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I will NOT answer explicit messages from other members. Understand that it is illegal to do sp and I know the rules and follow them. Should there be something more nefarious going on here with someone expecting me to answer to that to bait me then they're wrong! Explicit messages will not be answered so a friendly reminder to not waste your time. Thanks! Posted via Mobile Device

Yesterday was a very sad day for our family. Our dog, or specifically my daughter's dog which was 12 years old and had been my daughter's faithful companion passed away. He was a great faithful dog that wouldn't hurt a flea. We've had many animals at home during the 20 years. At times we had a mini zoo at home. He's had cat's, rabbits and snakes put on him. And he was kind of them all. The last couple of month's had been rough, as he was having troubles walking and had to be lifted up so that he could limp outside to go for a pee. But the last couple months, he had to go outside every 2 hours for a pee :(. I think his kidneys had been failing. My daughter had recently moved out and he was faithfully waiting each day at the front door to wait for her. She did come home every couple of days for dinner and to see him. He was happy each time he saw her. But my daughter was sad as she could see that he was getting worst each day. She is an animal fanatic and loved her dog very much. It was her that suggested that maybe it was time for him to be put to sleep. She was in tears when she said this, but she didn't want him to suffer. She has been coming home each night to spend time with him and to sleep in the family room with him each night, She woke up 3 to 4 times each night to let him out. Last night she felt he was going soon, and bought him a Mac Donald's burger and fries. When we got home he was lying on his side panting. But when he saw the burger and fries, he perked up and gobbled down his meal. Soon afterwards he lied down on his side and starting convulsing and breathing hard and his eye's were rolling back. We thought that he was going to pass soon. The family and her best friend sat with him for several hours, petting and talking too him. We then decided to call a vet that does home visit's to put him to sleep. We did not want to suffer more. We found a vet that could come within 30 minutes. While waiting we surrounded him with love and kept petting him. When the vet arrive. She apologized for being late. She was nice french woman that is serious about her job. She was very caring and compassionate. She kept us informed as to his health status and kept reinforcing to my daughter that she was doing the right thing. His kidneys had failed and he was dying and could be in this conditions for hours before he passed. We told her to put him to sleep. She explained to us what would happen at each state and asked for permission to go ahead. She told us to keep petting him and talking to him as she prepared the needles. First injection was to put him to sleep and relax him. This would take about 15 minutes she said. Meanwhile my daughter is crying and telling her dog that it was okay for him to go, and that he was a good dog. We were all crying as we sat around him. And we were telling stories about him as a puppy. the vet said that it was good that we did not bring him to a vet hospital as it is stressful for the dogs, as they get stressed going to the vet as they have memories about previous visit's to the vet. It is too clinical and cold. It is better for him to pass at his home with his loved ones around him. After 15 minutes, he was sleeping, she administered the final injection that would stop his heart, this would take about 30 seconds. After 30 seconds he stopped breathing and looked at peace. My daughter then cried for a while. The vet was very soothing and tried to comfort my daughter. After giving us time to say goodbye to our loyal family member. We wrapped his body in his favourite blanket and she promised that she would respect the body and bring it home with her until the people came tomorrow to take the body for cremation. She said that would bring back his ashes when they were ready. I was very much impressed with the vet's attention to detail and how compassionate and understanding she was. There was no rush and she kept us informed at all times at what to expect. She even gave us each a big hug before she left. This at home visit was the best way for us to say goodbye to our loving pet. He passed away with his family and friends around him. Our other dog laid on his body after he passed, I think she knew what happen and was looking for him today. He is at peace now and his memory will stay with us forever. My daughter is now compiling all her pictures of him and making a digital album. Just wanted to share this experience with you and if you have to say bye to your pet a at home visit from one of these loving vet's is a great way to do so. May he Rest in Peace :)

I love what I do and have trouble calling it "a job". I only started 6 months ago, and had the chance to be "mentored" by two wonderful professional independent ladies (thank you again my friends). I feel so lucky to have met them exactly at the moment I needed them. I quit two part-time jobs to get into this activity because I needed to experience something else, but also because I was - and am - totally reviewing my vision of life, in general. Let's call it a "big review". This is for sure one of the best decisions I have taken in my life, and absolutely do not regret it. There is way more companionship and psychology involved in doing this, than it is about the "adult games". The real intimacy is this, being human with someone, exchanging with someone. What a gift to give and to receive. And sometimes, it can even become a luxury, because our lives are so stressful, complicated, painful etc... I shared some time with a gentleman a few days ago who just wanted to talk for hours. Just talking and sweetness. This is what he truly needed and wanted. It is moving to think that by just being me and listening to him, offering some sweetness, I helped him a lot. I think that this is one of the best jobs in the world. I also think that people who do not get this job do not get a big part of what being human is. And this is so sad.

Dear regular clients, during this difficult political time and dark winter period: You are appreciated, you are wonderful, you are loved. As much as we are separated by professional barriers, as much as we are not allowed to spend time together, as much as we are both brave enough to defy social norms, you are wonderful. Thanks for sticking by us, thanks for not giving up on the whole deal, and thanks for helping me through an arid winter. We need you as you need us. Thank you.

Hold on there my friend, don't be counting the camels before the elephants come home with chickens....or what ever the saying is. Push for your results, daily . Start investigating options immediately. Start the conversations. Stay positive, have a drink, get laid. Good luck Tom Theliquor

I'm naming two- Nicolette- because I find her to be respectful to all, thoughtful, gives very good advice and radiates sincerity, kindness, femininity and beauty. Emily J- can they get any cuter! She is resourceful, intelligent and a very giving member to this community and profession. We are all lucky to have her. She has always been forthright with me, kind, genuine and thoughtful. Thank you Emily for being you.

Losing a family pet is never easy but they become such a significant part of each day in your family life that they become just like another member of the family. It's amazing how much joy they can bring us with their truly unconditional love. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I'm sorry to say in the short time I have ventured out looking for a regular down in my area that I have not been sucsessful yet. I'm forced for a few months to sit and heal but will not let the slow winter months ever get in my way of my search for my atf. No law or winter storm will stop me from supporting the women who give 110% at what they do. Were all people, and we all need love and compassion. Were here for each other. We stand together and we play together, and we support each other. We must continue to fight together also...fight the govorment to allow us to do what we do in a safer more secure enviorment. I will not stop supporting the wonderful ladies and gentlemen who make up this great board. Additional Comments: I'm sorry to say in the short time I have ventured out looking for a regular down in my area that I have not been sucsessful yet. I'm forced for a few months to sit and heal but will not let the slow winter months ever get in my way of my search for my atf. No law or winter storm will stop me from supporting the women who give 110% at what they do. Were all people, and we all need love and compassion. Were here for each other. We stand together and we play together, and we support each other. We must continue to fight together also...fight the govorment to allow us to do what we do in a safer more secure enviorment. I will not stop supporting the wonderful ladies and gentlemen who make up this great board.

It's unfortunate that this business is so one-sided. We put alot of pressure on the men to be perfect. I'm sure if the situation were reversed, female clients would exhibit bad behaviour too. Overall, the great guys FAR outweigh the crappy guys. If someone frustrates you so much, perhaps write them an email? I've found (and matured) over the years that if you let nothing in this business frustrate you for more than 30 seconds, you're golden, and more open to the good guys out there.

Hi nntsci: I do not do business with escort agencies at all, but I would think it should be business as usual and they are just trying to avoid problems advertising sexual services. IMLO, they will not get busted any more now than in the past. Nothing will change. In fact, the agency is doing you a favour. The only time you'd get into trouble is if you meet an undercover police officer. So as long as the agency is reputable, I think you are safe. The fact remains that everyone involved should simply go with the idea that they are buying, or making a donation for, time and companionship. Chatting and smiling. Laughing and discussing world issues. And if the lady decides she is willing to go beyond that (surely because you are soooo cute and she likes you so much), then that is something between consenting adults. I am not saying anything you haven't already heard. I just wouldn't be alarmed by the changes to websites. I get that it sucks for those of you that like the nude pictures and a set menu in advance, like in the old days. But we must evolve as a species and nature will find a way, n'est-ce pas?

I joined CMJ this week and had a massage with the lovely Kelly. It was spectacular. Any recommendations on who I should see next? :) I'm thinking Courtney followed by Joanna.

Hi Cerbie Some new girls have asked me my opinion on what kind of ad's get my attention and keep my attention. For me, it is a catchy title. The start of a riddle. The first part of a teasing sentence that makes need to click the ad to see the rest of the ad, or the answer to the joke or riddle :) But once in the ad, the use of colour fonts can be eye catching, but beware some colours such as yellow and lime green are hard on the eyes to read. Once the Ad is opened, sexy beautiful pictures will gain my attention, if I like the pictures, I will then read the ad, How the ad is written will depends on whether I will read more. Some Ad's are well written, with quotes and thoughts, other's are funny. The short simple one sentence ad's won't keep my attention. The ad should contain a good detailed information on the woman, as her height, weight, age and measurements. and the rates and contact info. I know some of websites, but a lot of us use smart phones, and don't like having click to see more pages on the little screen. What catches your attention in an Ad?

Well what can I say - I've visited numerous ladies over my time and must say Carrie is one of the best - she truly enjoys herself which is very evident during our visits. I won't go into details but I assure you - treat this lady right and you'll have the time of your life. Can't wait till our next visit. I'm a regular now!!!

Courtney, Zara and Myla have lovely voluptuous breasts at Club Madellyn Jae. I can't help but stare in awe, though I personally appreciate smaller breasts too. The truth is, I'm an ass girl ;)

I miss writing my ads like I used to -(had to edit because the word I wanted to use was changed):( my mind is dirtier than it is creative perhaps. I especially miss the ad I used to post about a p---s inspection time:) I enjoy the ads Miss Emily j writes, her titles are fun, clever and attention getting. She is someone to be admired when it comes to all aspects of this business though:)

So sorry for you, your daughter and family's loss. You were very thoughtful to have someone come by. I can certainly relate, I like your daughter, am what some would consider an animal fanatic. I have two senior dogs which I adore and the thought of losing them is really beyond my comprehension, yet a reality, I too will have to face one day. Thank you for sharing your experience.

Someguy, Aww I'm really sorry to hear about your family dog passing away. He knows he lived a good life with you and that's the most important and he passed in dignity surrounded with those who loved him. Having been there twice, once having my cat die in my arms and then having to put down his brother exactly 2 years later at the vet, I feel your pain and sorrow. It never is easy but he did live a good life with you and your family. They are never truly gone tho. He will always be near you. You may begin to sense him around the house and interesting things may happen. My cat used to jump on the kitchen table and knock things over. About a year after he was gone, a plate fell off the table but didn't break. I believe it was him then again I experience a lot of paranormal activity all the time. The pain never truly goes away. These pets always provide unconditional love and become like another family member. I miss my pets everyday and cry sometimes when thinking about them but they often visit me in my dreams and that makes me feel better. Many hugs to you Someguy! xo

loosing a dog/cat is heartbreaking. Sorry for your loss. But talk about timming with this one.....my kids rabit died on easter....wtf!! Sorry kids the easter bunny is dead. After a little cry we did laugh a little.

I've got quite a few women that I have repeated regularly with and I will continue to see these as the chemistry and connection with them is extremely good. We are at a point where it is good to see each other and catch up with each other's life. Since I've seen them each many times now. The comfort level is good and we know what each other likes and dislikes. Each time get's better. However I keep meeting new women that I would like to get to know better also. I'm doing the best to help support the industry :) But only so much time and money :) But if everyone did your bit, it all add's up :)

This really made me cry, and brought back memories. I'm very sorry for your loss, it really is like losing a member of your family :( I recently had my 12 year old dog pass away as well. We got him when he was a puppy and I was quite young too. I raised him mainly by myself, since my parents at the time traveled a lot. He was my buddy and I loved him to bits. I didn't see him much when I moved out on my own, but about 2 years ago my dad decided to move into his new girlfriend's small condo, and they couldn't take the dog, so I brought him to stay with me. He was starting to get very sick and old by then, since Dobermans tend to have a lot of health issues. It was very rough watching him get older, but I took care of him as best as I could. A month before I planned to move to Montreal, the vet told us he had cancer, and it would only be more and more painful for him. My dad scheduled the time to put him to sleep, but it was the day after I was supposed to move. I spent the whole night before cuddling with him, and brought him Timbits(his favourite) but I didn't get to be there for his final moments, which breaks my heart. I was never much of a dog person, but I loved him so much, and miss having my bud around. Pets really do make your life better with their loyal companionship and love! Posted via Mobile Device

Yeah... it's heartbreaking. For anyone who feels like reading, here's a very good series of blogposts on the subject. They're well worth your time.

This is so sad. I'm teary eyed reading about it. I have not yet had to deal with the loss of a pet as an adult. Growing up, my parents always shielded us from the heartache. I dread the day I have to face this reality. I've had my cat for 11 years now, and when his time comes I will be crushed and not handle it well. I love the idea of a vet coming to the home and I'm in awe of how you described the professionalism and compassion that your vet had.

I'm fairly new to this, and I am loving every moment! I have always had a large sexual appetite and it just made sense for me to get involved. It is way better than I ever imagined! And it's you gents that make it so wonderful. Someguy - Although I completely agree that we (I) get immense satisfaction out of making others (you) happy, there is also the added bonus of getting satisfied in other ways ;-). I couldn't imagine a better 'job' where every time you see someone you walk away with a sense of euphoria. It's magical.

As has probably been said before, there are some cities that will not enforce especially situations (like agencies) that have stuck with the time/companionship legal clause disclaimer so that the courts can't pin anything on them. there are some cities that want to enforce the new laws, but the new laws they will enforce are just reworded old laws, meaning only interested in the street workers, so now it means only interested in the street worker clients. As for agencies, just because you enjoyed their very detailed online ads and websites for the past few years, doesn't mean that at any time or in any way was that actually legal. It has never been legal for any agency to 'procure' for clients, that is why in the past no information was ever given to clients by ads, websites, phone calls or emails, no booker would ever tell you what the escort's menu was. Everyone knew you book an agency, you discuss face to face and hope for the best. The concept of full lists and pricing and menus that was illegal before, so no real difference. The agencies that make a big deal out of making the changes just seemed clueless about the laws. There are laws that get enforced, and those that do not. Just because they weren't being enforced, doesn't mean that it ever was legal for agencies or mps for that matter to tell you the client what she the attendant/escort would provide and for how much. So basically, you will have to deal with it and live with it. I think you can be assured that behind closed doors and face to face the agency is still going to hire people who provide the same types of services as they always hired before, and that if you are unsatisfied with someone who arrives, that they will see it right. Even if neither of you can be that specific about what you missed out on or what they can promise.

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... which rounds down to nothing. Probably no replies as no one really knows. Many LE agencies have already indicated they've little interest in enforcing the new law and the changes made by the agencies listed above make them unattractive targets for a successful prosecution. They certainly aren't low hanging fruit. Despite this draconian, politically motivated (it simply appeals to their political base - albeit in a rather ignorant fashion) legislation we in Canada are fortunate. LE aren't directed by the dictatorial Harper/MacKay/Smith crew and they do have public oversight of their actions. (Yes, I know there are exceptions and failures in our system, but on balance....). Harper brings LE into his cabinet before sicking them on innocent citizens - think Julian Fantino. The longer the new law is kept from the courts the longer it will last on the books. Despite the fact I've suggested that LE successfully avoids political influence I'm sure that if there is a case brought forward the bullies will hope it involves some dumb fcuk and a street-involved/trafficked/drug addicted/underaged/victimized/pimped sex worker. This is the scenario they wish to hoodwink the public with. They'll go on to claim that only the new law addresses that circumstance. Of course the truth is we already had laws to address those problems and the new law simply makes it more dangerous for those sex workers and inconvenient for the vast majority who are not in that type of situation. I don't think the agencies will get charged anytime soon. Okay, maybe I'll round the value of my opinion up to a plugged nickel!

I saw Kay's ad on BP showcasing photos of her mouthwatering rack and stating that she was a 36 F cup. I absolutely had to see this glory in person. It was verymuch worth it. As a big boob fan this really was all 12 days of Christmas rolled into one (or well, two, boobs that is). I found her easy to communicate through text and the location was a hotel very near to where I live. When we met, I found her to be a friendly person. She was quite talkative and easygoing in conversation. She also advertised that she has a mouth that won't quit, and that fortunately turned out to be true as well. For the most part, I took the lead with her, which was fine.

You are very welcome Cara, I feel like us regular clients should be humble and gracious in saying thanks to all of you lovely ladies who continue to strive to make our days!

A regular client is just one half of a great relationship between two people who have found a connection on some level that works for both of them. During this current legal environment that we all find ourselves in I am sure that most of the ladies in this business very much appreciate the regular clients who come to see them but in my opinion us regular clients are even more grateful for these regular repeat engagements with the amazing ladies we see because it is dramatically reducing the risk for us and allowing us to continue in a hobby that we enjoy so very much. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Like! We are in this together. Peace MG

I enjoy classy, warm, well written ads that reflect femininity, a joy of life, sense of humour and intelligence with a touch of confidence and humility. Attention to photos and the photo backgrounds is always appreciated.

Very catchy original unique ad titles...they draw the reader to the ad They set the tone for the rest of the ad and tell the reader who is the lady writing Some are so unique the title is almost synonymous with the lady's name...you can just see the ad title and know without looking any further who wrote it A lady's writings should reflect who she is And when the lady includes a photo from her album in her ad post that just adds (pardon the pun) to the ad A rambling RG

I think we all need to take a shower now! :oops:

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I'm sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain that you are feeling as I never had that happen to me, and definitely don't know what I would do if I lost my little girl.

I found a picture earlier today from 2010 where I was actually wearing red underwear in front of the Christmas tree and I was a brunette. I will have to post it in my albums as a throwback pic. lol.

I like ads that kind of give you a glimpse of who the girl is. You can see if she is funny, super classy and elite or even if she is a good girl gone bad;). Those are the ones that I enjoy most.

My understanding from the thread on this was that we took a hit when the bill became law, but that people - both clients and ladies - are slowly coming back. A short-term hit was probably inevitable; if the current lack of enforcement continues then I'd expect the long-term effect on board participation to be zero. Also: that's just this board. I have no clue about any others.

I don't even wonder anymore why some men or anyone for that matter as to why they do what they do. Especially in this business. If I constantly wondered, I'd go crazy. I don't even believe in really wanting to know "why" because it doesn't affect me. And I don't let it get to the point where it will affect me. Call me ignorant I guess. I'm living in my own little world. lol. I look at it this way, if someone says for example they're going to call and they don't, I don't bother. Their loss. I was no showed recently and was expecting a confirmation call and didn't get it so I rolled over and went back to sleep. Because I couldn't give a s**t, another client was calling me an hour later anyways and we had a great time. My feeling was it wasn't going to happen anyways. I'm very good with my sixth sense that way. No flies off my back because people are responsible for themselves. I wasn't getting ready anyways until I heard from them an hour before so who cares. I'm responsible for myself and if someone doesn't do something, that's their problem. The universe provides me with other clients who want to come see me. I can't even be bothered to get mad or upset at why people do things. I never count on clients until they have met me behind closed doors and all is well. Life happens and I can only depend on myself. Doing so, serves me well. Becoming ornery about it for me is just a waste of time. I've learned to focus my attention elsewhere. Never expect a person to meet your expectations. They never will in most cases or how one envisions it. If people want to be fools and say and do things and don't rise to the occasion, let them be. It's no reflection on the other person they say it to. It's within themselves. Sorry if this didn't answer your question Christy but I thought I'd give my nickel's worth on the subject. We never fully understand other people's reasoning for what they do and for me personally, I don't even want to understand why. Like Il Re, "Who gives a shit" has changed my outlook on a lot of things like why people behave the way they do. I live in more of a state of ignorant bliss where I'm happy and happy with myself. It's their problem, not yours.

Could these questions be put in this thread...http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=176753 I find that the more ranting about 'guys' in this business, they tend to ignore those that keep piling on about 'guys' and what they do incorrectly. Those other 'guys' (I like to call them gentlemen) continue to behave the way they are suppose too, and rarely do we see,read great comments about the WAY we are suppose to act in a thread, but to each their own.I'm not looking for kudo's, I'm saying these threads only stir negativity all the time within the business. It IS part of the business, has been for a great many years,behaviors do not change, where you have the tire kickers,no shows, and those other 'guys' see these threads who unfortunately get lumped into these threads,probably,possibly, are like myself, find it very tiresome at times, although it IS part of business. My nickel on this.

Watched Selma I'd say a very good movie. Very sad how people treated others then.

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The lady who I would like to nominate today is Miss Carley Chase, us Cerb gents here on the Island are very fortunate to have such a special and simply amazing neighbour.

What interest me to read is what the title says, example: "Look at my new pictures", "You should see my sexy bum", "Swallow", "I need you cum", "I want you in me", etc... I will tend to look at an ad if the lady is from my area, but I will also read it if I like reading her replies to any post on Cerb. Keep writing sexy titles and I will keep reading them.

Ahhh, the ?tipping? debate! I noticed there was a decided void in SP response so I will take a minute to share my thoughts? From an agency girl perspective, tipping is often a way to generate extra income because after they pay the agency and the driver, they usually end up on the short end of the stick. 10 years ago, I ran for an agency, we collected $260 for an hour, with $110 going to the house, $40-$100 to the driver depending on where the visit was located, which left me maximum of $110 with as little as $10 in my pocket. With a $15 book on fee and mandatory car cell phone fees of $25 per night, I needed 3 full fees per night to make working worthwhile, God forbid I get credit card calls, which somehow always worked out us getting nothing. We were not allowed to refuse a call so we had to find creative ways to ensure we were paid. Tipping for extra service was the only way to keep our heads above water. The nice thing was that we had a shift, we worked, and we went home and had a life. That said, it was unfair to the guest who would end up with less than what he expected because he was not prepared for the extra fees. Independents are in a slightly different boat. We usually have a higher upfront fee, but we also assume ALL the costs incurred, which is far more than many realize. If we charged what we feel we should to get our ROI, the protests would be heard long and loud. Many Indies have a smaller bottom line than an ambitious girl at a well run agency. So when it comes to tips, many things need to be considered. In the south, SP's are tipped much in the same manner as a restaurant. Anyone walking a restaurant wouldn?t consider walking out without leaving a tip if everything was satisfactory. I tip everyone in the service industry, from the girl who washes my hair, to the man at Suny?s who pumps my gas because a little bit from many adds up at the end of the day. Flowers and trinkets are lovely in thought, but a girl can?t deposit wilted stems into an RRSP, and my bank doesn?t seem to take dildos, massage oil, garter belts or silk stockings on deposit -go figure! As Joyful C has so wisely stated, most SP?s live a fragile existence financially. We provide an illusion of playful luxury for our guests benefit, but rest assured, 90% of the time it is smoke and mirrors. Behind the scenes we struggle to pay our bills, put diapers on our babies and try to take care of those we love, all the while working on a way to get to a normal existence if that does in fact even exist. An extra $20 from each client equals a full appointment by the end of the week, and at the end of the month that pays the cell phone, buys the groceries and lets us take the little ones away for the weekend after we have paid both rents (home and incall), all our advertising, babysitters, hydro, car repairs, personal maintenance and the same expenses everyone else has. Not to mention the monthly payments on augmentation, lifts, tucks and anything else to keep us up to the exceptionally high standards expected if we want to continue making money in this arena. There are few SP?s who can keep up the daily client service to ensure long term financial viability in this business because of the emotional and physical toll this business extracts which sometimes means extended time offs to get our heads, hearts and bodies back in order. We have no paid holidays, benefits or paid personal days. If there is a crisis that forces us to take time off, we lose money and clients which often means we work regardless of illness, pain or any other of lifes challenges. Each SP has her own reasons for working, but the universal element is that we all are trying to achieve some sort of financial stability. I never expect tips, and I can count on one hand how many I have received since my arrival in Canada because of the nature of the business here. Hate to tell you guys, but Canadian men are not known for their generous nature, they rank a close second to Germans in this realm (I think the outlandishly high taxes inflicted in both countries has something to do with it!). I would never expect a tip from guests that have me on retainer, I see them weekly. But unless you are going to be a bankable commodity in a SP?s life, a tip relative to the quality of service is a sure way to say thank you and have her know you mean it... Catherine