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As someone doing a PhD in women's studies, let me say first off that there is no one definition of feminism, but as a generalization we can say that feminism refers to the political, economic and social equality of the sexes. There are many different strands of feminism, such as Marxist/Socialist feminism, radical feminism, liberal feminism, post-structural/postmodernist feminism. They all have particular histories and goals. It's much better to think of feminism in the plural, as feminisms, because there are many. In terms of the type of feminism influencing C36--this is a very specific form of radical feminism that was formulated during the 60s-70s-80s. But lest you think this a new incarnation, this type of "rescue the fallen women" has been a goal of middle class white women since the 19th century. Despite being very vocal, they are in fact a minority amongst feminists generally. I generally refer to myself as a sex radical feminist or a sex positive feminist. Those are labels that refer to a type of feminism that is supportive of sex workers rights, as well as trans rights (many rad fems are trans-exclusionary, arguing offensively that transwomen in particular are just men in drag). I would hope you wouldn't paint an entire group as man-haters because of a few bad apples.

So interesting what you say Tracey. I was in Sydney NS last week and I use the paper primarily as my main means of advertising . Most folks there have no computers so paper woks best . I know all the classified people at the paper to the degree when someone answers I know exactly to whom I speak and likewise. Ba. Boom . I called to advertise my intention to be in Sydney and as soon as my rep answered I felt terrible sadness in her voice. She apologised profusely and even tried to work my add to make it " tolerable " They told me that any ad that a client know finds offensive they can sue the paper and in CB the only publication could be lost . Everyone felt so bad for me it was a sad time of saying thank you and good bye, However the night I left town several staff called me and took me to dinner and we had an awesome time . So even those bound by " the rules " will always do their best to support us . That feels really good to me and we will all thrive as we have community support!!!

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Making a classic winter dish, shepherds pie :) Gravy and cram corn style:)

Lobster! Enough said!

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Dear Mr. Harper. Clients don't contact me until/unless i advertise. Which means that they seek out the services that are being offered, they are not demanding that said services be provided to them based on male entitlement. If I did not advertise, they wouldn't be expecting that I provide them at all. And that's only one thing that is misleading about this legislation and the lies it was built on. Signed Clearly smarter than a Con.

I've pretty much been driving ever since Saturday morning so haven't had a chance to sit down and read or respond ... finally made it to Timmins and just have to say... what a RIOT!!! oh I had so much fun, and probably the hottest date on my arm... thank you Emily for sharing dinner and some good laughs xo Great to see all my friends, old and new :) I was so impressed with the entertainment! gorgeous and so talented, a most gracious hostess, such hot bartenders... dayum, non-stop tunes, and of course our outstanding organizers. You guys sure know how to show a lady a good time. Truly a class act, all of you.

Well it has all been said about Claire so I would just as soon sing it, to the tune of Chuck Berry's "Little Queenie" I got lumps in my throat When I saw her comin' down the aisle I got the wiggles in my knees When she looked at me and sweetly smiled There she is again standin' over by her record machine Lookin' like a model on the cover of a magazine She's too cute to be a minute over seventeen Mean while I was thinkin' She's in the mood, no need to break it I got the chance, I oughta take it If she will dance, we can make it C'mon Claire, let's shake it Go, go, go, Claire Heavens Go, go, go, Claire Heavens Go, go, go, Claire Heavens Repeat refrain....

drlove, I hope I am not being naïve and stupid here but its my true feeling not a lot will change . Yes of course we ladies are changing the way we advertise and poor gents are trying to get used to this. I am certain that Halifax LE has no more interest in you or me that they did a year ago. I would be very stupid to think LE is not aware of my comings and goings. My ads and pictures are out there for the world to see. As long as we manage our affairs correctly we will be fine. Ladies continue to run a low volume and discreet in service if you have one. Gents do your home work. If you are in doubt call myself or another established lady for advise. Just because she is new we may know her and can steer you in the right direction. I feel it is paramount at this delicate time for us to band together, we can unite as a community and make things just as good as they were . Different words, perhaps a bit more due diligence but that is all. Strong forces can't be beaten and as long as we stick together we will be fine. That can also mean putting past petty differences behind us and banding together , no matter what.

Golden crisp Belgian fries with a sprinkle of sea salt and a roasted pepper chipotle aïoli!

Geez I forgot about that. Thanks for jogging some fine childhood memories. And I just barely remember my old man letting me push the "order" button. And we was drivin' in style!

Amazing lady . Pics don't do her justice . It was an amazing encounter . Don't know why I hadn't gone to see her sooner

I also give thanks to ALO. I was swarmed by three ALO hotties at once who were all smiles and giggles. I must admit I have never been to ALO but I am very tempted to check it out. Can I have all three at the same time? :icon_biggrin: WC

fem·i·nism : the belief that men and women should have equal rights and opportunities : organized activity in support of women's rights and interests This is the true definition and it has indeed been hijacked. Now when many people hear that someone is a feminist, they picture radical man hater out to elevate and destroy. There have been many feminists standing up against this industry, claiming victimization, painting ladies as unable to think for themselves, held back and down by men, forced and coerced. Yet, to me, a real feminist would focus on making sure the women have a right to CHOOSE, have workplace protections and labor rights and that there are laws in place to help those who are victims or need a better life circumstance. Feminism is not about pushing personal morals, agendas and beliefs, it's about giving everyone the right to choose. The right to have the same benefits and pay, the same access and yes, the same treatment. I don't believe that men should be automatically damned in favor of a woman, I don't believe that all abuse is only perpetrated by men or that only men manipulate and take advantage. I believe that we are all people and unique just like every life and situation. I believe in fairness for all, rights for all and in choosing what works for you as an individual. Feminism is NOT a dirty word and needs to be reclaimed. Those women who want to take away rights that don't fall in with their beliefs, feel men should be burned just because they are men and feel that every woman should receive benefit because they are simply a woman, need to be called out on what they really are because they are NOT feminists. Feminism is not just about women, it's about all people.

..... my cerb social virginity that is! What a wonderful introduction to a great event. It was like sex, once you have it, the more you want it. I thoroughly enjoyed meeting and chatting with all the ladies and gentlemen, the spectacular entertainment, great food, fine tunes and the welcoming, open-minded, thoughtful and respectful atmosphere. I personally thanked mistert and loneskater at the social and want to add my public thanks here. I was remiss in not catching up with Alexandria (she was pretty busy being welcoming and gracious! - oh yeah, and gorgeous too!) so a public acknowledgement for all her efforts. Thanks all!

Gifts were delivered today. We filled up the igloo they had to hold them :p way to go guys!

First things first before I post this. To Cara, very well said and kudos for being the strong, independent, intelligent woman you are. Now from the other side, here goes. Dear Mr. Harper, My name is Ernie(yes, I am using my real first name here), also known as peacectryguy on several forums that advertise and discuss topics related to escorts in Canada. I am 55 years young, separated and work as a plumber/ heating tech in one of the busiest areas of the country. I pay my taxes and am a contributor to the overall good of the economy and well being of this great nation. I am also what is referred to as a hobbyist. I am a customer/ client of ladies who offer companionship for a fee. These ladies are confident and smart and beautiful and in the real dating world, I would likely never meet or see ladies of this stature as I would probably consider them out of my league and never even approach them. You however, and your cronies, would refer to me as a degenerate pervert or some other derogatory term and an exploiter of women. This is far from the reality of my world. I visit and spend time with lovely ladies ranging in age from early 20's to late 40's.I make every effort to treat the ladies with respect and dignity. These ladies are neither coerced by me or anyone else, nor are they victims of violence or drug abuse. They are just people like all of us. Now for the catch. You have enacted a law that would make me a criminal and deprive me of my ability to work in certain places and limit my abilities to continue to contribute to our nation's well-being. By doing this, you also deprive the ladies that I have grown to know the ability to distinguish the difference between a gentleman such as myself and the very people you say you are protecting them from. They are therefore, put into much graver danger then they were before this came into effect. This also limits the free exchange of information and the means for all of us to stay safe in a world where there will always be a select few who prefer to exploit and harm their fellow man or woman. You would drive the entire industry into the underground darkness to hide it from your puritan view rather than bring it all into the light and see it for what it truly is. By doing this you not only make "criminals out of thousands of honest men" (I quoted that because a minister said that when prohibition was enacted), but you allow the real criminals in all of this to never be exposed, therefore putting many ladies well-being and lives in danger. In conclusion, I just want to say thank you for showing your true colors and letting us all know that you are really not worthy of a seat of power in a democracy. With your power, there is supposed to be an unbiased perspective for the good of all Canadians, not just those you deem worthy. I think I'll copy and paste that and send it to our honorable P.M. What do you all think?

Christmas is coming soon. So I thought I would start this thread where we could post sexy pictures of our Cerb Women dressed in their Christmas outfits: To start this thread is our own sexy Miss Jessica Lee:

"It's a woman's body to do with it as she chooses!" So why does this apply to abortion and not SPing? I've always found that quite hypocritical. Anyway, there's a movement called Men Going Their Own Way, in which men simply give up on relationships with women and do their own thing, and when manly needs arise they pursue this hobby, or travel abroad to well known "affection destinations", or whatever. Some men, after getting gutted by Divorce and Family courts and false abuse claims, feel the pendulum has swung too far in the opposite direction and have removed themselves from all the drama. It seems to be a covert rebellion. "if the word feminist has been hijacked by extremists?" You don't say! :P

Hello to all, As many ladies I am paring down my already small friend list . Most of my friends are very intimate and I hear from them regularly. This evening I am deleting those that do not message me or really hardly know a thing about me. I am always open to my lady friends of this board but gents if you wish to be friends don't just request and I never hear from you again. Friends keep in touch at the very least . Please let me know in the future if you would like to re connect. Kisses Katherine

Well on Saturday I treated myself and drove to the cheese factory all intent on buying 5 year old cheddar. Imagine my surprise, they have it on occasion and did on Saturday, 6 year old cheddar. So tonight, macaroni and cheese made with 6 year old cheddar And why did I not have it last night? The cheese factory also had mozzarella with red chilli's, mozzarella with jalapenos, and salsa cheese. So I made nachos last night Been biking quite a bit thru Pikes Peak lately LOL RG

I had my first encounter with the lovely Tracie today and it was most pleasurable. She has a place in an easy to find and safe locale and she creates a comfortable and sensual atmosphere. She brought me to heights of pleasure never before experienced. I will definitely be visiting her again.

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I rented a room with a jacuzzi there two summers ago. Great room but all you could see out the window was a cement wall.

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Airport area is my preference. Reasons for me ..... are ease to get to and navigate, discretion, parking and vehicle safety as has been mentioned and location for other activities that I like to do while in the city. For example Polo Park, many good restaurants, Casino close by and of course Hooters ;) There are more and more Suite hotels all the time now in this area with nice suites and at a reasonable rate as well. Just my opinion however as we all vary on our accommodation preferences.

http://fullcomment.nationalpost.com/2014/12/05/john-ivison-ontario-government-may-fire-first-shot-at-tory-prostitution-law/ I confess, just saw this Tweeted on Twitter but thought I'd post here. RG

This is the first set of pictures for the 2014 Christmas season. A few pictures were lost due to retirements and the switching from Cerb.ca to Lyla.com. The first woman to be posted for 2014 is the legendary Michelle_MA who just came out of retirement: A very sexy start to Christmas 2014 :) Please post your christmas pictures here :)

The Delicious Daisy has returned to CMJ and is working our of the east end predominantly. The east end has lots of great options...

I hope they send a natural and perky 32a or 34b someday. Its strange that they always send a girl with almost the exact same stats almost everytime. If you look at all there ads its 99% the same description every time. All women are beautiful and to each their own but why such a narrow criteria. What about us spinner lovers? An Asian spinner would be divine.. :)

I'm a feminist. Always have been and always will be. Do I agree with every statements other feminists say? No. That's what being a feminist is in my mind. Being able to hear others points of views, and deciding for yourself what you believe. Are women still being exploited and held back by a patriarchal society? Hell yes. Will I speak my mind about this? Of course. Society is constantly evolving. I still remember not being able to open a bank account without a husband's permission. We still have a long way to go.

I really don't think there are nearly as many "man-hater feminists" out there as some think or fear. As with anything in life, you'll have people that distort a valid idea or movement and go too far. In part I think the problem is that more radical elements tend to make more noise or get more of the attention. I'm a feminist, and in fact it bothers me when people say they aren't because truly it's meaning is that provided by MidniteMassage above, and has nothing to do with man-hating or putting men down. The other thing--and sometimes this is deliberate but often it's just unconscious--is when a group has been privileged with power it's hard for it recognize it and even harder for it to give that advantage up. Whether it's wealth, race, age, or gender, certain groups in our society are given advantages. Which isn't to say there's anything wrong with being rich, white, young, or male, or that those of us who fall into one or more of those demographics don't have problems, but we're also often blind to the privilege we have. I say this because some men are threatened by feminism and are unconsciously lasing out at the loss of their privilege. So they'll point to those feminists who are radical or unfair and paint them as if that's what all feminism is and undermine the movement and change the conversation. To be clear, I in no way think that's what the OP is doing here. Rather, I think it's in part the result of those that are threatened by feminism distorting its meaning (along with the few radicals) that the entire word starts to lose its true meaning or give it a bad taste for all of us when it shouldn't.

This is actually four highlights and two different days so it's a stretch. #1 Getting to share wine, time and companionship with an exciting lovely woman. #2 Having the opportunity to take said woman to dinner. #3 Actually being able to have a drink at the Social plus winning a door prize! #4 Getting a call from the establishment where we had dinner and learning I'd won a free dinner for two. Nice

Yes, one big downside of the hidden hobby phone is the limited windows of communication. My responsiveness I'm sure may seem slow or I may appear aloof sometimes. I usually explain my phone situation to anyone I have regular communication with... they're always understanding. Another issues with my hobby (really) dumbphone is that cursed little numeric keypad. It takes me forever to type "quick" responses, but it does force me to be succinct (which is also appreciated, I'm sure). lol

Likewise .... thank-you to the organizers of the Christmas Social. It was my first event, it won't be my last.

Surprisingly, there was not a lot of media coverage surrounding this new law and 90% of the clients I see have no idea what the hell is going on so that says something right there. Not a peep as far as I know from the Ottawa Sun and Ottawa Citizen the last time I check online news stories. Toronto and Vancouver Police Departments have said they are making this new law a low priority to enforce. And Now Magazine in Toronto refuses to comply with the new law regarding third party ad banning. http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/toronto/now-magazine-plans-to-defy-ad-ban-in-new-prostitution-bill-1.2863044 Lets carry on...

Thank you again for such a wonderful and fun evening. Great laughs, conversation and dancing were had. The drinks, entertainment and HOTTIES behind the bar were an added bonus. I feel lucky to have been able to be in such great company and catch up with everyone - plus meeting so many new friends was the icing on the cake. While I am now donating all my spare time to the gym (to work off mistert's to DIE for brownies) I eagerly await the next batch. Loneskater and MisterT you need to start your own event planning company - you outdo yourselves every event. While the ride to the event was an adventure in itself - maybe next time we can get a limo bus with a stripper pole....?

I may just be the exception but i never really got the benefit of a separate hobby phone.. in my opinion i think it would just increase my risk because I would have to explain why two phones. My preferred approach is to have a good smartphone (BlackBerry Passport for example). That allows you to turn off or customize notifications, has password access and that you can use privacy Apps to hide text and email messages from companions in encrypted hidden folders. I also use a contact management app that allows for hidden contacts that are only accessible with password. This approach has worked for years and the security features are easily explained due to the work info on my phones. I am able to openly chat with many companions with little concern about privacy. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Harper, you're an idiot! That's all I have to say on this matter. Posted via Mobile Device

There. Finally found the letter that I mentioned yesterday from Toronto City Council (in the form of a JPG image) to Premier Wynn. It will be presented tomorrow on the National Day to Stop Violence Against Women. Thank you to the people who care about the safety of women! And

I'm also extending a big thanks to MisterT and Loneskater. It was a great party and it was nice to meet new and also familiar faces. I had a really good time except when I had to leave and make a run for without shoes to my car. lol. Those 6 inch heels killed me tonight! Thanks gentlemen for all your hard work. We appreciate it!

Have always enjoyed the ladies that work there. Clean rooms and i always feel safe there.

Also, the risk of being arrested for public solitation. I would never meet a potential client in public. If they are not comfortable giving you the information you ask, move on. The gems are there. Don't let anyone push you to break you rules because they are uncomfortable.

Well, I once did go to visit Nicole, based on the posted pictures. Imagine my disappointment, surprise and discomfort when she opened the door. I do not like to be disrespectful, so it was very awkward and difficult for me to beg off and leave. There are two sides to every story and my side would explain why she would have been suspended. Having said that, I would have to agree that everyone deserves a second chance. I only wrote the above because I also believe that if it is given and she abuses that second chance, she should be swiftly and permanently banned. So, hopefully she proves us right. Good luck Nicole.

Good girl LOL.....you get what you give right?

I agree with what was recommended. I too have had to many one-line inquires. And the same for texting.I love, U AVALIBLE! I dont even answer an inquiry of this nature,it sounds like your a gentleman of many words.

Thanks Megan! I recently recieved a PM saying: "Yo Gab, 25 year old male here. How much for an hour? I really want to F@!k you." I kindly replied to the "gentleman" and explained that the hour would be free since we would not be spending any time together! MOD, any way of blocking certain members from contacting us again after receiving a PM of this type? Thanks!

What I get sometimes is literally "who's on now?" LMAO So guess what I do? I send them the link of our schedule ha ha

"Hi, when are you available." Just don't cut it lol