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Law enforcement is NOT on a moral crusade here. They enforce it when they're told to. If and when, that is. And if they have the budget to do so. I've seen all the fear mongering "what ifs" and imo, people are scaring themselves for nothing. They are not going to be waiting outside your favorite local lady's apartment waiting to bust anyone. They would have a hell of a case trying to prove that. Stay away from the streets or ads on BP that look to good to be true. Someone is eventually going to take one for the team so ask here if anyone has seen a particular lady. Stick to ladies that you know have been around and are NOT LE. Just because some guys can't pick and choose who to call up at the last minute or ask the good old "Are you available now" and "Rates, services and location?" does not mean their hobbying lives are over forever. Do your research and you will most likely avoid the risk of receiving sub par service or bait and switch. It is your government that is only using this new law as a tool to win the next election. We are all just pawns in their game. Don't vote for them in the next election. It's as simple as that. I would like to re-visit this thread a year from now and see what has changed. Probably nothing.

If your website is found to advertise ANY sexual services we must place your website URL on our CENSOR list as we can not knowingly advertise it. Anyone currently or previously offering any sexual services in exchange for money you need to stop that! (The government says so!!) We are actively reviewing websites advertised on lyla.com to ensure all websites comply with the new laws. If you are found to have any sexual references on your website that could be considered prostitution you will receive the following message and your site will be blocked. You can ask us to review it at a later date but we are busy so if you force us to block it instead of updating it and saving us all that work then we will take our time allowing it back! if you choose to comply and wish to promote your revised site here. It is in your best interest with this new law to stop offering any sexual services as it is now illegal for anyone to advertise such services.

I just donated and will forward the link to my friends and family. Thank you Emily :)

I can sometimes see the fakeness of "Hun" a mile away.c "Hi hun, R U available?" So fake and not to mention don't use letters to replace words. Ugh.. I don't call anyone "hun" unless they've been with me. Actually I don't even say "Hun". Sometimes I say "Thanks Honey" in passing but it's people I know and have spent time with. Never will I address them by that term unless I've met them. And I'm no one's "babe" and won't be again. That was reserved for my ex bf but he is long gone now. So please call me by my name until we have been together. Then I won't mind if you address me by a term of endearment. lol.

CLASSIFIED ADS - EDIT THEM OR LOOSE THEM! UPDATE BEFORE NOVEMBER 25th !! I noticed a LOT of classified ads still advertising things that are going to now be illegal. You either have to remove anything from the ads that is now illegal for us to advertise for you or we will need to delete your ad completely. If you previously offered prostitution related services you must remove such things (or hints of such things) from this site. I will NOT edit the ads (that would take too long) so I am going to go over them and start deleting any that DO NOT comply with the new laws. I will check to see if you have read this post and if you have and did not bother to update your classified ad you will get a infraction and possibly a suspension from the site. Leaving the classified up makes more work for me. I am very busy making sure the site conforms to all the new laws so it can continue on for you all. Please do your part. BY NOVEMBER 25th If you see a classified ad that is breaking the law PLEASE REPORT IT! I REMOVED THE "SERVICES" that you can NO LONGER ADVERTISE off the check list as well. You will see them as NA1 NA2 NA3 etc... those need to be UNCHECKED at this time (Till I can add some new ones to fill those spots) the system will not let me just delete them.

Got the chance tonight to reconnect with Christina tonight . I have not seen her in about six years but it felt very much like it was only yesterday. When she was in Halifax I was a regular of hers and tonight we picked right up where we left off and had an incredible encounter. She looked great , I felt she looked even more sexier than before and still as skilled as ever. Christina is such a sweet girl with a soft voice but don't let that fool you cause she knows how to please a man and enjoys herself too. I never discuss details of our encounter as YMMV but I can only speak for myself and say it was lots of fun. She's not a clock watcher and very open and I love how playful she is. Sex should be fun and with her it truly is. Let's treat her right and support her so she'll continue to return . I know I'll see her whenever I can. Thanks Christina for an awesome time :)-

I've been making a small donation at the end of each month to POWER for the past six or seven months and shall continue to do so. If everyone made that small donation then the funds that are going to be needed to make changes will start to become significant. In time, it will be organizations such as POWER or PIVOT that will bring change. Support them as you can. Out of curiosity, is there a difference between sending a donation directly to POWER or is it preferable to send it to the fund raising campaign?

I came across this today and got a kick out of it, so I thought I'd share it :) We can all become professional cuddlers http://www.thesnuggery.org/index.html One of my advocate friends from the states told me they did an investigation into one of these places, because the DA's office couldn't believe that men would just pay for cuddling. smh. goes to show how much they really don't know about our industry.

Yeah... enforced monogamy is the product of a society in which people are viewed as property, and relationships are contracts for that property's disposition. And yup, religion was the moral institution for the longest time and enforced the principle of monogamy with the careful logic of all religious edicts: "because I say so". Now that those kind of external moral guardians are fading away, we're each left to decide for ourselves how we want to live our personal, romantic, and sexual lives. Monogamy is now just one of many choices available. BUT... I think most people would agree that to be ethically poly, you need to be open with your partner; everyone has to be on the same page in order to participate equally as a consenting adult. I'm thrilled to bits that people are exploring this freedom to find what works for them. But at the same time, monogamous relationships are still entirely cool for a lot of perfectly healthy and liberal-minded people. And such voluntary monogamy can be a source of enormous strength when the relationship is healthy, functional, and satisfying. It's all about how particular people are wired up, and what they need and expect from their relationships. We're human beings, and enormously diverse. So those needs, and what it takes to meet them, are naturally all over the map.

Indiegogo does take a percentage of POWER's earnings, but if it weren't for this campaign we probably wouldn't achieve our fundraising goal so I'm thinking it's win-win (win for POWER for raising $10,000 and win for Indiegogo for making 4% of our earnings). As Em J said it's to raise awareness about POWER too and hopefully recruit new members. We have A LOT of work ahead of us. Just an FYI, we will be releasing new perks every week! Some of those perks include dinner with the POWER board of directors, toys, massages from Holistic Roots (RMT only), etc.

Hi there, I'm Dorinda, a thirty something, adventurous-minded, super friendly lady offering company to gentlemen looking for something special. Some of my favourite things include: getting up early, bubble baths, giving and receiving massages, fashion, cats and dogs, going for walks, working out, skiing, gardening, alt rock, NFL football, watching the news, cozying up with a good book by the fire and delicious food (cooking and ordering it). From current events to pop culture, you will find me to be up to date on a variety of subjects and an excellent conversationalist (I can also be a great listener too!). Allow yourself to be spellbound by me....deep and beautiful brown eyes, high cheek bones and a soft warm countenance; all accentuate my perfect complexion. I'm blessed with a slim and petite frame and spectacular curves which I love to show off in fun, revealing attire! Silky soft, tanned skin graces my shapely behind, flat and firm tummy, and toned legs! Whether it be dinner and the ballet, lounging by the pool, or perhaps something more private, I will be your perfect partner for any occasion. To arrange some special time just for you, please contact me via website at http://www.pembrokeplaymate.com I'll be available downtown Ottawa November 24th - December 2nd. Hope to be hearing from you soon! Warmly, Dorinda

Indiegogo does take a percentage of donations -- 4% if the goal is reached, 9% if it is not.

Thank you for your ongoing support mrnice! :) The campaign was made directly by POWER in an effort to boost attention and create a surge in contributions. The campaign donations will go directly to POWER. As you already know, you can donate at anytime through the POWER website, but when you make a donation through the campaign before Dec 20, you will get a "perk" as a thank you. Perks range from a "shout-out" from POWER on Twitter for a $5 donation, to t-shirts, tanks, hoodies, books, gift certificates to Venus-Envy, etc. The Indiegogo structure helps to maximize contributions and donating through the campaign will help raise public awareness around POWER. It makes donating into a kind of social experience and when people see that other people are donating to a cause, and watch the public tally grow, they may be more likely to donate themselves. To help reach the $10,000 goal set for this campaign, donations must be made through the Indiegogo page rather than the POWER website.

As a French I could call a gentleman ''mon chéri'' or ''mon poussin'' and he would probably like it! But I hate to use any term - any of those already mentionned - as it is not who I am to use little names. It sounds fake to me so I always call a gentleman by the name he gives me. But I have to say that I have no problem being called a goddess... ;-)

From my understanding we are legally allowed to tell clients this but if you spoke to a lawyer they would tell you if you mentioned that you offer x, y and z services then you are inferring something that would be illegal for the client to participate in because he would be paying you. Peter Mackay intentionally did this because he is an idiot and has the power to do so. You're right Gabriella, it is definitely contradictory. Getting a court to determine if something was considered explicit would be very broad.. Correct me if I'm wrong here but last time I read the bill it didn't define what "s services" actually were. Potential clients will have to read between the lines now and I'm sure some who do have an understanding of the new laws will be grateful that there will be SPs who will not have an explicit discussion with them for their safety. It's time to start using phrases that are not explicit. It's the only way around it. I've already made up a few of my own that get the point across that don't imply anything explicit. Gents, you will now have to read between the lines.

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Different type of Burlesque

It would appear that MGF has Karla visiting Dec. 8-12.

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Part of my story (as most of my struggles now are not my own): I spent about about 8 years being physically, psychologically and sexually abused by members of my immediate and extended family. Somehow, and I do not know how, at 12 I managed to summon the inner strength to put an end to it. Although I did not tell anyone about what was happening to me (although I'm positive there were many adults that knew and did nothing) nor seek help for many years, the abuse affected me physically and emotionally well into adulthood and has definitely shaped the person I am today. Although I am now successful, educated, liberal, open-minded, caring and forgiving, there is no room or tolerance in my life for anything bad happening to children (even in movies I have to walk away) or the adults that cause these bad things. Over thirty years later I'd like to say I've learned a few things. One is that what you name something, what you call it, matters. Maybe only on a subconscious level but often on a visceral in your face level. My opinion only, but "sexual abuse of a minor" is far too vague and low impact to correctly describe what happens to these children and the impact it has on them. Let's call it what it really is RAPING CHILDREN! A harsh term but more accurate. I am aware that for some abuse is a cycle, they were abused so they abuse. For most it is not. Most are so affected by what happened to them that even the thought of causing that much pain to another can make them sick. The difference could be whether or not they get help, or their own inner strength or moral compass, or the nurturing they received in their lives apart from the abuse. Or it may be simply that it is not called rape so they don't make the connection to what they are doing and what it really is and the effects it will have. I may be totally wrong but if it even stops one abuser and saves one child... My journey continues.

Gentleman i am interested in some feed back please. How do you prefer the initial introduction when the door opens and you have arrived at your seductive encounter lol Mmmmm! Do you prefer to come and be charmed and seduced getting to know one another over a glass of wine or drink preference? Or whisked off to the shower and then the love nest and save any small talk for after the bliss? Again i know we are all different and some prefer no talk at all, well maybe a little dirty talk lol;) Felina xo

Monogamy is something that has been pushed on us - mainly be religion - but which is not natural for some people. Even monogamous species of animal have been observed with other mates. I disagree that it's not cheating when you see someone else because it is. UNLESS the two people in a formerly monogamous relationship sat down, talked and agreed that the relationship is no longer monogamous. Then it's not cheating. Furthermore, women - according to many statistics - cheat more than men. So while the husbands are coming to see us, chances are pretty good the wives have their own thing going on on the side. To hold to the old belief that men cheat more than women is naive. Monogamy works for some and it doesn't work for others. The most important thing is to recognize what works for you and what doesn't and don't lie to your partner about it. Polyamory takes a hell of a lot more emotional maturity and communication than you'd think (I know this because 90% of my friends are poly and have a primary and up to two or three secondaries). You have to be honest with yourself, and then be honest with your primary partner when you're discussing what the parameters you are both comfortable with are. Polyamory takes work, but it's for people who want to have multiple relationships, as opposed to the people who use the word "polyamorous" as an excuse to basically sleep around. Polyamory is not sleeping around. It's having multiple relationships. Not flings. There's no one-size-fits-all. Some people just want to be promiscuous. Others want multiple relationships. Others still are happy with one relationship. Heck, some people don't want anything: fling or relationship. It's their life and whatever mess they may make through dishonesty is theirs to clean up.

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December 6 is also the same date for white ribbon day - national day of rememberence and action on violence against women. http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/National_Day_of_Remembrance_and_Action_on_Violence_Against_Women Quite fitting that they would roll out this barbaric law on this tragic anniversary. Thank you to Genevieu for pointing this out.

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I have never understood why other clients on here say they want so much information. I prefer to be somewhat in the dark then create a huge trail of evidence. just pay for companionship and nothing more. You may be disappointed if nothing more happens but you will be more disappointed if you end up arrested with a slew of texts that prove you were soliciting sexual services. learn to read between the lines and choose the smaller risk of not getting what you desire compared to the bigger risks. for a while I am going to keep to sp that I have seen before. I know where the best companionship is. Actually after an extremely hot session that would rival my best porn type fantasies I had the thought 'this girl is so nice and sweet I think next time i'll just cuddle with her for the whole hour'. I must be getting old. Lol

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I used to have a lot of trouble sleeping and now I know why! I used to take 2 mg melatonin and it is measured in millograms by manufacturers.. Natural melatonin in the body is measured in picograms! So anyone out there that is taking this, you are overdosing on it in xxxxx suggested millograms by who knows how much! There are some melatonin pills out there measured in 5 mgs. I was literally in a fog the next day and exhausted so much that 8 hours of sleep a night wasn't enough. It also made me toss and turn along with un rested sleep. Ever since I stopped taking it, my body has adjusted and I can wake up after 8 hours without the full on fatigue. At one point, I thought I was experiencing chronic fatigue syndrome or something similar.

I've seen "Lady of the night" in various literary sources (can't remember which at the moment). Given not all is done at night, it feels out of place and seems funny (to me at least). Retinue is one i have seen as well. Its use goes back to old french (middle french) - as a source meaning to retain ... a group of retainers or attendants depending of context. I think it has uses dating back to middle english too.

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A short walk Downtown Montreal turned into Shopping for gifts for a certain Christmas Party.... There were a few good specials going on till today, so I already got great Christmas-y picked up.

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When someone asks me next time about why I won't negotiate my rates...now I have an even better answer. You're paying for discretion. Good quality service and discretion don't come cheap. Posted via Mobile Device

A grower....I will leave the details of ratio aside, but it's enough growth to keep me happy, and for the most part, the initial introduction and excitement building up to the meeting is enough to ensure that the growth portion is a short period of time...generally unobserved due to the presence of clothing...

U come to us totally surrendered and open to the most satisfaction and pleasure of all senses... we R all devoted to U and all aspects of what companionship implies.. we R there for U and solely for U darling! We R just there so U spend a great no a wonderful time so U can leave with a smile on your face and your heart and body happy. We just LUV being with U and pleasing U and R enjoying each bit of it cuz we R the ladies U need love!! We really R so yes U can confide let yourself go and U don't need to worry whatsoever of what will happen after the door is close chéri. We R true and lovely companions or 'dames de compagnie' like I am love. When U walk in U R already forgotten for the face of the world. U R with me or with any lady and just please be confident. U can trust me, us for WE care for U and U will be safe at my or our places love so do not worry about this stupid law just be confident in me and all the ladies. Can't talk for myself cause I haven't been in the biz long enough but this law won't change a thing... the profession of pleasing has been on since the beginning of the world and I don't believe it will stop due to a stupid bill. I personally have my list of sexy friends on me to cater all needs so gentlemen just lay back, relax and just be U with us any and ALL the time babes!!! Yours, truly and very honestly, and pretty sure I can also sign for lots of my lovely ladies friends darling, Barbara xxxxooo I am bubbly, genuine and authentic, classy and sexy , pretty with flamboyant, long, curly red hair, green eyes, natural 38D and curvy as suggest the pics. I also have downtown Ottawa location honey but do not host there all the time. At Ottawa location only host for apt of 1 hr and over unless specified otherwise. To book: 819-500-8897 Barbara or [email protected]. Otherwise darling when U come over, have your envelope ready and please hand it to me directly as U walk in. Let me put it away and proceed to the bath room or my nest of indulgence. Je parle aussi français chéri ! Yo hablo espanol tambien querido !

I personally dislike terms of endearment - giving or receiving - before we have met and shared some time together. It feels forced otherwise. But if me and a gent have a lovely time, eventually a few sweet words will be spoken; usually the old standbys like "hun" and "sweetie". I have been known to occasionally call gentlemen beasts or brutes. But that's a title ya gotta earn! ;)

I don't know if the term "true friendship" can be completely quantified. I mean, I've had friends come and go my entire life and it doesn't seem to matter whether they have been in a personal contact or on-line or whatever. I guess I'm the kind of guy who just can't form that bond that most people consider true. Probably why my marriage failed. I don't open up about my feelings much. I've always been very solitary and will always be that way. As for this site and other forum boards, I think I can honestly say, I've developed a certain friendship aspect and the anonimity means nothing to me along those lines. I've chatted with people on-line for years and have found that we can converse and develop friendships without ever meeting face to face. Some last, some don't so I don't know if one can call that "true". I only know that I find myself closer to being friends with people out here in these forums then anyone in my personal life.

Almost nothing pisses me of more than drivers who ignore school buses stopped with lights flashing and picking up/letting off children. Now in a few buses in Saskatchewan and Manitoba they are installing cameras. So far in about 4 weeks they have caught a huge number of offenders. Bet your boots cameras will be in all across Canada very soon. Couldn't be happier.

:) pic's are 100%...seen her once...i would repeat

I have two ;) One option is to find someone who catches your eye and ask if she has one, or if she would able to indulge you if you brought a swimsuit along for her.

I'm grateful for a lot, some of which are: my health my friends my dogs some of my neighbours, lol my inner strength my independence my abilities some clients;) and this thread for giving me cause to be grateful:) Thank you I guess I'm pretty lucky;)

Today I'm grateful that I have my two dogs, who are awesome and loving and playful and full of life and happiness. My own life is enormously bigger and better for their companionship. I'm especially grateful because I know our time together is limited by their too-brief lifespan. From time to time I remind myself "this doesn't last forever." And so I'm also grateful to my first dog since, quite a while ago now, that was the very last of many things she helped me understand.

I was raised by my biological mother and my biological father was not in the picture. I experienced child abuse (physical and psychological), sexual abuse, and witnessed domestic violence as a child. That stuff stays with you for ever. Maybe not on a concious level but it is always there in the subconcious mind. Even if you get help to deal with it. I got help when I was 15 and it helped for a few years. After leaving home at 15. I had a few good mentors to help steer me into adulthood. If it was not for them I do not know how I would have turned out. I am sure now that those early life experiences interfeared with my ability to have lasting meaningful relationships. I have always dealt with depression through out my entire adult life. A few years ago I was also diagnosed with adult Asperger's. About ten years ago I learned that I have a younger half sister and two older half brothers. (same biological mother). I thank god that they did not have to go through the things I did growing up.

Hey Guys, I am considering another party sometime between the 22nd and 27th, if you have a date and time or general range of date and times that would work you and you want to come drop me a not either here or my email :)