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You have to pay for her time, regardless if you stay or not. So why not stay and see if there's other options. Im sure you can enjoy her company in other ways. Perhaps you can still enjoy a nice massage or a great conversation. I get the fact you may of had other things in mind, but at least you may get something out of it, and who knows maybe it may develop a certain attraction that is not physical. In the end you may even enjoy it. If not chalk that up as a loss, move on. Her feelings stay intact and you took a chance. Consider it a learning experience.

IMHO if Face looks (and I say looks because beauty is in the eye of the beholder) is so important to certain pooners, then perhaps approaching ladies who advertise using photos showing their face or those willing to send you pics of their face should be those you actually book with. Wouldn't that take out the "how to say no thanks" factor? I like the fact that the OP mentionned immediately that he compensated the lady especially because , thru no fault of her own, he was not attracted to her. To me, that is an extremely honest response on his part! To those of you bashing him....no words! Additional Comments: IMHO if face looks (and I say looks because beauty is in the eye of the beholder) is so important to certain pooners, then perhaps approaching ladies who advertise using photos showing their face or those willing to send you pics of their face should be those you actually book with. Wouldn't that take out the "how to say no thanks" factor? I like the fact that the OP mentionned immediately that he compensated the lady especially because , thru no fault of her own, he was not attracted to her. To me, that is an extremely honest response on his part! To those of you bashing him....no words!

Don't forget that an encounter is not all about the "main event". There is a lot of fun to be had before, during, and after that. (Marriage can let you forget that sometimes). Maybe even consider extra time with her. A "second round" may not have the same issues if you've left yourself time for that. Sometimes we feel a whole lot of pressure for the perfect experience. Relax, have fun and don't worry about your "performance". There is no stage and you are not being graded on this. (And remember, the porn we grew up with is mostly a lie when it comes to what is "normal"!) If you have enjoyed yourself, then it was a successful encounter. An sp is the perfect way to get back on the horse too in my opinion as I find there is less pressure. They are not there to judge you. Just to make sure you had fun.

Aside from advertising, I just manifest the clients in my mind. I send out the intention, go about my day and allow it to come to me. Then the manifestation can happen. I also do a lot of meditating every morning before I get out of bed. I mediate nice clients coming to me and do not allow the time wasters or jerks to come into any of my thought processes now. If I'm waking up in a shitty mood, the universe will bring me the match to that so I'm aware now of how to deal with emotions whether I feel anger or frustration coming on. Creating a belief is very powerful. Stress, fear and resistance won't allow the clients to come. Tell yourself everyday what you're going to do and it will happen. Any self doubt will take you out of the positive alignment that would make the business come. Appreciation for what I already have or something simple as nature or their pets will bring a person financial abundance. I'm very much into Law of Attraction and metaphysics. And it works every single time whether you ask for it or not! As for traditional methods of doing business, I rely solely on my intuition. I also speak to the person and within 20 seconds I know. I will not book an appt by text or email. Email is a waste of time to me. I like to get straight to the point so I can hear the voice. That's all that matters to me and I feel them out sort of like a hound dog. lol. I'm highly intuitive aside from my experience in this business so it serves me well. I could be speaking to the nicest sounding person and a red flag could go up with the questions they are asking or their tone of voice and I will get that NO! NO! NO! in my head. I excuse myself, tell them I'm booked/not available and hang up the phone. I pick up on a person's vibes so much that sometimes I have to do more meditation to get rid of that energy. I have also found advertising the night before to be very effective. If a prospective client wants to meet, chances are they will be looking at those ads in the late evening or early in the morning so they can plan their day.

I think that acco34 has hit the nail on the head. This thread quickly got the consensus, that he should compensate the lady for her time, and move on. And next time, he should do more before meeting a new girl to make sure he will not be disappointed. As the thread continued, people attacked sunman01 for being superficial. That is unfair, because whether we talk about it or not, for some people looking for service in this industry, it is 100% superficial and based on looks. When people working in other businesses fail to meet our expectations, we don't rationalize it by saying they are beautiful people. Most people act courteously, accept the situation and move on. (I am not talking about times a business misrepresents their services/offerings). I get that these are unique situations, because what is being sold is so personal. However, it is not a fair expectation that hobbyists are always looking for the beauty within.

And that's exactly the danger, isn't it? Now that many clients are scared a companion's intuition becomes more important, and intution can be wrong or misled. These are risky times: exactly the opposite of the law's claimed intention. Grr.

I respect acco34's point of view, my only problem w sunman was that ok uve paid and had the experience, u didn't enjoy her looks so let's move on, lesson's learned. But to go on here and really had to point out that her face was b*tt ugly and couldn't stand to look at it or wtv he said was cruel...that's not looking for a suggestion or help as he was saying...what if the lady knows who he is and now knows of what he feels of her, you know how hurtful that is to her??? Think about it, not fair for her or anyone being ridicule for their looks like that! He chose her for a reason so if it didn't turned out the way he wanted it then move on, no need to go on here to bash her looks or wtv he was trying to do! Have an awesome weekend guys!

My photos are clear and accurate . If someone were to find me unsuitable after viewing either my website or Cerb photos I would wonder why? It ought to be clear exactly what I look like . I'm not the type that likes to surprise anyone . It is also apparent that I am athletic, toned and muscular . In no way is this hidden . There are some shots where you can even see veins in my arms . I had one visitor come to my hotel and he did a very fast walk away . His comment was , " whoa, you are way to muscular for me ." So you have to wonder how much time some people look at your presentation?

No, it is not this kind of magic wand you are thinking about, you dirty dirty mind! Well, if I had a magic wand, after I made the world a better place, of course - peace & love, no disease etc... - I would make a more superficial selfish stupid wish come true: I would marry Ed Harris and Dwayne Johnson (yes, at the same time, they would have no issue with this, it is a magic wand!!!) and would go on a honey moon with them on an island in Polynesia. And I would send you postcards, promise:biggrin:

I think I can safely say that almost all guys have some kind of performance issue at some time in their life. It might be "getting there" too early, it might be a case of "getting there" not happening and any one of a number of things in between. The advice to select someone and make your arrangement is good. You can mention your concern while making said arrangement or wait and see if you are more comfortable talking about it once you're there. You won't be the first person concerned about this and I suspect you will find the issue well handled. At this point in my life, I truly enjoy the journey and, on occasion, don't arrive at the destination. A dear friend was concerned about this a while back as she'd "arrived" several times and I had not. I laughed and told her I was totally having a wonderful time, that I could arrange "getting there" all on my own any time but my time with her was here and now and all the more special because I can't arrange that all on my own. :) So take a deep breath, review the various people in your area, and go for it.

It's a takeout or delivery night....pizza, donair, Thai or Indian...help!

I have no doubt that many - perhaps even most - of them have experience with this sort of thing :) Just book an appointment that will be long enough, and let your chosen lady know in advance that you'd prefer to take your time rather than rush things, and I'm sure you'll have a great time. Just remember to not outstay your welcome...

My advice would be for you to have a good look around Lyla / CERB and find one of the many reputable ladies from here who are from your area or tour there who you are attracted to and make a booking then relax and enjoy... you will be in good hands. These wonderful ladies will make it all about you and regardless of the details you will enjoy your time. I am a person who from time to time due to medical reasons am not able to perform like I might like too... in all my meetings with wonderful ladies from here it has never been an issue... as one of my favorite ladies has said to me on a number of occasions... it is not about the destination it is all about the journey. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

I agree with what's been generally posted here ... and it sounds like you do to as you say that you paid the lady in full and excused yourself ------ this tidbit was missing from your first post in this thread and could have contributed to the tone you are feeling that people are trashing you. Had your story been different and you'd arrived to find someone who clearly wasn't the person in the pictures you had seen or had been sent ... I'd perhaps respond with different thoughts .. but it doesn't sound like there was any misrepresentation going on. Last year .... I had an experience with a sp that is the subject of a thread in the bait and switch section. My experience was different from the situation presented in the post here but it was still negative. I'd seen pictures of the sp , they were of her for sure but they were in no way recent. Her hair was a foot or more longer and she was considerably more heavy than her pictures ..... to the point that if I had those pics and was tasked with finding her at a mall foodcourt I don't think I could have. On top of this she had a few more restrictions that weren't revealed to me until well after she had been paid and I was trying to make the best of a disapointing / uncomfortable start to our encounter. In the end it was lesson learned for me and I was even fairly restrained and polite when she asked me for a "tip" before I left. Honestly I wish I had just paid her and excused myself .... but that has less to do with how she looked and more to do with how she acted. With the exception of this one My most disapointing experiences (and their haven't been many of them) have always been with service providers who were very very attractive / stunning / gorgeous etc ... and if one was to be able to put a theme to that disapointment it is when a SP comes off in such a way that for the most point it feels like I'm spending time with someone who is just thinking "Lets get this over with" ........ I can't say for certain how often a sp finds herself feeling that way , I know I feel that way in my job some days ...... but I can say that it's possible you missed out on a terrific experience had you rolled the dice. How do you ploitely say no thanks? I think you did just fine, the way you did it.

Well said acco34...I can't beleive this thread got to a 3rd page. The 2 first replies were enough in my opinion... enough said... Bianca

Oops my mistake; yes Maya was there Thursday.

FYI this I believe is freddigirl. She is on this site and one of my all time favorite people.

Hello "____", I saw your ad on ____. Is a perfect way to start. Bad ways to start: Hey How much You free Wots up sexii (avoid text speak) Yo Wanna f*ck I actually had a template of a sample email for contact and I took it down because I thought I was being too a nal retentive lol

I recently saw this lovely lady and she is full of energy and is very passionate. She really loves what she does and makes sure you leave with a big smile on your face.

@ Pippen... Seriously? All of the ladies on here are beautiful? No they are not, not to everyone. Be real. I do not find everyone beautiful and there is nothing wrong with that. @ Lady Sophia... Yes, you are more than a face, but if I am not attracted to what's on the outside, then it won't work for me. That is just human nature. Why is everyone on here so fake? Why do so many guys here feel the need to kiss up to the ladies? I am always amazed...

Unless the lady has misrepresented herself in someway then for me the only option would be to pay the lady the full fee that had been agreed to and tell her you have changed your mind. The lady included you in her schedule, has gone to the trouble of preparing for your visit and may have even turned away other clients because of the booking already had. At this late time she will not be able to book anyone else. So like other service providers if you miss the appointment your still expected to pay. If you are lucky the lady may have a last minute cancellation policy with a reduced cancellation fee.... but for me i think if the lady lived up to her commitment then I would too. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Haven't had Donair til you've had one in Halifax with that special sauce.

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Hello Gentlemen of Vancouver, It's been way too long since my last visit... If you are seeking a mature companion who is tender enough for the soft-hearted and wild enough for the more adventurous, then allow me to introduce myself. I am Bianca Jaguar, a sensuous, sexy, confident, blue-eyed, blonde vixen. Having competed as a body builder in the past, I have a fit, curvaceous body with long shapely legs. I exude femininity with my womanly charm and charisma. I have a friendly demeanour and a smile that will put you at ease and set the mood for the ultimate encounter. I am passionate and genuine. Once you spend time with me, you will see how truly authentic I am. I am highly responsive while being completely attentive to your needs and desires. I am sweet, endearing, honest and witty. I am articulate, and whether it be curling up beside a fireplace, casual dining or accompanying you to a black tie affair, I am the perfect companion for all your desires. Being a mature lady yet also looking much more youthful in appearance than my chronological age allows you the advantage of both qualities for a memorable encounter. I prefer to spend my time with mature, respectful gentlemen and couples. When I say mature, I mean to say that maturity is not always determined by age, but rather by your attitude and outlook on life. If you are such a gentleman or couple, I would love to hear from you to discuss meeting and exploring the options for a tender and exciting rendez-vous. I will be visiting March 17-19 . Taking pre-booking. $400/hour *Special for Lyla members: 50$ off pre booking at least 48h Overnight dates are available for established gentlemen! Please visit my website for extended dates and more information about me: http://www.biancajaguar.com Initial contact: For same day/ short notice appointment booking, you may text only 514-600-7158 Or email me at: [email protected] (preferred method for initial contact) Please introduce yourself by telling me a little bit about yourself such as your interests and profession. Indicate for when and for how long you would like to meet. For advance priority booking, please visit my website and complete my booking form. That is the best way to secure your appointment. First impressions are everything. To make sure we are both comfortable, please note that I will not respond to vulgar or rude correspondence. Also my donation is firm and clearly posted on my website, so there is no need to discuss it. I trust that most of your questions can be answered on my website. I am always happy to answer any other enquiries you may have. Thank you! Merci Touring Dates: See my calendar on my website! Looking forward to meeting you! Bianca xoxox Your Exquisite Companion!

I second that. These are freddigirl's ads, and she is a wonderful, sexy woman.

I would have my own time machine. Move over Dr. Who!

Up too early cause my dogs have me trained, lol. Signing Ice4fun guest book as I see your up too, lol. Just poking around on Lyla to see what sup. While I have my coffee and trying to decide if I want to work this weekend or not, hmmm??

Really?? This is like saying "I can't reconcile the fact that some people like hamburgers, yet it's wrong for me to force one down someone's throat." The power play in BDSM/50 Shades is voluntary on both sides. Either party could call a stop to the play at any time; they just CHOOSE not to. As long as the choice is there, it's legit. Rape is about taking choice away. Rape culture is about dismissing the validity and importance of a woman's right to choose.

Hello Gabby, My name is Mark. I'm a gentlemen is my early 40's. I saw your ad on Lyla and I was wondering if you would be available tomorrow afternoon (or give an exact time) for a 2 hour in-call. Please call me back between 2pm and 5pm today or send me a text at your earliest convenience. Thanks! -------------------- In a few short sentences, you have addressed her by name, introduced yourself, given her a day, time and length for a rendez-vous, location preference (in or out) and the best way to reach you.

I have been in that situation a few times over the years. Remember that the other person has feelings... On both of those times, other than turn away, I stayed the course. I can tell you that what you see can be deceiving. I had a very good time.

Well if every dollar paid, why even post this thread And this post, frankly just horrible and ignorant too "but you still got to look at her"...what is she supposed to cover up so you don't have to see her "It pretty hard to judge a book when there is no cover..." Frankly just ignorant...the ugliness I've seen is yours You really need to take a good hard look at yourself before criticizing anyone else RG

Nice to see that you paid, but your comments are very unnecessary. How would you feel reading some rude comments calling yourself ugly or fat or anything else insulting on a board? Chances are you would not like it much at all. Comments like yours hurt, and its not easy to read mean stuff being said about oneself by others on the internet. Whether you were attracted to her or not, she still deserves respect. Calling someone ugly is wrong, rude and very disrespectful. In someones eyes she is beautiful and last time I checked your not god and you don't get to make that call on subjecting people by their looks. No one is perfect and I suggest you take a long hard look in the mirror before you decide to insult others. Try ONE day in any of our shoes....I don't think you'd last 5 minutes.

Poor girl...its Friday and and I hope there is a chance thatshe is not reading this thread and drawing conclusions , hope she is not a member.:( or if she is, remember, opinions are like assholes, everyone s got one right.... And there is only one judgment that matters, I hope, and you don't need to worry about that till the end of your days.

I'm going to give my honest opinion and some may not like it and some may, so will see. 1)If you booked a lady that advertized without any face pictures then you took the gamble, how bad can she be? Proceed with the date, pay the fee and take positions that you don't need to see her face at all. I can name you about 20 off the top of my head. 2)If you booked and have seen face pictures and she misrepresent herself, either go ahead with the date and follow advice #1 or simply tell her about the dilemma and give her part of the donation for wasting her time. 3)If you are not at all happy about her face and body, simply tell her politely, don't be rude and give her part of the donation for her time. I'm sorry ladies reading this reply but if I don't spend the full time with you I would not want to pay for the full time. If you were to pay for anything advertized and not get it would you still pay for it? This is just my honest opinion, I'm not taking anybody side here.

This is one of the reasons I prefer 1/2 hours for at least an initial meeting because if looks, personality or over all chemistry don't click it's not a huge investment of time or donation. Peace MG

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and while you may not have been facially attracted to her - there is more to a human being than looks. If you agreed to the date based on her ad, photos and conversation and she was the lady you booked - you owe her for her time if you choose to leave. Walking out on someone if they are who they were in the ad - is wrong and disrespectful.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

This lady comes highly recommended. Maraena: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/member.php?u=35208

Aranda is the best.....she won't talk your ear off, she has a warm clean setting, she has a sensual side and she charges a reasonable fee. I think she is awsome.

Greetings Gentleman, Are you seeking a fun and sexy escapade which captures the true essence of sensory relaxation? Please allow me to introduce myself. My name is Erin. I"m your warmest ray of sunshine on a dreary winters day. [/url] I'm 100% independent and offer a luxurious relaxation experience from my west end location. My schedule this week: Wed-Fri 9:00am-4pm. My recommendations: http://www.lyla.com/vbulletin/showth...t=sensual+erin Please feel free to introduce yourself by pm or email to [email protected] for the rest of my details. Yours, E xo

How could you not like a hand job..... For me I would love to have a lady make me very hard and then have her shave my boys before she finished me off.... just saying Of course I would always be willing to take my time and return the favour of shaving the lady.... it would be a slow detailed process as i made sure she was well pampered.... Now I am saying this with the knowledge that while the purchase of sexual services are now illegal I don't think it is illegal to purchase or provide personal grooming services... :) Of course if it was not illegal the feeling of two recently shaved body parts connecting is pretty awesome. Just my Opinion Sent from my Passport using Tapatalk

Squats. Lots and lots and lots of squats. Heavy squats.

Many blood pressure meds belong to a class of drugs known as "Beta blockers". They block adrenaline which helps to regulate the blood pressure. While there are many potential side effects from these drugs, sexual dysfunction and erectile dysfunction are two of the more common. (I may be starting on them soon so I have been looking into them a bit. Not thrilled about that one.) I'm not sure how this relates to testosterone, but talk to your doctor if the issue persists. There may be other drugs they could try, or suggestions they can make. When in doubt, ask your doc.

When having any discussion, the fairest thing to do is try to understand the spirit of what a person is saying or asking...not focus on a side sentence or skew things. I'm not sure why we can't see that the spirit of what the OP is asking is whether anyone knows what the numerical chance is of catching a given STI, and why--on a discussion board that likes to pride itself on its friendliness--we want to give someone such a hard time for asking a question or even in some cases act like it's offensive to have done so. Now, it may very well be those numbers don't reliably exist, in which case that is a fair response. But to just say he should do his own research or that we are not professionals seems...unfair. I mean, is it so unrealistic to think some people on this board may have talked with professionals or come across some useful numbers? People ask questions on this site all the time about topics we aren't professionals on, and often someone is able to point to information. I mean, we all know there is a risk to sex. And we all know that the only way to be 100% safe is abstinence. But why is it seemingly wrong to want to knows the odds of the risk? I mean, I could say there is "100%" risk in me driving because there's always a chance I'd get into an accident. But I know the risk is small enough that, given the benefits of driving, I'm willing to do so. And though some places have more accidents than others, and even though it certainly only takes driving once to get in an accident, there is easily accessible data out there to tell me the odds and help me make an informed decision. Simply saying there's risk in terms of something bad could happen doesn't really help a person decide how to act. Whether I carefully walk across a sidewalk or jump into the middle of a highway at night wearing dark clothes, I have a chance of being hit by a truck. But since I have a good idea of the odds of an accident happening with each, I'm able to decide that I'm willing to risk the one but not the other. If I can buy a lottery ticket for one draw where I have a 1 in 10 chance of winning or a different draw where I have a 1 in a billion chance of winning, knowing the odds helps me decide if I want to spend any cash buying a ticket. Yes, I could win either way but are we really going to pretend that knowing the odds isn't useful in making a decision? All aspects of life are like this. In all things we decide whether something is too risky for ourselves or not. Wanting to know the degree of risk or chances of something happening isn't an unreasonable desire. Now, whether those numbers reliably exist for STI's...well, isn't that a discussion worth having?

The other photos in this add are Captivatingcleo. Our N.B. girls must have it going on for others to be stealing their pics! ;)

Can't say I blame them. As Katherine said if enough no shows and cancellations are made in a city ladies just won't return. Some men are doing this intentionally, I'm local and it's happened to me far to often by to many to be a coincidence, reasonable or just. So my suggestion if you know of someone doing this report them and discourage the behavior as it obviously affects more than one person. Word does get around.

Shay, with thanks :) Additional Comments: Shay Additional Comments: Shay Additional Comments: Shay :)

I can absolutely help you out with this... ask my girls ;) My background is in anatomy and musculature, and sexuality of course. I taught a guy how to make me squirt in front of 40 people... sexy as hell.

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Sharing a pic I like from the Redheads thread :)