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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and while you may not have been facially attracted to her - there is more to a human being than looks. If you agreed to the date based on her ad, photos and conversation and she was the lady you booked - you owe her for her time if you choose to leave. Walking out on someone if they are who they were in the ad - is wrong and disrespectful.

My photos are clear and accurate . If someone were to find me unsuitable after viewing either my website or Cerb photos I would wonder why? It ought to be clear exactly what I look like . I'm not the type that likes to surprise anyone . It is also apparent that I am athletic, toned and muscular . In no way is this hidden . There are some shots where you can even see veins in my arms . I had one visitor come to my hotel and he did a very fast walk away . His comment was , " whoa, you are way to muscular for me ." So you have to wonder how much time some people look at your presentation?

Hello Gabby, My name is Mark. I'm a gentlemen is my early 40's. I saw your ad on Lyla and I was wondering if you would be available tomorrow afternoon (or give an exact time) for a 2 hour in-call. Please call me back between 2pm and 5pm today or send me a text at your earliest convenience. Thanks! -------------------- In a few short sentences, you have addressed her by name, introduced yourself, given her a day, time and length for a rendez-vous, location preference (in or out) and the best way to reach you.

Hello "____", I saw your ad on ____. Is a perfect way to start. Bad ways to start: Hey How much You free Wots up sexii (avoid text speak) Yo Wanna f*ck I actually had a template of a sample email for contact and I took it down because I thought I was being too a nal retentive lol

Well if every dollar paid, why even post this thread And this post, frankly just horrible and ignorant too "but you still got to look at her"...what is she supposed to cover up so you don't have to see her "It pretty hard to judge a book when there is no cover..." Frankly just ignorant...the ugliness I've seen is yours You really need to take a good hard look at yourself before criticizing anyone else RG

My friendly suggestion here, mate...is to look at urself in the mirror and ask urself "gee, I wonder how many of these ladies see my face and think the same towards me" All of the ladies on here are beautiful and be thankful for their services :) Have a great weekend yall :)

Pls start with hello and "i saw your ad on ......" i can't tell you how helpful it is to know which ad someone is referring to. i'm assuming if she has a # in her ad, it is on a phone only she is accessing, not family members picking up her phone. But if the content of a text is a concern, why not simply phone the person. That way there are no messages left in view along with your ph#. in all cases, contact the sp according to how she says she wants to be contacted, whether text, phone call, or email, of course.

I have been in that situation a few times over the years. Remember that the other person has feelings... On both of those times, other than turn away, I stayed the course. I can tell you that what you see can be deceiving. I had a very good time.

This is one of the reasons I prefer 1/2 hours for at least an initial meeting because if looks, personality or over all chemistry don't click it's not a huge investment of time or donation. Peace MG

Frankly, if you booked a lady not knowing ahead of time what she looked like and looks are that important to you, then you should not have booked the date with her in the first place. But since you did book with that lady, either carry through with the encounter or pay her the donation in full. She didn't do anything wrong, why should she be out any money In the future book only those ladies who's face you see Imagine how hurtful it is to a lady to be told by a stranger basically you're too ugly for me (well your words not pretty at all) How would you like to show up for an encounter, the lady looks you over and said no amount of money is worth seeing you. And I wonder how you "measure up" on the looks department. I'm sure ladies now have taken notice of your thread and wonder how you measure up as a client You are dealing with a real live human being, one with feelings. Seeing a companion is the ultimate blind date. You make a date, you go through with the date. You might even find after meeting her she's a gem And if you just can't see her (well actually won't see her, anyone can see anyone) then pay her the donation in full. She set aside time just to see you. Your the one walking out on her, frankly for no valid reason, not her. Why should she be out money. she could have had an encounter with a respectful gentlemen instead RG

Unless the lady has misrepresented herself in someway then for me the only option would be to pay the lady the full fee that had been agreed to and tell her you have changed your mind. The lady included you in her schedule, has gone to the trouble of preparing for your visit and may have even turned away other clients because of the booking already had. At this late time she will not be able to book anyone else. So like other service providers if you miss the appointment your still expected to pay. If you are lucky the lady may have a last minute cancellation policy with a reduced cancellation fee.... but for me i think if the lady lived up to her commitment then I would too. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I agree with ice4fun, I would stay and never know, she could win you over with her sweetness and skills. We are much more than just a body or a face, lot of times chemistry can be found just in the way she moves, talks, smells. Give her a try. If it is rally important to you to be attracted to the face then leave her the donation in full. Perhaps next time you book a lady for the first time, you can politely tell her that you really are attracted to a model type face and ask her if this would be her description. Such as clear skin, white teeth, make up on, if she says yes to this and you arrive and is on the opposite end of that description, then give her a cancelation fee and excuse yourself.

Nice to see that you paid, but your comments are very unnecessary. How would you feel reading some rude comments calling yourself ugly or fat or anything else insulting on a board? Chances are you would not like it much at all. Comments like yours hurt, and its not easy to read mean stuff being said about oneself by others on the internet. Whether you were attracted to her or not, she still deserves respect. Calling someone ugly is wrong, rude and very disrespectful. In someones eyes she is beautiful and last time I checked your not god and you don't get to make that call on subjecting people by their looks. No one is perfect and I suggest you take a long hard look in the mirror before you decide to insult others. Try ONE day in any of our shoes....I don't think you'd last 5 minutes.

We all have our opinions and tastes, but I find it very sad that someone would find it necessary to comment so harshly. Yes you have every right to choose who you pay to spend time with but to comment omg, not pretty at all, is harsh, imo. But your question is a legitimate one and you have the right to ask it. I hope the answers give you resolve. I have met many gents who not by my opinion, but I'm sure by conventional standards wouldn't be considered tens, nor donning a beautiful body, but did have certain qualities that certainly caused me to remember them:) I do understand though that we all need different traits to become attracted to or to want to be with someone, clearly you need a beautiful faced person, or what you consider beautiful, which btw may not be by convention, beautiful. To each their own. So it's best for you perhaps, to ask for face pics, or only see companions that post them. So to end, I too agree with Iceforfun and would hope you'd pay the lady her full fee and politely excuse yourself and tell her you just don't think there is any compatibility. I can't think there is anyone who'd expect that every meeting will meet everyone's expectations. Try as we might, you just can't please them all.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

@ Pippen... Seriously? All of the ladies on here are beautiful? No they are not, not to everyone. Be real. I do not find everyone beautiful and there is nothing wrong with that. @ Lady Sophia... Yes, you are more than a face, but if I am not attracted to what's on the outside, then it won't work for me. That is just human nature. Why is everyone on here so fake? Why do so many guys here feel the need to kiss up to the ladies? I am always amazed...

If I had a magic wand I would go back in time and save a loved one who I lost long before I should have. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Yes Roamingguy, I understand the position of the Council in this regard, and the fact that they are legally responsible at the end of the day. I know all too well, after fighting a number of my own personal legal battles with government over the years, that the site cannot afford any controversy. However at the same time I find myself getting very worried about the bigger picture of society in general. With bills like C-36, quite effectively, putting gag orders on the general discussions extending far beyond just this site. This is a trend I see in various political realms. This is what I was referring to, as well as the present situation here. I have seen huge changes over the relatively short life span of the Internet. If you remember when Windows XP was brand new and Microsoft rolled out their first automatic updates service people were gravely concerned about privacy and related issues. Today, people seem to just accept things without critical thought. That disconnection and resulting apathy tend to centralize decision-making and disempower people. If the Internet were created today in the current political and social climate with sites like this even exist? To say nothing on the Internet itself. Apologies, now I'm rambling... time to hit the hay. PatrickGC

I have only one Wish, which you can think of as a magic wand if you like: "For people to find a sense of community again. From Community grows Connection, and from connection, emerges Understanding. And from that understanding, all things become responsibly possible." PatrickGC

I would create Star Fleet complete with all of the Star Trek accessories such as Universal Translators, Starships and replicators! Then we would all be able to talk to each other, travel to the stars and discover and explore new things! I would also give every lovely lady on Cerb a warm, all encompassing hug!

Katherine, Tasha, Avery, Alicia, Celina, Kimberly, Casey, Sara, Amanda, Madison, Angie, Gabrielle, Katrine and a stunning Carly Rae Jepsen look-a-like (obviously didn't get her name)

Ladies are free to set the donations they wish (and if its out of your budget best to continue looking than complain about it). If someone chooses to play video games or bake cookies during their time with companion that is their choice and quite frankly nothing for you to complain about. Time with a lady is about a heck of a lot more than a menu of acts.

IF YOU CAN NOT GET THIS MESSAGE TO GO AWAY AFTER READING PLEASE READ THE BOTTOM OF THIS POST. ****************************************** PLEASE DO NOT TRY TO CIRCUMVENT THE CENSORED WORDS! ****************************************** I am sure by now many of you have noticed a number of words have been added to the censor list. I know it makes the site very hard to read but instead of jumping ship and moving to another country like other adult boards are doing we have decided to instead conform to the new laws. This means 1) No one can ADVERTISE that they offer prostitution related EXTRAS if you offer this off the site that is find as long as you do not LINK to a site offering such things or offer them here. To conform to the new laws we can not to allow you to ADVERTISE such things here on cerb or advertise a website or blog or ad somewhere else that offers such things. If we find you are linking to a website from cerb that offers such things we will need to BAN your site from linking from cerb. Since people will ignore the law and try to post ads offering such things on cerb we had had to add certain keywords to the censor to ensure no one posts ILLEGAL things. Unfortunately this takes away from the discussion area. Now it is NOT illegal to discuss prostitution or related ACTS but I am not sure how the law will see it if someone is posting that they are a ESCORT (Not offering any PROSTITUTION related extras) and some guy posts saying "Oh, She did such and such with me!" (Guys like to brag when they get something extra that was not advertised....) 2) People may start to try to CIRCUMVENT these words. This will get you SUSPENDED or BANNED as you could put the website in jeopardy. Anyone seeing anyone trying to be creative (offering to do stuff like "squeeze the juice from a hot dog", "Suc the icing off a rooster" or "go in and out of grease for extended vacation" .... you get the point! Please REPORT THIS and DO NOT QUOTE IT! If you reply to it with a quote and do not report it you may also get a warning. 3) Some words are standard words such as O U T C A L L and S E R V I C E and these had to be censored as well as they could be taken the WRONG way and we are being EXTRA VIGILANT at this time to ensure cerb stays within the boundaries of this new law. 4) Use your .... people, don't brag about extra things that may or may not have happened when in private with someone. Just share that you have a nice time, you will see her again and focus on the nice things. More to come but I am asking for help with CENSOR words as well. Please report any ADVERTISEMENT posts that HINT or BLATANTLY SAY they offer PROSTITUTION RELATED EXTRAS so we can ADD to the CENSORS and protect the site. IF YOU CAN NOT MAKE THIS MESSAGE GO AWAY.... Your browser settings are probably not accepting cookies. Switch to another web browser or change your settings and see if it helps. A INCOGNITO browser will probably also cause this issue as well.

I'm back now from a two week holiday with a rather fetching tan, if I do say so myself. I made a determined effort not to think about any of this while I was gone. Just before I left, they ran another test and my PSA has gone up. I've graduated from low risk to moderate risk so it is decision time. I've opted for surgery. The doc would like to do this as soon as possible but he's going to be gone for two weeks. He suggested March 26 but I'd like to continue my continuous string of Social appearances so we're shooting for April 2. Charming. Something to look forward to. :rolleyes: Interesting side note. My research indicates that after a suitable recovery period, if he doesn't inadvertently cut a really important nerve, they advise regular "self pleasure" to ensure everything returns to as normal as possible. Shucks! Been doing that my whole life. Now I have a medical excuse for it. Also, Doc told me today that he will prescribe a daily regime of Cialis. I'm amused that he is as interested in maintaining my sex life as I am.

@eagertoplease L-O-L I guess u just looked at the mirror :) So much H8H8H8 Take care mate :)

So many noble thoughts. I would make this cold weather go away, the snow be relegated to ski slopes and flowers to bloom again in the city. I guess my magic wand is called June. June, are you out there?

Porn stars aside - in general... Sorry to sound negative, but I am not impressed when the media go out their way to snap shots of famous people in every day life or access private photos and then publish "without makeup" "before/after cosmetic surgery" or zone in on "cellulite, bad skin, acne, stretch marks, wrinkles balding, etc./too thin/too fat" shots of them like it's something horrible. It's interesting that often those who are doing the criticizing are no box of chocolates themselves. I believe most people are smart enough to know that most professional publicity shots are touched up and that if you saw those folks in "real life" they probably don't look the same. I thought it was cool when Jamie Lee Curtis posed for a Dove ad a few years back sans-photo-shopped. Kudos to her.

While I'm in no position to speak to the question of posting deleted, there is a parallel concern which has cropped up since the recent legal changes in Canadian law which has had a very sad impact on this site and many others as well. That is the censorship of certain words and phrases in order to protect the site from legal prosecution. (On a side note: Is there an official list which users can referred to before writing their comments?) For all involved in this industry this is an assault on free speech and indeed hampers open and honest discussion. Canadians have lost their right to free speech, and as yet this has not been challenged. I am personally worried that this is a "slippery slope" situation which could lead to further social rights erosion. Ultimately we will see the demise of Bill C-36, but we have to find a way to discuss this openly in order to bring about this change. This is a very sad time for Canada, and one I never thought I would see. PatrickGC

Screw the baking cookies Em !!! Even if I look like a nerd bomber going through the lobby with a pink hula hoop...... I am soooooooo bringing one next visit and you are gonna shake that ass !!!! hahahahaha Alotta wine first of course..... limber up ;)

I fully agree with Emily here, we are free to set our donations for time with us at whatever we feel we are worth. If someone books time with me, and they want to have a rousing game of video games, have me bake a cake with them, or read poetry with them, I am more than happy to provide that. We don't just provide 'adult' entertainment, we are companions, and that in itself is worth whatever the gentleman thinks it is worth. But I do admit, the thought of having a hula hoop contest in the nude could be lots of fun, hhhmmmm

Well for fun- I'd create a vibrator that didn't break, a guy with the perfect penis(my idea of perfect that is;) ) make all food calorieless and last but not least allow my dogs to live forever:) In seriousness- If I could- every animal abuser would get there come uppens when I waved it and the animals they harmed would heal!

I have a magic wand and I practice spells of love healing and peace. My magic wand allows for every impossibility and I have witnessed miracles. I am a white witch and I have stood beside people that have healed themselves . I set the spell and let the universe work. Please understand this has very little to do with me but more of a persons belief in their ability to heal them selves. Again I am nothing and will give just a couple of incidences where I stood and watched folks heal. I had a lady in her 60s that did not tell me her condition and this is best as I don't put myself or hopes into the healing . She was totally deaf in one ear and after two treatments she healed herself and now she hears perfectly . I had a child two years ago that is very learning disabled and was considered a total failure in school . He is 10 and his parents were told he would be held back in school . His parents never accepted this and always believed their son would excel. I worked with this child and he really worked in conjunction with me and now he is a B plus student. Now this is a personal story . My nephew will be 11 years old on Saturday. His mother is a deputy minister for out lovely government . As a result she is trained to think one way that is and that of course is the policies of our wonderful government. As a high ranking bureaucrat my sister always thought government was there to assist in every way possible . Hmm, my nephew needed help and unless my sister knew what strings to pull he would have fallen between the cracks and as anyone with a learning disability he would be labelled as bad, stupid or worse. In fact this wonderful child has gifts we would all hope to be blesses with . Now finally this in monumental . Let us not forget I am nothing here but a channel for a person to decide to heal or not. Here goes a very inspiring story I still cry with happiness. Some of you know that I am a Reiki Master and practice healing . This is a really big and important part of my life. I will try to be open and ready for every difficult eventually. In 2009 a man contacted me for healing. his was no ordinary healing . 25 years ago this gent was involved in an auto accident that paralyzed him from the chest down. He was sent home with a wheelchair and was told he would never walk again. His reaction..... He took his chair and threw it away. He make his way around on crutches and never , ever gave up. Before we met he had stem replacement therapy and no difference. This was the biggest treatment he had and the most costly but David never gave up. He contacted me in 2011 and explained his situation. He told me he was finally ready to heal and he choose me to stand beside him as he healed . I was daunted as I never had such an enormous request. I was terrified and he knew it . Once day he called me and said " do not worry I am healed already". So we decided three treatments was his plan . The first treatment he had to have help out of his wheelchair. It was very difficult for myself and his wife to even move him. The first treatment I was worried as I noticed no difference . Day 2, David helped himself on to my table and he , myself and his wife could sense something different. Yes!! Day three, so far this is the first miracle I have ( not me but the universe) David's wife helped him on my table and I nervously completed his last treatment. I am going to tell you exactly what happened next . The treatment was over, I was nervous( should not have been ) David looked at myself and his wife and just sat up on the table . Then he took miraculous steps and walked on his own for the first time in 25 years Why did this happen? Because he never gave up. No matter what is wrong we have the capability to heal . David did it and so can we . I spoke to him this week and he is enjoying his passion of restoring old cars. Moral of the story, we can heal almost any disease or malady . Lets just support each other and heal........ Blessings and love.

And by interesting, I mean the long, drawn out-raised eyebrow kind of interesting. http://www.canlii.org/en/ca/fct/doc/2013/2013fc590/2013fc590.html

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So I am 31 years old, newly married and my wife is suffering from long term mental illness. She has always struggled with depression and anxiety but things have really taken a turn for the worst over the last 12 months. She currently on stress leave from work and is seeing a doctor and a psychologist. It all seems to help a bit but no silver bullets yet and things remain hard. Basically living with this is what pushed me to start seeing escorts and massage providers. For the last 12 months everything has fallen on me, cooking, cleaning, caring for the pets, taking her to all her appointments and handling all the money issues that arise from going down to one income. This was all combined with the need to always be the positive one and never, ever show if I am sad or mad about something. Seeing escorts is a break. For an hour every month my life didn't have to be about caring for someone else, it could be about me. I really think that this release was the only way that I stayed sane. Take tonight, we are booking tickets to go stay with some family we have somewhere warm. This is a luxury for us because, as I mentioned, the wife is not working right now. Instead of being happy that we are going to get away somewhere warm, she is depressed and teary that we can't afford to go businesses class. I have no idea how do deal with this. I am doing the best I can not to show anger as it will send her into a depressive episode that could last days. So instead I fake positivity and try to distract her with tea and pet talk. Hopefully her mood improves before we go. Anyway I started this thread because I felt it might help to write about stuff as it happens. I am going to keep adding to it as I feel the need.

Slight tweak ....

Emma.... maybe just maybe the last time he saw you his experience was so mind blowing that the only memory he has of you is all encompassing bliss.... maybe just maybe he does know your name but just the hearing of your voice on the phone causes immediate pooling of his blood in certain parts of his body resulting in temporary memory loss.... Maybe just maybe the only thing that pops into his mind when he sees you or hears you is "Oh my God" and being deeply religious he just can't bring himself to call you Goddess... Or maybe... he is just a ass Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Notch I was kinda with you till you got to number three and the paragraph immediately following it. If I understand your number 3 correctly your not saying she misrepresented herself (that was number 2) your saying once you see her you changed your mind.... If that is correct "you changed your mind" in why should she assume any of the responsibility for the breach of the contract you made when you booked... your decision to not proceed will have cost her income... I would suggest that if you want that option discuss it with the lady when booking.... ie. if I turn up and there is no chemistry can I leave or pay a cancellation fee. Mind you having said all that I have a feeling many ladies would not be too upset with a reduced cancellation fee. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Make it so people don't need to eat, drink, pee, poop, or sleep (unless they want to).

With all due respect, were you still drinking when you posted this;) It's fine not to agree with activities, rates or anything else, that's your right but as it's been said, just move on to those who offer what you can afford and want. Understand though, everyone charges what they need to stay above water and to cover their costs and that shouldn't be open for judgement by anyone. Only the person charging knows what they have to make and why and that is their business. Also note, that voicing an opinion as you've done about such things although your right may take you out of favor with a lot of the "gems" as most want discretion and that discretion involves not discussing what others do in their time or what they charge:)

The only service you are paying for is time and companionship Whether with a local or touring lady And if a client is happy playing video games with a lady, isn't the important thing that his time with that lady made him happy No two encounters are ever the same nor is a lady playing video games with a client mean that's what all her encounters with all her clients will be RG

LOL eight quadrillion dollars is a lot of money

BPD depression and anxioty my whole life. they've put me on Everything from Ritalin to Celexa and back again. Meds can help but they are not the cure. I myself become immune to a medication if im on it to long. So I KNOW I definitely didn't tell the OP to drug up his wife. I said HARD WORK meds therapy fitness meditation and healthy eating. and through a complete lifestyle change. I know my dr says thing like this are never Cured, but it can be managed. and for all you people saying "thank god you have no kids" now that is rude. Yes it is true she may not be emotionally ready for pregnancy or children at the moment. with lots of hard work she/they may be if that is a goal they want to work towards. But again they would have to master the peaceful healthy living because you can't really take meds while pregnant it can harm the fetus. but there is a process of slowly coming off meds before getting pregnant. So BIG DEAL, their pregnancy would have to be a planned one. IT DOESN'T NOT MEAN SHE WOULDN'T BE FIT TO BE A MOTHER!!!! and I think its beyond rude for anyone to say that!!

There will always be people (often guys, often in their late teens or early twenties) who are, for whatever reason, filled with rage and out for revenge. This seems to be an unfortunate but inescapable part of human nature. Such people will lash out at society, somehow, and will do so in the name of whatever cause happens to be convenient at the time. Right now, radical Islam seems to be popular with such people. But it hasn't been in the past, and something else will probably replace it in the future. I've heard - and find it very plausible - that some of the would-be jihadis arriving in Syria have proven to be thoroughly ignorant about the religion they claim to follow. For these folks, it's not the religion that matters; it's the fight, and when it comes down to it, any cause will do.

I'm sorry, I don't believe the hype. Before we had misogynist extremism with the Montreal Massacre. Before we had Quebecois extremism with the FLQ. Extremism exists everywhere. My kid's best friends with a Muslim and I'm glad s/he is because it keeps her/him out of trouble: no drinking, no drugs, keep up her/his grades. If Canada had a balanced Middle East policy as we used to at one time, then we'd be fine, but no, the Harper government is pro-Israeli come hell or high water, so really, it's just BLOWBACK. I don't give a shit about youths going abroad to fight for whatever because they won't be coming back, either because they're dead or they're banned from returning. As for domestic "terrorist" attacks, you've got to admit they've been pretty lame; crimes of course but "acts of terrorism"? That's a stretch. And I'm pretty disgusted by how Harper used these crimes to further his agenda. I'm not going to let the Muslim bogeyman rob me of my personal freedom. Sure, if they do happen to set off a major terrorist event in Canada then get back to me on that as I'll be mad as hell, but laws can't be tightened much more than they already are. If I were Muslim I'd be pretty pissed at what the west, and in particular America, has done in the Muslim world. America has killed so many brown people in its mad quest for resource dominance, it makes you wonder if things have really changed that much since the Brits killed the brown people here for their resources. The best thing to reduce Islamic radicalism would be to get the fuck out of their countries, but that's never going to happen. When you think about it, Muslim extremism in the west has killed very few people relative to the murder and mayhem America and its stooge allies (us included) have wreaked on the Islamic world (this includes 9/11). As long as we're fucking with their countries, they'll be fucking with ours. To be honest, I was a pretty Muslim-hating dude immediately after 9/11 and seriously considered joining the forces to kick some turban ass (and yes I know turbans are probably more of a Sikh thing than Muslim, but what the hell it sounds good). But my attitude swung 180 degrees after the States invaded Iraq for no good reason the second time around in 2003. I really got anti-American after reading about the slaughter which happened in Fallujah. I've mellowed out since then, but I can't blame Muslims for being pissed. I will say that if they think they can come to Canada and remove my right to make fun of any God, including theirs, they've got another thing coming. If they can't make fun of their God then that's their problem, not mine. What can you do? You can't outlaw lunacy. Maybe the situation calls for some intermarriage with Muslim hotties!

Im pretty sure she is brook is vava-voom, I've meet with brooke a few time and she is an absolute goddess, i has an amazing body and just so gorgeous, i enjoy every second i can get with her, she has never let me down.

Do two parties have to have something to offer in a negotiation? It appears the ladies hold the cards on this one. Begging comes to mind here. I don't think the ladies should be making the donation to the monetarily challenged. I hope the ladies don't feel bad when this happens. Its sad but it always will. Hopefully it just helps with your screening so you know right away not to invest time. You have to shake your head a little though when you think about it. I spend so much money renovating, vacations, fancy meals etc. Etc trying to create memories so when you look back it feels like you lived a good one. Well all I know is when you can trade a few hundred roses for an hour of time from an angel there should be no begging, you should just pay the rate if she accepts you because you will be lucky to have a life memory. They are by far my most vivid and happiest. Ask a girl to turn a dream into reality and if she can knock 20 bucks off cmon....do u want fries with that?

Some things that may be of help for both of you. If you can, talk to her doctor's. Some medication only works for a short time for some people. Maybe she needs a medication change. Some times multiple medications are required. Exercise is very important for many medications to be most effective. If you are in the Ottawa area, see if the doctor's can get her a referral to the Royal Ottawa Mental Healthcare Hospital. They have some great in and out patient programs and services. This is covered by OHIP if you do not have private insurance. They even have support services for you. CBT or Cognitive Behavior Therapy can be a big help, but it takes lots of work on her part. Believe it or not, getting out of the house for daily walks together would be a big lift to her mood. http://www.theroyal.ca/ I have suffered from depression and other mental health issues for most of my life. I have been on dozens of different medications before they finally found me a good fit.

Cops may not be allowed to commit sexual acts on duty, but that doesn't mean they don't. Cops commit some of the worst assaults against sex workers. This is honestly the dumbest thing I've ever heard.

So instead of standing up for the rights of our community, CERB has bent over, spread it's cheeks, and eagerly accepted everything the government rams into us. It would have been a much simpler thing to move to an off-shore server to avoid all this, but your push for "conformity" reminds me of the oppressed throughout history. "Disappointment" does not adequately describe my feelings about this.