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THE VEHICLE! Get your mind our of the gutter. Absolutely NO sex for sale here. NONE. ZERO. ZILCH. You can come over, but don't even dare LOOK at me sexually. Perv.

I had the opportunity last night to have an in-depth discussion about C-36 with an Ottawa policeman. All this was off the record, he was speaking only for himself and his situation may change but none the less it was interesting. Based on what he's been told, he does not see any major changes on the horizon. They will continue the occasional street level John Sweep. The guys will get charged. The SPs most likely won't. As for SPs working from their home, condo, apartments or agencies, they have no interest in pursuing them. The probable results are not worth the investment in time and resources. Besides, he said, those people are paying their taxes just like any other person so barring any complaints, why would they bother them? He said this was the same for agencies, independents and "rub & tugs". He explained that they, the police, are generally in a reactive mode. There is only so much money, manpower, and resource available so they will react to community issues (complaints). The closest thing to proactive effort he mentioned was a Sergeant who was reaching out to women working from ....... to make sure the SPs were aware of the resources available to them in case they had problems. Apparently this Sergeant got into difficulty when he got a little too friendly with the SPs but that's a different story. He's not aware of any new money being allocated to address this "issue". Bottom line: Don't go looking for sex on street corners. Be discrete. Life will go on.

Not gonna lie low or give up... i will just see the ladies I already know and trust and perhaps a few new ones that my existing friends might recommend.

Hi! I don't think we have had the pleasure of speaking yet as I am still quite new to cerb. I do have a bit of experience with Lawyers/Court for a random number of issues during my employment for a company. The first step is finding the blog, you can certain attest that this is directly pointed to you. Make sure there's nothing in it that references any other SP's or anyone else. It would have to single you at personally (Which I think it does since it has your legal name, etc). Now if you want to fight this, please be advised that you will require some cash and lots of time. As almost every step here requires some to advance to the next step. First, you need to contact a lawyer that deals with public issues. Personal attacks and defamation of character. You need a prelim meeting to make sure you do in fact have a case. (Even if you might think so, it might not be worth fighting depending on some of the issues). Once you have a sure case, then you order a cease and desist letter be drawn up and sent. - What is that??? A cease and desist letter, also known as "infringement letter" or "demand letter," is an aggressive-toned document sent to an individual or business to halt purportedly unlawful activity ("cease") and not take it up again later ("desist"). In your case, this would be either sent to the person running the blog (if you aren't sure) then to the blog owners. Sometimes it's worth fighting them because they don't want trouble, in fact it's less trouble taking the site down that it is fighting it. If they do, great... just keep an eye out for it popping up elsewhere. If they don't the lawyer will have the next step for you, most likely a mediation, or even another injunction for the site to reveal it's owner. Most times those sites won't hide the person. If you have any questions let me know, also if you want me to do some digging around the site let me know... I'll PM you. Besides, it might not be a bad idea to have a lawyer available. Cheers, Sorry this has happen to you.

Lest We Forget !

I was going to wait until I got back home and do all my reviews from my computer instead of this iPad, but I've received several requests in PMs for more details on Felina's kink session so I'd figured I'd share some generic information. I spent a "regular" session with Felina first (to be reviewed later ;) ) which was great. I felt she was an open person I could talk to, and discuss my kinks without too much embarrassment. Maybe I'm old fashioned, but I'm uncomfortable calling a stranger up and saying "hi, here's all my sexual deviations". Felina was awesome, understanding, and completely non-judgemental. I outlined what I was expecting/hoping for... And I think this is key, tell her what you want. Be careful with bill 36 obviously, be smart in your conversation. She obviously planned ahead, had everything ready, and it was a mind blowing session. She really, really got in to it and it showed. She was enthusiastic, and crossed quite a few things off my bucket list. Without going into too much detail, our session involved more tease/denial/worship than pain (matching my request). I booked an hour and a half, and was absolutely ready to explode by the end, which did happen. We had discussed how many times I wanted to "arrive" (can't use the other word, it gets censored), once was my choice. Not as young as I was, sigh. What truly impressed me was the thought and effort Felina put into the session (I had booked two days in advance). This wasn't a "show up and I'll see what I can do", it was *very* clear that she planned her actions to meet my needs down to the last detail. I told her what I wanted, she made it happen. We hit one bump in the road mid way through (my "fault"), but she shifted gears, changed things around, and we didn't miss a beat. She's also extremely, extremely good at reading people. Several times as I was approaching ecstasy, she ordered me to slow down or stop so it wouldn't finish ahead of her schedule. Also, there was one activity that I wanted, but couldn't get the nerve to tell her I wanted, but she read me like a book, and fulfilled that hidden fantasy as well. In many ways, I'm glad I don't live in Winnipeg because I guarantee I'd be a hopeless regular if I was. If I could suggest, I would say book a regular session with her, so that you both get to know each other a bit and so that you can communicate a bit more openly without fear of either being LE. Then, tell her exactly what you want. She'll let you know if she can accommodate you. Then, enjoy the time of your life. And, if you ARE a LE and you pick on Felina... I'll hunt you down and... and... well, take away your donuts. You're a bad man. TLDR: if you're looking for tease/denial with a woman being dominant, don't hesitate, just call her.

It's my birthday and you all know I love birthdays!!

If you contact an indy MA, observe how she conducts her business. You as a potential client are paying for discretion and part of that is how she will communicate with you. Many ladies intend to protect their clients by not advertising explicit things even though technically they're allowed to but they won't. Why? Because when a client comes to see a lady he is paying partly for a high amount of discretion that they offer. She is extending this to you even more by not discussing explicit things when you begin to have a dialogue with one another. While for many hobbyists, it will be harder to determine certain things will be available or not from a provider, many will find a way to communicate these things to you, just not explicitly. You know what is going to happen there but in the last few years, this whole menu ideology has gotten too out of control and many have become complacent by just calling an ad up without doing research. Do your research, stick with reputable ladies if you decide to call an indy MA. Making examples out of someone costs money and good luck to LE doing that to one provider and the cost and resources it will take. They like to nab multiple people all at once. Now is the time to stick to who you know and what you know already.

I hope you have success. I was involved in attempts to get a slanderous blog removed, both via Cease and Desist letters and reports and communication with the host, and clearly more effort was needed since the person who created it, a hateful spiteful creature, refused to comply. The C&D btw was sent by at least a half dozen sps, one site owner/admin and a moderator or two as well. They also reported to the host company. The host company continued to play a runaround game of not acknowledging the proof of slander sent to them, similar to what they have done to you. Last resort could be coming, with legal intervention, further reports to LE, lawyers, etc. It would be nice if people like this would do the right thing and not post the slander in the first place. It would be even nicer if when presented with the truth, they were embarrassed and humiliated by having their lies exposed. If they did, they'd do the right thing and take it down. I don't find sociopaths have the capacity to either be embarrassed by their actions, or do the right thing. Sometimes the response is to create your own blog, exposing them as liars, and providing the proof and evidence. However in your case, we also see real private details, and that is not cool. There is good chance a report to the appropriate LE dept would help. I read further down, I think you have a good case for copyright infringement. You own your photos, and you did not give permission for their use by this blogger. The site would necessarily be in legal trouble for allowing the photos on their site, and you might be able to get them removed by pushing that aspect. your photos are not considered publicly available, they are owned by you the second you took them, or had them taken for you

In Flanders fields the poppies blow Between the crosses, row on row, That mark our place; and in the sky The larks, still bravely singing, fly Scarce heard amid the guns below. We are the Dead. Short days ago We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow, Loved and were loved, and now we lie In Flanders fields. Take up our quarrel with the foe: To you from failing hands we throw The torch; be yours to hold it high. If ye break faith with us who die We shall not sleep, though poppies grow In Flanders fields.

Wow new ladies cummin to the Social, I like Virgins!!!

Says it all RG

Or don't book till you have actually made up your mind.

In Flanders Field In Flanders fields the poppies blow Between the crosses, row on row, That mark our place; and in the sky The larks, still bravely singing, fly Scarce heard amid the guns below. We are the Dead. Short days ago We lived, felt dawn, saw sunset glow, Loved and were loved, and now we lie, In Flanders fields. Take up our quarrel with the foe: To you from failing hands we throw The torch; be yours to hold it high. If ye break faith with us who die We shall not sleep, though poppies grow In Flanders fields. by John McCrae Additional Comments: Additional Comments:

i like my body when it is with your - one of my favourite poems, in video form: http://vimeo.com/62916659 Do you also like the thrill? Let's share some deliciously intimate time together at my private and discreet downtown location, or invite me to visit with you at yours. I am currently in full-time studies, with a fairly flexible schedule. Please have a look at my website to find out more: http://www.kathrynbardot.net Reach me by email at [email protected] or by phone/text at 613-501-1545 (no blocked calls) A little bit more... 5'8" 34B-28-38 Blonde hair, blue eyes, and a few lovely tattoos. Read what others have to say... http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=15829 http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=63938 xo, Kathryn.

Relax, the new bill is just being released, and I don't think LE and the prosecutors know yet how to proceed. One area we are likely to see immediate change is in the advertising, where the ladies will have to be less explicit and adjust their screening methods. The other place that enforcement will still be persistent is street level prostitution and under age girls. If you're careful and patronize women with good reputations I think things will be fairly normal.

One of my longtime regular came to my location where I host and he ring door bell after I unlock door waiting and walk in. He caught me vacuuming in sheer lingerie and six inch heels. Great housewife experience! Lol Posted via Mobile Device

The absolutely fabulous weather for Rememberance Day.

This crap seems to be happening way to often I am not sure why people need to be so hateful. Revealing a ....... providers real name and personal information is not only stupid it is very dangerous and often leaves the ....... ........ very vulnerable... they can fight to get the information removed but it's impossible to undo the damage that it may have caused to their sense of security or to their family. Additionally as noted by a previous poster this fight can cost significant money which often the SP cannot or should not have to spend. It's unfortunate that there is not an organization that provides support as i would be happy to make a donation. Just my Opinion

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I still like The Keg for steak and lobster with a shrimp cocktail as an appetizer, the shrimp are as big as my .................., the Keg, anywhere, everywhere. Good meal but expensive. My meal with two Keg size rums run about $80 plus tip. Not too bad. Oh ya, I always take a handful of their candies at the door on the way out.

I lost about 350 I was so close to have 4500 posts!

Call the provincial bar association where you live. In Manitoba they can set up three free 15 minute consultations with lawyers. They make sure the lawyer is appropriate for your situation too. Take notes and screenshots so you can explain everything clearly and concisely. This is a sad situation and I am sorry you have to deal with it. Good luck.

For those of who are reading this thread but not bothering with the other link provided, you might be interested to know that the PM system is not 100% gonna help you "find out what u need" as certain terminologies and acronyms are being blocked there too.

I got to spend some time this afternoon with an amazing friend ... It's funny how some people can just improve your day just with their presence.

I totally agree with you! I understand meeting someone for the.first time is a little.nerve wrecking especially if it.is your very first encounter, but to send numerous text back.and forth booking a.time then text me.back to say I am very.nervous is very time.consuming and frustrating after I have gotten ready and possibly turned down another appointment with someone else I cannot nor will I.coach you to come see me Please only call.once you are 100% positive you are comfortable and ready Also, I do realize that you gentlemen.sometimes like to.shop around and that is.fine with me(variety is the spice of life) BUT to text numerous women at the same time is slightly a turn off Try speaking to one at a time then maybe you wouldn't get caught up with sending the wrong messages lol jussayin!

Stunningly beautiful babe and tons of fun. I've seen her many many times and never get tired of her attentions. Really outstanding!

I think the biggest task is going to be re-training clients, as Angela mentioned. Especially here in BC where this industry has always been pretty accepted and things are fairly open and easy-going here. Personally, I am not the slightest bit concerned about my local LE busting me for anything - even if I do choose to get into details over the phone. However, not all municipalities take as tolerant and benevolent a view on our industry and as a rule, I think it's a good idea to stick to basic information and key phrases like "open-minded" (can we still use that? Surely, I would think we can). Clients will just have to learn to read between the lines. And in the end, I find clients that don't want a menu are almost always better clients than the ones who are eager to reduce your companionship to how good your .... skills are or other such things. It's been said by many ladies, and it bears mentioning again: this is chance for us girls to bring back some of the tact and elegance of our companionship. Yes, many clients will not catch on as they are either unaware of the new law and/or they're just stubborn. Ultimately, you have to decide for yourself what you consider to be okay in terms of how you interact with clients before meeting them. If you're comfortable going into detail over the phone, just be aware of the risks involved. There are many advocacy groups in many cities around Canada, and I see no reason why you shouldn't contact them and/or speak to the liason officer at your municipality's police department about the reality of this law. Afterall, while a law may be on the books, the reality of enforcing it may not be so severe. It's good to be informed so you can make a choice that you are comfortable with and that works for you.

I felt like a million bucks today, why, because I spent an hour with a goddess named Violet, who was so perfect in every way. She works for an agency, called Guilty Pleasures. Now this is not a typical agency, it is almost an amalgamation of independent escorts. It is run by women and the girls all work together, they look after each other, they all get all very well, in fact they are a like a family. They treat their clients very well, and their getting along with each other helps that. Fantastic service from the agency, although an atypical one in a very good way. They are pretty new, I think only about 2 months on the scene, but despite being new, they don't act it, they are pros, and better than some of the "established" ones out there. Ok so I wanted to get this agency part out there, I think that it is important to know. Time for the girl. AKA the best part. I found the ad on BP. Rates are not listed except for 15 min, but a quick text answered that, 140 for HH, and 200 Hr. And there were pictures of this girl Violet, very nice looking. But in real life, those pictures forget about them, when she opened the door, jaw dropping stunningly beautiful. On a scale of 1 to 10 in the pics she is an easy 9 or 10 cutie, in real life, boom automatic 20. I get in the room, and just feel comfortable with her like you should. I love everything about this girl, her skin and flesh are so soft, such a good kisser. Great to talk to. These words are failing me, I can't say enough good things about Violet. Oh Wow, I think that sums it up nicely. Definitely trust and like Guilty Pleasures, would want to see Violet again in a heartbeat.

In this time of turmoil I'm glad I can have a minute to congratulate you on your totally sexy indomitable spirit. You support, you teach, you share, you research and you lead the charge in so many instances. Not only that but you sure know how to make an all day sucker sexy! Thanks for everything beautiful lady!!

Good luck! :)

http://www.powerottawa.ca/home.html There is a donation tab on the menu line at the top of the page :) Feel free to navigate their site a bit first and read about them , as I did the last 2hrs before contacting them for possible assistance on this matter. Who knows, your donation could be all I need to reach my aim...

Hey, so sorry this has happened to you. He is a link for the free referral ....... provided by the Law Society of Upper Canada. http://www.lsuc.on.ca/faq.aspx?id=2147486372 I hope you can get closure for this soon.

Happy Birthday Lexy.... hope your day is amazing

Happy Bday! Have a most wonderful day!

There has been an on-going discussion here - http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=199098 It is speculated that the mod is doing some clean-up in anticipation of the new legislation.

Yes, and it was LYLA.COM Lyla's List and CERB.CA is turning back into lyla.com by the end of the month so change your bookmarks.

I hope I am in the correct section... With the holiday season fast approaching I'd like to reach out to people everywhere and ask for a helping hand. Volunteering is one of the best ways we know of to make a difference in your community. Whatever your passion, however you get involved, volunteering offers a way to have a real and lasting impact on the world. This request goes out to everyone everywhere... The Christmas Cheer Board is a cause I have been volunteering at for a number of years and they can always use some extra help from answering phones, creating hampers, wrapping presents to delivering hampers. Your commitment can mean so much to those people less fortunate. If you don't have time to volunteer these can always use donations. So let's take some time to share some kindness. This goes out to all Winnipegers... Another cause that is dear to me is the Santa Parade. Volunteers are an integral part of the Parade. This event is all about bringing people together to celebrate one of the most magical times of the year. Volunteers are needed for everything from crowd monitoring to being a candy cane elf so if you have some extra time on your hands Nov. 16 please help out. (You will have to sign up prior) If you can't volunteer be sure to get out and enjoy this event after all how often do they shut down Portage Ave. After the parade there a fireworks at the Forks. So bundle up and enjoy.

Guys who are new and nervous and want to be coddled. I understand that a first time can be nerve wracking yet i can only make a person feel comfortable up to a certain point until they have to take that leap and come see me. Ian very good with first timers but if a person doesn't want to come because they cant go through with it, please do not waste my time and cancel when you are supposed to be calling me for directions. Cancelling as early as possible is the best thing to do in this situation. Posted via Mobile Device

Congratulations Emily J on your 2000 post milestone Looking forward to your next 2000 contributions RG

Emily: Thank you for your informative posts. You make us all smarter. Valerie

Congratulations Emily on your 2000th post! I seriously look forward to your ads daily...they are just awesome!!! :D

I was at Barb's last Tuesday. It was a very slow night. I am not a regular so don't know all of the names....but I did get dances from two girls. There was a very fun blonde, Nicole.....cute face and very active in the private room....plus a great personality. I wasn't planning to go a second time but was blown away by the brunette beauty of Melanie....very thin, beautiful breasts, incredible face. She was not as wild as Nicole but very fun.

I am a die hard BlackBerry user and I recently downloaded a new App that I think is great for this Hobby/Business. The App is called "Hide SMS" and while it is for BlackBerry 10 phones I am sure there are similar Apps for other popular phones. Bottom line the App redirects incoming text messages from identified contacts or phone numbers into a password protected area on your phone and not into your regular text message location. This allows clients to securely text back and forth with SP's with no indication of the text trail in their regular text listing. If your spouse checks your phone you are all clear. It also would allow SP'S to flag the number of regular clients so that the record of their conversations were secure in case the phone is ever lost of stolen. I have only been playing with the app since yesterday but it looks very promising.

I have offered this advice privately to a few newbies and have been recently asked by an SP to offer the suggestions to the community at-large. Apparently, some of you need a refresher course... :roll: (I also expect that you are like me -- if you are considering meeting an escort who has no presence on CERB then you have done your proper homework to see if she's genuine or a scammer, and decided to go ahead.) Step 1. Be clear in what you are looking for (services, time). Be careful never to solicit. Example A applies if she has not stated her rates on her Backpage ad: Hi, I like DFK, BBBJ, and DATY. If you are free for a HH incall at 2 p.m., please tell me your HH rate. Example B when her rates are already quoted: Hi, I like DFK, BBBJ, and DATY. Can I book you for a HH incall at 2 p.m.? At this point, she will reply saying she doesn't do a service, she is only free at a time later on, or might not respond at all. Let's say she replies like this: Hi hunnie. CBJ only. I start at 3.30. HH 140, H is 200. Step 2. Make the booking and always prompt her to acknowledge by asking the question. Example: I'm OK with CBJ. 140 for HH is OK too. Please book me for 3:30 p.m. for HH. OK? Let's say she responds like this: OK hunnie. C u then. (At this point you have technically booked her in just 2 text messages! Good for you!) Step 3. Now, if you are within 1 hour of your booking, it is acceptable to ask for her location like this: Thanks for accepting my booking. What is your hotel or address? However, a lot of escorts do not like giving out their location if you have booked a few hours or a day in advance. Let her know that you will follow-up, like this: Thanks again, we are confirmed 3:30p.m. for HH. I will text you 1 hour before to ask for your location. Bye for now. (Later on you will text her like this: Hi, we have a booking for 3:30 p.m. Please tell me your hotel or address.) Once you arrive at her location, expect to text her again for her room number (if she's at a hotel), or for her buzzer number and suite number (if she's at an apartment). These same general rules work well if you choose to arrange your date over the phone. Escorts don't want to make conversation with you or answer a lot of questions. Be direct. Get booked. Get laid. Simple. Cheers!

I can absolutely help you out with this... ask my girls ;) My background is in anatomy and musculature, and sexuality of course. I taught a guy how to make me squirt in front of 40 people... sexy as hell.

For the most part, that is me as well. The first contact is through the email link in the website or sometimes via pm on boards (provided the SP has that option posted in her ad). In that initial contact is the phone # I will be contacting from as well to save confusion. One thing I would add is that in that first text, my first words are always, "Hello, my name is (insert first name), I am 54 yrs old and live in the area and saw your ad on CERB (or whatever). My handle there is "peacectryguy" Then the other pertinent stuff that was mentioned. I believe it is important to make an effort to show the lady you are on the level and a name and brief description does help in that. If they require more info, they can and will ask but it shows you are placing some trust in them and usually they feel better trusting you. It is a 2 way street.

She is sweet, attractive and attentive. You can't go wrong with her.

A simple search of the recommendation section brings up this: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=147957 I did see her at PK too, so there might be another recommendation around. I would not hesitate to see her.

Pssst.... Some Independent MA's DO offer oral..... Im sure it's no secret. I might get into trouble here....but.... I am an MA, and.... I have offered oral. It's not advertised and it's not a guarantee.... it's a 'if it happens, it happens' kinda deal. I would never suggest any hobbiest seek an MA for anything extra especially at a spa tho. But at the same time I don't see the harm in asking for any service- so long as you only ask once and accept the answer gracefully. But chances are if you haven't met the girl yet.... the answer is NO. For me, YMMV is a true statement. Everything must be mutually desired. I can promise you a mediocre massage, a spectacular bodyslide, a shared shower (altho I do hog) and an explosive ending.... But I cant promise oral and I cant even promise kissing. Hygiene and personality can go a lonnnnng way. So can gum ;) Just sayin' ;) So for a better chance at MORE, meet the girl first..... Connections can sometimes change things. But NOT always. Your Truth Teller, C.Heavens