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You have to pay for her time, regardless if you stay or not. So why not stay and see if there's other options. Im sure you can enjoy her company in other ways. Perhaps you can still enjoy a nice massage or a great conversation. I get the fact you may of had other things in mind, but at least you may get something out of it, and who knows maybe it may develop a certain attraction that is not physical. In the end you may even enjoy it. If not chalk that up as a loss, move on. Her feelings stay intact and you took a chance. Consider it a learning experience.

IMHO if Face looks (and I say looks because beauty is in the eye of the beholder) is so important to certain pooners, then perhaps approaching ladies who advertise using photos showing their face or those willing to send you pics of their face should be those you actually book with. Wouldn't that take out the "how to say no thanks" factor? I like the fact that the OP mentionned immediately that he compensated the lady especially because , thru no fault of her own, he was not attracted to her. To me, that is an extremely honest response on his part! To those of you bashing him....no words! Additional Comments: IMHO if face looks (and I say looks because beauty is in the eye of the beholder) is so important to certain pooners, then perhaps approaching ladies who advertise using photos showing their face or those willing to send you pics of their face should be those you actually book with. Wouldn't that take out the "how to say no thanks" factor? I like the fact that the OP mentionned immediately that he compensated the lady especially because , thru no fault of her own, he was not attracted to her. To me, that is an extremely honest response on his part! To those of you bashing him....no words!

Don't forget that an encounter is not all about the "main event". There is a lot of fun to be had before, during, and after that. (Marriage can let you forget that sometimes). Maybe even consider extra time with her. A "second round" may not have the same issues if you've left yourself time for that. Sometimes we feel a whole lot of pressure for the perfect experience. Relax, have fun and don't worry about your "performance". There is no stage and you are not being graded on this. (And remember, the porn we grew up with is mostly a lie when it comes to what is "normal"!) If you have enjoyed yourself, then it was a successful encounter. An sp is the perfect way to get back on the horse too in my opinion as I find there is less pressure. They are not there to judge you. Just to make sure you had fun.

Aside from advertising, I just manifest the clients in my mind. I send out the intention, go about my day and allow it to come to me. Then the manifestation can happen. I also do a lot of meditating every morning before I get out of bed. I mediate nice clients coming to me and do not allow the time wasters or jerks to come into any of my thought processes now. If I'm waking up in a shitty mood, the universe will bring me the match to that so I'm aware now of how to deal with emotions whether I feel anger or frustration coming on. Creating a belief is very powerful. Stress, fear and resistance won't allow the clients to come. Tell yourself everyday what you're going to do and it will happen. Any self doubt will take you out of the positive alignment that would make the business come. Appreciation for what I already have or something simple as nature or their pets will bring a person financial abundance. I'm very much into Law of Attraction and metaphysics. And it works every single time whether you ask for it or not! As for traditional methods of doing business, I rely solely on my intuition. I also speak to the person and within 20 seconds I know. I will not book an appt by text or email. Email is a waste of time to me. I like to get straight to the point so I can hear the voice. That's all that matters to me and I feel them out sort of like a hound dog. lol. I'm highly intuitive aside from my experience in this business so it serves me well. I could be speaking to the nicest sounding person and a red flag could go up with the questions they are asking or their tone of voice and I will get that NO! NO! NO! in my head. I excuse myself, tell them I'm booked/not available and hang up the phone. I pick up on a person's vibes so much that sometimes I have to do more meditation to get rid of that energy. I have also found advertising the night before to be very effective. If a prospective client wants to meet, chances are they will be looking at those ads in the late evening or early in the morning so they can plan their day.

I think that acco34 has hit the nail on the head. This thread quickly got the consensus, that he should compensate the lady for her time, and move on. And next time, he should do more before meeting a new girl to make sure he will not be disappointed. As the thread continued, people attacked sunman01 for being superficial. That is unfair, because whether we talk about it or not, for some people looking for service in this industry, it is 100% superficial and based on looks. When people working in other businesses fail to meet our expectations, we don't rationalize it by saying they are beautiful people. Most people act courteously, accept the situation and move on. (I am not talking about times a business misrepresents their services/offerings). I get that these are unique situations, because what is being sold is so personal. However, it is not a fair expectation that hobbyists are always looking for the beauty within.

And that's exactly the danger, isn't it? Now that many clients are scared a companion's intuition becomes more important, and intution can be wrong or misled. These are risky times: exactly the opposite of the law's claimed intention. Grr.

I respect acco34's point of view, my only problem w sunman was that ok uve paid and had the experience, u didn't enjoy her looks so let's move on, lesson's learned. But to go on here and really had to point out that her face was b*tt ugly and couldn't stand to look at it or wtv he said was cruel...that's not looking for a suggestion or help as he was saying...what if the lady knows who he is and now knows of what he feels of her, you know how hurtful that is to her??? Think about it, not fair for her or anyone being ridicule for their looks like that! He chose her for a reason so if it didn't turned out the way he wanted it then move on, no need to go on here to bash her looks or wtv he was trying to do! Have an awesome weekend guys!

My photos are clear and accurate . If someone were to find me unsuitable after viewing either my website or Cerb photos I would wonder why? It ought to be clear exactly what I look like . I'm not the type that likes to surprise anyone . It is also apparent that I am athletic, toned and muscular . In no way is this hidden . There are some shots where you can even see veins in my arms . I had one visitor come to my hotel and he did a very fast walk away . His comment was , " whoa, you are way to muscular for me ." So you have to wonder how much time some people look at your presentation?

No, it is not this kind of magic wand you are thinking about, you dirty dirty mind! Well, if I had a magic wand, after I made the world a better place, of course - peace & love, no disease etc... - I would make a more superficial selfish stupid wish come true: I would marry Ed Harris and Dwayne Johnson (yes, at the same time, they would have no issue with this, it is a magic wand!!!) and would go on a honey moon with them on an island in Polynesia. And I would send you postcards, promise:biggrin:

I think I can safely say that almost all guys have some kind of performance issue at some time in their life. It might be "getting there" too early, it might be a case of "getting there" not happening and any one of a number of things in between. The advice to select someone and make your arrangement is good. You can mention your concern while making said arrangement or wait and see if you are more comfortable talking about it once you're there. You won't be the first person concerned about this and I suspect you will find the issue well handled. At this point in my life, I truly enjoy the journey and, on occasion, don't arrive at the destination. A dear friend was concerned about this a while back as she'd "arrived" several times and I had not. I laughed and told her I was totally having a wonderful time, that I could arrange "getting there" all on my own any time but my time with her was here and now and all the more special because I can't arrange that all on my own. :) So take a deep breath, review the various people in your area, and go for it.

It's a takeout or delivery night....pizza, donair, Thai or Indian...help!

I have no doubt that many - perhaps even most - of them have experience with this sort of thing :) Just book an appointment that will be long enough, and let your chosen lady know in advance that you'd prefer to take your time rather than rush things, and I'm sure you'll have a great time. Just remember to not outstay your welcome...

My advice would be for you to have a good look around Lyla / CERB and find one of the many reputable ladies from here who are from your area or tour there who you are attracted to and make a booking then relax and enjoy... you will be in good hands. These wonderful ladies will make it all about you and regardless of the details you will enjoy your time. I am a person who from time to time due to medical reasons am not able to perform like I might like too... in all my meetings with wonderful ladies from here it has never been an issue... as one of my favorite ladies has said to me on a number of occasions... it is not about the destination it is all about the journey. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I agree with what's been generally posted here ... and it sounds like you do to as you say that you paid the lady in full and excused yourself ------ this tidbit was missing from your first post in this thread and could have contributed to the tone you are feeling that people are trashing you. Had your story been different and you'd arrived to find someone who clearly wasn't the person in the pictures you had seen or had been sent ... I'd perhaps respond with different thoughts .. but it doesn't sound like there was any misrepresentation going on. Last year .... I had an experience with a sp that is the subject of a thread in the bait and switch section. My experience was different from the situation presented in the post here but it was still negative. I'd seen pictures of the sp , they were of her for sure but they were in no way recent. Her hair was a foot or more longer and she was considerably more heavy than her pictures ..... to the point that if I had those pics and was tasked with finding her at a mall foodcourt I don't think I could have. On top of this she had a few more restrictions that weren't revealed to me until well after she had been paid and I was trying to make the best of a disapointing / uncomfortable start to our encounter. In the end it was lesson learned for me and I was even fairly restrained and polite when she asked me for a "tip" before I left. Honestly I wish I had just paid her and excused myself .... but that has less to do with how she looked and more to do with how she acted. With the exception of this one My most disapointing experiences (and their haven't been many of them) have always been with service providers who were very very attractive / stunning / gorgeous etc ... and if one was to be able to put a theme to that disapointment it is when a SP comes off in such a way that for the most point it feels like I'm spending time with someone who is just thinking "Lets get this over with" ........ I can't say for certain how often a sp finds herself feeling that way , I know I feel that way in my job some days ...... but I can say that it's possible you missed out on a terrific experience had you rolled the dice. How do you ploitely say no thanks? I think you did just fine, the way you did it.

Well said acco34...I can't beleive this thread got to a 3rd page. The 2 first replies were enough in my opinion... enough said... Bianca

Oops my mistake; yes Maya was there Thursday.

FYI this I believe is freddigirl. She is on this site and one of my all time favorite people.

Hello "____", I saw your ad on ____. Is a perfect way to start. Bad ways to start: Hey How much You free Wots up sexii (avoid text speak) Yo Wanna f*ck I actually had a template of a sample email for contact and I took it down because I thought I was being too a nal retentive lol

I recently saw this lovely lady and she is full of energy and is very passionate. She really loves what she does and makes sure you leave with a big smile on your face.

@ Pippen... Seriously? All of the ladies on here are beautiful? No they are not, not to everyone. Be real. I do not find everyone beautiful and there is nothing wrong with that. @ Lady Sophia... Yes, you are more than a face, but if I am not attracted to what's on the outside, then it won't work for me. That is just human nature. Why is everyone on here so fake? Why do so many guys here feel the need to kiss up to the ladies? I am always amazed...

Unless the lady has misrepresented herself in someway then for me the only option would be to pay the lady the full fee that had been agreed to and tell her you have changed your mind. The lady included you in her schedule, has gone to the trouble of preparing for your visit and may have even turned away other clients because of the booking already had. At this late time she will not be able to book anyone else. So like other service providers if you miss the appointment your still expected to pay. If you are lucky the lady may have a last minute cancellation policy with a reduced cancellation fee.... but for me i think if the lady lived up to her commitment then I would too. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I always struggle with contacting an SP for the very first time. I prefer text , but always struggle with that opening text. Hi, how are you? or... I saw your ad.. These seem pretty lame to me. Also , is it proper to use her "stage " name when contacting her. I ask this because i understand someone other than her could pick up the phone, possibly friend or family member who she does not want reading the text. Any suggestions are greatly appreciated!

Lots in Chinatown that are pretty good, can never remember their names though lol

That requires a serious side....poutine maybe?

I would have my own time machine. Move over Dr. Who!

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Up too early cause my dogs have me trained, lol. Signing Ice4fun guest book as I see your up too, lol. Just poking around on Lyla to see what sup. While I have my coffee and trying to decide if I want to work this weekend or not, hmmm??

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re: verification, i don't do it. I started when all there were was 3 line text ads in the back of weekly papers. You give them all the info, they show up or don't based on the conversation. Usually they don't have high expectations, no pics, no videos, no lengthy process to book appts. I've always based everything on a phone conversation. I've had plenty of great regs who do everything from give me (by the phone caller ID) real name, home ph #, cel ph# (when calling en route), general description, work place (by calling from work or wearing a shirt with company name), to calling from a payphone or block #. They come to a private residence as well. Not a single one of them have ever given me an unpleasant encounter, or a minute of trouble. No one has threatened me, assaulted me, robbed me or outed me to building management. I've never felt the need for references, or lengthy screening. I might if i did or wanted to do outcalls, and not for safety reasons, but just because of the time wasters doing fake bookings. if i did outcalls, there is even less chance that i would do so by text or email enquiries.

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Really?? This is like saying "I can't reconcile the fact that some people like hamburgers, yet it's wrong for me to force one down someone's throat." The power play in BDSM/50 Shades is voluntary on both sides. Either party could call a stop to the play at any time; they just CHOOSE not to. As long as the choice is there, it's legit. Rape is about taking choice away. Rape culture is about dismissing the validity and importance of a woman's right to choose.

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I'm back now from a two week holiday with a rather fetching tan, if I do say so myself. I made a determined effort not to think about any of this while I was gone. Just before I left, they ran another test and my PSA has gone up. I've graduated from low risk to moderate risk so it is decision time. I've opted for surgery. The doc would like to do this as soon as possible but he's going to be gone for two weeks. He suggested March 26 but I'd like to continue my continuous string of Social appearances so we're shooting for April 2. Charming. Something to look forward to. :rolleyes: Interesting side note. My research indicates that after a suitable recovery period, if he doesn't inadvertently cut a really important nerve, they advise regular "self pleasure" to ensure everything returns to as normal as possible. Shucks! Been doing that my whole life. Now I have a medical excuse for it. Also, Doc told me today that he will prescribe a daily regime of Cialis. I'm amused that he is as interested in maintaining my sex life as I am.

Every dollar was payed in full, but you still got to look at her. Don't get me wrong I am not a 10 but I am the one asking for the service. It pretty hard to judge a book when there is no cover...

I'm going to give my honest opinion and some may not like it and some may, so will see. 1)If you booked a lady that advertized without any face pictures then you took the gamble, how bad can she be? Proceed with the date, pay the fee and take positions that you don't need to see her face at all. I can name you about 20 off the top of my head. 2)If you booked and have seen face pictures and she misrepresent herself, either go ahead with the date and follow advice #1 or simply tell her about the dilemma and give her part of the donation for wasting her time. 3)If you are not at all happy about her face and body, simply tell her politely, don't be rude and give her part of the donation for her time. I'm sorry ladies reading this reply but if I don't spend the full time with you I would not want to pay for the full time. If you were to pay for anything advertized and not get it would you still pay for it? This is just my honest opinion, I'm not taking anybody side here.

This is one of the reasons I prefer 1/2 hours for at least an initial meeting because if looks, personality or over all chemistry don't click it's not a huge investment of time or donation. Peace MG

Frankly, if you booked a lady not knowing ahead of time what she looked like and looks are that important to you, then you should not have booked the date with her in the first place. But since you did book with that lady, either carry through with the encounter or pay her the donation in full. She didn't do anything wrong, why should she be out any money In the future book only those ladies who's face you see Imagine how hurtful it is to a lady to be told by a stranger basically you're too ugly for me (well your words not pretty at all) How would you like to show up for an encounter, the lady looks you over and said no amount of money is worth seeing you. And I wonder how you "measure up" on the looks department. I'm sure ladies now have taken notice of your thread and wonder how you measure up as a client You are dealing with a real live human being, one with feelings. Seeing a companion is the ultimate blind date. You make a date, you go through with the date. You might even find after meeting her she's a gem And if you just can't see her (well actually won't see her, anyone can see anyone) then pay her the donation in full. She set aside time just to see you. Your the one walking out on her, frankly for no valid reason, not her. Why should she be out money. she could have had an encounter with a respectful gentlemen instead RG

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I agree with ice4fun, I would stay and never know, she could win you over with her sweetness and skills. We are much more than just a body or a face, lot of times chemistry can be found just in the way she moves, talks, smells. Give her a try. If it is rally important to you to be attracted to the face then leave her the donation in full. Perhaps next time you book a lady for the first time, you can politely tell her that you really are attracted to a model type face and ask her if this would be her description. Such as clear skin, white teeth, make up on, if she says yes to this and you arrive and is on the opposite end of that description, then give her a cancelation fee and excuse yourself.

I love when I am on my stomach and a Lady is stroking my bum slides her hand down to my balls and then onto the backside of my guy OH ! and using her finger to massage the back of my head. I prop myself on my knees a bit so she can put her other hand underneath and stroke it as well. Oh what a feeling...... I love kisses and licks around the shaft and fingers from both hands massaging the sides of my shaft. I love the slow soft stroke. DFK is a great stimulant too LOVE it !! I had a Lady for the climax sit on top of it we didn`t do it. She held it in her hand put her lips on the backside road it till it blew. OH my what a feeling the wetness of her I could feel it was amazing.. Another Lady told me she loved watching it explode. When it was time she positioned herself you know where and watched it rocket out. She said I love it.. I thinking I need one after writing this AMEN !!

Well to start off the highlights I must describe the month from Hell. After coming home from an amazing two weeks away with family I discovered that while I was away my oil furnace had self imploded. It shot soot and smoke throughout the entire house and it got into everything - clothes, cupboards, covered furniture drapes and walls and ceilings. At that point it has shut itself off therefore freezing every pipe in my home. I then managed to come down with my first flu in 20 years despite having had the flu shot as I always do. Then I found myself scheduled for rather serious surgery out of province. So, where are the highlights? My insurance company is covering the soot damage from the furnace implosion. The estimate is close to $20 K and every single thing is being washed and cleaned and apparently most or all of the interior will be repainted. Insurance will not cover the many burst pipes because I had the house checked every two days rather than every day. So learn from me and be sure to have your home checked daily if you travel. My plumbing is now all done and though I had to rip out one ceiling and one wall to access pipes I still got away lucky. The flu shot must have helped a bit because that flu came and went quickly and was not overly serious. The surgery was done last week in Halifax and it seems to have gone amazingly well!! I have a two month recovery period so I shall have to learn to be still and quiet and rest. I suppose I can do that. Try it MN2, you might like it! So a long story but ultimately I will have a clean bill of health and will have my spring cleaning done for me from top to bottom. Whoo Hoooo. :)

What is abundantly clear to me, as I board my plane to Halifax, is that guys beg for girls to visit and then don't book. I can't blame the girls for not visiting. It's not a very welcoming place :( This is my first visit back to Halifax in almost 4 years. First and last. I'm sad.

From Robynxoxo sexy album:

When having any discussion, the fairest thing to do is try to understand the spirit of what a person is saying or asking...not focus on a side sentence or skew things. I'm not sure why we can't see that the spirit of what the OP is asking is whether anyone knows what the numerical chance is of catching a given STI, and why--on a discussion board that likes to pride itself on its friendliness--we want to give someone such a hard time for asking a question or even in some cases act like it's offensive to have done so. Now, it may very well be those numbers don't reliably exist, in which case that is a fair response. But to just say he should do his own research or that we are not professionals seems...unfair. I mean, is it so unrealistic to think some people on this board may have talked with professionals or come across some useful numbers? People ask questions on this site all the time about topics we aren't professionals on, and often someone is able to point to information. I mean, we all know there is a risk to sex. And we all know that the only way to be 100% safe is abstinence. But why is it seemingly wrong to want to knows the odds of the risk? I mean, I could say there is "100%" risk in me driving because there's always a chance I'd get into an accident. But I know the risk is small enough that, given the benefits of driving, I'm willing to do so. And though some places have more accidents than others, and even though it certainly only takes driving once to get in an accident, there is easily accessible data out there to tell me the odds and help me make an informed decision. Simply saying there's risk in terms of something bad could happen doesn't really help a person decide how to act. Whether I carefully walk across a sidewalk or jump into the middle of a highway at night wearing dark clothes, I have a chance of being hit by a truck. But since I have a good idea of the odds of an accident happening with each, I'm able to decide that I'm willing to risk the one but not the other. If I can buy a lottery ticket for one draw where I have a 1 in 10 chance of winning or a different draw where I have a 1 in a billion chance of winning, knowing the odds helps me decide if I want to spend any cash buying a ticket. Yes, I could win either way but are we really going to pretend that knowing the odds isn't useful in making a decision? All aspects of life are like this. In all things we decide whether something is too risky for ourselves or not. Wanting to know the degree of risk or chances of something happening isn't an unreasonable desire. Now, whether those numbers reliably exist for STI's...well, isn't that a discussion worth having?

The other photos in this add are Captivatingcleo. Our N.B. girls must have it going on for others to be stealing their pics! ;)

Pssssst :-) Hiya everyone ... (ALMOST everyone) nice to see the respectful responses on here and the WOT comments are deleted. Much Love and even more Roaring! 2015 has jusssst begun! ;-)

Yes of course lack of visiting ladies is a theme across Canada. , I tour extensively and if I visit a city with cancellations and no shows, guess what ? I won't return . Gentlemen invite and coax ladies to tour their city and we answer your call. Many times we spend a lot of money to visit your city only to be told wrong location, is not good for them or just to busy to visit. I understand that every gent has his taste and I realize I may not be for everyone. However when several of my friends from every age group and demographic report the same I feel there is a problem. To those poor gents that have booked with ladies that were a no show or worse I offer my sympathies. The only advice I can offer is ask your fellow \Cerb members and make the best decision you feel is intelligent.

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Sharing a pic I like from the Redheads thread :)