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6 pointsLaw enforcement is NOT on a moral crusade here. They enforce it when they're told to. If and when, that is. And if they have the budget to do so. I've seen all the fear mongering "what ifs" and imo, people are scaring themselves for nothing. They are not going to be waiting outside your favorite local lady's apartment waiting to bust anyone. They would have a hell of a case trying to prove that. Stay away from the streets or ads on BP that look to good to be true. Someone is eventually going to take one for the team so ask here if anyone has seen a particular lady. Stick to ladies that you know have been around and are NOT LE. Just because some guys can't pick and choose who to call up at the last minute or ask the good old "Are you available now" and "Rates, services and location?" does not mean their hobbying lives are over forever. Do your research and you will most likely avoid the risk of receiving sub par service or bait and switch. It is your government that is only using this new law as a tool to win the next election. We are all just pawns in their game. Don't vote for them in the next election. It's as simple as that. I would like to re-visit this thread a year from now and see what has changed. Probably nothing.
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4 pointsIf your website is found to advertise ANY sexual services we must place your website URL on our CENSOR list as we can not knowingly advertise it. Anyone currently or previously offering any sexual services in exchange for money you need to stop that! (The government says so!!) We are actively reviewing websites advertised on lyla.com to ensure all websites comply with the new laws. If you are found to have any sexual references on your website that could be considered prostitution you will receive the following message and your site will be blocked. You can ask us to review it at a later date but we are busy so if you force us to block it instead of updating it and saving us all that work then we will take our time allowing it back! if you choose to comply and wish to promote your revised site here. It is in your best interest with this new law to stop offering any sexual services as it is now illegal for anyone to advertise such services.
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3 pointsI just donated and will forward the link to my friends and family. Thank you Emily :)
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3 pointsI can sometimes see the fakeness of "Hun" a mile away.c "Hi hun, R U available?" So fake and not to mention don't use letters to replace words. Ugh.. I don't call anyone "hun" unless they've been with me. Actually I don't even say "Hun". Sometimes I say "Thanks Honey" in passing but it's people I know and have spent time with. Never will I address them by that term unless I've met them. And I'm no one's "babe" and won't be again. That was reserved for my ex bf but he is long gone now. So please call me by my name until we have been together. Then I won't mind if you address me by a term of endearment. lol.
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2 pointsCLASSIFIED ADS - EDIT THEM OR LOOSE THEM! UPDATE BEFORE NOVEMBER 25th !! I noticed a LOT of classified ads still advertising things that are going to now be illegal. You either have to remove anything from the ads that is now illegal for us to advertise for you or we will need to delete your ad completely. If you previously offered prostitution related services you must remove such things (or hints of such things) from this site. I will NOT edit the ads (that would take too long) so I am going to go over them and start deleting any that DO NOT comply with the new laws. I will check to see if you have read this post and if you have and did not bother to update your classified ad you will get a infraction and possibly a suspension from the site. Leaving the classified up makes more work for me. I am very busy making sure the site conforms to all the new laws so it can continue on for you all. Please do your part. BY NOVEMBER 25th If you see a classified ad that is breaking the law PLEASE REPORT IT! I REMOVED THE "SERVICES" that you can NO LONGER ADVERTISE off the check list as well. You will see them as NA1 NA2 NA3 etc... those need to be UNCHECKED at this time (Till I can add some new ones to fill those spots) the system will not let me just delete them.
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2 pointsGot the chance tonight to reconnect with Christina tonight . I have not seen her in about six years but it felt very much like it was only yesterday. When she was in Halifax I was a regular of hers and tonight we picked right up where we left off and had an incredible encounter. She looked great , I felt she looked even more sexier than before and still as skilled as ever. Christina is such a sweet girl with a soft voice but don't let that fool you cause she knows how to please a man and enjoys herself too. I never discuss details of our encounter as YMMV but I can only speak for myself and say it was lots of fun. She's not a clock watcher and very open and I love how playful she is. Sex should be fun and with her it truly is. Let's treat her right and support her so she'll continue to return . I know I'll see her whenever I can. Thanks Christina for an awesome time :)-
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2 pointsI've been making a small donation at the end of each month to POWER for the past six or seven months and shall continue to do so. If everyone made that small donation then the funds that are going to be needed to make changes will start to become significant. In time, it will be organizations such as POWER or PIVOT that will bring change. Support them as you can. Out of curiosity, is there a difference between sending a donation directly to POWER or is it preferable to send it to the fund raising campaign?
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2 pointsI came across this today and got a kick out of it, so I thought I'd share it :) We can all become professional cuddlers http://www.thesnuggery.org/index.html One of my advocate friends from the states told me they did an investigation into one of these places, because the DA's office couldn't believe that men would just pay for cuddling. smh. goes to show how much they really don't know about our industry.
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2 pointsYeah... enforced monogamy is the product of a society in which people are viewed as property, and relationships are contracts for that property's disposition. And yup, religion was the moral institution for the longest time and enforced the principle of monogamy with the careful logic of all religious edicts: "because I say so". Now that those kind of external moral guardians are fading away, we're each left to decide for ourselves how we want to live our personal, romantic, and sexual lives. Monogamy is now just one of many choices available. BUT... I think most people would agree that to be ethically poly, you need to be open with your partner; everyone has to be on the same page in order to participate equally as a consenting adult. I'm thrilled to bits that people are exploring this freedom to find what works for them. But at the same time, monogamous relationships are still entirely cool for a lot of perfectly healthy and liberal-minded people. And such voluntary monogamy can be a source of enormous strength when the relationship is healthy, functional, and satisfying. It's all about how particular people are wired up, and what they need and expect from their relationships. We're human beings, and enormously diverse. So those needs, and what it takes to meet them, are naturally all over the map.
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2 pointsIndiegogo does take a percentage of POWER's earnings, but if it weren't for this campaign we probably wouldn't achieve our fundraising goal so I'm thinking it's win-win (win for POWER for raising $10,000 and win for Indiegogo for making 4% of our earnings). As Em J said it's to raise awareness about POWER too and hopefully recruit new members. We have A LOT of work ahead of us. Just an FYI, we will be releasing new perks every week! Some of those perks include dinner with the POWER board of directors, toys, massages from Holistic Roots (RMT only), etc.
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2 pointsHi there, I'm Dorinda, a thirty something, adventurous-minded, super friendly lady offering company to gentlemen looking for something special. Some of my favourite things include: getting up early, bubble baths, giving and receiving massages, fashion, cats and dogs, going for walks, working out, skiing, gardening, alt rock, NFL football, watching the news, cozying up with a good book by the fire and delicious food (cooking and ordering it). From current events to pop culture, you will find me to be up to date on a variety of subjects and an excellent conversationalist (I can also be a great listener too!). Allow yourself to be spellbound by me....deep and beautiful brown eyes, high cheek bones and a soft warm countenance; all accentuate my perfect complexion. I'm blessed with a slim and petite frame and spectacular curves which I love to show off in fun, revealing attire! Silky soft, tanned skin graces my shapely behind, flat and firm tummy, and toned legs! Whether it be dinner and the ballet, lounging by the pool, or perhaps something more private, I will be your perfect partner for any occasion. To arrange some special time just for you, please contact me via website at http://www.pembrokeplaymate.com I'll be available downtown Ottawa November 24th - December 2nd. Hope to be hearing from you soon! Warmly, Dorinda
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2 pointsIndiegogo does take a percentage of donations -- 4% if the goal is reached, 9% if it is not.
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2 pointsThank you for your ongoing support mrnice! :) The campaign was made directly by POWER in an effort to boost attention and create a surge in contributions. The campaign donations will go directly to POWER. As you already know, you can donate at anytime through the POWER website, but when you make a donation through the campaign before Dec 20, you will get a "perk" as a thank you. Perks range from a "shout-out" from POWER on Twitter for a $5 donation, to t-shirts, tanks, hoodies, books, gift certificates to Venus-Envy, etc. The Indiegogo structure helps to maximize contributions and donating through the campaign will help raise public awareness around POWER. It makes donating into a kind of social experience and when people see that other people are donating to a cause, and watch the public tally grow, they may be more likely to donate themselves. To help reach the $10,000 goal set for this campaign, donations must be made through the Indiegogo page rather than the POWER website.
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2 pointsAs a French I could call a gentleman ''mon chéri'' or ''mon poussin'' and he would probably like it! But I hate to use any term - any of those already mentionned - as it is not who I am to use little names. It sounds fake to me so I always call a gentleman by the name he gives me. But I have to say that I have no problem being called a goddess... ;-)
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2 pointsFrom my understanding we are legally allowed to tell clients this but if you spoke to a lawyer they would tell you if you mentioned that you offer x, y and z services then you are inferring something that would be illegal for the client to participate in because he would be paying you. Peter Mackay intentionally did this because he is an idiot and has the power to do so. You're right Gabriella, it is definitely contradictory. Getting a court to determine if something was considered explicit would be very broad.. Correct me if I'm wrong here but last time I read the bill it didn't define what "s services" actually were. Potential clients will have to read between the lines now and I'm sure some who do have an understanding of the new laws will be grateful that there will be SPs who will not have an explicit discussion with them for their safety. It's time to start using phrases that are not explicit. It's the only way around it. I've already made up a few of my own that get the point across that don't imply anything explicit. Gents, you will now have to read between the lines.
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2 pointsLocated in Hunt Club until late tonight. 140 - HH 180 - 45min 240 - Hour 340 - 1.5 Hour Text me directly 613. 255. 5904 Xo 5'7 140LBS BLONDE HAIR GREEN EYES 36C 613. 255. 5904 TEXT
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2 pointsPart of my story (as most of my struggles now are not my own): I spent about about 8 years being physically, psychologically and sexually abused by members of my immediate and extended family. Somehow, and I do not know how, at 12 I managed to summon the inner strength to put an end to it. Although I did not tell anyone about what was happening to me (although I'm positive there were many adults that knew and did nothing) nor seek help for many years, the abuse affected me physically and emotionally well into adulthood and has definitely shaped the person I am today. Although I am now successful, educated, liberal, open-minded, caring and forgiving, there is no room or tolerance in my life for anything bad happening to children (even in movies I have to walk away) or the adults that cause these bad things. Over thirty years later I'd like to say I've learned a few things. One is that what you name something, what you call it, matters. Maybe only on a subconscious level but often on a visceral in your face level. My opinion only, but "sexual abuse of a minor" is far too vague and low impact to correctly describe what happens to these children and the impact it has on them. Let's call it what it really is RAPING CHILDREN! A harsh term but more accurate. I am aware that for some abuse is a cycle, they were abused so they abuse. For most it is not. Most are so affected by what happened to them that even the thought of causing that much pain to another can make them sick. The difference could be whether or not they get help, or their own inner strength or moral compass, or the nurturing they received in their lives apart from the abuse. Or it may be simply that it is not called rape so they don't make the connection to what they are doing and what it really is and the effects it will have. I may be totally wrong but if it even stops one abuser and saves one child... My journey continues.
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1 pointI have to disagree to a certain extent. Yes, naturally we are not monogamous creatures, so open relationships would seem to be a better option for most people, and they've been increasingly popular these days. But by saying that monogamy isn't humanly possible, or that we're in denile by thinking it is, is ignoring all of the many, many couples throughout the years, and ones who are even living now, that are in happy relationships with just each other, and are perfectly content that way. Many of the married men or one's in relationships that come to see us, have reasons why they do. But not everyone cheats, and not everyone would be happy in an open relationship. Every person is different, and their wants and needs are all different too, so while monogamy may not be for a large number of people, neither are open relationships. Personally I'm very much a monogamous person, I would never be able to do an open relationship, which is pretty contradictory of me, I know :P Then again, as you mentioned, if I were married, I would much prefer if my partner needed to explore other options, that he do so through escorts, where the boundaries are usually pretty clear between both people, rather than starting up a relationship with another women he could potentially move on to(I get jealous like that :P) Posted via Mobile Device
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1 pointGentlemen, Allow me to introduce myself. Im Rebecca, the cute girl next door you have dream about, once in your life. Im 25 years old, french Canadian from Montréal with an adorable accent. I stand 5'4 with curvy build, long dark hair and nice handful of perky tits. My juicy pink lipz will amaze you in more than one way. My warm and friendly personality will put you at ease just with a smile by opening the door. 120 kisses for 30min together 180 kisses for 60min together 300 kisses for 90min together 360 kisses for 120min together For a tease... Take a look at what others have to say about me.. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=40938 Located in the SOUTHEND by the airport... 613-315-6354 Xoxox
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1 pointI will be in Orleans Mon Nov 24 10 - 8 Pm. I will also have extended evening hour appts by advanced appt only in the west end 7- 10 pm. I hope to see some of the west end gentlemen who haven't been able to make it to the east end. Gentlemen, I am a voluptuous creamy soft skinned with dirty blonde highlighted hair standing in at 5'3" with an impressive 38 DD natural rack and pretty face with seductive blue/green eyes that are perfect with my impressive skills. I have an hourglass physique with a nice spankable behind ( if you ask nicely ; ). Underneath it all, I possess a sexual prowess and the maturity of a 30's woman who wants to rock your world! An experience with me is passionate yet wild/kinky and surprisingly relaxing. Be prepared to be mesmerized by my talents along with a mix of passion, sensuality and WET foreplay. You may need an umbrella! You will feel refreshed when we say goodbye. ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ------------------------------.... Restrictions: I do not travel to Greece or drink fluids. My personal health is paramount. Please respect my restrictions. Kindly take a moment to click on my name above to peruse my photo albums and recommendations" Photo albums- http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?u=4180 Recommendations - http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=N&t=28638 My location is in Orleans and is clean, quiet, upscale and discrete location. Free parking available. Shower facilities, fresh sheets, towels and all other ammenities for your comfort. TRIBUTES: I host - You come to visit me & You Host - I can visit with you at your place] ( Tributes are non-negotiable) At this time I primarily offer same day availability. My services are all inclusive ( therefore no negotiation) for an unrushed, satisfying, sensual and fun encounter. Special Rates Until November 30th for when I host only. Special "I Host" Tributes: $120 -30 mins $160 - 45 mins $200 - 1 hour "You Host" Tributes: I can come to visit you. I can entertain requests for companionship. at hotels only with proper verification and a minimum of one hour with 2 hours advanced notice. $250/hr ( Orleans to Kanata) Please note the rates listed above. Tributes are for my time and companionship. CONTACT: My number is 613-404-7*8*8*7*. Calling/texting me directly is the quickest way to receive a response. I don't offer email as a method of contact. No blocked calls or payphones will be answered.. See below. Call/text me directly please to receive a quicker response. 613-404-7*8*8*7*. I hope to see you this week so we can have some mutual fun together! If we have met previously, please let me know. I hope to meet you soon!
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1 pointI am Angela, an attractive, articulate, playful, friendly and youthful looking mature lady, 50ish. I have thick luxurious hair, green-eyes and a fair complexion. I stand 5'7, and I am built for comfort (40B-34-40). Check out my latest pics: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/album.php?albumid=9541 Ottawa Recommendations: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=M&t=18924 Halifax Recommendation: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=A&t=95369 I prefer mature gentlemen over the age of 30 who are clean, courteous and adventurous. I appreciate men who desire and appreciate the company of a youthful, mature lady who is friendly, playful, seductive and passionate. Whatever your pleasure is, I will do my utmost to accommodate you. I guarantee you, you will be glad you made the call. Chez-moi: (min. 30 minutes notice) Weekdays (M-F) 8 a.m. - 6 p.m. Today until 9 p.m. Chez-vous: (min. 1 hour notice) Weekdays: 7-11 p.m. Weekends: Flexible up until midnight EVERY FRIDAY - MENTION LYLA.COM Receive $20 off any 30-45-60 min. rendez-vous For same day get-togethers, it's always best to text/call: 613-315-2210 For future bookings, you can pm me here or email me at: [email protected] NO BLOCKED NUMBERS PLEASE NO GOOGLE/CALLING CARDS OR PAYPHONES
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1 point[emoji844]Triple Threat: Attractive, Intelligent and Witty[emoji844] Sometimes boys just wanna have fun. [emoji48] Whether it be just chilling and relaxing or getting wild and crazy, you deserve to reward yourself.[emoji471] One thing most men can agree on is that there's nothing like the company of a beautiful woman. Now imagine if you will that this lovely looking lady is also well-spoken, engaging, intelligent, interesting.... So she's cute and smart, a killer combination. Wait, there's more! She can make you laugh too! She has a sharp wit and a wicked sense of humor. No, it's not some new interactive website or latest breakthrough in robotics. It's me![emoji1] I am all of these things and then some. I am a great listener as well as an interesting conversationalist. I am very easy going and have been told I have a way about me that makes me comfortable to be around.[emoji179] No matter how I describe myself and my personality, the only way to truly find out if I am someone you would want to spend time with me is to come and meet me. If you are curious about what I look like, you can see some photo albums here . [emoji182] If your interest is piqued or you are interested in getting together some time, Please contact me by text [emoji336] 613-400-6453 at least 45 minutes to an hour in advance for same day bookings. Email [emoji391] [email protected] is acceptable if booking 24 hours or more in advance. CERB PMs [emoji335] may not be read/replied to in time so please use this as a last resort. [emoji117]Please Note: Private calls will not be answered[emoji118] 4
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1 pointAsian Passion Website: AsianPassionOttawa.com Email: [email protected] 613-400-3788 New Korean Sammi arrived. Hot girl visiting Ottawa. Slim and tight body, beautiful perky B cup, and a very cute Korean doll face. You'll love her attitude. Ambitious to please. Another unforgettable Queen!! Name: Sammi (Downtown) Age: 20 Ethnicity: Korean Personal File: 34B-23-33, 105lbs, 5'3" 140/hh 180/45min 220/h Very well reviewed!! Sexy tall spinner, model like, sexy curve, A+ attitude, Korean Mona is all you want!! This is what you cannot miss!! Name: Mona (West End) Age: 21 Ethnicity: Korean Personal File: 32C-24-34, 95lbs, 5'5" Rate: 140/hh 180/45min 220/h
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1 pointWell I have been pretty well MIA for about five weeks I believe and it had not a thing to do with the new foolish laws coming into play or reconsidering things. It had everything to do with being sick. The first few days I thought it was a flu - well, nope. Some sort of virus that knocked me for a serious loop! You know how one looks for the light at the end of the tunnel, well there were a few days when I was looking for the infamous white light. :) My highlight is therefore that I am finally feeling better. Not all done yet, but I am more than ready. Wow, Cerb sure looks different but I'm not going anywhere. :)
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1 pointGentlemen, Allow me to introduce myself. Im Rebecca, the cute girl next door you have dream about, once in your life. Im 25 years old, french Canadian from Montréal with an adorable accent. I stand 5'4 with curvy build, long dark hair and nice handful of perky tits. My juicy pink lips will amaze you in more than one way. My warm and friendly personality will put you at ease just with a smile by opening the door. 120 kisses for 30min together 180 kisses for 60min together 300 kisses for 90min together 360 kisses for 120min together For a tease... Take a look at what others have to say about me.. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=40938 Located in the SOUTHEND by the airport... 613-315-6354 Xoxox
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1 pointBon matin, I am available all day today until 9pm to satisfy all of your craving ;) specials all day today on the 30 minutes session do not miss out!!! cant wait to see you 613-820-8887 Lany
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1 pointU come to us totally surrendered and open to the most satisfaction and pleasure of all senses... we R all devoted to U and all aspects of what companionship implies.. we R there for U and solely for U darling! We R just there so U spend a great no a wonderful time so U can leave with a smile on your face and your heart and body happy. We just LUV being with U and pleasing U and R enjoying each bit of it cuz we R the ladies U need love!! We really R so yes U can confide let yourself go and U don't need to worry whatsoever of what will happen after the door is close chéri. We R true and lovely companions or 'dames de compagnie' like I am love. When U walk in U R already forgotten for the face of the world. U R with me or with any lady and just please be confident. U can trust me, us for WE care for U and U will be safe at my or our places love so do not worry about this stupid law just be confident in me and all the ladies. Can't talk for myself cause I haven't been in the biz long enough but this law won't change a thing... the profession of pleasing has been on since the beginning of the world and I don't believe it will stop due to a stupid bill. I personally have my list of sexy friends on me to cater all needs so gentlemen just lay back, relax and just be U with us any and ALL the time babes!!! Yours, truly and very honestly, and pretty sure I can also sign for lots of my lovely ladies friends darling, Barbara xxxxooo I am bubbly, genuine and authentic, classy and sexy , pretty with flamboyant, long, curly red hair, green eyes, natural 38D and curvy as suggest the pics. I also have downtown Ottawa location honey but do not host there all the time. At Ottawa location only host for apt of 1 hr and over unless specified otherwise. To book: 819-500-8897 Barbara or [email protected]. Otherwise darling when U come over, have your envelope ready and please hand it to me directly as U walk in. Let me put it away and proceed to the bath room or my nest of indulgence. Je parle aussi français chéri ! Yo hablo espanol tambien querido !
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1 pointI have heard from her. She is doing well and has made a career change. For now she is retired. But you never know she may return in the future. I met her when she started and have seen her many times. And I wish her the best :)
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1 pointVisiting : November 25th 2pm-midnight November 26th 8am -noon (please note that early morning sessions requires prebooking) Im the kind of girl that sparks a flame in your mind. I bother your consciousness until you HAVE to see me again .Im tall (5ft11 (6ft1 with heels), smart and absolutely delectable. My body is an ultimate treat for your eyes: i might have the longest legs that you have ever seen with a toned body that i maintain with my regular Yoga sessions. Oh! And i forgot natural 34D breast that you won't forget ;) I am open to many different types of play & am able to adapt to my partner. Please visit my website for further informations: http://www.chrystalelitecompanion.com ( I DO APPRECIATE THAT YOU VISIT MY WEBSITE BEFORE INQUIRING) Email: [email protected] 604-966-1110
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1 pointNow available at CMJ This week West Friday and Saturday 10am to 4pm Next week West Monday 11am to 7pm Tuesday 10am to 4pm Wednesday 10am to 4pm Friday 10am to 4pm Saturday 10am to 4pm See for a duo's with one of my naughty sexy friends. You'll always remember how I made you feel! My smile is catchy and my company can make any day exxxceptional. Giver extraordinaire, I'm happy making you happy and it's my number one turn on. A lil teasing before a lot of pleasing with constant skin to skin. Sexy, tall, model looks, long hair, blue eyes, sun kissed tan skin, ass and tits that could kill! I make any lingerie look amazing! Come get it! Now set up for Nuru at CMJ West! I'm a Nuru Massage Goddess with acrobatic body slides you've never felt before, front and back with a therapeutic sensation you didn't know could come from such nice boobs. Special on now! Please contact me for info. Feeling extra achy? I'm also trained in massage therapy so I can get to those extra tough knots and stressful areas. Like what you see? Get more info! Contact me personally Call: 613-482-1553 Text: 613-909-8336 Email: [email protected] Or Call CMJ at 613-523-6199 Also check out my twitter I update my twitter feed daily with my availability, sexy selfies, music and favorite quotes. Click Here
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1 pointI suggest to also be very aware of what hotel location you are visiting( you know the type, shady places with many report in news). As some locations may be more closely watched. On that note, I know many of my regulars prefer not going to hotels, especially if a lady they never seen before, as LE would set up in hotel locations. I also believe that LE would not go threw the extent to create personal web sites. If it is a new lady, ask if she has any other lady friends for a reference. I think this is the time for industry references. JUST NEVER EVER ASK DETAILS pay for time only. Because that is what an escort/masseuse/entertainer advertises for!
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1 pointIt's as simple as this. You are now technically paying for time and companionship ONLY. It's best to call a lady by phone so no trail of email or texts. Do not ask explicit questions and especially where money is concerned. This will now be illegal on your end. The ladies are legally allowed to tell you what they offer but you CANNOT ask. Some ladies may not discuss anything explicit out of discretion for their customers because they want to protect the gentlemen they may be seeing. Stay away from anyone you cannot find legit intel on. Law enforcement will likely use BP site as a ruse to get guys to visit and the lady in the picture will be in her twenties, look perfect and anytime to visit will be perfect with them at a hotel or motel. In other words, if it sounds too easy and convenient, run the other way! And stay away from the street. This is who they go after first. Additional Comments: The business has changed and people want everything NOW! I remember when clients used to actually research ladies which is why it was called "the hobby". I don't know what to call it now in some cases. This also has a lot to do with technology. Everything is instant gratification for some. I was told to "screw that" the other day when I pointed someone in the direction of my website after already answering their most important question which was rates.. They can take the time to peruse adult classified ads but suddenly have a problem when being asked to actually taking a few minutes to read my website. These are not the customers I seek in my choice of target market. It will take some time but when people such as the above example truly realize the consequences of their potential actions, they will change how they conduct themselves when contacting a lady. It won't happen overnight. Some will give this up altogether but when I first started in this line of work, people were very hesitant in asking and often apologized for not wanting to come across as crude or rude. I often used code phrases that were not considered explicit with the phrases sounding like I was about to go on an actual date. I have also changed my website accordingly. A few gentlemen I have met in the last few weeks and months do not really quite know what's going on and I have given them a quick run down. They were very surprised and I let them know not to ask explicit things when contacting a lady. As members here, most of us who read this site on a regular or daily basis know exactly what's going on. Anywhere else, most are not up to date with exactly what is about to happen. Some haven't even heard about it. One customer at a time.
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1 pointThe VERY FIRST adult discussion website in Canada (at least that I know of) that had info on escorts was created by no other then "Joyful Spirit" (A member here who use to go by the name "LYLA" and she built the website and was a pioneer for online escorts in Canada). The site was LYLA.COM and was affectionately known as "Lyla's List". It also displayed ads for Escorts-Canada.com and when LYLA wanted to retire the site she passed the domain name on to the owners of escorts-canada.com. They (EC) continued lyla's list for a few years but when the SPONLY area on LYLA.COM at the time known as demimonde was taken over by some of the ladies and failed miserably and the discussion board part was hacked bad due to a old bbs system that was full of security holes the discussion element of the site and the sponly area of the site were put onto the back burner. The lyla.com site stayed active but only to display ads for escorts-canada (without a discussion element) instead we created a separate site cerb.ca to start from scratch. So... We are bringing back LYLA.COM as we need a NON CANADIAN DOMAIN NAME for this site. WHY?? Basically we do not trust the Canadian powers that be, with these new laws it's only a matter of time when our compliance is not good enough so this way we have a .COM domain name (canada does not have any governing body over .com only .ca) so we felt this needed to happen sooner then later. BUT... love you like a sister is a most excellent modern day urban take on the name! We should adapt that as this community has always been about watching each others backs, helping the ladies stay safe and all around positive side of the adult industry. Since we are sisters and brothers and we now have all those annoying DOT.DOT.DOT censors all around us maybe we should use "Love You Like A ..." as the name! ;)
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1 pointThanks Kayradis. I saw her once several years ago. I unfortunately only discovered her shortly before she moved away. Would certainly recommend based on that experience. Tall and beautiful if memory serves. Looking forward to your recommendation. Mikey
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1 pointI am grateful I found the Cerb site and for the Cerb ladies that do visit Charlottetown, life was becoming very mundane for me, the last year has being quite a rememberable one, thanks:)
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1 pointMorning If there is one subject that gets my blood pressure up and the "mean and ugly" comes out, it is child abuse (closely followed by the abuse of vulnerable women). Over the years I have been lucky enough to lead / raise funds for shelters like the Yellow Brick House in Aurora and the various Interval Houses in Eastern Ontario, and have seen the damage done to these folks. Assuming they are strong enough to fight through all the issues resulting from the abuse, I believe that they will be strong advocates for those who are not as strong. In my opinion, we need to protect the vulnerable, but especially the children and to provide them with any and all options to help them not only survive but thrive. Also my opinion, now this is the "mean and ugly Tom" coming out, once charged and convicted, public humiliation, and knee-capping, then putting them in with the general population in our penal system. What happens there is called street justice. Sorry if I have offended, but to me it would be a reasonable way to help protect the kids and women who are unable either physically or mentally to help themselves.
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1 pointCristy, did you hear the Pope thinks gay adoption is child abuse ? Since when did the Catholic Church become experts on ch.... oh yeah right, nevermind. ;)
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1 pointof course! The more sex I have in my private life, the better I feel about working as an SP and actually keep a regular schedule. I have a healthy sexual life. Most of my partners are female thought, but that'S just cause I am slutty and greedy...and I like to be about 50/50 with both men and women. I get the sex with men in my professional life and sex with women in my private life :)
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