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I love Christmas. I believe in the spirit of Christmas. To me its a time for giving. Its a time to show your care for more then just yourself. All year round I do my best to help where I see need but at this time of year my efforts are doubled. On the one hand its the most happy of times and on the other hand its for me one of the saddest times. I think I do so much for others just to hide the sadness. My sons never call me. They do not realize how much a simple call would mean to me. I have my daughter with me but this year she will be at her moms which is good because she is trying to reconnect with her mom but that leaves me alone at Christmas yet again. So she and I will have Christmas on the 26th. I will spoil her as always. We put up a small tree and my nativity set and have the best Christmas we can. So merry Christmas to each and every one of you. If you want to live forever make a memory in someone elses life. Help someone. Make them smile. Show them this world is a beautiful place with caring people.

I loooooove Christmas I love the season. I'm guilty of having my tree up since like November lol, but there's just something about coming home and I open my door and my tree is there and the lights are nice and bright. It's actually so cozy and comforting to me. I might even leave it up through the snowy season because hey! outside is depressing. Giving is important but let's all remember that whether in company or alone.. Lets be responsible and NOT Drink and Drive please... R.i.p Tonia December 24/96

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I can only speak for myself, but If this is a lady you intend to see multiple times a gift or good tip is a great way to establish yourself in her mind. She will look forward to your next visit and she will remember you clearly when you book. If you are asking for the "norm". Any client who has become regular and special to me has always established that with respect and generosity upfront. Kelly

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As joyful and amazing as Christmas is it is also a very difficult time for many people for lots of different reasons. For some the joy of season is lost in grief, stress, illness and loneliness... if you know someone who is struggling Christmas is often the easiest time of the year to reach out and provide them some comfort... Please Do. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Everyone's risk tolerance will be different and I am not sure it is fair to put the responsibility for it on the lady who is responding.... personally I see the management of that risk as something that is up to me and I would prefer the lady simply answer my text with any personal tone she is feeling. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Get two phones.

I take the term very seriously. If I give you my friendship then you have my respect, discretion, support, confidence, help when needed, you'll have all I can give, at any cost, yes any. I don't believe friendship should stop and end when costs are incurred. Friendships come with costs, it's a give and take, sometimes costs are shared, sometimes they are one sided, but when a friend doesn't support you because it may cost them something, then it's my opinion, that person is not a friend-simple:) A friendship is a type of love, it can be complicated, if you make it so. But actually love is simple, it is respect, understanding and being supportive. It is wanting the person you give it too to be happy, to advance in life, to respect you and to want to share in all your struggles and successes and you in theirs. It comes with highs and lows and should stand the test of time-if it's true:)

Ok I will admit to not reading this thread but...I cook bacon once a week for whomever wishes to consume it lmao. I just like the smell!

You can do all of them bacon, cheese and gym.. Just don't eat any man made processed carbs. lol. It's called the Atkins diet! Been there, done it and ate a whole lot of bacon with eggs every day and lost 7 lbs in one week. It actually lowered my cholesterol. lol Despite what people say about this diet, it is safe to do and there is no proof of it as being dangerous as health officials speculate. There's no proof and you can eat carbs but you start off at 20 grams a day of carbs which is 2 slices of bread. So go ahead and eat that cheese and bacon sandwich Lee Richards! It was the only program that kept my blood sugar levels in check, had tons of energy and always slept very well.

In order to be fair to the east end girls who work those spas, in order to accommodate bringing in west end girls, there would have to be some kind of rotation. This may not be feasible and may actually hurt their business in the fact that regulars depend on them being at a certain location. I think it's been said there are a lot of options in the east. As for being fussy, my view is if someone really wants to see a girl who is in the west, then take the time to go see her in the west.

One good smartphone may not be the answer for everyone. Some don't want to pay for a high-end phone or may have a smartphone that was provided by their employer. I wouldn't recommend using an employer-supplied phone for indiscretions no matter how feature-rich it is (this was one of Jian's mistakes). So for many, a second phone is the best solution. Furthermore, it can be dirt cheap and dumb. Keep it turned off and well hidden when not actively seeking adventure. When it's turned on, keep it in silent mode and the keyboard locked. Works for me.

I may just be the exception but i never really got the benefit of a separate hobby phone.. in my opinion i think it would just increase my risk because I would have to explain why two phones. My preferred approach is to have a good smartphone (BlackBerry Passport for example). That allows you to turn off or customize notifications, has password access and that you can use privacy Apps to hide text and email messages from companions in encrypted hidden folders. I also use a contact management app that allows for hidden contacts that are only accessible with password. This approach has worked for years and the security features are easily explained due to the work info on my phones. I am able to openly chat with many companions with little concern about privacy. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I understand about the phoniness of saying " Hun" and "Babe" to a person a lady hasn't even met yet but setting up a meeting by text and attempting to make it look like your average business transaction would be an exercise in futility. Best to make these arrangements by phone if possible and delete, delete, delete. Aside from the insincere sounding terms of endearments which isn't necessarily bothersome to some men, whatever your situation is involving a significant other, caution should be taken care at all times. Posted via Mobile Device

I say let somebody read all the babes and huns and whatever they want in my texts. It means absolutely nothing and never will. Women call me hon all the time in public places. Cashiers, bank tellers, my customers (some old enough to be my grandma and that is really old), ladies I hold the door open for at the post office who I don't know. The list goes on and on. If anyone is worried about their wife or girlfriend seeing it, then just delete it immediately or don't read the silly thing in front of them in the first place. Here's a novel idea, turn your hobby phone right off when you aren't alone and in private. Solves the discretion problem in a heartbeat.

The only sensible solution is to get more intimate in all of your communication: "Dear Armitage, Dunwitch & Whateley, Attorneys at Law: can you please quote me the price to draw up a few contracts, my delicious sweetie-pies? Thanks. Signed, Mr. Hun-hun Bunnycakes." Now all replies will look equally suspicious -- which means they will all look equally innocent!

Are there any good email accounts that DOES NOT do this crap? I'm seriously considering scrapping my Gmail account. Too creepy in my opinion.

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Eating bee pollen. So yummy!

New talent eventually comes along but the menu rarely changes. If more on the menu is what is wanted, then the touring Asians are always a better auction.

You raise a good point Angela. IMHO, east end is from Blair to Orleans. This is the area I was thinking of. I am sure there are plenty of MA's in that area. I have been spoiled by the likes of CMJ and Vibe. Perhaps we're just being fussy. :icon_smile: I think Someguy was just saying that his favorite spa girls have more time scheduled in west end locations than the east end locations.

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Holy heavens! We looooove to cuddle! Curl up in some blankets and watch an awesome movie, perhaps after a two-way massage ;) I just love human contact. *sighs*

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Great response to this thread. Between CMJEast and Vibe, there has been a significant increase in MA's in the east end. Hopefully we can support these two spa's so that they can keep introducing new women to the east end.

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Like I said in the other thread on this topic... her concern will only really mean something if it is also accompanied by action... send the new law for review by the courts. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I'm a feminist. Always have been and always will be. Do I agree with every statements other feminists say? No. That's what being a feminist is in my mind. Being able to hear others points of views, and deciding for yourself what you believe. Are women still being exploited and held back by a patriarchal society? Hell yes. Will I speak my mind about this? Of course. Society is constantly evolving. I still remember not being able to open a bank account without a husband's permission. We still have a long way to go.

My rates are $250 per hour. versus My rates are $250 per hour, babe. I'm at a hotel downtown. versus I'm at a hotel downtown, hun. Yes, I see what you mean.

I do legitimate massage with no release as well as the other. :) Inevitably gents get an erection if they are touched by a woman. Its just a pure physiological reaction to human touch. No need to feel bad, its natural and if you did not perhaps ask questions. When this happens to me I just put a nice heavy towel on the " affected " area and the perceived problem subsides on its own. Easy Peasy.

Agreed nicolette. I've been single for a while now and it's slim pickings for women around here lol. Just feels nice to be held and touch. As the saying goes spooning leads to forking ;-) lol

Which one of you lovely women want a cuddle lol :-D

This is probably the main reason I went to Paradise. Find that as I get older I miss having affection and touch in my life. It really is good for the soul :-)

Haven't seen anyone who specializes in cuddling but I Guess exclusive cuddle services may take off now with the new laws

I feel the same way as Someguy. Too many ladies to choose from and I feel somewhat obligated to keep in touch with old friends. That, and some _ _'s will text, PM or email me asking if they will see me soon. The toughest part I find is when attending a spa and the hostess that greets you at the door or answers the phone is not the girl you are there to see. I've been asked a few times ''Are you here to see me?'' and it is very awkward to say no, because I have seen several of them before and I love them all. At which point/frequency does it become awkward to see someone? By the way, I am curious as to what kind of budget guys devote to this. I am sure everyone is different, but at what point should one seek help? :icon_lol: Is $4,000-$5,000 in a month too much? (even if you can afford it) I'm starting to think that I might have to do more duos or trios just to see all those ladies each month. :icon_razz:

These kinds of posts violate their terms . Instead of posting a counter reply, report the defamatory types of posts and staff will remove them In general, CL every time they adjust their site in some way, there is more flagging. I attribute this to changes in their auto filtering and/or some internal issues. If you are using words or terms that are not blocking the ad, it is still a trigger word. The auto filter kicks in when you notice your ad is deleted before it hit the site. That is not flaggers. it is not the jealous competition. If you want your ad to stay up, fix your ad. It is rare to see enough real flags bring down any ads. The site simply seems to do it's own 'cleanup' if you ask me. For a real report or flag to bring down any ad, my guess is the person has to use their contact us forms and report links that way. Even then if you can't do that 2 or 3 times with spammers, and see their ads come down, then you know the reporting and flagging is not doing the ad removal. Clean up and disinfect your ad. If you can't do that, take all but one or two sentences out of your ad, screen cap the info you want people to know in the form of a picture, and add that info in as an image. Keep your name, phone number out of the text of the ad, and possibly out of the contact section. put your phone number or website name into a picture and add that as an image. the first photo is the first thing people see. I've put up ads where the first photo is a screencap of the text of a much longer descriptive ad posted on another site, like cerb. then the actual photos are the next images. since you can't post an ad with nothing in the text part, i include a few lines. there are words that we can figure are filter words. you won't know what the words are, they don't block the ad if you use them, but something is filtering those ads and that sends the message they don't want ES ads in there.

I have to admit tho if it were not for what I went through I would not be the person I am today. I am so happy, humble, respectful & kinda greatful for what I went through...cuz I would not be where I am today. Your written words have been taken from my lips. Thank you for sharing your story. Peace Additional Comments: Those stats are an extreme understatement in comparison to the truth of numbers. Child abuse is a global issue; from poverty to the $80 million home at the end of the street and further; from beginning of time to the present and further; from bullet ridden homes to well manicured lawns. Research has shown that abuse, especially sexual abuse changes not only neural transmission, hormone levels, and such but there are structural changes to the brain as well. Sexual abused children are most vunerable, often it alters their identity of one's self. It's comparative to 'having no memories of who you are and meeting yourself for the first time'. Where does Canada stand on sexual abuse? Peace Additional Comments: I shared this video, not to state my personal opinion but for informative reasons only.

It has received royal ascent we are in 30 day grace right now.... and yes I would expect them to so we are conforming to the new laws.

My approach is different. With experience, one gets to feel who are the serious ad legit providers. Even being a newcomer, a serious provider will have a structured and direct talk with you. With these ones I would book for 1h, even if they don't have any raving reco here or elsewhere. The ones who play tricks tend to be easily detectable acting being evasive and unresponsive on many details. I see ads every day for SPs who claim to be well-reviewed. When you ask them, they remain silent. Those ones, I don't book at all, as hot as they can look on their pics. You can guess pimps aren't too far. Let's not endorse these guys' activities. It goes back to applying common sense: grab the phone and give the lady a call. Intuition is your best guide, particularly after having been screwed a couple of times, like most of us clients have been when we start in this hobby. Live and learn. I have met companions who were doing this for a very brief period of time, but gave me the most memorable time I could think of, and even beyond. Students mostly. I am always on the lookout to meet new ladies, but without losing my sense.

Not a chance in .....Heaven, That I am gone ;-) Just Sneaky ;-) Always best to text me as I am not as active online as I would like to be. Thankya! Still Roarin' XO

Happy National Hug Day everyone. I hope you have hugged someone today, if not it is not too late! :) http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/National_Hug_Day btw... I tried the new cuddle only service. It is wonderful what a warm, friendly, tender and relaxing embrace can provide. It is uplifting for the soul. :)

I never thought of it as a "service" per se, but I have done this with certain clients over the years.

Ahhh, the ?tipping? debate! I noticed there was a decided void in SP response so I will take a minute to share my thoughts? From an agency girl perspective, tipping is often a way to generate extra income because after they pay the agency and the driver, they usually end up on the short end of the stick. 10 years ago, I ran for an agency, we collected $260 for an hour, with $110 going to the house, $40-$100 to the driver depending on where the visit was located, which left me maximum of $110 with as little as $10 in my pocket. With a $15 book on fee and mandatory car cell phone fees of $25 per night, I needed 3 full fees per night to make working worthwhile, God forbid I get credit card calls, which somehow always worked out us getting nothing. We were not allowed to refuse a call so we had to find creative ways to ensure we were paid. Tipping for extra service was the only way to keep our heads above water. The nice thing was that we had a shift, we worked, and we went home and had a life. That said, it was unfair to the guest who would end up with less than what he expected because he was not prepared for the extra fees. Independents are in a slightly different boat. We usually have a higher upfront fee, but we also assume ALL the costs incurred, which is far more than many realize. If we charged what we feel we should to get our ROI, the protests would be heard long and loud. Many Indies have a smaller bottom line than an ambitious girl at a well run agency. So when it comes to tips, many things need to be considered. In the south, SP's are tipped much in the same manner as a restaurant. Anyone walking a restaurant wouldn?t consider walking out without leaving a tip if everything was satisfactory. I tip everyone in the service industry, from the girl who washes my hair, to the man at Suny?s who pumps my gas because a little bit from many adds up at the end of the day. Flowers and trinkets are lovely in thought, but a girl can?t deposit wilted stems into an RRSP, and my bank doesn?t seem to take dildos, massage oil, garter belts or silk stockings on deposit -go figure! As Joyful C has so wisely stated, most SP?s live a fragile existence financially. We provide an illusion of playful luxury for our guests benefit, but rest assured, 90% of the time it is smoke and mirrors. Behind the scenes we struggle to pay our bills, put diapers on our babies and try to take care of those we love, all the while working on a way to get to a normal existence if that does in fact even exist. An extra $20 from each client equals a full appointment by the end of the week, and at the end of the month that pays the cell phone, buys the groceries and lets us take the little ones away for the weekend after we have paid both rents (home and incall), all our advertising, babysitters, hydro, car repairs, personal maintenance and the same expenses everyone else has. Not to mention the monthly payments on augmentation, lifts, tucks and anything else to keep us up to the exceptionally high standards expected if we want to continue making money in this arena. There are few SP?s who can keep up the daily client service to ensure long term financial viability in this business because of the emotional and physical toll this business extracts which sometimes means extended time offs to get our heads, hearts and bodies back in order. We have no paid holidays, benefits or paid personal days. If there is a crisis that forces us to take time off, we lose money and clients which often means we work regardless of illness, pain or any other of lifes challenges. Each SP has her own reasons for working, but the universal element is that we all are trying to achieve some sort of financial stability. I never expect tips, and I can count on one hand how many I have received since my arrival in Canada because of the nature of the business here. Hate to tell you guys, but Canadian men are not known for their generous nature, they rank a close second to Germans in this realm (I think the outlandishly high taxes inflicted in both countries has something to do with it!). I would never expect a tip from guests that have me on retainer, I see them weekly. But unless you are going to be a bankable commodity in a SP?s life, a tip relative to the quality of service is a sure way to say thank you and have her know you mean it... Catherine