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Yes, you paid for TIME & COMPANIONSHIP. This self-entitlement really irks me. You pay a woman for an hour of her time, she owes u nothing beyond that by the way. If you're gonna start asking around who can perform XYZ for an hour straight, well... keep in mind the government has labeled the purchasing of sex (and communication for the purpose of) a crime so you might wanna tread a little more carefully with that. And, please enlighten me... How exactly will you react when a woman's energy and stamina do not meet your requirements? Will your self-entitlement pop up and demand she continue? (sounds lilke rape) Will you become abusive in any way? (sounds violent) Will you suddenly take back the $ you gave her, even though she kept her end of the bargain by offering you her TIME & COMPANIONSHIP? (sounds like a robbery) I hope you now realize the foolishness in saying "We paid, didn't we?" (I took the liberty of correcting the grammar) This is a type of client-attitude that does not belong in this forum. This is a type of client-attitude that leads to some women being forced into things they did not want to participate in, which last I checked was the pure definition of RAPE. Men who have this attitude make me extraordinarily worried for some of the women in this industry, the ones who's knuckle sandwiches wouldn't be nearly as terrifying as mine, the ones who are easily intimidated... tsk tsk tsk... /endrant

Absolutely! and especially now. The law has stigmatized clients and so will anyone now that was once in the in the grey area about it. Because for many, once something is determined to be illegal, then for them it becomes immoral. But all along there have been men and women that hold the opinion that men who pay for companionship are lacking in some department, whether that be looks, intelligence, position, or something else. This "theory" is so wrong, yet believed by many. Women in this business are also stigmatized by society, by their peers, by some clients as being "victims", of a lower class, untrustworthy, unlovable, etc. I can't count how many times over the years a client has said to me "what's a nice girl like you doing in this business" The saddest is when stigmatization is made among peers, which happens far to often. In the end it doesn't matter what others say or think of you, what stigmas may be created towards what you do, who you see, etc. It only matters how you think of yourself. Many may try and break people by creating stigmas, when they do you just have to become unbreakable-I have:)

I was told once when visiting a well known lady on this board that the best plan is not to have a plan

Well Meaghan, we ALL know that there is just something about a snowstorm. Being stranded in ones own home it's a perfect time for snuggling and cuddling. Somehow the snowstorm creates a whole new and fun atmosphere. :) Here on PEI right now it is a beautiful evening with crystal clear skies and the stars are bright as can be. By morning we expect a different scenario, but if this storm hits it truly will be our first real taste of winter! NS and NB have had tastes before but here on the Island not so much. No doubt tomorrow we shall see lots of updates. Stay in and stay warm and get Meaghan there before the snow flies. :)

Finally, a real winter storm! Gather yer firewood, fill yer gas cans, gather yer provisions and more importantly yer booze and tobacco, prep all yer preps! Hopefully the power goes out for days! I live for this! Bring the grid crashing down! Back to yer basics I say, back to when gold and lead ruled the day! (sorry, born in the wrong century I guess)

I agree with Cristy. It is so insulting when a client tells you that you are "intelligent enough" or a "great girl" to do something else! (not the same question as: "what decided you to do this?" which I always answer with no difficulty, because this is a general question that you could ask to anybody). Although the client at that moment thinks he is being "nice" to you by offering you a "compliment", at this moment, he does not even realize that it speaks a lot about himself: he admits that for him seeing a girl is shameful, and that he has issues with it, but still, he goes and sees a girl because he needs or wants it, whatever the need or the want is... If he did not have biases or stigmas about this industry, he would not think this way. This hypocrisy about a human being's fundamental needs - being touched, being caressed, enjoying sex, or simply enjoying a lady's company without involving sex - seen as something shameful is one of the big lies that society loves to maintain. This is why C-36 is so pernicious, as it mixes judgments, morals and values from one political party to impose it on a whole society. A violent and insulting disaster that helps to create more biases and stigmas. Another irritant is when potential clients try to negotiate the donations for our time. Negotiating them is a no no, and some people do not realize/understand how insulting this is to discuss this. It is an industry, not a meat market...

Made it to KW, this respite place is clean and comfortable. I am the youngest male here, but there are four women in their forties. One across the hall is not hooked up to anything or anyone I think and wears short shorts where her butt shows, and nice white tops with no bra. Thinking, while I can, that I may need to join her for a drink tonite and determine if my tongue likes the new environment! No camel toes to report on yet Great pain killers Peace

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I can think of only one thing that I like to do and haven't yet..... and it's damn sexy. One day I'd like to fall madly in love.

I've done that one too !! My GF invited me over for lunch. I arrived the door opened there she was topless, black and white apron on and high heels.. The view from behind was wonderful. We got to the kitchen she was at the stove I decided to massage her bum and chest. Next thing I new she was on the counter legs spread. I decided to have dessert first then from behind. Then we had lunch.. It was a great lunch never forget that one.. Additional Comments: My bucket list. I would like to go to a nude beach with 2 ladies lay tanning swimming and then you know what.. I have never been tied up and let a Lady have her way with me I'd like to do that. Hands and feet to the posts.. I would like to spend time with 3 Ladies and me doing the things we all Love... Good luck with these but they would be nice bucket list to have..

you should!! I've done that and it was so much fun, food and sex, mystery and playfulness go together so well:)

Surprising my date with a sexy dinner at home. Wearing nothing but an apron and stilettos, cooking a warm and hardy dish! Of course when checking in the oven to see my dish sizzling, I would bend over in that special way that women do! And then desert....well that is another story all together!

Nothing. What you and your/ his/her/each other does within their time is up to one another, and should be clarified between one another. What might be wrong is discussing it now, openly:)

Maritimers rock!

Advertising has only changed in the services offered. Many now, in light of the new laws, now only offer time rather than any activities offered. Yes, there are a good many( the ones who reply with explicit talk ) who simply do not care or do not understand. Even after I politely suggest that they are breaking laws by asking for that service, they still come back with " well anyways will you do blank?" Now keep in mind YOU as a business owner is not breaking laws by saying yes, but I as many others here would rather not have our Gent's criminal in anyway. Lyla's regulations will not allow you to sell those types of services as the site wants to remain legal, ( as per 3rd party involvement ) For your piece of mind, always ask them to voice call you from the same number they txt you from. Never book threw email only, as a voice call will usually expel the fishers and unwanted types. I have a 3-4 txt method, if you still have questions you must voice call from a real number that I can confirm is real, such as a call back method or reverse look up. You may also want to add to your ad, that NO EXPLIT TALK is welcomed nor encouraged, and this could terminate any future engagements. (Like a disclaimer. ) A web site is great to have. I find it cuts out a lot of unnecessary back and forth txt. List your services for time spent, add a good variety of photos and your booking protocols. So you can always just say " pleaser refer to my site for all your questions, also pictures for you to enjoy" Best of luck! P.S. Hang in there and the bothersome ones will eventually move on. The great thing is if we all stick together on this, these less desirable enquiries will eventually learn they are not getting the ladies they were hoping to meet unless they change their approach.

Just felt a need to share this. This song is so beautiful, and for anyone feeling down and just needs a reason to feel hope again! Love these 2 singing in harmony! http://fb-4.sfglobe.com/2015/01/23/talented-siblings-sing-heroin-a-beautiful-duet/?src=share_fb_new_33085

Reading in the paper a Halifax mission that makes daily meals for the hungry won $100,000 to build a better more efficient kitchen. That rocks!

I firstly try to make the Lady I'm with comfortable and me too. I take my time I treat the Lady well first I try to look after her/their needs first, especially if I've been with the Lady before.. Not all Ladies are the same.. I don't ask the Lady "did you last the hour" or did you, you know what.. I know it will happen for me I never worry...

Melissa in the title and Melanie in the body of the ad. Honestly, If there's any doubt whatsoever- or something seems even a little off- completely write the interest off and move on. It's not worth it. It's the only way to "play", in my opinion. Granted, there can be legitimate reasons for anything, but there's little room for "benefit-of-the-doubt" in this business...that goes for both us and the lady. My two cents. :)

I've had gents drive from the city to see me in paradise. A day on the water, hot sun, cool drinks, bbq.... I've even tucked some into bed rather than let them drive all the way home. ;)

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The storm-nothing better than to spend the day with friends, nobody's working today:) board games, movies and wine:)

I can't help but wanna share. I've always wanted to: - Have a 3-way with 2 hot ladies. It'd also be cool 2 wake up with both of them the next morning :) - Give a gal a pearl necklace - HAve sex on an office desk

Very generous of you to say, why not post a proper reco for her in that section. I'm sure she'd appreciate it as would other gents. I'm sure I'll be told I'm being nosy or something for writing this but there is a proper place here for such accolades:)

When seeing an escort/companion you are paying her for her time, not to play with juicemen or to have stamina tested. I just wanted to clarify.

Okay boys lets not get too side tracked and start getting on the government to much. You can go on about that stuff and the back and for will be like a world championship ping pong match. I don't think any of the parties or leaders are better suited than the other these days. My reason for participating on this thread is that I do believe that we are to a large degree seeing some real tangible savings that will show up in our pockets due to the decline in the price of oil. Of course anyone that is directly affected by the price drop will beg to differ. Personally I believe that my savings are a couple of hundred a month between gas at the pump and heating oil. Depending on how long that keeps up its a pretty nice amount of money to be putting in my pocket. Put that together with the lowest interest rates we have ever seen post WW2 and we should be a little more optimistic. All that may change if the economy goes for a dump because of the price of oil but for now, so far so good. This is a dynamic situation that will evolve and keep us guessing. As for the future price of a barrel I think that $60 -70 may be the highest we see for a couple of years from all the news I have heard. Any other guesses?

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I will be honest with you, YES, there are still many stigmas attached to both sides of this industry which is why most people are very discerning about who they tell about either being a client or an SP. There are still so many people who have no idea about this industry or who is involved in it making judgements every day based on what they were told or past stigmas. much of that isn't true but there are some minds you can't change. I will say this, there is NOTHING wrong with wanting to indulge in this industry for whatever reason. It has been proven that sex is a need and is one of the things the human brain craves along with water, sleep and food. Everyone has a different reason for being here and all are legitimate and worthwhile. This is why CERB is such a great place because all the stigmas are left to those outside and we are a like minded community supporting one another in the pursuit of whatever we need. SP's support clients just as clients support SP's...they also support one another client to client and SP to SP. Within this industry, you are free to explore and enjoy without stigma. Outside the industry there are still many stigmas that many work daily to alter, fix or change, promoting sex worker and client rights, liberties and safeties. If you are concerned about stigmas, indulge carefully, wisely and be discreet. This is your choice therefore it is good for you. Share it with those who will also see it that way not with those who will judge you....unless of course you want to pick up the gauntlet for the industry. Good luck!

http://winnipeg.backpage.com/FemaleEscorts/naughty-girl-next-door-sweet-tiny-sexy-curves-available-now/2155815 Other people have said good things about her, so i decided to meet her. Set up an appt. She gives me a Location. When i get there, she stops replying and is no where to be found. Sigh.

miracle of miracle my daughter made baked noodles and cheese. I ate it and it was not to bad this time lol

It's probably because of the cold he came into your house...don't worry there are places on a house that small animals like a mouse can crawl into. He came in once, he'll be in again I've had friends say this winter they've seen small animals like mice in their homes, never seen them before On a pleasant note, in repayment for your warmth and hospitality he'll likely crawl under the covers with you when you go to bed at night...be forewarned though...squirrels aren't the only animals who like nuts :-) RG

Additional Comments: I came across this ad in the 'free' section of kijiji. lol! 'SNOW FOR FREE I have snow to give away ABSOLUTELY FREE. but it must be kept at a temperature below 0 must be picked up no delivery available'

Ooh how I wish;)OOO that's the only multiple O's I've had:( I guess some are capable and some aren't

This is the massage forum. Have you considered the escorts forum discussion? When someone books a massage session with me, it is different then when they book an escort session with me.

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When my little neice called me just as she learnt to say I love you.

you guys stay safe and warm out there!!

I get what you're saying, but both of my parents grew up when they had to pay for their healthcare, and they did. And who cares about pensions and retirement? Many people who retire experience a decline in mental and physical health. On the other hand, my grandfather died of a heart attack at 55, ha ha! Okay, so I'm not talking about no government, but hey, do we really need so much freakin' bureaucracy? I know it's a touchy subject on the board right now, but my grandmother died many years later of cancer, and our "free" healthcare made her suffer long and horribly; I don't have to wonder, I know that to have died naturally would have been much better for her.

Being from West Ottawa I have traveled to Orleans and would again. The furthest I would travel to see a lady would be Kingston. Timing would have to be right would be at least a 5 hour round trip for a hour.

Like any good, ancient, enduring book (AHEM!), just a creation of somebody with a good imagination and too much time on their hands.

I'm sorry you are having this experience. I've noticed the opposite effect. I shut them down the moment they cross the line. So maybe because I have zero tolerance for crude behavior is why I've noticed a drop in these types of behaviours. I have a one strike policy. I do reply along the lines of "are you aware of the changes in the law?" This typically changes their attitude quickly. If they continue, I ignore them and if necessary, I block them. There will always be those that want more pictures. Depending on my mood, I either send them an already published picture or direct them to where my pictures are. I don't give more then I'm comfortable sharing. Hope this helps.

I have had a beard but I didn't particularly like the way it looked or felt. I shave my head now so a beard might look like I was trying to compensate. I shave below before encounters. I'm not particularly hung up on the hairy/clean-shaven thing, I just think it is easier for my companion to see that I am committed to hygiene and to tell that I am not trying to hide anything.

http://www.cowboysdiary.info/wordpress/?s=arabic She's the 2nd one on the list. Red flag, thus a no go.

My dear sweet Tom, I've been coming to this thread since you posted and I just couldn't write a word, I did attempt to numerous times. From our message last night, I'm sure you know why and hopefully understand. When your message came through last night my heart just sank and I felt like the wind was knocked out of me, I knew that message would come but I was no way ready or prepared for it. It is true we never got the opportunity to meet but it sure doesn't seem like that. You are my friend and I will deeply miss you, the sweet messages you send, the posts on my guestbook, your presence on the board and most of all you always know when I need to smile and I never had to say a thing but you knew. I will and do have friends that have many of your qualities but they're not you and you have a very special place in my heart forever. I don't like this wave of emotions I'm having, feeling vulnerable, upset, mad, confused, frustrated, sad and also relieved that my friend will not be suffering when that time comes. You're still here for now and when the time comes, it will never be good bye my friend, it will be see you later. You my sweet friend Tom are and will always remain in my heart, thoughts and prayers. All my love, Lexy

And I see she is doing duos with somebody right now (Porscha maybe). Jump right in to the deep end!

Fun thread thought it should be added to- Sexy things I want to try before I die double penetration an orgy maybe going to a swingers party eating and having sex at the same time eating cake off a mans body fulfilling that fantasy a gentlemen friend promised:) Hmm, I'm surprised I haven't done these things yet!

Another aspect of this to be considered is that once the magazine is loaded and fired, it can never again be reloaded. The threat of outing is far more intimidating than the actual naming of names. For the multitudes that could be named, only a percentage will catch a bullet and the rest will breath a sign of relief, the threat will be pretty much over. It will be big new once and only once; subsequent outings will be observed but will have the "already been there, did that" reaction in the public eye. This could only be done once or twice, then it would lose it's power. Our politicians are not rock stars, most people can't even name their MPs let alone recognize them on the street. The names would have to be so high up and relevant to todays government that the public immediately know who they are. I know who is in my blackbook, some are genuine power brokers in this country but Joe Public wouldn't know them at all. A few of them are elected officials, others are long term bureaucrats. None of these men would be recognized be anyone outside of the people who work on the Hill. The journalists would have a hay day researching these mens lives and terrorizing (I believe journalists are our homegrown terrorists!) the outed's loved ones gathering enough information to flesh out their characters to even make the public care enough to follow the story. By outing clients, the only winners are the media, everyone else loses... cat

I don't know if you'll get the "honest" answer you are looking for Because, in my opinion, we are opposite sides of the same coin, and thus are, or should be stigma free in this mutually beneficial community Anyone stigmatized by another, be it a lady stigmatizing her client, one she agreed to see, or a client stigmatizing a companion, one he contacted to see first needs to take a good look in the mirror. No one here is in a position to judge anyone for being here, and as for stigma, if a SP or Client believes someone else deserves to be stigmatized for being here, he/she, and everyone deserves the same stigma And an SP publically stigmatizing clients/potential clients also may find she no longer has clients In short, people living in glass houses don't throw stones A rambling RG