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Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and while you may not have been facially attracted to her - there is more to a human being than looks. If you agreed to the date based on her ad, photos and conversation and she was the lady you booked - you owe her for her time if you choose to leave. Walking out on someone if they are who they were in the ad - is wrong and disrespectful.

My photos are clear and accurate . If someone were to find me unsuitable after viewing either my website or Cerb photos I would wonder why? It ought to be clear exactly what I look like . I'm not the type that likes to surprise anyone . It is also apparent that I am athletic, toned and muscular . In no way is this hidden . There are some shots where you can even see veins in my arms . I had one visitor come to my hotel and he did a very fast walk away . His comment was , " whoa, you are way to muscular for me ." So you have to wonder how much time some people look at your presentation?

Hello Gabby, My name is Mark. I'm a gentlemen is my early 40's. I saw your ad on Lyla and I was wondering if you would be available tomorrow afternoon (or give an exact time) for a 2 hour in-call. Please call me back between 2pm and 5pm today or send me a text at your earliest convenience. Thanks! -------------------- In a few short sentences, you have addressed her by name, introduced yourself, given her a day, time and length for a rendez-vous, location preference (in or out) and the best way to reach you.

Hello "____", I saw your ad on ____. Is a perfect way to start. Bad ways to start: Hey How much You free Wots up sexii (avoid text speak) Yo Wanna f*ck I actually had a template of a sample email for contact and I took it down because I thought I was being too a nal retentive lol

Well if every dollar paid, why even post this thread And this post, frankly just horrible and ignorant too "but you still got to look at her"...what is she supposed to cover up so you don't have to see her "It pretty hard to judge a book when there is no cover..." Frankly just ignorant...the ugliness I've seen is yours You really need to take a good hard look at yourself before criticizing anyone else RG

My friendly suggestion here, mate...is to look at urself in the mirror and ask urself "gee, I wonder how many of these ladies see my face and think the same towards me" All of the ladies on here are beautiful and be thankful for their services :) Have a great weekend yall :)

Pls start with hello and "i saw your ad on ......" i can't tell you how helpful it is to know which ad someone is referring to. i'm assuming if she has a # in her ad, it is on a phone only she is accessing, not family members picking up her phone. But if the content of a text is a concern, why not simply phone the person. That way there are no messages left in view along with your ph#. in all cases, contact the sp according to how she says she wants to be contacted, whether text, phone call, or email, of course.

I have been in that situation a few times over the years. Remember that the other person has feelings... On both of those times, other than turn away, I stayed the course. I can tell you that what you see can be deceiving. I had a very good time.

This is one of the reasons I prefer 1/2 hours for at least an initial meeting because if looks, personality or over all chemistry don't click it's not a huge investment of time or donation. Peace MG

Frankly, if you booked a lady not knowing ahead of time what she looked like and looks are that important to you, then you should not have booked the date with her in the first place. But since you did book with that lady, either carry through with the encounter or pay her the donation in full. She didn't do anything wrong, why should she be out any money In the future book only those ladies who's face you see Imagine how hurtful it is to a lady to be told by a stranger basically you're too ugly for me (well your words not pretty at all) How would you like to show up for an encounter, the lady looks you over and said no amount of money is worth seeing you. And I wonder how you "measure up" on the looks department. I'm sure ladies now have taken notice of your thread and wonder how you measure up as a client You are dealing with a real live human being, one with feelings. Seeing a companion is the ultimate blind date. You make a date, you go through with the date. You might even find after meeting her she's a gem And if you just can't see her (well actually won't see her, anyone can see anyone) then pay her the donation in full. She set aside time just to see you. Your the one walking out on her, frankly for no valid reason, not her. Why should she be out money. she could have had an encounter with a respectful gentlemen instead RG

Unless the lady has misrepresented herself in someway then for me the only option would be to pay the lady the full fee that had been agreed to and tell her you have changed your mind. The lady included you in her schedule, has gone to the trouble of preparing for your visit and may have even turned away other clients because of the booking already had. At this late time she will not be able to book anyone else. So like other service providers if you miss the appointment your still expected to pay. If you are lucky the lady may have a last minute cancellation policy with a reduced cancellation fee.... but for me i think if the lady lived up to her commitment then I would too. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I agree with ice4fun, I would stay and never know, she could win you over with her sweetness and skills. We are much more than just a body or a face, lot of times chemistry can be found just in the way she moves, talks, smells. Give her a try. If it is rally important to you to be attracted to the face then leave her the donation in full. Perhaps next time you book a lady for the first time, you can politely tell her that you really are attracted to a model type face and ask her if this would be her description. Such as clear skin, white teeth, make up on, if she says yes to this and you arrive and is on the opposite end of that description, then give her a cancelation fee and excuse yourself.

Nice to see that you paid, but your comments are very unnecessary. How would you feel reading some rude comments calling yourself ugly or fat or anything else insulting on a board? Chances are you would not like it much at all. Comments like yours hurt, and its not easy to read mean stuff being said about oneself by others on the internet. Whether you were attracted to her or not, she still deserves respect. Calling someone ugly is wrong, rude and very disrespectful. In someones eyes she is beautiful and last time I checked your not god and you don't get to make that call on subjecting people by their looks. No one is perfect and I suggest you take a long hard look in the mirror before you decide to insult others. Try ONE day in any of our shoes....I don't think you'd last 5 minutes.

We all have our opinions and tastes, but I find it very sad that someone would find it necessary to comment so harshly. Yes you have every right to choose who you pay to spend time with but to comment omg, not pretty at all, is harsh, imo. But your question is a legitimate one and you have the right to ask it. I hope the answers give you resolve. I have met many gents who not by my opinion, but I'm sure by conventional standards wouldn't be considered tens, nor donning a beautiful body, but did have certain qualities that certainly caused me to remember them:) I do understand though that we all need different traits to become attracted to or to want to be with someone, clearly you need a beautiful faced person, or what you consider beautiful, which btw may not be by convention, beautiful. To each their own. So it's best for you perhaps, to ask for face pics, or only see companions that post them. So to end, I too agree with Iceforfun and would hope you'd pay the lady her full fee and politely excuse yourself and tell her you just don't think there is any compatibility. I can't think there is anyone who'd expect that every meeting will meet everyone's expectations. Try as we might, you just can't please them all.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

@ Pippen... Seriously? All of the ladies on here are beautiful? No they are not, not to everyone. Be real. I do not find everyone beautiful and there is nothing wrong with that. @ Lady Sophia... Yes, you are more than a face, but if I am not attracted to what's on the outside, then it won't work for me. That is just human nature. Why is everyone on here so fake? Why do so many guys here feel the need to kiss up to the ladies? I am always amazed...

If I had a magic wand I would go back in time and save a loved one who I lost long before I should have. Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Yes Roamingguy, I understand the position of the Council in this regard, and the fact that they are legally responsible at the end of the day. I know all too well, after fighting a number of my own personal legal battles with government over the years, that the site cannot afford any controversy. However at the same time I find myself getting very worried about the bigger picture of society in general. With bills like C-36, quite effectively, putting gag orders on the general discussions extending far beyond just this site. This is a trend I see in various political realms. This is what I was referring to, as well as the present situation here. I have seen huge changes over the relatively short life span of the Internet. If you remember when Windows XP was brand new and Microsoft rolled out their first automatic updates service people were gravely concerned about privacy and related issues. Today, people seem to just accept things without critical thought. That disconnection and resulting apathy tend to centralize decision-making and disempower people. If the Internet were created today in the current political and social climate with sites like this even exist? To say nothing on the Internet itself. Apologies, now I'm rambling... time to hit the hay. PatrickGC

I have only one Wish, which you can think of as a magic wand if you like: "For people to find a sense of community again. From Community grows Connection, and from connection, emerges Understanding. And from that understanding, all things become responsibly possible." PatrickGC

I would create Star Fleet complete with all of the Star Trek accessories such as Universal Translators, Starships and replicators! Then we would all be able to talk to each other, travel to the stars and discover and explore new things! I would also give every lovely lady on Cerb a warm, all encompassing hug!

Katherine, Tasha, Avery, Alicia, Celina, Kimberly, Casey, Sara, Amanda, Madison, Angie, Gabrielle, Katrine and a stunning Carly Rae Jepsen look-a-like (obviously didn't get her name)

Ladies are free to set the donations they wish (and if its out of your budget best to continue looking than complain about it). If someone chooses to play video games or bake cookies during their time with companion that is their choice and quite frankly nothing for you to complain about. Time with a lady is about a heck of a lot more than a menu of acts.

IF YOU CAN NOT GET THIS MESSAGE TO GO AWAY AFTER READING PLEASE READ THE BOTTOM OF THIS POST. ****************************************** PLEASE DO NOT TRY TO CIRCUMVENT THE CENSORED WORDS! ****************************************** I am sure by now many of you have noticed a number of words have been added to the censor list. I know it makes the site very hard to read but instead of jumping ship and moving to another country like other adult boards are doing we have decided to instead conform to the new laws. This means 1) No one can ADVERTISE that they offer prostitution related EXTRAS if you offer this off the site that is find as long as you do not LINK to a site offering such things or offer them here. To conform to the new laws we can not to allow you to ADVERTISE such things here on cerb or advertise a website or blog or ad somewhere else that offers such things. If we find you are linking to a website from cerb that offers such things we will need to BAN your site from linking from cerb. Since people will ignore the law and try to post ads offering such things on cerb we had had to add certain keywords to the censor to ensure no one posts ILLEGAL things. Unfortunately this takes away from the discussion area. Now it is NOT illegal to discuss prostitution or related ACTS but I am not sure how the law will see it if someone is posting that they are a ESCORT (Not offering any PROSTITUTION related extras) and some guy posts saying "Oh, She did such and such with me!" (Guys like to brag when they get something extra that was not advertised....) 2) People may start to try to CIRCUMVENT these words. This will get you SUSPENDED or BANNED as you could put the website in jeopardy. Anyone seeing anyone trying to be creative (offering to do stuff like "squeeze the juice from a hot dog", "Suc the icing off a rooster" or "go in and out of grease for extended vacation" .... you get the point! Please REPORT THIS and DO NOT QUOTE IT! If you reply to it with a quote and do not report it you may also get a warning. 3) Some words are standard words such as O U T C A L L and S E R V I C E and these had to be censored as well as they could be taken the WRONG way and we are being EXTRA VIGILANT at this time to ensure cerb stays within the boundaries of this new law. 4) Use your .... people, don't brag about extra things that may or may not have happened when in private with someone. Just share that you have a nice time, you will see her again and focus on the nice things. More to come but I am asking for help with CENSOR words as well. Please report any ADVERTISEMENT posts that HINT or BLATANTLY SAY they offer PROSTITUTION RELATED EXTRAS so we can ADD to the CENSORS and protect the site. IF YOU CAN NOT MAKE THIS MESSAGE GO AWAY.... Your browser settings are probably not accepting cookies. Switch to another web browser or change your settings and see if it helps. A INCOGNITO browser will probably also cause this issue as well.

I'm back now from a two week holiday with a rather fetching tan, if I do say so myself. I made a determined effort not to think about any of this while I was gone. Just before I left, they ran another test and my PSA has gone up. I've graduated from low risk to moderate risk so it is decision time. I've opted for surgery. The doc would like to do this as soon as possible but he's going to be gone for two weeks. He suggested March 26 but I'd like to continue my continuous string of Social appearances so we're shooting for April 2. Charming. Something to look forward to. :rolleyes: Interesting side note. My research indicates that after a suitable recovery period, if he doesn't inadvertently cut a really important nerve, they advise regular "self pleasure" to ensure everything returns to as normal as possible. Shucks! Been doing that my whole life. Now I have a medical excuse for it. Also, Doc told me today that he will prescribe a daily regime of Cialis. I'm amused that he is as interested in maintaining my sex life as I am.

@eagertoplease L-O-L I guess u just looked at the mirror :) So much H8H8H8 Take care mate :)

So many noble thoughts. I would make this cold weather go away, the snow be relegated to ski slopes and flowers to bloom again in the city. I guess my magic wand is called June. June, are you out there?

Porn stars aside - in general... Sorry to sound negative, but I am not impressed when the media go out their way to snap shots of famous people in every day life or access private photos and then publish "without makeup" "before/after cosmetic surgery" or zone in on "cellulite, bad skin, acne, stretch marks, wrinkles balding, etc./too thin/too fat" shots of them like it's something horrible. It's interesting that often those who are doing the criticizing are no box of chocolates themselves. I believe most people are smart enough to know that most professional publicity shots are touched up and that if you saw those folks in "real life" they probably don't look the same. I thought it was cool when Jamie Lee Curtis posed for a Dove ad a few years back sans-photo-shopped. Kudos to her.

While I'm in no position to speak to the question of posting deleted, there is a parallel concern which has cropped up since the recent legal changes in Canadian law which has had a very sad impact on this site and many others as well. That is the censorship of certain words and phrases in order to protect the site from legal prosecution. (On a side note: Is there an official list which users can referred to before writing their comments?) For all involved in this industry this is an assault on free speech and indeed hampers open and honest discussion. Canadians have lost their right to free speech, and as yet this has not been challenged. I am personally worried that this is a "slippery slope" situation which could lead to further social rights erosion. Ultimately we will see the demise of Bill C-36, but we have to find a way to discuss this openly in order to bring about this change. This is a very sad time for Canada, and one I never thought I would see. PatrickGC

Screw the baking cookies Em !!! Even if I look like a nerd bomber going through the lobby with a pink hula hoop...... I am soooooooo bringing one next visit and you are gonna shake that ass !!!! hahahahaha Alotta wine first of course..... limber up ;)

I fully agree with Emily here, we are free to set our donations for time with us at whatever we feel we are worth. If someone books time with me, and they want to have a rousing game of video games, have me bake a cake with them, or read poetry with them, I am more than happy to provide that. We don't just provide 'adult' entertainment, we are companions, and that in itself is worth whatever the gentleman thinks it is worth. But I do admit, the thought of having a hula hoop contest in the nude could be lots of fun, hhhmmmm

Well for fun- I'd create a vibrator that didn't break, a guy with the perfect penis(my idea of perfect that is;) ) make all food calorieless and last but not least allow my dogs to live forever:) In seriousness- If I could- every animal abuser would get there come uppens when I waved it and the animals they harmed would heal!

I have a magic wand and I practice spells of love healing and peace. My magic wand allows for every impossibility and I have witnessed miracles. I am a white witch and I have stood beside people that have healed themselves . I set the spell and let the universe work. Please understand this has very little to do with me but more of a persons belief in their ability to heal them selves. Again I am nothing and will give just a couple of incidences where I stood and watched folks heal. I had a lady in her 60s that did not tell me her condition and this is best as I don't put myself or hopes into the healing . She was totally deaf in one ear and after two treatments she healed herself and now she hears perfectly . I had a child two years ago that is very learning disabled and was considered a total failure in school . He is 10 and his parents were told he would be held back in school . His parents never accepted this and always believed their son would excel. I worked with this child and he really worked in conjunction with me and now he is a B plus student. Now this is a personal story . My nephew will be 11 years old on Saturday. His mother is a deputy minister for out lovely government . As a result she is trained to think one way that is and that of course is the policies of our wonderful government. As a high ranking bureaucrat my sister always thought government was there to assist in every way possible . Hmm, my nephew needed help and unless my sister knew what strings to pull he would have fallen between the cracks and as anyone with a learning disability he would be labelled as bad, stupid or worse. In fact this wonderful child has gifts we would all hope to be blesses with . Now finally this in monumental . Let us not forget I am nothing here but a channel for a person to decide to heal or not. Here goes a very inspiring story I still cry with happiness. Some of you know that I am a Reiki Master and practice healing . This is a really big and important part of my life. I will try to be open and ready for every difficult eventually. In 2009 a man contacted me for healing. his was no ordinary healing . 25 years ago this gent was involved in an auto accident that paralyzed him from the chest down. He was sent home with a wheelchair and was told he would never walk again. His reaction..... He took his chair and threw it away. He make his way around on crutches and never , ever gave up. Before we met he had stem replacement therapy and no difference. This was the biggest treatment he had and the most costly but David never gave up. He contacted me in 2011 and explained his situation. He told me he was finally ready to heal and he choose me to stand beside him as he healed . I was daunted as I never had such an enormous request. I was terrified and he knew it . Once day he called me and said " do not worry I am healed already". So we decided three treatments was his plan . The first treatment he had to have help out of his wheelchair. It was very difficult for myself and his wife to even move him. The first treatment I was worried as I noticed no difference . Day 2, David helped himself on to my table and he , myself and his wife could sense something different. Yes!! Day three, so far this is the first miracle I have ( not me but the universe) David's wife helped him on my table and I nervously completed his last treatment. I am going to tell you exactly what happened next . The treatment was over, I was nervous( should not have been ) David looked at myself and his wife and just sat up on the table . Then he took miraculous steps and walked on his own for the first time in 25 years Why did this happen? Because he never gave up. No matter what is wrong we have the capability to heal . David did it and so can we . I spoke to him this week and he is enjoying his passion of restoring old cars. Moral of the story, we can heal almost any disease or malady . Lets just support each other and heal........ Blessings and love.

And by interesting, I mean the long, drawn out-raised eyebrow kind of interesting. http://www.canlii.org/en/ca/fct/doc/2013/2013fc590/2013fc590.html

Last Monday, i was browsing cerb and stumbled across Sophie's add. She was planning to visit Ottawa December 11 to 14. I looked at her pics in her profile. Looked great. After a few texts, were i made a request fir her to wear a particular outfit, i was hooked. Her in call location was not convenient fir me si she offered to visit me at my place. No extra charge for this. Date set for Dec 11 She arrived on time. A few quick points. 1 - she speaks/understands english clearly 2 - she is a non smoker. 3 - she is bright, intelligent, quick witted and an absoloute joy to be with. I will not reveal any details of our encounter except to say she is exceptionally tallented. I recommend her to the nth degree.

I am looking for some advice to say no the right way. I was chatting with a SP and made a appointment to meet up. So we meet up, she had a beautiful body but her face omg (not pretty at all). Any suggestions...

I always struggle with contacting an SP for the very first time. I prefer text , but always struggle with that opening text. Hi, how are you? or... I saw your ad.. These seem pretty lame to me. Also , is it proper to use her "stage " name when contacting her. I ask this because i understand someone other than her could pick up the phone, possibly friend or family member who she does not want reading the text. Any suggestions are greatly appreciated!

First use the lady's preferred method of contact be it email, text or phone If phone or text are her preferred method of contact, then use those methods of contact As for initial contact, introduce yourself, say where you saw her profile/website and would like to meet her And it is OK to use her stage name...better than "hey you" LOL You might also, if the lady has screening/verification requirements provide all info needed (name/phone/email/board handle confirmed by PM) and let the lady know a reference will be forthcoming after you contact your reference for permission A rambling RG

Poor girl...its Friday and and I hope there is a chance thatshe is not reading this thread and drawing conclusions , hope she is not a member.:( or if she is, remember, opinions are like assholes, everyone s got one right.... And there is only one judgment that matters, I hope, and you don't need to worry about that till the end of your days.

I know I shouldn't speak for others but there are some who when hiring a companion seek a whole package. To them sometimes internal beauty is far more important and can makeup for what to some may be lacking externally. So to them they CAN find beauty in everyone and therefore, to them everyone is beautiful. So they are not being "fake" as you put it. It's also understandable by many of us who advertise that many looking are also in need of the external only, and that too is okay. But never sell anyone short. What I find funny sometimes is when those "external seeking" guys complain about someone they found physically hot to be a bitch to be with, lol. Again to each their own, but as someone who has never been into the physical, I get how some can see beauty in all, but that's just me. No offence to anyone but I think anyone who sees ugly is being ugly, look for beauty and you'll find beauty:)

Is it me, or are a bunch of posts in the last few days being deleted? Maybe I am crazy, but on several occasions, I have read comments on threads, then when new comments on said threads show up, earlier ones have disappeared?

Also, those threads where members are enquiring about "has anybody seen..." and post links to ads on other sites that are contain content that is not in compliance with the rules on Lyla, risk having those posts reported and subsequently removed. Any ads or websites out there that promote anything other than money exchanged for companionship only should raise a red flag to begin with. Further more, to create a post and link to such ads is not only fair to those of us who are complying with the policies here, but also tacky on part of the poster to assume it's okay to do so because those ads do not originate from this site. As RG would say, just a few ramblings...

best advice, be honest. not everyone is to everyone's taste, so the best way is to say I don't think this works for me. Give her a token of appreciation at least for a last minute cancellation by all means, but at least be honest.

You mean I'm supposed to be hula hooping and playing video games with clients?? Yeesh - I need to up my game :P jk

Hi! I'm available downtown now until 9am tomorrow. Friday (6th). I'm in a discreet, smoke-free location with ample street & lot parking available. During my visits, both day time and night sessions are available. (Late night visits by advance booking) Also, I'm an early bird so don't be shy if early mornings are a good time 4 u (some advance notice needed) My schedule is flexible so it doesn't hurt to ask =) For those of you I have yet the pleasure of meeting, here's a bit more about myself. I'm someone who is open-minded & enjoys romanance as well as the wild loss of control where chemistry causes a lack of inhibitions and even for those who are more daring... the darker world of fetish, bdsm, role playing & domination etc. I'm a solid 5'7, (5'11 with heals) 36D 26 36 with dark, very long black hair and big blue/green eyes. I invite you to visit my profile to learn more about me and see some of my pix Planning ahead is recommended but not necessary. I am available for over-night companionship and dinner dates (obviously we'd have to plan ahead for that lol) as well.I'm educated, worldly, well cultured, unassuming and have eclectic taste in everything from music to passtimes and philosophy. I think versatility is the spice of life. So I can be soft and delicate, wild and eager to please, impish and Fun or assertive, domineering and nasty. So don't be shy to tell me what personality-type you want to spend time with and I can tap into that part of my psyche and have a great time doing it. =) I LOVE getting all dressed up and requests are more than welcome. I have a vast array of outfits, (school girl, sexy stripper, romantic lingerie & domina (PVC,Latex etc), regular/secretary) as well as tools for the more daring of adventurers. I aim to please because I want to see you again when I next visit. Chez moi $200h $140hh (multiple hours work on declining scale) Chez vous $240h $180hh (within reasonable distance) For Dom, Fetish & BDSM, please see below. Women and Couples also, very very welcome (additional donation for additional companions) Fetishes, BDSM and/or domination, are by hobbyist specific request only and further donations may or may not be requested, depending on the nature of the subject. For those who are interested in such ventures; I am very well versed in this world and have a great selection of equipment/toys/attire etc. As for fetishes, many have been surprised that I was the one girl who actually heard of "it" before. =) To see what others have to say about the time they've spent with me, please check out my recos via the link below. http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...?ltr=J&t=53018 And don't forget you can check out my profile for pics and a bit more about me. My face, Tattoos & piercings are hidden for discretion's sake but photos are otherwise unaltered. Please allow a few days for reply via PM. Text is best for prompt reply.. Please note, nowhere near all my interests are listed here. Im very eclectic No private numbers please. Please text for more info if there is something specific you'd like to discuss. Looking forward to hearing from you Kisses, JessyCeleste 613-793-4183

Saw Hailey during a training session with Summer... my first spa visit in Ottawa (been to SRM in TO in the past). How was it? *laid back and fun... no robot here *No fake/lame porn talk or giggles ... felt and seemed genuine *Great looking girl - tiny frame with a great back *Makes sure you get a good show in the mirrors *Enjoys the end as much as I do... no rush to wash you off or make you feel like you're made of poison Summary: You get to feel like your with a hot girlfriend who still thinks you're interesting and who wants nothing more than to drain you dry then shoot the shit. what's better than that?

Finally got to the bottom of this. The software that runs the server had a exploit (a bug) that allowed spammers to use the SMTP (Email Relay System) to send out spam emails from our IP address. This caused some of the mail companies to BAN/BLOCK/BULK email the site. We have informed them that this has been fixed so that they unblock us (we hope) this can take some time however and hotmail always seams to block the site.

Well I'm still here at e.b.

All the best, in what ever adventures await you. Fear not, the story Bill C-36 is far from over. Things are brewing. It will take some time (a number of years), but it will go the way of prohibition. PatrickGC

I was in the neighborhood and wanting a massage so called Aranda and she was free so I popped in to see her. Cute thin milf type asian who looked pretty sweet in her leggings, she is in a very nice house. Massage room in basement and prices posted on wall. I guess she assumes relaxation as that is what she charged me. She does charge more for therapeutic but never asked what I wanted. I didn't mind as first visit I tend to let them take the lead and do what they like. Her massage wasn't as strong as I would have liked, next time would ask for the pricier therapeutic option. There were times in the massage when she was firmer and I have no doubt she could do a mean rub. But the entire thing was sooooo relaxing that I even nodded off and enjoyed it a lot. On the flip she was more direct then most mentioned here and in the end I was happy. I would not hesitate to return as it was a most pleasant time at a most reasonable cost. I enjoyed the massage and showed my appreciation with a tip. The slurp seal of approval is not just for escorts, Aranda earns it for her pleasant massage.

So we have a few people complaining about a new feature I added to encourage more user participation (and it's working!) New members (under 5 posts for less then 5 days) now get a notice (See below) that they should post and change the status (basically from a lurker who is using the site for research and not contributing to a contributing member). The notice will disappear once they post 5 posts and have been a member for 5+ days. The site is FREE to use and they are complaining!? Seriously!! I have actually had TWO members (Long time members) complain in PM's and the one had been a member for 200+ days and the other (get this) has been a member for over 2000 days and is pissed that he now gets this notice? WTF??? If you have been here 200+ or 2000+ days and used the site for info on SP's and not given back at least 5 comments for the rest of the community?? Why do these guys feel this is ok? should we really be concerned? Here is the notice: Yes, it's long (It's long for a reason!) it's made to be informative to NEW MEMBERS and it's long to be a NAG so that you give back to the community!! No excuse is valid for not contributing. Put your browser into PRIVACY MODE (as you should be doing already) and make sure your username is not something your co-workers or anyone else might pick up on and post some comments!! Don't be a troll/leach and expect everyone else to share for your benefit when you don't contribute.