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Here's an odd highlight. I was car jacked by knife point in broad daylight. I was sitting parked on a side street responding to an email on my bb and he slipped into the drivers seat and at first I thought he said he needed a ride and I asked where he wanted to go, he produced a knife and said he wanted my ride and to get out, thought for a moment of smacking him but puts my hands up and told him to chill and I got out. Instinctively as I did I turned off the car, I walked to the back of the vehicle and was ready to call 911 and report the theft. However he didn't move and after a minute or so he got out swearing a blue streak at me as he walked away. Seems he didn't know how to start or drive a 5 speed. Lesson learned......keep doors locked......and drive a 5 speed and keep your powder dry. Peace MG

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I have met with her a couple of times... As Katherine said, she is great. Always had a great time with her. I did meet with her early on (when she was just getting started), have not seen her in several months. I would assume the more comfortable she gets, the better the experience would be? Either way, always had great convos with her. And her talents are great too. ;)

Im on my way to the Yukon....

A pic can be incredibly sexy without nudity of course. I would be lying however, if I said that a tasteful nude shot didn't grab my attention. In a world filled with images, my brain is hard wired to notice the female body. Nude pics are certainly not necessary by any means, but I do notice (and enjoy) the odd tastefully done nude pic. As far as face pics go, I have never attributed any significance to that decision. I understand the choice either way. Face pics can help a girl to stand out on sites full of headless bodies. I also understand the desire to keep this often misunderstood profession discreet. Some ladies are very open about this line of work, others are not. I respect both choices.

Well I'm with Pistol and Excaliber . I think if a gent wants to know about someone then they should research, check reco's, or other threads, or start one to inquire. I would find it intrusive if I were queried and I wouldn't respond. As to whether or not it was LE, who knows, anything is possible. I did have a client not long ago pm me to tell me he had a man pm him asking questions about me, I found this odd as the man had never visited my profile, nor pm'ed me looking to meet. So it happens to others as well. However I didn't ask, nor was I told what questions were asked. I feel it's gossipy, but that's just me.

I haven't met her personally but have communicated with her online and she appears very sweet, professional, caring and well spoken:) It's always best to see for yourself as your tastes, your opinions are as unique as you are. Having said that, if I were a gent I'd visit with her:)

I met with Victoria the last time I visited the island and we entertained a gentleman that was very happy with her. I found her sweet, attractive and very professional . Based on one meeting only I would say all this trash written on other boards is untrue. However I am a person that believes what I am told by individuals themselves, until I find out otherwise myself.

That's a bit much oldblueeyez; I show my face in my pictures, because I am not ashamed of what I do for a living and I am proud of how I look and wish to market that about myself. Each lady must make this choice for herself and weigh the pros and cons....not a decision to be taken lightly, indeed. But, let's not turn those of us who do show our faces into subjects of shame or stigma, or questionable moral fiber for choosing to do so, because that's what your inference is accomplishing. There is no parallel between that choice and how one handles matters of discretion. I conduct my business dealings with the utmost care. The gentlemen I see keep coming back for this and a plethora of other wonderful reasons. There are a number of other ladies who are active on this board who also show their faces and have great reputations. Best

Of course you can contact them. Not everyone posts ads daily or several times a day. Unless their contact info specifically lays out days and times of days available, then go ahead and (within reason) contact them. If they are email only, then it is more obvious you send an email a couple of days ahead of when you would like to visit. if they are phone call only, then use some common sense and only call between 10am and 6pm, don't wait until midnight or 3am for example. if they are not available they will either let you know, or you will reach voicemail. same with texting. just because someone doesn't reply within minutes, as well, doesn't mean that they aren't available. they may be busy. so try again until you reach them (again some common sense, don't send 15 texts asking where is she, and why isn't she answering. when calling, leave a message with a good call back time or instructions about not calling back. Not all sps have common sense either.) if you are using this site or bp, for example many sps are not posting ads every day because they may not need to. bp is costly to do that, in my area posting one on the side is sufficient to last a week, or bumping one every few days also more than enough. i am sure that can be said of many other locations.

Eversince I read the rave reviews of Hannah Star here and elsewhere, I have been wanting to see her. But because she moves among a few nearby cities, it was a little bit difficult to book her. Recently, I seized a rare opportunity and saw her after we exchanged a few text messages and emails. I am so glad I did - she was as friendly as her texts and emails indicated. Hannah is young, sweet, cute and pretty as everyone mentioned. She is down-to-earth, warm and superfriendly, just as her email address suggests. She welcome me with a big hug and lots of dfk's - the temperature outside was (bitterly!) cold, but her toned and tight body was warm and her warm welcome really warmed me up quickly! :shehot: We found our way to her bedroom and soon, I went to work on her lovely spinner body. She loved the way I pleased her orally and seemed to really enjoy it. Then she returned the favor and gave a very enjoyable wet bbbj. I had to stop her after a while as I was eager to get on to the main act. :icon_biggrin: After a hot, erotic and very blissful session, we were exhausted and just cuddled up and chit-chatted. That's when I discovered that Hannah is very athletic and she loves sports such as skiing (snow-boarding) and ice-skating, the two winter activities that I love too. We also found out that we are both animal-lovers. Although it was the first time we met, we were very comfortable with each other. Her service was first rate as she spared no effort to provide me with the warmest and a super-friendly girl friend experience. I have no hesitation to recommend her to anyone and she surely will be my repeat as well.

There is an old and outdated post asking if there are anyone in the Ottawa area with puffy nipples. Since the thread is long dead I would to re-field this same question.

Hi all Has anyone yet tried the Independent masseuse, Amanda? http://www.kijiji.ca/v-health-beauty/ottawa/only-massage-no-extra/1052415500 says no Extras..but she seems very cute, so even a great regular massage would be good...any info on here, PM, would be appreciated! :)

So I am 31 years old, newly married and my wife is suffering from long term mental illness. She has always struggled with depression and anxiety but things have really taken a turn for the worst over the last 12 months. She currently on stress leave from work and is seeing a doctor and a psychologist. It all seems to help a bit but no silver bullets yet and things remain hard. Basically living with this is what pushed me to start seeing escorts and massage providers. For the last 12 months everything has fallen on me, cooking, cleaning, caring for the pets, taking her to all her appointments and handling all the money issues that arise from going down to one income. This was all combined with the need to always be the positive one and never, ever show if I am sad or mad about something. Seeing escorts is a break. For an hour every month my life didn't have to be about caring for someone else, it could be about me. I really think that this release was the only way that I stayed sane. Take tonight, we are booking tickets to go stay with some family we have somewhere warm. This is a luxury for us because, as I mentioned, the wife is not working right now. Instead of being happy that we are going to get away somewhere warm, she is depressed and teary that we can't afford to go businesses class. I have no idea how do deal with this. I am doing the best I can not to show anger as it will send her into a depressive episode that could last days. So instead I fake positivity and try to distract her with tea and pet talk. Hopefully her mood improves before we go. Anyway I started this thread because I felt it might help to write about stuff as it happens. I am going to keep adding to it as I feel the need.

Been a tough day and a shitty week so going out to supper tonight then to a concert... hoping the food is good and music is relaxing. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

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As I prepare to make my way back to Kingston, I want to take this opportunity to thank you wonderful gentlemen for yet another great, fun filled visit to your fair city. Your kindness and generosity are truly appreciated. Till we meet again! Ox, Anna

Frankly, I love seeing a lovely nude woman as there in my opinion nothing more breath taking and gorgeous! I will be travelling back to N.S. this summer and really, really hope that I can spend some time with Cristy!

Hey, was there Friday evening, haven't been there in a couple of months I'd say. Beers were $5 during "happy hour" (really about 2 hours, from 5-7pm). Didn't recognize any faces, but some interesting new ones there. A few girls came to say hi to us. Oceana, blonde, French, school teacher glasses, toned body, man-made mammaries. Also Samantha, French-Asian, MILFy, brunette, tallish. Finally, there was Adria, English, 5'3", brunette, with a few piercing, and a light tattoos, her standout feature were her large natural D or E cups, absolutely pillow-soft, friendly demeanour in CR.

I think the best advice I can give you is to remember to take care of yourself first. As hard as that may seem. You are no good to her or yourself if you become sick. If hobbying once a month helps you do it. My wife got really sick, doctors had no clue what she had. It got to the point where I thought she was going to die. I know what it's like to worry and stress about the one you love. To have the financial burden and responsibility to take care of the person you love. All the extra obligation and trying to stay strong just for the sake of your wife. Putting Your wife needs first and pushing aside your true feelings. The worse my wife got the worse I got. Like her pain was my pain. I didn't take care of myself and I eventualy broke. I developed mental Heath problems to the point were I tried to kill myself before realizing I need to look after myself first. I've been on several different medication some didn't work and others I can't do the side effect. I'm lucky that I am able rationalize my thought and and emotions. There are days I wish I were dead or feel completely worthless. Whatever I'm feeling or whatever thoughts that go through my head I ask myself if these are rational normal thought that I would feel or are the causes be my mental illness? Your wife may not be able to do that but you can. Next time your wife says or does something that you get hurt by ask yourself, is this something she would of said before? Or is this atributed by her illness? Try talking to her, and couples councilling may benefit you both. If she's not willing perhaps just yourself it's nothing to be ashamed of and can help you. You don't have to be sick to talk to someone. Again I made that mistake myself. The one thing that's really helped me is this hobby. Being held by a woman make me feel like someone cares about me and Like I'm not worthless. In those moments it's like all those emotional pain and physical pain caused by my mental illness goes away, even if it's only for that short bit. I often use those memories on hard days that I can still fell normal and pain free, that is my hope that I hold on to. Hope can be a very powerful thing, even if it's given through the simplest actions. If you can provide that for your wife it may help here. Remember she may not realize how much you care for her, despite all the extra thing you do to support her. Sometimes it may be easier just to tell her. Best of luck to you and your wife.

Well she is a very lucky woman to have a strong man like you. I struggle with simular issues. Usually when anyone sees me anything but happy they just stop coming around. I know its not easy being depressed for no actual reason. {Is how I put it} I mean because I'll get upset over the smallest stupidest things sometimes but I know that's not WHY I'm depressed. Its just the trigger to unlock a hole world of black swirling emotions and thoughts to suck me in. I'm sure on the other side it has to be real hard to watch this happen to someone you care about. and not actually be able to do anything but offer tea or a hug. for example Not being able to afford business class Could remind her of how she isn't working right now which unlocks feeling useless because she's unable to help with the bills, ect now that being said. It takes Hard work to get better. I have a slight improvement from where I was personally last year. Through Thearpy every 2-3 weeks regular follow ups every 2 months with my dr. medication, meditation, Regular exercise {Shaun T's} and staying away {the best I can} from any processed foods. I also have a day planner that I keep track of my moods in. But still I can have days that it doesn't work either though. Luckily cut down to a day or two at a time instead of a week to a month at a time. I also think they have group or counselling for spouses and family of people with mental illness. Some counclers as well don't mind doing some couples sessions. Your Emotions are just as important to be able to be expressed

I agree! At least in her ad she asks for maturity, guess the OP didn't (or couldn't) read that part. WTF! I wouldn't ever consider seeing someone that refers to us as 'a piece of meat'

"Piece of meat"? Seriously? You've probably just blacklisted yourself with half the ladies on this site...

http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/middle_east/1874471.stm, Not sure if the URL works... I'm certainly not trying to stop any one from doing what makes them happy. It's just some things.... Wow!!! Not referring to Canada for sure, because here you are correct It was stupid of me to talk a about religion, I apologize. Frankly, I will never understand any of them. I just try to stick with the "do unto others" rule. And of course, worshipping like a dog at the shrine of LYLA.

Well as someone who is not white. I found this statement to be offensive, i do however believe everyone makes mistakes, instead of tearing this guy up and making him feel like shit about his post, just accept his apology and move on. End of story, and i hope people can refrain from commenting on this thread again and blowing it out of proportion, the last thing we need is a a thread about racism in 2015

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Thee are many words in the English language that can be descriptive, complimentary and/or rude/negative depending on the intent with which they are used. I don't believe their was any ill will or disrespect meant by the OP. Everyone has a personal reaction to words based on their experiences and with political correctness insinuating itself into every fiber of society, tolerance is more of an issue than anything else. What one doesn't like, someone else doesn't mind. It is very difficult to find a word sometimes that doesn't offend someone. A defensive approach usually does more harm than good. A more supportive response may work better in not only this case, but in many cases.

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I never meant to offend anyone!! ! just had a long day at work and wasn't thinking about what i was trying to say!! I'm sorry if i offended anyone but that was not my intention at all!!!

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I have never been to Kendra's but there is a front page story in the Telegram today regarding the location. Apparently it was a discussion at City Council in St. John's this week councillor Jonathan Galgay indicating that he plans to push for a change in city bylaws restricting MP from being located in residential areas as a result of complaints he has received from residents in the area around Kendra's. If your familiar with Kendra's you will know that it is located in the side entrance of an older home which is the first house on a street off Duckworth St one of two major streets in downtown St John's... across the street from the Quality Inn and very close to the Sheraton. Mr. Galgay is a new councillor who I fear uses any platform he can to get his name in the news. Recently he complained about about the condition of provincially owned subsidized housing unit supposedly on behalf of the tenant for it to be quickly found out that the tenant had nothing but good things to say about the landlord and that the property had already been scheduled for a major exterior refit... the tenant had already been advised. Bottom line Galgay is a blowhard who looks for any excuse to get in the news.... The operations at Kendra's are legal and approved by council... he acknowledges that but says that maybe public shaming might discourage people from going there.... shame on you Mr Galway... i suspect your politic aspirations must be to run for the federal conservatives. http://www.thetelegram.com/News/Local/2015-02-25/article-4055909/Kendra%26rsquo%3Bs-Red-House-says-it%26rsquo%3Bs-not-disrupting-neighbourhood/1 http://www.vocm.com/newsarticle.asp?id=52929 Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Im really sorry I don't like drama either - however it was my site you stole and I had it removed yesterday by your host. I have an email from your hosting company to prove it. As well the heartfelt apology you apparently sent me, was far from that. You are a grown woman and you are responsible for what you put on your website and ads - NO ONE else is. If you can't read and search the content of your website that someone makes for you, you should not use it. Because you STOLE my text WORD for WORD, it does affect my business as when people google the text you and I both come up - makes people wonder WHO copied WHO. As you said in your email, you don't see how this could affect my business... The fact you advertise in the same places as me and used stolen text on your site is low, apology or not the email you sent me yesterday is not even close to what you publicly posted today - thats like a slap in the face to me and everyone else you are trying to get sympathy from. You did wrong yet you make a fake apology to me then post this post here - don't you think I deserved the REAL apology? I have worked hard for 6 Years to brand myself and nothing makes me more upset that another woman stealing my hard work. Yes I'm upset and I have every right too, I was not going to make this business public here but as you seem to think it was ok too, Im entitled to my side of the story. I am in no way am attacking you, but if I stay quiet this crap will continue to happen.

I live and work here in Charlottetown although I'm new to lyla and just getting use to how it works, currently I only post on CL but I'm going to try posting here and backpage as well.

I am sympathetic to your plight as I was a care giver to my wife for a number of years. As you indicated a recent marriage I have to assume rightly or wrongly that you were aware that your wife had issues prior to taking the vows. I've always believed that one of the benefits of marriage is the commitment to look after each other in sickness and health. One of the biggest surprises I had following my wife's death, was when one of her sisters (A nurse in residential care) approached me and thanked me for staying the course, she had seen many patients abandoned. As for mental health issues I really don't feel qualified to advise. You really have to have respite for yourself now and then and hopefully you can recruit other family members of spell you. Sometimes if drug regimes are involved it can take a long time as it's fairly trial and error while they find the right cocktail. Good luck.

This is the second time you've mentioned children and PPD, is there a reason why you keep referring to potential consequences to children? From what I've read, this is not the OP's concern at the moment. I don't think it's especially beneficial to the discussion, either, or to the stigma that is attached to parents who have mental health issues. Yes, PPD is risk factor for new parents, both male AND female. But if someone has previously been diagnosed with depression, and decides to try for a pregnancy, chances are very good that they will be aware of the risks and their GP/OB-GYN will follow closely. The real risk is when people go under the radar; that is, they have not previously been diagnosed with a mental illness, and so their "baby blues" are often written off as just that, and not taken as a mental health concern. Another risk factor is when people hide or brush off their symptoms due to the stigma of mental health, especially PPD and what we see in the media (note: highly sensationalized, and really, we only see it reported when something tragic happens. Many folks have PPD and don't harm their children).

Most cases of depression and/or anxiety have a biochemical basis that affects brain functioning. In other words your brain does not allow you to think and feel as you would normally. Worrying, brooding or being anxious about small or normal things in daily life is one symptom of depression and/or anxiety. You can't "just get over it" and move on. A healthy person would not necessarily become unreasonably upset about whether or not they're travelling business class. They may prefer business class, but if they can't afford it, it's not a big deal. On the other hand, a person who is already ill with depression and/or anxiety may obsess about travelling business class regardless of whether or not they've ever experienced business class before. The illness can lead to seemingly irrational thoughts and behaviours. When evaluating a person for depression/anxiety, a rating scale is used to determine the severity of the illness' symptoms on daily life. The ratings range from "no impact in daily life" to "debilitating impact on daily life". When the ordinary routines or challenges of daily life cause more severe symptoms, that indicates a more debilitating occurrence of depression and/or anxiety.

Denying or lying about your feelings is only a temporary fix, and, as you've said, is causing you additional stress. Would you consider a couple's therapy session, with the aim to help both of you communicate more effectively? It can be exhausting to be the sole support, whether that is physically, emotionally, and/or financially, whether the causes are physical or mental illness. It's okay to have these feelings. It's okay to take care of yourself. There is support out there for both you as a family member, and your wife. In Ottawa we have the Psychiatric Survivors of Ottawa, which is peer-led and offers supports to both individuals experiencing mental health issues and their family members (WRAP programs and peer support). They also have quite a number of links to supports like the Mood Disorders Support and CMHA. As Jafo has said, there is also the Royal Ottawa, which can be an excellent resource, but usually does have a long waiting list for referrals. If that is something you might be interested, it is always easier to get on the waiting list and change your mind or not need it later, than to try and get that support when you or your wife is in crisis. There is also the Mental Health Crisis Line (613-722-6941) and the Distress Centre Line (613-238-3311). Good luck :)

Some things that may be of help for both of you. If you can, talk to her doctor's. Some medication only works for a short time for some people. Maybe she needs a medication change. Some times multiple medications are required. Exercise is very important for many medications to be most effective. If you are in the Ottawa area, see if the doctor's can get her a referral to the Royal Ottawa Mental Healthcare Hospital. They have some great in and out patient programs and services. This is covered by OHIP if you do not have private insurance. They even have support services for you. CBT or Cognitive Behavior Therapy can be a big help, but it takes lots of work on her part. Believe it or not, getting out of the house for daily walks together would be a big lift to her mood. http://www.theroyal.ca/ I have suffered from depression and other mental health issues for most of my life. I have been on dozens of different medications before they finally found me a good fit.

"If I were 60-something I'd chaulk it up to age, but geez I'm 40-something" Hey :) I resemble that remark lol. Over 60 and luckily no issues here. See your Doc and talk about the meds and discuss your concerns about the crashing libido. It could be other lifestyle stuff as well. Peace MG