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Over the past year, I would say I spent between $4,000-$6,000 per month on ladies if I include tips and gifts. And it can go fast if you count duos trios and quads, and the parties. I'd say that when I am in Ottawa I would see ladies see 2-3 times in a week. That being said, I much prefer quality over quantity. It's just that I am getting more frisky in my dirty thirties. While I do not have a ''budget'' for this part of my life really, I go with the idea that I do not want to dip into my assets, so as to always increase my wealth. The passive revenues I generate would comfortably allow up to 10k a month towards the ladies if I want and continue to increase my net worth without lifting a finger. So for me, time and location are the determining factors driving my spending on the ladies here. That, and I dislike being out in the cold weather (other than skiing). I retired at 31 and gave up the notion of ever having a full-time job again. So I am always on vacation, except for when a special project interests me. That being said, I keep quite busy and am always searching for new experiences. I spent about 10 weeks travelling to other countries and throughout Canada, so I did not spend on the ladies during those weeks, except for foreign strip clubs.

http://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/manitoba/sex-experts-condemn-joy-smith-s-criticism-of-fifty-shades-of-grey-1.2960258

For starters, I suggest you check the recos forum for Kingston http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=150 followed by announcements for travelling ladies and their recos http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=84

http://www.vice.com/read/uk-sex-workers-disabled-people-833 A nice article.

Trying to figure out if there is a seasonal pattern to the way hobbyist spend their money on women. This is my general observance over the years to how I spend my money and probably how others spend also. Jan - A lot less spending, It's after christmas and after all the sales, I have less money to spend and more bills to pay off. Also the UIC and CPP deductions are now being taken off the pay checks again. This can cause the bi-weekly pay cheques to be up to 300 less each pay :(. Plus the cold weather makes it harder to get around at noon. Feb - Still paying the bills and weather is still not good. March- Spring break, holiday spending. and the Tax season coming up. April - Weather is better, Maybe a tax refund coming, Getting hornier :) May spend a bit more depending on cash flow. May - Spring is hear, May have more money to spend. June - Warm weather is hear, but have to spend money on getting the house ready for summer. July - Summer is hear, bbq's may have more money when EI and CPP deductions have stopped. May have up to 300$ more per paycheck till the end of the year. May see more women each month now with the extra money. August - Summer holidays and summer spending. But may see 1 to 2 women while on holidays that I would not normally be able to see during the rest of the year. Sept - back to school expenses if you have kids in school. Oct and Nov - try to see as many women as I can depending on Cash flow. Dec - Still managing to spend some money, but need to spend on Christmas gives and parties. I think my situation is like most other hobbyist? Let's see what your seasonal spending patterns are like. This may explain to the women why times are sometimes slow?

I have told this story here before on CERB in some thread but I will tell it again because it was in fact a first meeting... A few years ago I was meeting a lady for the first time and if I am honest I was pretty nervous... I though I had everything pretty well covered... shower... shaved... card with a donation in it... I was set. But like I said I was nervous so got downtown early went into Starbucks to kill a few minutes and then headed to the hotel... i was about halfway up the street to the hotel when I realize i left the envelope with the card and donation in it on the seat at Starbucks...I rush back and lucky bastard that I am it was still there.... now I am gonna be late so I rush to the hotel. I get to the hotel and am greeted by an amazing lady and we spend a wonderful hour getting to know each other... i think everything went great and left the room on a high. As is my normal practice after meeting a lady I sent this lady a quick text to let her know how delighted I was to meet her and that I looked forward to seeing her again. The lady replied saying she was happy to have met me but apologized that she had forgotten to brush her teeth after having a coffee before I arrived and that perhaps in future we both could remember to do so..... lol... yea this wonderful lady found a very polite way to let me know that I forgot the mouthwash. Well that first meeting with all it's hiccups has resulted in return visits to that wonderful lady and has I think benefited every other lady I see as I now keep toothpaste and mouthwash in my vehicle for use immediately before meeting anyone. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Was it the one on velvet of the dogs playing poker.... that one is a keeper lololol Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

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I found "The Theory of Everything" to be quite astonishing. It's about Professor Stephen Hawking and his wife Jane. There were so many nuances, both emotional and physical, which the actors had to convey in order to bring the humanity of the story alive with sincerity. Not all of it could've been scripted. This is storytelling at its best. Not overacted but, very passionate. In particular the people here at CERB are likely to really appreciate this movie, because SPs and clients understand and work with the passion and pain of being human. Eddie Redmayne, who plays Professor Hawking, is remarkable. We see Hawking before the onset of Lou Gehrig's disease, through the beginning and up to the present-day. There are tiny little changes in his movements which are utterly imperceptible unless you are looking for them. The actor must've worked very hard with Professor Hawking in order to achieve this portrayal. The same can be said for Felicity Jones who plays his wife Jane. Indeed, it is likely that a documentary about the making of this movie would be similarly captivating. It is being quite a while since I've seen a movie like this. Highly recommended. PatrickGC

Confirming my commitment to an American friend regarding a 4-5 week trip we will be taking by truck and camper this August-September to north-east Quebec, Labrador, Newfoundland, Nova Scotia, PEI and NB.

January and February are the best times to hobby because great girls are more available - others are cutting back on spending. Summer too, during vacations.

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Sophia Varoushka! What a class act! I first met her several months ago and since then I have had the pleasure of being with this extraordinary woman on a few occasions. I will deffinately see her again. She is reliable and on time. Each time she visits I wait in anticipation, wondering what exquisite outfit she will wear this time. She is so stylish, knows exactly how to dress to capture her sensuality. Her body moves with such grace and purpose. You can see right away that she has been a trained in dance. Holds her head high, so much integrity. This is a woman that enjoys her work, and she will put you at ease! When I visit with her, she makes me feel like I am the one she wants to be with. Her mind is not somewhere else, all of her attention is on me! As much as she wants to please me, she also wants to be pleased.No faking it here! Sophia is certainly a classic beauty! If you have the chance to meet this one, don't pass her by! She is a remarkable person, so please treat her kindly.

That's her! Thanks! I may go back for a visit. Seriously, absolutely beautiful and fun. Anyone know what shifts she works? Some other great girls there are Talia, and Lynn.

In addition I can tell you from my experience not all ladies want recommendation and I have seen some ladies a number of times but don't post recommendations after every visit. I have to agree with Mia the ad section for the area is usually a good bet in my experience. And just for the record if you are having trouble finding a lady in Kingston don't move somewhere more rural... there are way more amazing ladies traveling through that area then a lot of markets. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

LadiesFirst: we do what we can. :icon_biggrin: My life was not always so. I started off with nothing but bad home memories and being broke-ass. It was not pleasant. It took a lot of hard work, great sacrifices, getting my hands dirty and having a good masterplan to turn things around. And there is always some luck, but no lotto tickets, involved. So now I am making up for lost time... The ''quad'' I was referring to happened at the infamous CMJ. I had already tried a Trifecta (3 girls) at the CMJ Halloween party and decided I should push for more excess and go for a Quadfecta (4 girls) at the CMJ Christmas party. It was loads of fun. I brought some champagne, chocolate dipped strawberries and a can of whipped cream for the girls. Lol. If you're going to go overboard, might as well go big or go home. :icon_lol: It was very enjoyable to try and keep track of where each of these girls were at times, but so much fun. And you have to be comfortable with yourself to have so many eyes on your body. It kind of feels like being at some nudist event or perhaps even being a female stripper. I have to say it made me appreciate those ladies' confidence and guts to be seen naked by several people at once. Maybe next time I can try 5 or 6 at a time. I'm game. I'm all about pushing limits and experiencing new things. And if there's no room to fit them all on the massage table, well they can just sit on my face!!! I also enjoyed the art of the full threesome in Ottawa. But dammit... this always happens: the ladies ravage each other more than me! Don't get me wrong, I love to watch girl-on-girl. Life is so difficult these days... But to go back in the vicinity of this thread, I pose a question out of curiosity as to how many gents here hook up on actual holidays (i.e. Christmas Day, New Year's day, Easter, etc...) and if that impacts the ''budget'' for some.

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I do not mean to make my own publicity here as I work in Kingston, but I find your response a bit odd. Mature Angela gave you good links to make your choice. In the Kingston announcements section you see all the ladies' ads, currently working in Kingston. As for the recommendations, it is not because they have not been written yesterday that they are not valid. And I want also to emphasize on something: it is not because a lady does not have a recommendation that she is not trustworthy or professional. Only a minority of gentlemen wish to write recommendations. I have some trouble to understand what you are looking for exactly.

Chat went down again sometime in the last 12 hours. I think I am getting closer (most certainly running out of things to try)

She's working various shifts at ALO. She moved between the Booth location and Carling location. Check the schedule for details.

Do you exercise? If you don't you should Eat right and exercise. http://www.beerbellyblues.com You don't need the book really. If you can get off meds because you are not seriously sick then you should be able to get your T back in full force.

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Yup it's very good, Jake was great in it.

Vet services. Someone should soon be able to buy a new car, lol! Additional Comments: Ohh, you son of a gun, I'm trying to cut back and seeing this has just made me even hungrier, lol !!

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Birthday Suit time.

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Agreed. Your whole post makes perfect sense. Very well written, with valid points. I will just try to answer your main question though. For most people I think that is enough information. Knowing if something is good or bad, high or low, right or wrong, is enough. I'd say the majority of people fall into this category. And then there are the few people, like me (and Manitoba I assume), who continuously question what these terms mean. High to you, may not be high to me, and vice versa. For anything. Not just this topic. I call myself analytical. I love to formulate my own opinions on things, and I question everything that people tell me (well actually not everything as people tend to hate to be questioned). I love to know why. 'Why' is a question that drives those closest to me bonkers. Haha. It's just the way I am wired.. I think it's very much like the introverted vs extroverted topic. Nothing wrong with either way, just different. Anyways... I do feel like this thread has been hijacked (sorry OP)... If there is any data that people want to add, we should get back to it :-)

...OR AM I ? ;) LET YOUR STRESS MELT AWAY!!!! I PLAN TO MAKE YOU FORGET YOUR WORRIES, BRING A SMILE TO YOUR FACE AND COMFORT YOUR EVERY BEING 1. I am now NEWLY INDEPENDENT! (Companion & Massage) ! 2. New Packages: #1 experience, #2 Experience & #3 Experience, PM, TEXT OR PRIVATE EMAIL (let me know your a Cerbie) me for details hee hee ! ***DISCRETION***I CANT GO INTO TOO MUCH DETAIL OVER THE AD, HOWEVER FEEL FREE TO SEND ME A PM, TEXT OR PRIVATE EMAIL FOR MORE INFO ON RATES, DETAILS FOR MY TIME Looking For A Good Time ? See A Beautiful, Classy & Sweet youthful Lady With Delicious Attributes that consist of: Juicy Round Tits, Firm In All Aspects And Toned Frame!!! I PROMISE AN AMAZINGLY UNIQUE TIME ! I STRIVE to seduce, please, put you at ease...AND give you the ultimate satisfaction guaranteed. I LOVE mutual encounters of friendship and TRUE satisfaction as well as ENTICING conversations & bonding relationships. Hot Schedule For This Week: (Fri. Feb. 13th-Sun. Feb. 16th) is posted below, check it out!. ***Pre-Booking your session is recommended !*** My Appearance: 24 year old, long haired brunette, dazzling sexy hazel eyes, lightly tanned, silky smooth skin, I stand at 5'3, 125lbs with curves in all of the right places, 36C perfect tittys!, gorgeous face features and i am Italian & French of nationality My Personality: Very outgoing, open-minded, playful, seductive, bubbly, sweet, classy, talkative, sexy, caring, intelligent, respectful, honest and discreet WHAT YOU CAN EXPECT IN A UNIQUELY AMAZING EXPERIENCE WITH ME: -Gents please PM/PRIVATE EMAIL, TEXT OR CALL ME FOR MORE INFO & RATES- thank you for your discretion I kindly appreciate it - Fees: (Please ask me) 30mins: 45mins: 60mins: *LONGER SESSIONS AVAILABLE UPON REQUEST (75, 90, 2HR, 3HR, 4HR)* Location: (Monday-Sunday): South-West End Location Clean, discreet, comfortable & upscale. Free parking, fresh towels, nice showers & hygienic products. Hygiene is a MUST ! Schedule For This Week: (Mon. Feb. 16th-Sun. Feb. 22nd): Mon: OFF Tues: OFF Wed: 11am-7pm (south-west end) Thurs: 11am-7pm (") Fri: 12pm-9pm (") Sat: 10am-3pm (") Sun: TBA EMAIL. PM. CALL. TEXT: For more info or to book your ADDICTIVE session ! 613-600-3943 (Call/Text Preferred) Email: [email protected] Personal Website: http://taylordevine.massagefiles.com/ RECOMMENDATIONS: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=155684 CIAO FOR NOW!, CRAVE TAYLOR BOYS! XOXO MUAHS!

during the day shift jenny is normally in. She's one of my favourites during my lunch break

I be kind of careful as two of her photos are fake

When having any discussion, the fairest thing to do is try to understand the spirit of what a person is saying or asking...not focus on a side sentence or skew things. I'm not sure why we can't see that the spirit of what the OP is asking is whether anyone knows what the numerical chance is of catching a given STI, and why--on a discussion board that likes to pride itself on its friendliness--we want to give someone such a hard time for asking a question or even in some cases act like it's offensive to have done so. Now, it may very well be those numbers don't reliably exist, in which case that is a fair response. But to just say he should do his own research or that we are not professionals seems...unfair. I mean, is it so unrealistic to think some people on this board may have talked with professionals or come across some useful numbers? People ask questions on this site all the time about topics we aren't professionals on, and often someone is able to point to information. I mean, we all know there is a risk to sex. And we all know that the only way to be 100% safe is abstinence. But why is it seemingly wrong to want to knows the odds of the risk? I mean, I could say there is "100%" risk in me driving because there's always a chance I'd get into an accident. But I know the risk is small enough that, given the benefits of driving, I'm willing to do so. And though some places have more accidents than others, and even though it certainly only takes driving once to get in an accident, there is easily accessible data out there to tell me the odds and help me make an informed decision. Simply saying there's risk in terms of something bad could happen doesn't really help a person decide how to act. Whether I carefully walk across a sidewalk or jump into the middle of a highway at night wearing dark clothes, I have a chance of being hit by a truck. But since I have a good idea of the odds of an accident happening with each, I'm able to decide that I'm willing to risk the one but not the other. If I can buy a lottery ticket for one draw where I have a 1 in 10 chance of winning or a different draw where I have a 1 in a billion chance of winning, knowing the odds helps me decide if I want to spend any cash buying a ticket. Yes, I could win either way but are we really going to pretend that knowing the odds isn't useful in making a decision? All aspects of life are like this. In all things we decide whether something is too risky for ourselves or not. Wanting to know the degree of risk or chances of something happening isn't an unreasonable desire. Now, whether those numbers reliably exist for STI's...well, isn't that a discussion worth having?

Like my pickle?

today is my daughters 17th birthday. We had a quiet evening just ourselves. She is such a good daughter and I am so proud of her

C'mon my way...

Lol... well LadiesFirst all I can say is you need a better Idol lol Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

ice4fun i am not going to lie, little bit jealous. At the same time though that statement kind of makes you my idol.

I think women who have been in business for a while are smart enough to figure out when are the slow times and why, without the need for a detailed monthly budget from all the men on this site!

Back into the hobby after years off and the drout at home has me out and looking. So thus far it has been one in october - total cost - over 300 for a one hour visit. Next was late november - total cost - over 300 again for a 1.5 hr visit December then had me low on cash but bounced back quick and then in mid january had a 2.5 hr visit that cost total (no room fee) over 400$. I'm forced to take off feb but am hoping to get back at it before the end of march. I try to plan in advance so im not sloed by holidays and birthdays. And there is no weather that can hold me back from these amazing women. FYI that is what I do.

I am a very lucky man in many many ways... in regards to my play time it was not always that frequent... maybe once every couple of months because i used to only play when i traveled for business because i was nervous about playing in St. John's because it's a kind of small city... took a gamble and have meet a few amazing local ladies and now have added some of the wonderful touring ladies. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

You are a very lucky man. I envy the fcuk out of you!

No major seasonal pattern... i play weekly... the major thing affecting how much is how many great touring ladies come to St. John's. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I am new to this but I cannot understand why anyone would be dumb enough to try to negotiate to save $20 or $40. It shows a complete lack of respect for the ladies and I assume they would respond in kind. This is not like buying a car where it has become accepted practice. When I contract for a service such as hiring an indoor house painter (which I just did) there was no dickering over the price. I wanted exceptional service and I got it. Contracting for a lady's time is the same thing. If I accept her rate as is I hope I am going to be well treated by her. How would you negotiators feel if the lady upped her rate once you arrived at her place saying it is extra for this or that. I would leave. Finally I am a professional accountant and I charge $x an hour -- if you try to dicker me down you are a dick and I wont have anything to do with you. Just saying.

In a previous business, I got haggled to death almost every day. Depending on my mood, I either dickered or I raised my voice and said, "The price is low enough as it is.... F you and get the F out!" I feel your pain. There are things in life which you can negotiate, typically the purchase of significant tangible assets, but when it comes to services (mechanic, plumber, etc.), I don't negotiate because I figure they'll get the price they want one way or the other (if one were to dicker for a lower hourly rate, they'd just bill more hours). When it comes to services I go for reputation, not price. This industry is unique of course, but if you lower your asking rate once, you'll get caught in a downward spiral (the discounted clients won't see you again unless it's at the discounted rate, and even worse, they could spread the lowered rate they received to other potential clients, thus snowballing into a bunch of drama: "he got that lower rate, so why can't I?!). I'm just an average Joe, but when I play I prefer a quality experience, so I have no problem paying the posted rate. I go for quality over quantity. If I have to set aside spare cash for weeks on end, I'll do so. If I don't have the full required amount, that's my problem not hers, so I'll be patient and wait until the piggy bank's full again. Only you can decide your own policies. Anybody who haggles with me now gets a polite "I'm sorry, I can't do that" the first couple of times; if they keep pushing and they push the right combination of buttons, once in a blue moon I'll still explode (I'm getting mellower as I age though). And you want to F-ing know something!? It's the fckers with the BMWs and the Acuras who are the worst! The richer they are the more they think they deserve a special rate!

And here's a new one from Sweetshay! She titles the pic Yummy!

Trust has to be established before any meeting and if you don't want to provide your number we don't have to visit. I don't provide my cell (and yes it is a REAL number and its not published anywhere in ads or anything related to this business) until we exchange numbers prior to confirming. If you don't like a ladies policies you don't have to visit her, but if you want to visit with her, you need to respect the policies she has in place - they are what keep her safe.