on the various boards and I dare say some of have no idea C-36 is even coming down or what it might or might not mean. So obviously there will be some casualties and I assume ignorance will not be excused. There will be media coverage on the initial arrests and disposition of the charges for sure. Once that happens and a clearer picture is available there will be a further review of participation for some. Each individual will measure the risk/reward based on their personal situations. Whether it be career related or life related. Opinions expressed here are just that......opinions as no one knows for sure what the level of law enforcement will be and the ramifications of same. I respect the whistle through the grave yard types even though personally I think some of of it is a bit of bravado and even a little naive and I also respect the very concerned types whom might come across as a little paranoid or jumping the gun. In any event times they are a changing and there will ultimately be a new normal and how long that takes is really anybodies guess. Peace MG
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2 pointsI can't speak for anyone else, but I plan to treat C36 with the contempt it deserves and carry on as I do now. As far as the guys are concerned, I suspect that provided you can avoid the cops who are posing as SPs either on the street or on BP, etc then your chances of getting caught are vanishingly small.
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2 pointsI respect your decision and everyone has a right to do what they need to do to protect their security. Perhaps you will change you mind as time passes. In MHO, we just need to be vigilant, both ladies and gentleman. Good common sense applies here. To me it so very simple, I will only advertise in a way that in no way will implicates me to money for any sexual service . Time, time , time. Gents if you are unsure please see only a lady with a presence and a track record. If you are unsure gentlemen please contact a lady that you already have an established friendship with. We are here to help and will never steer you wrong. Good common sense will prevail and we will not be stopped .
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1 pointRogues ... amazing service and just fabulous experience thanks kind Sir xo http://www.roguesrestaurant.com/ Barberians... another thank you owed xo http://www.barberians.com/
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1 pointAre you craving quality time with a lady that is genuinely happy to tease & please you? Yes? Then you've made the right choice! Your Tantalizing Thai Temptress Tya is Here! Available.. Today: Sat, Nov 8th: 10am till 2am!! I am an Asian Delight half (Thai/Cambodian) BEAUTY! 34 B, 5,2', 115 lb with natural tan skin and a bum to die for.. All the right curves in the right places. A pretty face and an intoxicating charm that will.. Get You Loving Me Longtime :) I have been described as a bubbly and warm personality that can easily manage a conversation. I love my profession and I care about the gentlemen I see; which brings our moments together to the greatest heights. I speak to you through the language of touch offering a light and sensual erotic full-body relaxation massage. Let me allure you with my bedroom eyes, touch you with my silky soft skin & delight you with my sexy body and warm hands. Allow me to relieve & revitalize your entire body - in a safe, intimate and upscale environment. My sessions are always discreet, private & uninterrupted.. My SCHEDULE this Week: Sat, Nov 8th: 10am - 2am Sun, Nov 9th: 10am - 12am Seductive Service with a Sexy Smile that will leave you Satisfied Longtime ;) Soft sexy Music that takes you to the World of Relaxation Hot Oils & Hot Steamy, Wet Showers for Two For more information about me, my location or my availability you can: Email me at: [email protected] Or Call (613) 600-2281 to contact me directly :) I could be your Dirty Little Secret And you could be Mine.. Click here to see my Cerb Profile! Click here to see my Cerb Recommendations!
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1 point! Sexy spinner Hannah Star will be in Brockville someday soon if you book now! OTTAWA OUTCalLS ToDAY!!! kingston this week prebook by email superfriendhannahstar.com [email protected] Ottawa outcalls today!
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1 pointProbably not cool to call out another member but I am always wary of members who constantly asking about Sps from other sites but have no personal experiences to add. And why the 3 year absence? I was surprised to see some of his posts slipped by the mod's radar (asking for illegal and bbf services). If he is not willing to stick with reputable cerb ladies, then let him TOFTT.
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1 pointGiven the RCMP sees GFE or girlfriend experience as a term that indicates selling of sexual services, it's probably best to play it safe. That is my opinion but CERB may have other ideas. I think the general term like companionship or "sensual companionship" might help.
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1 pointWell Nicki, I read the entire thing and I think you did a wonderful job. I love the way you use terms such as "travel around the world twice" and "speaking Russian and French but not Greek". Any potential client should be able to clearly understand everything in there without needing the same old boring menu. I don't know what is supposedly allowed or not but I would have to think that the wording you used is okay. LE might be able to infer (is infer the right term here?)that it is sex but I don't see that as proof of actually breaking this inane law. I think we should have some actual lawyer make that judgement though. After all, I'm just a dumb old plumber. I know shit runs downhill and payday is every other week.:biggrin: Anyway, I think your site is great and really well-written.You are definitely a lady of class. Now if I only could find the time and resources to make a trip to our nations capital, I would be one happy camper.:icon_wink:
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1 pointI love the feeling of a man hardening to my touch. You will have my undivided attention as we lock eyes and explore the points that make us tick. Allow me to pleasure you with delightful kisses and my warm touch as we reach the point of true connection. Physically I am tall & fit, my 36DD breasts and long legs to wrap you in tight embrace are the total package. I have long blonde hair, ocean blue eyes and silky, sun kissed skin. If you are looking for an intelligent & playful companion then we should meet! Moncton Nov13-14th Fredericton Nov16-17th Charlottetown Nov18-19th . This will be my last trip to New Brunswick until May so advance bookings are recommended to avoid disappointment. Respectively, I prefer initial contact via email or my website booking form and confirmation via phone. If you can see yourself being spoiled, please refer to my website(below) to learn more. Discretion is always assured at my downtown upscale location and your need for confidentiality is highly valued. Truly Yours, Sierra xoxo
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1 pointAre you craving quality time with a lady that is genuinely happy to tease & please you? Yes? Then you've made the right choice! Your Tantalizing Thai Temptress Tya is Here! Available.. Tomorrow: Sat, Nov 8th: 10am till 2am!! I am an Asian Delight half (Thai/Cambodian) BEAUTY! 34 B, 5,2', 115 lb with natural tan skin and a bum to die for.. All the right curves in the right places. A pretty face and an intoxicating charm that will.. Get You Loving Me Longtime :) I have been described as a bubbly and warm personality that can easily manage a conversation. I love my profession and I care about the gentlemen I see; which brings our moments together to the greatest heights. I speak to you through the language of touch offering a light and sensual erotic full-body relaxation massage. Let me allure you with my bedroom eyes, touch you with my silky soft skin & delight you with my sexy body and warm hands. Allow me to relieve & revitalize your entire body - in a safe, intimate and upscale environment. My sessions are always discreet, private & uninterrupted.. My SCHEDULE this Week: Sat, Nov 8th: 10am - 2am Sun, Nov 9th: 10am - 12am Seductive Service with a Sexy Smile that will leave you Satisfied Longtime ;) Soft sexy Music that takes you to the World of Relaxation Hot Oils & Hot Steamy, Wet Showers for Two For more information about me, my location or my availability you can: Email me at: [email protected] Or Call (613) 600-2281 to contact me directly :) I could be your Dirty Little Secret And you could be Mine.. Click here to see my Cerb Profile! Click here to see my Cerb Recommendations!
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1 pointGood reviews aren't the only criteria. The SP has to be "your type". If she is getting rave reviews about her PSE and you just want a massage, you might not have the best encounter, and vice versa. If she's a spinner and you like some junk in the trunk, regardless how good she is, you may not enjoy the experience. Blonde or Brunette... the list goes on. There are so many variables in procuring a positive encounter. But a good review by someone who also enjoyed SP's you have found good goes a long way. "People that bought this book also purchased" seems to work for Amazon, why not SP's?
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1 pointThis one is the one that most forget about. Financial planning is key to any business. Budgeting, evaluating expense to see where you can cut cost, saving, paying out of pocket, not on credit. Etc. Some ladies don't even keep track of their income vrs business expenses before looking at take home cash vrs natural living costs.
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1 pointHello! I'm Annessa! I'm 5'8", 120lbs, have long dark hair and smooth tanned olive skin. Tall and slim and fit, my ethnicity is half Asian and Half European...100% GFE. check out my new temporary album....just some updated selfie-pictures to show off the 30lbs I shed before bikini season! http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9287 Outcall: $250/hr (200 for each additional hour after the first hour of a session, $100 for each extra half hour). Half-hour rate is $170 (half hours apply only to central locations I will only be available for incalls and outcalls before 7pm tonight and the same goes for tomorrow day/night. Unfortunately I work at my other job tonight and tomorrow...please make your bookings with this in mind! Incall: (downtown...Bronson and Laurier area) 240/hr. $200 for each additional hour after the first hour of a session, $100 for each extra half hour (so a 90 minute date would be $340). ..$160/half-hour Early morning encounters are available if booked and confirmed the night before. on the weekends if you would like an early afternoon or early morning appointment it is a MUST to book the night before as I have a very active social life evenings, and early morning encounters require an early bed-time the night before. Couples welcome! I am having cell phone issues right now...but have a temporary phone for this week and weekend....please only use it for that time and to book an appointment this week. I can be reached at *sorry because this is a borrowed phone, I need to erase it from records every night after my advertised availability has ended* [email protected] Also note that just because i do not post an ad up for the day it does not mean that I am not available...I have a pretty flexible schedule these days so even if I hadn't planned on working, if I've given enough notice, I can always bend my schedule around you! Take a chance, the worst i can say is a friendly "sorry, I'm not working today" xo ANNESSA __________________
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1 pointWell, the poll is now closed, and we can now summarize it. There were 104 votes (nice!). By far, the majority of participants are married -- happily, as far as they're concerned -- but they keep this hobby a secret from their spouses, this is 54.8% of all participants. The next major category of participants are single people. They are not in a relationship, therefore they are doing this with a clear conscience. 34.6% of all participants. Trailing far behind, are the married participants in unhappy marriages, which is a little surprising, as most people would think that married people engaging in extra-marital affairs aren't happy in their marriages. Only 7.7% of participants are here. And the final two categories are the truly rare (and lucky!) individuals who are in a relationship, are completely open about this hobby with their SO's, and their SO's are completely okay with it! Not only that, but there are also those even luckier individuals where their SO's actually participate in the hobby with them! The first bunch comprise 1.9%, while the second bunch is 1.0% of participants. So there you have it, I leave it up to you to come to your own conclusions about what this reveals about us. :biggrin:
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1 pointGreetings Gentleman, Are you seeking a fun and sexy escapade that is sure to take you to new heights in absolute mind and body relaxation? I'm the picture of femininity, but with the skill to relieve your muscular tension and pave the way to complete euphoria that will leave you sighing with ecstasy... My focus is to relax your muscular aches and pains, heighten your sensitivities, reduce your inhibitions and improve your conscious state of mind. All which simply amounts to-one amazing adventure! My schedule this week: Monday-Friday: 9:00am-3:00pm. My recommendations: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthr...t=sensual+erin I'm located in a private and comfy location in the west end for your convenience. Please feel free to inquire by pm or an email to [email protected]. I look forward to learning more about you. Yours, Erin xoxo
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1 pointIf only it was that simple. It is not, if you operate the site from Canada you have to follow the canadian rules. We will adapt. Other sites moving offshore and still running things in Canada and allowing the advertisers and such to break the law... it will come back on the site owner if they are in Canada.
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1 pointAlthough I can certainly understand where the OP is coming from and his reluctance to keep on seeing ladies because he now risks the possibility of having a tarnished reputation, you really have to understand those in support of Bill C-36 and what their objectives are. These are people that want to do rescue work (it's very profitable) and although they want to END our entire industry, the porn industry etc. they have main targets of where they want to start. And although I'm not saying with 100% certainty that what I'm about to say is true, I've dealt with some of the abolishment agencies personally and so that is where I'm coming from with my statements. They believe that every single one of us are victimized, we are all here not of our own free will, however that being said; more emphasis will be put on those coming from other countries to work here, because those are "human trafficking victims". So targets, asian massage parlours and asian micros. Then the next thing they carry on about are the all the "underage ladies" that are being "trafficked" and working "against their will" or "being pimped". This will be where they start, because they can "rescue" more "victims" in massage parlours than they can individual ladies, ladies that are established and those of us that have been around for a long time. When you think about it logically, who can they brainwash more easily into buying their "victim mentality and agenda"? Those who don't speak English and don't understand what's going on and those that are super young and naive. Those are the type of people they prey on, who they deem to be the most vulnerable. If you've got super asshole police officers in your city where they bust frequently, etc. then yeah I can see them picking on some independent ladies, but remember one thing, the abolishment agencies have an agenda and your average independent lady isn't it. I could be 100% wrong in what I've just said, but you really need to understand the inner workings of how they think. I wrote a very long post about this here http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=197352 Additional Comments: I remember back in the day, there were no pictures, you called ladies from the yellow pages and you got what you got at your door. Then along came newspapers same thing. Then we could start putting pictures in our ads and when web sites were just starting everyone was asking for them .. now half the people don't read them or do research. Today some guy called me and asked me for information, I told him to google my number .. his response - "I don't have time for that, fuck off" .. He'll be one of those guys that will get a great shock to his system when he gets busted and frankly I won't miss assholes like that.
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1 pointNJ, thanks for the alert on this. My go to meal is, start with a Garden Salad, main course would be Baked Potatoes, some fresh vegetables with Pork Chops cooked in the oven with a light shake n bake coating all followed up with an Apple Pie with Ice Cream for dessert.
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1 pointMOD has commented that anyone they become aware of offering sexual services will be banned from the site. The reasoning is that they can not be privy to those offering sexual services while still allowing advertising here even if the advertising here is not sexual service related. The crux is in the "knowing". It will be interesting to see what happens here as there are social groups, recommendations etc that speak of sex and sexual services as well as threads and discussions. I expect there will be interesting times ahead for all.
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1 pointThis may be a possibility, however, I feel that CERB will need time to digest this and work out kinks. It would be a huge liability for the owners of the site to go ahead with " loops" before completely digesting the effects and all it contains. I have a feeling, even as a " reg member" you could not advertise or ask for services that are outside the legal rights.
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1 pointLike Victoria, I prefer the business model that the industry in the US uses. Yes, I prefer dealing with American clients. I had the same shocking experience when I arrived in Canada. Demands for services up front, bareback services and vilification when I refused to commit before meeting a client. It's one of the reasons I seldom advertise and have developed a business model that ensures I don't have to see new clients regularly. I feel the new laws are an opportunity to set some imbalances straight, making the industry better and all we have to do is adapt. The providers in this industry are brilliant adapters, the clients...not so much. C36 says we are not allowed to advertise sexual services when putting ads out thru 3rd party advertisers. Perhaps we can to return to the model of selling an experience rather than a laundry list of services. Going back to the old structure of a 30 minute appointment means a blow job and an hour means full service is an option? Everyone will figure out what works for them and the show will go on. It always does... cat
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1 pointAd on Bp for blond calling herself destiny at 150h. Address was on Jackson rd Dartmouth. Got robbed outright by a dude and girl. Girl was not girl from ad.
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1 pointI am quite certain that the thread was designed with the intent of having people identify destinations that one could by whatever definition call exotic. Greece, Venice, Angkor Wat, and many others would certainly be amazing, as would Egypt, the rainforests, and the loneliness found in the Artic. Not making fun at all here, but sometimes the phrase of "The grass is greener on the other side," may apply. I realize that many CERB members are from Ottawa, but as a person who only rarely gets to vist there, it is one of my favorite destinations. I have been there for the tulip festival, seen pomp on Parliament Hill, just wandered around downtown people watching and got a crick in my neck from looking up at tall buildings. There are plenty of places that cause one to yearn for a visit, but you have a pretty amazing, beautiful and fun city right there.
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1 pointDemocracy is rife with "what ifs". Who moderates who? Who is to be trusted to be impartial and unbiased? This is an online, virtual, anonymous community. I would not want to be in charge of finding anyone perfect enough to meet the requirements of monitoring this board, as there is not one participant that doesn't have biases and self interest at hand, while still pleasing the masses that seem to demand their perception of perfection instead of practical application. Given the pettiness, immaturity and nonsense I have seen on the board lately, I would gladly choose to have MOD continue as always and permanently ban the whiners, complainers and shit disturbers. The manipulation and games would push anyone over the fragile edge. I know many "valued" participants would be gone but it would give CERB a fresh start and I for one would be glad to see them go. MOD is constantly taken for granted by both hobbiest and SP alike. Has anyone ever thought of what would happen if CERB were shut down? I mean literally, off the air. Having this board is a privilege not a right. It costs nothing to participate and we all gain from it, but it costs $$$, time, heart and soul to run it. This whole "democracy" issue should have never happened. Who has the right to question and complain about MODs decisions to begin with? It's his board, which means his game, his rules!!! He has the right to make decisions without backlash or complaint from anyone in any form. If you don't like his decisions, LEAVE. There are other boards out there for you to participate on. Don't like those, start your own board. To all of those who have pushed MOD to this, those who complained and pitched hissy fits, give your head a shake, grow up and get a life. You have brought this on CERB. It would serve all those involved if MOD decided to simply close up shop and move on to something that doesn't require hyperbaric sensory deprivation treatments to maintain his sanity. You know who you are. All of you who chose to PM him, giving him a hard time about bans and suspensions. All of you who question his decisions. All of you who take petty squabbles to him instead of being an adult and taking the high road. All of you who feel it's more important to be right than it is to be happy. Life doesn't always work out the way you want it to. Accept it and move on. For those who have been banned, take responsibility for your part in it and....move on. Perhaps if some apologies and self policing were implemented, this would all go away. Use a little common sense and empathy from now on and maybe all of this can be resolved without complicating life any more than it already is. cat
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