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Hope this helps people figure out the new laws. http://fullcomment.nationalpost.com/2014/12/15/canadas-new-prostitution-law-explained-with-lego-video/

Dear Mod(s), Whether you are one or a dozen, a man or a woman, you have to deal all year long with the little devils that we are. We probably make you crazy by asking you a zillion times things that you explained us... a zillion times (especially these last days!). You probably lose hope on some of us when you have to punish or ban us because we did a bad thing (more or less consciously). We tremble when we receive a warning from you because we know that we have been bad bad bad again (or we have absolutely no clue what got us there). You probably laugh or cry behind your screen because you wish that we were more intelligent than that but... hey, we love you Mod ;-) Have a deserved Wonderful Merrylicious Happy Holidays! (p.s.1: this is not an attempt to gain any favor from Mod ;-) We all know that Mod is tough and we cannot buy him/her p.s.2: I have to say that I am impressed by the philosophy and the community spirit that the big majority of members try to maintain here. Happy Holidays to you all too!)

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One point: the cop would have no grounds to bust in on two people in private. What evidence would exist of solicitation? This video does a great job of showing the ridiculousness of the new law, but I don't think any consenting adult couples can expect to see any doors kicked in any time soon.

Merry Christmas to you MOD (s). Without you, this community wouldn't be what it is and wouldn't have lasted as long as it has. I wish for you rubber walls so that when you beat your head it doesn't hurt. I wish for you an extra large ESC key for those days when you want to scream or spank us. I wish for you an extra large vat of whatever makes you happy to occasionally dull the brain ache I'm sure taunts you daily. But most of all I wish you happiness and joy and karma for all the tough love (<--- this is a good thing)!

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Maybe you should go back and read the old law. They were highly illegal under those laws and I haven't heard of anybody that got arrested back then. Actually in a sense they break less laws now. So if you did go back then your post doesn't make much sense. Since the law makes it illegal to see anyone offering sexual services for money, Indy or not!

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When a National newspaper presents a video like that mocking how stupid a law on prostitution is then it's a clear indication that while the government may have won the most recent battle by imposing a new law they have lost the war for public opinion and in the long run the overall war. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Merry Xmas Mod...... Doin a fab job ! I imagine your chair in your office in Barrie has been busy and getting worn out !!!!!!!! Thankless job So on occasion in progammer mode it is time to just get up and dance !!! :) Merry Christmas !!!

I agree, MODS work a thankless job! I am grateful for all the hard work they do for us to be here, especially this coming year! Embarking on whole new business model, and bravely at that! To all of our community here: Whether we are on the same page or not, at least we always feel welcomed here! I have genuinely been in awe of the support we have for each other. It is kinda like a big family, we bicker, complain, at times just down right devils ( as the OP said lol) But at the end of the day, we love each other. We see our positive sides, laugh with each other, forgive one another, and most of all keep each other safe. Let's stick together in 2015! Make it the best year we ever had! Love and kisses to all!

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Love the imagery in that fortunateone... I guess that just confirms everything Mr Harper and McKay have been saying about us clients being "Perverts" I read your post and immediately all I can think about is all the fun ways it would be possible to "rub the newness off". That said I have decided to say screw Harper and will not be changing what I have previously done when it comes to booking time with amazing ladies. Like in the past I will do my homework keep it safe for both me and her but I will be dammed if some pencil Dick nerd right wing economist is going to tell me what to do with another consenting adult. Just my Opinion

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Say, look what the cerb censors do to A's handle lol

They've been fine for me with the new laws so far! This comes down to LE priorities, really, and LE have better things to do than go after consenting adults who are having fun together, even if some wingnuts may disapprove of that fun. I believe that at least some of the spa owners are in touch with LE, and therefore know what the risks are. Also, I suspect that if LE wanted to make an example of anyone to send a message they'd have done so by now. If you want further evidence, read the indignant press releases from the abolitionists (thread in the general section), who are belatedly realizing that having the political contacts to get a stupid law passed does not actually mean that anyone else will pay either you or it any more attention than is warranted. You should be fine with any MA at a reputable spa, or any Indie with a good track record. No worrying required! Perhaps. But there are always people who are too damn lazy to do any research themselves and want to be spoon-fed. Ignore them, or tell them to read the recos for the city they're in... or if you feel like some gentle trolling, recommend someone in Iqaluit :)

Show you my boobs first? Really? Is this real life? Why don't we, instead, ask you guys to drop your pants and lemme see whatchu workin with first! Just to make sure you're not LE.... *eye roll* psssh. And for the record, I believe most SPs won't give you any time until AFTER you pay... WTF just happened in this thread?!?

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The Cons never had any real concerns surrounding this issue and only had a vested interest when it came to themselves and how it would benefit their upcoming election. While business has taken a downward turn and it's quiet for ladies such as myself who work indoors, the real loss is going to be with those on the street where the risks and danger are much higher. There was supposed to be a law that would be designed to protect them but all the government cares is how it makes them look so high and mighty for their voters. Laws should never be built on morality and this is what this law was founded upon. Evangelism at its finest! Posted via Mobile Device

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smiling because I just notice I am now a senior member :) Senior Member (100+ Posts)

First person (if any) to be arrested under this new law should bring this to court with them!

Just shows how utterly stupid the whole thing is.

Happy Holidays Mods! And thanks for all you've done for us this year! All the best in 2015! :)

Merry christmas Mod ! Thank you for everything and for keeping this site going !

Thanks for all the hard work and long hours you have done for all of us happy birthday and merry Christmas to you

Kudos to the Mod(s) for a job well done all year, every year!

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Lucky is an 5'6", 120 pound, natural 34 C's, 40 year old dancer with curly shoulder length blond hair and a loud raspy voice. She's a little rough around the edges but she's popular with the middle aged patrons and seems to have a few regulars wherever she's dancing. As long as she hasn't consumed too much tequila, she can still perform skillfully on the pole and carry on a decent conversation. If she's drinking too excess it's better to steer clear. She tends to be a little territorial with customers if you don't make it clear that you like to see other dancers once in a while. I hear she's dancing again at the Plaza in Kingston.

If you're paying attention, you'll have noticed that Michelle's return has generated some excitement among the folks who have been around here for a bit. You may also have noticed that this doesn't happen for everyone who returns to the industry. And even if you hadn't spotted those things, you can notice that this is one of the longer reco threads on the board. There are good reasons for this. Having been to renew my acquaintance with Michelle recently, I can confirm that those reasons are still just as good as they ever were. And by the time I saw her... definitely no rust. I checked thoroughly :)

Making a new friend with whom I had a nice chat over coffee :redface:

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Cops may not be allowed to commit sexual acts on duty, but that doesn't mean they don't. Cops commit some of the worst assaults against sex workers. This is honestly the dumbest thing I've ever heard.

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You can have fun together without offering any sexual activities. Common sense says that private exotic dancing would be legal so nude is fine, massaging (No happy endings) but they can not charge you for offering someone a regular massage or touching another person when both parties agree to physical contact, anything that involves penetration, or orrgasmmmms would be bad. spanking should be fine unless your offering some sort of penis spanking or breast spanking... just common sense. Don't offer anything that could be considered sexual. AGAIN... I DID NOT WRITE THE LAW!! They PURPOSELY did not define what constitutes a SEXUAL SERVICE so it is up to the courts to decide. No one wants to be that person in front of that judge.... they (the government knew this) so they made it vague on purpose.

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Malibu and I had this conversation last week. The input is candid and valued and I'm grateful to each and everyone of you that chimed into the conversation. Here are my thoughts on some of the things posted. I can really only speak from my personal experience at CMJ, as it's the only place I've ever "worked": Privacy: walking into the building - our building has the right amount of people coming and going for it to be comfortable and there is zero labeling on the outside of the building at all that it contains a Hostess Lounge. If there was a beaming sign outside that said "you sexy neighborhood rub n tug" I could see it being a bit horrifying. meeting someone in the hall - an incredibly rare occurrence that we, as hostesses, try to prevent at all costs. Sometimes I wish it wasn't so awkward shuffling someone back into a room, but we usually just laugh it off. We peek into the hallways and can hear the doors open and close so we typically know if someone is wandering the halls. cameras - we have cameras only in common areas and definitely not in the rooms or bathrooms. That's for our safety and security, not for our pervy viewing pleasure ;). Experience: bonding with your MA - I absolutely love getting to know my guests. Do all indies take the time to get to know you? I would say some do and some don't. I think it's the same with a spa. Thankfully we have CERB so we can chit chat about what you like prior to a session. Longer sessions are also very accommodating to cerebral massage. clock watching - even when we're having a great time (which is most of the time) we still have to be mindful of the time. If you're concerned for time, we encourage you to book more time. I/we want you to have the best experience and enjoy yourself and not all of us are made with exceptional internal clocks. Sometimes we're booked back to back, sometimes we're not and have a bit more leeway with time. I'm mutually concerned with not being late for my next appointment and making sure my current guest doesn't feel rushed (which I don't like either.) Concern for the MA: scheduling her own time - for the most part, we make our own schedules. If we need to be somewhere before or after and it's not a common last-minute occurrence, Jasmine says "no problem." If we want to run down the street to grab a coffee, bite to eat, or shop at bit, we do that too and give her a heads up that we're stepping out so she can let the members know we'll need a few minutes to get back. I've even gone to yoga class in the middle of a shift because it wasn't particularly busy and there were enough ladies on to cover. I can't speak for other spas, but CMJ is very accommodating. I even book sessions when I'm not scheduled because I can :) making sure she gets all the proceeds - to be completely blunt: this is our choice to make. The MAs that work in an establishment do so for a variety of reasons: safety, security, marketing, camaraderie (which is big for us), having a set schedule, not dealing with "idiots", not having overhead, running much smaller risks both personally, legally and financially, and the list goes on. If you're concerned for us and are staying away because we might get a smaller paycheck, we're definitely going to have a smaller pay check if you don't come see us at all. WealthyCowboy is very kind and generous to tip well, but we understand that isn't an option for everyone. Having heard the indy/spa discussion from a hobbyist's perspective, I definitely have a better understanding, so again, thank you for sharing. Malibu, thank you for asking. I could sped some light on team spa ;) Mad love, Gwen xoxo

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Prob. a good idea man! stay safe... she's as FAKE as they come.

She had another set of fake pics up previously that I couldnt find anything on. Got to the door at the Westin and could hear 2 guys yelling inside. Hightailed it.

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