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  1. 9 points
    No, not at all. It just means the governing body that has the final say in .ca domain names is Canadian and falls under Canadian jurisdiction. Where .com domain names are USA domain names and no jurisdiction. We are still a canadian company and we are still complying with the new laws as everyone should. The dots/dashes are annoying, we all invested a lot of time and me myself many years of my life building this site and to have to conform this because the government pulls this BS makes me sick to my stomach! The stress is killing me! No one HATES this more then I ... i can assure you of that. But short of packing up the company and moving to another country we must comply. Other sites that changed domain names and moved servers to Amsterdam are NOT safe as the owners are still in Canada. If the police wants to go after them it's not hard to find them if they are taking any sort of payment. They are breaking the law, we choose to comply and no break the law so that we can keep the community going.
  2. 6 points
    I entirely disagree. I came to CERB at a time in my life when I felt very isolated and empty. I had always been curious about this business, but the stigma made me believe I was crazy for having such thoughts. It is only through CERB that I discovered the amazing men and women that I am now so proud to call my friends. I have met gentlemen who have taught me a great deal about life, their various careers, their interests, their loves, their sorrows, and their dreams. These men have admired me, complimented me, comforted me, and helped me to discover a new beauty and courage within myself. Some have passed into my life for but a fleeting moment, while others remain close companions. The women here have been some of my greatest inspirations. Any of you who have seen me at socials know how giddy I get when introduced to some of popular CERB ladies. I have such tremendous respect for them and their accomplishments. The friends I have made here are the ones whose opinions I value most! CERB is like anything else, you get what you put in. If you are looking for true, genuine intimacy, you will find friendship and love, as we have all seen on the thread of one of our dearly beloved members who is now facing some very difficult health complications- our hearts go out to you! If you are looking for just business, you can find that too. To each their own.
  3. 4 points
    Im back im town!! Come play with me tonight & tomorrow! Well established fun-giver.. Thick & curvy.. All tanned! 120$ hh 180$ h 300$ 90min 360$ 2h 613-315-6354 Xoxo
  4. 4 points
    Lyla.com was the domain name for Lyla's List, one of the first boards of this kind that was started in the 90's and was later acquired by escorts-canada, cerb's owners. From what I understand one of the reasons the board is going back to the old name because it is a dot com not a dot ca.
  5. 4 points
    It is not fear mongering and it is not us (cerb, the owners, the mods) who made these laws!!! Cerb has always been on the good side of the law and we will remain that way. It keeps our members safe, the owners safe, the mods safe and the advertisers safe. I am just warning people of what is to come here on cerb not everywhere else! Have i ever been concerned what others are doing? No! We run cerb different the other sites, We will conform to the new laws to keep this site running and we will ride this out and protect ourselves, and our members. lots of people are voicing opinions that we should keep cerb running the same, refuse to conform, move the business to another country, etc,etc,.. If you feel so strongly about not censoring and breaking the laws then i suggest you either purchase a copy of vbulletin (the software that runs cerb) and start your own discussion site and run all the illegal ads and open uncensored posts you want.. Or hell make the owners of cerb an offer to purchase cerb, maybe they would sell it. I would have to resign however as i do not wish to go to court for breaking this new law. Just for the record...As far as i know cerb it is not for sale but with the new laws i am sure that would consider an offer, i sure would. So, with that said does anyone have the guts (or stupidity) to go against the law? Put your money and your criminal record where your mouth is and lets see what happens. If not then help us stay a float and stop fighting me and fight your government who did this to us! Lets see if your all talk or your willing to take the chance and get charged under the new law. I personally would like to keep the site going and conform to the laws.
  6. 4 points
    Anna, i think that if you had just been more direct, and not so roundabout hinting at this and that 'stuff', maybe the reactions would have been more acceptable for you? As it is, you jump onto one reply, one of the things you complain about others doing, i think? So basically what i am getting from the OP is that you feel that some members are reporting ..'s ads or sending mod info about their ads on other sites, in order to get them banned from using cerb. In a malicious way, of course, and you want these people to mind their own business. If that is what you are saying, i wholeheartedly agree. People are busybodies about other sps ads. i don't know where you are seeing these digs about sps advertising extras elsewhere tho. is it possible you are reading more into what you see? for example we are discussing the whole topic of advertising and what to include, what to exclude. to do this we use examples. From time to time, we may use an example of a site that allows more graphic ads, and wonder why, or maybe explain why they do. how do people know things if they don't discuss, and ask, and debate?
  7. 3 points
    CLASSIFIED ADS - EDIT THEM OR LOOSE THEM! UPDATE BEFORE NOVEMBER 25th !! I noticed a LOT of classified ads still advertising things that are going to now be illegal. You either have to remove anything from the ads that is now illegal for us to advertise for you or we will need to delete your ad completely. If you previously offered prostitution related services you must remove such things (or hints of such things) from this site. I will NOT edit the ads (that would take too long) so I am going to go over them and start deleting any that DO NOT comply with the new laws. I will check to see if you have read this post and if you have and did not bother to update your classified ad you will get a infraction and possibly a suspension from the site. Leaving the classified up makes more work for me. I am very busy making sure the site conforms to all the new laws so it can continue on for you all. Please do your part. BY NOVEMBER 25th If you see a classified ad that is breaking the law PLEASE REPORT IT! I REMOVED THE "SERVICES" that you can NO LONGER ADVERTISE off the check list as well. You will see them as NA1 NA2 NA3 etc... those need to be UNCHECKED at this time (Till I can add some new ones to fill those spots) the system will not let me just delete them.
  8. 3 points
  9. 3 points
    So it's the end of a week and I had made plans to see Claire early on in the following week when in chimes Ms. Wilde with news that she will be visiting from Montreal over the same time period. This being such a busy time of year (damn work) that my only alternative was to see if we could facilitate a combined get together that would be amenable to all. After enquiries were submitted, both ladies agreed and we met at Claire's place for a couple of hours. Although I have know each lady for a while, this was their first meeting, so we put on some Lana, took in the view from the balcony, had a hot snack and then put aside the pleasantries for some naked pleasantness. Admittedly this was a bit of an ego trip for me but I would fall all over it again in a heartbeat. Perhaps next time, less balcony and more hot snack. So when opportunity comes knocking, bust down the jambs.
  10. 3 points
    I personally really don't care what the owners of cerb decide to do or not do. It's their board, their choice at the end of the day, it's their business. I talked to MOD yesterday about changing my name to comply to the rules, there was no arguing and no debate about it .. I initiated the conversation .. I like the discussions here and that's why I partake on this board. As for the maliciousness, I don't see it, maybe that's something you're privy to and the rest of us are not. I don't devalue anyone no matter their role in this industry as a sex worker. My niche is my selling point, which is going to change drastically for me, I'll just have to be a little more creative and discreet about it.. no big deal. As an advocate, I throw myself into the mix as it is and take heat from all sides, but I knew the risks when I decided to take that on. I fully admit, I've told MOD to move offshore and keep fighting, but again it's a suggestion and it's their choice. Personally I wouldn't give in, but hey that's just me, my opinion is just like everyone else's, we all have one.
  11. 3 points
    I can't speak for Mod, but my understanding is that what matters is what can be seen by visitors to the site. That doesn't include PMs. Realistically, PMs are not monitored or moderated at all (AFAIK) and so the only way Mod would ever find out would be if someone asked for your website and then reported your PM when you sent it. I *hope* nobody would be that much of an asshole.
  12. 3 points
    I disagree. Lots of us use BP as another way to advertise. However, if BP is the ONLY site, then I would be concerned. That's why using cerb AND Google helps to weed out the fly by nights. Do your research when visiting anyone.
  13. 3 points
    The VERY FIRST adult discussion website in Canada (at least that I know of) that had info on escorts was created by no other then "Joyful Spirit" (A member here who use to go by the name "LYLA" and she built the website and was a pioneer for online escorts in Canada). The site was LYLA.COM and was affectionately known as "Lyla's List". It also displayed ads for Escorts-Canada.com and when LYLA wanted to retire the site she passed the domain name on to the owners of escorts-canada.com. They (EC) continued lyla's list for a few years but when the SPONLY area on LYLA.COM at the time known as demimonde was taken over by some of the ladies and failed miserably and the discussion board part was hacked bad due to a old bbs system that was full of security holes the discussion element of the site and the sponly area of the site were put onto the back burner. The lyla.com site stayed active but only to display ads for escorts-canada (without a discussion element) instead we created a separate site cerb.ca to start from scratch. So... We are bringing back LYLA.COM as we need a NON CANADIAN DOMAIN NAME for this site. WHY?? Basically we do not trust the Canadian powers that be, with these new laws it's only a matter of time when our compliance is not good enough so this way we have a .COM domain name (canada does not have any governing body over .com only .ca) so we felt this needed to happen sooner then later. BUT... love you like a sister is a most excellent modern day urban take on the name! We should adapt that as this community has always been about watching each others backs, helping the ladies stay safe and all around positive side of the adult industry. Since we are sisters and brothers and we now have all those annoying DOT.DOT.DOT censors all around us maybe we should use "Love You Like A ..." as the name! ;)
  14. 2 points
    We are testing our a new text ad system on localescorts.ca (this is just a test phase and we are only promoting this here on cerb at this time until we work out the bugs and the development team finishes all the backed system) At this time the ads are FREE and are AUTOMATICALLY posted for everyone with a profile ad (4 times a day) and anyone without a profile ad can make them too for free but must manually make the ad each time (at this time). Direct Link: http://www.localescorts.ca/textads/ALL/home.html We would love any feedback from both the ladies and the men on how you would like to see the system improved. It is very basic right now (3 photos max) but we will be improving on it and promoting it in the future.
  15. 2 points
    Some people feel the need to blame everyone else when things dont go the way they want. The laws change, we must comply bottom line. If you do not wish to do so leave cerb/lyla and find somewhere that will risk breaking the laws. No witch hunt no one else to blame if you refuse to comply when the rest of us are doing so. Very simple... and maybe if you read the rules here and see that VENTING threads and such are also NOT permitted on cerb then maybe you would have less of a hard time here. If you choose NOT to read and follow the rules you will be removed (or in this case whatever they do to witches who refuse to follow the rules).
  16. 2 points
    Well, it's been building for a while now and only getting worse. I smell a witch hunt and the intensification of an us versus them attitude, where those who model and best emulate the most sanitized image of the 'Escort' and sometimes, the 'Hobbyist', get their precious brownie points while others, particularly the oh, so very bad and 'risky' workers get shit on. It's bad enough we are being censored to death here to survive. And, yes, it is a real challenge to adapt to this new legislative environment, but it brings things to violence when we have the finger pointing and goody two shoes bull that is going around about 'all those SPs' who are peddling their 'extras' and should really 'know better'...should really do more to not be so 'risky'... And, this messaging is being directed regarding workers in general discussions and not just those formally linked with CERB, but it's functioning in really damaging ways that do affect our Members here and this hurts the culture that people have worked so hard to make supportive and caring and progressively minded...what's going on is slut shaming and another term I don't even think I can use on here now. I've even had personal conversations with workers who were worried that other workers would be tricking them into providing a menu or discussing 'activities' over text and whatnot and that this would be used as a way of thinning the ranks and getting them kicked off of boards like this. Paranoid? I think not, especially given all of the nasty talk and the fear and uncertainty that has transpired in recent weeks...about how all of the change would be handled, about the level of censorship and the reach of control these changes would result in in terms of workers needing to alter their business models and online presences. Under the tyranny of fear and censorship, very lovable people are driven to engage in truly ugly behavior. I think it was a wise decision on the part of the board to make a distinction that those going on with advertising their extras in other places aren't automatically kicked off of CERB, so long as they are not linking their presences or posts here to those other spaces. Otherwise, I know we would have a worse rats nest than we already do now. Just because many of us felt compelled to adapt our business models and advertising practices to continue to try and thrive and provide the most comfort and assurance to our clients who are looking for that, does not give any of us the right to look down or direct hatefulness at those who are not towing the line. And, many of of us who have made these changes are carrying extra burdens and worries in greater isolation than before. There is a cost to sanitizing one's image...just as there is to becoming the Dudley and Dolly do rights who will be hurting their eyes and giving themselves calluses from hitting the report post button so much. [Yeah, there is a difference between reporting a post and becoming the post police or some resentful, makeshift Mod. I can read between the lines that this is happening.] And, for those of my colleagues who have acted as though they don't understand why others are so upset that they have to be censored and constrained in such a way because they've been doing it this way all along with no issues at all, you need to know you are in a minority and that the industry overall does not march to the beat of your drum...very invalidating and politically self-ingratiating behaviour. I see we are under constraints here and that people are fearful and frustrated, but let's really be honest with ourselves about the difference between adapting and surviving versus shitting on people and hyper fixating on their business practices....or, better yet, between playing along and drinking the Kool-Aid. Let's do more on the end of keeping this a supportive space. Besides, witches have more fun ;P
  17. 2 points
    My name will be changing due to board rules because of the new laws. As soon as MOD gives me the proper procedure for this process my new name will take effect .. My name will be Vittoria Valente and new web site will be up in the next few days to comply with new rules and guidelines. Just wanted to make everyone aware, so you know who you're talking to lol.
  18. 2 points
    Hi! I'm really excited to start this new adventure with you! Let's escape the mundane together and get lost in euphoria. I'm 24 years old, University educated and disease and drug free. I have long dark brown hair, soft cream-like skin and a great attitude. People say the first thing they notice about me is my smile. I am a passionate extrovert, who wants to create memories that will stay with us both for a lifetime. I'm an open-minded full/classic girlfriend that is playful and loves to cater to most fetishes/fantasies. I love dressing up and down, and will try to accommodate any clothing requests. I'm very affectionate and genuinely caring. My laid-back and low maintenance demeanor, will ensure we have a comfortable hassle-free time together. Allow me to focus my youthful energy and sensuality on pampering you. Your comfort and fulfillment are my top priority. Discretion is very important to me, as I'm sure it is for you. I hope you will allow me the opportunity to seduce and tantalize you into a state of rapture. Fulfill your fantasies and leave you happy and satisfied. Please do not hesitate to contact me for more information or to set-up a date. At this time I am only booking through email. [email protected] Couples are welcome at no additional charge. I also love to spend time with women.
  19. 2 points
    Emily J is someone you should check out. you will not be disappointed. She is a terrific sexy woman with some wicked skills. Shutterclick
  20. 2 points
    Yeah, common sense is anything but common these days, it seems. I wonder if someone should start a course at the local community college to teach it to all the dummies out there. That could be my retirement job. Of course, most of my days would be spent in "facepalm" mode. :icon_wink:
  21. 2 points
    I believe the lovely Emily J works around that area, if I am not mistaken. At least that was where I met her, unless she has moved recently. http://www.lyla.com/classifieds/ottawa-escort-ads/p33-the-attention-you-deserve.html
  22. 2 points
    I believe Mod said that if your site was not compliant, that your website address would get censored. If that's the case and you still want to use the PM system to share your website link, you'll have to get creative...
  23. 2 points
    It's really hard to say how this is going to be enforced in Winnipeg. The "Counter-Exploitation" unit (formerly Vice), is really small (nine members, two of whom are dedicated to sex trade stuff) http://winnipeg.ca/police/ceu/, so there may be little to no enforcement when it comes to indoor sex workers. Or there might be an uptick in enforcement at the beginning. We just don't know. The Winnipeg Working Group sent letters to all of the mayoral candidates during the election, to ask how they intend to enforce C-36, but Bowman didn't bother responding, so I'm unclear about his stance on anything related to sex work. With regards to being confronted by the police, I think it all depends on the attitude and assumptions of the officers on scene. Even if there's no real evidence to suggest that you intend to purchase sexual services, they may make assumptions based merely on your presence and your gender. They may arrest you even if they have no intention of charging you. They may also threaten or try to intimate you with threats of being arrested or charged for other things if you don't co-operate. If you do have an encounter with the police, know your rights and don't say anything more than you're legally required to. http://winnipegcopwatch.org/ has some good local resources. With regard to communication, I believe phone calls have the best legal protections around privacy, though I could be mistaken. DO NOT send money via Paypal. Paypal is aggressively anti-sex work, and will seize and hold funds if they suspect that they are for sexual products or services, OR if they suspect that one of the people involved provides sexual services, even if they aren't using Paypal for those transactions (eg someone who performs in porn uses Paypal to sell vintage clothes on eBay, account frozen.) The Canadian Alliance for Sex Work Law Reform just updated their Q&A on C-36. The section that discusses ramifications for clients starts on page 3 https://drive.google.com/folderview?id=0B3mqMOhRg5FeMVRlTk93Q2ZBS2c&usp=drive_web&tid=0B3mqMOhRg5FeNlY4ZkxFb2pLaWM#list It's 19 pages and I recommend everyone read it. I know that's more questions than answers, but I hope it helps somewhat.
  24. 2 points
    BP is one ad site. Going forward, and part of doing your research, is ensuring that sps you are interested in have ads on more than just one site.
  25. 2 points
    Additional Comments: And redhead Heather V, disguised as a blonde! :)
  26. 2 points
    Every lady has the right to run their own business as they see fit. Including whether or not they wish to speak explicitly to clients. How will this get them kicked off Cerb unless they did not comply with Cerb rules? I think there's a lot of irrational fear going on. Cerb is not the only site a lady can advertise on. Yes, you're right that this is a time of uncertainty and panic but those who will be able to adapt will adapt. I don't know about this witch hunt going on but people seem to be extremely sensitive and perhaps it's a fear of the unknown. And as for so called nastiness, supposed shaming and labeling, there is also A LOT of people splitting hairs at this point with other ladies taking words out of context and implying things that aren't necessarily true. Follow the rules here, advertise other places as you wish which will be permitted. I think everyone needs to take a breather at this point. The world isn't going to end over this ridiculous law. Let's not ruin a good sense of community here because the Conservative Government is clueless.
  27. 1 point
    Extremely well reviewed across canada. Currently available in Winnipeg. Available from today Nov 21st - Nov 24th Upcomming Winnipeg tour dates: Decemember 6th, 7th & 8th. Brandon: December 9th only. Contact roksi 647 745 380 or email [email protected]
  28. 1 point
    Greetings, Are you seeking a fun and sexy escapade which captures the true essence of sensory relaxation? My touch is unique in it's ability to sooth your aches and assist you in rewinding from the day. I'm the complete package of femininity, with an alluring fluidity in body and spirit. My schedule: Today: 11:30-am-8pm. Please join me at my private retreat in the west end. My recommendations: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthr...t=----------..+erin Please feel free to introduce yourself by pm or email at [email protected] for the rest of my details. Yours, Erin
  29. 1 point
    I think 3rd time will be lucky especially if you include Savannah and Lexy.... that said don't leave the poor cod out or for that matter all us NL guys who would be delighted to kiss you.
  30. 1 point
    Wix is okay, but wordpress is 100 times better. I've been designing web sites since 1996 :) I don't believe in outrageous prices either, like some people do, no need for it with wordpress.
  31. 1 point
    Thanks :) I asked a couple of pooners before I decided what to change it to, they liked it as it rolls off the tongue, not sure if they mean't literally or figuratively lol
  32. 1 point
    I also underwent a name change (again). I took the name Thora after coming to Victoria, but I never felt like it suited me. So I'm now Kate von Katz. :D Vittoria Valente sounds so sultry! Love it!
  33. 1 point
    Sounds like Martia (pronounced Martilla). She is definitively my favourite, talkative and lots of fun in the back.
  34. 1 point
    1 and 2 are sensible. I don't think 3 matters much. You'll also be fine with someone you haven't met before but who has a good track record (some recos/reviews, has been around for a while). Absolutely! If all you've done is arranged to meet someone for an hour (or whatever) then you've done nothing remotely illegal. Where you found her phone number or email address is irrelevant. I carry cash all the time, although admittedly it's not normally in an envelope :) I'd have thought that any form of electronic payment is far riskier, because it's traceable after the fact (if someone really wants to bother). Cash is fundamentally untraceable. Before you walk into the room, nobody can prove what you intended to do with it. After you leave, no-one can prove where she got it from. If LE raids the room while you're in it, just disavow all knowledge of anything, but... ...what you describe isn't really a sting, IMHO, it's a raid (assuming you're seeing a genuine person rather than an undercover cop). It's highly unlikely to happen; the police have a million better things to do than go breaking down the door to catch consenting adults having fun. They generally won't do this without good reason, and that usually means they have a good reason to suspect trafficking, someone acting against their will, or someone being under-age. What I'd call a sting is when a cop puts an ad somewhere, or hangs out on a street corner, and anyone who shows enough interest gets arrested. This is easy to avoid; don't look for a good time on the street, and avoid the brand new girl on BP or wherever. Sticking with people you already know and not discussing specifics in advance will eliminate pretty much all of it, I think.
  35. 1 point
    I type in cerb and it automatically re-routes me to lyla. Seems pretty smooth for me, but as mentioned there may be the odd straggler out there that hasn't been linked over yet (my technical terms suck!). Now, I have to say I'm a bit disappointed in myself for not knowing this board as well as I should considering I've been a member for some years. There are nooks and crannies that are not new, but I have never read or visited before. This is a great time to give myself a sort of grand tour to familiarize myself with the old and new. Too bad we don't have any ghost stories or local Lyla urban legends like on a physical tour of a historical building :D
  36. 1 point
    The majority of my business comes from BP. Look for ladies who have a web presence beyond BP (e.g. a website, ads on other sites, etc).
  37. 1 point
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  38. 1 point
    The fifth in my mind is: To know that you can only change what is IN your own control. Do not worry over things that are outside your own releam of control. To do so is such a waste of energy, causing you to catastrophize something that may not be. When something bad happens, ask yourself, : Can I change this or change the outcome in anyway? if not in your control, then you need to let it go.
  39. 1 point
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  40. 1 point
    A lot people dont really understand calling images from remote lications. I often fis these problems. Stuff like httpwww.site.com ot http://http://www.site.com or http://www.site.com or even c:/users/name/pictures/ and gmail.com/hshhetgehjiios/images/embed/pic.jpg etc etc etc..... Nothing to do with cerb just bad urls The other issue is to egt the thumbnail in the preview it must be the first bbcode on the page, so if someone does bold then inserts the image the system will usually not make a thumbnail for the image.
  41. 1 point
    Technically, no you have not committed a crime because you were not paying for sex, you were paying to compensate a lady for her companionship. Whatever occurs within the time you have agreed to spend together is up to two adults. The financial transaction is for her time. Clients are going to have to read between the lines, and learn not to have a list of expectations of activities since we cannot discuss or advertise them. Professional companions are compensated for their time and are therefor not violating any laws. Leave it at that. As a client, it is your duty and in your best interests to be less crude and demanding of us ladies and learn to just go with the flow and be aware of the subtleties and finer points of companionship. If you can't or won't do that, then perhaps this is a good time to find a new hobby? Or at least stick with reputable ladies through sites like LYLA/Cerb.
  42. 1 point
    It's as simple as this. You are now technically paying for time and companionship ONLY. It's best to call a lady by phone so no trail of email or texts. Do not ask explicit questions and especially where money is concerned. This will now be illegal on your end. The ladies are legally allowed to tell you what they offer but you CANNOT ask. Some ladies may not discuss anything explicit out of discretion for their customers because they want to protect the gentlemen they may be seeing. Stay away from anyone you cannot find legit intel on. Law enforcement will likely use BP site as a ruse to get guys to visit and the lady in the picture will be in her twenties, look perfect and anytime to visit will be perfect with them at a hotel or motel. In other words, if it sounds too easy and convenient, run the other way! And stay away from the street. This is who they go after first. Additional Comments: The business has changed and people want everything NOW! I remember when clients used to actually research ladies which is why it was called "the hobby". I don't know what to call it now in some cases. This also has a lot to do with technology. Everything is instant gratification for some. I was told to "screw that" the other day when I pointed someone in the direction of my website after already answering their most important question which was rates.. They can take the time to peruse adult classified ads but suddenly have a problem when being asked to actually taking a few minutes to read my website. These are not the customers I seek in my choice of target market. It will take some time but when people such as the above example truly realize the consequences of their potential actions, they will change how they conduct themselves when contacting a lady. It won't happen overnight. Some will give this up altogether but when I first started in this line of work, people were very hesitant in asking and often apologized for not wanting to come across as crude or rude. I often used code phrases that were not considered explicit with the phrases sounding like I was about to go on an actual date. I have also changed my website accordingly. A few gentlemen I have met in the last few weeks and months do not really quite know what's going on and I have given them a quick run down. They were very surprised and I let them know not to ask explicit things when contacting a lady. As members here, most of us who read this site on a regular or daily basis know exactly what's going on. Anywhere else, most are not up to date with exactly what is about to happen. Some haven't even heard about it. One customer at a time.
  43. 1 point
    What happens off CERB, is no concern to the MOD, e.g. explicit conversations, etc. - unless you are linking back to web-sites or ads or blogs that contain explicit advertising, you don't have to worry if you follow the rules for advertising here. I do not know of any witch hunt, and sorry if this sounds mean, but it's threads like this that further fuel the fear mongering currently going on. Since it doesn't affect me personally, I won't buy into it. However I am concerned about newer or inexperienced companions who may not know who to believe or listen to.
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  45. 1 point
    Was there yesterday (Wed 29) during the day shift. There were about 15 girls when I was there. Carli, Kiki, Allie, Layla, Lexi, Selina and a lot more. Several black girls. Girls here are definitely friendly and will chat with you for a long time. They seemed to get happy when you agreed to a dance or two. Girls' ages ranged from around 22 to close to 45. Gabriel pizza was served for dinner. It was surprisingly good and was free. Additional Comments: Took Layla to the CR. She is friendly and has the GND look, if you minus her right eyebrow piercing from her overall appearance. Slim and petite, about 5feet 3in tall. Around 22 years old. She treats you well outside as well as inside the CR. I liked her a lot because of her attitude and friendliness.
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    If you are thinking of seeing her, then you should read this: http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=147059 I recognized her face but couldn't figure out why until just a second ago. And then reference in her ad dated Friday Sept 19 to her location near the war museum helped confirm that I knew who I thought she was. Here are her two active ads on BP: http://ottawa.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/young-sexy-and-sweet-24/18845378 http://ottawa.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/youngsexy-and-sweet-avalible-all-day-and-night-22/24134110
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    I find it very easy to repeat with the Ladies I connect with. Either through open communication on the discussion board, thru their descriptive page or face to face, if I feel a connection mental and physical, I LOVE to repeat. And repeat again, etc. Over the years, I feel that I have made a connection that exceeds the SP/MA/Hobbiest with most if not all the Ladies I have been lucky enough to be with. That connection can be because of sassy and saucy chatter, that extra hug when together, the playful or not playful slap on the ass I get for being a smart ass, or the pleasure that comes from being together. I would love to so rich that I could see all the Ladies once a week until I am put in the ground(or the empty single malt bottle). Oh how happy my tongue would be!....but I digress, for me the bottom line is fun, connection, laughing and friendship. Like the friendship I have found over the last year plus during this battle with fucking cancer. The support I get is amazing. That is because the Ladies here and some Cerb members are amazing. Period Tom (and not that period, that is for another post!!!!!)
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    Alexxxis (xXxAxXx), is a good fit, but I would be interested too, I like large areolas too. Help guys and gals. :-)
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    "Hi, when are you available." Just don't cut it lol
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